First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - You won't believe the deal breaker in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: March 3, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Some people have interesting deal breakers: some small, some big, some questionable and some that just make no sense! In today's First Date Follow Up, you'll never believe the deal breaker! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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And she doesn't know why. What's up, Quinn? How are you? Hey, I'm doing pretty good. Pretty good. How are you guys? Not too bad. Doing all right.

Just hanging out. So why don't you tell us what's going on? Yeah. okay. So I'm on Instagram and I see this guy named Bryce come up. He's super cute. He's like on a mutual

friends page in a picture. And so I kind of liked a few of his photos on his Instagram. Ooh. And then, yeah. And then I noticed the next day that he had liked a few of his photos on his Instagram. And then, yeah. And then I noticed the next day that he had liked a few of my photos and then eventually we follow each other. And then finally, I actually

wake up to a DM from him on Instagram and he asked if I wanted to go to dinner and a movie. So obviously you said yes. How was dinner and a movie? It was great. We saw A Quiet Place 2. It was perfect. It was like kind of scary, but it was really good. And dinner was really, really good. I mean, the whole thing was great.

So, yeah, I'm kind of confused. I felt like we had a really good connection. Like we had a similar sense of humor. We both like the same music. Like I felt like we had a really good connection. Like, we had a similar sense of humor. We both liked the same music. Like, I felt like the conversation was flowing. So it was just kind of weird. And then afterwards, he wasn't really messaging me anymore. I didn't really get anything on Instagram and not even, you know, on my cell phone because we gave each other each other's numbers, too. But, yeah, he stopped texting me. No DMs.

Weird. I forgot to ask you. I like to start these off by asking how long it's been since you've heard from him. Probably three weeks. Oh, wow. That's been a while. That's a long time. Very long time.

How many times have you tried to reach out to him? I don't want to be annoying. So like I've reached out to him four times. Four times. Okay. And he hasn't responded to you at all? No, no, not really. so like I've reached out to him four times four times okay and he hasn't responded to you at all? no

no not really like he did that thing where you know you can like heart someone's message oh that's like telling them to go away

without saying it god yeah so it's like he's seen it he's like acknowledged it but he hasn't really said anything back which is

super weird that's even worse than just like yeah straight up not saying anything to you because you know that he saw it yeah and he had enough time to like it and then nothing um what do you think what could have went wrong on the date why do you think he's not calling you back i've been like racking my brain trying to think if anything was weird i mean i do have like this system for sneaking candy into the movie theater, which I think is funny. It's like a family thing. And me and my friends do it, too.

But like I have this like green cargo jacket with a bunch of pockets, which is like my movie jacket. And I like put different candies in the pockets. I thought it was like cute. I came prepared. Yeah, no, I'm sure he appreciates not having to spend a bunch of money. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, that'd be awesome.

I think that'd be great. Yeah, it's crazy. When I asked him before the date, like what candy he liked, so I had Reese's Pieces and like Sour Patch Kids, the whole thing in different pockets. I thought it was really funny. He kind of thought it was like a little weird.

Did he really? That's crazy. I would have thought that was great. He's like, no, was like a little weird. Did he really? He thought it was crazy. I would have thought that was great. He's like, no, I'm going to go buy this $20 M&M's. Yeah.

Dude, he sounds lame if he didn't think that was a plus on a date. Sounds like a loser to me. Unless he was planning on having you pay the whole thing. Yeah.

Yeah. But yeah, maybe he just thought I was pulling candy out of all my pockets. I don't know. Who would want to date someone that could pull

candy out of all their pockets? Seriously, I'd date you. The was pulling candy out of all my pockets. I don't know. Who would want to date someone that could pull candy out of all their pockets? Seriously, I date you. The Mary Poppins of candy. Seriously. That's what I'm saying. So yeah, it was really weird. And like, I don't think anything else was wrong. So I have no idea.

Huh. Okay. Well, we'll call him. We'll try to find out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then we'll call him and get your first date follow up right after this. Okay? Okay.

Thank you, guys. All right. We'll do it next. On Hits 106.1. In the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Quinn is on the phone and Quinn isn't getting a call back

from a dude named Bryce. It's been three weeks and nothing. She's texted him four times. He actually liked one of the texts, which, ouch, because she knows that he's seen them. Loved one of the texts. Yeah, loved it, yeah.

And for some reason, he's not, for some reason, he's been blowing her off and she doesn't know why. So we're about to get him on the phone and see if we can figure it out for her. They met on Instagram. They went out for sushi and then saw a movie. Sushi and a movie. The only reason that she can think of that he might be ghosting her is because she snuck a bunch of candy into the movies

and maybe he's just not any fun at all. Because why wouldn't you want to do that? Save some money and also get the candy that you want. Anyway, that's the only thing she can think of. And we're about to call him and see if we can figure it out. Let's give him a call and see. Any last words before we dial this phone number and call Bryce? Okay.

