Founders - #389 The Founder of Jimmy Choo: Tamara Mellon
Episode Date: May 26, 2025When Tamara Mellon’s father lent her the seed money to start a high-end shoe company, he cautioned her: “Don’t let the accountants run your business.” Little did he know that over the next ...fifteen years, the struggle between “financial” and “creative” would become one of the central themes as Mellon’s business.Mellon grew Jimmy Choo into a billion dollar brand and her personal glamour made her an object of global media fascination. Vogue photographed her wedding. Vanity Fair covered her divorce and the criminal trial that followed. The Wall Street Journal reported on her relentless battle between “the suits” and “the creatives" and Mellon’s triumph against a brutally hostile takeover attempt.But despite her eventual fame and fortune, Mellon didn’t have an easy road to success. Her early life was marked by a tumultuous and broken family life, battles with anxiety and depression, and a stint in rehab. Determined not to end up unemployed, penniless, and living in her parents’ basement under the control of her alcoholic mother, Mellon honed her natural business sense and invested in what she knew best—fashion.In creating the shoes that became a fixture on Sex and the City and red carpets around the world, Mellon relied on her own impeccable sense of what the customer wanted—because she was that customer. What she didn’t know at the time was that success would come at a high price—after struggles with an obstinate business partner, a conniving first CEO, a turbulent marriage, and a mother who tried to steal her hard-earned wealth.Now Mellon shares the whole larger-than-life story, with shocking details that have never been presented before. From her troubled childhood to her time as a young editor at Vogue to her partnership with the cobbler Jimmy Choo, to her very public relationships, Mellon offers an honest and gripping account of the episodes that have made her who she is today.In My Shoes is a definitive book for fashion aficionados, aspiring entrepreneurs, and anyone who loves a juicy true story about sex, drugs, money, power, high heels, and overcoming adversity. This episode is what I learned from reading In My Shoes: A Memoir by Tamara Mellon. -----Ramp gives you everything you need to control spend, watch your costs, and optimize your financial operations —all on a single platform. Make history's greatest entrepreneurs proud by going to Ramp and learning how they can help your business control your costs and save time and money.-----Join my free email newsletter to get my top 10 highlights from every book ----Founders Notes gives you the ability to tap into the collective knowledge of history's greatest entrepreneurs on demand. Use it to supplement the decisions you make in your work. Get access to Founders Notes here. ----“I have listened to every episode released and look forward to every episode that comes out. The only criticism I would have is that after each podcast I usually want to buy the book because I am interested so my poor wallet suffers. ” — GarethBe like Gareth. Buy a book: All the books featured on Founders Podcast
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One of the reasons that Tamara wrote this book and this story will shock and surprise you,
but one of the reasons that she shares her story is because she wants future generations
of entrepreneurs to learn from her experience. And there is a warning in this story.
And the warning is always retain control of your company. This is also something
that John Mackey, the founder of Whole Foods told me. I got to spend seven hours with John
over two days and I read his autobiography twice. And it was during one of our conversations that John told me one
of the craziest things that anyone has ever said about the podcast. He had listened to
over a hundred episodes before we met. And he told me that if Founders existed when he
was younger, that Whole Foods would still be an independent company today. That since
the podcast and all of History's Greatest Readers constantly emphasize the
importance of controlling costs, he would have put much more of a priority on it, especially
during good times, during boom times.
It is very natural for a company, for a person, for human nature to just not watch your costs
as closely because everything is going so well.
This is something that Andrew Carnegie actually warned against.
In fact, Carnegie
would repeat this mantra. He would say, profits and prices are cyclical subject to any number
of transient forces of the marketplace. Costs, however, could be strictly controlled and
any savings achieved in costs were permanent. This is something I was talking about with
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A journalist once wrote that I often seem
less an actual person than the heroine
of some dicey Danielle Steele novel.
The basic Danielle Steele story is to take a plucky heroine,
set her on a quest, and then subject her to every villain
and viper and obstacle
imaginable, which I suppose is not an entirely bad summary of my life so far.
When Tamara Mellon's father lent her the seed money to start a high-end shoe company,
he cautioned her, don't let the accountants run your business.
Little did he know that over the next 15 years, the struggle between the financial and the
creative would become one of the central themes of Mellon's business.
Mellon grew Jimmy Choo into a billion-dollar brand.
Yet it's her personal glamour that keeps her an object of global media fascination.
Vogue photographed her wedding.
Vanity Fair covered her divorce and the criminal trial that followed.
And The Wall Street Journal covered the three private equity deals, the relentless battle
between the suits and the creatives, and Mellon's triumph against a brutal, hostile takeover
attempt.
But despite her eventual fame and fortune, Mellon didn't have an easy road to success.
Her seemingly glamorous beginnings in the mansions of London and Beverly Hills were
marked by tumultuous and broken family life, battles with anxiety and
depression and a stint in rehab.
Determined not to end up unemployed, penniless and living in her parents' basement under
the control of her alcoholic mother, Mellon honed her natural business sense and invested
in what she knew best, fashion.
In creating the shoes that became a fixture on Sex and the City and red carpets around
the world, Mellon relied on her own impeccable sense of what the customer wanted because
she was that customer.
What she didn't know at the time was that success would come at a high price.
After struggles with an obstinate business partner, a conniving first CEO, a turbulent
marriage and a mother who tried to steal her hard-earned
wealth.
Now Melon shares the whole larger-than-life story with shocking details that have never
been presented before, from her troubled childhood to her time as a young editor of Vogue to
her partnership with the cobbler Jimmy Choo to her very public relationships.
Melon offers an honest and gripping account of the episodes that have made her who she
is today.
This is a definitive book for fashion aficionados, aspiring entrepreneurs, and anyone who loves
a juicy true story about sex, drugs, money, power, high heels, and overcoming adversity.
That is an excerpt from the inside cover of the book that I'm going to talk to you about
today, which is In My Shoes, A Mem, and it was written by Tamara Mellon. Okay, so I organized all of my notes
and highlights from the book around a few reoccurring themes that I think are the
most interesting and important ideas from the book. I actually discovered this
book because Tamara is the long-term partner of my friend Michael Ovitz.
Ovitz understands me very well and he's listened to a bunch of the podcasts,
and he told me, he's like,
hey, I think if you check out Tamara's book,
that you're actually enjoying it, and he was right.
And it starts off with a bang.
She starts the book by getting fired from Vogue,
and this winds up being probably the best thing
that could have possibly happened to her.
