First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Ray getting ghosted, and is she a lunatic?

Episode Date: May 19, 2025

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and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Ray, how long has it been since you heard from Cassie? This has been like a week. Okay, not a week. Yeah, sounds about right. That's a sweet spot for getting ghosted.

Yeah, I know that sucks. Have you reached out to her? I have. Um, just not like obsessively, but just like a text and call and no answer. Well, tell us about the date. Um, okay. Yeah, there's a little bit to take in, so I'll just try to explain as best as I can. So, yeah, so Cassie and I went to this low-key neighborhood bar and grill.

It was **** and it was trivia night, which is, you know, we weren't expecting, it was actually really competitive. And we weren't expecting that. So I guess, you know, I can just say we sucked with spirit. Okay. And we named our, we named, we actually named our team, uh, Quistima Aguilera. Ooh, that's cute. I like that. That's a good name. That's cute.

She was awesome. She came up with it. Um, and we were really, really terrible. And, but we made fun of ourselves like the whole time and, and it was all honestly, we were like, it was hilarious. Uh, so, you know, we we shared we shared fries and drinks and she was really easy to talk to funny super smart and and honestly I was like whoa this is really going great and so we decided to just get out of there and go to my place.

All right. So you bonded. Sucking at trivia will bond to people very quickly. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. And so here's the, you know, the problem is that when we walked out to my car, on my driver's side door, the words cheater was spray painted across the door. Oh no. Okay. Have you cheated on anyone lately?

Yeah, are you a cheater? No, I'm not. I just like also also the windshield was cracked. Oh no. So yeah, I, Cassie was obviously freaked out and then she was like, dude, should I be here right now? And, and, and I told her that's just my ex, which is, I'm telling you guys, it's just my ex.

She's like, really, I'm single, literally single. We broke up a while ago and she's just been having a really hard time letting, letting go. Wait, so it wasn't a fluke Ray? This was like, your car was the target. Yeah, yeah, that's why. And I didn't cheat on her. It's just like she just kind of.

Thanks. If I talk to anybody new, it's I'm cheating. Oh, wow. Okay. That sucks. Yeah, honestly, I didn't want the end, the night to end like that. So I told her, you know, please let's do a do-over and I'll deal with the crazy and we'll pick out who we left off.

And I got her an Uber and she was cool about it. She even thanked me. She's like, wow. She jokingly was like, hey, damn, I'm getting like the deluxe package. And but she was like kind of shook. I saw that she was kind of shook so yeah yeah this is definitely why you're getting ghosted how did everything end then after that I just we we really connected and I and I've had

the days before and you know whatever but this one felt really real and I felt like she really saw me and we were making dumb trivia jokes the whole night. And anyways, um, I, it ended like she just went home basically. And then obviously it has to be the vandalism thing and it's not a great look for me. And she saw like, she saw that I was embarrassed and I was pissed and, um, I thought she understood, but, and she even teased me and she said, your ex needs like therapy and a coloring book. And so that's, yeah. Oh wow.

I mean, maybe it isn't the ex thing, but is there anything else that happened on the date that could've? Girl, that is the kind of drama nobody's trying to watch. I don't know, I mean. No offense, Ray, but if I'm on a date with somebody and their car is vandalized by their ex, the last thing I'm gonna do is wanna to See them again until I know she's gone

Yeah All right, I'm sorry. It sounded like it was good up until now. Yeah, we probably know why you were getting ghosted Then let's see if we can get you another date. All right redeem yourself Yeah, we'll play a song come back caller and see if that is in fact the reason and then we'll see if we can get you a second date, okay Yeah, all would be awesome. All right. We'll get your first day follow up next. So in the last month, the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker

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Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Right in the middle of today's first day follow up and if you're just joining us, Ray is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Cassie. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him even though we think we already know

and try to get him a second date. But first Ray, why don't you break down what happened on your date real quick? Yeah, we went to an awesome bar, like a trivia night. We were really bad at it, but we laughed the whole way through, and then I kind of went outside and found the words cheater written on my car and my windshield smashed in, that's my ex.

I didn't cheat on her, but that kind of ruined the night. It's just my ex is not getting over our long time ago relationship. So not too long ago, but just long enough, you know, where she should have been over it. And so now seeing if she'd have a do over with this date, you know, start fresh. Well, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, that would be great. could have a do over with this date, you know, start fresh.

Well, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah, that would be great. We'll try to talk her into trying again. We'll see. Who knows, maybe it's a different reason. Maybe, maybe. Maybe it's on your shirt. I don't know.

Yeah, probably not though. Are you ready? Yeah. Okay, here we go. Yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Cassie, please? Yes, this is she.

Cassie, how are you? This is a Jubal show. It's a radio show. Yeah. Hi, Cassie. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal.

How are you? How are you doing? Yeah. Yeah. Hi. I'm I think I'm good. Great. Have you ever been to a radio show?

Yeah. I've been to a radio show. I've been to a radio show. I've been to a radio show. I've been to a radio show. I've been to a radio show. I've Jubal. How are you? How are you doing? Yeah. Yeah. How are you? Uh, hi. Um, I'm I think I'm good. Great. Have you ever listened to the show before? I have actually. Oh, sweet.

Yay. Guess what, Cassie? We got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Oh. Yeah. You know, the first day follow-up where if you're ghosting someone, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Uh huh.

