First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - You never know who you're volunteering with in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: January 19, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".You never know who you're going on a first date with and you never know who you're volunteering with at a foodbank! Mikey met Angle at a foodbank and thinks she isn't calling because of his past! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.

I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. There's like three types of guys That play the lead role In a romantic comedy Right the character

Not even the guy But there's the guy with the dog Women love a dude with a dog They sure do Then there's the guy that plays guitar Oh by the campfire Women love the guy that plays guitar Also the guy that Donates his time on the weekends to hand out food to the homeless.

The charitable dude. Yeah. Women also like that guy. Try hard. Yeah. And Angel is on the phone right now for a first date follow-up, and apparently she's not getting a call back from the third option there, the charitable guy. Aw.

Yeah. Hi. Hi, guys charitable guy. Aw. Yeah. Hi. Hi, guys. Hi. What's up? So you said that you met a guy named Mikey. Right. And you really liked him, but now he's not calling you back.

And you guys met at a food bank? Yes. Yes. We were both volunteering at a food bank. And I don't know. I kind of felt this chemistry between between us I felt like it was going really well I felt like we were having a great time we really liked each other had a lot in common um and we exchanged numbers and we said we were going to hang out you guys were working at a

food bank you just strike up a conversation over a can of beans or something just like wow these beans are good what do you think of these? We should get together and warm up these beans together and eat them. No, we were both like serving together. I think that's a super sweet way to meet somebody. It is very cute. It was kind of romantic. It was kind of like what you just mentioned.

How you meet somebody in a romantic comedy. I thought it was really cute. And he was really sweet and very attractive and very nice and smart. We had a great conversation. We're just like joking around a little. We had like really good back and forth, a little, you know, like flirty. And I don't know.

I just I felt like I felt like, wow, this guy's like really into me. And then we exchanged numbers and I texted him after a few days and i was like hey i'm volunteering at this place uh this weekend do you want to come help us out and he didn't answer i was like i was like all right he's he's busy or whatever okay so he hasn't said anything to you since then no i texted a couple of times about different things and he just did not respond ever oh that's weird, what if you have the wrong number? What if he accidentally

took it down wrong or something? Well, I don't know. I would assume somebody would actually text me back and say, this isn't Mikey.

You have the wrong number or something, right? You know what? He sounds like a great guy. Maybe he donated his phone to the less fortunate. Oh. Doubtful.

I would expect the less fortunate to at least call me back to be courteous and say, hey, he gave us his phone. It sounds like you're super into this guy, but were you getting those vibes back from him? I really was. That's why I'm so surprised because he was,

I don't know, he was like flirty, but like in a nice way. He wasn't like, you know, too much, but just like really sweet and cute and chemistry and vibey, you know? Who asked who? Did you ask him for his number? Did he ask you for your number? You know what?

He actually asked me if I had an Instagram and he said, let's add each other on Instagram. Okay. And I, and I said, I don't use Instagram. I'll give you my phone number. Oh, you don't use Instagram. I'll give you my phone number. Oh.

You don't use Instagram? What's wrong with you? That's weird. What era are you from? I mean, I'm not, I mean, I'm on Instagram, but I just don't use it. I don't go on it to talk to people or anything like that. You know, I hardly ever use it. Okay.

Well, if you do, you should follow us at the Jubile Show. I'm at Jubile Fresh. I'm at Adrean's. I'm at Evan on the Radio. Yeah. And follow us whenever you want. Why do you think he's not calling you back, though? I don't know. Is it possible

that I'm that bad at knowing when somebody's fake or lying, or is he married? Does he have a girlfriend? I have no idea. I don't know. I got, like, really good vibes from him, so I'm... I don't know if I'm crazy for not seeing this person is lying, or did something happen? Or maybe he seeing this person is lying or that something happened.

Or maybe he is this great guy. Maybe something happened. I have no idea. Maybe he didn't like the way you were volunteering. Because some people volunteer, you know, just do it really weird. Yeah. Maybe you gave too much mashed potatoes or something. That would do it.

Or not enough. Oh, even worse. We'll try to figure it out for you. All right. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he answers. Please help me out. Find out what went wrong and hopefully get you another date, okay? Thank you.

All right, we'll get your first date follow-up next. It's The Jubal Show. In the middle of today's first date follow-up, I call this one, Love in the Soup Line. Because that's the romantic comedy that I've made up in my head. For Angel, who is on the phone right now and Angel met a prince an angel a guy angel because we're talking to a female angel right now but a guy angel at a food bank when they were both volunteering their eyes locked in the food

line and he said hey you got a little custard on your cheek. And she said everything was great. He seemed to really like her. They exchanged numbers and said they should go out. And she texted him after and nothing. So we don't know why. And we're about to figure it out. Any last thoughts before we try to call Mikey and get you another date?

