followHIM - Doctrine & Covenants 115-120 Part 2 : Dr. Frantz Belot

Episode Date: October 10, 2021

How is paying tithing like the movie Frozen? In Part II, we learn how tithing and sacrifice allow us to “let go” of the less important matters and also, how there are no small acts in the kingdom.... The Lord magnifies our efforts to enact miracles.​Shownotes: https://followhim.co/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/followhimpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/followhimpodcastYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/FollowHimOfficialChannel"Let Zion in Her Beauty Rise" by Marshall McDonaldhttps://www.marshallmcdonaldmusic.com/products/let-zion-in-her-beauty-rise-pianoPlease rate and review the podcast.​

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Welcome to part two of this week's podcast. You know, and our lives can become consumed with, with things. Yes. Stuff. Right. I've got to have the latest and greatest. Um, and I think the Lord would say that to all of us. Just let it, let it go. Like, stop worrying about stuff and toys and things. It's all mine.
Starting point is 00:00:37 Look what he says. The fowls of the heaven, the fish of the sea, the beast of the earth. I made everything. Right. Um, focus on me, uh, all that other stuff. Let, you know, let that other stuff. Let that go. I can bring, look at what does he say in verse seven? I can make the solitary places bud, blossom, and bring forth in abundance. Now that is a good little check for someone like me. I know neither of you are covetous, but that sometimes happens, too.
Starting point is 00:01:05 Well, if you get the Ford F-150, can I borrow it? That's right. It won't be any fun because we won't be looking. I think part of the fun is just that's a good one. We should get that one. No, I want red. No, I want black. So if I could be a little bit uh personal here because this is really
Starting point is 00:01:26 touching my heart as i'm thinking about this um in the beginning john mentioned that i was born in haiti right which is known as the third poorest country sorry not the third but the poorest country in the western hemisphere um and still continues to be. And there's so many difficult things that have happened with political unrest and diseases and so forth and hurricanes, natural disasters. But, you know, I,
Starting point is 00:01:56 I, I was reading about how the saints are finding strength amidst those difficult moments and amidst those trials and how the temple are finding strength amidst those difficult moments and amidst those trials and how the temple, being able to go to the temple and remembering that this is, like it says in verse 8, that this is but a drop for the Lord. Some of the things that sometimes may seem to be very important and not to neglect the more weighty matters. I just love that. So in my personal life, when we came to Montreal, after a little while, my parents were divorced and my mom was raising five children in a foreign country.
Starting point is 00:02:46 So she was always a good example, and we weren't members of the church at that time, but she was always a good example to focus on what mattered. You know, growing up, we couldn't afford the fancy shoes or the fancy pair of pants or whatever it is. And she would remind us, but what we have help sustains us. We do have food. It may not be the best food, but we have food. We have a roof over our heads and it may not have been the nicest place. We were always renting and it was usually in the basement of, or the lower floor of
Starting point is 00:03:22 where it was a little bit more affordable. You know, you think about this, and then decades have passed, and the Lord has kept his promise. He's blossomed us, and he's, because of the sacrifice of my mom and also my dad, he's provided for us. And I can testify that the Lord does make dry places blossom. And I can also testify that when we focus on what matters most, according to the eyes of the Lord, He takes care of the rest. That's been my experience. And I'm not talking about that people become rich and they have everything that they need, but they do have sufficient for their needs. And they do have hope of a better day. And those are priceless.
Starting point is 00:04:16 Those are treasures. That was beautiful. I mean, look at the Lord himself says in verse 8. What is all this stuff is there not enough room on the whole planet that I can give you that you should covet that which is but the drop such an interesting phrase this might be a good time to mention
Starting point is 00:04:41 the come follow me manual has a little ideas for family home evening or family scripture study. It says your family could compare a drop with something more weighty, like a jug of water. This could lead to a discussion about less important things in our lives that might prevent us from receiving God's abundant blessings. And I think with so many things, I think that's a challenge a lot of us have is not between good and evil but between so many good things and how do i choose the best things the more weightier matters and let the drops go by i guess right the idea of good better best right yeah president oaks's uh talk about that. What is the best use of my time? Because there's a lot of good causes out there, but what would the Lord... President Eyring blessed me a lot when he gave a talk and he said, you might have a heavy calling, whatever, and you might even complain. And that was a prophecy about me. You may realize I can't do it all. And then, oh, this was such a blessing to me. He said, so instead of wondering, Lord, how do I do it all?
