First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Ruby ghosting Evan?

Episode Date: April 2, 2025

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So in a few minutes, we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Evan, how long has it been since you heard from Ruby? Um, it's been about four days. Okay, that's too bad. Yeah. Have you hit her up a bunch in that time? Uh, I did try a couple of times. Yeah. Um, I don't know what to do with it, but reached out and definitely got nothing back. Okay. And you feel like that's weird. Like you feel like four days is a long time.

You did not hear from her. Yeah, we were kind of hitting it off. So it is out of the ordinary. Well tell us about your date. Well Ruby and I went to a rooftop bar and you know, it had the best view of the city. It was, it was her idea actually. Um, it was super cool, you know, um, can't really beat it for a first date, just great, uh, great place to grab drinks, um, shared a charcuterie

board and, um, you know, our conversation was just really easy, natural vibe was laid back and, um, plenty of kind of flirty moments. She's hilarious. You know, we're making each other laugh the whole night and they were just sparked, you know, the kind you can't fake. We ended up taking a walk after and because we were both little bugs and before we said good night, there were a few kisses and yeah, you know, it's just a kind of date you'd never want to stop. Okay. Well, why do you think you're getting ghosted then?

Honestly, really confused. You know, we were texting nonstop for, for two days after. So things were, you know, they felt promising and then nothing. It just stopped. So wait, you went on the date and you ended up hearing from her after the date? Yeah. After the day for about two days. And then it stopped. Right.

Could it be something you texted? Um, I don't think so. I mean, I don't think it was. I did text her a pic of me like in the bathroom with a towel on as a tease. Like I thought it would be harmless. That may have been it. Okay. Is that the last time you heard from her? Um, I believe so.

Um, I'd be tripping if I got ghosted after that. She was teasing me about having abs. Uh, so I just decided to show her, you know, I don't know, maybe it was too much. It wasn't like a piece of cake or anything. Do you have abs or were you joking around being like, check out mine, but you don't have them, you know? I have abs, yeah. I mean, just wanted to prove myself.

Okay, that could be it. So it was a selfie. Yeah. I mean, if you stopped talking to you right after that, then that probably, it probably has something to do with that. I don't know. I mean, I don't think it was that bad or racy or anything, but what did you say when you sent the picture of yourself in a towel? Nothing much.

I just, I think I put like a little blurb, like, you know, here proof or something like along those lines. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can help you out then. I mean, it is kind of strange that she would stop talking to you right after that. So that might be the reason, but we'll play a song, come back and see if we can get you a second date in your first day follow-up next.

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if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Ruby, so we're about to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghost ghosting him and hopefully get him a second date but first Evan why don't you break down your date for us one more time. Yeah we had a lot of great moments on our date. Marks flew everything was perfect. I thought we had a connection and you know two days after the date I've not heard from her.

And the last thing that you sent her was Let's not forget this part a picture of yourself in the bathroom and a towel. I did send her my abs All right. Well, are you ready to see if that's the reason you're getting ghosted? Yeah, let's do it. Okay. Here we go I'm gonna call her right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Ruby please? This is Ruby. Hey Ruby, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi Ruby, my name is Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubal. How are you? what's called the Jubal show. Hi Ruby, my name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubal, how are you? Okay, I'm good. Sweet, have you ever listened to the show before? I have.

Dope, thank you. Well, what if I told you that you were the star of a first date follow-up right now? Oh God. Yeah, we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting and they don't know why. You know who would email us? I'm pretty sure it's probably Evan. You're very smart Ruby. Yes it is Evan. Evan told us about your date said that he really liked you and thought you guys had an awesome time but you texted

for a little while after and then you just ghosted him, and he wants to know what's up. Would you mind telling us? I mean, like, look, I really, I thought Evan was great, and we had an amazing time, but then after my date, my friend showed me something, and it just, it kind of killed the vibe for me. Okay, what was it?

Okay, so I texted my friend a picture of Evan when we were on the date, because she wanted food to look like. And then the next night, she sent me a picture of him with some other girl, like literally the night after we went on the date. And then he was at another bar and they were making out. No, no, no, no, you got it wrong.

