Follow Him: A Come, Follow Me Podcast - Doctrine & Covenants 46-48 Part 1 • Prof. Danny Ricks • May 12-18 • Come Follow Me

Episode Date: May 7, 2025

How do we seek “the best gifts?” Professor Danny Ricks explores the Saints early days in Kirtland, the nature of spiritual gifts, and the importance of welcoming all to the Restored Church.SHOW NO...TES/TRANSCRIPTSEnglish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastDC220ENFrench: https://tinyurl.com/podcastDC220FRGerman: https://tinyurl.com/podcastDC220DEPortuguese: https://tinyurl.com/podcastDC220PTSpanish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastDC220ESYOUTUBEhttps://youtu.be/q4KdRVhhppMALL EPISODES/SHOW NOTESfollowHIM website: https://www.followHIMpodcast.comFREE PDF DOWNLOADS OF followHIM QUOTE BOOKSNew Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastNTBookOld Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastOTBookWEEKLY NEWSLETTERhttps://tinyurl.com/followHIMnewsletterSOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/followHIMpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/followhimpodcastTIMECODE00:00 - Part 1 - Professor Danny Ricks04:10 Bio of Danny Ricks05:53 Come, Follow Me Manual09:53 Gifts of the Spirit and persecution12:29 Allowing all to attend13:50 D&C 46:3-6 - Could the Lord be clearer?14:50 D&C 35:17 - Jesus wants smokers, drinkers, and sexists.18:48 You had better follow the Holy Ghost21:34 Satan preys on Imposter Syndrome27:36 A bishop in overalls31:52 Meetings directed by the Spirit35:11 Gratitude is a cure-all39:17 Understanding comes with time42:51 Seeking spiritual gifts47:27 Administrative gifts 50:55 Elder Packer “Our Moral Environment”53:15 A spiritual autopsy55:47 The love of a comma59:13 Nodding at Nephi1:01:00 Given to believe1:03:41 Varieties of gifts1:07:17 End of Part I - Professor Danny RicksThanks to the followHIM team:Steve & Shannon Sorensen: Cofounder, Executive Producer, SponsorDavid & Verla Sorensen: SponsorsDr. Hank Smith: Co-hostJohn Bytheway: Co-hostDavid Perry: ProducerKyle Nelson: Marketing, SponsorLisa Spice: Client Relations, Editor, Show NotesJamie Neilson: Social Media, Graphic DesignWill Stoughton: Video EditorKrystal Roberts: Translation Team, English & French Transcripts, WebsiteAriel Cuadra: Spanish TranscriptsAmelia Kabwika: Portuguese TranscriptsHeather Barlow: Communications Director"Let Zion in Her Beauty Rise" by Marshall McDonaldhttps://www.marshallmcdonaldmusic.com

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Coming up in this episode on Follow Him. Look what Joseph as a prophet is restoring in five years. It's Dickens, right? It was the best of times. It was the worst of times. Yeah. Temple is built. The keys are restored. Angelic visitations. People after the Curlin Temple dedication thought they were in the millennium. They're like, is this the millennium? Have we been here? Because Christ has come. We have multiple appearances. Maybe we're in the Millennium. Within months, members of the 12 Apostles have apostatized. Joseph and Sidney have to run for their lives. Their life was in danger. Plots to kill the Prophet Joseph.
Starting point is 00:00:37 This idea of being like prayer and thanksgiving. What happened to being thankful for everything Joseph restored through God? They stopped being thankful for the light and knowledge that had been restored from a prophet of God to the point that they were deceived by this evil spirit. Be thankful for what you have. What's better than the plan of salvation? There's not one thing I've ever heard in my life that lights my soul on fire like the plan of salvation. I lived before I was born. I have heavenly parents. There's a plan for this experience here on Earth. I can become like my heavenly parents.
Starting point is 00:01:13 Are you joking me? There's nothing sweeter. But then all of a sudden, yeah, but he's a bad banker and I lost some money. True. At the same time, be thankful for what's been restored. Families are forever. That doctrine one-stop shopping here. If your heart resonates with that and you know it does, credibly that we're the only religion I know of that believes in families are forever. Yet every love song, every poem is like no forever love. We trail that from the pre-mortal life. Let's be thankful.
Starting point is 00:01:47 You got that because of a prophet. Hello everyone. Welcome to another episode of Follow Him. My name is Hank Smith. I am your host. I am here with my co-host John, by the way. Now John, section 46 has so many descriptors to choose from, so I'm going to use as many as I can here.
Starting point is 00:02:08 John, by the way, who has the gift of the word of wisdom. John, by the way, who has the gift of knowledge. John, by the way, who has the faith to be healed. John, by the way, who has the faith to heal. John, by the way, who knows the differences of administration, the diversities of operations. John, you have all of these gifts. It's pretty incredible. Well, I'm seeking them. John, speaking of gifts, we are joined by a person with many gifts. This is Danny Ricks. He teaches
Starting point is 00:02:42 up in the religion department at BYU, Idaho. Welcome, Danny. Thank you. Good to be here. Comes highly recommended by many of our guests, John. So, both of you, we are in sections 46, 47, and 48 today. Actually, not a lot of verses to cover compared with some other lessons we've had. So, John, when you think gifts of the Spirit, the name of the lesson is, Seek ye earnestly the best gifts. What comes to mind? I have the gift of guilt. It's not actually here, but that's what I have. I feel like every time I study this and I hear that phrase,
Starting point is 00:03:18 seek earnestly the best gifts, I think I need to do that. And I'm always fired up when I read it and then I forget and I don't do it. So I don't fit your description, Hank. I need that reminder that the gifts are available and to seek them more often. Yeah. Danny, as you've been looking at these three sections, what are you looking forward to? One fun thing about the Doctrine and Covenants, there's not a lot of continuity. Section 46 is unique, Section 47 is unique, Section 48 is unique. There's a lot of individual nuggets I think are really applicable. Everything's enriched when we make sure we understand the context. I remember being a young seminary teacher and they'd say, Okay, teach these four sections, find a common theme.
Starting point is 00:04:01 You're like, well, there is no common theme in these. Jesus is the theme. Have faith. Get people to Jesus with these sections. John, Danny hasn't been with us before, so let's introduce him to our follow him audience. Danny Ricks, we learned, is related to the namesake of Ricks College. He's up there teaching at what is now BYU-Idaho and one of our friends and my former student Jonathan Heater wore a Ricks College shirt when he was in Napoleon Dynamite. Sometimes I look at DI if I can find that shirt that would be really cool. Danny talked to us about
Starting point is 00:04:41 being raised on a farm which I love The farmer stories and the farm ethic and the farmer habits are so awesome. Brother Danny Ricks went to BYU Idaho and also has a master's from Northern Arizona University. He's taught for over 20 years as a religious educator. This is what I saw in your bio that I wanted to ask you about. On the Navajo and Hopi reservations. I got hired to teach seminaries and institutes as just a young pup, and they sent me down there with my family. Wow. It was wonderful. What was that like? How would you describe that?
Starting point is 00:05:16 Yeah. So when you're young, you don't even know that it's anything that anyone else isn't doing. It was wonderful. So I coordinated, I taught release time seminary there, five classes. I taught institute classes and then I coordinated seminary institute from Chilchin-Bito to Kaibito to Shonto to Tuba City, the works. It was wonderful. Pretty amazing adventure. My wife and I often think that that's kind of where we like grew up, because we had our firstborn and literally went down there, found out we got hired the day that we brought Avery home from the hospital. Some of the greatest people I've ever met in my life. Well, Danny, we are so happy that you are here.