Starting point is 00:05:55 Just ask, what do I do next? Oh, I love that. That was so helpful to me because, yeah, Lord, I can't do it all, period. So what do I do next? And maybe that helps us distinguish the drop from the weightier matters. Yeah. I have to say something about verse 11 because we are big fans of Newell K. Whitney in the Follow Him podcast. And it says, let my servant new. Okay. Whitney be ashamed of the Nicolaitan band and of all their secret
Starting point is 00:06:28 abominations and his littleness of soul before me, say at the Lord, he says, come up to the land of Adam and I Amman and be a Bishop. Wow. Um, that is, that's a,
Starting point is 00:06:40 that's a Peter like rebuke, uh, that the Lord just gave to, uh, new. K. Whitney. John, you know a little bit more about this Nicolaitan ban than I do. Tell me about it. Yeah, I would read about it in Sister Susan Easton Black's book. She said, Nicolaitans were followers of Nicholas, one of seven disciples appointed to supervise the
Starting point is 00:07:05 distribution of food and goods to the poor. See Acts chapter 6 verse 5. Christian tradition suggests that Nicholas failed to fulfill his appointment and apostatized. Tradition further suggests that Nicholas established a religious sect with followers known as Nicolaitans. Nicolaitans held that it was lawful to eat things sacrificed to idols and to commit fornication in direct opposition to the decrees of God. See Acts chapter 15 verses 20 and 29. False beliefs and immoral actions spawned by such beliefs led to impurities within early Christianity. Elder Bruce R. McConkie equated Nicolaitans with members of the church who are trying to maintain their church standing while continuing to live after the manner of the world.
Starting point is 00:07:50 Wow. So that's a, and I just wonder, did Newell K. Whitney, did he mark this verse in his Doctrine and Covenants? I mean, that is really hard to have that uh in there and i'd love what you what the lord said be a bishop unto my people not in name but indeed it's be a nominal member or are you a member in your deeds not just in a title but in your deeds and that's uh and haven't we noticed this uh hank confronts with a lot of people in the doctrine and covenants that um to this, I mean, and Joseph himself, to have it published how many times the Lord has to forgive him of his sins. Yes. And it softens my heart about all of them, you know, to think, boy, they were just folks like us, just trying to do the best they can. You know, John and Hank, what I really like about this also is the Lord doesn't mince words on this one, right?
Starting point is 00:08:52 No. I tell you what, he did not mince his words in this one. But then after this, he says, okay, be a bishop unto my people. He could have said, okay, I'm going to find someone else that has a bigger soul than you do. He could have said, you are hereby released, but he didn't. That's exactly right. But the Lord, and we're talking about that. He was upset against their secret combinations, and I don't know what that means exactly.
Starting point is 00:09:22 But the Lord says, hey, be a bishop unto my people. It's like he put it behind him. He says, you showed a lot of littleness of soul before me, but just be a bishop indeed. There probably isn't a bishop out there who doesn't feel inadequate at times. And it gives hope to them as well to say, keep going and just be a bishop and you're forgiven, but be a bishop. Maybe that could give some hope to them. It tells me also that the Lord's love includes high standards. He will, right? Sometimes we think, oh, if someone loves me, then they don't have expectations for me, right?
Starting point is 00:10:11 They'll just let me be whoever I am. It's who I am. It's how I was born, right? Instead, the Lord says, no, I have high standards for you because I love you. Now let's get back on track. Yes. Thank you, Hank, for saying that. Thank you for saying that.
Starting point is 00:10:27 Yeah. And Bishop Whitney dies faithful in the church. So even though the Lord called him out publicly in the Doctrine and Covenants, he stuck around, right? You and your secret abominations and littleness of soul. Ugh. Ouch. It reminds me of in the New Testament where Peter goes to rebuke the Lord, right? And to tell him, no, you're not going to die.
Starting point is 00:10:52 You're not going to suffer. And he says, get behind me, Satan, right? Yes. Wow. Let's see which insult could be worse. All right. Yeah, I was going to say, of all the names you don't want Jesus to call you, that's got to be in the top few.
Starting point is 00:11:10 I think Peter was constantly getting corrected, and that's because the Lord loved him. And you're going to lead the church, and I'm just going to keep letting you know what's right. But Peter was amazing. And John, that's the message for me in all this. And I think Hank said it too. The Lord loves us enough to correct us. And he doesn't mince words. But when we listen by the power of the Spirit, we can feel where we're coming short a little.
Starting point is 00:11:40 And then the Lord won't just say, okay, you have littleness of soul and leave it at that. He'll actually say, now be a bishop indeed. So he gives them an instruction on how to overcome that weakness, I think. So it's very instructive. Yeah, it is. And for all the teenagers listening who have parents who have high expectations, it's a form of love. I'm hoping my kids are listening to this. High expectations are a form of love. And so it's forgiveness and understanding because he seems to be understanding like, yes, this is something that you're struggling with. I'm going to help you through it. Get back up, right?
Starting point is 00:12:33 And I think, Hank, if I can add to that, it's not, why can't you be more like Edward Partridge? Edward Partridge. And I, with teenagers in particular, I love to tell my kids, the Lord wants you to be the very best version of you that you can be, and he'll help you be that. You don't have to look sideways at your friends, even your siblings. Why can't I be more like them? And we're not going to say that to you, but be the best version of yourself. I love that's what kind of patriarchal blessings invite us all to do is here's your gifts, your talents, and rise up and be the best version of yourself. And the Lord's going to be there and help you do that.
