First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Riley ghosting Alex?

Episode Date: March 24, 2025

They had an AMAZING date! It was an underground concert. Very cool. But Riley is now ghosting Alex. Let's see if we can get him a second date. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. Brought to you by Novartis founding partner of I Heart Women Sports Network. First date of follow up powered by the advocates, injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Alex is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So in a second we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first Alex, how long has it been since you heard from Riley? It's been about 10 days. OK, not that you're counting. I was going to say.

How have you how many times have you reached out to her in that time? I've seen a few texts, but it's it's been nothing crazy. OK, well, tell us about the date. Yeah, well, we went to an underground concert and it was so much fun. Oh, that's cool. I thought it would be. Yeah. Yeah. It was, it was in like the basement of the back of this. It was actually, it was pretty cool. Yeah. And I thought it was going to be like this perfect combination of low pressure,

but still lots of fun, you know? And-hmm. And we had a few drinks. We were vibing in the music and she was even dancing a little bit. And I got to say, she's like super cool, too. Like, she doesn't even have to try. She's one of those people. She's just so cool. And she knows her music.

She wasn't just like, oh, I like everything. She had opinions. And I respect that, you know? Yeah, yeah. And then the night ended with us grabbing some late-night pizza and There was a kiss and it was in the moment and the music was still in the background and everything But I it was kind of cinematic it felt like it was right out of Feels really good to hear guys romanticize these kisses, too

That's it felt like it was perfect. Okay. Well, what do you think is the reason she's ghosting you then? I might be overthinking it, but I might've gotten a little bit too into the concert. Like, what does that mean though? Going to like a mosh pit? Well, kind of. I mean, like I jumped up on the stage, but like the band invited me.

They were like, who's ready to rock? And I just just I took initiative you know. You're like I am sir and then they actually get up on the stage with them. That's cool. Yeah yeah and and then maybe there was like I also there was this one moment that I spilled my drink on a guy who like definitely looked like he could throw me across the room. Okay. So it was a pretty pretty big guy, pretty big guy, but I, that's all I can think about. I mean, like I said, I think I'm overthinking it. Something happened because of the spilling the drink or.

I mean, the guy just looks kind of angry, but like, I don't know. He, he, like I said, he was a pretty big guy. Like he was kind of intimidating. So I did, I backed off easily, but it was. So no altercation. No, no, no. Okay. That's why maybe she wanted you to altercation. No, no, no. Okay. That's why maybe she wanted you to fight him.

Some people are like that. You're joking, but there are some people like that and that's a red flag though. So for you though, um, what was she doing while you were on stage? Um, I, I dunno, I kind of lost her in the crowd at that point. I, I was kind of, you know, it was like adrenaline was high, lost in the moment type thing. She became a peasant. Yeah. She's one of the people in the crowd. No, I wanted her to come up. I thought she was going to come up with me, but she didn't. Okay. So then, well, you said you kissed. Okay. Who did it first? You or her? I mean, it was, it was, I felt like, I think it was mutual. You know, it was like that moment

where it was like, like the conversation kind of died and it kind mutual you know it was like that moment where it was like like the conversation kind of died And it kind of like it was like a moment. We were just kind of looking at each other's eyes for a second Yeah, you know what was the last thing she said to you? She said she had a great night, and that she she would want to see me again, so I okay I really don't know what's going on all right Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you Then we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay?

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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Alex is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Riley. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and see if we can get him another date if he still wants one after he hears the reason why. But first, Alex, remind us about your date again. Yeah. Well, I took her to an underground concert sort of thing I thought it would be fun and we had a great time like she was dancing. We we really hit it off. It felt like we even Just at the end of the night. She said she wanted to see me again But I don't know. I've been going over my mind maybe why she hasn't reached out again or responded and there was just a couple incidents like I jumped up on stage after they invited me and

I don't know. I was just vibing. I was having a good time, but I was super into it and it seemed like she was really into it too. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. Um, are you ready for us to call her? Yeah. Okay. Here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Riley? This is Riley.

Hey Riley. How are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi Riley Riley? This is Riley. Hey Riley, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi Riley. My name is Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How's it going?

No, this is some kind of joke, right? No. Have you listened to the show before? I haven't. I'm sorry. That's fine. No, it's fine. Well, don't worry about it.

