First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Zach & Lila - Escaping Love

Episode Date: February 6, 2025

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Like maybe two weeks. It's been a minute. Were you trying to hit her up in that time? So I did message her like a few times and I may or may not have sent the memes, but like good ones,

like, you know, like, like funny, like jokey ones, not like desperate memes. Okay. Not like memes of somebody crying with a phone, like funny memes. I mean like somewhere in between those two. Okay. I don't know how that is going to play out, but let's, let's go backwards.

Why don't you tell us about the date, Zach? How was it? Um, I mean, I thought the date was fine. I thought everything went well. Um, basically it's actually kind of cool. I thought spice it up. First date's usually boring. Let's do an escape room. So it was fun, but like it was low key stressful, you know, like, but like teamwork, first date, you know, go big or go home, right? Take big swings. Um, got some drinks afterwards.

Things were obviously more relaxed and less like pressure filled. Um, again, good sign that we stayed until the bar closed. Like we were just talking and like, I don't know, she's so like, she's super smart, like annoyingly smart. I'm like in a good way. Like she's funny. Um, like annoyingly smart. I'm like in a good way. Like she's funny. I don't know, like even though I was nervous, I was laughing, but it was like not just nervous laughing.

You know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's good. So it ended, there was a kiss, not like, you know, rom-com like in the rain, like whatever moment. Okay. So I kissed more than a peck, less than a make out, you know, so like, I thought that was good. Yeah than a make out you know so like that was good Yeah, who kissed who or was it mutual I?

Made the first move you know, but she leaned in 90 and 10 right like It didn't seem like she was just kissing you because she had to like yeah, I've been there no That's like heck. That's like a pack right and then like it's quick this is more than a pack okay all right and how did you end things with her like what did you did she say she wanted to see you again anything like that I mean I didn't specifically say like what are you doing next week I just was like oh great yeah like you know like I'll call you or whatever you know I'll text you she's like okay cool and then that. And then that's, that was, that was it.

Is there anything that happened on the date that could have thrown it off? Like what went wrong? You think? I mean, sometimes I can get like competitive when I'm in, um, you know, like playing games and stuff. So an escape room, like maybe I was getting to like passion, it's, I guess. Did you freak out at all? Like, grab that key. Like sort of a thing. Did you freak out at all?

Like a like a huge freak out or something? No, we escaped, which was nice. It wasn't one of those like horror ones or like zombies. You if you don't get it, it was just like, hey, you know, escape the room. It gets hectic and a little stressful, but like in a good way.

So I felt like it's possible that maybe I rubbed it the wrong way by being like, oh, hurry up, grab that key. And you know, but she was kind of doing the same thing to me. So I don't know. So like, be honest with yourself. Was it more like giving orders or was it like more of a playful, you do it? No. And then I'll do this.

I want to say it was playful, but it might've been orders. I don't know. That's the thing is sometimes you can't see yourself if I was like standing outside myself Why maybe but I'm saying I know I can't get like that I just don't know if that's how I'm gonna try or maybe she read it wrong You know, maybe you threw a look and you weren't like annoyed at her, but you maybe were thinking about something She's like, oh wow. What did you know? I mean, yeah, yeah, what happens? That would probably not get you Most definitely not you. I don't think I did that. Pretty sure I didn't do that. Alright man, we'll play a song, come back,

and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, okay? Appreciate you. Appreciate you too man, we'll play a song, come back, get your first day of follow up next. If you're just joining us for today's first day of follow up, Zach is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lila. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

him another date. But first, Zach, why don't you catch us up on your situation? Yeah, I mean, she is super gorgeous, super smart. I felt like, okay, let's, you know, like, let's go big. And we went to an escape room first day. I felt like that was a big swing and, uh, I thought it went pretty well. Um, we did kiss, we escaped the room, went to drinks afterwards, kiss at the end of the day, ghosting since then.

I feel like maybe, maybe if I had to guess, like, I know I can get competitive. So maybe I was a little competitive in the escape room maybe I'd you know I she felt like I was too pushy I'm not sure that could potentially be it I don't know okay are you? My name is Jubal. I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi Lila.