Starting point is 00:13:06 Yeah, that's beautiful. Yeah, I love that. One of the highlights for me besides verse 11 is verse 12. Oliver Granger, a slightly different message. Oh, it's a very different message. Than Newell K. Whitney. Yes, I know. And again, I love what he says.
Starting point is 00:13:24 And again, I sound to you, I remember my servant Oliver Granger. Behold, verily I say unto him that his name shall be had in sacred remembrance from generation to generation forever and ever, saith the Lord. And then in verse 13, therefore, let him contend earnestly for the redemption of the first presidency of my church, saith the Lord. And when he falls, he shall rise again, for his sacrifice shall be more sacred unto me than his increase, saith the Lord. So that was such an impactful verse to me. And I remembered when I was studying this that in October 2004, President Boyd K. Packer gave a talk titled The Least of These. And in that talk, he says, today, this prophecy has been fulfilled. The prophecy of Oliver Granger, his name would be in remembrance from generation to generation. He says today this prophecy has been fulfilled.
Starting point is 00:14:36 So let me share with you a little bit of that talk, if that's okay. He says, President Packer says, quote, let no one underestimate the power of faith in the ordinary Latter-day Saints. There is a message for Latter-day Saints in a seldom quoted revelation given to the prophet Joseph Smith in 1838. I remember my servant, Oliver Granger. Be Packer said, he described him as a man of the most strict integrity and moral virtue, and in fine, to be a man of God. When the saints were driven from Kirtland, Ohio, in a scene that would be repeated in Independence, Far West, and in Nauvoo, Oliver was left behind to sell their properties for what little he could. There was not much chance that he could succeed, and really, he did not succeed.
Starting point is 00:15:47 But the Lord said, Let him contend earnestly for the redemption of the first presidency of my church, said the Lord, and when he falls he shall rise again, for his sacrifice shall be more sacred unto me than his increase, said the Lord. What did Oliver Granger do that his name should be had in sacred remembrance? Nothing much, really. It was not so much what he did as what he was. Oh, my goodness. This really touched me. Oliver Granger had become Christ-like. He failed in his assignment, but he had become like unto Christ. And now today, 2021, we're remembering him. We are talking about this man.
Starting point is 00:16:38 And right now, and hoping that we're learning from this normal man with significant physical ailments, having become like Christ and the Lord dedicating two verses to this wonderful man. You know, you used two words there. You used the word become twice what he has become and i think a talk that has blessed me so much was elder um i think then elder dalin h oaks in october of 2000 do you remember that talk the challenge to become and i think we all have a lot of uh maybe some love moses in our spiritual dna and we're wondering about our check marks our our good or bad check marks, about what we do. And the emphasis here that you just gave, Francis, what had he become? And that was Elder Oaks' whole talk. It's not enough just to know what to do or even to do
Starting point is 00:17:35 what we know. It's, are you becoming what we're supposed to become? Which is a beautiful thought. And Oliver had become, Oliver Granger had become Christ-like, as you said. And that's the goal. Are we becoming more like the Savior? That's the hard question, too. And the Lord, I think, teaches a wonderful principle in verse 13, that I can take a failure and make it sacred. Right? Like a lot of us, you know, I have friends and family members who have had long marriages and in divorce.
Starting point is 00:18:12 And you can almost hear the Lord saying this in verse 13. When he falls, he will rise again for his sacrifice or his failure there will be more sacred unto me than his increase. I just hear a wonderful principle of it's not a failure to me because you're becoming something, which I wanted you to become. So I just think that, man, that's a beautiful idea. And Hank, back in the day, over a decade ago, I remember going through some very difficult times. And I remember sitting down during a sacrament meeting and feeling that I was useless. I felt that I was having difficulties making ends meet for my family.
Starting point is 00:19:06 We had five kids. I wasn't feeling successful at work. I felt alone. I didn't feel that I had a lot of friends. And I remember sitting in sacrament meeting and just saying, what's my purpose here? What am I doing here? And I was trying to keep the commandments of the Lord, but I was failing miserably in a lot of aspects of my life.
Starting point is 00:19:49 And it was very difficult for me. I remember stepping out of that third hour, walking out and Bishop, my Bishop, stopped me in the hall and he said, sorry. He said, how are you? I told him I felt useless. Didn't matter too much. And he said, he said, brother below, the Lord has given you many, many talents. Hang in there. Things will get better.