And she's very open and honest about the struggles
she was going through at the time.
And the way I think about this, like, oh,
she had to hit rock bottom before she actually got her life
together and then as a result of hitting rock bottom,
there's only one way to go and that's up.
But this is also leads her to the founding of Jimmy Choo.
And so this is the way that the book starts.
So I just dragged myself to my desk at Vogue,
yet again, two hours late.
I'd been up all night consuming prodigious quantities of cocaine and vodka.
I'd been at Vogue for five years at this point.
And despite my after hours in discretion, I'd always worked very hard.
And so this is what I meant earlier.
And this actually idea from Jim Simons, just an episode on him. He's the founder of Renaissance technologies way before he found Renaissance technologies,
which goes on to make over a hundred billion dollars in profit and continues to make what I
hear billions of dollars in profit every year to this day. He got fired and he said something
looking back on his life. He has this great quote about this and he says, getting fired can be good
for you. You just don't want to make it a habit.
So her boss pulls her into the office and she, and this is the way Tamara
describes what is happening to her at this point in life.
I did not fully appreciate the huge favor Anna was doing me.
She was setting me up to mend my ways.
She was setting forces in motion that in time would lead to success far
beyond anything
I could have ever imagined.
She continues, in the days after getting fired,
I realized more and more that I had slipped
into the realm of personal crisis.
What exactly was I going to do with my life?
I needed a plan.
And so she had talked about what do
when you read self-help books, like what's their advice?
And some of the advice is actually pretty good.
And it's like, well, you should ask yourself,
what do you love and what are you good at?
And her answer leads her directly to this idea
that she'd been in the back of her mind while she was at Vogue.
She was like, well, fashion, certainly I'm good at,
with a particular fixation on shoes.
And so her previous work at Vogue was actually instrumental
to the founding of Jimmy Choo.
She says, for the past year or so, I'd been germinating an entrepreneurial idea.
There was a cobbler in London who had made a name for himself creating bespoke shoes.
That cobbler was Jimmy Choo.
He worked out of a tiny showroom with an old dirty carpet.
It was hideous, but the Bentleys would pull up.
Whenever we were planning a shoot at Vogue,
we'd go down to this hideous little workshop
and we'd describe what we were doing.
Jimmy was able to custom make shoes on short notice.
That is the totality of his business at the time.
He is not a shoe manufacturer.
That's what Jimmy Choo's gonna turn into
when Tamara and Jimmy partner.
So in addition to discovering Jimmy Choo
through her past job, she also
understood the power of media to drive sales.
So Jimmy's making these shoes for Vogue.
What does Vogue do?
They list who made the shoes and you could predict what's going to happen next.
We'd give him a fashion credit on the page and then even more wealthy ladies
would find their way to his shop.
So the idea was what if I
could convince Jimmy Choo to manufacture shoes? So there's a lot more detail in
the book but I think it's important to understand the prehistory of Jimmy Choo
and what I mean by that is there are several experiences that Tamara had that
are going to be beneficial for when she built Jimmy Choo and so before Jimmy
Choo she worked in a prestigious retailoo, she worked in a prestigious retail store,
she worked in public relations,
and she worked in fashion media.
And I think those three things are going to contribute
to some of the success that she has much later on.
Another important thing that was also hinted at
at the inside cover of the book
was the fact that she was going to be the first customer.
She says, I was the customer that I wanted to reach.
This actually plays a role
because she has a fundamental understanding.
People like me that are gonna like the shoes that I like,
I know where they shop, I know who they admire,
I know what magazines they're reading,
I know what TV shows they're watching.
All of this is gonna play a huge role
in the success that Jimmy Choo has.
And it's successful pretty rapidly. It's actually mind-blowing.
And so the first thing that she has to do is she has to go down and she has to actually convince Jimmy Choo
to partner with her and so her pitch was this. Jimmy would design a line of X-Wish to choose and I would find a factory to
make them and manage the sales and marketing. We would open stores to start a wholesale line to be carried in high-end stores all over the world
and we would both become incredibly rich.
This low point of her life is when she's determined
to turn her life around.
So at the same time that she's trying to sell Jimmy Choo
on a partnership, which is gonna take several,
several months of salesmanship and persuasion,
she actually goes to rehab so she can get clean
and off drugs.
She's not gonna be able to run Jimmy Choo
if she's out all night doing what she called what prodigious quantities of
alcohol and cocaine. And this is the way she describes this period of her life.
Desperate as I was to find a new direction for my life I was not going to
be easily deterred. Now, it's actually something that's really interesting that happens
while in rehab. So in rehab you have to obviously go through therapy. And the
therapists are trying to get her to think small.
Just be a normal person.
Don't have these grandiose visions for your future.
If you paid attention to the episode I did last week
on Jeff Bezos' shareholder letters,
I think one of the most important lessons
that Jeff was trying to teach,
and he says it was one of the most important lessons,
actually came on the last page
of the very last shareholder letter.
And he says that differentiation is survival
and the universe wants you to be typical.
And it takes a lot of energy and drive
to not have everybody else, society, all your friends,
everybody else, kind of smooth out your rough edges.
Jeff's saying, no, no, no, you should,
whatever makes you special and different,
you should actually embrace it
and understand how much energy that's gonna take to do it.
It's such excellent advice,
obviously for somebody who's ferociously intelligent, as Bezos is. When Tamara's going to take to do it. Such excellent advice, obviously, for somebody as ferocious and intelligent as Bezos is.
When Tamara's talking to all these therapists, they're trying to like just narrow your scope.
Like, no, no, you're just like, you know, you're an alcoholic or a drug addict.
You can't do anything special.
And I love Tamara's response here.
Like, this is complete bullshit.
Their horizons were always remarkably limited.
When I'd say I'm going to start a luxury shoe brand, they'd say, perhaps you might just
want to take a job in a shoe store. In other words, don't
be grandiose. Think small. My response to them was no fucking way. When I got out of
rehab, I threw myself and trying to win over Jimmy Choo. I had nothing to lose and everything
to gain. So we need to pause where we're on the story.
If you really think about where she is right now, okay?
She was just fired, she's broke.
She just got out of rehab
and she's living in her parents basement.
If Tamara can build a wildly successful company
from this point, you and I have certainly have no excuses.
