First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why you gotta be so rude in this First Date Follow Up!?

Episode Date: March 24, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".In case you missed it, during our last First Date Follow Up one person wouldn't call the other back because they were a little taller! You never know what the deal breaker will be! Let's just say today's First Date Follow Up could be a little kinder! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. Not sure if I read the email correctly for today's first day follow-up. There's a woman named Madison on the phone who's not getting

a call back from a guy named Lucas and it sounds like they went out with Danny DeVito. Danny DeVito? You know the actor? Weird. The little guy? Yeah. Very little guy.

Always sunny in Philadelphia. Hilarious. I love Danny DeVito. Really? He's older? Apparently, he's also been on a date with Madison and Lucas somehow. Lucky? Unless I'm confused.

I'm not sure. Anyway, Madison, before we get to your date with Lucas, who's not calling you back, and Danny DeVito, who I'm not sure if he's calling you back or not, how long has it been since your date? So it's basically been a week. Yeah, it's been about a week. How many times have you tried to reach out to Lucas in that time? So, yeah, I've reached out to him basically like every day,

and I haven't heard anything back. That qualifies as ghosting. Yeah, and every day, reaching out to him basically like every day and I haven't heard anything back. That qualifies as ghosting. Yeah, and every day, reaching out to him every day, that's kind of a lot, but maybe not. We'll see. First, let's find out about the date though. You guys went out with Danny DeVito? Oh, well, no, no, no, no. So it was a Danny DeVito themed bar hop so everyone has to dress up like

danny devito so yeah yeah yeah so i was dressed up like twins danny devito and like luke my date he was dressed like the frank from it's always sunny in philadelphia so the lorax was there penguin was there so is this there. It was awesome. So was this your idea or your date's idea? So, yeah, no, this was, it was mine. It was mine.

And, yeah, my friends and I have these, like, very elaborate themes. So anyway, I invited Luke to this one. I love that idea.

That's really funny. I like theme, theme pop crawls are pretty fun. And it gives you something to talk about. Yeah, I've never been on a Danny DeVito one, but I would love to. How long did you know Luke before

you met him? So we've known each other about, I think like a month or so. Oh, wow. Wow. Okay. Okay. So you took him on and this was the first date. Yes, yes, yes. Exactly. Like, was that weird for you to take him around all your friends for the first time? No, I mean, no. I mean, yeah, like I, I usually haven't invited guys that I've been seeing to meet my friends, um, like for a while. Um, yeah, Luke and I have been seeing each other, like I said, like about a month, but I don't know. He's already so much better than anyone else that I've ever dated, but I don't know. Now it's been about a week. He hasn't called. He hasn't texted.

So now I'm thinking that like maybe it was just a little too soon. Or maybe he thinks I'm a total dork to do like a theme party like this. I don't know. I really like this guy. We had such a nice time. He seemed really nice. So I don't know. I don't think he would have dressed up, though, if he thought you were dorky.

Like he wouldn't have gone along with it. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So right, right. So I just but I don't know what would have dressed up, though, if he thought you were dorky. Like, he wouldn't have gone along with it. Yeah, yeah, exactly. So, right, right. So, I just, but I don't know what else it could be. So, what did your friends think of him? Did they like him? Oh, my gosh. Yeah, they totally liked him.

And they said that they had never seen me so happy with someone before. Really? They liked me more. Yeah. And then I was like, oh, my gosh. Yeah, because he was like you know talking to all my friends and everyone was having such a good time and and and and randomly get this he went to high school with one of my friends from college they were able to like catch up

that's cool wow that's cool you don't think maybe he ran off with her or him oh wow I don't know I hope not all right yeah. Yeah. All right. So you haven't heard anything from him. Did you guys kiss at the end of the date? Yeah. We, um, yeah, we had a kiss. Like it was, it was like a sweet kiss. It was nothing to like, like no tongue, but it was, it was good.

Okay. So a nice little kiss, made plans to go out again maybe. And then he, he, he hasn't responded to any of your texts or phone calls or anything. Exactly. Yeah. So I've been a little bewildered. It would have been amazing if you guys did share a tongue and then two people had just seen two people as Danny DeVito making out.

Yeah. Danny DeVito kissing himself. That would have been amazing. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your first day follow-up, okay? Okay. Sounds good. Alright, we'll do it next. song, come back, and then call him and get your first day follow-up, okay? Okay, sounds good. All right, we'll do it next.

It's the Jubal Show. In the middle of your first day follow-up, if you're just joining us, Madison is on the phone. Madison went out with a dude named Luke. Sounds like a country song. Dude named Luke. It was a dude named Luke, and Luke is not calling her back now. They actually went out to a themed bar crawl where they went as Danny DeVito, different versions of Danny DeVito. I guess Madison's friends put it together and she took Luke along.

They'd known each other for about a month before just talking online or whatever. And it was the first time meeting her and her friends. And he was dressed as Danny DeVito and they were also dressed as Danny DeVito. But apparently it was a great time. And then after that, he hasn't talked to her in a week. And she's wondering why she's getting ghosted. All right, Madison, are you ready to call him and see if we can figure it out? Yeah, I'm ready to roll.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lucas, please? Yes, um... What's up, man? This is actually Jubal from The Jubal Show. And this is Alex from The Jubal Show. And this is English Evan from The Jubal Show. And The Jubal Show is a radio show. So anyway, hey, what's up? Uh, you know, just really confused.