Starting point is 00:05:56 I'm guessing throughout our lesson today, we're going to hear a little bit about growing up on a 3,000-acre farm. I hope that that comes up. Here's how the Come Follow Me manual starts this lesson. growing up on a 3,000 acre farm. I hope that that comes up. Here's how the Come Follow Me manual starts this lesson. As Parley P. Pratt, Oliver Cowdery, Ziba Peterson, and Peter Whitmer Jr. left Kirtland and moved on to continue preaching the gospel, they left more than 100 new members of the church who had plenty of zeal, but little experience or direction. They had no instructional handbooks, no leadership
Starting point is 00:06:30 training meetings, no broadcasts of general conference. In fact, they didn't even have enough copies of the Book of Mormon to go around. Many of these new believers had been drawn to the restored gospel by the promise of marvelous manifestations of the Spirit, especially those described in the New Testament. But many found it hard to identify true manifestations of the Spirit. Seeing the confusion, Joseph Smith prayed for help. The Lord's answer is valuable today. When people often deny or ignore the things of the Spirit, he reaffirmed that spiritual manifestations are real. He also clarified what they are, gifts from a loving heavenly father given for the benefit of those who love him
Starting point is 00:07:08 and keep all his commandments and him that seeketh so to do. Wow. All right, Danny, with that, how should we start this lesson? Church is small, but a boom and curl in that Lamanite mission provides wonderful, wonderful fruit. Ohio is the Wild West.
Starting point is 00:07:28 It's not the East Coast, it's rural, it's agricultural, it's off the beaten path. Joseph's there now, Joseph's just a pup himself. He's 25 years old at the time. They didn't even realize, I'm sure, how could you? How could you realize the amazing thing that are gonna happen in Kirtland more experiences of the father and the son in Kirtland than anywhere that we have recorded in in church history this is already some fun facts for Joseph and Emma yeah seven moves in four years of marriage so far then once they get to Kirtland this is the span of everywhere that they're gonna live there seven places in Kirtland, this is the span of everywhere that they're gonna live there. Seven places in Kirtland. The Whitney home, the Morley farm,
Starting point is 00:08:12 that's where the twins died. The Johnson farm for about a year. The Whitney store was about a year and a half and the School of Profits going on at that time where that was up there. And then they had their own home for four years. And sometimes I think we kind of make Kirtland's like an asterisk in church history. We're like the first vision and then we're in Nauvoo and thriving. If you break up everywhere that Joseph lived his adult life the most is in Kirtland, Ohio. This is their nine recorded appearances of the Savior to the Prophet Joseph, five recorded appearances of the Father and the Son. This is the place and it quickly becomes the bulk of the members of the church are here in Ohio. Thus the command to go to the Ohio. So people start congregating. We kind of forget that everybody is a new convert at this time. Everyone is. There's no lifelong members. No one's been born into
Starting point is 00:08:59 the church and raised to adulthood. And this mix of cultures had to be so unique. There's internal diversity in every religion but then let alone Christianity. You've got people that are super pious. We were viewed as a Pentecostal religion at this time. If you're looking at the culture we have visitations from God the Father and Jesus. We have angels. We're so comfortable with angels. We put them on our most beautiful buildings. We like own angelic visitations. You mix up all of these people. There isn't that culture that we have now. You
Starting point is 00:09:37 take all of these people, new converts, and you put them into one room now. You're gonna have questions arise. They had some real Pentecostal experiences. I don't know if these are real, how does this happen? Let's ask God, Joseph's superpower, let's ask God. And then we get this downloaded revelation in section 46 that adds a number of other issues. So gifts of the spirit certainly are a focus, but also there's persecution.
Starting point is 00:10:05 We're already getting experiences in New York, Pennsylvania. They have to move because of persecution. And this is even before we get hard stuff. This is before plural marriage. This is before three kingdoms of glory. This is before we get things. I mean, we're already in too many reality TV shows, but we would certainly be a group that would attract some attention at this time.
Starting point is 00:10:28 Do we even allow people in some missionaries and got beat up really bad? Do we even let people come? Do we vet people before they can come to our church meetings? That's kind of a contextual breakdown to see why God delivered what he did to Joseph at this time, at least with section 46. Oh, I love it. The church isn't even a year old. March 8th, 1831.
Starting point is 00:10:51 Yep, not even a year old. Yeah, we've moved. The growth is incredible, especially those four missionaries planning to go out past the Mississippi River, which might as well be the moon, so far away. Yet they stop here in Kirtland. Everything changes. I don't know if Joseph Smith thought, yeah, we're going to start this church and we're going to move to Ohio. Denny, I really liked what you said. Ohio is the Wild West. There is no one today that I think would be like Ohio, especially those of us in Utah. Ohio is not the Wild West, it is the East Coast almost.
Starting point is 00:11:28 For these people, when you're moving this far west, you're getting far away from cities. We're used to a pretty orderly thing. We know what's going to happen. The bishop's going to welcome everybody or remember the bishopric, and then we're going to have an opening hymn, and then we're going to have an opening prayer, and then we're going to have ward business, and then we're gonna have an opening prayer and then we're gonna have war business And none of that stuff had been figured out Boy, Danny what you said is like who do you let in and maybe if people are gonna beat us up? Hank, I don't know this has ever happened to you, but you guys remember that John Whitmer was a historian for a time
Starting point is 00:11:59 I was reading in Stephen Harper's book and he tells us I wonder if this has ever happened to you He tells this story missionary John Murdoch Murch twins, and his companions were preaching in Cleveland. A deceiver came forward, knelt as if to pray. Actually, he was giving quote, a sign to the banditry to begin their abuse, close quote. Immediately, his cohorts blew out the candles and threw ink stands and books at the speaker." So Hank, has that ever happened to you? Ink stands and books? Oh my word. Later, back in Kirtland, the brethren counseled some favored, excluding from church meetings, all who were not firm in the faith. Others opposed the idea, citing the Book of Mormon passage in
Starting point is 00:12:39 which the Lord commands to, quote, not forbid any man from coming into you when you show me together. Close quote from 3518. Both positions seem justified. And that's like when Danny said, Joseph Smith, he says, well, let's ask the Lord. It gets this section. Sounds like seminary days. They're going to chuck ink stands and books at you. Yeah, I could say that when I taught freshmen in seminary. Something like that may have happened, but that is wild. That'd be terrifying to go to church thinking, I don't know him.
Starting point is 00:13:17 Is he going to be the one that attacks me today? The history of persecution is so fascinating to me that it's already prevalent. It's already prevalent. It's already prevalent. New York is prevalent. Pennsylvania is prevalent. In the midst of the translation, they have to leave and go to Fayette, to the Whitmer farm. Now, even in Ohio, kicking off so fast already, even before the tough stuff.
Starting point is 00:13:37 Because right now, what are we, Danny? We're a church, basically a Protestant church, with a new book of scripture and a prophet. You're right, all those things are gonna make us unique today, they're not part of this yet. Yeah, fascinating. The Lord's pretty clear on what the answer is though. And look at the language, three, four, five, and six. Never to cast anyone out, not to cast anyone who belonged to the church out. You shall not cast any out. Verse out. You shall not cast any out. Verse six, you shall not cast them out.
