First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Terica Ghosting Remi?

Episode Date: May 13, 2025

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he's getting ghosted by Terrica so in a minute we're gonna call her and see if she tells why she's ghosting and maybe get another date but first Remy how long has it been since you heard from Terrica? It's been about two weeks now. Okay have you reached out to her? I mean I mean, at first I was reaching out, but no, I've kind of gotten the point and, you know, fell back recently. But why don't you tell us about your date? Yeah, sure. So we went out to a steak place in town. I really like. And then, um, after that, we went out for a fro yo and then we even went out to a little dive bar I really like after that so I don't know it was a great night you know you know we met up around 7 and you know

by the time I dropped her off it was you know almost already night so great night a lot of fun. This is always weird to me when you go to three different locations and then you get ghosted because at that point you have a pretty good feeling that like this person wants to spend time with you like you had it out two different times did you feel like she was super nice? Yeah she was super nice I like you know we talked a while before even our first date and like I don't know we're both vibing really good together and yeah just really weird that she didn't tell me anything was wrong so could it be like work or family related that she's not like something's going on in her personal life? Yeah, I mean she's she's home like she really had her stuff together

But you know it's definitely possible she'll get this kind of busy, but you know like I said it's been a couple weeks So I figured if she wanted to go on another date. Maybe she would have answered me, but Really at least you know want to know why During the date Remy did she give you feelings that she liked you? Did she say that? Or is there something that could have possibly happened that would have made the date kind of take a turn? Yeah, I don't know. Like, so I guess the one thing is I was making like kind of some suggestive comments, like, you know, because things were going so well, like, you know, how much I like her and stuff. And it seemed like those feelings were kind

of reciprocated. but I don't know maybe I pushed too hard like that's the only thing I could really think of. But like what did you say? What direction were you pushing? Like oh I really like you, I can't wait till we get married? Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, no, nothing like that but just like oh you know, oh next time I'll have to do this and you know things like that like you know kind of you know you know insinuating that you know this one would be the only you know date

Yeah, you can't think of anything awkward that happened or any reason that you'd be getting ghosted Yeah, I don't know like I don't know maybe I wasn't dressed right like I was wearing like corduroy pants or something Maybe she was judging me on that. I don't know I was wearing like corduroy pants or something. Maybe she was judging me on that. I don't know Corduroy pants corduroy's are in now so Okay, so maybe you were getting judged on How tight were they Okay, all right Well, we'll see if that is the issue

We'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and then maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay? Alright, awesome. Appreciate it. So we'll play a song, come back, and get your first date followed up next. Yo, Kpop fans! It's your boy, BOMHUN, and I'm bringing you something epic. Introducing the K Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-pop.

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So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Terika. So in a second, we're going to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Remy, why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Terika? So yeah, we went out to a steak place. We had frozen yogurt. You know, we went to a dive bar, you know, all together. We were together probably for about five hours. It was a great date. You know, I texted her a few times after the date, but now it's been about two weeks. Haven't heard from her.

Don't know if she was judging me on my corduroy pants or some of the comment I was making, you know, hoping that we wouldn't be our only date or anything like that. And yeah, I'd just really like to hear from her again or at least find out why I haven't heard from her. Okay, cool. You ready for us to call her?

Hell yeah. Okay, here we go. Okay, cool. You ready for us to call her? Oh, yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, I speak to Terika, please. This is she. Hey, Terika, how are you?

My name is Jubal and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Terika. I mean, I'm also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria You listen to the show ever We do a segment on the show called the first date follow-up Where if you go on a date with somebody and ghost them that person emails us to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them Okay so Emails us to call you up and ask why you're ghosting them Okay So she thinks that parts money. We got yeah, we got an email about you

Okay, it's from a dude named Remy Yep, are you ghosting Remy? Um Can I say yes and no Okay, yeah, would you might explain to us what that means though I Um, can I say yes and no? Okay. Yeah. Would you mind explaining to us what that means though? I guess like I definitely put off messaging him back. I'll put it that way.

I put off messaging him back. So he's not totally ghosted yet. It's just delayed. It just mailed him a letter at this point. It sounds funny. It wasn't anything like I I literally just got thrown off. That was that was it.

Like it wasn't like anything. I was just thrown off. OK, so I couldn't stop thinking about what happened when we went to get frozen yogurt. Like, so I don't know what happened, but like, he, he like, became like a monster in that pro-yo shop. Like he added everything that they had available for toppings

and stuff. And he went bonkers. Like he added everything like cookies and gummy bears and sprinkles and the chocolate syrup and the strawberry. Yeah, it sounds like he was having a good time at the frozen yogurt shop. Yeah, it sounds like something I do too. I know he's in was saying 40 bucks at those places. I mean, toppings are so good. I don't understand the problem.

