followHIM - Mormon 7-9 Part 1 • Dr. Sheldon Martin • November 4-10 • Come Follow Me

Episode Date: October 30, 2024

Join Dr. Sheldon Martin as he examines how Moroni found peace and hope through the gospel of Jesus Christ, which is found in the Book of Mormon. This record would be essential to bringing Christ to the world in the latter days.SHOW NOTES/TRANSCRIPTSEnglish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM45ENFrench: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM45FRGerman: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM45DEPortuguese: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM45PTSpanish: https://tinyurl.com/podcastBM45ESYOUTUBEhttps://youtu.be/G9fiO6GQc1UALL EPISODES/SHOW NOTESfollowHIM website: https://www.followHIMpodcast.comFREE PDF DOWNLOADS OF followHIM QUOTE BOOKSNew Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastNTBookOld Testament: https://tinyurl.com/PodcastOTBookWEEKLY NEWSLETTERhttps://tinyurl.com/followHIMnewsletterSOCIAL MEDIAInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/followHIMpodcastFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/followhimpodcastTIMECODE00:00 Part I - Dr. Sheldon Martin02:20 Bio of Dr. Sheldon Martin04:52 Come, Follow Me Manual Mormon 7-906:46 Jesus is a god of miracles08:23 Mormon 7:1012:28 Jesus teaches repentance, faith, and baptism15:54 Different audiences of the Book of Mormon18:27 Mormon 8:1-5 - Fear and loneliness21:55 The loneliness epidemic24:44 Moroni’s Guide to Surviving Turbulent Times by John Bytheway27:39 Small and simple things33:21 Mormon 8 - "Acquainted with grief”37:27 Mormon 8:10-35 - I am a disciple of Jesus Christ42:20 What does Moroni say to us?46:20 Pride, fine apparel, and ignoring the sick and afflicted47:19 Dr. Martin shares a story about making a team roster51:32 Do we care about things or people?54:42  End of Part 1 - Dr. Sheldon MartinThanks to the followHIM team:Steve & Shannon Sorensen: Cofounder, Executive Producer, SponsorDavid & Verla Sorensen: SponsorsDr. Hank Smith: Co-hostJohn Bytheway: Co-hostDavid Perry: ProducerKyle Nelson: Marketing, SponsorLisa Spice: Client Relations, Editor, Show NotesJamie Neilson: Social Media, Graphic DesignWill Stoughton: Video EditorKrystal Roberts: Translation Team, English & French Transcripts, WebsiteAriel Cuadra: Spanish Transcripts"Let Zion in Her Beauty Rise" by Marshall McDonaldhttps://www.marshallmcdonaldmusic.com

Hello, everyone. Welcome to another episode of Follow Him. My name is Hank Smith. I'm your host. I'm here with my endlessly happy co-host, John, by the way. And we're here with our incredible guest, Dr. Sheldon Martin. John, we are in Mormon 7, 8, and 9. We're about to say goodbye to our good friend Mormon and be introduced to his son, Moroni. What are you thinking going into this? Oh, this is a pass the baton moment that it sounds like was completely unexpected. And I marveled at Moroni's like, is this my book now? When you think of the actual people involved, it's quite a moment, isn't it? Yeah. Yeah. It's stunning, I think, when you pick up in chapter eight, you're expecting to hear, okay, what is Mormon going to say next?

And all of a sudden, yeah. Yeah, it's not him. John, like I said, we have an incredible guest today. His name is Dr. Sheldon Martin. Sheldon, as you've looked at these three chapters, what are you thinking? One thing that stuck out to me is when Moroni says, I speak to you as if you're present. I think about when I was professionally trained as a therapist. You're taught, don't ever tell someone, I know how you feel, but to create empathy,

it's good to recognize when there is a certain feeling that you have felt. Here's some of the phrases in these chapters that stuck out to me where my experiences are different, but I have felt some of these things like, I even remain alone. I have not friends nor wither to go. My father was also killed, or the experience of loss. How long will the Lord will suffer? And I'm thinking of, I have felt many of those emotions. And then we have these other great phrases where you have the remedy almost paired in as well. He knoweth their prayers. I will show unto you a God of miracles. I have not experienced some of the challenges that Mormon and Moroni are facing in their world,

but I have felt some of those feelings, and I still believe in a God of miracles. That is awesome. I have not friends nor wither to go. That could be my autobiography, I think, for the first 18 years of my life. John, Sheldon hasn't joined us before. So can you give him the background check that you did? Yes. In fact, I love his bio.

His bio begins like this. Dr. Sheldon Martin is married to Nicole. Huh? That's a good bio. That is a good bio. And they are the parents of five children. Sheldon received his doctorate from Arizona State University, is a licensed clinical mental health counselor, works in church education for 15 years. And I've been hearing you two share stories from your time together in those years.

Currently works for the church in a capacity where his job is to understand the member audience's experience. We're just thrilled to have him. You have to tell me, Sheldon, I think we met when you were how old again? I was 14 and I went to a youth conference. So I'll clarify, John wanted me to say that he was probably then 17, but maybe those ages don't quite line up, but in the ballpark. Yeah, somewhere around 17. And I had never been to a youth conference. And I went and there was this really kind of funny, quirky guy in the front talking. And I felt something in my heart. And I was like, I don't know what to do.