I don't know. I'm really nervous. But I'm excited. And I want to know what happened. I'm really curious. I just want to do it. So no matter what, you at least want to know why he's not calling you back if you can't get another date. Right, right, right. Okay, cool. I'm going to dial this phone right now and see if it picks up. Here we go.

Hello? Hey, is this Mikey? Uh, yeah. Hey, what's up, Mikey? How are you? This is The Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. My name's Alex Fresh. And this is English Evan. Hey, guys.

Do you know what that is? Yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys. Oh, well, that's cool. Well, thanks for listening. Yeah. absolutely. What's going on? Not much. We're just calling you because somebody sent us an email about you, Mikey.

Okay. That doesn't worry you? Do you know what about? I don't know what about. Yeah, what's the email about? Well, we got an email from somebody that you met while you were volunteering at a food bank a few weeks ago. Oh, okay. I'm assuming you're talking about Angel then.

Yes. Yes. We are talking about Angel. Angel emailed us because she told us how you guys met, said that you really bonded and made plans to go out again. But when she texted you after meeting you, she hasn't heard anything back. So she's wondering if she did something wrong. Yeah, honestly, I thought Angel was really cool. She was great. Why won't you text her back?

Yeah, what happened? You know, the reason is I'm a little embarrassed. Embarrassed? What happened? So I wasn't exactly too truthful with Angel when we first met. Okay, so she said that you guys met at a food bank. Volunteering. Yeah.

Were you not volunteering? Did you go there to get food? No, that's not it. Okay, well, what weren't you truthful about then? What's the reason that you're embarrassed? So I wasn't there actually volunteering. I was actually there doing my community service. Oh, you have to be there.

I had, yeah. Okay, so we got a bad boy on the line. So when she texted you, you just left her on read and you just didn't want to see her again? I was just embarrassed. I didn't know how to explain to her that I was actually because she was very into it and she's all about the food bank and volunteering and she was really cute, really, really pretty and great. So I was pouring it on pretty thick. So were you like, yeah, I volunteer every single Saturday down here.

They all know me by nickname because they know I'm so well. My name's Mikey, but they call me Mike around here. Something like that. Yeah, basically you got it right. So you didn't want to tell her that you have to be doing it because of a court order. I feel like for how much you poured it on and said you did that, you can't go back from that. You can't start dating this girl and then like,

so, just joking, you know? Yeah. Yeah, I didn't call her back because I just didn't think she would respond well to that. Okay. Next time, just don't give your number. Give a fake number. Yeah.

I mean, I did like her. I don't know. I know I probably shouldn't. I know I shouldn't have done that. Yeah. Well, you did. You lied about being a charitable dude when really you're a court-ordered charitable guy. And I can understand why you wouldn't want to call her back,

but guess what? You can talk to her right now because she's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, that's right. She's on the phone. Yes, she is. Hi.

Hi, Mikey. Hey, what's going on, Angel? You tell me. What's going on? Angel? You tell me. What's going on? I'm really confused. Well, Angel, I guess obviously you've heard the entire conversation. You know, I feel bad. I shouldn't have lied to you.

But, yeah, I wasn't volunteering. I was doing community service. I mean, that's really weird because you went into this whole thing when we met about how much charity you do and how much you're into it and like you lie the whole time basically that's was he pouring it on that bad very I'm very confused right now I feel like this is not the person I really talked to that day. That's weird. Well, no, the person you talked to was, you know, a guy who volunteers at the charity place all the time and just loves it. Not a criminal.

Yeah, exactly. A hardened criminal. I was going to say that's who he actually is. So, actually, that's what's more important to me. Can I ask why you're doing community service? Like, what happened? Basically, my license was suspended one too many times,

especially for not having insurance. If you do it more than three times, you're a habitual offender and then they give you community service. If that's all it was, then why were you so embarrassed? Like it's not that big a deal yeah i i complete obviously i completely agree angel and i was just having so much fun with you and you know i just i was embarrassed i didn't want to look bad mikey would you like to go on another date with angel we'll pay for it not your car insurance premium though maniac. But we will pay for another date if you'll go out with her again. I mean, it's out in the open. You know, I feel better that she doesn't think it's such a big deal.

So, yeah, you know, I would love to go out with her again. I had a great time the first time. Yeah, and I think we already know that you liked her. I guess it's more importantly now, Angel, do you want to go out with Mikey again because you just found out that he's a liar and a serial non-insurancer? So that point

doesn't bother me that much. What does bother me is that he lied. That's kind of more of a big deal to me. I think he's pretty innocent, you guys. If you give him a second chance to talk about it, communication is key. He really liked you and he wants to go innocent, you guys. If you give him a second chance to talk about it, communication is key. He really liked you. He wants to go out with you again.

You should talk about it on the next date. Yeah, I'll give it another chance. Yay! Sweet. Well, Angel, we'll have you get in touch with Mikey's parole officer and see what his schedule is. The Jubal Show on demand.

Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money.

Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all

about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.