Follow Him: A Come, Follow Me Podcast - 1 Samuel 17-18; 24-26; 2 Samuel 5-7 Part 2 • Bro. Mike Madsen • June 15-21 • Come, Follow Me

Episode Date: June 10, 2026

Brother Mike Madsen traces the downfall of King Saul through 1 Samuel 20-26, contrasting his pride and jealousy with Jonathan’s loyalty and Abigail' s Christlike intercessions, and the hard, pe...rsonal work of forgiving and laying down a vengeful heart.FREE PDF DOWNLOADS OF followHIM QUOTE BOOKSNew Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastNTBookOld Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastOTBookBook of Mormon: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastBMBook WEEKLY NEWSLETTERhttps://tinyurl.com/followHIMnewsletter SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/followHIMpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/followhimpodcastTIMECODE0:00 - Part 2 - Brother Michael Madsen1:37 Alma 29 and the abundance vs scarcity mentality3:16 Saul consumed by “I” disease4:57 David at Nob5;42 David flees to Gath, then to caves6:33 Doeg the Edomite and the slaughter of 85 priests8:04 D&C 121–power, the priesthood, and unrighteous dominion9:01 “What makes you think you’re not in a similar spot now?”10:39 Tending your own small kingdom13:19 Why do you want to be with the Savior?14:59 Two kings, three temptations, and one prevailed15:24 Looking for Christ in everything and 1 Sam. 2316:33 Abiathar, the ephod, David spares Saul20:52 Samuel dies and Nabal’s request22:44 David’s weakness and marching to take revenge23:57 Abigail intercedes26:52 Sister Yee: ‘Abigail as type of Jesus Christ”28:53 Nabal’s death29:13 Sister Yee’s “Beauty for Ashes”32:28 Was David traumatized and receiving counsel35:52 The boy caught in the cog37:22 “Take all you’d like,” and the heart that changed in a cornfield38:11 President Oaks held at gunpoint43:00 President Nelson: “He is coming, get the youth ready”46:53 End of Part 2 - Brother Mike MadsenThanks to the followHIM team:Steve & Shannon Sorensen: Cofounder, Executive Producer, SponsorDavid & Verla Sorensen: SponsorsDr. Hank Smith: Co-hostJohn Bytheway: Co-hostDavid Perry: ProducerKyle Nelson: Marketing, SponsorLisa Spice: Client Relations, Editor, Show NotesWill Stoughton: Video EditorKrystal Roberts: Translation Team, English & French Transcripts, WebsiteAriel Cuadra: Spanish TranscriptsAmelia Kabwika: Portuguese TranscriptsHeather Barlow: Communications DirectorSydney Smith: Social Media, Graphic Design "Let Zion in Her Beauty Rise" by Marshall McDonaldhttps://www.marshallmcdonaldmusic.com

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Starting point is 00:00:01 Welcome to Part 2 with Brother Mike Madsen in the Book of Samuel. Maybe my favorite thing, Elder Holland said, although I have hundreds of these favorite things that Elder Holland said. Brothers and sisters, there are going to be times in our lives when someone else gets an unexpected blessing or receive some special recognition. May I plead with us not to be hurt and certainly not to feel envious when good fortune comes to another person? We are not diminished when someone else is added upon. We are not in a race against each other to see who is the wealthiest or the most talented or the most beautiful or the most blessed. The race we are really in is the race against sin. And surely envy is one of the most universal of those.
Starting point is 00:00:46 Envy is a mistake that just keeps on giving. Obviously, we suffer a little when some misfortune befalls us. But envy requires us to suffer all good fortune that befalls everyone we know. What a bright prospect that is, downing another quart of pickle juice every time someone around you has a happy moment. Coveting, pouting, or tearing others down does not elevate your standing, nor does demeaning someone else improve yourself image. So be kind. And be grateful that God is kind. It's a happy way to live.
Starting point is 00:01:22 John, you are someone who rejoices in other people's success. You remind me a lot of Alma the younger when he says, My joy is morful because of the success of my brethren. That's Alma 29. Alma 29, 14, I do not joy in my success alone. My joy is moreful because of the success of my brethren, who have been up to the land of Nephi. Verse 16, when I think of the success of these my brethren,
Starting point is 00:01:51 my soul is carried away even to the separation of it from the body, as it were. So great is my joy. You mentioned Stephen Covey, Mike, the Sikh first to understand and to be understood. He also taught about, he called it the abundance mentality and the scarcity mentality. The scarcity mentality says success is like a little Caesar's pizza. And if you take a big piece, there is less for me. When the abundance mentality says there's an infinite pizza factory and I can be happy for your success. and it doesn't take away any of mine.
Starting point is 00:02:26 And I remembered thinking of the parable of the prodigal son and of the labors in the vineyard. And both of those, everything's fine until there's comparing. And everything goes south when you look sideways. President Benson's famous talk that pride doesn't rejoice in having something only in having more of it than the next man. As soon as we compare and look sideways, then here comes the green-eyed monster.
