First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Lyla ghosting Aaron?

Episode Date: March 3, 2025

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Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

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by Lila so in a few minutes we're gonna call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one Aaron before we talk about your date how long has it been since you heard from Lila? It's been like two weeks now. So what is it about Lila after two weeks that makes you want to get a hold of her now? Well, I mean, I've been thinking about her ever since our date. You know, we met on a dating app and I was excited to meet up with her because we both like adventure outdoors. You know, I saw her photos on the app and she was climbing.

I like climbing. So on the first day we decided to go on a hike and, you know, with a gorgeous lookout at the top of this hike that I know. And we would have, you know, it was kind of cute on the day we'd have little competitions to see who could kind of like, you know, race together, who could climb faster. And at the top I had a bottle of Prosecco to share for both of us. Oh, that's cool.

I don't know why this feels like a jubil date. Race each other and then drink some Prosecco. Sounds fun. That does sound really fun. You know, I just really enjoyed it and we had the drinks, we headed back to our cars. But then after that, I headed back to our cars. But then after that, I haven't heard from her. And so I've been thinking about her

and I've texted her a couple of times. Nothing too repetitive or what have you. But yeah, I haven't heard from her, so I'm wondering what's up. Is there anything that might've happened on the date that could be the reason why she's not hitting you back? Not really part of me. I'm a little bit nervous That you know, there was one point when I was hiking or you know trying to race up in front of her

that There's a little bit difficult. I had to stretch a little bit and I farted a little. And I was in front of her and not, not like it wasn't a big fart. It wasn't loud. I don't think it was, it was that bad, but yeah, I don't know if I could exactly smell it. I don't know if she could, but maybe it's kind of mortifying actually. Yeah, that could be, you know. Did she say anything about it? Yeah. No. And that's like one of the things is that we, you know, we hit it off very well.

I thought it was really rare to find a woman that's, you know, just very authentic. She wasn't arrogant. She wasn't full of herself at all. She's a great listener And she just great storytellers it was amazing to listen to her tell all these all these tales of different adventures he's had and so No, I don't think she would be the type to be that standoffish about if that was the case I really don't know and then I'm gonna why I'm gonna- Did you try to play it off at all? You know, like, whoa, what? There's a weird tree around here.

It smells weird. I was just trying to be coy and just not say anything about it. Yeah. That was probably a good move. Yeah. Probably. Would you really go somebody if they tooted?

No. I don't think I would either. Just for one, two, no go somebody if they tooted? No. I don't think I would either. Just for one toot, no. But if they're doing it repeatedly, you know, then maybe. Yeah. That's just a little disrespectful, like step out of the room. We were outdoors, so I'm hoping it was just the one toot.

I don't exactly recall because I was so flustered by that first one. I don't know. Flustered by the first one? It could have been austered by that first one. I don't know. Flustered by the first one? It could have been a rampage of tooths. You don't know. Well then I can see the ghosting. Alright man, we'll try to figure it out for you, okay? I appreciate it.

We'll play a song, come back, and then call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Thank you guys. Yeah man, get your first date follow up next. and maybe get you another date. Thank you, yes. Yeah, man. Get your first day of follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

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Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Erin is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lila. so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date because he definitely wants to see her

again. Before we do that though, Aaron, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Lila? Yeah, I went up on a hike, a little bit of climbing, had Prosecco at the top of the hike. And I'm worried that maybe she's ghosting me because I might've tooted a little for being nice about it. Now you say a little, it makes it sound like you did it a bunch. You said it was just one time.

I think it was just one time, but I'm trying to be fair and don't want to be overly conservative. That's not the case. But you weren't like throwing it in her face, not literally. I don't think so, but now you guys got me second guessing. Okay.

Hopefully it's not a toot. Yeah. All right. Well, let's see what it is. We're about to call her. You ready? Yep. Here we go.

Hello. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lila please? This is Lila. Hey Lila, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show that's called the Jubal Show. Hi Lila, the radio show likes to be here too, so my name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh wow, hey guys, what's up?

What's going on? Have you ever listened to the show before? Oh yeah, of course, I love your show. Oh, thank you. Sweet. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show.

I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. I love your show. My name is Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh wow, hey guys, what's up? What's going on? Have you ever listened to the show before?

