First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Marie ghosting JR?
Episode Date: April 21, 2025JR had a great date, and now he's getting ghosted by Marie. They met on the apps, and he's incredibly attracted to her. Let's see if The Jubal Show can get JR a second date. Ever been ghosted after w...hat you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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JR is on the phone today for a first date follow-up
and he's getting ghosted by Marie.
So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him
and maybe get him another date.
But first, JR, how long has it been
since you heard from Marie?
Oh, man.
A couple of days, I guess.
Maybe a week now.
OK.
Did you try to hit her up?
Oh, yeah.
I've called a couple of times.
I didn't leave a voice message every time I called
because I didn't want to sound crazy or whatever,
but she just hasn't called back.
I got nothing.
All right, well tell us about the date.
Date was awesome.
So we met on the apps.
I just was so attracted to how nurturing she seemed.
I mean, she had pictures with animals.
She was out in nature, you know, with her friends.
I mean, the second we started talking, it was like,
I was telling her about how I always wanted to ride a horse,
but I've been like real afraid to try.
And she laughed at it, you know,
but like it was that cute kind of laugh.
And then she was like really encouraging.
And we decided that actually our first meeting would be
for me to go horseback riding. Oh, that's a cool first date. Yeah, it is fun.
It was amazing. Like I actually rode a horse. She was amazing. She was like my personal cheerleader. She was just so warm and
energetic and I mean she was gorgeous too. I just I can't get out of my mind.
It was amazing and after we rode horses we you know we went home to shower and
we changed and then we met up for dinner and oh my gosh,
I'm smiling so hard right now just thinking about it.
It was things that things were going great.
You know, we, we even kissed before we went into the restaurant and that's a good sign.
Really good sign.
Oh my gosh.
That's usually it's like if you're lucky after dinner, you know, this was right
away and you know, it set the tone for some real romance and after dinner, you know, we
kissed again and I told her that I was going to call her this week with a plan for another
adventure.
You know, this is so good.
So you're really into her.
It sounds like the date went great though to have a two-part date and kisses.
It feels like there was really great momentum.
What could have gone wrong?
You think, you know, the only thing that I can really think of is like, you know, I'm
the type of person that like, sometimes I say the wrong thing at the wrong time.
You know, I don't mean to, but like we were sitting at dinner and I noticed that she had
like a designer handbag and some fancy jewelry and you know, she's a teacher and right away
I wanted to make a little joke because she had really fancy stuff.
So I remember saying like, hey, what are you on only fans or something? You
know, how do you afford that fancy stuff? She, it was like the only point where, forget
all that romance is she looked just like cold. And then she kind of played it off, but she's
like, I'm just, I'm a good thrifter. And there was a little awkward moment there.
You know, I moved on from it and I told her,
you know, I said, hey, I didn't mean to offend you
or anything and told her it was a joke.
And, and that was the only moment that kind of,
that I can think of that was like,
oh, is that what it was?
Did I really ruin it by putting my foot in my mouth again?
Okay.
Sounds like your joke didn't land. You gotta tell that one right like you're joking land. You gotta tell that one, right?
It's just right you gotta tell that one just right and not be like
Yeah, okay. Well, yeah, maybe that's why she's not calling you back
Um, we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you
Another date. Okay. Oh my gosh, please. Yes. Thank you. All right. We'll play a song, come back and get your first day follow up next.
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We're in the middle of today's first date follow-up.
If you're just joining us, JR is on the phone
and he's getting ghosted by Marie.
And so in a second, we're going to call her
and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him.
But before we do that, JR,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?
Yeah, so went on the best first day I've ever had. We broke one of my fears going horseback
riding. We kissed before dinner, after dinner. It was something straight out of a movie as
far as I'm concerned. And I may have put my foot in my mouth, but I think it went really
well overall and I can't get her to get back to me.
And I really want to go on another adventure with her.
But your foot in your mouth was there
because you asked her if she was on OnlyFans
because she had nice things.
You know that.
Yeah.
But it was a joke.
