First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Mila ghosting Bobby?

Episode Date: March 11, 2025

Normally a first date is required before there's a second date. But, we are letting Bobby do a first date follow up after a failed pot luck experience, which SHOULD have led to a first date. This one takes a weird turn... warning. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. every single morning in under 15 minutes, we take the news and boil it down to three essential stories you can keep up without feeling stressed out. Listen up first from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up, powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Bobby is on the phone today for a first date follow-up

and he's getting ghosted by Mila. So in a second, we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date. But first, Bobby, how long has it been since you heard from Mila? There it's been about 10 days. Have you tried to reach out to her in those 10 days? Yeah, I've texted her like twice. Um, sent her a meme or two. Um, but it's been nothing.

Okay. Well, why don't you tell us about the day? Um, sure. Yeah. So we met at a, uh, potluck that a mutual friend friend was throwing. And, um, it was her idea to make this, you know, everyone's bring like a homemade dish thing and I love to cook. Um, I love being in the kitchen.

So I brought, um, my mom's like famous egg casserole. Um, and I might've been slightly overcooked, but it was still edible. And I think really good. And Mila showed up with like this like amazing, like professional charcuterie board. So many different cheeses. I could not stop eating it. And then he talked for like the entire night, like for so long. You know, it was like it was a really good vibe. That's great.

So did you feel like Mila was into the vibe? Does she love that you were eating her cheese? Yeah, absolutely. Like we, we were talking with like a group outside and it felt like it was just us two because like we were just talking between us like the entire time, like back and forth. And we were talking about cooking too, the best way to make guac, which I have some very strong feelings about. So, I mean, it felt really natural and good.

Why do you think she might be ghosting you? Okay, well, the only thing I can think is that I might have overdone it at the potluck. Like we, I think I tried to impress her too much, but basically she mentioned that how much she loves flan. Um, and I, I tried to like whip one up from scratch, just like using whatever I could find in the kitchen. Um, I thought it'd be like really cute and romantic, but it did not go very well. Like I set off the smoke alarm and the flan turned out more like a soup. It's pretty impressive that you were able to make an impromptu flan.

Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it. She's like, I love flan and you go bet, watch this. Yeah, I might've been feeling a little too confident okay and did the flan taste any good you know it tasted fine the consistency was a little weird um but she like lashed it off you know but then she got like kind of quiet after that so I don't know it's like I don't know if I did give her the ace or I don't know I was like how do you recover from a fire alarm? I mean, that's quite a like. I mean, the whole party's got to stop

for a second and then restart up again. Yeah, I mean, you quit. We just ripped the smoke alarm out of the ceiling. It was no big deal. All right. And so the fun or the failed salon, I guess, is the only thing you can think of that might be the reason that she's ghosting you.

Yeah, because like everything else went like so naturally at the party. So I don't know. All right. Well, we'll see if we can help you out then we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another chance at making some really good flan for her. I'm good. It's Flan Coder. Yeah. We'll play that song, come back, and get your first day follow up next. Ugh. We're so done with New Year, New You.

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First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates attorneys online at advocateslaw.com in the middle of your first day of follow up. If you're just joining us, Bobby is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Mila. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another, well, first date, I guess, because they haven't really had an official date yet. But Bobby, before we do that, why don't you tell us what happened with Mila again? Yeah, so we met at a potluck that a mutual friend put together,

and we really hit it off. We were like talking all night. And then I tried to impress her by like making a flan from scratch, and it did not go very well. But it's not like anyone got hurt or anything. But, you know, I think I might have just turned her off. I don't know.

I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from them. Flaunt. But it's gonna happen. It's possible. Well, we'll see. Are you ready for us to call her? Yes. Okay. Here we go.

On a dollar phone number right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mila please? This is she. Mila, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi Mila, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubal. How are you doing? Oh my God, are you serious?

Yeah. Do you listen to the show ever? I have heard you guys before. This is the first time I've ever heard of it. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited.

