First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Max ghosting Danni?

Episode Date: March 26, 2025

We learn something in this first date follow up we could have never expected. But let's see if we can get Danni a second date!  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Danny is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max. So in a few minutes we'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first let's find out about the date. Danny how long has it been since you heard from Max?

Um, it's been about five days. Five days? Okay. Yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How many times have you tried to hit him in that time though? Um, twice. You tried to hit him? You know, that's why you're getting cubs. You hit him up a couple times though.

Yes, I have. I've hit him up a couple times and sent him a couple texts and nothing. Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How did that go? Okay. Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was kind of cute. Yeah. You know, something's fun, low pressure. Things were going great at first. We were laughing, joking around, a little flirty. And it was all good. Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious or anything. You just mentioned these ex never like to do anything fun like mini golf. So I thought it was funny to crown on them a bit to make him feel better. I was like, your ex sounds super lame. I bet I'm way more fun and probably more attractive.

He definitely leveled up. Okay. Well, definitely showing him confidence. Right? How did he react to that? Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all. He laughed and we kept having fun flirting and I mean, everything was good. I mean, it went so well that we ended up well, we hooked up.

So, clearly he didn't seem bothered by it. Yeah. Okay. I mean, I think it would be weird if he was super bothered by it. Like, Hey, don't you ever speak ill of my ex. Okay. Well then that sounds like a good thing. How did that, how did that end? Did you guys like, did you leave that night or did you stay over? I mean, you know, he's a great guy. Like he's funny, chill, easy to talk to.

I haven't had a date go that smoothly in a while. He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something deeper there. I just I didn't expect him to ghost me after everything seemed so good. You know, after I stayed the night, I

OK, I just stay over. OK. Yeah. So after we stay over. Okay. Yeah. So after we hooked up, we were just lying there and I might've kind of joked about his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex wouldn't have done this at mini golf. I thought it was funny, but now I'm trying to think, maybe he didn't think it was as hilarious as I did. I mean, I was just trying to make him feel good about it,

like a confidence boost. But now that I haven't heard from him, I'm wondering if I crossed the line. I mean, it was just a joke. How was it when you said goodbye to him in the morning? It was good. We kissed goodbye and he said, I'll see you soon. I mean, he acted like we were gonna have another date.

So he didn't seem awkward at all when you guys said bye. Like you really felt like you were gonna talk to him again. Yes, absolutely. Okay, well we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay.

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We talked about our exes but like not like anything real serious And you know I kind of made a joke that I'm probably more fun than your ex. You leveled up. I'm probably more attractive, just kidding. And I mean, it must've been good because while we hooked up, um, and I haven't heard from him in five days and I've tried to contact him a couple times. I mean, we kissed goodbye the next morning. He said, I'll see you soon. And it sounded like we were gonna get back together.

All right. Were you ready for us to call him? Yeah, I am. All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Max please? Is he? Max, how are you? This is a radio show.

It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, Max. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? I'm doing good. How are you all?

Great. Have you ever heard of the show before or listened? I've heard of it. Yeah. Yes, sure. Okay sweet. Well, guess what? What's going on? You are star of the show On the show that's called the first date follow-up That's where if you go on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them that person can email us to get you On the phone and find out why you're getting ghosted. So somebody emailed us about you. That's why we're calling. Oh Okay, do you know who would email us? Maybe have an idea

You want to throw out a guess? Is it Danny? Yes, it is Danny. I want to clap again. Congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to her a little bit about your date and she's really curious. She wants to know why you're ghosting her. She said she thought everything was great. I mean, look, I, um, we definitely had a fun time, like for sure. She's, she's super fun girl. I mean, I, I had high hopes because, you know, we were joking around and you know seemed like a great match, but you know, I'm I'm big on chemistry and You know when we got to the bedroom, it just I didn't feel that spark, you know, it wasn't bad

It was didn't click for me. Wait, you know, so you're saying you just didn't enjoy it. I mean The date was at last but when it you know came down to it there's There's no connection in the bedroom And the chemistry is just really important to me. So, you know, so you didn't enjoy it wait Wait, wait, wait. Are you saying I'm down in bed? Max that's Danny. She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Are you actually on my bed? I never have any complaints.

My ex even told people I was the most adventurous he'd ever been with. Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No, no, I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not.

I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not.

I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm just saying that we are not. I'm not saying you're bad. I'm just saying that we, you know, didn't have that spark. Like, well, okay. Well, did you think it was amazing? I mean, it was fine, but it was the first time. I mean, it's never mind blowing. The first time you get to know each other right? I mean it was with my ex first time was great. What? Oh my gosh. But your ex was lame and I'm awesome and honestly I think we both deserve a redo I can do better and I'm sure you can too. Are you calling him that in bed? Yeah so he wasn't great either. Well, I'm just saying it's never great the first time. I mean, seriously, I was nervous.

It was our first time. There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, no, I look, I get it. I mean, I just, you know, it's it's got to be undeniable for me. You know, I just, you know, it's, it's gotta be undeniable for me. You know, I just, I'm not saying that you're not super attracted. I will. You're telling me, you're telling me that every time you've had sex for the first time, it's just been impeccable. I doubt that.

Well, I think that I think that, you know, the first time if it's like, you know what I mean? There's I've definitively had it happen where I knew that I was like way into this I mean you haven't even seen all my moves like the walker. What? You're move Okay You named your move. Yeah Yeah Yeah, and you haven't even seen that yet I love that you named your moves. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah, cause it's good. And you haven't even seen that yet. I don't know if I want to see the walker. Oh, trust me. You definitely want to see the walker. I'm very curious what the walker is. It sounds dangerous. It's not. It's fantastic.

Well Max, do you want a chance to see the Waka? Would you like a second date with Danny? We'll pay for it. I feel like you got to do it for all of us, Max. All right. I, I, yeah, I'm, I'm down. I'm down for, I'm down for a second time. Yeah. If for anything else, I have to experience the walker.

Oh, you'll love it. Please let us know how it goes. Be sure to take a week off of work after. Well, congratulations, Danny. You got another date and Max. Good luck. God bless. God to me. Jubal's first date follow up.

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Los Angeles, 2021. A friendly neighbor appears out of nowhere and promises to make all my dreams come true. Let's not forget that David Blum was a professional con artist. So you didn't stand a chance. But my dreams soon turned into a nightmare. I'm Caroline

D'amore. Listen as I take down my scammer on Once Upon a Con on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey sis, it's Dr. Joy from Therapy for Black Girls. We've had 400 episodes of conversations, growth and healing. So we're celebrating. Join us for a special episode with internationally recognized yogi Chelsea Jackson Roberts as she shares wisdom on mindfulness, movement and motherhood.

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