Starting point is 00:20:40 I was grateful for that. It was, the moment was perfect. The Lord was aware of this man who felt lost, who felt that he didn't have a purpose, who felt that he was not measuring up, that he was failing. And the Lord simply said, through his bishop, I have given you many talents. Just keep at it. And now I see those days and I feel humble. Things have changed significantly in my life, but I remember those days where the Lord supported me. And to your point, Hank, I felt that a little bit that my sacrifices had become
Starting point is 00:21:28 sacred to him, although I was failing. So forgive me for being personal, but this brought a memory to me. That's beautiful. I haven't even seen those verses in that light before, and I love it. John? I'm glad you shared that because sometimes we think that, well, if you have the church and the gospel, then there's no reason to ever feel worthless. But even those of us who are serving sometimes feel that way. And there are probably many people who could relate to that feeling that have been blessed by what you just said. That even when we know we're in the Lord's church and where we're supposed to be and trying to do what we're supposed to be doing,
Starting point is 00:22:15 sometimes we wonder if we matter. So thank you for sharing that because I think a lot of people will benefit from you just keep going. The Lord has given you talents and you press forward. It's such a good moment. I don't want to pass it by, but I do want to keep going here into section 118. We get to talk about our 12 apostles. Section 118 is so positive. And we know that that took place because of the apostasy and the apostles that left the church and the new ones.
Starting point is 00:22:54 And the Lord is talking to them, talking to those men who are coming to the apostleship. I don't know if they were bewildered, if they were surprised, but he's giving them instructions. He's talking to them directly. In verse 1, if we could start, it says, It's very thus said the Lord, let a conference be held immediately, and let the twelve be organized,
Starting point is 00:23:22 and let men be appointed to supply the place of those who are fallen. And nowhere in that scripture do I see, and let perfect men be appointed to supply the place of those who are fallen. We looked, but we couldn't find any. That's exactly right. He said, let them be appointed. And he gives them an instruction and i love verse three let the residue continue to preach from that hour and if they will do this in all loneliness of heart
Starting point is 00:23:54 and meekness and humility and long suffering i the lord give unto them a promise that i will provide for their families and an effectual door shall be open for them from henceforth Can you imagine getting that kind of call? Verse 5, That goes back to what we talked about earlier with the story of Brigham Young and Isaac Russell and Theodore Turley. This is where the Lord says, you're going to leave for your mission from far west next year. And this is where Brigham comes back and says, that the amazing names that come out of, you know, that get added to the 12 because of the apostasy, John Taylor and Wilford Richards is going to be in Carthage Jail with the prophet. These are some incredible names who come out of such a terrible time, such a dark, terrible time for the church. I think that's crucial to understand, that the Lord can turn something so dark and difficult into something, an opportunity, a future opportunity and happiness.
Starting point is 00:25:20 John Taylor and Wilfred Ruddiff, I don't know if you guys know, but they have some impact on the future of the church. Those names seem to ring a bell to me. I just think it's an absolutely beautiful idea because we have a lot of listeners, I'm sure, who are going through difficult, hard times as we just talked about. And the message I think of this is, uh, the work moves forward and I can actually bring, uh, some future in, in some future, what opportunity, understanding future happiness through,
Starting point is 00:25:53 uh, through, uh, who comes in to replace these, uh, those who have fallen. So I just think it's a, uh,
Starting point is 00:26:00 uh, it's a very hopeful section. France. Yes. I think so too. I, and I love you saying this because it's, it's also about hopeful section. Franz? Yes, I think so too. And I love you saying this because it's also about families, right? We know that these men that were called,
Starting point is 00:26:14 were called to go and preach the gospel and they were leaving behind them their wives and their children. And it's not that they had a fat bank account that could take care of those women. So after the young family's arrival, Joseph received an unpublished revelation instructing Brigham that was to leave his family again. And then in section 118, the Lord is reminding Brigham and the other apostles that he'll provide. But then notice this. It says, during those nine months provided proof to be anything but restful when the saints were, when the apostles were gone. The saints in Missouri were driven from their homes, right?
Starting point is 00:27:00 Once again, Brigham Young was in danger as one of the most wanted church leaders. The young family fled together, but they travel short distances and then waited while Brigham went back to assist other destitute saints. Mary Ann recalled that by the wife of Brigham Young, recalled that by the time they reached safety on the other side of the Mississippi River in Illinois, she had kept house in 11 different places with three months. Within three months, she was also pregnant. So the history talks a lot about the great apostles, their faith and so on, but they were supported by the Mariannes of the world, right? They had wonderful women that had faith, and those women worked physically to exhaustion. They were not only carrying babies at this moment,
Starting point is 00:27:58 just like Marianne, but they were moving from house to house, carrying their things while their husband was preaching the gospel. I mean, this is the rich history of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. It's the story of sacrifices of women that have given so much to allow their husband, at least on the 12th, Quorum of the 12th, to do what they needed to do to build a kingdom. And then meanwhile, they were taking the bulk of raising the children and providing for them. Hence, the Lord says, I will provide for your family. I mean, it's significant. Did you say 11 different houses in three months? That is correct.
