First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Jason ghosting Bria?

Episode Date: April 30, 2025

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First date of follow up powered by the advocates, injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Bria is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Bria, how long has it been since you heard from Jason? Then at least like a week that he hasn't responded to me. Okay.

Yeah. I reached out a couple of days ago and yeah, nothing. What did you say to him when you reached out? Um, I just was like, Hey, love your date. Want to go out again? Oh, and then nothing. Yeah. So how was the date?

I think I went really well, you know. So how was the date? I don't know. You know, before the date we talked for a while on the apps and I don't know, it's just kind of like real conversations, really. By the stuff, not, not just like surface level, you know, we talked about how much I love cooking and he seems like he was in the bat. And so then he came over for dinner so I could make him dinner. And I know, I know it was the first day that it was at my place, which was super scary

and risky. But I was going to clarify like, wait, what? He came over. Okay. Bold. I love that. Yeah. But I think I'm good at reading people, so I think it's fine, you know? Okay, and

so I made him a saffron chicken, herb, rice, and a cucumber yogurt salad and yeah, he ate everything and poured a lot more wine and it was getting like super romantic and then we went to the couch with the line and I don't know, I was trying to figure out how to get to the next step, you know, and I remembered this guy friend that I had mentioned that if you want to tease a man, you just blow on the back of his neck.

So I did. And then he jumped up and freaked out like I changed it in. Yeah, if that happened. Yeah, it might. It might shock me, too. I was just going to say Jubal is that a turn on if you just we were like I was eating and you

just randomly walked up behind me and kind of blew on the back of my neck. I probably I probably jump. Yeah, we weren't eating anymore. We but the wine didn't get everywhere. Were you guys like making out before you did it or you just kind of just leaned over and blew on his neck?

I did kind of just lean over and blow on his neck. Okay, yeah, maybe that was a shock. I feel like you got to give people grace though, right? Like right when you start to talk to somebody new, you got to feel them out. So a little neck blow, hopefully wouldn't do it, but it is a little surprise. I said, sorry. And I explained like, this is something the friend told me to do. And he laughed it off. But then immediately said he had to go.

Oh, and like, I don't know. I thought we had chemistry and he asked me a lot of questions. It's like people don't do, you know, he asked me about my of questions just like people don't do you know He asked me about my childhood my favorite books and like I cannot remember last time a man asked me a question Well, that's good on his way out. Did you guys kiss again to say goodbye or was he just like oh yeah I gotta go and then he was just gone You would just like I gotta go and then he was gone And like it's not it's actually I don't just bring anyone to my space. Yeah.

And I felt really safe with him. And like I don't know. I know that that was a weird choice. Didn't feel like a deal breaker, you know? Yeah. It was one moment out of a whole evening. Right. Well, let's see if we can figure it out for you.

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on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Bria is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason, so we're about to call him

and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her a second date. But Brea, before we do that, why don't you recap your date for us again real quick? We had a great time. He came to my place. I made him a nice dinner and I just decided to blow on his neck after we get things going and he did not like that.

And you think maybe it was the neck blowing that kind of creeped him out and that's why he's ghosting you? It's gotta be. It's gotta be. Well, are you ready to go? Call him right now. Yeah. Okay, here we go.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jason please? Um, this is me. Hey, Jason, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Hi, Jason. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi Jason, I'm Nina. Hi and I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal, how are you?

Whoa, okay, hi, how you doing? Good, have you listened to the show before? Yeah, I think I know what this is about. Is it about Bria? Yes, it is. He does listen to the show. This is the first day of follow up. Yep, you went out with Bria and you're ghosting her

So she emailed us to see if you'll tell us why you're ghosting her. You mind talking about it? Okay. Wow. All right. Well, like the dinner was Incredible, but easily top five meals I've ever had There's no doubt but There was no doubt, but there was no dessert. She said she tried to, you know, have a little like that kind of dessert. Like, so my grandma raised me and she always said real woman sends her man off with something sweet.

And that night I kept waiting about maybe it was like chilling in the fridge or you're talking about food. Oh yeah. You're not, you actually mean dessert. Yeah, literally like dessert. And it's not just like, you know, dessert. It's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know? Like she nailed the savory, but there was no sweet. It wasn't balanced. And I just kept like waiting for the meal to end and it never did. Okay, that's why you're ghosting her is because the food was good, but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.

Yeah, it was just weird. I didn't want to ask, but I just kept waiting and it was just like my palate was all confused and I was like, I don't know. Do you have dessert every night? Is that something that you do? I mean, not if I'm just like, you know, eating on the go, but like for a meal, you know, part of like a meal. I don't know.

It's like, it's not polite. It's not polite to like not serve the dessert. You know what I mean? Okay. All right. Well, thank you for being honest with us. Yeah. I don't know. It's like, it's not polite. It's not polite to like not serve the alert. You know what I mean? Okay. All right. Well, thank you for being honest with us. Yeah, no, that's how I felt about it. And Jason, Bria is on the phone listening

and wants to talk to you. Okay, you gotta be kidding me. You gotta be kidding me. Not polite. You know what else is not polite? Ghosting someone. Oh my God. Are you serious right now?

Also, what is this? 1952? I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm pie to tuck you in at night. Like, It's not about, you gotta be kidding. It's about like thoughtfulness, you know? Like, I don't know.

I mean, it's not 1952, but my grandma knew how to take care of people. Oh, okay. Oh, oh, good. Good. So it sounds to me like you don't want a girlfriend. You want a grandma with benefits, right? Oh, that just sounds weird. I don't like that visual. Try to seduce me with a ghost breeze to the jugular. Like, that's not care. That's confusion.

Ghost breeze? OK okay I was trying to give you something sweet and you should have like been an adult and said something you ghosted me over a cake um it's not the cake it's just like my grandma's principles you know like that's like yeah it's the fact you don't get the cake you know I'm I'm so sorry. I'm not your grandma. I'm sorry. I'm not your grandma I am too. Honestly, you're cool I'm not getting grandma vibes. It's just like You're looking for a grandma you're looking for grandma characteristics in your woman

I mean in a certain way, I guess. Yeah. Yeah. You got to tick that box as well. You know, this is ridiculous. And yeah, I'm sure you can go to a nursing room bingo night to, uh, find the woman Jason, would you like a second date with Bria? We'll pay for it.

Um, I think I'm going to pass a dessert like no direction. Great. You and your grandma can go bake cookies and have a sleepover together. That's how dare you. My grandma's a beautiful woman. Seriously, how dare you? She must be so proud. Um, she is an amazing woman. Seriously, how dare you? She must be so proud. She is an amazing woman. She's beautiful. And honestly, it's too bad you didn't get a chance to meet her because you could have learned a lot from her.

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