And I love baseball. I'm a baseball player when I was that age. So I knew when you thought you saw someone famous, you went up and asked him for an autograph. So that's what I did. I went up and I said, brother, by the way, will you sign my scriptures? And you lovingly taught me why that probably wasn't the best approach and asked me about my favorite scripture and taught me. And I love what you and Hank have done for years. I love it.

You are so kind. Hopefully you told him I'll see you on the podcast in a couple of decades. Yeah. We didn't even know what a podcast was at that time. I think this was pre-AOL, World Wide Web. John, Sheldon and I had a couple of years teaching together at the great Springville High. Go Red Devils. It was really kind of odd to teach the gospel to a bunch of devils that came over every day.

And then you went to Arizona State and what are they called? Yeah, Red Devils. That's right. And we just had so much fun. Sheldon is good to the core and fun. So we're in for a treat. All of our listeners out there, he comes highly recommended by me. John, you are just going to love learning from Sheldon. I have for years. He is fantastic. Sheldon, I'm going to read from the Come Follow Me manual, Mormon 7 through 9. And then this is John and I's favorite part.

We're going to turn the reins over to you and let you guide us through this. And occasionally we might throw in a comment. Moroni knew what it felt like to be alone in a wicked world, especially after his father died in battle and the Nephites were destroyed. I even remain alone, he wrote. I have not friends nor where they're to go. Things may have seemed hopeless, but Moroni found hope in Jesus Christ and his testimony that the eternal purposes of the Lord

shall roll on. And Moroni knew that a key part of those eternal purposes would be the Book of Mormon, the record he was now diligently completing, the record that would one day bring many people to the knowledge of Christ. Moroni's faith in these promises made it possible for him to declare to the future readers of this book, I speak unto you as if you were present, and I know that you shall have my words. Now we do have his words, and the Lord's work is rolling forth, in part because Mormon and Moroni stayed true to their mission, even when they were alone. Beautiful. All right, with that, Sheldon, where do you want to start? Do we want to jump right in, or do we need a little background? What do you want to start? Do we want to jump right in or do we need a little background? What do you want to do? Well, a little bit of background. The way I learn, I like to

put the shell out there and then fill in some of the details. It's always important. How are these scriptures relevant to me? Go from what is the story to how does this impact my story? We're starting in a place where we're describing a world that is really complex and pretty difficult. There is a lot of destruction. There's war. There is a lot of strife. It looks very different in our world, but that is similar. Chaos abounding, chaos everywhere. Yes. And if it was left there, it would feel scary. Moroni talks us through a little bit what he is feeling and then ends with this hope

that we have the Book of Mormon. God is a God of miracles. I speak to you as if you were present. You will find hope in Jesus Christ. You are his disciple. I mean, some of these teachings are so relevant to us today. We live in a complex world. We have experienced some of the similar emotions, but the good news is we have the Book of Mormon. We have the hope because of Jesus Christ. And we're able to find peace even in a world that's pretty tough. That's where I'd love to start and kind of walk through some of that story at a high level.

Absolutely. We want to go where you want to take us. And it's sad to say goodbye to our narrator. I've often wondered about this transition as well, because as we know, Moroni will end the Book of Mormon a couple different times. He keeps not knowing if he's going to have more material or this is the last one, I promise, guys. And then there's a few more. And I can't imagine what it's like as he's trying to prepare and organize his father's book to look at right before it says, behold, I, Moroni, do finish the record of my father. If you go back, you're going to end with, here is the dying words of the

great organizer of the Book of Mormon in Mormon 7.10. Well, Hank, why don't you read this then? Mormon 7.10. I've always been fascinated. There've been a few moments in my life, whether it's speaking at someone's funeral or at a graduation event, and here's this culminating moment. There's so many things that could be discussed. What makes the list? I'm so impressed of this whole book Mormon is ending with, believe in Christ, be baptized, follow him. That is going to be the best advice. And it is the advice that stands the test of time, regardless of situation or circumstance. That is the advice. When I taught at BYU for a time, Hank, you know, I taught the eternal family class and I would

often introduce the semester by asking students a question. I would say, this semester, do you want to talk about the ideal family? Instantly, there's a little bit of some squirming. Can I give you an operational definition of what I mean? I'd say every individual or family, regardless of situation or circumstance, should turn to and rely upon the teachings and atonement of Jesus Christ. That is the best option, regardless of what's happening in life. Instantly, it was like, okay, all right, we can talk about that. I feel this a little bit with Mormon. Of everything we have stated and said and summarized, here's one of the take-home moments. Believe in him. Be baptized. Keep following him. There's something to that message that we can't say it enough.

I know John is going to love this verse because I know John well. He is going to love that at the very end, it comes back to the first principles. Yeah, first principles. We've joked about this, Sheldon, like, boy, there's so many principles of the gospel, so many doctrines. If only somebody would tell us, what are the first principles and ordinances of the gospel? You know, if only somebody would just tell us that. Well, write it down. Put it in a letter. Yeah, or something.