So now I need to introduce another main theme of the book, maybe the main theme of the book, because you see
clearly what is driving her. She has this torturous relationship with her mother
and it's talked about in the first few pages, talked all the way to the very end
and I actually think it influences. Very similar to the Michael Dell episode
where you know Michael Dell had a remarkable life but I feel the most important lesson of Michael Dell's
incredible autobiography is at the very end of the book and the end of the episode the same thing
will be here but this will give you a hint about how what's driving Tamara and what's going on
with her relationship with her mother. My very first memory is of my mom throwing me across the bed in my head, hitting the radiator.
One of the driving forces was my mother and the enigma of why she always despised me.
The other force at play was a demonic drive for the financial security I hope would keep me out
of her clutches. My worst fear was remaining under my mother's thumb. Her mother
was an alcoholic. It sounds like to me, because I've dealt with this in my family as well,
that she had undiagnosed mental illness. Says she had severe emotional problems exacerbated
by alcoholism. She had always been the most painful warp in the loom of my life. My mother's
raging lunacy flared up routinely these are all
These are different descriptions read throughout the book. I just put together this just goes on and on and on
I could never understand what I'd done to deserve her wrath. It was a steady drip drip drip of
psychological assaults and
Pleasure in hurting me. She said I was stupid. I was lazy. I was ugly
This is I get induced into states of rage
You've heard it on past episodes when people mess with kids because essentially what's happened here
This is a psychological assaults from unhappy people
But directed at their own children
Children who view you as their entire world.
This part was really hard for me to read too because this reminded me of my grandmother.
So my grandmother absolutely, she was just like this, she destroyed the self-confidence
of her two children.
And what I realized from this is like, when this happens, you know, this happens, unfortunately,
I find a lot of
examples of these books, a lot of examples of my own family and
friends family as well. You can either fight back or you let
them win. And so my grandmother, my grandma, keep in mind, my
grandmother died, I was probably 12 years old when she died, 11,
12, 13, something like that. And my response to her because she
tried to do this to me, she told me, I'll tell you the story real quick.
You'll see this in Reconciled 2, where people are raised by people that attack them, make
them feel bad about themselves.
Exactly what Tamara's mom is doing here.
You're stupid, you're ugly, you're lazy.
And so for my grandmother, her two kids' response was they didn't fight back and they
both turned to drugs.
And so my aunt actually was addicted to cocaine,
did cocaine when she was pregnant.
So my older cousin is actually developmentally disabled.
She's a couple, you know, maybe half a decade older than me
or something like that.
My grandmother tried to tell me for some odd reason,
you know, I was probably 10 when this happened,
maybe 11, that I was stupid.
And I was stupid because I could only speak one
language, I only speak English and not Spanish. And my developmentally disabled cousin was
smarter than me because she could speak Spanish and English. And now being an adult with my
own kids, like, who the hell, what kind of monster says these kind of things to their
children or their grandchildren?
And then now with the benefit of, you know, being a few decades removed from that, you just realize like these are just unhappy people.
They're either unable or unwilling to fix their own lives.
And so what do unhappy people try to make everybody else around them unhappy?
That doesn't excuse their behavior, but it helps me understand their behavior.
And then what is Tamara's response to this psychological torture that her mom puts her through?
And this also affects her when she's fighting with partners later on.
She says at a very early age, I simply learned to shut down and never show any emotion, either happy or sad.
She learned avoidance.
Another inspiring part about Tamara's memoir is she says like, listen, when I was in school, there's just no way that my classmates would have voted me most likely to succeed.
And she said, I didn't even have any interests or passions.
There was nothing that spoke to me, no class or no moment where I said, ah, this is what
I want my life to be about.
Now one of the most confusing parts about this book is that her dad for some reason
did not stop her mom from tormenting her when she was young.
And her dad's a very successful entrepreneur.
He's going to wind up being her co-founder.
And so maybe he was just traveling a lot, maybe he was just working.
But when they were adults and they could have a much closer relationship, he did tell her
that your mother is the most selfish and self-obsessed woman I've ever come across.
And then there's this idea where she was also likely narcissistic or just obsessed with
how good looking she was.
She was a model when her parents met.
And in fact, Tamara says that her entire life was about how she looked.
And the reason I say that's really confusing is because of the, you could
tell how important her father was.
To, to her life, to her business.
In fact, she dedicates when you, when you open up the book, it's dedicated. dedicated one of the people she dedicates her the book to says to my memory of my father who inspired me through my darkest days
Her dad's gonna be her co-founder her advisor her main supporter before he helps his daughter
He had been a very successful entrepreneur
He did a bunch of businesses that pride business business biggest success was the fact that her dad had helped scale and build Vidal
Sassoon.
So they just sold, right before they found Jimmy Choo, a few years before they found
Jimmy Choo, he had just sold the business for $72 million.
And then he had a bunch of free time, and lucky for Tamara that he was able to act as
her advisor and co-founder.
And they became closer as they age.
And I love the way she would describe this, because now her conversations could be about like building the business and says that her
father gave a sort of kitchen MBA like you know steady drips of how to think
about business over the dinner table. She said, I felt a bond growing between my father
and me that had never been allowed to flourish during my childhood. Lucky for me
dad sent my retirement left him available to become the elder statement
and the spirit guide in my new venture.
And you could tell she just really admires him. She talks about how charismatic, how refined he was.
He always maintained an understated elegance. He always flew first class. He wore bespoke suits.
You'd feel his presence the moment he came into a room. He was very, very charismatic. So now she's
out of rehab. She's talking to her dad about this idea, she wants to get the hell out of her parents basement, and so she goes
and she's now hounding Jimmy Choo, who's again not initially receptive to the
idea of partnership by any means. So this is where she has to be excessively
persistent and persuasive, and so she says he needed to get a better sense of
me as a person and to see a demonstration of my commitment in action.
He wanted me to quote smell the leather.
So the only way to demonstrate what I was about was to hang around down on his shop
with him and get my hands dirty.
So every day for three straight months, she shows up and she's trying to persuade Jimmy
Chu to partner with her.
Eventually she is successful.
Now, remember, this is a company that's going to sell for $.2 billion dollars in about 15 years from where we're on the story. They start
the company with just a hundred, her dad puts up a hundred and fifty thousand dollars. That's all
they start with the company. Company's going to be profitable from day one and wildly efficient. Wait
till I get to that, it'll blow your mind. And the basic deal, okay, at the time is we're going to be
50-50, meaning Jimmy Choo is going to own own 50%. Me and my father will own the other 50%.
