First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Jordan getting ghosted, and was he too confident?

Episode Date: May 20, 2025

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First date of follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys,, injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Jordan is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Krista. So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long has it been since you heard from Krista? I mean, it's been it's been a few days. I left a voicemail. I mean, it just felt right. I mean, the date was fire. It's only been a few days. I left a voicemail. I mean, it just felt right. I mean, the date was fire.

It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure you're getting ghosted? I mean, look, it's just a vibe. And it's just, I was just, after a few days, I'm kind of like, what's up? OK, so you expected her to be, like, right on it. Oh, yeah, yeah, no doubt. Locked in.

I mean, I knew the second the second we matched like matched online Mm-hmm. I knew that day was gonna be fire. What did you say in the voicemail? Just said there's a vibe there's fires, you know, they I was just saying stuff that I was making her laugh You know, she was listening and you know, I was just throwing down some some motivational things about like, you know I got my life all figured out and You know how I started from the bottom motivational things about like, you know, how my life all figured out and you know, how I started from the bottom. Now I'm up there, you know, and I just got that vibe that kind of responded to me a little

sarcastic, but, but she was with it and I'm all about a girl and keep up with me, you know? Okay. So when was all this going down? Was this part of the date? Yeah, no. I mean, it started off in the DMS. Okay. And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can keep up, you know, she's

she's got it. I decided to take her over to. OK, I was, you know, fancy joints and shows that I got class, you know. OK, all right. Was she impressed? Oh, yeah. I mean, she was attracted. I can tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I sat down all class. She could not keep her eyes off me. I can feel my magnetism just pulling that all in.

OK, so you get the same feeling when you look in the mirror. Oh, of course, I'm drawn to it, you know. Uh huh. All right. So dinner starts off perfect, right? And like I'm just vibing now. I'm just killing it with my stories. OK mean especially yeah my gym routine I mean like this is it's something special you know it's something it's built from inspiration is she into working out and stuff like would she be interested in that cuz you

know sometimes you've thrown into it they don't want to hear about the no I knew she was into it like but she was making jokes about it, but that's just she's a sarcastic, you know? Okay. She knew my moves were bold and she was liking it. She was with it. Okay. You're talking about how much she was with like, what did you like about her? Like was she engaging other than being sarcastic other than your gym routine?

Was anything else going on? Oh, she was just a good listener, but she but she could keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked. So what could have gone wrong then? Maybe, you know, maybe I just got a little too motivational because that's my future. Like I'm going to be a motivational speaker. Okay. I get paid like six figures to say a few things, you know, and the kids believe in themselves, you know. So I went for my gym routine straight into my motivational speech because like the mood was there right? like I was like hey, you know talking about like what we're doing with our lives and And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant with some high energy like I'm talking

Like I was like Tony Robbins, you know And I just I told her I looked her in the eyes and I said, it's my purpose to inspire people to change lives, you know? So you didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant. Oh, yeah, they were looking at me. They they knew, you know, and she was smiling. I mean, she was shaking her head and a few things. I know that kind of head shake.

You know, you're not gonna head shake when you know you're so lucky. Like you won the lottery. Or embarrassed. Like you get to see this guy with great sayings and great games. Oh my, I like that. You know, I said good night. You know, I said good night. I'm a classy dude.

You know, I wanted to night, you know, I said good night. I'm a classy dude, you know I wanted I was you know wanting to get to know her more I said a text later telling her I had a blast and I just let the voice note the next day, you know I'm just I'm just being thoughtful, you know Well, why do you think she's ghosting you? I think I just think I've gone maybe I went a little too big It's been five days and And I mean, but we had chemistry. And I mean, I know she wants a confident guy, outgoing, can't get more outgoing than that. And I just think maybe I'm being a little misunderstood,

but I'm definitely her type, bro, definitely her type. All right, well we'll try to figure it out for you. Play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, all right? Oh yeah, you got it. You got it. Okay.

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Right in the middle of today's first date follow up and if you're just joining us, Jordan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Krista. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first Jordan, why don't you kind of recap your day for us? Yeah. So we went out to a fancy place. We hit it off the spot. Definitely had chemistry. She couldn't keep her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her eyes off her. I was just being confident, you know,

just showing off my outgoing nature. I told her some stories, we hit it off and you know, I went into my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation and we hit it off. I had a blast and I've been texting her about, hey, let's keep this going. Like, when am I going to see you again? Ready for us to call her? Yeah, no doubt. Let's do it. Here we go.

Hello. Hi, may I speak to Krista, please? Hey, Krista, how are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Hi. Hi Krista. We're all here. My name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. Okay. I know you guys. Oh you do sweet Well, thank you very much for knowing us appreciate that we do a segment on the show. It's called the first date follow-up It's where if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them That person can email us to call you and find out why you're ghosting. So Any idea who would email us about you? Jordan obviously Yes, it is Jordan.

