First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Serena ghosting Damien? And nudity?

Episode Date: February 11, 2025

Well this one is a bit of a ride. Damien is getting ghosted by Serena, and we really want to find out why.  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com======This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts======The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. First date follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Damien is on the phone today for a first date follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Serena. So we're going to see if we can find out why and maybe get him another date if he still wants one after he finds out why. Damian, what's up man thank you for your email. Before we get into your date how long has it been since you talked to Serena? It's been about two weeks.

About two weeks. That's kind of sweet spot you know you start to really panic at the two week point. Yeah I didn't want to like rush or anything but I am I am once I when I heard y'all were looking for you know things like this I was didn't want to like rush or anything. But I am, I am once I, when I heard y'all were looking for, you know, things like this, I was like, I want to try and reach out. Okay. Well, tell us a little bit about Serena and why you think you're getting ghosted. Like honestly, I think I'm a pretty self-aware guy and I am puzzled as to what's going on because we went, I took her on a date to a wine bar. And first of all, actually she is a friend

of a coworker of mine. And so we took her to a wine bar and it was pretty casual. I thought we had great conversation. And let me just say she is absolutely stunning. She's beautiful. But more importantly, I just thought that she was really intriguing and she was a little shy. I could tell she was a little nervous, but overall I thought the date went really well

and I was surprised when she just left in the middle of it. She just left in the middle of your date? Yes. Like she went to the bathroom and was just gone. I'd say probably like we were three quarters of the way through the state and I thought everything was going like wonderful. And then all of a sudden she's just gone. That it seemed like something had happened?

I did notice that like something came up and she was like, it looked like maybe like halfway through she got a text or something and something looked a little frantic. So maybe something came up, but and now she's like maybe too shy to reach out or something, but yeah, I mean like, she was kind of texting a bunch and then we talked a little bit more. She went to the restroom and then she was gone.

I mean, either you really sucked in her mind or, you know, something did, did happen. I will be the first to admit, you know, like my bad, but I really don't think that's the case. If you're running out on somebody, how do you redeem yourself after that? I just hope something like came up. I asked my friend about it too and He said he hasn't heard from them and I'm not really sure what's going on. Huh? Yeah, it must have been something then With the with the phone or the text message. Yeah, did it seem like she was distracted? I mean was you know was she? Getting a lot like did it look like an emergency happened is what I mean? Did it look like there was something she was paying attention to so much on her phone where all of a sudden she just had to go?

It was an emergency. She played it off pretty well. But I will say like the first like, you know, hour or so like we were talking and she wasn't really on her phone at all. And then she started like getting on her phone a bunch. And so like that was like noticeable. But it didn't, I don't know, it didn't seem like it was necessarily anything too crazy to the point where like, you know, she went to the bathroom and then I was there for another 45 minutes before I was like, I think she's gone. Oh, wow. Okay, that's weird. That's gotta be awkward. Yeah. I'm sorry. Do you mean that's like worse than ghosting. You got like, what is it called when you're

leaving the middle of the day? Ditched? Yeah. Yeah. I would have thought like at least a heads up or something, but I don't know. Yeah, that would be a common courtesy. So since that happened, how many times

have you tried to reach out to her? You know, I texted her a couple of times, really just like early on, like maybe a week ago. But I haven't wanted to like blow her up or anything like that. So I just kind of let it be. And I've still been thinking about it. So that's why I reached out to you. I'd be more worried at this point than anything else because that's just too strange. Yeah.

I mean, I am kind of worried. I mean, like I guess I'm worried about her, but you know, I'm also like, is there something wrong with me? I would want to know. Right. All right. I guess I'm worried about her, but I'm also like, is there something wrong with me? Like what's going on? Yeah, I would want to know. Yeah, there's that too, right. All right, well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, and if you're just joining us, Damien is on the phone, and Damien is getting more than ghosted by Serena. He actually got ditched in the middle of his date by Serena and he doesn't know why. Damien, before we call her to see if we can figure it out, just refresh everybody's memory. Run down real quick how your date went.

Yeah, my friend set me up with a date. We went to a wine bar and she was awesome and we had a great time or we were having a great time. And then about an hour in, I noticed that like she started, I guess she got a text message or something and started maybe freaking out a little bit. And a little after that went to the restroom and never came back.

Been trying to hit her up and that's when I reached out to y'all. And that was it, like no response. I just wanna know what it was. Me too. All right, we're about to call her Damien, you ready? Yeah, I'm ready. All right. We're about to call her, Damien. You ready? Yeah, I'm ready.

All right. Here we go. Hello? Hi. May I speak to Serena? And this is Shane. Hey, Serena. How are you?

This is Jubel from the Jubel show. It's a radio show. Hi, Serena. My name is Nina. I'm here too. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show.

I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk to you about the radio show. I'm here to talk are you? This is Jubal from the Jubal Show, it's a radio show. Hi Serena, my name's Nina. I'm here too. Nina Serena, see we could be friends. Hi, I'm Victoria. So there's three people on the phone with you right now.

Oh wow, okay, hi. Are you familiar with the show at all? Um, a little bit, yeah. Have you ever heard the segment that we do called A First Date Follow-Up before? Oh gosh. Um, you mean Jack? Oh, um.

