First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Mia ghosting Joseph?

Episode Date: April 15, 2025

It's been about two weeks, and Joseph really wants to know why Mia is ghosting. The date went 'SO WELL' so why is this happening? Let's see if The Jubal Show can get Joseph a second date. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Well, I mean it's been a couple weeks now and I'm getting kind of worried. Getting worried is there a reason why you feel worried? Like about her or about how she's ghosting you? Most of the time, like how she's ghosting me. It's, it's been a little while and it went so well. This was one of the best days I've ever had. It seems so promising. We actually, we had, we were settled, we were set up for dinner and a movie and we were talking for so long at dinner that we ended up missing the movie. Like that was great.

You know, so you miss the whole movie. Well, no, I mean, we're able to get in. It's just, it's been, we ended up missing the opening. So it was just felt really good, you know, talking to her. Tell us more about it. What did you guys talk about? Why, you know, do you feel like it was so great? Oh, well, we went to a pizza place because she had said in a previous conversation how much she loved pizza.

Oh, great. This is kind of casual, but also kind of like, you know, sort of a dinner. So a little more than just like coffee is great. We had to talk about our careers, you know, our families. We seem to be on the same wavelength. You know, actually, we both mentioned that we wanted to check out a museum that we had been looking at and maybe we could do that sometime. And I was like, oh, good. OK, so like second date right there.

It's kind of built into it. Mm hmm. I just felt really promising. Did anything happen on the date where it's kind of an obvious sign of why she's not on you, Beck? I've got I'm not going to lie, I've got an idea of what might have happened. See, we were while we were out, I saw my sister and my sister is married and I go over to dinner with her and her family every once in a while so I can see my nieces and nephews. We'd recently talked about how I probably shouldn't talk about my love life around like the kids right now, just until things get kind of settled

because that way, you know, it became awkward for them. And when, you know, I saw out, I was like, oh, no, this is kind of awkward. This is kind of weird. How do I act in this situation? I wouldn't be surprised if that was a little confusing. Wait, so you didn't talk to your sister? No, no, I just was like, oh God, what do I do here? And it probably upset how I spoke to Mia as well. Did you tell Mia that it was your sister who was there

or that you knew each other or anything like that? No, I was afraid it was gonna make things even more awkward. I was like, oh God, if I just kind of play this off, let's not even make a thing out of it. It's one of those the bigger the thing that the more weird it gets I'm not gonna lie. I'm not sure I did a great job of that. Okay, it sounds like it was kind of yeah, it sounds awkward We'll see if we can figure it out We'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us why she's going to sing you and maybe get you another date.

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Listen to Spalitix on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the advocates injury attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Right in the middle of the first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Joseph is on the phone. He's been getting ghosted for like two weeks now

and doesn't know why. So we're about to call the girl that he went out with her name is Mia and see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Joseph, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mia? Sure.

Me and I had a great time. We went to a pizza place. We talked about setting up a second date at a museum. We actually were talking for so long we almost missed the movie. I'm not sure why she hasn't gotten back to me after like a couple weeks. I'm a little worried that it's because I was a little awkward when I saw my sister out, but I'm not sure. Okay, well we'll give her a call right now and ask her if she'll ask her why she's ghosting you and see If she'll tell us and then maybe get you know today you ready?

Alright, let's go. Alright, here we go Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mia please? This is her. Hey Mia, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi Mia, the show's here too.

I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Oh, hi. Hi. How are you doing today? Good. Hi. Hi. How are you doing today? Good. Okay, so what's the show?

It's a radio show, it's called The Jubal Show. We do a segment on our show called The First Day of Fall Out. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them and we got an email about you from Joseph. Oh oh oh yeah yeah yeah yeah I definitely went out with a guy named Joseph. Okay great.

Well Joseph said you you've been ghosting him for like two weeks now and he wants to know why he thought things went really well and he liked you a lot? Um, well, it actually did start off really well. We went and had pizza and we had a lot of things coming. We were laughing. We were even planning on going to a museum for the next date. But then we Then we went to the movies and he is clearly not over his ex because we saw his ex there and he was acting really weird. He showed no affection to me. It was very awkward. And then after the movies we rushed out of there. And so that is why, because he's not over his ex.

How do you know that was his ex? Did he say that? He didn't say that, but it was like he looked over at her. He was acting really strange. It just, it felt like it was his ex. I mean, you kind of just know that's his ex, you know? It was, it was awkward because he like stopped touching me. He stopped. I mean, who else would it be? You know? Could it be, you know? Could it be like his sister or something? Well, why would his sister care if he was touching me?

That is a very fair point, but sometimes what we think is happening isn't always happening. Possibly. I mean, was that his sister? I don't know. Let's ask him. Because Joseph is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, oh my god. Okay. Oh wow, hi.

So, yeah, you were acting really weird with that girl. It definitely felt like that was your ex. You had your hand on my lap And then when you saw her you took your hand off, and it was just very distant It was very awkward Yeah Believe it or not that actually is my sister Yes, I was

We have an agreement that I don't like, that I don't talk about my ongoing like romantic relationships for a little while here. Definitely not, you know, around my nieces and nephews. And it's kind of that, a couple that like, oh God, it's like not time. I don't really want to like introduce you to family on a first date. I had, um, I was sorry. I did not handle that well. Yeah. You, that was, why didn't you just say something or text me afterwards? I mean, we rushed out of the movie theater. What? Yeah. Just, you didn't play this right. We just rushed it out and then like it just felt very awkward. I mean, if you kind of explain, which is kind of weird

that you don't want to talk about your relationship, but I, I guess sometimes you don't, I mean, it was our first date. I got, I guess I got that. Like you don't want to, you know, introduce to the family, but that was really weird. You didn't say hi to her or, or even say anything to me. Did she say anything? Yeah. Yeah. Right.

Yeah, no, I just kind of wanted to leave the situation. I was really thinking, I was like, oh good. I'll just kind of get out of here. I'll play it off. Cool. Uh, I very clearly did a terrible job of that. Yeah. I mean, I'll play it off cool. I very clearly did a terrible job of that. Yeah, I mean, yeah, it was like, it was very comfortable. And then all of a sudden you saw her and like, there's night and day, you were affectionate

and then nothing. Um, Joseph, you kind of turned into a red flag. I'm really sorry. You're so sweet. And I really wanted this to work out for you, but you can't just run away from a situation that's uncomfortable. Every time something's not cool for you, you can't just go, Oh, let's go. Oh my God. That's funny.

That was your sister. I know. I mean, on a first date, meeting family, I can, you just say it's your friend. But yeah, your sister's obviously not going to be listen if you're doing in front of kids, you're just like hey This is my friend Bob You know well, yeah, you could done that Next time yeah Well, how would you like to have another awkward situation happen with Joseph because I think there might be many

Like I mean that in a good way Yeah, would you like to go on another date with Joseph? We'll pay for it. How many siblings do we have? How many times will this happen? Joseph? It's knowing that it's his sister, I actually feel a lot better.

It was a little weird, just tell me next time. But yeah, I actually had a really good time at the pizza place and I would like to see that resumed still. So I would totally wanna go out with you again. Okay. So you run into his ex-girlfriend at the museum. Okay.

Okay. Sorry, just kidding. I wish you the best. Jubal's first date follow-up. We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices not from the extremes

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