Starting point is 00:28:42 Yeah, that's what the revelation in context. Historically, that's what happened. Wow. And that's, I mean, and when it comes to missionary work and Brigham Young is going to be, it's going to be hard to match, right? Brigham is crossing over to England. Over the next couple of years, he's going to spend a lot of time on the east coast of the United States. So I love that.
Starting point is 00:29:09 We need to talk about the Mariannes of the church. Very much Brigham's equal in sacrifice and work. It's humbling i just think i keep thinking of i think it was president harold that said today we have the test of gold you know we have abundance we've it gives us a whole uh new ideas of things to complain about and they are the physical trials that they're doing like you said france that so she had to move her children across the the river yes without a husband there that's exactly right yeah these women were awesome um one of my good friends his name is uh lynn uh it seems like he spent his entire life on the stand i think he got home on
Starting point is 00:30:01 off a mission and they they made him you him a general authority pretty much in my mind. And you talk to his wife, Haley, and that is not an easy thing to do, to never sit by your husband at church, to have the husband gone a lot on Sunday and Tuesday night and Saturday morning. And that is a rough spot to be in. So I, you know, the Maryann's and the Haley's out there. Yeah. We want to recognize that. I used to say to my wife when I left for, for stuff, when I was a bishop by everybody, I'm going to talk to others about the importance of families.
Starting point is 00:30:44 And somebody, somebody said once, we're married for eternity, but separated for life. John, you probably remember me telling you about the bishop who fell asleep in his driveway and his wife had to come knock on his window to wake him up at midnight. I have an appointment. Yeah, that's France below. And his wife had to come knock on his window to wake him up at midnight. I have an appointment.
Starting point is 00:31:06 Yeah. That's France Below. Really? That is France Below. That's him. Yeah. I've told this story before. And he said, you know, I am never tired of his work, but I am sure tired in his work. Do you remember telling me that?
Starting point is 00:31:21 Yes. You fell asleep in your driveway. You said, I just got home. Yes, I did. I got home from being Bishop. I put the car in park. Just decided to close my eyes just for a minute. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:31:32 Right? And then Brandy's knocking on the door. He fell asleep. It was like midnight. Are you coming inside? Sorry. Sorry. I just closed my eyes for a second.
Starting point is 00:31:44 Turned into hours. But you said, I get tired. I just closed my eyes for a second. Turned into hours. But you said, I get tired. I get tired in his work. I don't get tired of his work. That's correct. That's what I said. And it's like that day of rest thing. A day of rest.
Starting point is 00:31:56 No, not exactly. But resting from worldly things, yes. Yeah. But a different kind of day of rest. That's a great story. I have a branch of office here in my driveway. So, section 119, this is the tithing section, right? This is the Lord wanting to get the work done and, uh, he's requiring his saints to, to contribute. And, uh, he doesn't want them to be in debt anymore. And he's,
Starting point is 00:32:32 and he's promising them that, uh, uh, there will be, uh, blessings, but it's a, um, it's a wonderful section and understanding. I call this the economy of the Lord, which mathematically doesn't work at times, but spiritually, oh my goodness, yields all of the blessings that he says that it will yield. So I love that section. The beginning is very, again, the first verse, Verily thus said the Lord, I require all their surplus property to be put into the hands of the bishop of my church in Zion. Now, we have to understand a little bit of what's happening here.
Starting point is 00:33:16 It was not a common thing. I mean, sure, in different religion, they would pass whatever it is so that you can collect exactly past the plate. But this one is saying any surplus that you have, you need to put it in the hands of the bishop. So it was a new revelation, obviously, but it was also sobering to think that I am going to give and I like to use my surplus to do other things. But now I'm giving that to the church to build the kingdom, the Lord says,
Starting point is 00:33:54 for the building in my house and for the laying of the foundation of Zion, for the priesthood in verse two, and for the debts of the presidency of my church. And I could see some members saying, well, they're the one who got into debts. I didn't. So why do I have to provide for that? So I can see people saying this. And maybe I'd be one to say something like this and hopefully repent quickly. But the Lord is asking them to be very selfless,
Starting point is 00:34:29 to provide and the tithing. But again, like anything else, whatever the Lord asks, there are blessings that are attached to that. And I think that's what we learn in that section, not only the request that may have been difficult for some, but also the blessings that come from that. Yeah. I keep coming back to,
Starting point is 00:34:55 John, do you remember when it was Dr. Farnes, almost Dr. Farnes, Sherilyn Farnes, who's finishing up her PhD. She quoted Edward Partridge, and this has not left me. I've repeated it in my mind a lot since then, when he said, quote, I am willing to spend and be spent in the cause of my master. And tithing, I think, is part of that. I am willing to spend and be spent in the cause of my master. Both of you have served as bishop. Being on the intimate side of this, this is not an easy law to keep.