I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Wow. Hi. So this is, wait, so this is one of those radio shows? Yeah. What's that? It's a radio show.

It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a radio show. It's a the show. Hi and I'm Victoria. Wow. Hi.

So this is, wait, so this is one of those radio shows? Yes, it is. It's one of those. Have you ever listened to the Jubal show before? I'm sure here and there. I guess I'm not, I don't know. I usually just kind of listen to whatever's on my phone, I guess. Okay.

Well, hopefully it's us sometimes. That'd be awesome. That'd be awesome. That'd be cool if you would check it out. But anyway, we do a segment on our show and it's called the first date follow up. What that is is if you go on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we actually got an email about you from someone who does have us on their phone. Okay, oh my God, so people actually do this. Yeah. I didn't think this was real. OK. Yeah.

They do actually do this. And you're one of those people right now. How's it feel? Yeah. Congrats. Oh, I don't know. And wait, what is this about? I'm so sorry. What is this about

again? Well, you went on a date with a guy named Zach recently. OK. Yeah. And Zach said he really liked you But he hasn't heard from you since the date It's been like two weeks and he's wondering if you wouldn't mind telling us why you're ghosting him. Oh, I mean, yeah I'm go see him because he's a liar. Oh Liar, what was he lying about?

you know what I mean, I thought the date was fun and cute, but after the date, I just realized that I can't really trust anything he says. Okay. Hold up, what can't you trust what I said? What did I say? That was a lie. It wasn't a lie.

Lila, that's Zach. He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you and I just couldn't wait. Oh my God. Hi, Lila and I guess you might. Oh, my God. I am a liar. Because we were to an escape room and he basically told his whole like backstory that was not true to the escape room staff to get extra clues

to be able to come up with a lie that that quick is just disturbing to me. Like that's like that's not okay. You think the fact that he came up with a lie real quick like in an escape room is like he'll do that all the time. Is that what you're saying? I mean I can't put it past them. That fast like it was so fast. As a good liar myself, She probably has a point here

Thank you for the self-awareness And for something so I don't know and so like get free clues like that's crazy Wait a minute. Hold up. I got the clues, right? We needed to get out of the escape room, right? Like I'm competitive That's not I wasn't lying. I didn't lie to them and tell them like Something I don't understand that I'm not lying. I'm competitive. That's not, I wasn't lying. I didn't lie to them and tell them like something. I don't understand that. I'm not lying. I'm confused. Okay. But that's what a liar would say. Well, we got out of the escape room, didn't we? Like, what's that?

I mean, yeah, but yeah, but at what cost? I mean, here we are. What do you consider a lie? Like if I'm a liar, then you're a liar because you have brown hair. What is that supposed to mean? On your dating profile, you have blonde hair. So I guess you're a liar. Not the same thing. Saying that you have one color hair and you don't.

OK, that's not even close to the same thing. But that's however you want to feel is fine. Whatever liar. He's triggered. Like we called each other names all day doesn't mean it's real. Lila, would you like to go on another date with Zach? We'll pay for it. Uh, I don't think so.

I just don't really think I can trust him to be honest. Was that a lie? So you really mean you do want to go out on a date? No. That was the truth. Okay. What? Look, I'm sorry you're clearly triggered,

but like you did lie. You lied and you know what I'm talking about. I want to know. I do too. What you're referring to is what I think you're talking about that is not lying just by omitting the truth is not a lie. Like it's just omitting the truth is not a lot. Like it's just omitting the truth is a lie.

Keeping the truth from someone, they lie. That is how a lie is defined. So I'm just supposed to say everything that I know in the entire world, to every person that I know to make sure that I'm not lying by not saying everything in the world, just because I happen to know a lot about that last name, like I could be that guy's uncle. Like who's to say? You don't know. I don't know. What are we talking about? All right. Well, Zach, I'm sorry. No, no second. Who's that guy?

That could be the truth. Like you're like ancestry.com and whatnot. Like that could be the truth. You don't know. I think you don't know either so like it's a why that you know everything okay but then she said like it was supposed to be no liar you're lying you're lying liar no Jubal's first date followers