Starting point is 00:14:07 I think it's pretty crystal clear how Jesus feels about who gets lead in. Don't cast anyone out. Four times, never cast anyone out. That's three. You're commanded not to cast anyone. Verse five, you shall not cast anyone out of your sacraments. Verse six,
Starting point is 00:14:26 if there are any not of the church that are earnestly seeking after the kingdom, ye shall not cast them out. That seems like the only qualifier I saw was who are earnestly seeking the kingdom. If they're armed with ink stands. Yeah, if they come in with an ink stand. And books, then what do you intend to do with that there ink stand there? Today what I'm more worried about when I'm giving a talk is people disappearing into their phone.
Starting point is 00:14:52 But back then it was ink stands and books. Give the signal and they come rip you off the pulpit. I had a fun conversation with some of my students yesterday. We were in thirty-five seventeen. Okay. In thirty-five seventeen, Jesus says something so beautiful, right? After they say, father, you know, don't leave us. Jesus, don't leave us. In seven, he says, if you have any sick that are among you, bring them hither. He goes lame, blind, halt, maimed, leprous, or
Starting point is 00:15:21 withered, and then this thought though, or deaf, or that are afflicted in any manner, bring them. My students beautifully brought up, man everybody's welcome. I want everybody. If you have this problem, I want you. If I have this problem, I want you. I think that we've grown a lot culturally where if someone was smoking outside the church, I don't think anyone would have any problem being like, you come on in here, you sit by me. If you have problems, if you have chastity challenges, pornography challenges, alcohol, whatever it might be, you come and sit by me. I think that we've grown a lot that way. And I asked my students this, I was like,
Starting point is 00:15:57 how many of you would have zero problem wave if like you come sit by me? All of them, man, you just even fill us. We're like, we're so good. Right. Yeah, look at us. And then you bring up, okay, so if everybody's really welcome, what about someone that just posted horrible things? What about someone that's sexist? Any of the ists? Bring up any ist you want. Now do you want them to sit by you? And instantly we start to be like, well, it's interesting that we've shifted a little bit. Culture like, oh man, that's no, no, no, we're so welcoming, we're so welcoming. Does Jesus really want them? And the answer is yes.
Starting point is 00:16:32 Jesus wants everybody. Jesus wants everyone. Regardless of your problems, regardless, yes, you have problems, but so do you, your sins smell different. Right. Jesus wants smokers, drinkers, carousers, Jesus wants sexist, racist, He wants everybody because He's like, you give them time with me and I can work with them. Afflicted in any other manner. Yeah, any other manner, afflicted in any manner. I want them and then you give me time with them.
Starting point is 00:17:01 Give me time with them and we'll make them what they need to be. Jesus picks, look at his original 12. I'm gonna take Simon the Zealot. I'm gonna take Matthew the public kid. Opposite ends political spectrums. He goes, no, give them three years with me. Give them three years with me and we're gonna see what they can be.
Starting point is 00:17:16 Don't cast anyone out. If we think that we should, and I think a lot of times our instant thought is like, oh, I would never do that unless it's a sin you really don't like. And don't get me wrong, I'm not justifying. Don't be a racist. Don't be a sexist.
Starting point is 00:17:31 Don't break commandments. Go and sin no more. At the same time, I want you there. I want you rubbing shoulders with people. I want you feeling loved. I want you studying and letting the spirit work in you. All of us should be grateful that we're not the same person we were 10 years ago.
Starting point is 00:17:49 That's wonderful and that is kind of a gut check. Oh yeah, yeah, you smoke, drink, come on in, come sit by me. But then when we start to say, well not them and not them, we start to sound like the New Testament. Why are you eating with sinners? Why are you sitting with sinners? Why are you sitting with sinners? The sins that we have problems with maybe shifted a little, but we still have this problem, I think, that we need to be mindful of at least. We need to be mindful.
Starting point is 00:18:14 Don't cast anyone out. Danny, I love that you pointed out in these four verses when you say, could the Lord be more clear? And just in case you didn't hear me, the first, second, third, here's a fourth time where I'm going to say, could the Lord be more clear? And just in case you didn't hear me, the first, second, third, here's a fourth time where I'm going to say, don't cast anyone out. How can we be better about this? I'll give you an example.
Starting point is 00:18:36 What if I'm at a youth activity and here comes somebody who's not dressed the way I think they should be dressed for a youth activity? Do I say you got to go home and change? You better follow the Holy Ghost is the first thought. You better follow the Holy Ghost. I want to share a quote from President Eyring actually. This is 1989, November 1989, President Eyring. He said, gratitude for the remission of sins is the seed of charity, the pure love of Christ. Sometimes we think we can like white knuckle this thing like, oh, I'm gonna love people more.
Starting point is 00:19:12 Oh, it's my goal. I'm gonna love more. I'm struggling with roommates. I'm struggling with a kid, family problems. I'm just gonna love more. I'm gonna do that. The easiest way I've found to do that is to start realizing that you're not the ripest peach in the batch either.
Starting point is 00:19:25 You've got problems. Look in the mirror, right? Look in the mirror, like you're no peach. You have plenty of things that are annoying. You have plenty of things that people have to put up with. You have plenty of things that I'm sure are frustrating to the people you are around. So why don't you just be grateful that God likes you
Starting point is 00:19:42 and grateful that God loves you. And if you gratitude for the remission of sins that I am clean, I'm not what I was. Quoting Shakespeare, right? "'Twas I, but tis not I." Yeah, that was me, but it's not me anymore. And because he's been so gracious to me, it's easy for me to love others.
Starting point is 00:20:01 Because he's forgiven me. I mean, that example you bring up. So this person wore whatever clothes or whatever. This person made a comment that's offensive. This person's rude. This person's whatever it is. You stink sometimes too. God loves you and He invites you.
Starting point is 00:20:18 And so if I can just keep focused on that. The problem is we keep looking off of away from Jesus. If I'm dialed in, I can't believe Jesus loves me, I can't believe Jesus saved me, then all of a sudden my love for other people is I'm gonna be naturally patient with people because I know God's patient with me. I can't get over it. It's one of my favorite qualities of God. He is patient with me. That line, gratitude for the remission of sins is the seed of charity. Like the problem is we forget that we're so messy.
Starting point is 00:20:51 If you start to forget that you're a mess, you start being unrighteously judgmental. But you're saved. And if you remember that, I don't even know if you notice things that don't matter. You see souls. I don't see know if you notice things that don't matter. You see souls. I don't see the person that smokes. I don't see the person that's dressed immodestly. I don't see the races. I see a child of God that needs Jesus and I need Jesus.
Starting point is 00:21:15 And so we're bound by our need for Jesus. There's no secret sauce. It's repent. It's the doctrine of Christ. Exercise faith in Jesus. Repent with Jesus. And if I'm like just overwhelmingly grateful that I've been forgiven, then it's easy for me to love.
Starting point is 00:21:32 It's easy. Hank, we did a follow him story about the kid that showed up to my Sunday school class with the Mohawk. You remember that? Yeah, follow him favorites. Yeah, well in the story I told, I went back to, there is a God and He loves you, instead of the topic in the manual that day. We never got to dress and grooming in for the strength of youth. We stayed on there is a God and He loves you. And I love the idea that God
Starting point is 00:22:00 will take us where we're at. He won't leave us where we're at, but He'll take us where we're at. He won't leave us where we're at, but he'll take us where we're at. We have that sign on our church, visitors welcome. And do we mean that? I wonder if it could be more visitors want it. We want you here. I want to quote from an article here I found online, I wish I knew the author, said this, countless times as a missionary in New England or helping the missionaries when I lived in South Carolina, I had investigators mournfully say, I want to come to church, but I don't have nice clothes. To that I would always quickly reply, if we wanted nice clothes at church, missionaries would be sent to department stores. The Lord wants all of His children there. Dress your best to show respect, but His church welcomes visitors regardless of
Starting point is 00:22:43 how they look or how they even smell. And then this author shares this story and it is heartbreaking. He said, recently Elder Holland spoke in my state conference. He shared a story from his youth of a young man from southern Utah who was on a rival sports team. He explained that this man had reached out to Elder Holland 50 years later to share his story. This young man came from an abusive family. His dad was an alcoholic and he beat his wife and children.
