First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Tyler ghosting Julia?

Episode Date: February 10, 2025

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First date of follow-up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com Julia is on the phone today for a first date follow-up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler stone a few minutes We'll call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date But first Julia, how long has it been since you heard from Tyler? Okay, that's definitely a ghosting It's been three weeks. Okay. That's definitely a ghosting.

Yeah. Have you been trying to contact him? Like what has been your play on this? I mean, I, I get, I sent him like a little name last week. You know, I thought he might think it was funny, but, um, I didn't really get a response, um, so I thought maybe he was busy or something. So then I sent another one yesterday that I thought was really funny. I was like, oh, this definitely means a lot to Ali. Yeah, he hasn't responded to that either.

Well, that doesn't sound good. Let's talk about the date. How did that go? The date actually went very well. Um, he was super charming. Um, you know, kind of cheesy, but like, I mean, he was super cute and made me laugh. We went to like an old arcade bar and like super into like, you know old school games and all that kind of stuff. So I So so terrible in Pac-Man though

So we were playing Pac-Man and we were just like, you know, just laughing and having a really really great time And he was like giving me tips and you know, he even let me win a couple times You think that's why he's not calling you back because your Pac-Man skills were lacking? Oh gosh, I really helped not. But I mean, yeah, we went to go grab tacos after and we were just like having a really nice time just talking and eating and just, you know, we just, we talked for quite a long time before it got like, you know, really cold out and then he called her the right. Why do you think you're getting ghosted then?

Maybe, I don't know. Maybe I was doing too much or like, I mean, I was nervous, but I mean, I did joke about like how his like high school and Gallagher might mean that like, Oh, he's got peak in high school. high school and Gallagher might mean that like, oh, you got peak in high school. It's funny. Yeah, it was definitely funny. I laughed. And if you laugh, it didn't really seem like he he would be offended by something like that.

But I don't know, maybe I went a little too far or he did mention an act. Maybe like they he's not really over that breakup yet or maybe I'm not just this type. I really, I don't know. Wait, he told you that he's not over his ex. I mean, he did mention his ex cause they, they broke up like pretty recently. Okay. To me it kind of assumes, I'm kind of just assuming maybe he's not over her because he brought her up. Was it his idea to go there? It was his idea to go there.

He said that to you and that didn't bother you on the date? Because I feel like that would have been me if he was like, oh, this is your spot you used to have with your ex, huh? I mean, I'm not gonna lie, it did kind of bother me, but he was just so into like, you know, the game and he was teaching me how to like, play them that I kind of just brushed it aside. So I didn't really think too much about it. How did you guys end things?

It ended really well actually. We had a really good conversation and... But did you guys plan on seeing each other again? Did you guys hug, kiss? How did you say goodbye? We did kiss. We did kiss. Okay.

It was a really sweet kiss. It was really nice. And yeah, he did say that it was a really great night he was having. And I think it was a really great night he was having and he did mention that he would like to do this again. So I'm not sure. All right, well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

Then we'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Okay. Okay. Okay, we'll get your first date follow up next. First date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at AdvocatesLaw.com.

Right in the middle of your first date follow up, if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Tyler. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Julia, why don't you catch us up on your situation? So I went on a date and We went to an old arcade we played

Pac-Man Galaga I made fun of him for peeking and high school for getting a high school high score in Galaga And then we had a really nice time. He mentioned his ex. We got tacos after we talked for quite a while and then we kissed goodnight. What a recap. All right. Peaked in high school, talked about his ex

and then we got tacos. Yeah. And you think one of the reasons that he's not calling you back might be because he's not over his ex, right? I'm thinking maybe that could be a reason. Okay. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Uh huh.

Okay. Here we go. Hello? Hi man. Speak to Tyler, please. Yeah, this is Tyler. Who is this? Tyler.

Hey man. How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. I'm a lawyer. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Tyler, please? Yeah, this is Tyler. Who's this? Tyler. Hey man.

How are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal show. Yeah. Hi Tyler. I'm Nina. Also on the show.