Maybe Brother Wentworth, John Wentworth, could know about it or something. I love how they keep coming back to the doctrine of Christ. I've always thought when, as a father, and I don't have something to teach. I love how they keep coming back to the doctrine of Christ. I've always thought when as a father, and I don't have something to teach, it's family night, and maybe I haven't prepared. And this is where you go to. Faith. Tell me stories about faith. Talk about faith. Talk about repentance. Talk about baptismal covenants. Talk about experiences you've had with the Holy Ghost. You'll be safe there. Yeah. They can be safe there. Yeah. They can be repeated over and over.

Because it is repeated so often, there could be a temptation to set it aside because of repetition. But I think that it would be well if we did the opposite. If that is continually the target in the forefront, everything else fits and attaches. And I think of a tree. We've talked about primary questions and secondary questions. People have given wonderful talks on that. There's this idea of what's the trunk of the tree? What are the branches? What are the leaves? A lot of the challenges I faced in life, as soon as I focus on a leaf only, and I don't see how it connects back to the branch and back to the trunk, and that trunk continually is the doctrine of Christ.

Have faith in Him. Repent. Change. Repentance is a positive thing. Grow. Improve. Renew through ordinances, baptism, and others through the sacrament. Receive the Holy Ghost. Have it purify you. Keep enduring. It feels like it does not matter what we teach. That still is the message. It's Mormon's message here and these writings. It's going to be his son's message when he ends the book for the final time.

Just is going to keep coming up. It was Jesus's first message when he arrived. I know both of you as teachers, you frequently get students who have really good questions, but unanswerable things that are just not in the scriptures. And I usually say something like, I love questions. I love questions. I once asked Jesus if the pearly gates swing or if they roll. And he said, what a great question. I need you to repent. So that moment where you get to the pearly gates is a good moment. We do have these wonderful questions,

but I think the Lord usually responds with wonderful. One day you're going to have all your questions answered, but today could we work on faith, repentance? And soon as you have those mastered, I'll give you more. Knowing full well, we're never going to get them completely mastered. When we talk about faith and we look at the different scriptural definitions, to believe in something, it's true, but it is not seen. What's interesting about that is most knowledge that you come to, there's an element where it becomes a choice, where it becomes, I've studied it out, there's an element of there's still not perfect clarity. And I think that comes with almost any decision. It is fascinating when we talk about faith that sometimes we think that

the options are, I can have faith in Jesus Christ or I can go another road and perfectly know all the other things. As if that is the dichotomy set up, that's not accurate. But this idea of, I'm going to have faith in Jesus Christ because looking through a glass darkly, as Paul says, is part of being a human, is part of my experience as a child of God. There's not another option. And so I'm going to look through that glass darkly with faith, faith in Jesus Christ, hope in his resurrection. It gets me through a lot of difficult questions that I don't know the answer to. Yeah. You will, in all your questions, end up back here.

You might come out with a better grasp of what they might mean, a deeper understanding of them. But really, I've noticed in my questions, and John, I bet you'd say the same thing, usually come back with, I trust him. I trust the Lord. I love how Alma talks to Corianton, and if I can summarize his last verse almost, okay, you marvel about this, you worry about this, and you think this is unjust. Let these things trouble you no more. Only let your sins trouble you with that trouble which will bring you down to repentance. There's answers to all those, and you'll get them one day, but don't focus on the wrong thing.

Like you said, let's come unto Christ and repent, and then maybe you'll get some answers to those questions. And as we all know, Corianton shows up again, and it sounds like he's doing great, but I love that his father gets him back to what? First principles. Personally, I feel like I've almost mastered repentance. I'm about ready to move on. That close? Yeah, this close. Hank, do you remember when Scott Woodward came on? It doesn't seem that long ago,

but remember when we were talking about the title page and he talked about different audiences and how it was like different speakers in a surround sound system i'm looking at mormon 7 going i'm gonna speak to the remnant of this people do you know who you are verse 2 do you know what you need to do verse 3 and 4 and here's the doctrine of christ but he's talking to the remnant the three audiences this people children of lehi and then to the jews and to the gentiles when moroni audiences, these people, children of Lehi, and then to the Jews and to the Gentiles. When Moroni takes over, it sounds like he's talking to us. It sounds like he's using

us as a sounding board. He just starts telling us, this is what's going on. John, I really like that you're pointing that out. Chapter 7, almost is, Dear Lamanites. He's been fighting these people a long time. I'm fascinated that he doesn't start with, I would speak unto the remnant of the Lamanites. He doesn't say, let me tell you how terrible your ancestors were. Let's just walk through this because they killed everyone I know. He doesn't do that. You are of the house of Israel. You have to repent to be saved. Lay down your weapons of war.

You're right, John. This audience, if we pay attention, we can feel a little bit more because we know who the audience is. There's more insight there. That is a very affirming message. Did you know you are house of Israel? When Jesus came, how often he kept saying, you are my sheep, giving him that affirming, it wasn't a scolding message, it was a very affirming message. And I like what you said, Hank, he's not scolding him, he's saying, do you know who you are? And here's what you need to do,

here's the doctrine of Christ. That audience being addressed in Mormon 7, I think is fascinating. Which I think really enhances as we move to when Moroni starts the authorship now, that he has these moments of, I'm speaking to you as if you were present. There's these moments of, I'm speaking to the future readers of this book. That is to whom I speak. That is a really interesting transition and insight there. And there's almost a fourth wall there where all of a sudden the author looks at you. Like, I'm not part of this story. And he kind of reaches out of the book, says, no, now I'm talking to you. It's fascinating. And it really does sound like Moroni's talking to a modern reader. Yeah, versus Mormon who wasn't.