Starting point is 00:23:11 As the oldest son, he would try to stand up for his mom and siblings, feeling overwhelmed. He remembered that when he was a kid, he was baptized, but his family had not been to church since then. He was never ordained to the priesthood, but he thought he could go to the church for help. He gathered the courage and walked into sacrament meeting wearing his grungy clothes. And the very first thing someone asked him, what are you doing here? Did you lose your game last night? He left and he never went back. Over the next 40 years, he grew up, got married, became an alcoholic himself, ruined his marriage, and hurt his kids. Decades later, he has come back to the church and he was
Starting point is 00:23:51 informing Elder Holland that he was being ordained a high priest, but he admitted shame and regret for years lost for never being able to talk to his grandsons about missions or about blessing or passing the sacrament. Then Elder Holland says, I do not know if that member was too young or too old to understand or maybe they just did not get what they were doing. And he then charged us, the author says, he literally was shouting, never, never, never, never do anything like this where you will look back with regret. We can't go through all the ways, can we both of you, that we might say something or even
Starting point is 00:24:31 look at someone that causes them to think, I don't belong here. I shouldn't be here. What am I doing here? Satan preys on that imposter syndrome. I didn't grow up like them. I'm not smart like them. Whatever might be divisive, he would have us focus on that, rather than having everybody focus on what is in common,
Starting point is 00:24:51 is that you're a child of God. There's a place, all are welcome. It's a hospital for sinners, right? Not a country club. That beautiful parable from our savior, right? He scoops up injured people on the road, takes them to the inn, take care of them. Elder Gong's great talk about we're the inn,
Starting point is 00:25:11 the church of Jesus Christ is the inn to minister to each other. It's madness that my arm's broken, your leg's broken. I'm like, man, can you believe they let people in with broken legs? Can't believe they let people in with broken legs. No, everybody's messy. Everyone is messy. Be grateful that you have a spot.
Starting point is 00:25:29 A little humility can really help you not say something or do something that would cast someone out. John, what do you think? How can we really get to the heart of this? My mission sure helped me. I saw people come in with t-shirts with beer advertisements on flip-flops. And what was our response? Thank you for coming. We were so thrilled when anybody came. I feel like it was Elder Ballard that said once, what would people think if we were the only ones they ever met at the meeting? I've been guilty of this when I look around. I don't recognize that person. I hope the bishop finds him or I hope the eldest quorum president finds him. But I got to go. I try if I see a new face to go say, hi, you know, we're so glad you're here. If all of us could do that, people could
Starting point is 00:26:20 just be gang tackled by kindness. President Packer's quote comes to my mind, right? Like true doctrine understood changes attitude and behavior. So if this is a challenge, if, and if you see this in yourself, let the mirror merge, where is this in me? Am I as accepting? Am I as welcoming as I want to be? And welcoming is different. Not everybody's bubbly.
Starting point is 00:26:43 I am a child of God. It's in vinyl in people's housesly. I am a child of God. It's in vinyl in people's houses, it's cross-stitched places. Do I really have it in there? In here, in my heart. If I do, then this naturally takes care of itself. I see everybody as his.
Starting point is 00:26:59 If I see everybody as if they're God's. So it's that doctrine. If I really understand the doctrine, not like pass a test on it, I think members of the church overall, at least I would hope, if I gave them true false, are you a child of God? I think they would say true.
Starting point is 00:27:15 Okay, then how does that look in how you treat people? In all people, other sides of the political spectrum people, on social media people, my family, my siblings, my parents, like I'm really viewing them through this doctrinal lens that is transformative. If I am, then they are children of the Almighty God. What would you do, John and Danny, if a member of the Bishopric wore overalls?
Starting point is 00:27:43 He just walks in, he's in his overalls. Because this happened in Cardston, Canada. N. Eldon Tanner was in the bishopric. He was an advisor to the deacons corps. Brother Tanner found that some of the boys were not attending because their families could not afford Sunday clothes, and the boys were embarrassed to wear their overalls. He made an agreement with the boys. And when they showed up at church the next Sunday wearing overalls, there was Brother Tanner, also wearing overalls. He won the hearts of those boys, and soon they were all active. So instead of judging someone for what they're wearing, go ahead and wear what they're wearing. Say, I can dress like that and come on in. And all of a sudden, Danny, as you brought this
Starting point is 00:28:23 up, I know we're only a couple of verses in, but my heart is just beating. We've got to do this. I think Jesus is happy because that's what he says he wants to happen, Hank, in verse one. They're spoken to you for your prophet and your learning. That's a sweet thing, isn't it? Oh, Hank, Danny, this story is hard for me to tell
Starting point is 00:28:43 because it just makes me so sad, but I had picked up something from a rental place. Oh, Hank, Danny, this story is hard for me to tell because it just makes me so sad. But I had picked up something from a rental place. I needed to rent a pump for something in my backyard. And I accidentally left my triple combination and my class roll on the roof when I put it in the trunk and I drove off. I can't remember how many days later I get a call. And this guy said, I found this and it looks important. And I go back to the rental place and thanked him profusely for saving this stuff for me. Never did find my triple combination, which was sad. We started talking about the church and the gospel.
Starting point is 00:29:17 I told him you should go. I went to desert industries with him and we got him some clothes to wear so he'd feel comfortable basically. I looked up online where his building was and everything and I can't remember exactly how long it was when I found him again, maybe back at the rental place. But he said, I went and as I was walking in somebody stopped me and said, hey, are you just here for food? Cause if so, we don't want you.
Starting point is 00:29:47 Ugh. To this day, I'm so... Cause I talked to him again. I said, come with me, come to my ward, come and sit by me. But I never saw him again. Isn't that awful? I mean, it's hard for me to share that cause it still hurts. Somebody thought if you're just here for welfare or whatever, you're not welcome.
Starting point is 00:30:08 Turn around and so he did. When we're talking about adults like this, youth are going to make mistakes. They're going to say things they probably shouldn't say. An adult say, well, let that youth. I'd rather the adults listening, including the three of us, let's look at us. Well, I love what Danny said about, look at the true doctrine, look at the parable of the great supper. Well, the normal guests that know how to dress didn't show up. Let's
Starting point is 00:30:39 go see who else we can get. And at the end, it's like, go to the highways. Everywhere. Invite everybody so that my dinner feast can be filled with guests. I've thought about that when I thought about this guy. Oh, man. In the spirit of section 46, though, Jesus is still happy that that man that said that ridiculously stupid thing is at charge. Yeah. Maybe by now, there's some recognition that I probably shouldn't have done that, you know. Yeah, no, no, 100%. That's true. We would want to turn to that person and say, no, you Lee. And Jesus is like, no, I
Starting point is 00:31:16 still want him. Right, before we throw hymn books at that guy that said the stupid thing, I want him too. I just want, I want everybody else. Keep him here. Keep him here. I'll work with him. Give me him too. I just want, I want everybody else. Keep him here. Keep him here. I'll work with him. Give me some more time. Nothing can't be fixed with a little extra time and Jesus. That can heal a lot of problems.