It's hard to choose just one. Right. Well, it was my thought process, but I was like, I was like weirded out. I was like, okay, this thing is going to weigh 40 pounds. And I just like, have you never been to one of these places? Like is this first time out of the house? Like I was very confused. So I just, I guess I thought about it like way too much.

And then I was like, well, I'll get back to him. You know, I was still in my head. And then I completely forgot to get back to him. Okay. That sounds like something Victoria would do. Yeah, 100%. Obviously you're judging him on having so many toppings. Does that, does that tell you something about his character or you're just really not sure how somebody can mix cookies and gummy bears together?

I'm not really understanding how this was like an ick for you Like a lot like I think I was just stunned It was kind of like a train wreck kind of thing. I was just watching it. I'm like I just can't I can't stop thinking about it. I know Okay, let me ask you this Terika. This will help me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt? Oh Okay, let me ask you this, Terrica. This will help me understand. What do you put on your frozen yogurt? Oh, well, like the flavors coordinate.

Like I'll do like, you know, two, three flavors that like all make sense together. But no toppings? I'll do some toppings, but I'll do like, oh, like let's do like a strawberry and a chocolate with like some fresh strawberries on it or something like that. That makes sense.

Like I do a couple things and yeah. No, no, I get it. Now her closet is like it's color coordinated. 100%. It is actually. Yeah, see, that's okay. It's nicer.

I just needed to understand. Ah, okay. Why the chaos was throwing her. So chaos is a good word for it. Yeah. That's the reason that you're ghosting him is because of the toppings on his fro yo.

I was just kind of picturing, you know, how like there's those people at the like soda fountains that they get like a splash of every single flavor in the cup. Like that always goes on mine. Okay, I do that too. What? Yeah. Are you serious? It's called the Nina.

I understand. You called it your name? It's like Nina-Aid, you know, like lemonade. But it's like, anyways. I don't know. Terrica, thank you for telling us. I should also let you know that Remy is on anyways, Terrica. Thank you for telling us. I should also let you know that Remy is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

So, yeah, I guess I kind of like, you could say a fruit punch of frozen yogurt. Like you've heard of the kid in the candy store. Well, I'm like the man in the fro deal place. Like I just can't make up my mind. So I guess maybe I didn't want to hold on the date. So I've decided I just did a little bit of everything. Sorry about that.

I don't think you need to apologize. I don't know. You found it pretty offended, so. OK, so I want clarification. I'm so sorry. I was't know. You found it pretty offended. So. I was. OK, so clarification. I'm so sorry. I was not offended. I was just blown away. Like my mind is blown. Like, I don't think I had the power to think after that. You know, maybe sometime I could go out for pizza or something.

But, you know, I like to order a lot of topics on those too. I was going to say, like, how many topics go on your pizza? Like, are you one of those people that puts like garlic and peanut butter or something? No, but maybe some sausage and pineapple and green pepper and onion and Canadian bacon and taco and you know, pepperoni and black olives, green olives. So not too many mushrooms olives so not too many mushrooms But yeah, so it was just a pro yo, huh?

It's really kind of fun around here from you. Oh So it was just a Froyo, huh? Like, I was really kind of disappointed when I didn't hear from you. Oh, like, I wasn't really like ghosting you because of it. I just got in my head about it. And then I honestly, I meant to get back to you and then I just didn't. Like, that's it.

Like, I wish I had a better excuse. I wish I had a clever excuse. And I have nothing. So it was just. Would you like to go out with Remy again? We'll pay for it. I mean, we'll pay for most of it. I don't know how much is Froyo costs if you guys get Froyo, but we'll pay for it.

I mean, I guess the bigger question is like, is he willing to go out with me? That's fair. Yeah, you know that pizza with the 20 toppings is sounding pretty good now. So that'd be awesome. Well, I mean, if you want a third date, just don't get the 20 topping pizza. I want you to be good. Jubal's first date follow-up. Yo, K-pop fans, are you ready?

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host of the podcast, Are You a Charlotte? Sarah Jessica Parker is here, and she is sharing stories from the very beginning, like the time she forgot we filmed the pilot episode. I remember some things about shooting the pilot. Right. I have some memories I can fill you in.

And that you're going to fill me in. Yes. But then you forgot about it. I completely forgot about it. In the very long time they took to pick us up. Listen to Are You a Charlotte? on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I think it's a sign of great mental health to acknowledge the dark wolf inside you. It's Mental Health Aware awareness month and on a recent episode of The One You Feed, Josh Radner from How I Met Your Mother joins us to talk about fame, self-acceptance, aging, and finding peace in discomfort. That is the mercy of time, that time, it is a healer. To hear this and more on healing, identity, and the wisdom of slowing down, open your free iHeartRadio app, search one you feed, and listen now.

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best friend. So this Mental Health Awareness Month, take that extra bit of care of your wellbeing. Listen to the psychology of your 20s on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.