Oh yeah, of course, I love your show. Oh, sweet, well we love you. So hey Lila, are you ghosting anybody? Yeah. Um, yeah. Yeah, so you know how we do the segment, the first day of follow up, where if you're ghosting someone,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask you about it His name is Aaron Yeah, okay, Aaron. Yep. Yep Aaron. It's nice. It's cool I said it's been about a two weeks. You said two weeks about two weeks since you guys went on your date. I Guess I guess it's through here. We have to talk about it date? I guess, I guess we're here. We have to talk about it. Um, because Aaron's a good guy. And because I liked Aaron, I will be honest here. All right. Aaron and I got along great. We had such a wonderful time. It was really awesome. Um, so we went on a hike and we drank some Prosecco and

had a lot of good talks. Okay. Beyond that, like, he kept talking about all these adventures that he would go on with all these hot, amazing women that would go on adventures with him. So there was Michelle, there was Sheila, there was Joanna, there was, like, he was talking about all of these women. And I just don't know where to fit into that. Because he had, have like a ton of hot girlfriends. You're talking about other women going out with other women on your on your date?

Well, they wouldn't go hiking and stuff like you would go on adventures with women. I feel like you could easily say all the adventures you've been on and not mention any other girls at the same time. You got to be thankful that he did mention all of these women's names because what does that mean? Like, are you just another adventure? So, yeah, that's why I haven't called it back. I just, you know, I felt like I was just on the Rolodex at that point. Yeah.

How did that come up? Did he say if they were somebody that he was dating? No, no. I mean, like, he seemed like he was totally into me. And like, that's what was kind of confusing. Like I just thought that he was into me. But why would you be named throughout being like a ton of other women on our adventure? So I just kind of thought that he was, I don't know, one of those.

I think he may be like a boy, I guess. Yeah. All right. That is those vibes. A lot of the time those F boys though, that's their insecurity coming out and they want F-boy I guess. Yeah. Alright. That is those vibes. A lot of the time those F-boys though, that's their insecurity coming out and they want you to think that they're so cool because all of these women have like spent time. That's my feels on it.

Maybe I'm wrong but as somebody who spent a lot of time with F-boys, that's kind of the vibe that I get. Yeah, there are guys that will talk about other women on dates because they think it's going to make you want them more. Right. And it just doesn't, it doesn't like F boys aren't in anymore PS like at all. Yeah. Okay.

I'll speak for myself. Lila, thank you for telling us about, thank you for being honest with us about why you're ghosting him. And I don't know if you remember or not, but Aaron has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. I was going to say he farted too, but I... You know he farted. You knew!

Erin, she knows he farted. I knew she heard that, I knew it. That's funny. Wait, but are you an F-boy? No, no, okay, so I do have a good explanation for all the women. Honestly, they are all friends. And I mean that sincerely.

Most of the women that I go on these hikes with, it just reminded me of them. And that's why I brought it up, is because you know, kind of situational memory kind of thing. Most of the women are all in relationships already. So, and that's a thing. That's why I was mentioning those names, is because they don't mean anything.

All right. So they're just friends. And I guess like if you're just friends, that's cool. Like, I don't know. You kind of, you kind of make me think that you were an F boy though. Do you not believe him? I'm not, I'm not.

I, and I'd kind of like, I do look out for those types myself because I try not to be that. Look, I was raised by a single mom. I have two sisters, I have an older sister, younger sister. So I really strive not to be that guy and I don't want to be that guy ever. Well, that's cool. I don't want to be just a girl that anybody calls. I definitely want somebody that's serious about me

and I really enjoyed our time together. I just never want to feel like I'm one of a hundred or any, you know, I don't want competition. So Erin, just let me know. Like you talked really fondly about Michelle. So it's kind of sounded like you and her had a thing, like maybe over the summer. So did I miss any of that? It's kind of like you and her had a thing like maybe over the summer

Sorry, okay, so Michelle and I had a thing over the summer in high school She is a friend from high school like yeah, I've just known her a long time and that's why we just go way back No high school summer and she has been married and has kids yeah no she's just a friend okay all right all right that's cool oh yeah do you have any like guys that are your friends do you hang out with guys yeah no of course I okay not only do I know all of the husbands all the significant others of all these women, but no, I got my, I got, there's Caleb, there's Derek, there are a couple guys from work,

and we hang out, you know, get drinks every week after work. It's pretty firsties. All right, that's reassuring. All right, so do you believe him then, Lila? You know what, I don't think he's lying Okay, would you like to go on another date with Aaron? We'll pay for it Just don't fart congratulations Aaron I

Thank you guys, I appreciate I'm glad cleared the air. Lila, thank you for, I'm excited for our date and yep, you are welcome to talk about as many guys you want. I'll even throw in a free fart for you. All right, for you. Okay. Congratulations then. Jubal's first date follow-up. We're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

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