Right. Sheldon, walk us into chapter eight. Moroni takes over the record. Great. So I have been fascinated as he takes over the record, he's alone. He is going to continually point out, I'm trying to write to you as if you were present. My circumstances in my life are different, but I can resonate with what Moroni starts to describe on some of these emotions. Look at some of these verses as he describes what his situation

is feeling, and maybe your listeners can start to hear this. And although our experience is different to say, wait, I felt that. One that sticks out to me, maybe starting in even in verse two. John, could you read two and three? This is Mormon eight verses two and three, and Moroni is now the author. Okay. Verse two. And now it came to pass that after the great and tremendous battle at Camorra, behold, the Nephites who had escaped into the country southward were hunted by the Lamanites until they were all destroyed. And my father also was killed by them. And I even remain alone to write the sad tale of the destruction of my people. But behold, they are gone, and I fulfill the commandment of my father,

and whether they slay me, I know not. I don't point this out to try to be ultra dramatic or anything like that. I start to almost envision a junior high student. It's a new school. They're going over the lunch table. They know no one. They're intimidated. I sit down and that feeling of there is no one around. I must be the only one who has ever felt like this. There's something to connecting with Moroni.

This must have been a lonely experience. There's no one. He uses that phrase, but behold, they are gone. And whether they slay me, I know not. I don't know what's coming. I am alone. Maybe we could use the word, he didn't use scared, but I think I would be scared in this moment.

It's a way to introduce the story in a way that we go through and to almost watch as Moroni continually thinks he's going to end the book and then restarts. And as he's writing, how does he work through some of those feelings? Here are a few others that jump out at me. Look at verse five. Hank, do you want to read verse five? Here's again, me trying to connect with what is Moroni experiencing here? Absolutely. This is Mormon 8.5. Behold, my father hath made this record, and he hath written the intent thereof. And behold, I would write it also if I had room upon the dramatic, but I have underlined, I have not friends, nor wither to go.

There aren't people near me. I don't know where to go. I don't know how long this experience is going to go on. I imagine many listening in your audience, they might even be in a moment right now in life where there's some similar questions of, I don't know how much longer I can do this. I feel alone. I don't have friends near me. This is a difficult moment. I start to connect with Moroni. These are real people. Sheldon, I just want to stop for a second and focus on being lonely. As someone reads this chapter and goes, I'm not being hunted by Lamanites or anything like that, but I do feel lonely. And I think we're living in what many have called an epidemic of loneliness. You would know more about this than I would. Have you seen the Surgeon General?

It's like we're connected by social media more than we've ever been before, and we're lonelier at the same time. Yeah. I mean, this was a report called Our Epidemic of Loneliness and Isolation, the U.S. Surgeon General's Advisory on the Healing Effects of Social Connection and Community. Sheldon, just as a mental health counselor, what are the effects of loneliness? What have you seen? Well, it is interesting that when we talk about loneliness, there is this paradox that's occurring that we have in the history of the world, no greater time with the ability to connect because of technology. And at the same time, the lowest level of actual feelings of connection. One thing that I would point out is it doesn't mean that all technology or all social media is negative or bad, but there is a real need to connect with other people.

It's healthy for us. It's good for us. It's good for us. This idea of loving and sharing and inviting others and meeting together and gathering together, I look at the experiences of young people and others in the church. There's benefit from gathering together that sure outweighs even what the activity is that you show up for. There is a benefit in being there together, connecting. It's gotten to the point where I think we have to be intentional about it. I don't think connection just happens accidentally. That moment of looking and talking and trying to understand and listen and hearing someone, it is becoming a little bit of a lost art, but it's spiritual. We're designed

to be connected. We should really find ways to connect in meaningful ways to each other. John, you could probably speak to this. You wrote the book on Moroni, Moroni's Guide to Surviving Turbulent Times. I bet Moroni's read this, John. He's probably in the spirit world going, this is my favorite. Have you guys read Moroni's Guide

to Surviving Turbulent Times? This, by the way, guy, he's doing okay. Sometimes, John, we see people and we think, oh, they're probably doing fine. They're probably doing great. Sometimes, John, we see people and we think, oh, they're probably doing fine. They're probably doing great. How do we help our listeners who feel alone? What do we do? I think gathering, and I love that the word is gathering because it has so many levels

of meaning in our faith. There's a reason that the church did meet together oft to speak one with another concerning the welfare of their souls, which Moroni is going to write later on. Through COVID, do you remember when we went back to church for the first time? Looking around at everybody and smiling, and oh my goodness, it's good, so good to be back together. There's a feeling of support, I guess, of we're in this together as you look around the room and

we're all hungering to come back to the sacrament table in a more formal way. When my boys say, I don't want to go to this activity. We're not doing something fun. We're not doing anything. You're telling me it's not about the activity. It's about being there. I think there is a lot of truth in that. I remember way back when we would do duty to God. We had this leader for my boys and he was incredible. And they would say, we're doing triple D. Triple D is the activity. It's triple D.