Starting point is 00:31:33 Thank goodness we have a perfect judge, right? Thanks for that, Danny. Thanks for stopping there. I've held that one inside for a long time because it just hurts to think about it. I just think that's not what was supposed to happen. I was so excited. I wanted to share a different ending on Follow Him. There will be. That one's pending, John. Yeah. Thank goodness. I want to highlight just one
Starting point is 00:31:58 thought on verse two, especially remember these early members of church don't know how they're supposed to run. We've got Pentecostalism. We've got really Stoicism. We've got Puritan-ish. These ideas are really... I think there's 25 or 26 states right now. We're early. Andy Jackson's president. America's young.
Starting point is 00:32:20 Revolutionary War is not that long ago. And so just keep this in mind that we are so young, they're trying to figure it out, but what does the Spirit look like? What does it feel like? Jesus says in the end of verse two, conduct all meetings as they are directed and guided by the Holy Spirit.
Starting point is 00:32:35 No one in the world prays, like a missionary taking investigators to a fast Sunday. Please. Oh, please. Please don't let anything crazy be said. You never know what's gonna happen in that meeting. You never know. You never know.
Starting point is 00:32:50 I remember, and this is embarrassing, but it's true. I remember telling, inviting people like, you should come to church with us in two Sundays. You should come in two Sundays. No, not the first one. Yeah, not the first one. No, no, no. What's the spirit? The Renlens, elder and sister Renlen made this comment. I can not the first one. Yeah. Not the first one. No, no, no. What's the spirit? The Renlens,
Starting point is 00:33:05 elder and sister Renlens made this comment. I can't remember the book, so someone look it up and post it somewhere. But they said this about boundaries. I wrote it in a post it in my scriptures. Boundaries are set for what we do in the church and the boundaries are this, like in a soccer game, basketball, there's borders. And so the Spirit's not going to take you out of these borders. The Spirit won't take you out of the borders. The borders are scriptures, living prophets, the handbook, and file leaders. If you stay in there, the Spirit can take you lots of different places. You can wear overalls to church.
Starting point is 00:33:39 You can do a number of things in these boundaries, but the Spirit's not going to lead you out here. So before anyone gets too excited about, well, the Spirit told me to X, Y, Z. It didn't if it's outside of those boundaries. I like that. That's what this section's about too. The Lord's saying, no, you get revelation.
Starting point is 00:34:00 Not all revelations from me, some revelations from the adversary. Be mindful of that. And the fact, if you go to verse seven, talks about, some revelations from the adversary. Yeah. Be mindful of that. And the fact if you go to verse seven, talks about, and this is a great list, if we're dialed into these things, you won't be tempted by the adversary's temptations in his revelation. You're commanded in all things to one ask of God. If you're praying a lot, you're probably going to be just fine. And those real heartfelt, right, who giveth liberally, little beautiful shout out to the Lord,
Starting point is 00:34:26 He is so kind and generous. And that which the Spirit testifies unto you, even so I would that you should do in holiness of heart, walking uprightly before me, considering the end of your salvation, doing all things with prayer and thanksgiving that you be not seduced by evil spirits. If you wanna know what that looks like
Starting point is 00:34:43 to have a meeting conducted by the spirit, do those things, you're going to be fine. I love that being thankful is in there. There's something about if you are thankful, it'll put up your barriers to being deceived by the evil spirit. Maybe it's okay, Danny, if I have an idea that I don't know if is okay.
Starting point is 00:35:01 Maybe ask around before jumping up and doing that. Maybe ask a couple people. Ask those boarders, right? You have that boarder, that file leader boarder. Yeah. Yeah. I'm thinking of doing this. What do you think?
Starting point is 00:35:13 Yeah, that prayer and thanksgiving in verse seven, that gratitude thing. I feel like in so many cases, gratitude is a cure-all. And the place that always struck me is when Moroni says, okay, when you receive these things, before he says pray and ask God, in Moroni 10.4 and Moroni 10.3, he says, ponder on how merciful God has been since the creation of Adam down until the time you receive these things and ponder it in your heart. That fills you with gratitude. So I've heard someone say gratitude is a gateway to revelation.
Starting point is 00:35:46 Because there's a twin sister of gratitude maybe is humility. Because you're realizing, I have things I didn't earn. I have things I didn't deserve. I'm blessed in ways that make me grateful. There's a humility that comes with gratitude, wouldn't you say? Yeah. Oh yeah. And let's think about these saints here in Kirtland too. And John, you're so good always bridging the gap here with church history. Joseph, look what Joseph as a prophet is restoring. In five years, it's Dickens, right? It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:36:19 Temple is built, the keys are restored, angelic visitations. People after the Kirtland Temple dedication thought they were in the Millennium. They're like, is this the Millennium? Have we been here? Because Christ has come. We have multiple appearances. Maybe we're in the Millennium. Within months, members of the 12 Apostles have apostatized. Joseph and Sidney have to run for their lives. Their life was in danger. Plots to kill the prophet Joseph. This idea of being like prayer and thanksgiving. What happened to being thankful for everything Joseph had restored through God? They stopped being thankful for the light and knowledge that
Starting point is 00:36:56 had been restored from a prophet of God to the point that they were deceived by this evil spirit. Be thankful for what you have. What's better than the plan of salvation? There's not one thing I've ever heard in my life that lights my soul on fire like the plan of salvation. I lived before I was born. I have heavenly parents. There's a plan for this experience here on earth. I can become like my heavenly parents. Are you joking me? There's nothing sweeter. But then all of a sudden, yeah, but he's a bad banker and I lost some money. True, at the same time, be thankful
Starting point is 00:37:31 for what's been restored. Families are forever. That doctrine, one stop shopping here. If your heart resonates with that, and you know it does, credibly, we're the only religion I know of that believes in families are forever. Yet every love song, every poem is like, no, forever love. We trail that from the pre-mortal life.
Starting point is 00:37:52 Let's be thankful. You got that because of a prophet. These saints that this revelation's given to in five years or it's gonna turn on Joseph, they lose everything, one third of the church leaders in Kirtland. But if they'd been thankful, prayer and thanksgiving, it's a sweet combo, it's powerful.
Starting point is 00:38:12 That was just beautifully said, good job. Yeah. I love it. Jesus said it. Do you remember when Elder Uchtdorf said, we walk a path of diamonds, doctrinally? We walk a path of diamonds, but we get so used to it, we're not thankful.
Starting point is 00:38:26 We're not thankful for the light and knowledge that we have. We can take it for granted, and then start beating up on bishops and know they did this, or the young women's president said this, and can you believe they're human? It's shocking. Yes, isn't that just the craziest thing?
Starting point is 00:38:43 Peter cuts off ears, Jesus calls him Satan, he denies Christ three times, but we have no problem with him being a prophet. Jonah runs away from things and even is sad that God saves the people he wants. He wants to see him destroyed, but he's a prophet. But oh, mercy, not Joseph, not Joseph. Yeah, I show my students where James and John
Starting point is 00:39:02 wanna burn down a Samaritan village. Hey, let's command fire from heaven. This will be awesome. These are apostles. That's fine. Peter, John, great guys. You better be a good banker. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:39:18 I really like this. Don't be deceived. Beware lest you are deceived because you can be seduced by an evil spirit or doctrine of the devil. That's all verse seven and eight. And it's an interesting word choice too that seduced. Like it's going to pick at your weaknesses, your inadequacies, your everything that's going on and drawing you, draw you in. So sad. So many people, especially in this era, fell, but the principles are the same. I need to be prayerful, I need to be thankful, I need to be striving to be
Starting point is 00:39:56 holy, walking uprightly before God. So good. I heard somebody looking at this and saying people think, oh no, so and so's having a faith crisis. And you look at the early history of the church and you say, somebody was always having a faith crisis. It's not new. It was ever thus. There's faith crises all the time. Yeah, read the New Testament, Jesus with his 12, and they're the 12. Not unusual. There's that moment of bread of life sermon. People walk away. They don't like what Jesus just taught.