And there's a line in the book that it's probably in every
single autobiography looking back.
I just simply did not know how difficult it was going to be to actually do this.
I simply never imagined when I started this journey had just how many backstabbing
cliffhangers and oncoming trays trains lay ahead.
So there is a series of unbelievably smart decisions
that take place right at the founding.
So I already introduced one of them,
the fact that she knows her customer
because she is the customer.
There is this idea that I've talked about over and over again
on, you know, you need to work with the absolute best people
that you can.
Talent really matters.
And it's not just for the big decisions, which are really important,
but it's for like the thousands of little
thousands of little decisions are going to make over the lifetime
that you guys work together.
And I think those decisions compound.
And the reason that I introduce that idea,
I want to introduce that idea at the same one.
I keep repeating that, hey, she knows the customer because she is one.
The decision she's going to make right at the beginning, which is where are we going
to put our first store is so important because this is the store that the creator of Sex
in the City happens to stumble upon to walk in and be like, wow, I love these shoes.
I love these shoes so much.
I'm going to put them as the preferred shoe of the main character and maybe
probably the most influential show for Tamara's ideal customers.
And listen to what she says.
And just again, just understanding very clear thinking and an understanding of,
Hey, I'm designing for myself.
What would I want?
And then if I compare like what I want with what other businesses or other
competitors are doing, like why aren't they doing this?
Very very clear thinking here. I set out to find a space for a shop in my preferred habitat. This is in London
Okay a location convenient and near where the ladies like me do their shopping
Their main competitor was Manolo Blahnik, right? Just like this is kind of weird. Well, Blahnik
It's very popular with the same people I'm going after, but where did they put their store?
I noticed that Manolo Blahnik was 20 minutes
from the nearest tube station.
God forbid that a customer has an actual job in an office
and wants to pop over at lunchtime.
I wanted us to be more accessible
and I found the perfect spot on Mottcombe Street.
Remember the name of the street for later. I found the perfect spot on Motcom street. Remember the name of the street for later.
I found the perfect spot on Motcom street
for a certain kind of woman, me,
we were in the hot burning center.
So you may think, okay, you're reading this, David.
Why does Steve Jobs come to mind?
You go back and Steve Jobs has this excellent idea
that I should talk about more frequently because repetition is persuasive. Steve Jobs come to mind. You go back, and Steve Jobs has this excellent idea
that I should talk about more frequently
because repetition is persuasive.
You need to ambush your customers.
So I got to this part and I'm reading this part,
I'm like, wait, this kind of thinking
reminded me of Steve Jobs.
So I just asked Sage, which is my personal AI
that you trained on all my notes and highlights
and transcripts about, hey, what did Steve Jobs say
about the importance of putting Apple stores
close to where there was a lot of foot traffic and
What happens is it turns out in three different books that I've read in the past
He talks about this over and over go over and over again
He says jobs had a clear insight about retail location that went against conventional wisdom
This is how jobs is explaining the Apple Store strategy one time
He says it in different ways, but the idea is always the same
And so he says the real estate was a lot more expensive
But people didn't have to gamble
with 20 minutes of their time.
They only had to gamble with 20 footsteps of their time.
So what Jobs is talking about there
is the conventional wisdom
when he had the idea to do the Apple store
was Gateway and all these other PC manufacturers,
Gateway stores had just failed.
And what Gateway did is they put these huge warehouses
out like 20 minutes from town.
So you have to that the rent was cheap, but you'd have to drive 20 minutes. And everybody's like,
well, first of all, you can't, Steve, what are you doing? You can't open. Everybody knows gateway
just failed. So why the hell would a computer manufacturer have their own stores? And jobs is
like, well, one, they're not Steve Jobs. But two, it's like, I'm not gonna have them drive 20 minutes in
the middle of nowhere. I'm gonna put I'm gonna pay an insane
amount of money. Because what is jobs one he wants an
aspirational brand talked about that over and over again, that
Apple is one of the best brands most aspirational brands in the
world. I'm going to go and identify where excessively
expensive retail, but guess what?
They're not going to drive 20 minutes or 20 miles because people won't do that, but they'll walk 20 footsteps. Later on, he talks about this.
We may not be able to get them to drive 10 miles to check out our products,
but we can get them to walk 10 feet. If they're passing by, they will drop in out of curiosity.
It's exactly the same kind of thinking that Tamara has.
It's like, hey, I'm in the red hot center
of where women like me are working,
they're shopping, they're going out to lunch.
This is where I'm going to pit my store.
The summary of this idea is, I love, again,
Jobs is a genius at this,
and he calls it ambushing customers.
We had to ambush them.
What that meant is that we had to go
to high
traffic locations and put stores there even if it was more expensive. Ambush
your customers is exactly what they're doing at the very beginning of Jimmy Choo.
And again, it's not like she has to pay, she's paying $15,000 a year in rent
because these are tiny tiny locations. This is also in the mid nineties.
So how efficient and profitable this company, uh, with these tiny spaces will
just absolutely blow your mind.
They set up a very tiny showroom and then in the back there's an office
and they're very frugal.
She said, we were very frugal.
That's a line in the book.
We set up an office, two desks in the basement.
There was no windows and no frills.
So then she's like,
Okay, I don't have any experience as an entrepreneur. I've never made shoes. I like wearing them. I like
looking at pictures of them. I liked writing about them in vogue, but I don't know where I make them.
So what do I do? Let's go find a list of people that make shoes and go ask, will you make shoes
for us? So she goes, I found a book that just had all the factories in Italy and who they worked for.
So we went to Italy, cold calling and knocking on doors to see if we can get
an appointment.
We were two young girls.
She's working with Jimmy's niece, Sandra at the time.
We were two young girls representing a brand that they never heard of with not
so much as a single order to give them.
Now eventually you find, you find somebody to manufacture shoes and the
first trial run was an unmitigated disaster. They had like a, they
had to do it in a fast turnaround time because they were going to sell them at
a trade show in New York. And so at the very beginning they had no way to
manufacture a high quality product. They had to learn how to do so. Our selling
samples barely made it to New York on time and what we saw and when we saw
them we were horrified. They were covered with black scuff marks
and the stitching was awful.
They were so bad, we absolutely could not use them.
I tried to carry on selling off of sketches,
but nobody was interested.
Again, then the next breakthrough
is gonna be really important.
She goes back to the fact that I am the customer.
Jimmy, it turns out, had no interest in becoming a designer.
