First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Jamie Ghosting Hunter?

Episode Date: March 4, 2025

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So we had to go out to farmers and convince them. Following that curiosity is a superpower. You have to be obsessed with the human condition. Listen to Building One on the iHeart radio app, Apple, or wherever you get your podcasts. First day to follow up. Powered by the advocates injury attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Hunter is on the phone today for a first day of follow up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie.

So we're going to find out his story and then give her a call and see if we can figure out why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. Hunter how long has it been since you heard from Jamie? Well it's been about six days since I sent a follow-up text after our date and I've heard anything. So did you text her right after the date? Was it days later? When did that happen? So I texted her two days after our date and it's been six days since that text. Okay. We got a lot of exact time. Hunter. I like it. Oh, why don't you tell us about your date and how you met Jamie?

So we met through our mutual friend, Mike, um, and who thought, you know, we would be a good match. We went to an Italian spot because it just seemed, you know, most romantic. And that was my idea. Okay. Okay. And after the day was over, you know, I felt like we had good conversation. And after the day it was over, you know, I said, oh, you know, I'd love to, you know, I felt like we had good conversation and after the date was over, you know, I said, oh, you know, I'd love to, you know, get together again.

And she said she would think about it. Um, but I just figured she was playing hard to get. Okay. Did she give you that vibe that she was like playful and flirty and into it? Somewhat. But I'm just, you know, I'm just curious because I haven't heard back anything for six days, you know? I just figured I would have, you know, at least heard something or, you know,

even if she's not interested, just, you know, letting me know either way. You'd think, but it turns out that that's not a common courtesy these days. What is it about her though that makes you want to get a hold of her? We both talked about like similar topics. You know, we were both into like space versus aerospace and political stuff. So like aliens? Yeah, yeah, yeah. And it's weird to find anyone that I can talk to about these things or that'll even listen.

She seemed into it though? Yeah. From what I saw, yeah. That had to be cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Well, is there anything that could have happened on the date that makes you feel like, I don't know, she would have been like, bye sorry Hunter this was fun but not for me? You know maybe I'm a little bit too nerdy for my own good.

I don't think so, I think you're you Hunter. I appreciate that. You'll find somebody who is just as nerdy as you are I guess. Maybe it was her, It could have been, maybe. Yeah, well, I mean, maybe I showed too much of that too quickly. I can see that. I mean, she's going to find out eventually. Not in a bad way, or in a good way.

Well, she also could be like a sapiosexual. You know what that is? It's when you're turned on by somebody's brain. So if you're super smart, then I mean you know maybe she just had to cool her I've never heard that term before but Sapiosexual I'm totally a sapiosexual so I know this Me too Right?

Yeah I'm a sapiosexual So maybe she just had to cool off for a few days you know if it was too hot for six days I don't know I'm trying to stay optimistic for you bro I don't know. I'm trying to be optimistic. Yeah, bro. I don't know Don't be great. Keep up alive hunter. So we're about to call her We're gonna play a song come back and then call her and see if she tells why she's ghosting you and then maybe get you another date, okay Alright, let's not come back at your first day following next

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But before we do that, Hunter, why don't you remind everybody of your date with Jamie? We went on, Jamie and I went on a date a little over a week ago. We talked about, you know, kind of aliens in space. And a couple of days after the date, I texted her and it's now been six days since I've texted and I haven't heard back.

Maybe she was abducted by aliens. That would be cool. That would be ironic. It'd be cool if she swoops down in a spaceship and picks you up and then you guys can go hang out. I just got a visual. That's why that's so funny. That's an awesome second date.

That would be alienating. I see what you did there. All right, Hunter. Ready for us to call her? Yeah. Okay, I'm going to call her. Here we go. I'm going to call it here. We go. I'm gonna call right now

Hello, I'm asking to Jamie please Jamie how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. The whole radio shows here Jamie surprise My name is Nina. Wow, and I'm Victoria Much just chillin. How about you? Well, we're calling you today because we got an email about you from one of our listeners We do a segment called the first day follow-up That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them They can email us to get you on the phone and find out why you're ghosting them and we got an email about you from Hunter. Oh no. Okay. Yes we did.