Starting point is 00:02:53 So I want to get to the point where Alma is, and I can just say, look how successful they were. Isn't that awesome? Because he could have said, boy, I didn't do that well on the land of Nephi. Boy, you guys, I wish I'd been called to your mission. Among the Lamanites, you guys had a lot work, right? But that's not what it's about at all. So those verses, I'm glad you brought them up. They helped me.
Starting point is 00:03:17 I also was thinking about President Benson's incredible talk on pride. I feel sad for Saul. He's consumed with this eye disease. He's consumed with it, and he's drunken with it. Chapter 20, you've got David saying to Jonathan, what have I done? What is my iniquity? What is my sin before they father that seeketh my life? Jonathan doesn't have an answer for him.
Starting point is 00:03:41 Then in verse four, Jonathan said to David, whatsoever they sold their eyes are I will do it for thee. Why don't you go check the temperature of your dad and see if he's in the killing mood or not. And so you have this moment where Jonathan, they make you this little deal where it's like, go check his temperature, see how he's doing. This signal will be,
Starting point is 00:04:01 come out and practice shooting your bow and send your servant out to fetch your arrows. If dad is not doing well, I will yell at my servant. No, the arrows are way far beyond you. And if you hear that, that means that don't come. If you hear me say, yeah, the arrow is right in front of you.
Starting point is 00:04:17 then come in and in verse 30 of chapter 20 Saul's anger is kindled against Jonathan. I want to read this from the NIV. In verse 30, Saul's anger flared up at Jonathan and said to him, You son of a verse and rebellious woman. Now he's bringing Jonathan's mother into this. Don't I know that you have sided with the son of Jesse to your own shame and to the shame of the mother who bore you?
Starting point is 00:04:42 As long as the son of Jesse lives on the earth, Neither of you nor your kingdom will be established. Here's getting at Saul's motive. Now send someone to bring it to me for he must die. Why should he be put to death? What has he done? Jonathan asked his father. But Saul hurled his spirit him, Jonathan, to kill him. Then Jonathan knew his father intended to kill David.
Starting point is 00:05:05 And so he shoots the arrows fire and says, hey, you better leave. It comes to a head in chapter 22. So I just got to cover chapter 21 really quick. David goes to Knob to Himalek the priest and gets some help. He's starving. Doesn't have any food. Doesn't have any weaponry. Himalek says, well, I don't have the bread, but the shoe bread in the temple.
Starting point is 00:05:28 These were big loaves, 10 pounds each. There's 12 of them they would keep, and the priest eventually would eat these. He gives him this hallowed bread, and he says, do you have any weapons? And he says, well, I got the sword of Goliath. Apparently they were keeping it there behind the Ephod and wrapped in a clock. I don't know if it's like a prize or something. I don't know what's going on. The temple has become a museum, I guess.
Starting point is 00:05:51 David says, there's none like that. Give it me. Like, there's no sword like the sword of Goliath. Give it that to me. David gets up and he escapes to the king of Gath. He goes to Gath. That's where Goliath was from. That's the safest place for him in the heart of the enemy.
Starting point is 00:06:07 David eventually leaves hiding in caves. Finally, verse 7, you've got this Saul saying, the servants this is about, I'm hearing you now, you Benjaminites. Will the son of Jesse give every one of you filled? Look at verse 8. This is the eye disease. This is, here am I, send me. All of you have conspired against me, and there is none that show with me that my son hath made a league with the son of Jesse, and there is none of you that is sorry for me, or showeth unto me that my son has stirred up my servant against me to lie and wait this day. Eight of the 55 words, it's one and about six.
Starting point is 00:06:46 This is the eye disease that has just consumed him. Only concerned about him, you don't feel sorry for me. There was a man named Doag. He didn't eat a mite. He had seen what had happened with David down there in the priest. And he says, hey, yeah, the priest gave David food, and he gave him victuals, gave him the sword of Goliath, the Philistine. And they bring the priest, Elimelech to Saul.
Starting point is 00:07:10 And he says in verse 13, and Saul said in the He said, him the priest, why have you conspired against me, thou and the son of Jesse, in that thou would give him bread and a sword, and is inquired of God for him, that he should riseeth against me to lie and wait for this day? And let me answer and said, and who is so faithful among the servants as David, which is the king's son-in-law, and goeth at thy bidding, and is honorable in thine house? He's like, what are you talking about? This is one of the most faithful servants. You're not happy that I gave him something to eat and a sword. I did begin to inquire the God for him. Be it far from me. Let not the king impute anything into his servant, nor in all the house of my
Starting point is 00:07:52 father, for thy servant knew nothing of all this lesser more. And the king Saul said to him, Thou shalt surely die. And in verse 17, the Saul's men that were of Israel would not do it. But our friend Doeg, who was an Edomite, said, I'll do it. And in this moment, they kill 85 priests that wear the linen ephod in verse 18. Eighty-five. And not only that, they went to Knob and smote with the edge of the sword. In verse 19, both men, women, and children, and sucklings. Everything.