He was just a cobbler.
And so she goes, oh my God,
I set up a business with a creative head
who in fact had no creativity.
So then she realized, I have to play this role.
I'm the one that has to come up with the ideas.
And so she looks for inspiration in a very basic place.
She just goes down to the flea market
and tries to pick out pieces that could inspire designs.
And then she realized, hey,
I'll just take a little idea
from here, a little idea from over here,
and I'll combine them and I come up with something new.
Then she would go to manufacturing trade shows in Italy.
And then she found all these different pavilions
that had all these materials that people weren't putting
on shoes at the time.
So she's talking about like feathers and flowers
and studs and glass beads, and then a glitter fabric
that wanted to
becoming a Jimmy Choo staple later on and this is what she said about this I
never known there were so many possibilities but that's how the Jimmy
Choo DNA began to emerge the first collections were based on things that
had caught my eye the lovely part of that was that the things that struck me
and that I related to emotionally other other women related to as well.
One of my favorite filmmakers is Quentin Tarantino.
I did an episode on him.
He was completely obsessed with movies for two decades before he made his own.
And so when he starts making movies, they're like,
oh, do you have an audience in mind when you're making a movie?
Like me, I'm the audience.
I've been obsessed with movies, just like she was obsessed with shoes for a very long time.
Well, before I made my own movie, just like she was obsessed with shoes.
Well, before she made her own shoes.
So I'll just make what I want to see in the world.
And it winds up paying off.
This is incredible.
So then she finds these trade shows that other buyers go to.
Okay.
And she says they were on the edgier realms of fashion.
This is again, understanding the importance of, she was like an insider into the
industry that now she's creating for, right? Edgier Realms of Fashion. This is again, understanding the importance of, she was like an insider into the industry
that now she's creating for, right?
She's like, okay, we'll go to this exhibition.
It's on the Edgier Realm of Fashion.
This wind up being one of the most important things
that ever happened to her,
because there's a buyer from Saks Fifth Avenue there.
Her name is Julie Townsend.
She stops by their exhibition, looks at the samples.
She says, wow, these are great.
And then she was so enthusiastic.
She does an order for 3000 pairs of shoes.
And Tamara says, just like that, we were in, we cracked it.
The reason I wanted to put this part in because they had, they had modeled this out
and her and her father realized, hey, if we just sell 20 pairs of shoes a week
out of our little location, we actually have a business.
That was their expectation going in. 20 shoes a week and then they get an order for 3,000 pairs in one shot.
And Saks is going to be a huge partner with Jimmy Choo. They're going to put them in 30 or 40 stores pretty quickly.
So it says, suddenly we had the rarest of good fortunes for a startup company, positive cashflow. Our sales for the first year were $250,000,
and the shop cost us 15,000.
And the only, there's only one employee
other than Sandra and myself.
And then this is a great description
of the very beginning of a business
that will eventually sell for $1.2 billion.
I was still living at home, I had no car,
and I had absolutely no social life
other than entertaining related to the business.
Now, right at the beginning, this is what I mentioned earlier,
the prehistory of Jimmy Choo is really, I think important to the story.
When I got to this page of the book, I was like,
this is just a page full of good ideas.
This is her understanding the power of media and celebrity and
the importance of ambushing potential customers.
And what she realized that magazines had always put beautiful models on their
cover.
But over time, they realized that featuring an actress instead would send
their newsstand sales to the roof.
A magazine feature could reach hundreds of thousands of potential customers for
a fashion brand.
Magazine, she understands intuitively, because she saw this at Vogue,
magazines and media can push product.
And then she goes, okay. So we don't want to just target models.
We want to target celebrities.
Celebrities are becoming more and more important, especially in the mid 90s.
So how can we get that?
How can we get to them?
And so they they would gift shoes to celebrities forever.
OK, but then they realized, well, there's actually a more effective way to do this, too.
Because if you gift them to their agents, their stylists, even their
lawyers, like the same stylist, if you can build a relationship with a stylist, that stylist might
have a relationship with five or ten of the celebrities that you want to reach. Even more
aware of the cutting edge with the stylist to the stars and because these people work for multiple
clients, contact with a single stylist gave us many more shots at scoring a wind. So they would gift shoes to celebrities with the hopes that they're either going
to be photographed or they'll talk about them.
Right.
And they have a huge win right from the very beginning doing this in the spring
of 1998, we made our first foray into the Oscars.
I was up all night on the phone, trying to orchestrate the gifting of shoes to
all the right women that same year.
Kate Winslet, who was nominated
for best actress for Titanic that year,
she mentions that she's wearing Jimmy Choo shoes.
That has such a positive effect on sales
that going forward, Oscar night was a huge focus.
And so they would try to dominate the Oscars every year.
And so the idea here is a very simple but effective one.
Just identify the media, whether it's magazines, TV,
podcasts, radio,
award shows, dinners, like where are your customers congregating?
And then make sure your product is put in front of them.
And this combines with the idea of ambushing your customers.
Go back to Tamara's decision to place her first store where people like her
are likely to go and visit, okay?
On July 5th, 1998, we made our first appearance on Sex and the City,
and our visibility skyrocketed.
The script had Carrie Bradshaw running for the Staten Island Ferry when she stumbles and screams out,
Oh my God, I lost my chew.
That one mention helped turn us into a household name.
Suddenly, women who had never heard of us, women who lived in small towns, thought about us in the same company
as other luxury brands being mentioned like Prada like product Gucci and Manolo Blahnik.
Manufacturers of everything pay fortunes for product placement in movies and tv.
We got this huge call out entirely for free. Why? The show's creator said she put the reference in
the script because she'd been in London and stopped by the store on Motcom street and fell
in love with the product. Ultimately, Jimmy Choo would be mentioned
on the show 34 times.
So that is the good, now we need to get to the bad
and the ugly.
So this is all about her husband, her first marriage,
and the dangers of drug addiction.
There is, I mean I've dealt with this my whole life,
so I've seen, you know, cocaine abuse.
And it's like, well I've never done it, I never would. You never get around a cocaine and be like, Oh, that seems like a good idea.
Like a good path. I should, I should go in life. So you read this book, her experience,
you know, when she hit rock bottom, the fact that she, she was doing a bunch of drugs,
going into clubs and drinking, but she turned her life around. Some people never turn her
life around and including her husband. It's actually devastating because I get really
angry reading about her husband in the book for what he was doing
to his wife and his daughter.