So you know who Hunter is? Oh yeah, I know Hunter. He told me enough about himself. I know where he is. Okay. Well he really liked you and he's wondering why you're not calling him back. Um, yeah, what an awkward time. I don't even

know how to explain it, we went out, he talked about himself the whole time with things that I had no interest in. I just kind of sat there and nodded and yeah. And he just talked. He didn't ask me about anything about myself the entire night. And it was very know it all isish and a lot of negative things and I just kind of just felt stuck and I was just nodding and okay yeah sure yeah interesting and that about the only words I could get in for the whole time. So you're not super into space and stuff because Hunter thought you

guys really bonded over aliens? No, but he did talk a lot about aliens and I just nodded my head and I did not know. I couldn't get a break in the conversation to move to something else or he was just so excitedly talking about everything he knew about. And, um, yeah, I mean, I'm a good listener. I guess people have told me, but wow. You don't feel like you got a chance to talk about the things that you know about. It was only him talking about the things he knows about. Exactly.

Exactly. It was very, it's very odd. So I, at the end of the night, I even said, yeah, you know, I'll have to think about it when he said we should do this again. And I kind of thought that he would pick it up from there, but he did text me a couple of days later and I just, I was busy at the time and then I didn't really have, I wasn't sure how to respond.

So it's been a while and I probably should have responded, but I didn't know what to say. And oh man, now everybody's gonna know. Maybe he was just really nervous. I, I don't know. I thought first dates were kind of getting to know each other. Like the both people take part in things that pertain to their lives, but that's not where we were at at all. And he's very smart. people take part in things that pertain to their lives. That's not where we were at at all. He's very smart. Don't get me wrong.

Like very smart. But maybe he hasn't dated a lot. I mean, I guess that's probably a factor. I know didn't we didn't get on those topics of other things. It was a lot of space involved. Jamie, I will let you know that Hunter is actually on the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

Jamie, I thought you were more into our conversation than apparently you were. No, I really have no interest in, you know, the space theories and different things. And I was just, I was hoping the conversation would move to anything else in the world eventually, but it just, you know, kept going about you. And I'm sorry. I'm just, that's just not, I didn't feel compatible for another date of that kind. That's honest. Was it, was it the topics?

Were they just too kind of like nerdy? No, I mean, I'm just not into that stuff. And I was hoping that there would be more share and less just being explained things, um, but in just a weird way that I didn't really, I wasn't super interested in those topics and I, but it just didn't stop. And I just kind of nodded and, you know, listened, but just wasn't, wasn't things I was into and wasn't the type of data I was thinking it was

going to be. Were the topics too intimidating? No, I don't think they're intimidating. Just not what I'm interested in. Well, cause I thought you were really smart talking on those topics as well. I mean, I kind of just agreed

with you and nodded and tried to move the conversation forward. Okay. So you weren't into the topics I was talking about. No, not really. Sorry. I guess that's good to know the future. Well, I do have to ask the question, Jamie, would you like to go on another date with

Hunter? We'll pay for it. No, I'm good. Think. Thanks. But no. Well, yeah, I'm good too as well. OK, well, I think this is great that everybody's good success. Hunter, maybe you learned something too on the next time or the next time you want to date, maybe just ask them what they're into. Make that one of the questions.

Make more conversational. Sure. Sure. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Do you like aliens? No. Okay. I'm good. But I did want to let everyone know that they did release seven chemtrails today. So everyone, I would just recommend everyone stay at home. I don't know.

I don't either. We'll just make sure we do that. Okay. Thank you, Hunter. Thank you for that. You're welcome. Jubal's first date follow-up. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you.

This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Hey, it's A Martinez. The news can feel like a lot on any given day, but you can't just ignore las noticias when important world changing events are happening. That is where the Up First podcast comes in. Every single morning in under 15 minutes, we take the news and boil it down to three essential stories, so you can keep up without feeling stressed out.

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