Starting point is 00:35:31 For some people, it's an easy law to keep, right? For my wife, it's easy. That's why she does it. Yeah, and I wish all of the commandments were this easy and mathematical. It's easy to keep, but when I, I think that something that was very time consuming, but was really a refuge from the storm for me was tithing settlement, where faithful members who simply did their duty and kept moving forward.
Starting point is 00:36:01 And some of them, it was the only time I saw them annually because they were just out there faithfully doing their duty. Tithing Settlement was just an enriching refuge from the storm or in this together type experience. And to have people, it just said something about their testimony of Jesus Christ and everything else when tithing was, they were full tithe payer. I knew that so many other things were okay. How do I say that? Am I saying that okay? Yeah, I think so. And so, a lot of times I was meeting with folks with a lot of problems, and that's part of why you're there. You're there to help me to heal and to encourage and so forth.
Starting point is 00:36:51 And so tithing settlement was a real fun thing to meet with everybody and how you're doing and how's your family. And I'm so glad you're firm in the faith and keep going. So I don't know. When I think of that as a bishop, I think of tithing settlement and how wonderful that was. And things have changed structurally dramatically since tithing went online. And John, thank you for sharing that. Those were some of my most precious times. times it was to be at the tithing settlement. I do remember a singular experience I had with a sister that was in her early 70s. And I said, sister so-and-so, and she was a widow, and I said,
Starting point is 00:37:39 sister so-and-so, why is it that you're paying your tithing? Why is it that you've been faithful all through those years? And then she says, Bishop, the Lord has given me everything. That's all she said to me. The Lord has given me everything. And I was touched by that, that deep understanding that the earth belongs to the Lord. He provides us with breath. He provides us with opportunities, with health. And in return, not even in return, he's asking us to give 10% of our increase to do what?
Starting point is 00:38:26 To bless other people as if he really needs the money, right? It's but a drop. It's insignificant to the Lord, but it's to bless others and also to bless us. And if I can share with you something from David Bednar from General Conference October 2013. I think he says it more eloquently, like usual, than I can. But he says, as we live the law of tithing, we often receive significant but subtle blessings that are not always what we expect and easily can be overlooked. The family, speaking of his family, had not received any sudden or obvious additions to the household income.
Starting point is 00:39:19 Instead, a loving Heavenly Father had bestowed simple blessings in seemingly ordinary ways. Often, Elder Bednar continues, as we are obedient to this commandment are significant but subtle. Such blessings can be discerned only if we are both spiritually attentive and observant. The law of tithing has helped me personally have more compassion towards my brothers and sisters. I'm talking about not only the ones that are in destitute, but also the ones that have riches. I've learned through the law of tithing to be more compassionate towards people. That was a spiritual blessing I received. As I've been teaching tithing through the years and trying to help my students understand the blessings of tithing, I ran into a little analogy that I just love. So, John, you've done tours of the Holy Land, so have I.
Starting point is 00:40:31 And this is something I share when we get out there and we see both the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea. We visit both of them and people get to see the difference, right? And there is a big difference between the Sea of Galilee and the Dead Sea. They're both beautiful, but one is more lush and green and has think a pastor, uh, who made this analogy. He said the sea of Galilee and the dead sea are made of the same water. It flows down clean and cool from the heights of Hermon and the roots of the cedars of Lebanon. The sea of Galilee makes beauty of that water because it has an outlet. It gets to give. It gathers in its riches that it may
Starting point is 00:41:27 pour them out again to fertilize the Jordan plain. But the Dead Sea with the same water makes horror for the Dead Sea does not give. It has no outlet. It gets to keep. And I just like that idea that paying your tithing will make your life richer, more beautiful. And like you said, Franz, this isn't about an amount of money. This is about the, I don't know, the beauty of giving. And the Lord wants us to experience the beauty of giving. And for me personally, I, and I know neither of you are this way, but I need a check very frequently, at least once a month or once a year saying, do you love me more than money, Hank? Let's check this one more time. Do you love me more than money? Yes, I do.
Starting point is 00:42:19 Okay. Prove it. Do you love me more than money? I don't think the Lord needs my money, but I need that check. I need that, that, um, I don't know that warning in place because for me, the love of money can become very important. And so the Lord says, I'm going to put a little system in place to make sure that never, that you, that never overtakes, uh, things because money is important, right? Money is crucial to us and our survival. But man, if it becomes our love, if it becomes more important than the Lord, it will really destroy lives, destroy marriages, destroy families. And so the Lord has kept this. I don't know. I think the Lord put tithing in place for me.
Starting point is 00:43:02 Yeah, a moment where the Lord just says, I'm going to let you decide every month and every year if you love me more than money. And I have a wife who helps me love the Lord more than money, right? Could she? More than Ford F-150s. Oh, don't bring it up, John. My natural man comes out because when I've been at tithing settlement, I remember once saying, it is 10%. I wish it was more, but it's 10%. But my dad wrote me a letter when I was on my mission in the Philippines.