And then I looked up after the book was published,
she actually dies a few years later
from a drug overdose at a relatively young age.
And the reason I got angry is
because you left behind your daughter, man,
your inability to get your shit together.
I remember a friend of mine a few years ago,
and we don't talk anymore,
and maybe this is like
related to it but I remember him making excuses about why he was drinking and a
lot of this just had to do with the fact that he was his inability to eliminate
the root cause of his stress that that you know led to him drinking and I just
couldn't break through to him and finally told me we had we had kids
around the same age at the time and I I was like, you need a little son.
I was like, one day, your son, right now you're his hero, no matter he doesn't understand
like what's going on.
He can't comprehend anything.
And he looks at you and he admires you and he loves you and spend time with you.
One day when he's old enough, he's going to take the measure of the man.
And when he's able to do that, what do you want him to see?
Some fat fucking drunk that can't get his life together?
If you won't change for him,
there's no possible way I can help you.
And so this is the devastating part.
So Matthew Mellon is actually the great, great,
great grandson of Judge Thomas Mellon.
This is a family dynasty.
Thomas Mellon and then his son, Andrew,
actually have biographies of both of them.
It's one of the few robber barons
that I haven't actually done episodes on,
even though I have books on them.
But you would put Judge Mellon up there
with Rockefellers and the Vanderbilts.
And then now the generations have gone down
and you see how far they've deviated
from the kind of person that Judge Malin was.
And here's a description of Matthew.
Matthew used to hire limos with drivers rotating shifts.
Coked out of his mind, he kept the party going around the clock.
This is their wedding night.
I went up to my room alone and Matthew partied until dawn.
This is, again, you're not going to clean up yourself.
You just want to clean up for yourself, but at least do it for your children. This guy, again, you're not gonna clean up yourself. You just wanna clean up for yourself,
but at least do it for your children.
He, this guy turns into a coke head,
he's doing crack, he's an alcoholic.
Meanwhile, his wife is the one that has to support
the entire family.
I was in the office every day working hard,
and Matthew had nothing but free time in his hands,
and I'd come home to find him free-basing in the kitchen.
At times, I had to track him him down relying on his limo company.
Once I found him in a crack house.
This is why I think this story is important to tell on the podcast, because
it's all the stuff she had to do.
She's going to have a series of ongoing problems.
She's got to deal with the problems of building a successful company, which
by itself is unbelievably difficult.
Then she's got her husband's drug habit.
She's got her mother tormenting her,
and then she winds up just having all these partners
with these short-term outlooks,
they have these ridiculous ideas that are at complete odds
with a founder that loves what they do,
that loves the product,
that wants to build the best product that she possibly can.
So from the very beginning,
remember, she goes through so many partners.
She's gonna last from, let's say,
they start the company around 96, 97. She's gonna last from let's say they start to come here on
96 97 I think by 2011 she's out and from there she's got like four different partners, which will go over but
from the very beginning Jimmy Choo and
Her and Jimmy Choo never had a good relationship
He was not interested in turns out he wasn't interested in manufacturing shoes at all
he wanted to keep doing his bespoke shoes as they start having this huge fight and
Her dad has a great idea. It's like, we should just buy out his shares.
It's like, why don't you just tell us what you want for the shares?
If that would have happened,
it would have been the best possible thing for them
with what's about to happen in the story.
Jimmy's response was to sue them
for 22 counts of breach of contract.
And then he decides,
hey, I'm not going to sell my shares to you guys.
I'm going to sell it to a private equity company.
Okay.
So it says until this time we'd been entirely self-funding.
They were profitable from day one after that.
They didn't need any other investment after the first 150 grand they put up.
Okay.
Tamara is going to tell us, you know, a fatal mistake, the main lesson from the
book and it's the main lesson from a lot of them is like if you have
found her and you love what you do never ever ever give up control retention of
total control retention of total control retention of total control this is why
every hundred episodes it's episode 25 it's episode 200 it's episode 300 it'll
be episode 400 is James Dyson's autobiography that is his main lesson
retention of total control,
because his story is a life story
of being the main source of value creation,
the creative force, the inventor behind everything,
the one running the company and having stolen from him
until he finally recollects,
I'm not gonna let anybody happen.
And then what happens?
You fast forward 30 years later,
from what I hear, James is pulling out,
James Dyson owns 100% of his company. And from what I hear, James is pulling at James Dyson owns 100% of his company.
And from what I hear, he's pulling out
a couple billion dollars a year.
So Jimmy sells his 50% share for around eight to $10 million
to Phoenix Equity Partners, and he leaves the business.
This is where Tamara makes a fatal mistake
that she warns future entrepreneurs to not do.
They come in, they're like, we don't want just 50%,
we want 51%. And her dad's like,
no, we're not doing this. And he says he was never one to surrender control of anything.
But she says I was so desperate to get rid of Jimmy, because they had such a bad relationship,
that I talked my dad into taking the deal. Later, I could only blame myself. And so at the very end
of the book, she's going to talk about one of the reasons she wanted to write the book was for the benefit of future entrepreneurs and retain control is one of the warnings that she had for future entrepreneurs.
This is 2001 for the next 10 years. She's going to go through hell with this series of private equity partners.
She hates private equity. And right away she realizes, oh, that 1% is a huge deal.
The fact that someone else would now have the final say in how we ran the company was gonna take some getting used to. This is my first painful
lesson in private equity. The founder is no longer in control and they just do a
bunch of dumb shit. So their idea is like, hey we're gonna buy this company. We're
going to, in the short term, we're gonna maximize EBITDA because we're gonna sell
to another private equity person in a few years. It's essentially the opposite
of what a missionary founder would do.
So she says these people were all about the exit.
Our EBITDA going in when the deal was completed
was 2.9 million.
So make it about 3 million a year, okay?
Which is a lot for a company with only nine employees.
Jimmy Choo was not a distressed asset.
We were a household name with a product
that was flying out of the stores.
And so now with her new partner,
she wants to continue on with that same exact strategy.
We should ambush our customers.
We should be using, I guess it would be called
influencer marketing today,
but one, influencer marketing, one, is not new,
and two, can be excessively valuable.
So they talked about a single picture of Madonna
coming out of a store was worth millions of dollars to them.
And so Tamara has this idea, hey, we want to sponsor this very prominent dinner.
It's at the British Academy of Film and Television.
Her idea was like, well, look at other luxury brands.