I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm so excited. I'm Jubil. How are you doing? Oh my god, are you serious? Yeah. Do you listen to the show ever? I have heard you guys before. This is wild. Thank you. Well, as you've never heard of First Aid Follow-Up, which we do on the show,

that's a segment where if you're ghosting somebody, you can email us and then we call that person and see if they'll tell us why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody. Do you know who would email us? Is it about Bobby? Yes, it is about Bobby. They'll tell us why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from somebody. Do you know who would email us? Is it about Bobby? Yes, it is about Bobby. He told us all about meeting you at the party and he said it's been about 10 days,

that you guys really hit it off, liked you a lot, but doesn't know why you're not calling him back. Would you mind telling us? Sure. So, okay. First off, Bobby's sweet. Really sweet. But he's kind of chaotic.

Okay. The potluck was fun, but I've never seen someone try to make a flaunt out of nothing. He told us about that. He thinks that him trying to make a flaunt and then setting off the fire alarm and all that stuff might be the reason that you're ghosting him. Oh, no, I mean, it was very sweet. It was kind of insane, but it was very sweet. But there was this girl there, Emily,

who would not stop flirting with him. She was trying to help him. She was like, oh my God, you're so brave for making this flan. It's amazing. Brave? What? It was not an amazing flan, you know, and I'm just I'm not interested in chasing anyone.

That's not how you define bravery. Well, I mean, the fire alarm did go off, though, you know, I'm just I'm not interested in like fighting over some guy, you know, he's nice, but he said he texted you a couple of times. over some guy, you know, he's nice but. He said he texted you a couple times. Yeah, but I mean, I just, it seems messy and chaotic and not for me. Like you think that the other girl that was flirting with him, he's also interested in her?

I mean, I assume so because she was so flirty. So I'm just kind of like, that's cool. Do your thing, you know. Did he flirt back though? Was he giving her the time of day? I mean, he was so excited about the flan that I'm not sure. He just seemed really, really excited about everything. So it was hard to tell.

Yeah. You like someone who's a little less excited about life? There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm just not sure about, you know? Okay. Okay. Well, thank you for telling us why you're not calling him back. Speaking of chaos, Mila, I don't know if you know this

or not, but Bobby is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Oh God. He's been listening. Hey Mila, what's up? Hi. Wait, wait, Mila, you really think Emily was flirting with me? Really? Yeah, she ate two pieces of that flan.

Like, nobody wanted to eat that flan, no offense. Well, I thought she was just being nice. I mean, she was being nice, but like, in a get into your pants kind of way. I mean, she was like grabbing your arm while you were cooking and she kept like laughing at literally everything. But I mean, this is what women do when they're into you. I guess I didn't notice. I honestly, I was really just trying to make sure I didn't like burn up the kitchen.

Well, fair. Because you almost did. Mila, where were you this whole time? really just trying to make sure I didn't like burn up the kitchen. He's welfare. Mila, where were you this whole time? Like, were you off in a corner watching him make it while Emily was flirting with him or were you standing there trying to like still get attention? No, I was kind of off in the corner at that point. Like I sensed it and I just was like, I'm out, you know, like it's just, I don't know, maybe it's like self defense. I'm just not interested in getting in the middle of like something that was clearly

happening like, you know, Yeah. No, I get that. Sometimes you're just too tired to like fight for it and be like, look at me, I'm so cute. Like it's exhausting. Yeah. But yeah, yeah, I don't really do that. You know, I was just kind of like, you're sweet.

Go have fun. She's all over you. Like try not to burn anything down. Well, Mila, would you like to go on another date with Bobby? We'll pay for it. I mean, I guess I misread it cause I thought you were into Emily, but if she's not in the picture, I would be open to that. Yeah. Not cooking though. You got another date with Mila. Well actually now that I like know this about Emily, I think I kind of want to tech turd. What? Wow.

I thought you were into Emily. Shameless. Well, I mean, she's like really into me like that. Then like I kind of be stupid not to go for it. What? Oh my. Well, I guess I did read it, right? I don't know what to do now. I feel really weird. Yeah. I mean, Mila, like no offense, but like thanks for telling me like you're, you're, you're awesome. You're really cool. Like, like your guac recipe sounds awesome, but I mean, Emily's like really pretty

and way out of my league. So, I'm not gonna lie. I know that. I know that. Oh my God. Interesting. All right, well. Back to that chaotic thing.

Mila, thank you for your time and Bobby, good luck with Emily, I guess. Mila, I'm sorry. Wow, that's okay. Kind of what I expected, to be honest. So there you go. Wow, guys. Thanks so much for doing this.

This is so cool. This is so cool. Yeah. Jubal's first date follow up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney, online at advocateslaw.com. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

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