Duty to God, dodgeball and donuts. Right? They loved it. This was a leader who understood they need to come together. They had meaningful things. He made it fun. But the real point was that they were getting together and that they were learning and laughing. We just see this all over the place that often the most influential moments are in the gaps of the unscheduled time. Some of my favorite moments in church have been from passing from

sacrament to now we're going to Sunday school and you run into someone, you're talking with them, you're, hey, how are things going? When we started this podcast, Hank, you and I have been friends for a long time and being able to connect again and, hey, how is your family? There is something about that. I don't know if it comes through the Holy Ghost all the time, but I think many times it does, that there's a feeling of connection that is really important to us as God's children. All of us could look for ways to reach out just to say, I wonder if they're okay. I'm going to go stop by. John, wasn't it President Monson who took his vacation days?

I don't know how that guy had 36 hours in a day and he didn't sleep. He was amazing. He'd go visit the widows of his ward. It's never been easier now that we can text somebody and just thinking about you today. How are you guys doing over there? Maybe that's not ideal, but it's possible. Tell Siri to send a quick text message to someone and see how they're doing. Small and simple things. When I was a bishop on my phone, on LDS tools, I had everybody's birthday. And at the end

of the day, I'd look and see, let's say I got four today, or I've got five today, or I've got none today, but I would call and sing happy birthday. Usually I said, you want the long version or the short version? And having heard me sing, they always said the short version. So I'd say, this is your birthday song. It isn't very long. That's all I'd say. And then I'd just say, we just love you. We're so glad you're in our ward and hope you always know what we're thinking of. I hope you're having a party over there. After a while, people were, we were waiting.

We were wondering when you were going to call. Hank and Sheldon, it was such an easy little thing. And I was amazed. I had one of our ward members who passed away in her 100th year. I'd missed her. And so I sang it on the machine. And I have a message that I still have. Oh, Bishop, I've lived there 63 years, and that's the first time I had a bishop who could call me, happy birthday, happy birthday.

So that was really great. I was kind of sad when I was released. All the birthdays went away. Nobody got older ever since I got released. Yeah. Wow. That connection is important as easy sometimes as a little phone call. I don't know if there's the answer in here, but is it comforting to a degree that I can read this and go, he felt this too.

He felt alone. I'm not broken. I can make it through just like Marone. I did. It can be really comforting, really comforting to recognize that I'm not the only one. Obviously there's other things that he says in here that are very powerful. Anytime we feel lonely, we sometimes can feel like, how come everyone else feels connected? Some of the world in which we live today can exacerbate that a little bit. You hop on social media and everyone's life is great and how come I'm so lonely? To recognize that that is something that profits, feel lonely. President Monson talked about it after his sweet wife passed away. This is something we experience in mortality that's difficult. Not that misery loves company, but it can be comforting that I'm not the only one who has felt this before. Along with all the other emotions, I imagine Moroni must be scared.

I talk to a lot of young adults these days that are a little scared about things like, oh man, interest rates are high. I don't know if I'm going to be able to buy a house. Worried about their future. Before we even get to the remedy, it's nice to look and to say, you mean Moroni was also uncertain about his future? Yes. He literally uses, what was the phrase? I know not. I literally do not know what's on the horizon.

There can be some comfort in that to know that we're walking that road with other people who've had those same emotions and experiences. I love that. John, I mentioned your book earlier, Moroni's Guide to Surviving Turbulent Times. I like what you call Moroni. I'm going to read. This is the first page. One memorable evening after participating in a fireside in Tremonton, Utah, I strapped myself into my little Hyundai and set out for the drive home. As I proceeded southbound along the Wasatch Front, I marveled at the number of temples I passed along the way. I thought about each one I might see if I continued down I-15,

naming them in my mind. Brigham City, Ogden, Bountiful, Salt Lake, Jordan River, Ochre Mountain, Draper, Timpanogos, Provo. Now there's even more. Yeah. Yeah. Saratoga Springs, Orem. When I was a missionary in the early 1980s, part of the standard equipment was a flip chart containing visual aids, quotations, and pictures. One of the illustrations showed all the temples then in existence. There organization of the church, Elder B.H. Roberts told the saints gathered in general conference, seven temples have been erected in various parts of the land of Zion for a continuance of this holy work, and more will yet be built. Think what that work may be when there are a hundred temples instead of seven. That was 20 years ago. That's a few years back. Yeah. It must have been hard to fathom back then,

but here we are still some years away from the church's second hundred years. And there are more than, and you say 150, what are we at? 335. But the thought that wouldn't leave me, and this is the part I wanted to get to John, as I drove that evening was not about the buildings. It was about the man, the icon standing atop nearly all of our temples, that solitary figure, the angel Moroni. There he was, all alone, looking out over the valleys like a watchman on the tower that he was. It occurred to me that being alone was something with which Moroni was painfully familiar. My mind began to rate, this may be a family church, I thought, but it was restored through an unmarried teenager who was visited and tutored by an angel who spent at least

the last 20 years of his life as a single adult, alone and wandering for his own safety. How much different would the Book of Mormon be without Moroni's work? I had the thought, this is what you call Moroni, John, that I love. Moroni's best work was done while he was a single adult. And then you call him later the ultimate single adult. What a great connection, John. I hadn't thought of that. You drive by a temple and there he is all alone. I wonder if he says, that was pretty much my life. Yeah. I love that we're reading these opening verses of Mormon 8 because there's not really any doctrine here.

