First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Naomi ghosting Caleb?

Episode Date: March 19, 2025

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Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

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society, justice, and the fascinating workings of the human psyche. Join me every week as I tell some of the most enthralling true crime stories about women who are not just victims, but heroes or villains, or often somewhere in between. Listen to the greatest true crime stories ever told on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Caleb is on the phone today for a first date follow up. He's getting ghosted by Naomi.

So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, let's talk about the date. Caleb, how long has it been since you heard from Naomi? Oh, like a week probably. Okay, have you been trying to hit her up? Yeah, not that much, but yes. Okay, good answer actually.

Hesitation there. Let's talk about the date, how did that go? I thought it went well, I mean, we went to those, you know, one of those DIY pottery places. Oh, that's fun. Yeah, yeah, you know one of those DIY pottery places Yeah, yeah, you know romantic creators little messy That ghost scene that movie ghost where they had the pottery thing. Oh, yeah, did you guys use a wheel? No, we didn't

Next time so how did it go with the pottery? I had a great time. You know, I mean, we were, we were teasing each other, joking around, and I thought it was nice. Did she not think it was nice? I don't know, she hasn't talked to me. I mean, I might have gotten in a little too into it, you know, cause like, I totally did the ghost behind the back move.

That's hot though. You did the what? Where, yeah, I kind of put my, my my arms behind her like, you know what I mean? Okay. Yeah. We all were like, there was no wheel, but just that. So you got behind her and put your arms around her and made a mug out of pottery. Okay.

Well, when you put it like that. Exactly. Okay. Did she like that? Did she, was she laughing about it or did it seem weird to her? I thought she took it well. I thought she took it well.

You know, she's she's kind of, you know, sarcastic, so it could go either way. Right. But I like it. You could say maybe she liked it. And this is totally different reason that she's go see me or she totally thought I was

weird. I don't know. So did you guys just do pottery on this date or did you guys go anywhere afterwards before? No, after we got some tacos and you know late night tacos, good times. There was even a kiss you know not like fireworks over during the end. Well that's not a good sign. I could see going somewhere you know know, potential if things could ramp up a little bit with another date or two or whatever. Did it get weird at any point?

I mean, it's great that she went with you after pottery to get tacos. That should be a good sign. I mean, I dared her to try the firebomb sauce of the taco place and she did, and then like almost died. And I was sort of laughing. I don't know. I like, I didn't know it was that serious, but like she just wouldn't stop coughing. You know, someone takes like hot sauce to the dome and it's like, okay, they're coughing.

Fine. But like she just kept coughing and coughing and I was laughing at first, but then all of a sudden it was like oh No, probably not probably not a funny moment Is that the reason you think she's ghosting you because you made her try hot sauce and it was too hot for her I mean it wasn't too hot like she was like not doing well like color, you know like Yeah, but I've had too. So it's too hot.

Yeah, but I've had too hot. There's like too hot. And then there's like, oh, excuse me, I need like, I need to go get tons and tons of rice. OK, so you put her mouth on fire. So that could be why you're getting ghosted. Possibly. What's the last thing that she said to you? Um, I don't remember. Good night. Sounds like this is a really great day. Awkward moment. I don't know. All right.

Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. I'm still trying to figure out what happened on your day, but we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and see if we can get you another date. Okay. Yeah. All right. Play a song, come back, get your first day follow up next.

We're so done. why she's ghosting you and see if we can get you another date, okay? Yeah, sure. All right, play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

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Right in the middle of today's first date follow up. If you're just joining us, Caleb is on the phone and we're about to call Naomi and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. It's been over a week and he hasn't heard from her since their date. Before we do that, Caleb, why don't you break down your date again for us real quick one more time? Yeah. one more time. Yeah, so we did some mug painting, making painting at the DIY pottery spot. I thought she was super funny and, you know, dry and she actually laughed at my jokes,

which let's be real, is very rare. And we got some late night tacos. I dared her to try the hottest sauce. I thought it was hilarious, but then it got weird. She was actually not doing well. And you're laughing at her while she's having some sort of crazy reaction to the hot sauce. Yeah, yeah. But we did get, there was a good night kiss and she said good night.

And, but since then she hasn't responded my text. All right. You ready for us to call her? Yeah. Okay. Hello? Hi, is this Naomi?

This is. Hey Naomi, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie.

Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, I'm Julie. Hi, is this Naomi? This is. Hey, Naomi, how are you? This is the Jubel show. It's a radio show. Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria.

And I'm Jubel. How are you? Oh, wait, wait, what? Is this real? Because I kind of thought these were just staged for, you know, YouTube or something. No, they're not. This is for real. Yeah.

How are you? So I guess you know what this is. Yeah. I mean, I've a little bit I've heard it here and there but I honestly just never thought this is like real thing Like somebody wrote it up or you know, I don't know I honestly just never thought I was gonna get a call like this. I'm a little unprepared. Okay So are you cheating on anybody? Wow, way to just like dive right in. Um, I mean, I'm not like cheating on anybody. I was sort of seeing someone for a minute.

Um, I'm just asking because we do a few different things on this show. I didn't know if you know exactly what we're calling. This is a first date follow up. So if you go out on a date with somebody and ghost that person, that person can email us To call you and ask why you're ghosting them, so we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting Okay, is this about Caleb? Yes, oh it is about Caleb. He said he liked you a lot. He told us a little bit about your date, but he's confused Okay, you know I don't know how to say this nicely, so I'm just gonna say it. Caleb is a menace.

