First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Reese ghosting Daniel?

Episode Date: March 28, 2025

Love bites, sometimes too hard. Daniel hit up The Jubal Show to see if we could help him find out why Reese is ghosting him. Let's see if we can get him a second date. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Daniel is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Reese, so in a second, we're gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one but first Daniel how long has it been since you heard from Reese?

Daniel Um, about a few days I think. Okay. Daniel Alright honestly it's probably been a little bit longer but I've messaged her with the last few days. Okay. Okay let's talk about the date. Why do you want to get to a hold of her so bad? Well, yeah.

So we went to this new, you know, tapas place downtown. And it's like, you know, one of those places where they serve you guys like a bunch of little dishes and you get to share them and which is, I think, perfect for a birthday because you get to see if the person likes to share or doesn't. It's a pretty classic first date move. I like it. Yeah. You know, we split it in there.

We had churros with chocolate sauce and I thought things were going really well. Like, like we're literally, you know, sharing a dessert. So like, I don't know, I thought that was a good sign. Yeah, I mean, you don't just share desserts with anybody, you know what I mean? It's kind of true. You know, after dinner, we kind of wandered around and there was like this alley near the restaurant and things got a little heated in the moment, you know, a

little handy. You know, the alley. Hot. Did she enjoy that? Yeah, I know it's kind of weird, but it's just like there was like the spark right away, you know, and like, you know, we weren't just

talking about small stuff. It felt like we were really connecting. So she was easy to talk to. How crazy did you get in the alley? Uh, you know, I guess you could say we got pretty caught up in it, you know, and you know, she's absolutely gorgeous. So yeah, like it got, definitely got a little heated. Why do you think she's ghosting you?

Honestly, you know, I really don't know know but I will say when we were in the alley like I'd get her a little and She gave me the little bit of a like, you know be gentle and you know At the time and I'm gonna go like a big deal like, you know I thought it was something maybe should be into but you know Maybe maybe she thought I was coming on to a death or something. How hard did you bite her lip? Not too hard. It was just a little, you know, little nibble.

Okay. So then after she was like, no, be gentle. And you were gentle. Was she responsive or did she feel kind of like, I don't know, worried about being bit again? No, after the little warning she gave me, like it was like right back at it. Honestly. Okay. Okay.

So then how did it end? How did your date end? Um, you know, I took her home and you know, I thought I'd see her again and that was, you know, that was about it. I mean, that, I mean, that was kind of the climax of the night there in the alley. But, Okay. And that's it. And that's the last thing you heard from her. I mean, what's the last thing she said to you? Honestly, offhand, I can't really remember but like usually she was like very responsive. You know, she usually has her phone on or even at work or something.

So like usually when I'm at stress she answers right back within, you know, moments and then just like out of nowhere it was just kind of um nothing. So she you felt like she wanted to see you again at the end of that? Yeah. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. So she you felt like she wanted to see you again at the end of that Yeah Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you Then we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she tells why she's ghosting you and maybe get you Another date. Okay Awesome. Thanks so much. Right first day follow-up is next. Have you ever wondered if your pet is lying to you?

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Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Daniel is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Reese. So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. First Daniel, why don't you catch us up on your date again? Yeah, basically it was, you know, one of the best first dates I've ever had in my life, if not the best. And like, you know, we went to the great tapas place I told you about and then like, uh,

if you, those are looking earlier, I kind of, uh, explain my experience. We had an alley that was, uh, very nice. You chewed on her lips. Well, minus that part, that was a little awkward, but, uh, other than that, uh, yeah, and then since then I haven't heard from her. Do you think the little lip bite is the reason that she's not calling you back? I sure hope not, but like, I just really don't know what else it is.

Well, I feel like it wouldn't have been that little of a bite if this is why. Yeah. I mean, like you, maybe you better harder than you think. I hope not. All right. Well, we'll find out. Are you ready for us to call her? Yeah.

All right. Here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Reese? Uh, speaking. Who is this? Hi Reese, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Hi Reese, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. How are you? I am great. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal. How are you? I am great. Sweet. Have you ever heard of the show before?

Yeah. Awesome. Well, guess what, Reese? We got an email about you from somebody. You don't say. You don't sound very surprised. Yeah, we do a segment called the first date follow-up. This is where if you go on a date with someone

and you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on-up is where if you go on a date with someone and you ghost them that person Can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So do you know who would email us? Yeah, I know exactly who it is it's a Daniel right Yes, it is Yeah, Daniel emailed us. He said he really likes you and thought you guys had a great time Can you tell us why you're ghosting him? Yeah, I'm ghosting him because he couldn't remember my name What do you mean like the whole time? No, okay. Like okay, so we had a great time at dinner

The makeout session was pretty great, too After we kissed, et cetera, he literally looked at his phone before saying goodnight to me. Like it was super obvious he had to check to see what my name was. So he like was saying goodnight and then looked down at his phone

and saw your name was like, oh goodnight, Reese? Yeah, like before he seen that you can't keep track of like, so like, come on. Hold on, hold on, hold on. I know your name. Oh. He resets Daniel.