So you are blatantly ghosting Jordan. Oh yeah, definitely. Okay. Would you mind telling us why? Yeah, I mean like the whole day it just felt like I was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show. It was an absurd human. I don't know.

I don't know, any highlights of the reality show that you felt like you were on. Yeah, so many. Let's see. Um, yeah, so well, okay. First off, he's he's really not my type, like is not normally the type of guy I would go out with. But, you know, he's cute and he picked a fancy restaurant. So I figured, you know, why not? And so I walked in and there he is in this like totally skin tight, like long sleeve, white, almost see through shirt with like, you know, his biceps are like screaming to please give me a break

from bicep curls. He just was a total meathead. You know what I mean? Like you could just tell. And so dinner started fine until like Jordan started talking and he noticed the waiter who was like kind of a skinny, young, you know, dorky kind of guy. So Jordan starts calling him scrawny to his face. And then out of nowhere, it got worse though. So like that was embarrassing enough. But then out of nowhere, Jordan like grabs the guy's arm

and is like, and looks at me I go babe check this out Luckily Ronnie declined We got away with not dealing with that So we got away with not dealing with that but yeah and then he just like wouldn't stop talking about like his gym and like every ingredient and his protein shake in the mornings and

Like all of this crap and then the worst part was um, it's towards the end I mean, I'm just kind of laughing at him because he's again an absurd human and uh towards the end He starts talking about how he wants to be like a Tony Robbins, like motivational speaker guy. And he stands up and does like a motivational speech to the back corner of the restaurant. We talked to him, he told us about that. He was really proud of it.

Yeah. Of course he was. Yeah, no, it was mortifying. It was mortifying. And then when the date was, so he was. Yeah, no, it was mortifying. It was mortifying. And then when the day was so he made the check that back down, you know, whatever. And then he wanted to go like he wasn't ready for the night to be over and wanted to take me to some bar

so that he could arm wrestle more like. I want to show that off a little more. Yeah, yeah. He just kept wanting to like show off that he could like arm wrestle or bench press anybody. I don't know Third so you didn't go You know who might be surprised to hear that you felt that way Jordan yeah, and guess what Jordan is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Oh, God. OK. Yeah. Hey, Krista, good to hear from you. How are you doing? Yeah. I'm good. I just want to say, I think you're misunderstanding the whole thing. Like I get that maybe the arm wrestling was a bit, it was a bit much, but you know, I

was trying to keep things fun, you know, we were having fun. And it wasn't about, it wasn't about showing off. I mean, look, I, I'm not, it's natural, maybe a little because that's who I am. But it's because I wanted you to see, I'm not, I'm not boring. I don't play it safe. I'm not that kind of guy, but I, I didn't realize it comes off or I came off in any way as obnoxious and I'll admit, I probably went overboard, but, but that that's me being me that's Jordan being Jordan But but for real I think there's still chemistry there with us and I promise I'll tone it down cuz I'm not so mean

I try and improve myself. I'm proven I Just wanted to make a good impression I just wanted to make a good impression. Okay. So I really appreciate how confident and outgoing you are. And I think that's super great. And you're not afraid to be yourself. And I think that's great.

I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably like looking for different things. You know, you've got this like big bold personality thing going. And I don't really mesh with that kind of energy. Like, that's not with that kind of energy. Like that's not my jam kind of. Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big and bold presence. And you appreciate my confidence.

And then that's great. And I just want to know if I can see you again. Chris, would you like to go out with Jordan again? We'll pay for it. Yeah, no, no, I'm good. Thanks, though. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, I can hear right there you started off with a yes and change. So you just you're changing your mind there.

I see you're still working it out. I know there's some time, you know, and hey, I'm gonna keep in touch, you know. No. Jordan, Jordan, delete my number. I think that would be for the best. If you need me to say something, that's okay. Jordan, go back to the gym. I'm good. Well, if I delete your number, how will I know when you decide to call me? Jubal's first date follow-up.

So in the last month, the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker Carlson, Candace Owens, Charlie Kirk, and Ben Shapiro, all combined. What happens when three brothers take on right-wing media and start winning? I find out on the latest episode of Next Question with me, Katie Couric. We just want people to live their lives and be happy

and be able to enjoy it without some, you know, lunatics screaming in their face every three seconds. Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Radhita Vlukya, and I am the host of a really good cry podcast. And I had the opportunity to talk to Davy Brown.

With women, any kind of thing where there might be this underlying edge of self-sacrifice as martyrdom, if you're never filling, you're telling yourself a story and you're actually avoiding what you should be doing. You got to get in, you got to get your hands dirty. Listen to A Really Good Cry on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. In 2020, a group of young women found themselves in an AI-fueled nightmare. Someone was posting photos.

It was just me naked. Well, not me, but me with someone else's body parts. This is Levittown, a new podcast from iHeart Podcasts, Bloomberg, and Kaleidoscope, about the rise of deep fake pornography and the battle to stop it. Listen to Levittown on Bloomberg's Big Take podcast. Find it on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts,

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