Starting point is 00:08:30 They killed, they destroyed an entire city because the priest gave David food. what happened to Saul hopefully we can find happiness in this chapter at some point I love section 121 in the doctrine covenants one of my dear friends at work said one day he said you know I love section 121 because here is the moment in Joseph Smith's life where he's the most powerless
Starting point is 00:08:57 and God gives him the greatest revelation on power Joseph you think you're powerless let me teach you about power And then you have this absolute incredible experience. Verse 39 of Section 121, we learned by sad experience that is the nature and disposition of almost all men. As soon as they get a little authority, as they suppose, they will immediately begin to exercise unrighteous dominion. Behold, there are many called. And this is why many called the few were chosen, right? I was thinking about this in preparing to come be with the two of you today.
Starting point is 00:09:32 And I had one of those moments when heaven spoke to me. I hope this makes sense for you and your viewers, but it made a lot of sense to me, because I was sitting here thinking, I would not want the challenge of being the king of Israel. Because here's Saul, he was the best they could find at the time. And he really doesn't do well. And David, is anyone more valiant than David? I know he struggles. And you're going to talk about that next week. I was thinking about that. And I had this little impression come and says, well, what makes you think you're not in a little bit? little challenge like that right now. I immediately thought about the Abraham covenant where God promised Abraham land and posterity and priesthood. And I love that and the fulfillment of that and the restoration of that covenant today in our life. I thought about my little land stewardship and my sweet wife and my six children and my nine grandchildren in a very small way. I have a little, if I can say
Starting point is 00:10:29 kingdom. How am I doing with that? And I got in only a way that the spirit can do, I very evaluated my life in that moment. I came out of thinking, you know what? I need to be a better husband. I need to be a better father. I try really hard, but I know I can do better. Section 121, I think everyone knows it well about many are called and fewer chosen and why are they not chosen. Verse 35 is Saul, because their hearts are set so much on the things of this world and aspired the honors of men. The women were singing that song and it just drew. drove Saul crazy. The rights of the priesthood are inseparably connected with the powers of heaven. The powers of heaven cannot be controlled or handled only upon the principles of righteousness.
Starting point is 00:11:17 I think this is a very, very well-known section. In verses 41 to 43, if you want to know what you need to do to be like the Savior and to continue having this power, you see words like persuasion, long-suffering, gentleness, meekness, love and fame, kindness, pure knowledge. This is the Savior. Without hypocrisy, without guile, Gile is deceitful cunning. Our Heavenly Father and His Son can even reprove us
Starting point is 00:11:42 and then show an increase of love. Someone that's like this can show an increase of love and then that even after the reproving, the bond is stronger. Verse 46, I love of Section 121. If you're able to do these things, the Holy Ghost shall be thy constant companion and thy scepter.
Starting point is 00:12:01 Thy scepter. Who holds sceptors? Kings hold sceptors. Rulers hold scepters, right? So here you have echoes of this Abraham Accombe. You have this echoes of a king. Thy scepter shall be an unchanging scepter of righteous and truth, and thy dominion shall be an everlasting dominion.
Starting point is 00:12:19 Now, I don't know everything about this verse, and don't claim to, but it seems that everlasting there, we've left this life, this earth life, to the eternities. And then this phrase is so powerful. and without compulsory means, it shall flow into thee forever and ever. What's the antecedent to it? Thy dominion?
Starting point is 00:12:42 Your dominion's going to flow without compulsory means? We know very little about the next life. We know very little about the relationship that we're going to have with each other. We know the sealing power is there and it's real, and families can be together forever. I come from this saying, I need to be the kind of individual, father, husband, friend that people would want to be with.
Starting point is 00:13:08 There is no compulsion in heaven. Why do you want to be with Christ? Why do you want to be with the Savior? I love him because he loved me. He takes us exactly where we're at, no matter where we're at. but he loves us into coming up a little bit higher. I always feel that way when I feel the spirit. Things become clear, but I feel like I could be safe with him.
Starting point is 00:13:40 Safety is a beautiful word. Jonathan and David feel safe with each other. They hug, they weep. I look at the Savior and talk about someone who's persuasive. He's long-suffering. Oh, goodness, he's put up with me in my whole entire life. He's long-suffering. He's gentle.
Starting point is 00:13:56 He's meek. His love is not fake. It's real. He's kind. There's no hypocrisy in him. There's no deceitful cunning. Gile. I want to be with the Savior because not only what he has done for me, but because he loves me. You're absolutely right. President Oakes, I think the word love is 22 times, if I counted right, in his talk that he just recently gave in conference. What was the message of President Oakes? After that beautiful solemn assembly and this is his main address. He wants us to love. And I want to be like Jonathan. I want to set my own throne aside and accept the Savior my life. Because every single time I do that, I'm happier. People around me are happier. My life is great.
Starting point is 00:14:43 So if there's anything redeeming that we can get out of this story of Saul's demise, as he slaughters a whole city, an 85 priest, is that maybe it's a non-example, that we've got to be careful not to get drunk. with our own conceit. Well, I like that word you use. He was consumed with it. You might even say possessed.