And remember when Nephi said, do not occupy these plates with things which are not of worth. But what worth is this for anybody who has ever felt this way before? It's a little bit of same boat therapy to see, wow, look what he went through. A lot of us have lost people in our lives, untimely. Most of us have never been in a situation where they're killed in battle and we have to take over. And we don't know what Moroni's last moments with his father would have been, but they had such a connection. We know because in the chapters named after Moroni, he's going to say, oh, here's a talk my dad gave that was so beautiful.

Oh, here's a letter I received from my dad. And we know that was a tender relationship. I love that Moroni isn't saying this isn't fair. This isn't right. How could this happen? But he's going right back to my faith in Christ is going to get me through this. Like Isaiah said of Jesus, a man of sorrow and acquainted with grief. Prophets have hard lives. Hank, I've heard

you say that before. You start thinking about it, you go, yeah, they really have. You read the scriptures, the assumption should be if you follow Jesus, hard things are going to happen. On that note of hard things are going to happen and what John just said with acquainted with grief, there was a time in my life when there was something pretty difficult going on. At that stage, I had studied the grief cycle multiple times and I was so familiar with it. I was almost like, what stage am I at? But it was really, really hard. And I remember, I mean, it was a little vulnerable. And maybe any of your listeners have felt this.

I do remember getting to a stage and feeling like, is this the plan? Is this it? In my moment of almost shouting out, I should be working through this, the words, not the scripture, but the words. And then I connected the scripture. I'm acquainted with grief. I understand grief. And as I said it, it was this connection that we worship a God who is acquainted with grief. He didn't have so much faith that he went around the Garden of Gethsemane. He went through it. That is something that has just stuck with me. Joseph had these moments in the great section 121. Oh God, where art thou?

Where's the pavilion that is covering thy hiding place? Not saying that we have to always be feeling this is a gospel of joy and we should have joy, but the joy is that Jesus Christ can pull us out of those darkest moments because he went below them all and he did not shrink. That's the joy is I don't have to keep going down because he descended below them all. To me, there's something there about Moroni, the greatest single adult, that there was someone we cannot ever go lower in our grief than the God that we worship, where he went. I'm thinking of Alma 7, 11 to 12 that teaches us that is that he will know according to the flesh how to succor his people because he has been through it. Yeah. When I was writing that book, I was telling somebody in my ward that he was alone and he didn't have any wife or family. And the guy in my ward challenged me on it. And I was like, look, he said he was alone. And then I looked I was like, look, he said he was alone.

And then I looked it up. In fact, he said he was alone twice. And when I said the words twice, I thought, could that be a chiasmus? Oh. I marked it and I sent it to John Welch. And he said, way to go, John, because it is. It's my father, my father. I even remain alone.

I am alone. I would write. I would write and hide up the records. My father hath made the record. It's the record is the pivot on there. So I submitted it to the Don Perry's and everybody because I thought, look, he said it twice. That's a chiasmus. Did you put that in the book?

I didn't. I didn't discover it until after I wrote the book's a chiasmus. Did you put that in the book? I didn't. I didn't discover it until after I wrote the book. Sheldon, what do you want to do next? What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus? The youth theme this year is I'm a disciple of Christ. I thought when I was a little kid, disciple and apostle were just interchangeable words. And I just like this idea of therefore what?

When I'm alone, you know, follow Jesus. That's step one. There's an outgrowth what? When I'm alone, you know, follow Jesus. That's step one. There's an outgrowth of that. I feel alone, but there's this great principle of yes, but in a lonely world, I can still be a disciple of Jesus Christ. And that is going to be my best option. It's going to strengthen me regardless of situation or circumstance. So I look at verse 10. When I was younger and trying to figure out terms, and often in the

New Testament, it is at times interchangeable, but I read the word disciple and apostle as if they were the same word. As I realized that the word disciple comes from the word discipline, and really it just means follower. I am a follower of Jesus. I look at this moment of Moroni alone, and verse 10 seems, even in a world that's lonely or a world that is difficult, in Mormon 8, verse 10, it starts by saying, And there are none that do know the true God, save it be the disciples of Jesus. But my earlier definition, it would have been, oh, apostle. It comes like with a calling. I love that I've actually expanded my understanding to realize I come to know God by being a follower of Jesus.

How do I come to know him? I want to be his disciple, which means I follow him. I actually love that it's then the follow-up question of, well, what does that mean to follow Jesus? I've got to really ponder, what does that mean in my daily life? What are the decisions I'm making? What does it mean to follow Jesus Christ? That is a great truth, regardless of what situation we are in life, to really think about that. Am I doing everything I can to follow him? Sheldon, I love the question. In my own life, I got to know the Savior in the beginning from the stories. And then as I became a teacher and I really got into the scriptures, you start to see that the Savior has a personality. I'll have someone tell me a story and I'll say, you know, that sounds like him.