Hi, and I'm Victoria. How's it going? Okay. Wait, what? What? Have you ever listened to the show before? No, I haven't. Well, we do a segment on our show.

That's okay. And we got an email about you. Okay. Wait, hold on. Is this like, is this like a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, a, I haven't. Well, we do a segment on our show. That's okay. And we got an email about you. Okay. Wait, hold on. Is this like, is this live? Yes. Okay.

And we got an email about you from somebody that you went on a date with. We do a segment called the first date follow-up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. You have any idea who would email us about you?

Wow, this is really unexpected. You guys actually do this on the air? Well, we're doing it now. Yeah. And you're a star today, Tyler. Yeah, I think I might have an idea who it would be. Julia. Yes, it is.

Congratulations, you got it right. Julia told us about your date. She said she really liked hanging out with you, but she's confused because it's been three weeks and she hasn't heard anything from you. She even sent you memes, right? Oh yeah. Okay, look.

Can you tell us why you're ghosting her? No, no, I mean, listen, she was, she's great. She really is. I just, I don't know. She made me feel like, kind of like I wasn't enough on the date. Why? Well, I don't know. She made me feel like, kind of like I wasn't enough on the date. Why? Well, I don't know. Like, you know, like the arcade, she kept joking about how bad I was at some of the games, you know, and like I laughed it off. But by the end of the night, it kind of stuck, you know, like she's amazing. She was, she was,

she is awesome at all the games. She kicked my ass and like she's really beautiful and like I'm just average, you know And I just I don't know if I can keep up with someone like her, you know, I feel like she's out of my league That's why you ghosted me And what? Because you think I'm too much that's why you ghosted me. Oh Hi, Julia. No Oh, hi Julia. No

And wants to talk to you Tyler No, no, no, no, it's not that you're too much. It's just me feeling like I wasn't enough, you know I didn't know how to say that without That's really that's it you don't have crappy that made me feel Like I thought it screwed up something really good and it wasn't even about me. It was about you Like are you kidding me right now? Like I thought it screwed up something really good and it wasn't even about me. It was about you. Like, are you kidding me right now? No, I mean, I'm being honest. It really was about me.

Like you're awesome. I really, I don't know. I clammed up. I felt like I'm, I'm that. Are you, are you really sure that because this is, you didn't even give me a chance to like prove you wrong or just have a second date or anything. Okay. Yeah, fine. You're right. There is more. What there is.

What, what is it? You know, I just, I don't feel like getting into it, you know, especially on the air. No, I like, what was it like? We had such a great night and you just up and stopped talking to me. What was it like? We had such a great night and you just up and stopped talking to me. What was it? Well, I mean, I, I used to go there with my ex girlfriend, right? I told you that. Yeah.

I mean, maybe you were just mentioning about her because like, yeah, you, you were playing a game that you really liked. Like so what are you actually not over your girlfriend? Is that is this the whole thing? Well, honestly, I was over her. And then when we went there and we were playing Pac-Man and you were really bad at Pac-Man, and I just I realized that I kind of I kind of missed my girlfriend.

You know, she was awesome at Pac-Man. So what? Is it ex Pac-Man. Honestly, it was more about the Pac-Man, you know, like the game. I need someone who's got decent skills at Pac-Man. You just didn't have it. It made me realize that I need someone like my ex who kicks ass at Pac-Man. Oh my gosh, wow. So that's a need of yours. Okay. You need to put that on your profile now. Must be good at Pac-Man. Tyler, would you like another date with Julia? We'll pay for it.

I mean, I'm trying I am trying to get over my ex. So, you know, if she did get better at Pac-Man and we could do like more fun things together like that, then I would go on a second date. Julia, do you want to get better at Pac-Man? Yeah, I that just sounds like a really wasted amount of time for someone who's like not even going to care. It feels like you just kind of stressed yourself out for this.

Yeah, no, I, I'm not going to waste time learning Pac-Man. Tyler, good luck finding a girlfriend who is just pathetic as you are. Oh, all right. Well, if I ever do see you again, I'd like my quarters back. Jubal's first date. Powered by the advocates, injury attorney online at advocateslaw.com.