I don't think so. I just want to find out. You know, I just want to know. I want to know the reason. Okay. I think we all do. Yeah. So I'll out. I just want to know. I want to know the reason. Okay. I think we all do. So I'll dial the phone number right now. Hold on one second.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Bryce, please? Yeah, this is Bryce. Hey, Bryce, how are you? This is The Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. Mine's Alex. Mine's English Evan.

Oh. It's a radio show. If you don't know what The Jubal Show is, it's a radio show. Okay, cool. What's up? We're calling you because we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-up. What that is, is if you go out on a date with somebody, they can email us and then go, Hey, why didn't you call him back? And then maybe you tell us, go, Hey, this is why

I didn't call him back. And then we go, Hey, that's reasonable or unreasonable. Um, and would you, you know, talk about it with them or whatever, you know, and that kind of stuff. So anyway, that's what this is right now. It's called a first date follow-up and you recently went out with somebody named Quinn. Um, yeah, yeah, I did. Yes, he did. All right. And Quinn emailed us and told us about your date. We talked to her a little bit. She said that she had is, uh, this is crazy. So honestly, um, I had a pretty good time too. Um, but there was a very, that's a rave review. So why are you not calling her back? Yeah. Yeah. I've been working, I've been working really hard to sort of like see the red flags. And we met on Instagram. You know, I sent her a DM.

It went pretty good. And she was just like this beautiful blonde, you know. And I show up to the date and all excited, you know, nice sushi place. She has red hair, okay. She had red hair at the sushi place? Yeah. Okay. She dyed red hair. She had red hair at the sushi place? Yeah. She dyed her hair then? No. So I went back to the

Instagram and I realized she has all these different hair colors. She doesn't show her real hair. It's all wigs. And I don't even know what she actually looks like if I'm being honest with you. Okay. And that's a problem

because I'm looking for you to fill in the blank there because I don't know if I'd see a problem with that. That's a red flag. I mean, someone who won't even show their real hair on a first date, to me, reads a little bit unstable if I'm being honest. Unstable? Really?

Huh. Yeah. That's not what I would have taken from it. I mean, I would have been like, maybe she doesn't like her hairstyle underneath or maybe she mixes it up a little bit. I mean, it's hot, you know, like if you mix up your hair a little bit

from time to time, I like, you know, I wear wigs all the time. And Alex and I are married. She's always telling me how sexy it is. Always. Sure she is. For her, I don't know. So you think, why is it a red flag if she's wearing wigs? I don't really understand that. To me, it's the definition of unstable, not wanting to show your true self on a first date, first of all, right?

That speaks to maybe like her insecurities. I don't really know what I'm actually going to be waking up next to. What if she just likes fashion and change her look and that's it? Yeah, man. I mean, if I'm being honest, like all these different hairstyles and wigs and stuff, she seems crazy. She seems like a straight up crazy girl. What?

F***ing crazy? F*** you! Hey, Bryce. I don't even know if you heard what just happened or understand what just happened, but I should have told you a second ago, Quinn is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you and she just did. Did you hear that? Are you serious?

Yeah. Oh my God. Bryce, are you f***ing kidding me? Because I was wearing a wig? That's why you won't text me back. That's why you won't message me. Seriously. Yeah. Guys, do you hear what I'm saying about this instability thing? Instability. Are you serious? I'm an unstable. I'm unstable. I'm unstable because I like to wear wigs because I like to change up my hair color oh I'm so sorry I don't like to have the same hair color every day like normal people oh I'm so sorry I like it blonde I like it black I like it red every day is a new day for me like you're boring you're boring you don't even know what you want yeah no clearly I'm incorrect you have a great

head on your shoulders. Awesome. Yeah, I actually do. I actually, you're the one with the terrible head on your little shoulders. Like, you are shallow and superficial. You're judging someone based off their hair color. I'm fun. It's always something different with me. Like, you are boring.

Yeah, this is going to make me, like, steer even farther clear of red flags from now on, and I'm glad I went with my gun on this one. Bryce, would you like to go on another date with Quinn? We'll pay for it. Oh, not enough money in the world, my guy. Not enough money in the world. You should be asking me if I want to go on another date with you. You are the person with bad taste. You're the world. You should be asking me if I want to go on another date with you. You are the person with bad taste.

You're the person. You didn't even bring any candy into the movie theater. I had to bring everything. I brought everything to this date. You brought nothing. You weren't even that funny. Honestly, you wouldn't pay me to even look at this man again. Like, ew.

Wow. So do you want to go on another date or? No, no, I would, I would never go. And let this be an advertisement for any men out there who actually like fun, who like candy at movie theaters and fun, different colored hair and who like adventure because that is the kind of man that I want. Okay. Well, hopefully we can, or you can find one of those.

And Bryce, sorry, you're not Quinn Speed. No, no, Speed is not Quinn Speed. That's cute. You're really funny. You're hilarious. Yeah, I'm more funny than you said I was. You're cracking up the entire date, if I'm being honest. Yeah, it's called fake laughing, just like my fake hair.

And I'm sure if the date had ended differently and we had gone back to my bedroom, I would have had to fake that, too. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun,

thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season

of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines,

exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

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