Cartier has, they own this event called the Cartier International Polo Tournament.
We should have a prestigious event around like this annual, like an annual gathering.
So a lot of potential customers in the audience,
a lot of chance for us to photograph the event
and use that for promotional material.
And so it's like, this is incredible.
The turnout is gonna be incredible,
but the CEO, his name is Robert, who she hates by the way,
looked at the numbers and canceled our participation.
Robert's decision was incredibly foolish
and a wasted opportunity comparable
to the loss of exposure we would have suffered if we had been too timid to take the risk and make our
commitment to outfitting stars on Oscar night. So again, when it's a founder-led
company, you don't have to think about this. I know gifting these shoes to actresses and
stylists and to being a mainstay on Oscar night is worth the investments. We
have a very similar idea playing out now, but in England, we should sponsor this very prominent dinner
at the Academy of Film and Television Awards.
And Robert doesn't want to because he sees this,
hey, it's gonna cost us $200,000
that's going to temporarily decrease our EBITDA.
Akio Morita, the founder of Sony,
would be turning over in his grave,
do not remember, in his autobiography, it's hilarious,
because his whole thing was like,
he really believed in the marketing and promotion,
the educating of the entire, of educating your customers,
especially when you're designing a new product
and how important it was,
and he was getting a lot of pushback.
He wanted to spend, I think, like $2 million
on this campaign for one of the new products,
and the guy running the campaign's like,
oh, what if we spend like, last,
I think it was like a couple hundred grand or whatever it was,
and they go back and forth for several weeks. At one point, Akio can't sleep,
so he calls the guy in the middle of the night. He's like, if you don't spend two million dollars
in this campaign, you're fired. Akio understood that as a long-term investment because Sony was
going to outlive him. But if you're this Robert guy and you don't give a shit what happens to
Jimmy Choo after you sell it, you'll make decisions like this.
And this is a heartbreaking sentence. I was being treated like an employee at the company I had founded.
Now she's fighting with her supposed partners and she still has her husband in his crackhead-like behavior.
He was doing coke and alcohol to the point of psychosis.
We had a board meeting at my house a week after I gave birth and all the while,
I was worried my husband might be free-basing
in the kitchen.
It was very difficult times in her life.
She's a new mom.
She's a founder with terrible partners
and she's got a drug addict for her husband.
I realize now the full irony of my huge mistake.
I had rid myself of the man who had vexed me most,
which is Jimmy Choo, only to saddle myself with an insecure CEO whose damaged ego knew no bounds.
In addition to which, I now had a bipolar, drug addicted husband who was spiraling out of control.
I actually met Tamara at a mutual friend's birthday party last month. I should have asked her.
If she had retained control and if she owned a majority of Jimmy Choo, I wonder if she'd, I bet you she'd still be working on it to this day.
So here's, it's funny in my mind, I had a series of people, I was thinking about Edwin
Landon, I was thinking about Steve Jobs, thinking about James Dyson, Akio Morita, I was thinking
about all these other people essentially.
Like what is the opposite of this behavior that I'm reading about in this book right
now?
And maybe the best example of this, because they're in the same industry, is Bernardo
Noll.
He's the opposite of his partners.
He's all long-term and there was a hilarious, he actually pops up in this book,
which was, which was really hilarious to me.
And I didn't know this, this Robert De Sio that, uh, of the first private equity
company used to work for Bernard.
So it says we were visiting a Chinese shopping mall when we bumped into Bernardo
Nol, the head of LVMH.
Robert stepped forward to shake Arnol's hand and Arnall recoiled.
It was a reaction of disgust. What would Arnall do? He wouldn't make any of these short-term decisions. Wait till they get to like, hey, we got to cut product. Use cheaper leather. Don't
refurbish the stores. Don't invest in any marketing. It's like, what are you guys doing?
And what I also thought was fascinating was the fact that Tamara, even back then,
his book is 12 years old, understood the genius of her knowledge.
She said, a luxury brand offered the owner the opportunity to profit from ideas and image
with almost limitless prospects for scaling up.
A brand image could travel all over the world and migrate to other products.
One of the very first to see the opportunities here was Bernard Arnault.
One of my favorite tweets I've ever read was by this guy named Cedric Chinn.
And he says, one type of remarkable career, and certainly the most interesting type,
comes from finding an earned secret and then exploiting the hell out of it
for the good part of two to three decades.
That is a great way to think about Bernard Arnault and what he's done with LVMH. Now there is another devastating tragedy that's gonna happen
in Tamara's life. Her father dies unexpectedly. On April 19, 2004 my dad
suffered an aneurysm. I was in shock. I couldn't believe this was happening and I
was utterly torn apart. He was my dad and I loved him, but he was also my mentor and my business partner.
He was the one solid rock I'd ever known in my life
and now he was leaving me.
I held him and tried to say goodbye
and he was so strong that it took him 18 hours to die.
I don't think I stopped crying once the whole time."
She's around 36 years old when this happens.
And from here on in, she's dealing with just one
private equity company after another.
I'm just gonna give you the outline
so you understand how many times Jimmy Choo was sold.
2001, Jimmy Choo sells 50% share to Phoenix Equity Partners
and leaves the business.
Three years later, Lion Capital buys Jimmy Choo
for $101 million.
Three years after that, Lion Capital sells Jimmy Choo
for $185 million to Towerbrook Capital Partners.
Four years after that, Towerbrook Capital Partners
sells Jimmy Choo to Leblos for $525 million.
Three years after that, Jimmy Choo IPOs,
companies valued at $546 million.
Three years after that, Michael Kors Holdings
acquires Jimmy Choo for $1.2 billion.
So now she is left without her father
and her business partner.
She's dealing with all these different owners and partners of Jimmy Choo.
And in the middle of this, her mom sues her.
This is so sad and nuts at the same time.
So the lawsuit is complicated, but it boils down to her mom wanting more money from her,
even though she had nothing to do with building Jimmy Choo.
The note I
left myself on this page was instead of being proud of the woman that your
daughter has become, you fucking sue her for more money from a company you didn't
even build. This is insane. Tamara says, I think my mother was simply born a
narcissist whose extraordinary beauty only made her selfishness that much
worse. This is how she describes her mother.
Madness combined with stunning beauty.
So in the middle of this lawsuit, her mother is losing a lawsuit
and her mother's attorneys asked to meet to discuss settling.
This is the first time that she sees her mom.
She's going to see...
First time she sat across and saw her mom in four years.