Yeah. So is there anybody that you're currently ghosting? Um, I can think of a name. I don't know if I want to say. You can say it. You can say it. Yeah. We probably know.

We're probably talking about the same person. Is it Ray? Yes, it is Ray. Oh God. And Ray emailed us because he really liked you. He told us about your date and we think we know why you're ghosting him, but we're not sure. So do you mind telling us why you're ghosting him? Yes. Look, the date with Ray was really amazing. Honestly, I hadn't laughed like that in a while, but he probably filled you in then on what happened with his ex. And I'm really freaked out by it.

Yeah, he said that you got back to his place and like his car was vandalized and it said that he was a cheater. Yeah, we walk out and his ex has spray-painted cheater on his car which already feels makes me feel like first I don't know like I'm in some rom-com with maybe he maybe I'm the other woman on this date and he has a whole girlfriend and then and you know I tried to play it off because I could tell he was really embarrassed and he kind of filled me in on the situation a bit. But then I started getting phone calls.

I don't normally pick up. I don't normally pick up numbers. I don't know, but they just kept calling and it was her. Oh, she was calling you. What did she say? Yeah, your number. I don't know. That's what's so freaky.

I'm like, are you about to find out my address too? somehow she got my number and Knew my name called me a slut Told me to stay away from her man sent me Then sent me a message saying she's pregnant Yeah, like send me a whole sonogram started tagging me in weird stories online Obviously I blocked her I blocked her Instagram I blocked her phone number

Yeah, honestly, I blocked ray too because this is all a whole lot of complicated for somebody I just met. Yeah, I don't need that kind of drama. I don't need to be dragged into this mess. Like I, it sucks. I really did enjoy our date, but this is too much for day one. Is she really pregnant? I mean, Cassie raise on the phone by the way. Yes, we can find out. You're listening.

Cassie. Oh man, Cassie. I didn't know she called you. Yeah. I didn't know she called you. Yeah, multiple times she called me. She said that you knocked her up and then completely ghosted her. And you didn't bring any of that up and we're standing outside of your bus. No, listen, Cassie, she's not and you guys, she's not pregnant, I swear. And she literally is not in my life.

She's just, like I said, she hasn't let go and I've been nice, like very nice to her and I just, I had no idea she reached out to you. I'm so sorry. Like, I just think you might need to be putting your foot down because this nice thing isn't working. I feel like you need to set a boundary with her

of like, we are over. You're in my path. Stop harassing. I didn't mean for you to be pulling in any of this. I was just being nice, like a normal dude. I wouldn't want to, I didn't, I did say these things to her. Did you still talk to her right after you guys broke up? Do you like, I don't know, does she have some kind of hope that you're

going to come back to her? Oh, I just, I was just trying to keep it normal. Spray paint and broken glass and smashed up cars isn't normal. I've never seen something like that in my life. I, how do I make light of this? I, I'm just, I guess I'm unforgettable, you know, it's miss out, Cassie. You don't want to miss out on me. That's one way to spin it. It's not his fault. It's nice. It's not it, but it's nice.

Cassie, would you like to go on another date with Ray? We'll pay for it. Oh my God. For real, I will not mess this up. I'll shut it all down. I'll make sure she's out of my life completely, okay? I'll go as far as even getting a restraining order like I just want you to know Cassie I had a such an amazing time you're beautiful you're you make me laugh I I've been on

many dates before and this is this felt very special for me and I'm literally like so sorry. What do you think Cassie? Come on Cassie. That's no easy thing. I mean I really appreciate that because I really had a lot of fun with you Ray and that is hard to find and I am not gonna lie this is really freaking me out and obviously I'll unblock you because I maybe was a little rash and I don't think that's fair you didn't do anything wrong. I just think that maybe there just needs to be some time to cool off and maybe

call me when this drama is actually done because I think okay that's fair. She's so crazy clearly that she's not understanding the dynamic and she's not getting whether you're being too nice or not or you're being perfectly firm I honestly don't know I just think you need to deal with this because there's not room for both of us in your life I would love to see you again right but end this and then call me so if I end this 100% that's a yes right you, I'm going on the courthouse today to get the restraining order. Aw, I didn't know that would be so romantic. Yeah, very romantic.

Yeah. Jubil's first date follow-up. So in the last month, the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker Carlson, Candice Owens, Charlie Kirk, and Ben Shapiro all combined. What happens when three brothers take on right-wing media and start winning? I find out on the latest episode of Next Question

with me, Katie Couric. We just want people to live their lives and be happy and be able to enjoy it without some, you know, lunatics screaming in their face every three seconds. Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Ed Helms is here.

I of course was drawn to the LSD story. This was all under official government activity. They built a apartment that had a glass mirror where he could sit there and watch and then they would drug these customers and he was just sort of taking notes and God knows what else behind this double mirror. And this was all in the name of science. This just sounds like a guy off behind a wall. It does.

Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. In 2020, a group of young women found themselves in an AI fueled nightmare. our podcasts. and Kaleidoscope about the rise of deepfake pornography and the battle to stop it. Listen to Levittown on Bloomberg's Big Take podcast. Find it on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're feeling this too is a horror anthology podcast. It brings different creators to tell 10 vile, grotesque, horrific stories on what scares them the most. You're feeling this too. Listen on the iHeart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart podcast.