Starting point is 00:15:05 How do you go that far? I don't know if this was pointed out to me or if I just was reading one day. I wish I knew so I could give someone credit. These three kings are all going to fall. The Lord is going to have three temptations. They sure line up quite a bit. He is the king that would not fall to these.
Starting point is 00:15:24 That's awesome. I've never thought about that. beautiful. Isn't that great? And that goes back to the principle that we're focusing on here. Look for Jesus. Yeah, look for the Savior and everything you're teaching. I really want to get to one more story and we're going to have one chapter to set it up and then we're going to end on a beautiful note, especially with learning about Christ. Chapter 23, David has kind of a neat moment. You can see he's maturing. And in fact, in verse 1 and verse 2, he may not need prophets as much. He's getting better at inquiring of the Lord. Because the Philistines
Starting point is 00:16:02 coming to Kila and they're robbing the threshing floors. They're harvesting their wheat and their corn probably. And that's a great time to go rob people when they're harvesting their food. And then David inquired to the Lord saying, shall I go and smite to Philistines? And the Lord said, go and smite to Philistines, save this city. Stave Kilah. So David has got Saul's armies behind him. Now he's being called to defend Israel. And verse four, he's like, are you sure? David inquired to the Lord again. And the Lord answered him again and said, arise, go down to Kilah for I will deliver the Philistines in my hands. And so David, verse five, goes down, and smites the inhabitants of Kilow. And I think what happens next really sets up what happens
Starting point is 00:16:45 to him in a moment with Abigail. The apologetic is going to come out in me really quick. I love verse 6, because there's only one person that survived the slaughter at Nann. It was the son of the priest, and his name is Abithar. He fled to David and Dekela, and he came down with an ephod in his hand. I think we all know what the Ephod is, right? It was what the high priest would wear. It had inside of the Ephod, it had a Ehram and Thum. You see, verse 9, David was like, bring hither the Ephod.
Starting point is 00:17:16 I've got to talk to God. Then said David, O Lord God of His God, Israel. He goes ahead and he's inquiring of the Lord again by use of the Ephod or the Euram and Thumbum. Even if you go to Wikipedia and type in Ephod, it's very clear that the Ephod had a Ehram and Thumbum and ancient prophets used it for revelation. We kind of went crazy one year in our stake and we built essentially the whole tabernacle except for the outer courtyard. And we built this beautiful mannequin and put this, we put this Ephot on him. the story of Joseph Smith and the breastplate and eurymothumbum is so strange to people.
Starting point is 00:17:56 But I want to say, wait a minute. Do you read the Hebrew Bible? Do you read the Old Testament? Because if you did, you would know that the Yeram and Thumbum and Revelation is not something new to God's people. So forgive the apology at it coming out. I just think that's awesome. The story of the coming forth of the Book of Mormon is a sheer miracle. every time I read the book of Mormon, I have a witness in my heart that this is the word of God.
Starting point is 00:18:24 I just love that. David's inquiring the Lord. This prayer is, will the man of Qilah deliver me up into Saul? Saul's going to come. He's going to hear I did this. And the Lord said, he will come down and he said, they will deliver you up. Even though you just saved their life, they will give you up to Saul. Why? Probably because of what they had heard what happened in Nam. And so David says, that's not good, and so they take off. But he may be thinking, oh my goodness, maybe this strategy isn't working very well. You know, because he has a weak moment in just a minute. Chapter 24, a well-known story. David finds Saul asleep in a cave.
Starting point is 00:19:02 He's hiding a cave. It's the same cave that Saul eventually hides in. And his servants are like, David, God has delivered him in your hand. And David is, there's no way. there is no way I am going to lift up my hand against the Lord's annoyed in verse 6. He's not going to do it. He cuts off just a piece of Saul's garment and there's so much guilt inside of him. And there's this invariant moment when they're leaving.
Starting point is 00:19:29 And David says, hey, by the way, I was in the Cape. I'm sparing your life. And he calls him Father and Saul in verse 16. Is this thy voice, my son, David? Saul lifted of his voice and wept. And as you began this great podcast, here's this verse, and he said unto David, thou art more righteous than I. For thou hast rewarded me good, whereas I have rewarded the evil. And I want to say, okay then, Saul, throw down your spear, throw down your weapons, go give David a hug.
Starting point is 00:20:04 Bring him back to your house. Repent of this evil, but he doesn't. Verse 20, behold, I know well that thou shalt, thou shalt, thou shalt, certainly be king. And then the king of the visual shall be established in thine hand. Amazing to me. I just wish that Saul could say, I'm going to give this up and live my life and go take care of any of the descendants of the people who live in Nab. But he doesn't. He just still can stay is consumed. Chapter 25 is such a great note to end on. And you have this story of Nabal. His name means full. probably given that name after the story had been told many times.