Starting point is 00:43:39 And he joined the church when he was 24. And the missionaries, I guess, they had read Malachi to him. This idea of, I will open you the windows of heaven and pour you out a blessing that there shall not be room enough to receive it. Which is an amazing promise and a poetic promise. And my dad started paying tithing as an investigator to kind of test the principle. And I didn't know that until I got this letter, but he was paying tithing while investigating the church to see if it would work. And it did. We never had a Ford F-150, but, and I want to go back to what Franz said about this woman who said, the Lord has given me everything. I just had a reference, Genesis chapter 28, verse 22.
Starting point is 00:44:29 This stone, which I have set for a pillar, shall be God's house. And of all that thou shalt give unto me, I will surely give the tenth unto thee. I think that's coming to mind is, as a member of the church, I asked myself, what does the Lord do with the tithing, right? I mean, there's millions and millions of members, and they faithfully contribute the tithes because, much like we've heard in the last five, ten minutes or so, the blessings of tithing are bounteous, really. It could be physical, but it sanctifies us.
Starting point is 00:45:15 So during the talk of Elder Bednar, he helped me understand a little bit more. And I think that it'd be good for some of the audience to understand, well, what, from an apostle, what is that? So if I can quote this, he says, I remember and think of each of you, speaking of the members who are faithful in paying their tithe. He says, I know from first experience that the council of the disposition of the tithes is vigilant and caring for the widow's might. I express appreciation to President Thomas S. Monson, who was a prophet then, and his counselor for their effective leadership and discharging this holy stewardship. And I acknowledge the voice and hand of the Lord that sustains his ordained servants
Starting point is 00:46:31 and fulfilling the duty to represent him. So in that counsel, Elder Bednar expresses that there's a lot of discussion. Where do we put the money that the members have worked so hard to build the kingdom of God? Because that's the purpose of it. And then you think of the many temples that we have, of the many buildings, and to maintain those buildings and so on. So we all participate in a way for the temporal affairs of the church, but also the spiritual growth.
Starting point is 00:47:08 Because since the members have been paying their tithing, the Lord says it will be a standing law forever in the Doctrine and Covenants section 119, right? He says, and this shall be a standing law unto them forever, saith the Lord. So in verse 4, well, the tithing is what blesses and even enables us to have this discussion today because of the church continuing to provide. And so I'm very grateful to understand that this is really well managed and it's for the welfare of the members and definitely to build the kingdom of God. Franz, as I think the council that you just talked about, that is created in section 120, right? Uh, yes.
Starting point is 00:48:00 It shall be disposed by a council composed the first presidency of my church, the bishop and his council, my high council, and this is my voice unto them. So that very council that Elder Bednar was a part of, that he said he was a part of, has been a part of, I should say, and probably still is, is created here in section 120. So it seems that the Lord is very careful, wants the church to be very careful with the widow's might. John, what were you going to add? Thank you. I'm so glad you brought that up. I can only imagine the burden that council must feel. And I seem to remember President Hinckley in a conference talk mentioning that he kept a widow's might on his desk to remind him of that.
Starting point is 00:48:50 And you know, Franz, as a bishop, how you felt about the fast offerings and when somebody would come and need some help and you were very prayerful about how do I do this and how much do I do and I want to be so careful with these sacred funds. And I felt that. I'm sure you felt that. And I'm so grateful that I, I feel like once, once I've written my check or made my online deposit or whatever, I know that there's a council that is praying over this. What do we do with this? And that they are thinking of not just me, but the widows. My, that's such a comfort.
Starting point is 00:49:22 I, I wanted to, if you guys don't mind, I want to take a look just quickly at verse six. You know, someone might say, well, what's the problem with, I don't want to pay my tithing. I want to keep my money. What, you know, what's the problem? I think the Lord gives a great explanation. He says, if my people observe not this law, tithing, to keep it holy, and by this law, sanctify the land of Zion unto me. So I think tithing first is sanctifying. It will cleanse you. And it does that for me. That my statutes and my judgments may be kept thereon, that it may be most holy. So again, I think tithing creates a holy person, a sanctified person. He says, if you don't do
Starting point is 00:50:04 these things, if you're not sanctified and you're not holy, it shall not be a land of Zion unto you. Isn't this interesting that this is about who we are. You both brought up the talk, the challenge to become from Elder Oaks, then Elder Oaks, right? And I think tithing is a major portion of what do you want to be? And I don't want to be a covetous money-centered individual. And if I am a covetous money-centered individual, when I get to Zion, it won't be Zion to me, right? It won't be Zion to me because I won't be a Zion person. So I think I would say if tithing, paying a tithing, paying tithing is a way to create Zion in yourself.
