First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Danny ghosting Ella? Let's find out.

Episode Date: February 19, 2025

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It's the Jubal Show. And today, Ella is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Danny. So in a few minutes, we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Ella, how long has it been since you heard from Danny?

Yeah, it's been like a week and a half. I sent him a couple of texts. Like I sent him like a funny one. I kind of like, Hey, how's your day been? Sort of thing. Um, he didn't respond to either of them. And then like yesterday I did like a follow-up. I just asked him if everything was okay and he didn't even respond.

He didn't send anything. He just left me on read. Wow. Even when you ask him straight up, is this a surprise? Like, did you think that the date went really well? Yeah, I thought it was really fun. It was like, um, yeah. So we like, we did this like pizza making class, you know, I thought it'd be like casual and fun and kind of like low key for a first date. And it totally was. We were like making pizza and joking around.

And I mean, I don't know. Honestly, I thought that we were getting along great. I don't know. The only thing that I can think is like when we were making the pizza, I like, I went a little crazy on the cheese. Like it was practically only cheese pizza. And he kept teasing me about it. Like he joked like, Hey, what does that say about you? Like, Oh, it's only cheese. You must be boring in bed, right? Like, What? He said that?

How do you make that correlation? I don't know. But he said it like super like light, you know? Like I wasn't offended by it. And I kind of like laughed it off. But now thinking back on it, I'm kind of like, Ooh, is that the reason that he's not texting me back

because I like cheese pizza and he thinks I'm boring and bad or something? Could you imagine he has this rule, like, oh, girls that date cheese pizza. Actually, because Drupal, you said once upon a time you had that rule that you wouldn't date women that they still do. That don't eat seafood, was that what it was?

Yeah, don't eat seafood. Really? Yeah, well, if it's you haven't eaten seafood and never tried it, if you're just like, no, I don't eat seafood. Was that what it was? Yeah, don't eat seafood. Really? Yeah, well if it's you haven't eaten seafood and never tried it if you're just like no, I don't eat seafood It's gross and you've never tried it to me that shows that you're not willing to try new things You're also very stuck in your ways and that you aren't willing to experiment at all with life Okay, so maybe that's how he actually internalized cheese pizza eaters Which is so blowing my mind if that's true There are people that I've met that think that cheese pizza eaters, which is so blowing my mind if that's true. There are people that I've met that think that cheese pizza is boring, but I think cheese

pizza is like the best. It's great. Isn't that like the traditional pizza? Like if you get a, what's it called? Margarita. So I hope that's not what it is, Ella. That would be nuts. Yeah.

I mean, I love cheese. Like I don't think that's a weird thing. And it's not like I'm not hoping to try new things. You know, like our first date, it was a cheese pizza. Like don't read so much into it. What kind of pizza did he like? Did you get that far with him or? Oh, we didn't really get that far.

I mean, he said like he's talked about how he's like a meat lovers, right? So I assume it's like pepperoni and you know, sausage and all that manly stuff, which is great. Like. You should have hit him back with, you know what that says about somebody. You're obsessed with meat. Well, if he's that judgmental about pizza,

would you still want another day with him if that's what it is? I don't know. I mean, like I didn't really like him. He was funny and like I did think that we were vibing, you know, and like at the end we even shared a kiss and it like it wasn't anything huge. It was just like a quick one at the end. But I don't know. I felt like there could have been something more and I wanted to get to know him more.

I don't know. I just felt like we had this like super easy connection and it wasn't forced and he's like really cute. Every time he smiled, I just kind of like melted like my cheese pizza. I was just really into him and I thought that he was into me too. So I just don't get it.

Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song and then we'll come back and call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay, great, thank you. All right, we'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow up next. Yo, what up?

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Ella is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Danny. So in a second, we're going to call Danny and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. But first, Ella, why don't you tell us about your date again, real quick. Yeah, so we had our first date at this pizza making class. It was like a lot of fun, super casual.

We were vibing. The only thing that was a little weird is he like made a comment about me super casual. We were vibing. The only thing that was a little weird is he like made a comment about me using so much cheese on the pizza, like suggesting that I was boring in bed, like as a joke. But other than that, like we were, we had a really good time. He was super cute.

And so now I've like texted him multiple times. He just left me on read, hasn't responded. And I'm thinking like, oh my God, does he think that I'm just boring in bed because I had a cheese pizza? Like I don't know why. Why he's ghosting me. So yeah, so I'm looking for answers.