Starting point is 00:20:44 You have this incredible individual named Abigail, a beautiful type of the Savior. But verse 1, Samuel dies. Here's his mentor. I have no doubt that David felt more on his own. And all Israel lamented this. David arises. He's out on the countryside,
Starting point is 00:21:03 and there's a man very rich there. his name's the ball. David is essentially protecting. He's got about 600 soldiers now and men with him, and he's protecting the land. And he's protecting Nibal's things. Verse three, now the name of the man was Nabal and the name of his wife was Abigail. She was a woman of good understanding and a beautiful countenance, but the man was churlish. That looked down, just rude, rough and evil in his doings. And he was at the house of Caleb. David says, look, we're pretty hungry, and we've been protecting the sheep for a long time. He sends people down there, greet him, go to Nabal, greet him in my name, and say peace to thee, peace of that house, and can we please have some food, essentially. Verse 10 of chapter 25, the Bible answered David's servants and said, who is David?
Starting point is 00:21:54 Who is the son of Jesse? Jesse Bethlehem? Are you kidding me? There's a lot of servants nowadays that are breaking away every man from his master. And then verse 11, here's our little game. We're going to play again with the eye disease. You're listening at home. As you're marking your scriptures, you're listening, count the number of times. He says the word I or my in these 31 words. You ready?
Starting point is 00:22:18 Shall I then take my bread and my water and my flesh that I have killed for my shearers and give it unto men whom I know not once they be? So he's breaking the record at every four and a half words, he's using the word I or my or me. Here you have someone consumed with wealth. What would the savior do or what would someone with the Spirit of the Lord do in this moment? I would hope to think that if I had the protection of this army protecting my things, I guarantee Nebalt knew who David was and what he'd been doing. And in their culture, this was not good to do anyway, to turn away someone in need. David has
Starting point is 00:23:00 this fairly weak moment. He has 400 men in verse 13, takes them with him, and the 200 abode by the stuff, it says, in verse 13. He leaves 200 men to guard their things, and he takes 400. And essentially, you can see in verse 21, surely, in vain, I have kept all that this fellow hath in the wilderness, so that nothing was missed and nothing was stolen, all that pertained to him. And he hath requitted me evil for good. He says, I'm going to go in, and And in the morning, there will be no men left. Is this a weak moment for David? He's going to do this.
Starting point is 00:23:36 They are marching to Naval. What do you think? This one's hard, David's saying, I did all this for you. What is it? The servant says, he railed on him. Part of me is thinking, well, if you're not the king's friend, you're the king's enemy. And this is how the king treats his enemies. But I think you're right.
Starting point is 00:23:53 Who is David? I'll show you who David is. David could have been justified. I don't understand our culture. But it seems to be a little bit much. David, fortunately, is spared by an incredible woman, which so many of us, including myself, is spared many times daily by righteous women. And her name is Abigail.
Starting point is 00:24:15 She hears about this, by the way. Servants tell her that David's getting ready to come in and take care of business. She quickly, in verse 18, made haste gets 200 loaves, two bottles of wine, five sheep, ready dress, kills him, hasn't prepared. so lots of food and she brings this gift to David and they meet on the road. Abigail sees David and she hasted, lighted off the donkey, fell before David on her face, bowed herself to the ground. Verse 24 is so beautiful.
Starting point is 00:24:45 And she fell at his feet and said, upon me, my lord, upon me, let this iniquity be. She's taking responsibility of somebody else's actions. and let thy handmaid, I pray thee, speak in thy audience and hear the words of thy handmaid. Will you let the iniquity be in me and I want to talk to you? And she gives one of the greatest speeches probably in the Old Testament. Verse 25, she mentions that her husband's a fool. He comes by his name honestly. Verse 28, forgive the trespass of thy handmaid again.
Starting point is 00:25:19 She's taken responsibility. And then she prophesies, for the Lord will certainly make thy Lord a sure house. and because my lord fight at the battles of the lord and evil have not been found in him all the days of life she's saying David evil has not been found in you at all but you're on the cusp of something that i guarantee you is going to hurt your heart in fact you even uses a reference to a sling and the soul of all in enemies them shall he sling out as the middle of a sling she's referenced back to david and gilead verse 30 she says at the end of it You're going to be king over Israel, David. Verse 31, if you go in, this thing you're about to do, it will cause you grief. I don't want David for you when you take the kingship to have any grief,
Starting point is 00:26:11 nor offense of heart unto my Lord. Either that thou hast shed blood causeless, or that my Lord hath avenged himself. Isn't this beautiful? David, don't go into being the king of Israel with this. on your conscience. David, of course, blessed be the Lord God of Israel in verse 32, and blessed be thy advice in verse 33. He is so happy. Can you imagine that for just a moment? David, he's upset, and this woman diffused him instantly by taking the blame herself. That is so beautiful. I love the word intercession. This is the definition. Intercession is the act of
Starting point is 00:26:56 intervening, pleading, or praying on behalf of another person or group. She intercedes in this moment. We know the role of the Savior here is our intercessor between us and God. He intervenes. He pleads. The Savior says, I'm pleading your cause before the Father. It involves acting as a mediator to bridge the gap. The Savior is the mediator between us and God.