Starting point is 00:40:31 I came for the food, maybe the miracles, but I didn't come to be told I'm gonna eat this guy's flesh and drink his blood, so I'm out. Jesus turns to the 12. Are you gonna leave me too? Peter has such a great moment. Where am I going to go? Do you know what I love about that story, Hank, is I learned on this podcast called
Starting point is 00:40:52 Follow Him with a really good host and a so-so co-host, but I learned that, who was it? That drinking blood was against the law of Moses. That was a moment of, ah, for Peter. But he knew that eventually Jesus would explain it, which he did. This is like my blood. Do this in remembrance of me. Oh, okay. Do you have the words of eternal life?
Starting point is 00:41:18 I'm sticking with you even if I don't fully understand it right now. Where am I going to go? Where am I gonna go? Where am I gonna go? Peter, considering the end of his salvation, where am I going to go? You have the words of eternal life. Where am I gonna go that has plan of salvation? Where am I gonna go that has priesthood and priesthood keys?
Starting point is 00:41:38 Where am I gonna go? Where am I gonna go that has patriarchal blessings? Where am I gonna go that has an organization that helps me bless humanitarian? I I'm going to go that has an organization that helps me bless humanitarian. I could keep going and going and going like the list is innumerable. Nowhere this is it. Considering the end of your salvation, what a phrase. Yeah. Consider the outcome of all of this and the author and finisher of it. Both of you and me, we have questions, but I'm okay waiting to find out when it comes to
Starting point is 00:42:07 plural marriage. I'm fine waiting to hear it from the people who were there when it comes to any other difficult topic. I can consider the end of my salvation and say, you know what, I'm happy to wait to find out. Kind of like Peter, right, John? I don't know what he means by that. I don't know why he would say that, but of course I'm going to stay. How else am I going to find out? Because he has the words of eternal life. Maybe Peter thought maybe he'll explain this one day and maybe he didn't know if he would, but he did. Man, I think the power here is how relevant the lessons you're showing us are. Like this is stuff we deal with. 1831 or 2025.
Starting point is 00:42:46 Yeah. Jesus knows what he's talking about. Shocking, right? Yeah, he's good. He's good. Let's hit spiritual gifts. That's the title that come follow me. That's certainly their focus.
Starting point is 00:42:59 Jesus, verse eight, wherefore, beware lest ye are deceived, and that ye may not be deceived. Seek ye earnestly the best gifts, always remembering for what they are given. That's an interesting line. Remember what they're given for. He says in 9, they're given for the benefit of those who love me and keep all my commandments, and him that seeketh so to do, that's me.
Starting point is 00:43:18 I might not keep them all, but I'm sure trying, seeking to, that all may be benefited. It's not this thing for you. It's not just a thing for you to, oh look at all those talents. We sometimes make spiritual gifts with talents. They are not the same. We trail things primordially. We're not talking about this. We're talking about a gift of the Spirit and look at verse 10 and then we'll hit President Oaks. Verse 10, and again, very literally I say to you, I would that you should always remember and always retain in your minds that those gifts are that are given unto the church. We tried, I think, sometimes to over apply the spiritual gift. It's a terminology thing. Yes,
Starting point is 00:43:56 people are talented. Yes, God's blessed people. But when we're talking in this context about spiritual gifts, we're talking about gifts God has given to people that have had hands laid on their heads and received the gift of the Holy Ghost. It's for the benefit of the church, the benefit of the kingdom of God. So Elder Oaks said this and this is 1986 so as Elder Oaks at this time titled spiritual gifts. Quote, the Spirit of Christ is given to all men and women that they may know good from evil. That's a gift by the way, the spirit of Christ given to everybody
Starting point is 00:44:30 and manifestations of the Holy Ghost are given to lead earnest seekers to repentance and baptism. Missionaries as we're testifying, as we're teaching our families, the spirit is gonna touch our children's hearts, hopefully our friend's hearts, our investigators' hearts. The Holy Ghost is gonna do that. But he says, these are preparatory gifts.
Starting point is 00:44:49 A lot of times people might, with this Sunday School lesson, they may be like, everybody, put a piece of paper on your back and have everybody write things they see about them. These are gifts that you have and nice things about you. That's still nice, but I don't believe it's what he's talking about. It's what we term spiritual gifts comes next.
Starting point is 00:45:09 Spiritual gifts come to those who have received the gift of the Holy Ghost. As the prophet Joseph Smith taught, the gifts of the Spirit obtained through that medium, the Holy Ghost, and cannot be enjoyed without the gift of the Holy Ghost. Gifts of the Spirit is a gift. I don't think that we talk about that very often. When we're talking to eight-year-olds and preparing them for baptism, I think it might be a term that we can start using more often. We're like, God's gonna give you the gift of the Holy Ghost to bless you, to lead you, guide you. You're also going to receive gifts of the Spirit that will help you build God's Kingdom, whatever those gifts might be. And then he goes through these amazing gifts. We can compare them to Corinthians,
Starting point is 00:45:46 we can compare them to Moroni, wonderful conference talks about all of the many, many gifts that we have, but they're for building the kingdom. Brethren, you too have the gift of teaching and you're using it to build the kingdom. I think that one day we'll meet Jesus and he'll be like, I gave you this gift, I'm glad that you did something with it.
Starting point is 00:46:07 But again, not talent. These gifts are given. So as we look at this list, keep asking yourself, be like, hey, I have some of these. You don't have time in your lives for false modesty. God's given you gifts. If you've participated in this, God gave you gifts, so start using them. Ask yourself, Kate, because I have this, this. God gave you gifts, so start using them. Ask yourself, Kate, because I have this, man, how can I minister better? How can I serve in my calling better? I have a responsibility, a covenantal responsibility to be a husband and a father and to preside, provide, and protect. And He's going to help me give these gifts to do this. Now, don't limit, I don't want just to make this thought about church only because President Nelson's taught us that anytime we do anything that helps anyone living or dead make or keep covenants, then you're gathering Israel. But please remember that
Starting point is 00:46:57 this is a special gift given to members of the church to do what God would have him do in sharing the good news of Jesus Christ with the entire world. That's why he gives people the knowledge, like you know that you have a testimony of Jesus the Christ. That's why difference of administration, that's why you have this discernment in 23, prophecy in 22, miracles in 21, faith to heal in 2019. That's to build this kingdom,
Starting point is 00:47:26 to build this community of Christ. John, I know you love verse 15, ever since we looked at it four years ago, and I think you knew it before me, where this differences of administration, does that mean that, look, listen to the Lord in the way you administer these programs because it will change, suiting his mercies according to the conditions of the children of men.
Starting point is 00:47:52 John, do you remember Andy Horton was here with us a month or two ago and he said he was the stake president, woman comes in to confess and thought that he would say, get out of here and never return. And he said the spirit was very clear to him that the Lord wants this woman to take the sacrament today. The Lord suits his mercies according to the conditions of the children of men. I actually wrote an article for the New Era. I wrote this article about coming home from high school one day, okay Hank,
Starting point is 00:48:25 we're talking in the 70s, stepping across the gutter to go to my house and there was a magazine in the gutter. I didn't know what it was and then I was like, whoa! And every day for two weeks, there was this magazine in the gutter. And I talked in my article about 1 Corinthians 10 13, you'll not be tempted above, a couple of weeks it was gone, Yeg, article that I talked about a scripture. That was my one encounter with pornography as a teenager. Is our world different today? Are we thrilled that this verse says that the Lord will suit his mercies according to the conditions of the children of men. Today these young people are being hit with it. It's popping up on their screen. They didn't ask for it. It's on billboards. It's on shows. Some are struggling with it, but I love knowing that the Lord is not only merciful, but he's good at suiting his mercies according to our conditions.