All right, well we'll see if we can help you out. Here we go, you ready to call him? Yeah, let's do it. Okay. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Danny, please? This is Danny. Danny, how you doing? This is the Jubal Show.

It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubal. What's up? How are you? What is what is going on? Radio?

Yes, it's a radio show called the Jubal Show. Have you ever heard of it or listened to it? No, I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it.

I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. I've never heard of it. What is what is going on radio? Yes, it's a radio show called the Jubal show. Have you ever heard of it or listen to it? Yeah, seriously. Okay. Well, how are you today?

I'm all right. What's going on? Well, good. I'm glad you're all right. We're calling you today because we do a segment on our show and it's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to call you and ask why you're ghosting.

And we got an email about you. Oh, are you ghosting somebody? Sounds like you are. Yeah. Okay. Um, yeah, I guess I see where this is going. Um, it's not exactly what you, what you might think. Okay, so who do you think we're calling about?

Um, probably Ella. Yes, it is Ella. Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her? Yeah, well, I have been ghosting her, but I don't know. Like, it's complicated. Like, I really liked her, but there was, I don't know, there was just something that didn't really sit right with me. Okay. Okay.

Yeah, like we went out on this date and there was other couples, like we did this like cooking class and- Yeah, she told us that you guys pizza making class and you were ripping her about liking cheese pizza. Yeah. Well, I mean, like the thing was like there were these other couples there and she kept flirting with like the other dude behind us and like kind of like paying attention to the other people and especially the dude behind us in the room.

And she was flirting with another couple. Well, mostly, mostly like the guy that was with them. And I'm like, hello. Like, you know, she's with me and I just like didn't really sit right with me. Wait, no, I wasn't flirting with anyone. I was being friendly. Hey, Danny, that's Ella. She's actually on the phone.

Let's think and we'll talk to you. Hi. I don't know why this is such a big deal. I thought we were just having fun. Tell us she's actually on the phone. Let's think and want to talk to you Is that what you thought Danny I Mean I look I get you were just being nice and you are nice But the way that you have going over to his table and like that kind of made me feel like I wasn't the one you were really interested in. And then I kind of like, I felt like I was like at that point, I just felt like pulling back. No, no, no, no, no. Oh my God. Not at all. That's just like,

I was just being myself. Like I, I think I like accidentally flirt with people all the time. Like it doesn't mean that I'm into them. I just get so nervous that I like, it makes me talk a lot. And I just talk at everybody. Yeah, but at one point you actually like grabbed his bicep and said like, you know, like, oh, like that's so huge. And like, all this girlfriend, like she's got a strong one. Like, wow.

That's a little flirty, I think. But the girlfriend has a strong one. Wow. That's a little flirty, I think. Yeah. But the girlfriend has a strong one. I wasn't I swear I wasn't trying to like flirt in any way. Like I was just so nervous because you're so cute. And I was just like trying to, I don't know, break the tension.

And like, I don't know. I see how that can be. I really didn't mean it. Yeah, but by grabbing his biceps, on our date. Look, I, I like you a lot, but I mean, he was huge. He's been like a bodybuilder or something.

Like I was just kind of like blown away. Like, why are you here making pizza? You should be listing cars or buildings or something like I was just impressed I didn't mean it in like a floaty way he just sounds like the sound of a pizza uh yeah yeah I mean he was pretty big but I guess I just didn't notice that he looked like Superman like a observation that he looked like Superman. I go observation.

Okay, I can see how you would think that that's like flirty, but and okay. Yeah, he did kind of look like Superman, but you're like Robin. You know, she's trying to compliment you, Danny. The holes getting deeper. She's trying to compliment you Danny. The hole's getting deeper. She's trying. Maybe not Robin, maybe like Aquaman or something. Someone fuck you! Okay. Aquaman's got muscles? Captain America?

Danny, would you like another date with Ella? We'll pay for it. It sounds like she really likes you. It sounds like she's very awkward around people and... In a cute way though, I Guess but I get it. Maybe I'm this rather situation and I Didn't mean to go you eat. I like you a lot too Ella, but you know, I kind of got in my head and I Yeah, I would I'm just saying if we were to go out again, could you not grab other guys? Biceps and refer to them as superheroes? Yes, yes, I can definitely do that. I'm sorry I made you feel weird.

Danny, do you want another date? Absolutely, yeah. Oh, yay! Congratulations, Ella, you got another date with Robin. Yay! Superman's little sidekick. Oh no, no. Jubal's first date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney.

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