Starting point is 00:27:20 Often in a spiritual context, this is Webster's definition, by the way. of the spiritual context like praying to God or someone else or a practical context intervening to resolve a conflict or situation. She is interceding. Another valiant woman, Sister Christian Yeh, who's in the general Releases I of Preins right now said this about this moment. In this account, Abigail can be seen as a powerful type or symbol of Jesus Christ. Through his atoning sacrifice, he can release us from the sin and weight of a warring heart and provide us with the sustenance we need.
Starting point is 00:27:52 just as Abigail was willing to take the ball's sin upon herself, so did the Savior in an incomprehensible way, take upon him our sins and the sins of those who have hurt or offended us. In Gisemone upon the cross, he claimed these sins. He made a way for us to let go of a vengeful heart, like David's. That way is through forgiving, which can be one of the most difficult things we ever do, and one of the most divine things we will ever experience. Isn't that beautiful? on the path of forgiveness, Sister, He continues
Starting point is 00:28:23 Jesus Christ, atoning power can flow into our lives and begin to heal deep crevices of the heart and soul. I love that, and I love this story. I love this righteous woman, Abigail. David withholds. He doesn't do it. By the way, she goes home, her husband's drunk. She's like, I'm not going to tell him tonight.
Starting point is 00:28:41 She waits till the next day in verse 37. She tells him what was going to happen. He has a heart attack. And a few days later, he dies. Abigail and David get married. I love that you brought Sister Ye's sermon up. This, to me, was one of the best sermons I've ever heard. And it's linked right in the Come Follow Me, Manual.
Starting point is 00:29:04 Beauty for Ashes, the Healing Path of Forgiveness, October 2022, Sister Kristen M. Yee. Everyone needs to listen to this talk again. She was very vulnerable in talking about her childhood, She says, I have personally witnessed the miracle of Christ healing my warring heart. With permission of my father, I shared that I grew up in a home where I didn't always feel safe because of emotional and verbal mistreatment. In my youth and young adult ears, I resented my father and had anger in my heart from that hurt.
Starting point is 00:29:41 Over the years and in my efforts to find peace and healing on the path to forgiveness, I remember this when she said this. I came to realize in a profound way that the same Son of God who atoned for my sins is the same Redeemer who also saved those who have deeply hurt me. I could not truly believe the first truth without believing the second. As my love for the Savior has grown, so has my desire to replace hurt and anger with his healing balm. It has been a process of many years, requiring courage, vulnerability,
Starting point is 00:30:18 perseverance and learning to trust in the Savior's divine power to save and heal. I still have work to do, but my heart is no longer on a war path. Beautiful. When someone can take a story like this and then create a sermon, they basically in my mind become inseparable, this story and this talk. Thank you for linking all these talks and they come follow me, Manuel. I've always wanted to thank someone for that. Thank you, Mike. Hanks, thank you so much for saying. that we love embedding the words of prophets, fears, and revelators, and our wonderful general officers and the 70 Income Follow Me. We hope out there that you click on those and revisit those. Sister Ye in this moment gave us a beautiful testimony. Talk about Blessed be thy advice,
Starting point is 00:31:07 right? She gave us incredible advice in breaking down this story for us, and it's a story that's not well known. I see Elder Ulysses Suarez as like Paul. Paul is an apostle and so is Elder Suarez, so is Elder Bednar, Peter, the chief apostle, we have President Oaks, whom I love with all my heart. We get a sit every six months at the feet of incredible people. And so, yeah, blessed be thy advice. I remember hearing Sister Ye's talk, her being willing to share that and let us know, I'm wrestling, I'm fighting the same battles that everybody is. And at the very beginning of this, Mike, you used a phrase that I wrote down, you talked about they, there, then, and comparing it to our, me here, and now.