He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Of course he is. I know your name. Come on now. I just was caught up in the moment. Caught up in the moment, really? Like you got to be caught up to remember my name.

That's like, wow, so impressive. I swear to God, like I was just nervous. Okay, you're just really cool. And you know, I didn't want to mess things up. All right. So you looked at your phone.

Yes, he did. He needed a phone to remember who he was talking to. Because I mean, I must be exhausting to remember things like that. Like, do you use it to remember how to tie your shoes? Like, come on. You know what? Honestly, you know what?

Time to do kind of hard when you got a brain like mine, you know, I'm using it all day at work and you know, you gotta save brain power for the important stuff. Am I right? That mean you would remember her name? Yeah, I guess remembering my name doesn't make the cut, you know, of the whole, seriously. I do remember her. You know what, what's your middle name?

Tell me that and I promise I'll remember your first and middle name. I don't know the middle name for anyone else. She's not talking about right now, she's talking about when you were on the date. Yeah. I'm not telling you my middle name, but like thanks though. Have you ever forgot somebody's name on a date Jubal?

Yeah. How did you have it? Really? I just didn't say their name again. Okay. The number was in my phone just as their number and I just never called them. Well, that's not helping the situation at all. You know, I didn't forget your name and it was just like I pulled out my phone because

it was like, I don't know, like it was time to say good night and things were a little awkward and just, I don't know, just the tick. I guess I have, you know, I just checked my phone. Like I'm going to the big deal. Kind of a moment of disconnect when you pull your phone out while you're on a date with somebody. Literally, like as we were saying good night, good night pulls out your phone and then just like looks at it.

Oh, good night, Reese. How many other girls are you dating that you don't have the memory space to remember one syllable name, Reese? Are you dating? No, like I, like I don't have a girlfriend or anything like that, but like honestly, yeah, like, you know, meeting people online and stuff, it kind of sucks. Like you go on a ton of first dates and like none of them are as good as like our first

date. So it's like, oh poor you. I'll be honest. So you did forget then? It's like, like I didn't know her name. I just maybe I stumbled on it, but it's not like I didn't know her name or like thought she was somebody else. Like,

Reese, would you feel better if he admitted it? Yeah, a little bit. I wouldn't feel better, but at least he could be honest. I don't know. I think to me there's a difference of like not knowing your name and like, you know, just kind of having a brain fart after, you know, being nervous and stuff. Like it's like, sometimes you forget your own birthday. Like if you ever had that happen, like you're like, Oh, or you don't know what year it is. Like, come on now.

Like that kind of stuff happens to everyone. First of all, I didn't forget your name, but like, I remember tons of stuff about you. Like I know that you're going to school to be a vet tech and I I remember, you know, your birthday, like right before Christmas on how it sucks to have like a birthday so close to Christmas. And like, I remember like all kinds of stuff. It's in September. And plus I'm not even going to school to be a vet tech. I completed school, but I'm in marketing. Sounds like you guys, you see why I ghosted him?

Yeah. Yeah. Daniel, you need to like ginkgo biloba. Is that the one that you're supposed to take for memory? Would I go on a date with? I wanted to be a vet tech. Well, Reese, would you like another day with Daniel? It might be a whole new first date for him.

We'll pay for it. You know what, you know if you can't remember who you're talking to or you need your phone to remember someone's name I think I'm good like plus like when we were kissing he like bit my lip way too hard so the fact that he can't remember my name and he by part I might need to go see I might I might I might no no that wasn't the reason I might need to go to the vet tech you're talking about because I might have rabies. What's that Daniel? I told you guys it was about the lip biting this has nothing to do with my memory like

she said she's gotta go to the vet tech. It was about the lip biting thing oh my god. If you ever remember that if you ever remember like a bet text name send me her number because i might have rabies from you so whatever oh who is that jubil's first date follow-up have you ever wondered if your pet is lying to you why is my cat not here and i go in and she's eating my lunch or if hypnotism is real, or what's inside a black hole. We have answers for you in the new iHeart original podcast, Science Stuff. Join me, or Hitcham, as we answer questions about animals, space, our brains, and our

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