Seems like something he would do. That's come over time. I feel like I just don't know about him, but I'm getting to know him. I love that. I wonder if that connects to President Nelson's invitation of how we say the atonement of Jesus Christ, not just, oh, the atonement. He's a being. He's alive, he lives, he has a personality, he loves it. For me to then say, I want to be a lifelong follower and disciple of Jesus Christ, that's different than I'm going to study some things, we're going to read some stories, I want to learn from him, I want his encouragement, I want his correction, I want to follow him. It has become

really motivating to me in my life to focus on what does that mean to follow him? This verse is a great reminder of that. None that do know the true God save it be the disciples of Jesus. I really come to know the true God by following his son and following Jesus. What I love about what you're saying is, what other options are there? They're just not good. You think about, will ye also go away? And John 6 and Peter's response, where would we go? Seriously, where would you go? Who else could you possibly follow? For me, this is a no brainer. I'm an imperfect follower, but I don't know who else to follow who has shown how much he loves us and has done the things he did and said the things he said. And

like you said, Hank, that you've come to know, what are the other alternatives out there? Yeah. Where else would we go? Sheldon, let's keep going. What's the rest of chapter eight? We've gone from this very personal experience from Roni. I'm alone, and here's what I'm feeling. I'm going to keep following.

I'm a disciple of Christ. And then he starts to open up and move towards speaking to us in our day. It's from him to, let me speak to you as if you were present and I'm going to speak to you. I'm curious, as you have studied this, what are some of the things that jump out to you as he now tries to speak to us? There's a book I read by a great author, Marilyn Todd Linford. I read this book called We Are Sisters. She said the coolest thing about Moroni. When he's talking, look, I'm alone. I have no oar. I don't know where to go. It doesn't matter how long you're going to live. And boy, does his tone change. Everybody who reads this

chapter is going to notice how he suddenly looks to us. And she said something that I thought was so good about verses 13 and 14. Verse 13, behold, I'm going to use my tone of voice to try to help make the point that I like that she made. Behold, I make an end of speaking concerning this people. I am the son of Mormon. My father was a descendant of Nephi. I am the same who hideth up this record unto the Lord. She said, notice how he consciously stops rehearsing his situation. He remembers who he is and his heritage, and he defines himself by his work.

I loved that pivot point. Okay, I'm done talking about the past. I am Moroni. I am a son of Mormon. I'm going to finish this record anybody who reads it will notice at first where do I go what do I do and boy by verse 35 I speak unto you as if you were present and yet you're not but Jesus Christ has shown you unto me and I know you're doing and it's wow I love the Bible it's just that the Bible has a different tone of voice. What's so interesting about the Book of Mormon is that sometimes they just start talking right to us.

Like, I saw you. Or one day you and I will stand face to face. And you don't get that from Peter or Paul or Matthew or Luke. But, boy, these guys, look at him. I saw you. I know you're doing. You think he's going to say, you guys are so great. You're the best.

Let's write unofficial church musicals about how awesome. No, he says, you walk in the pride of your hearts. And he really lets us have it there. It's fascinating. Yeah. I notice he gives us an antecedent here about the record in verse 14. I'm going to hide up this record unto the Lord. The record is of great worth.

And now he's going to call it it. I have my children. We went through this and we marked all the times. He says it, the record. He has one in verse 14. Whoso shall bring it to light, him will the Lord bless. Then you go down to 16. There's a bunch.

It shall be brought out of darkness unto light. It shall be brought out of the earth. Then you go down to 16, there's a bunch. That's verse 16. And then you come over to day when it shall be said, miracles are done away. It shall come even as one should speak from the dead. It shall come in a day when the blood of the saints cry unto the Lord. 28. It shall come in a day when the power of God is denied. Verse 29. It shall come in a day when there are fires and tempests and vapors of smoke. 31.

It shall come in a day when there's great pollutions upon the face of the earth, getting worse and worse here. Verse 32, it shall come in a day when there shall be churches built up that shall say, come into me and for your money, you'll be forgiven of your sins. And then you're right, John. He turns Christ has shown you unto me, and I know you're doing. And we're waiting for. You're the best. You're so awesome. You are the righteous generation. We have never made a youth conference t-shirt that says, we walk in the pride of our hearts. Yeah, we never do that for youth conference.

Sheldon, I want to talk to you about these next few verses. As a mental health professional and as a scriptorian, he says you walk in the pride of your hearts. I'm sure he's talking about someone else. He says there are none save a few only. Okay, he did see us. He did see the three of us. A few only who do not lift themselves up in the pride of their hearts. It's about very fine apparel.

It's about envying, malice, persecutions, iniquities. Your churches have become polluted because you're so prideful. You love money, your stuff, your fine apparel, the adorning of your churches more than you love the poor and the needy, the sick and the afflicted. Then the name calling starts. You pollutions, you hypocrites, you sell yourselves with that which will kinker. Why have you polluted God's church? This is kind of a gut check. Do you not value endless happiness? Why do you adorn yourselves with stuff yet you don't care about people? Sheldon, what's happened to us as a people?