Starting point is 00:31:56 And that is exactly what Sister Ye did. Looking back at this situation with Abigail, willing to take Nabal's iniquity upon herself as a type of Christ, and then hearing Sister Ye be so vulnerable and say, look, I'm working on it. So many people could just go, oh, thank you for saying that. Even though this is the Old Testament a long time ago, look how they there and then is affecting our me here and now. Perfect example. You know, you can't psychoanalyze people in the past, especially in ancient history. But I wonder with David and Saul, if David has not been a little bit traumatized by people trying to hurt him, maybe a little post-traumatic Saul. And here's Nowball who treats him bad and he loses his temper. And here's Abigail saying, don't do this. Don't do this. I know you're
Starting point is 00:32:56 angry and you maybe even have a right to be angry. But don't do this. I bet both of you would say the same thing as I'm about to, that I have a woman in my life who has said that multiple times to me. Don't do this. Don't do it. You'll regret it. And you're not in the wrong here. This is not a good idea. How many of us, as husbands and wives too, I'm sure, or it's children or from a brother or sister who gives us some advice, how many of us say, I don't need your advice. But that phrase, Blessed be thy advice, I need to put it on my mirror. So I'm not prideful when someone who cares about me gives me advice. Write it on the mirror, blessed be thy advice. I had an experience when I was teaching seminary down in Castle Dell that really affected me deeply. I had this apple tree in my
Starting point is 00:33:52 backyard. It was golden delicious apples, and they were so beautiful. This year, we had a frost kill most of and there was about 15 apples. And I wasn't let anyone get these apples until it was time. I came home from seminary just after that frost. It was time to harvest the apples. And I lived on the border of a elementary school, and there was a six-foot fence between the school and my yard. I looked out my backyard and there was one boy up in the tree, another boy on the ground, and they were grabbing these apples as fast as they can and throwing them over. There was a line of kids getting all these apples. They'd gotten most of my apples by the time I came out. I saw who it was, and so I was mad. I was mad. I went over to the school and I talked to the principal,
Starting point is 00:34:33 and they found out who it was, these two boys that were in my tree, and they suspended them for like three days or something. I don't know. I got my revenge. Well, unfortunately, about a couple weeks after that, the pheasant hunt was on, and this boy that was up in my tree was out hunting with another youth, and they didn't have an adult with them, and they crossed the fence. The gun went off, and this little boy was killed. Yeah, it's a tragic story. I remember about a week later, a seminary, wise seminary student giving a devotional saying, you know, that thing, if you could have lunch with anyone, who would it be? We all got a chance to share, and I said, I'd have lunch with this boy. I don't know how the
Starting point is 00:35:15 Savior would have handled that situation. Obviously, stealing's bad. I think he would have gone out and probably quietly made his way to the tree before that boy would have gotten down. I think he would have probably put his hand on his shoulder and looked him in the eye and probably got down on his level and
Starting point is 00:35:31 maybe reproved time a little bit, you know, reproved a little bit. Then he would have probably given him a hug and said, hey, let's make sure everyone here has an apple. I just think that's who he was. And about a year later, I moved out to another small town and it had this ditch behind our house. And it was an irrigation ditch. It had water going through it. And where the
Starting point is 00:35:54 water went underground, there was this big cog. Think of a bicycle spoke with a big chain, but about five times a size. It was very dangerous, but the kids loved to swim there. I remember going out one day, a bunch of 12-year-olds again, and they were swimming. And I said, you guys, you got to get out of hear that's very dangerous and they start saying to me to me things that 12 year olds would say when they don't really care about you you know and I'm like please you're going to get hurt and they they were saying call me names and things like that 30 minutes later my brother and I were in the shed and we hear blood curling screams coming from the backyard we run back there and this boy that was the most boisterous towards me was in the water and his hand had gotten caught in that
Starting point is 00:36:38 cog and it had stopped the sweep and it was stuck and he was just screaming it was mangled in a mess we didn't know what to do we grabbed the hacksaw trying to cut through this chain and and finally after four or five minutes we jumped in the river and was able to just with you know going against the force of the water bring that cog back to free his mangled hand his mom had gotten there by that time and she grabbed him and off they took him to the hospital. And about two hours later, I go in and my wife's baking cookies. Very long enough by then to tell them that my wife's baking cookies, most likely they're not for me. And I said, who are the cookies for? She already had this beautiful plate in this boy's name, and she says, we're taking these to that boy. This is the nature, I think, of women. And it's a Christ-like nature.
Starting point is 00:37:37 I want to be more like that. And one last thought, a year later, I had this, we had a big garden, had about 10 rows of corn, and I came home one day from Teaching Institute, and there were some boys in my corn, and they were just pulling that corn as fast as they could, putting in bags.
Starting point is 00:37:56 And I yelled, boys! And instantly, this thing happened in my heart. And they start running, I'm like, take all you want! No, be careful as you leave. Take all you want. You could have for the corn.
Starting point is 00:38:13 It's okay. Do both of you remember when, was it President Oakes was held up at gunpoint? And how calmly he handled that? And what did he say? You don't want to do this or something to the young man? There's the knee jerk and then there's the pause and listen to this advice. And ask yourself, I think it's another President Oakes phrase, where will this lead to slow down a little bit?
Starting point is 00:38:39 Thank you for the Abigail's and for the Holy Ghost who can tell you to pause for a second. What's the outcome here if you go with your knee-jerk reaction? Wow, thank you for those stories, Mike. Those are hard, but important. I'm sure you both remember when the first presidency would have a message in the enzyme. I do remember opening this one up, and it has never left me. It was from President Uchtorf. He says,
Starting point is 00:39:12 The great Russian author, Tolstoy, began his novel, Anna Karenina, with these words. Happy families are all alike. Every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way. He says, while I do not have Tolstoy's certainty that all happy families are all alike, I have discovered one thing that they have in common. They have a way of forgiving. and forgetting the imperfections of others and looking for the good. And then he told this story. It's dramatic and jolting.