Ruby, that's Evan. He's actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Oh my God. I mean like, yeah, okay. I guess I knew this was coming. Oh man. Hi. Hi.

Look, you've got it all wrong. It's not. No, no, no, no. And you were literally in the picture. I mean, it's not hard to recognize someone when you were just right there, you know? Oh, okay. Yeah, it happens. But it's not what you think.

Like she's someone I've been hooking up with for a while and I was gonna tell her it was over because I wanted to focus on you that night and I just, I didn't get to it yet. So you were with someone else right after your date making out with her. Technically, yeah. Again, you were just with me and then you just go make out with someone else.

I mean, I understand people date multiple people, but it just, it felt wrong to me. I swear, I swear I'm done with her. I'm not seeing anyone else. I like you. I was going to tell her that the next day, but it was like, it wasn't like that anymore. Like you're the one that I want to date. Did you tell her that?

I told her it just, I mean, I wouldn't want to see a picture of the dude that I just want an amazing date with mixed, like messing around with somebody else. Again, like she said, I get people are dating other people, but if, I don't know, I wouldn't feel good about that either. I just would have too many questions. Yeah. Like are you just saying that like you want to date me or like did you hook up with her that night?

You know, that's just how it felt to me. Did you hook up with her? Yeah, but it was like, it was just like a last, like last round type of thing. I swear. I told her about you at that point and that was the last time. You told her after you hooked up. You hooked up with her after you told her about me? Like seriously?

No, I told her about you after I hooked up with her. Evan's at least truthful. Yeah, that's true. Okay, so you hooked up with her after you told her about me, like, seriously? No, I hooked up with her and then I told her about you. But that's because things felt so different with you. Like, we've been on one date. It's not like I cheated on you or anything. I was just, I was trying to do the right thing.

I mean, it would have been better if you told her before and didn't. OK, I get that, but it was, you know, I was just kind of desperate and sad. I didn't get to see you and, you know, I was just trying to break things off and it didn't go as smoothly as I hoped it would. I mean, if we were to date and you didn't see me, you can't hook up with other people.

I'm not trying to do that. I swear. It's kind of tricky because he kind of does have a point. He is trying to do the right thing. Like he didn't cheat on anybody and she's out of the picture now. Ruby, would you like to go on a second date with Evan? We'll pay for it. I mean, Evan, are there any other people I need to know about?

I mean, yeah, well, yes, but I'm going to text them and let them know I'm not available via text. I'm not going to meet up with know I'm not available. Via text, I'm not gonna meet up with them. I will show you the text. What do you think Ruby? It sounds like you're serious. Yeah. I mean, like honestly, we did just go on one date and it was like a really, really good date.

But I swear to God, Evan, if any of my friends send me more pictures of you out with other women, you're going to wish that I was just ghosting you. They will be way worse. I promise you will never see that again. Uh, I don't want to ever meet that side of you again. Okay, sure. All right. We'll go out again. Are you happy? Yeah. Thank you.

You're welcome. Jubals first date follow up. We live in a divided country and our media couldn't be more polarizing. That's why we started The Middle with Jeremy Hobson. It's about bringing voices not from the extremes, but from the vast middle into the national conversation. Each week we hear from ordinary Americans from all over the country. And when you subscribe to the middle, you also get an episode each week called

one thing Trump did that focuses on just one item from the avalanche of news. Listen to the middle with Jeremy Hobson on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. From the producers who brought you Princess of South Beach comes a new podcast, The Setup. The Setup follows a lonely museum curator, but when the perfect man walks into his life. Well, I guess I'm saying I like you.

You like me? He actually is too good to be true. This is a con. I'm conning you to get the Dilana painting. We can do this together. Listen to The Setup on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey y'all, it's your girl Cheekys and I'm back with a brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheekys and Chill. I'll be sharing brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheeky's and Chill. I'll be sharing even more personal stories with you guys. And as always, you'll get my exclusive take on topics

like love, personal growth, health, family ties and more. And don't forget, I'll also be dishing out my best advice to you on episodes of Dear Cheeky's. It's going to be an exciting year and I hope that you can join me. Listen to Cheeky's and Chill, season 4, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You have to be very careful with tradition because sometimes tradition is just dead people's baggage.

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