Starting point is 00:49:26 Thanks for giving me a second with that verse because that has given me so much hope and made me try to tell the young people, hey you're in a different world but God knows the world that he sent you to. He knows what you're dealing with. He knows perfectly how to suit his mercies according to your conditions. I think it's an appropriate thing to look at all of these gifts as attributes of Christ. Christ is perfect in all of these things. And as you study Jesus' life, look how he administers differently to so many people.
Starting point is 00:49:56 Some people, the man of the Gatarenes comes and says, I want to follow you and he's like, actually you don't get to follow me. You need to go and do this. Other people come and he's like, no absolutely, follow me. You're like, well, why the difference? Because Jesus knows the conditions of the children of men. Sometimes Jesus flips tables, sometimes Jesus won't even speak. Everything is made conditional on the needs of the people and who they are. And especially in the church, as a bishop, sometimes if you wrote down, okay, this happened and this happened and this happened and it looks similar on paper, that person's different than this person that's different than this person.
Starting point is 00:50:32 And as you strive to do what Jesus will have you do, counsel will be different. Time periods are different. How is that possible? Well, because people are different, but Jesus understands that. What a gift that is to have. Speaking in this aspect of the conditions of the world, do you guys remember a talk? It was Elder Packer then in 1992. He gave a talk called Our Moral Environment and he said, we have physical environmentalists. I want to be a spiritual environmentalist for a minute was really interesting. This is what he said, it is a great challenge to raise a family in the darkening mists of our moral environment. We emphasize that the greatest work you will do will be
Starting point is 00:51:13 within the walls of your own home and that no other success can compensate for failure in the home. The measure of our success as parents however will not rest solely on how our children turn out. That judgment would be just only if we could raise our families in a perfectly moral environment. And that is now not possible. It is not uncommon for responsible parents to lose one of their children for a time to influences over which they have no control. They agonize over rebellious sons or daughters.
Starting point is 00:51:46 They are puzzled over why they are so helpless when they've tried so hard to do what they should. It is my conviction that these wicked influences one day will be overruled." And I can't quote the whole talk, but I loved the hope that that gave that, look, the Lord knows the kind of world he's sending these young people into. It's not a moral environment. And those are his children. Don't forget. I think he sent it because they're awesome and they're equipped to overcome all of this. They're going to go thrash the nations right Danny? Yeah. Can I share with you guys, here's a quote from Chad Webb, now in the General Sunday School Presidency. Ensign College devotional, January 22, 2019. According to the conditions of the children of men. And you guys know Chad, everyone loves Chad.
Starting point is 00:52:37 Quote, a friend shared with me an experience he had as a young boy. One day his father was very upset after reading the newspaper. He had read an article about a body that his father was very upset after reading the newspaper. He had read an article about a body that was found near where they lived in Southern California. Certainly the death upset everyone, but another thing that troubled his father was that the report said that although the body had not been identified, they knew for sure that person had lived his entire life in Southern California. They knew this because of the condition of his lungs as a result of air pollution. My friend's father was upset and while he was trying to live the word of wisdom and keeping his lungs healthy, the environment he lived in was making that all but impossible. Apparently experts can do an
Starting point is 00:53:18 autopsy on a person's lungs and tell you where they're from. It has made me wonder if it were possible to do a spiritual autopsy. If someone could say, I can tell from your attitudes about certain ideas and issues that you must have lived on earth in 2019, the year this was given. We may believe we are thinking for ourselves, but it is more difficult than we realize not to breathe the air of the beliefs, attitudes and culture we live in. In a changing world with so many influences and voices, cleaving to our covenants is vital in helping us stay on the covenant path. I love this line, our covenants help us to keep an eternal perspective, remembering the Lord's teachings and can
Starting point is 00:53:58 be a shield against the temptations and influences of the world. So this idea right of the conditions the children men, the mists of darkness. When I grew up, different challenges. The young people today, different challenges. Who knows what the next generation will be. I get to teach for 20 more years, 60 more semesters probably. Who knows what these different challenges are gonna end up being? Jesus does and he's going to help people through these gifts of the Spirit know how to adapt. As moms and dads in the kingdom, my kids are all unique. My oldest is different than my second, that's different than my third, fourth. If you want to have a testimony of the pre-mortal life,
Starting point is 00:54:40 have more than one kid. No kidding. No kidding. Truth, right? Truth. And yet we can receive this gift of the Spirit through covenants, through making covenants with God that will help us gather Israel. And the most important people to gather are the people that God entrusts us with in our families. Yes, church callings. I love it. 100% applicable and true and aligned contextually. But also the family is the greatest unit in the kingdom of God. And this gift is a great one. Our young men recite the Aaronic Priesthood quorum theme and they say, I will use his priesthood to serve others beginning in my own home. I love that line. Yeah, so good. As you study
Starting point is 00:55:22 these gifts, please remember how can I use this gift that I have or how can I ask Heavenly Father to give me this gift because it's a gift. It is given. That's the definition of a gift from the Holy Ghost, from the Father. I need this gift. You can then pray for this gift. Seek ye the best gifts. The best gifts is the ones that you need right now for your situation. That's true. Those are the ones. I want to go back to verse 9. I can't even tell you how much I love the comma and the word and in this verse. You already said it, Danny. They are given for the benefit of those who love me. Okay, I love God, I think. And keep all my commandments. Oh, yikes, you had to say all
Starting point is 00:56:05 right there, didn't you? And keep all, oh man, comma, and him that seeketh so to do, or her that seeketh so to do. The intents of our hearts matter. We stumble, but we get back up and the intent of getting back on that matters and I'm so glad that extra sentence is there. Sweet the joy this sentence giveth and him that seeketh so to do just keep trying everybody. And the beautiful thing about that is that takes one second to do. If you're listening to this and you're like oh man I have it then do. Then like I'm going to seek and as soon as you do that the Lord will bless you and he'll help you gain the things that you need for your life for your family's life for the kingdom. As we look through all of these
Starting point is 00:57:00 gifts of the Spirit is there any that you want to highlight and maybe that might be confusing for anyone or any that you're thinking, look, this one is an important idea. Make sure you see this. Yeah, let's just roll through them. I love John's thoughts already on differences of administration. I think that can be a confusing one. Please note in 11 that every man is given a gift. So you do have one. Go to your patriarchal blessings and see if you can see one that the Lord articulates to you there. Talk to your loved ones that know you well
Starting point is 00:57:31 if you struggle with identifying these in yourselves and ask them what they see. And remember, this isn't a comprehensive list. Go to Elder Ashton's October 1987 conference talk. The gift of weeping mentioned in there, I like so many good ones. The gift of praying. 13 says, someone is given by the Holy Ghost to know that Jesus is the Son of God and that he was crucified for the sins of the world. To others given to believe on their words or maybe an extension of it. Some people believe, some of my favorite people in this world
Starting point is 00:58:02 say that they're a verse 14. I don't know but I believe when I hear them say it, rejoice in that. I think that we can sometimes get a little maybe preoccupied with wishing that we had someone else's gift. If only I was like, man, my bishop is this or this person is this. I wish I had that rather than identifying and rejoicing the gift that you have that is given to you to bless people's lives. Both of those two, whether you have 13 or 14, you're gonna get to heaven. If you have knowledge that Jesus Christ is the Son of God or you believe John and Haight that when they say that Jesus is the Son of God, faith in Jesus Christ. Faith in Jesus Christ.