Starting point is 00:39:42 But I've never forgotten it, and this was 14 years ago, this was printed. There is an old Welsh story from the 13th century about a prince who returned home to find his dog with blood dripping down its face. The man rushed inside and, to his horror, saw that his baby boy was missing and his cradle overturned. In anger, the prince pulled out his sword and killed. killed his dog. Shortly thereafter, he heard the cry of his son. The baby was alive. By the infant's side lay a dead wolf.
Starting point is 00:40:14 The dog had, in reality, defended the prince's baby from the murderous wolf. He says, the story is dramatic. It demonstrates a point. It opens the possibility that the story we tell ourselves about why others behave a certain way does not always agree with the facts. Sometimes we don't even want to know the facts. We would rather feel self-justified in our anger by holding on to our bitterness and resentment. And then he quotes from the wonderful proclamation on the family. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work,
Starting point is 00:40:59 and John's favorite wholesome recreational activities. Hank, thank you so much. That's a tough story. It's just a good reminder. Well, listen, I want to just set up next week really quick. Chapter 26, David again. Same thing happens. He's in a trench.
Starting point is 00:41:17 He spares Saul's life again. They have a conversation. And eventually we get to chapter 31, when Saul and his sons, including our hero, Johnathan is slain. It's the end of Saul's life and the end of Jonathan's life. The book of 2nd Samuel opens up. David eventually becomes the king. I do want to say that David brings back the Ark of the Covenant. He eventually wants to build the house of the Lord. He's like, the temple's in the dirt and I'm in Cedarwood, but he's told, no, you're not going to build
Starting point is 00:41:49 the house, but we will build a house for you. He's talking about this everlasting kingdom, this everlasting house. In 2 Samuel 7, your house and your kingdom will endure forever, before me, your throne will be established forever. And of course, that's fulfilled by the Savior. I love in Matthew chapter one, that the very first book of the New Testament, the book of the generations of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham. When I think of David, I remember the David that slew Goliath. Who is more faithful than David in the Old Testament? 2 Samuel 11 should say to every single one of us, be careful. If someone this valiant can be tempted, we honored David's life. It was incredible.
Starting point is 00:42:36 Remember the man that was born blind, oh Jesus, thou son of David, have mercy on me. We have this moment with the triumphal entry, the multitudes cried Hosanna to the son of David. I want to testify that Jesus Christ is the king of kings, and he will come. again. We live in such an incredible time. Can you believe we're alive in this moment? I just sometimes wake up and say, we are alive in this moment. The gospel of Jesus Christ is being spread throughout the world, and we get to watch it. I had a really intimate and kind of exciting experience with President Nelson who liked to share with you. He gave me permission to share this. I had a chance to do this face-to-face events where we would have members of 12 and their spouses on live broadcast. We were taking in
Starting point is 00:43:23 questions live from youth around the world. And we had one of these prepared or planned for President Nelson. He was going to do it. This is when he was the president of the corps of the 12 apostles. And I'd had an impression that I wanted to share with him. And I said, President, how would you feel if we, instead of doing a face-to-face event where you're answering questions with your sweet wife, that we change that and do a global worldwide broadcasts for the youth of the church? I was kind of nervous. President Hinkley gave one when he gave the Bees talk and President Benson had addressed
Starting point is 00:43:56 the youth in general conference and I said it would be kind of like that he began to smile and I began to I got more confidence this was the hope of Israel talk and he looked at me and said Mike let's do it then he said this
Starting point is 00:44:09 we need to get the youth ready for the second coming of Jesus Christ for he is coming and when the Lord's prophet looked at me with this penetrating gaze and said, he is coming. The hair on the back of my neck was standing up. The King of Kings is coming. He said, we need to get the youth ready for him to come. And then when you think about what his subject matter was in this broadcast, I'm inviting you to be
Starting point is 00:44:43 in the Lord's Battalion. We've been talking about battalions today. The Lord's Battalion do gather Israel again. David united Israel. Let's unite and let's gather them again. How can we get the youth ready for the second coming in my mind from this experience? We invite them and help them gather Israel. We are at a time when we're seeing missionary work and we are preparing the world for this Davidic king, Jesus Christ, to come again. Mike, we can't thank you enough for your time and your preparation. This was so much fun. I agree. And thank you again for what you're doing. We're so grateful that your strength in the faith and testimony of so many people every week. Thank you for what you're doing. The battle is the Lord's.
Starting point is 00:45:32 With that, we want to thank Brother Mike Madsen for spending his time with us today. We want to thank our executive producer, Shannon Sorensen. Our sponsors, David and Verles Sorensen. And every episode we recognize and remember our founder, Steve Sorensen. We hope you'll join us next week. We're going to continue our studies of the Old Testament on Follow Him. As a thank you to our wonderful listeners, we'd love to gift you the digital version of our book, Finding Jesus Christ in the Old Testament. It offers short, meaningful insights drawn from our past Old Testament episodes. Visit followhim.com. That's followhim.com to download your free copy today, and you'll also find the link to purchase the print edition. Thank you for being part of our Follow Him family.
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