A menace? What? Yeah. Okay. Why is he a menace? So, the day was actually a lot of fun and I did have a good time, but there was this incident with like hot sauce and I genuinely could not breathe. It was so horrible. And aside from the fact that it was killing me, people were like staring at me. It was so horrible. And aside from the fact that it was killing me, people were like staring at me. It was so embarrassing. He told us about that actually. He said he felt bad because like he thought, you know, it was just too hot for you. But then he realized after he was laughing at you that it was a

really bad situation. Yeah, it was bad. I had a way to bring me milk and honey and then Caleb is over there making a like a joke about some sort of Spicy relationship. Well, I I'm literally feeling my clothes on my throat closing up. It was genuinely awful But wait, wait, wait, wait to be fair though. Naomi. You did survive and a joke was pretty solid Naomi that's he's actually on the phone listening. Let's talk to you. Why do I feel like this is not the date when? Yeah. Oh my God, Caleb, are you serious? You seriously put me in this situation after everything you just pulled with me?

Seriously, like I cannot believe that I'm even speaking to you on the radio right now. Clearly if I'm not responding to you, then that should have been like your first time Yeah, but see but you kissed me so I was really confused Here's the thing, you know what honestly I do regret that kiss But I think in some retrospect maybe just in some way I'm thinking about this Maybe the kiss had more to do with I was hoping my mouth was still on fire So maybe you could actually feel what I was saying. Payback? So is the hot sauce the only reason that you're ghosting him? You know what?

I think it would have been really nice if you had like actually took action when you saw how much pain I was in. You literally just sat there and were cracking up about it. Like it was honestly, people were actually scaring at you. People were scaring at you. Oh my gosh. I mean, you know, there was also this other incident at the pottery place we went to also embarrassing.

And I actually had the manager call me about you specifically. What? What? Yeah. And the manager called. How did they have your phone number? Well, I had to make a reservation to go. So why did they call though? What did he do?

Oh yeah. Okay. In line with him being a menace, apparently what Kayla thought would be funny to do would be to etch on the pottery, help I'm trapped in this mug. That's funny. Before they fired it. And they weren't immune. to etch on the pottery help. I'm trapped in this mug. And they weren't immune. And what, what did you say after that? Naomi?

Basically, I, again, in shock that I'm having this company call me about Caleb being a jerk and they, they didn't like this. Like they thought it wasn't funny. They, you know, they took it very seriously. And, you know, I actually had to speak to the manager And the manager's being a total Karen to me and I was being so nice and I had to make sure that they didn't ban Us from that shop. Naomi, the joke is actually funny though because all of these people on the radio just laughed at it Yeah, I thought it was kind of funny. I think they are being kind of Karen's about it

Oh also, they told me that you drew a d*** on your body. Okay, so it wasn't what he wrote on it. It was probably that. The art. Oh wow. I mean, you can't draw anatomy anymore, can you? Oh my god. You are so ridiculous.

You're being really ridiculous right now. Like you might think this is all funny, but you're a freaking adult. That's a great story though, being banned from a pottery. No, we didn't get kicked out of the bar. We got kicked out of the 86 from the DIY pottery. Sorry guys. We party too hard.

Honestly, that's more pathetic than getting kicked out of a bar. The fact that you can't even understand that just shows your level of maturity. Hey Naomi, would you like another date with Caleb? We'll pay for it. Oh yeah, absolutely. I am so ready to go on another date with him. Listen, Caleb, you might actually think you're a funny guy and maybe in some areas you are, but you're also the kind of guy who would be trashy enough to get us kicked out of Applebee. I would never eat an Applebee's first of all. I have taste. Okay, fine. You're

not as funny as I thought anyway, but oh yeah, do they still have my penis mug? Seriously, honestly, this is what I'm talking about. You're you're just a disgusting person. I think you need to grow up a little bit. And let's be real. You've got a bunch of people on air laughing alongside you. You're really not that funny. People are trying to wake up. They're trying to have some laughs.

And all you are is some pathetic person on the line. The best part of waking up is a b***h in your c**t. Oh my gosh. So gross. What? Jubel's first date follow-up. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble.

More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.

Hey, it's Amartinez. The news can feel like a lot on any given day, but you can't just ignore las noticias when important world changing events are happening. That is where the UpFirst podcast comes in. Every single morning in under 15 minutes, we take the news and boil it down to three essential stories so you can keep up without feeling stressed out. Listen up first from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices, not from the extremes, but from the vast middle into the national conversation.

Each week we hear from ordinary Americans from all over the country. And when you subscribe to the middle, you also get an episode each week called One Thing Trump Did that focuses on just one item from the avalanche of news. Listen to The Middle with Jeremy Hobson on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Mary Kay McBrayer, host of the podcast, The Greatest True Crime Stories Ever Told. This season explores women from the 19th century to now. Women who were murderers and scammers, but also women who were photojournalists, lawyers, writers and more. This podcast tells more than just the brutal gory details of horrific acts. I delve into the good, the bad, the difficult, and all the nuance I can find. Because these are the stories that we need to know to understand the intersection of

society, justice, and the fascinating workings of the human psyche. Join me every week as I tell some of the most enthralling true crime stories about women who are not just victims, but heroes or villains or often somewhere in between. Listen to the greatest true crime stories ever told on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.