Starting point is 00:58:42 And that's that first principle. You could get janky with that so quick. And I think out in the weeds and even miss the very intent that Jesus would have a study and understand these. If you want them seek them sure, but rejoice in those that have been given. Rejoice in it. Like really be grateful. Thank God for it. In your prayers, I'm so thankful that I believe when I hear President Nelson witness, when he says that I'm there. That'll lead you to repent, which will lead you to make and keep covenants. I find myself, my kids think it's funny, I find myself nodding. I'm sacramenting in general conference. To me, I'm believing in their words. Yeah,
Starting point is 00:59:27 yeah. Yeah, see you nodded there. For those of you listening only, Danny just nodded at John. I've got in my margin Nephi and Sam. I love how the Book of Mormon unfolds. Lehi gets a vision. He knows. Sarai is like, oh man, I don't know. But then Nephi says, hey, is dad on the right track? And then Nephi gets a direct answer. And he just tells Sam and Sam's like, yep. And then Sarai is like, you're a visionary man. And hi, it just makes me sad when you kill the children. Lehi is like, I've obtained a land of promise and just wait and here come the boys over the hill with the plates. Saraiya knows and it's kind of fun to watch that unfold. I'd love that Sam is one of those that is, you're right, I believe you. I can see him
Starting point is 01:00:16 nodding at Nephi. Yeah. I've never said a profound word or phrase in my life, but I've quoted a lot of profound prophets and church leaders and my mom was profound and my wife is profound. I've quoted them. It's their words that have instilled Jesus and a love for Jesus Christ in me. In those classes that I've said and where I drew closer to my Savior was because someone was using this gift that they had. And I'm grateful for that. But my gift might be to, man, when I hear them say it, I'm in. And I have that determination, that resolve increase. That is no small gift.
Starting point is 01:00:54 That is no small gift. Sometimes we think, oh, I'm Team B. Yeah, you're not JV. Speaking of quoting someone, Elder Jeffer Holland, April 2013, he said, A fourteen-year-old boy recently said to me, a little hesitantly, Brother Holland, I can't say yet that I know the Church is true, but I believe it is. I hugged that boy until his eyes pulled out. I told him with all the fervor of my soul that belief is a precious word, an even more precious
Starting point is 01:01:26 act, and he need never apologize for only believing. I told him that Christ himself said be not afraid, only believe. A phrase which, by the way, carried young Gordon B. Hinkley into the mission field. I told this boy that belief was always the first step towards conviction and that the definitive articles of our collective faith forcefully reiterate the phrase, we believe. And that's right out of there 14, to others it is given to believe on their words. Hank, I guess it was last week we talked about section 45 and here's our advocate standing by our side, spare these my brother and my sisters that believe on my name. It doesn't say spare
Starting point is 01:02:10 these that achieved perfection in life because that's none of us, but spare these that believed on my name. Danny, what's the difference between the administration and the diversity of operations. I'm just going to listen to this part. I'm guessing you administer programs, and I've met people who are gifted administrators. And I think, how do you do that? How do you do that? My sister, Jennifer, she's the administrator of Women's Conference at BYU, and I just am in awe. How do you even keep all of those things in order?
Starting point is 01:02:50 When I would do something, I usually wait till the last possible second. You can't do that as an administrator. What do you think, Danny? I'm with you. I don't have these gifts administratively, not my strength, which makes it so beautiful. Like in our families, their gifts are spread out so that all are blessed. In callings that
Starting point is 01:03:08 you serve in. Thank goodness there's people that keep track of things because I just like people. I like teaching in classrooms and if you bring people into my office and I'll talk with people in my office but just please do everything else. Yeah. I don't want to know. I'm not good at it and I'd prefer to never know. So just make that go away. I asked a friend of mine this question. Here's a thought that he had on this. He has this gift. I don't. I think this was interesting. It says quote, this is my friend named Dale Sturm. If you know Dale, he's brilliant. He's been on our show. Yeah. He's brilliant. I've taken his class multiple times at BYU-Idaho. The whole semester I just sit and I'm so annoying but I don't even care because
Starting point is 01:03:50 he's so good. I'll just sit there take notes. He said when I look at how Paul uses these exact terms in 1st Corinthians 12, I see that the terms are translations of a Greek phrases that might be more clearly stated as quote varieties of service and varieties of activities Paul adds one at the beginning of his passage varieties of gifts So there's varieties of gifts, but the same spirit varieties of service the same Lord There are varieties of activities, but it's the same God who empowers them and everyone It seems that Paul is saying that the gifts are varied and they show up in different kinds of service
Starting point is 01:04:26 and different kinds of activities, but they all flow from God through the Holy Spirit. Then this checks out with Moroni, Moroni 10.8, the gifts are many and they come from the same God and they are different ways that these gifts are administered but it is the same God who worketh all in all. And he goes, know the differences of administration and know the diversities of operations
Starting point is 01:04:45 as specific. If you want to make them discrete and specific gifts, then I would tend towards seeing the first one as the gift to organize in a way that blesses the members, fulfills the Lord's purposes, and the second one as the gift to see God's gifts in others' actions. Subtle difference, but a difference and an
Starting point is 01:05:05 important one. One is the gift to see God's gifts and other actions. As a parent you need to see this in your kids, in leadership positions in your ward, to be able to see even things and the Spirit will share those things with you that you never would have saw in them. People that when you extend callings to them will be like, I can't do that. I was like Bishop Whitney when Joseph calls Bishop Whitney, I don't see a bishop in me. Well then you don't believe me you go ask the Lord because it's there. How does Joseph know? How does a bishop know? How does the state president know? How does the Relief Society president? It's
Starting point is 01:05:39 like I need this woman to be the instructor. She doesn't think she can be an instructor. Well, too bad, because Jesus sees it. And then allows us through the Holy Ghost to discern that and to grow. That's one of the greatest things in the church. God's really good at this. And he's like, man, they're gonna learn and grow. And how am I gonna do this?
Starting point is 01:06:00 Because you're gonna be putting uncomfortable things. I didn't know that I could teach till I was called on a mission. It's a gift of the spirit and a talent and something that's been developed. Maybe a combination of all three. But I certainly didn't know it was there until it was unearthed through a prophetic call. And that in my situation, if you're put in those situations,
Starting point is 01:06:22 you can trust in that call that God can give me this. Maybe you would be a good ward clerk. Maybe it's coming down the pipe and God will be like, I'm gonna help him learn how to make sure everything runs. Because I'll tell you, one of the definitions of hell is to not have a good ward clerk, right? And to have all these things falling apart. You're like, realize how much is going on
Starting point is 01:06:44 that you had no idea. I'm like, I didn't know I was supposed to fill this out. We're getting audited? Like that word is scary, you know? I'm like, please just make it go away. Gifts everywhere. Coming up in part two of this episode. Rejoice in the good that they did in the season
Starting point is 01:07:03 and let Jesus be the judge. We don't want to dabble in that, oh well too bad that, I don't know, no that's not our place. I don't think any of us feel comfortable walking up to Jesus, tapping him on the shoulder at the judgment bar and be like, hey I have some thoughts on this guy if you're interested. No, let's let Jesus do Jesus.

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