Maybe now you'll check it out because you're actually on the show. We do a segment on the show, it's called the first date follow up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So can you think of anybody who would email us about you? I'm going to guess, is it Alex? You are correct! Yeah Alex emailed us and told us about your date he said it's been like 10 days and he hasn't heard anything from you he's confused because he thought you really liked him and even at the end of

your date you said you wanted to see him again. Oh my god, of course Alex. That's it. Something like this. Yeah, I ghosted him Why yeah, can you tell us Much I couldn't I couldn't deal with him anymore. He was so embarrassing. Why was he embarrassing? So he took me to this concert and like he just like full on jumped on stage and like tried to take the mic. Like the band had to stop. He told us about that and he said that the band like asked him to get on stage. No, it was not like he was not like Courtney Cox.

Like they didn't like pull him up out of the crowd. Like he like jumped on the stage on his own and tried to take the mic from the singer and they had to stop. He didn't have the stage. That's not how he explained it to us at all. He must have been a little confused. I like the different stories.

He said that they saw him having fun and they were like, get up on stage with us. No, like he said, dude, like maybe like some others, like maybe they were talking to some like cute girl or like he just went for it like they were not wanting him on the stage. Oh that's funny. Oh, maybe he was standing next to some hot girl and got confused. He didn't tell us that they kicked him off the stage.

Yeah, like security had to like escort him off the stage. Oh, yeah, we missed that part. Okay that is that the reason you're ghosting him? Yeah, well, it was just yeah He just had like no awareness like it was just everything I feel like it was just like so embarrassing Hey, can I say something now? Yeah. Yes, you can Alex. Hey Riley. That's Alex He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you Hey Riley, that's Alex. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you He is he's on the phone right now, yeah, that was him he wants to say something now

Yeah, so I just want to clarify that nobody nobody helped me. I mean nobody nobody kicked me off the stage They just helped me off the stage They like escorted you back I Don't know what concert you were at, Riley, because that's not what happened. The security guard literally gave me his hand to help me down. I'm sure it was just the safety thing. I can picture that. No, that's not.

That's not what happened. Like, are you you crazy? Like they literally like escorted you on the stage. Like they just stopped the song To get you off stage. They didn't stop. They didn't have to stop. They just wanted What are you talking about they asked us to leave like we got like kicked out Got pizza Weren't kicking us out. They asked us to leave because like I was up on the stage.

People were going to start swarming me for autographs. For autographs? Her pictures. Oh, that's funny. Yeah. I mean the crowd went crazy when I went up there. They went crazy because they were mad you interrupted the show. That's not how I.

Maybe they thought someone was going to murder you. How are you confusing this? The security guard said you guys are 86. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. You cannot come up here. That's not

Sounds like you got kicked out. Yeah, how'd you miss that one? That's not how I thought we did Listen I mean he and I that me and that security guard, we like fist-pumped on the way in. I thought we were buddies. I thought he was just kidding around. They fist-pumped everyone. Well, Riley, would you like another day with Alex? We'll pay for it.

No, no, thank you. I mean, I know everyone wants to go go viral but not for the wrong reason. Well that really sucks because I thought we were really vibing together the whole concert. Well, I'm sorry I guess that just shows like how unaware you are. Okay, well, that's your loss I guess. No autographs for you. Ha ha ha! ["The First Date Follow-Up"] Jubal's first date follow-up. Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You.

This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Geminis because you know you always like them. More of you finding Gemini is because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.

Prohibition is synonymous with speakeasies, jazz, flappers, and of course, failure. I'm Ed Helms, and on Season 3 of my podcast, Snafu, there's a story I couldn't wait to tell you. It's about an unlikely duo in the 1920s who tried to warn the public that Prohibition was going to backfire so badly, it just might leave thousands dead from poison. Listen and subscribe to Snafu on the iHeartRad app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. My husband cheated on me with two women! He wants to stay together because he has cancer.

Should I stay? Okay Sam, that has to be the craziest story in OK Storytime podcast history. Well John, that's because it's dumpin' week, and this user writes, Last week we had an attempted break-in. I asked my husband, who was supposed to be at his mom's, to come over and change the locks, but his mom told me he wasn't with her. And it took me less than an hour to find the first two women he was cheating on me with.

Did you leave him? Well, to find out how this story ends, follow the OK Storytime podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. What's up, y'all? I'm AJ Andrews, pro softball player, sports analyst, and the first woman to win a Rawlings Gold Glove.

On my new podcast, Dropping Diamonds, we dive headfirst into the world of softball players, sports analysts, and the first woman to win a Rawlings Gold Glove. On my new podcast, Dropping Diamonds, we dive headfirst into the world of softball by sharing powerful stories, insights, and conversations that inspire and empower. It's time to drop bombs and diamonds. Dropping Diamonds with AJ Andrews is an iHeart women's sports production in partnership with Athletes Unlimited Softball League and D-Flu Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Dropping Diamonds with AJ Andrews on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.