Am I at work? What's going on? Yeah, this is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. I don't know if you've ever heard of it or not, but we do a segment on the show where if you go out with someone and then end up ghosting them after your date, they can email us to get you on the phone and say, hey, why'd you ghost them? And we got an email from Madison who took you to the Danny DeVito

bar crawl and she emailed us because you're not calling her back and she wants to know why. Uh, Oh, I don't. Okay. So why are you ghosting her? Yeah. Can you tell us? Um, I just, uh, her and her friends just kind of sucked.

They said sucked. How? I don't know. They just like, they care more about their Instagram and like making digital friends

and you know, I'm just into more so like real connections. She told us about how you went on the pub crawl, you know, the Danny DeVito thing. That sounds like fun.

She also said that some of her friends are actually some of your old friends from college or whatever, right? Yeah, I mean, I don't like those people either. So I don't know. I just felt like they were just, you know, they were all just really stuck up.

And I don't know. Like I said, I'm just looking for a genuine connection. And she kept calling me Luke. My name's Lucas. And that got really annoying. Oh, okay. That was weird. Actually, I heard her say Luke and then I was confused.

I'm like, isn't it Lucas? Okay, Lucas. Okay, so short. So you didn't give her the go ahead or you didn't tell her that you go by Luke and you don't like that? Yeah, no, I don't. I like my name is Lucas. Right.

And then did you correct her at all? Like when she called you, Luke, did you correct her? I corrected her a couple of times, but then I just kind of gave up because she kept saying it. That's weird. Well, she was choosing to do it after that stage. Yeah, she was giving, she didn't care that you wanted to be called Lucas, full name. And she just called you Luke. Yeah, I don't like, I just really don't appreciate when people call me that.

I try to correct them, but then, you know, they just continue calling me that. So that's it. You thought that they were stuck up and you didn't like the fact that she wouldn't refer to you by your full name, Lucas. Yes. That is exactly why. Okay. So how come you didn't just tell her that you weren't interested? Yeah.

I don't know. I guess I'm not really that great with confrontation. So I just hoped she would kind of get the point. Well, obviously she hasn't because she wanted us to call you and see if we could figure it out. Yeah, they're just a really judgy group of people. They gossiped a lot about other people at the party. And I don't know. I'm just not into it. Okay. So it had nothing to do with the whole Danny DeVito

vibe. Did you like that? Yeah. I mean I just thought it was kind of stupid. It was pretty childish but I just went along with it anyway. Alright. So they're judgy and that's why you weren't really into it. Right. Okay. Cool. Well, thank you for being honest, man. I appreciate

that. Not a lot of people as honest as you, Lucas. And I want to be honest as well because I feel like you were honest with us. Now I'll be honest with you. And I'll let you know that Madison is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. Hey, Luke or Lucas or whatever you like to go by. It's Madison. Okay.

So you're on the phone right now yes she is yeah Jumbo always forgets to tell yeah super forgetful like that Supes forgets by the way

sorry I was calling you Luke like it was just like a fun name I didn't know it was so offensive sorry about that it's okay I tried correcting you but you I guess

just weren't paying attention. I'm not really sorry, though, because you're turning out to be crazy. I'm really, like, shocked about what you're saying about how we're all, like, shallow and all my friends suck. Like, what do you, like, and that we were superficial or gossipy. We were, yeah, people, we had a really fun themed party, Dan and DeVito. Yeah, we wanted to take pictures and put it on Instagram because it's fun. And these are people that are like longtime friends. We have genuine connections.

They're amazing people. So I'm sorry I called you Luke. I should have called you Aspen instead. What? Okay. Why would you call me? Yeah. All right. I'm completely shocked. I'm completely shocked about how you were just trashing my friends and calling it superficial. And I mean,

that was a great night. So what we're taking pictures, you know, because we have this great themed party, big deal. So it's terrible people because we're taking pictures you can be the people that you want to be but just not the type of people that I personally want to hang around I didn't feel like it was there was any genuine connections happening you guys were all just on your phones all the time it's just not what I want to be a part of wow wow that is ironic because there are people there that are your friends from your life. So that's interesting. And also, these are people I've known forever, genuine relationships, unlike, obviously, the one that you and I had, which was completely disingenuous.

But, yeah, no, these people are good people. It really seems like you guys are better off without each other. I don't know. I'm kind of getting a vibe. No, that's a good cool answer. Hell yeah. You sure? Because, I mean, I'm getting something from you guys. It sounds like it's got, I mean, I'm getting a real connection vibe. No, that's a good cool one. Oh, yeah. You sure? Because, I mean, I'm getting something from you guys that sounds like...

I mean, I'm getting a real connection here. I may be off. A real connection. I think you are. Okay. Am I reading it wrong? Yes. I don't think so.

Are you sure? Well, I'll just ask the question. No, this is definitely not a match. I had hoped, but clearly not. Well, you don't know that yet. Don't be a downer. No, no. Don't get down on love.

Hey, Luke, would you like to go on another date with Madison? We'll pay for it. Okay, I didn't see that one coming. I would actually pay not to go on a date with Lucas, so I'm good. People don't usually say they'll pay to not go on a date. This must be real bad. Turn south quick. Can I go now?

On a date with Madison? Yeah, we'll pay for it. No. I'm just kidding. No, thank you. Yeah, you can go. All right. Well, apparently I have no idea what love is.

I need to pick up on social cues. Oh, that's sad because you're my husband. Well, I mean, I don't know. I'm in the corner now. Yeah, no, I hear you. Madison, I'm sorry we didn't get you another date. No, no, I hear you. Madison, I'm sorry we didn't get you another date. Mm-hmm. No, listen, I'm good.

I appreciate your effort and I'd rather know sooner rather than later that this guy's a... I guess we'd actually be sorry if we did get you another date with him. Yeah. See?

Yeah, so it all worked out. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.

But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend John Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more.

Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show E ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to

source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.