Right, right.
All right, man, are you ready for us to call her?
I'm nervous, but I am absolutely ready.
Okay, here we go.
But I'm absolutely ready.
OK, here we go.
Hello.
Hi, may I speak to Marie, please?
This is her.
Hey, Marie, how are you? My name is Jubal.
I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jubal Show.
Hi, Marie.
I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hey, how are you? Good, thanks. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Hi, Marie I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria
How are you?
Good. Thanks. How are you?
Great. Thanks for asking. Have you ever heard of the show before?
Yeah, I love the show. Oh
Great. Do you like the first date follow-ups? Yes. Oh, yes
Congratulations
Because this is a first date follow-up
You're ghosting somebody and they emailed us about you.
Do you know who that would be?
Yes.
Boo.
J.R.
Yes.
J.R.
So he emailed us and told us about your date.
He said he really liked you and he's not sure why you're ghosting him.
Do you plan on telling us?
Oh my goodness.
I'm so embarrassed.
Well, I really liked him too, but and the date was great and everything, but to be honest,
he was asking some personal questions and he seemed like he was crying a little bit.
I couldn't tell if he was joking or not, but he, you know, was getting a little too close
to finding out a secret honestly.
And I just don't go out with guys like that.
Like inquisitive?
Like guys like that, what do you mean?
Yeah, like, you know, nosy, you know,
I like to keep my privacy, you know,
like my personal business is my business.
Okay.
What do you mean by that?
Um, well, you know, I just, I want a guy to like me for me and I'm not sure if he does.
And I, you know, I'm not sure if he's like creepy or not. You don't know if he's creepy or not. Why?
Well, he made a comment about my jewelry and my bags.
I mean, I like to have nice stuff.
And he asked me if I was on OnlyFans.
And when you think, is that how he saw me?
Is that like, is that why he's-
Oh, so you feel like he put two and two together
and you're usually low-key about it.
Oh, you probably do have people that want to date you because of that.
Yeah, it's happened before, honestly, and I'm pretty sure that's how he knows me.
I'm pretty sure he figured it out and that's why he asked me for a date.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, wait a minute.
So you are on OnlyFans?
Marie, that's JR.
He's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. No. Oh my god. Oh my goodness. Oh
Hi. Oh
My god. Yeah, I
Swear, I did not know you were on there. I was just making a joke. That is a bad time joke
coincidence I
That is a bad time joke. It's a coincidence.
I thought that you for sure knew I was on and that's why you asked me out.
So you really just saw me on the app and genuinely just wanted to go out with me?
Aww, Marie!
Yeah, a hundred percent. You seem so sweet. It's one hundred percent for like who you are.
Oh my gosh, I'm going to cry. It is cool that
you have an only fan. You do. You're cool with it. Yeah. I don't care about that. I'd
never judge you for that. You know, I mean, if you want to keep it a secret, maybe, you
know, don't bring out the fancy stuff. You know what I'm saying?
You were doing so well.
This is just another one of those moments.
I like my thing. What can I say?
Yeah, no, I'm sorry.
I was so stupid.
I was just trying to do, I danced in person, but you guys can't see that.
And it was supposed to be a joke and I suck at that.
But you rode a horse, JR.
And she was amazing.
I never would have done it if it wasn't for Marie.
Like it was, it was, you were my little, you're my hero that day, Marie.
It was great.
You guys are actually really cute.
You are really sweet, Jared.
And I, and I do really like you.
Marie, would you like to go on another date with JR?
We'll pay for it.
Really?
Yeah, I would love to.
Oh my gosh, please say yes, please say yes.
I swear. She did already.
I'm not good.
She said yes.
Great.
That's amazing.
Yes, okay, sorry.
Yes.
Yes.
Jubal's first date follow-up.
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I talk with comedian Roy Wood Jr.
about the lack of African-American star power in major league baseball.
Baseball needs an Anthony Edwards.
And I don't know who that could be.
Mookie Betts is Steph Curry.
He's exceptional and likable, million dollar smile.
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