Starting point is 00:50:59 And to me, it helped a lot to watch my parents, like everybody, struggle to make ends meet. Both my mom and my dad worked, but tithing was such a... It was never a decision. It was a decision made once, and it was easy after that. And that was a great example to me. Yeah, I remember once... It was an indicator example to me. Yeah, I remember once. It was an indicator of what mattered, you know. I remember once President Hinckley talking about how when we went through a recession,
Starting point is 00:51:36 the ties actually went up. And he was just profoundly touched by that. And in tears, he said, there's one word for that, brothers and sisters, faith. That is faith, right? That during a time when people's incomes went down, the ties of the church went up. Hank and France, I was just thinking, having gone through this pandemic and it's still going, President Hinckley talked about that recession, how many have had their income affected by this significantly and kept paying their tithing. And I bet many testimonies have been strengthened of tithing that the Lord's promises are sure and he's taken care of us. And mine has,
Starting point is 00:52:18 my testimony of it has been strengthened that we had what we needed to keep going. Franz, let me ask you a kind of a final question here. You've done just incredibly well with, I mean, this was a lot of sections. This is one of those lessons that just kind of flies from topic to topic. And you just, I've learned so much. I want to hear how you feel personally as just a member of the church studying the restoration. You have a doctorate degree. You have a very solid educational background. And yet here you are, faithful to the church. I think our listeners would love to know more about how you feel about the restoration. Thank you, Hank. I appreciate the question. The restoration
Starting point is 00:53:07 means everything for me. And maybe a little bit of background, I became a member when I was 15 years old. Three, four months later, I would turn 16, but I was 15 when I became a member. And I remember distinctly one night after having hung out with friends, I came home and I laid on my bed and we, as I shared in the beginning, we didn't have a lot of means. So I was lucky enough that day to be on my bed alone because there were three of us that slept on that bed. But I was looking at the ceiling and I thought to myself, is that what this is about? I was 15 and I had that moment of maturity, which was rare. But I thought, is that what this is about? Just going to play with friends, going to school, wake up in the morning, eat, and go to bed. I'm like, there has to be more than this. And that was a question that stayed with me
Starting point is 00:54:12 until my uncle introduced us to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and the rest is history. So I've been a member now for 37 years, and I'm grateful for the so many documents that have been left behind, historically speaking, not only the scriptures, but revelations in context, the church history, saints for the volumes of saints. And when I consider this, I'm like, there's no way that the church should have survived. No, seriously, when I read about the saints and what's happened to the prophet Joseph Smith, I'm like, there's no way that this thing should have survived. And it would only have to be that the hand of the almighty God was in the details, the important details of growing His church in
Starting point is 00:55:07 these latter days with a bunch of imperfect individuals, which includes me, right? With a bunch of imperfect people trying to do their very, very best. So the restoration has meant for me that I have my family. I have five boys that we're trying to teach to be good citizens, that we're trying to teach to be good contributors around them. It's helped me understand that divorce is really not an option for us, that we're going to work through things. It's helped me have hope that I can have the relationship that I have with my wife for eternity. It's helped me understand that, look, you have a lot of bad habits and you have a lot of weaknesses, but with the Lord, every day you can become better. And that's comforting to me. that I have a relationship with my brothers and sisters, regardless of their colors, the color of their skins, their religious affiliation, or their sexual orientation.
Starting point is 00:56:11 It's helped me understand that I can still find commonality, that we're all sons and daughters of God. So that understanding helps me have peace in this life. Not that my life is peaceful, but it helps me have peace in life as I go through those different circumstances or situations. It's blessed me so much. But I'll tell you, Hank and John, the greatest blessing I've received, bar none, is understanding that I have a God, that I have a Father in heaven, and understanding that He has sent His only begotten Son to bless me, and that Jesus has loved me so much that He's paid for my sins, and that he continues to work with me. I can't tell
Starting point is 00:57:08 you how significant that knowledge is for me personally. If that's all I knew in this life, it would have been sufficient. And I'm grateful for that. John, another episode of Follow Him is in the books and it has been so much fun. This has just been a light to me today. I just feel really uplifted and edified. I think our listeners love all of our guests and I hear that all the time. And I think, Franz, coming from Haiti, joining the church later at 15, and your perspective has been wonderful. People are going to love hearing your perspective on this. And thank you for sharing this time and some very personal things about growing up. And it's going to bless a lot of people who may find
Starting point is 00:58:05 themselves in a similar situation. Yeah, absolutely wonderful. We want to thank Dr. Franz Below for being with us today. We want to thank all of you for listening. We couldn't do this without you. We're thankful to our executive producers, Steve and Shannon Sorenson, and our production crew, Jamie Nielsen, Lisa Spice, David Perry, Kyle Nelson, and Will Stoughton. And we hope that all of you will join us on our next episode of Follow Him. Редактор субтитров А.Семкин Корректор А.Егорова

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