And the description
here I need to read to you I hadn't seen her up close in four years and she
looked amazing everyone ages so God knows what she's been doing to retard
this process then again that's how she spends all of her time she couldn't even
look at me I studied her face I was facing down my most profound demon.
And her mom loses and withdraws the lawsuit.
Finally he came to the point. They were folding. We're going to withdraw.
You take the money that's owed to you and each side will cover our own legal fees.
Half the $4 million I recovered went to my lawyer's fees.
After 40 years, we were at last severed.
This might be the last time that she ever sees her mom.
There was no sense of exuberance or celebration.
I could see nothing but wreckage all around and I felt empty and alone.
And so all the stress of all these factors just compounds and makes her absolutely miserable.
She has to keep in mind she's still building the company.
She's still fighting with her partners.
She had to deal for this lawsuit with her mom.
She went through a divorce.
She says, I've been having massive anxiety attacks
and night sweats.
I couldn't sleep.
I was so distracted that it would take me hours to dress.
I couldn't make decisions
and I couldn't stand to be with other people.
Then they're also fighting over some stuff
that is ridiculous.
Our owners became greedy
and they began pushing us to improve our margins.
They told us we could no longer use leather
that cost more than 30 euro a square meter.
Why?
Why such an arbitrary decision?
I was thinking about what Warren Buffett says about this.
Because when you're reading about the direction
that some of her partners want to take the company in,
some of the ideas they have for product,
which essentially just like,
let's charge more for a shittier project or a product.
Yeah, that's gonna work long-term.
It reminds me of something that Warren Buffett
would repeat over and over again.
Munger also made the observation.
And Buffett's like, hey, keep in mind,
Buffett had in his mind essentially like an outline
of almost every single business in America.
And he says, the real issue is mediocrity.
There are way too many 240 hitters in business.
Businesses often settle for a notch or two above mediocrity, Buffett said.
Buffett continues, we've seen so much of the ordinary in business that we can fully appreciate
a virtuoso performance.
So the way I think about this is mediocrity is invisible until passion shows up and exposes
it.
Her partners are trying to pull her into mediocrity is invisible until passion shows up and exposes it. Her partners are trying to pull her into mediocrity.
They push our factories to lower their prices.
So they're forced to use cheaper materials and otherwise cut corners in the
manufacturing process.
The product we were beginning to produce wasn't my idea of who we were from
Italy, where they were manufacturing the shoes.
Anna saw the decline in manufacturing specs being approved.
She sent me this message.
It's the beginning of the end.
So that is the direction that, that direction that her partners want to take.
Jimmy Choo, and they own most of the company at this time.
I can't remember her exact ownership, but it's not large.
And she doesn't really have as much control or influence
as she obviously wants to.
So that's one direction, a description of the direction
of like somebody just doesn't really give a shit
about the long-term health of the business.
At the same time I was reading this book,
I reread this excellent interview that Steve
Jobs gave when he was 29 years old, and he gave it to Playboar Magazine.
And there was a paragraph that I read in that interview.
The same time I was reading this section of the book, I'm like, wow, this is a contrast.
Steve had soul in the game.
These are the entrepreneurs I admire the most. They have soul in the game. These are the entrepreneurs I admire the most.
They have soul in the game.
This is what having soul in the game sounds like
and looks like and compare that to what you
and I have been talking about
with these private equity partners.
We didn't build Mac for anybody else.
We built it for ourselves.
We were the group of people who were going to judge
whether it was great or not.
We weren't gonna go out and do market research.
We just wanted to build the best thing we could build.
When you're a carpenter making a beautiful chest of drawers,
you're not going to use a piece of plywood on the back,
even though it faces the wall and nobody will ever see it.
You'll know it's there.
So you're going to use a beautiful piece of wood on the back.
For you to sleep well at night, the aesthetic,
the quality has to be carried all the way through.
And so she goes, she says,
hey, we've now had these stores for over a decade.
We need to reverse them.
They're not good enough.
We need to constantly nurture and protect
the most enduring franchise and valuable thing that we have,
which is our brand.
And their response is,
that's not going to pay off during our time horizon.
They still cared nothing about the long-term health of the business or the
actual quality of the product.
I actually cared about the business we were in, the product, the people.
I wasn't merely passing through.
And then she makes an excellent point.
Every few years we're selling the company again.
So what happens before you sell the company?
You have to prepare the company for sale.
So their competitors don't have this very costly distraction
that Jimmy Choo is going through.
She says, facilitating due diligence
had become a tiresome second job.
Meanwhile, our competition wasn't necessarily going
through the same kinds of distraction
and could focus on the real work of creating and maintaining quality and innovation.
And so a situation like this can only continue so long for a founder until it finally has
to reach its end.
She finally reaches her limit.
She steps down from the company she founded.
She steps down from the company that she gave a large part of her life energy to.
This is why I always tell you it's bullshit when people say, oh, it's not personal.
It's business for founders. It's always personal.
On August 1st, 2011, 15 years,
almost to the day since I'd gone to that first trade show in New York with
samples too awful to show, I gave them my notice.
What I was feeling was a combination of anger, relief,
mourning, and a profound sense of loss.
After leaving Jimmy Choo, this is in the last chapter,
she has all this advice for entrepreneurs.
She goes, I've learned to always retain majority ownership
and control, and then she tells us why she wrote the book.
I'd love it if entrepreneurs find it useful.
My most fundamental piece of advice
is to follow your instincts.
If you have the wrong instincts for what you're trying to do,
that will become evident soon enough and you may require you to change course.
But being blown back and forth by the winds of conflicting opinions will get you nowhere.
And then this is what I meant about I think this is actually the most important lesson
other than retention of total control that she wants to pass on.
And it's breaking the cycle that she was born into.
I enjoy the pleasure of watching my daughter's transformation into a smart, beautiful, and
resourceful young woman.
In the mornings, when she comes in to kiss me before she's off to school, it's the greatest
gift.
Sometimes she'll climb under the covers of me, give me a hug, and we'll have a little chat before we start out the day. I feel truly sorry for my mother that she denied herself
the pleasure of this kind of relationship. But just because I missed out on this kind of closeness as
a daughter doesn't mean I can't treasure it now that I'm the mother. And this is the perfect ending. This is the very last sentence in
the book. It may have seemed that now and then I needed a
rescuer. But over time, I learned to rescue myself. And
that is where I leave it for the full story highly recommend
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