So we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Have you ran out on a date recently? Oh, oh my gosh. A little more than ghosting. Oh, this is, okay more than ghostly. This is horrifying. This is like the worst case scenario. Damien emailed us and he

is wondering what he did, like why you just ran out on your date with him. Oh no. Okay. Okay, just breathe. Let's breathe really quick together, Serena. Okay.

Oh, I'm so embarrassed. Oh my gosh. Okay. No, it had nothing to do with Jamie. I mean, he's there. I mean, he's not there, but he can hear me, I guess. It had nothing to do with him. So you have heard a few of these first day follow ups then?

Yeah, no I have. I can tell because you know that he's on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Let's not put the pressure on yet. I feel like let's let him listen. I agree. Before we put him on. Yeah. No, it had nothing to do with him. It's just really embarrassing. I was really excited about this date. My friend

works with Damien. So I really wanted to look nice and I don't really have a lot of, you know, like nice dress up stuff. So I borrowed some clothes from her and it was like a really low cut body suit. Cute. Yeah, it was, it was cute. I couldn't tell it wasn't. What does that mean? At one point I reached like to get some water

and it like fell open and I had like I had a wardrobe malfunction. Oh, a little slippy slip. Like a nip slip. Yeah. A little peekaboo. Um, I know, I know he saw it. Like I know he looked straight at me and I was just, it was way more than I'm not like that. I didn't, I don't dress up like that at all. Then I sure don't, you know, strip. I was mortified. So I started texting my roommate about, I mean, I can't believe that you made me wear this. And now I'm, you know, I just, I look like a stripper and so I just excuse myself to the bathroom and then I couldn't just couldn't come back to the table

I was just so embarrassed that I knew he's seen me, you know You're sure he saw you. I Know he saw me like he smiled, you know, he smiled at me I mean, I'm she was playing it off that I was just horrible This is definitely an embarrassing moment just to make you feel better really quickly, just to know that you're not alone. I have actually split my pants on a date wide open in the back and I was wearing a thong and it was completely visible to the point that he had to go to his car to get me a hoodie

to tie around my waist and I was wearing a nice outfit to make sure people didn't see my butt. So you're not alone this kind of stuff. It happens. This is your first date. Like even if it was your first date though, I find it hard press to believe that most people would judge somebody for that on a first date. Right.

This happens. It's an accident. Well, what if it happened to you Jubal? Let's pretend that you were single and you went on a date with somebody and all of a sudden they had a little oopsie. Right. Are you cool with that? Yeah.

Yeah. And not in a pervy way. Sure. Right. But I would try to make them, I would actually look at it as an opportunity like, watch, I'm going to show her how understanding I am and then maybe I'll get to see him for real later. You know?

I don't know why I asked that question. You know, Julie would be like, it's okay. Pulls his pants down in the cold restaurant. Well, maybe we should talk to Damien. Yeah. Let's see if he even saw it. Serena, you already know he's on the other line listening. So we'll just bring him on.

Damien. Hey Serena. Hey. Yeah, I just want to go ahead and like clear the area. I had no idea that this happened. Like honest to God, I had no idea. I know you said that I like smiled and played it off, but like, I don't know if like, I just wasn't looking like, I feel like that's something I would have noticed, but I swear to God, I had no idea that that happened. Oh my gosh. Does that make you feel better?

Serena? Yes. Yeah. I mean it does. I'm sorry that I left. I just, I was mortified. I just, I just wanted the words to like swallow me up. I was so horrified by it. And I also just want to say that, um, I thought that you looked like fantastic in that jumpsuit. You looked incredible that night. Oh, well, thank you. I'll never be wearing it again, but thank you. Yeah, like I really had no idea. And I thought I'd like I sat there puzzled like when I finally realized you weren't coming

back, I was like, man, what did I do that like really screwed up the state? Because I thought it was I thought it was going really well. I thought we really connected. No, it really was. And it's just me. It was just me. I was just, I couldn't, I felt like I couldn't come back from that. And I'm really sorry.

I should have, I should have said something, but I honestly felt like I couldn't even, I couldn't even go back to the table after that. No, that's okay. I get it. I'm sure that's, yeah, that'd be really, really tough to like try and cover up if you thought that's what was going on. And I, yeah, I, I get it. You see, that's what I've noticed about, especially when things like that happen, people are self-conscious about it because they know what happened.

Yeah. But most of the time people aren't even checking for it and they didn't see it. At all. Yeah. Yeah. I didn't know what to say. Hey, Serena, would you like another date with Damien? Now that you know he didn't see it at all yeah yeah i didn't know what to say hey serena would you like another date with damien now that you know he didn't see it and it wasn't awkward for him because he didn't even see it at all and um he's also really liked you and is wondering why you ran out that would be great absolutely sweet damien

yeah that sounds great yeah let's uh let's we go maybe like we'll go walk in the park and we can wear big sweatshirts or something so we don't have to worry about it, you know Thank you You're so cute Serena Thank you I feel so much better. I'm so sorry, Damon. I'm really not like that. I'm not, I'm not just... It's all good. I'm looking forward to another day. I am too. Thank you so much for giving me another chance. Jubil's first date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney online at advocateslaw.com.

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