I have adjusted my position that when I would read things like this in the past and think, oh man, I'm no good. I view it as very merciful. Here's the story. I have an older brother. He's fantastic at sports when we were younger. So terrible older brother to have, right? I mean, he was always breaking school records and everything. So I get to the seventh grade and I try out for the basketball team. I knew I was going to make it and I got cut. This is how embarrassing this is. I was on year round school and I was at home. So I was off track when it came out that I found out that I was cut by called and I said, am I on the list? No, you're not Sheldon. Hang up. I was so prideful that I literally thought I'm going to call back and get a different secretary.

I think she's been given some bad information. Not realizing it's the same lady who answered on Sheldon. You called 30 seconds ago. No, you're still on the list. So I get cut in the seventh grade. I get cut in the eighth grade. Ninth grade, I tell my parents, I'm going to try out for basketball again. And literally at this point, I think they're like, are you sure? Do you want to wrestle? Please. I don't know if we can do another year.

I don't think they cut the track team. Right. That's right. That's right. I did happen to make the team when I was in the ninth grade, the coach, he was aware of the situation practice starts. And all of a sudden I am pressing really, really hard. I want to prove that I deserve to be there and I'm playing terrible. He pulls me aside and he said this to me. It's become great spiritual advice, even though that was not his intent. He said, Sheldon, you are on the team. Now just get better. I had always taken feedback from the Lord of like, oh, I'm off the team. I'm on the team, off the team, on the team. As soon as I read this, coming back to your question also, Hank, with mental health, it actually is true kindness and good that we are honest with ourselves, that we not just work to overshadow challenges or that we try to cover up.

There's this real honesty to read this chapter and to say, is it I? Am I like this? And no, the Lord still loves me. He's still encouraging me. I'm not off the team. I'm on the team. I just have to get better. I read this like, man, am I prideful? It opens up a door to be a little bit better to say, yeah, we live in a tough world. I need to be real honest with myself.

And that is true compassion. If I need to adjust something and I'm just pretending that it's a problem that doesn't exist, that's not healthy in any way. And to be real honest and say, these don't have to be separate things that the Lord can speak to me as if I were present and the words can be a little tough. And that's okay. Yeah. Whenever I'm teaching this, I will say something like, no, listen, he's in a bit of a bad mood. He's been alone for a while, but let's take what he says. And he says, we are pretty materialistic.

I got to read you this story. I bet both of you remember this. This is way back in 2002. James E. Faust. It's kind of a funny story. He said, Elder L. Ray Christiansen told me about one of his distant Scandinavian relatives who joined the church. He was very well-to-do and sold his lands and stock in Denmark to come to Utah. For a while, he did well as far as the church and activities were concerned, and he prospered financially.

However, he became so caught up in his possessions that he forgot about his purpose in coming to America. The bishop visited him and implored him to become active as he used to be. The years passed, and some of his brethren visited him and said, Now, Lars, the Lord was good to you when you were in Denmark. He has been good to you since you have come here. We think now, since you are growing a little older, that it would be well for you to come spend some of your time in the interests of the church. After all, you can't take these things with you when you go. Jolted by this remark, the man replied, Well then, I will not go.

Sheldon, in your experience, why do we become materialistic? I can see me in this. I can see that sometimes I care more about stuff than people. Sometimes I don't notice when people are hungry and needy and sick and afflicted. And I'm so busy. I notice on campus at BYU where I work, in between classes, most students have their headphones in. Going where they need to go. And it's hard to notice when you're locked in like that.

I just want to glean from you here. How do you see this? And maybe how can we get a little better? We can all see the temptation and starting to believe that things actually will be fulfilling completely and make me happy. That's a real temptation. I'm not talking about meeting basic needs, but there's a real, oh, if I had this, then. I call it the horizon principle. You can get on the ocean on a speedboat, and no matter how fast you travel towards that horizon, it just keeps moving. The faster I go, it just moves faster. There's something about us that then I'll feel fulfilled. As you look at research, that's never a variable. Not that material things are negative per se, but they do not bring the reward that sometimes we think that they're going to bring.

Millions of, if we use the horizon principle again, there is something to settling. Not settling in a negative way, like I'm settling for something but i know pausing and experiencing the things around me president iring has mentioned before pray for the list of things to do is just it's always longer than what we can do so pray for the right thing what's the thing what should i do next that was so helpful to me when I was a bishop. That's right. And I think the more that we do that, then we hop off this race. I mean, it just feels, I'll be happy then in my fine apparel.

Oh, then, man, the pride of my heart. How come the envyings, the strife, the, oh, they're not like me, therefore they're the enemy. We just get caught in these cycles that if we could pause a little bit and say, what is the next thing you need me to do? And all these other elements I'm worried about, they're not going to bring me the reward that I keep convincing myself that is going to bring me. I think the Savior called it the deceitfulness of riches. It's going to do it for me. It's going to fill the emptiness in my life. You work your whole life and find out it didn't do it.

Then I'm not going to go, right? Then I will not go. Well, then I will not go. Coming up in part two of this episode. I was on my mission in Paris, France. Millions of people, few missionaries, so the likelihood of crossing paths with someone is not common.

But my companion and I sit down on a train. The first thing this man says, hey, I know you. I'm a member of that church.