Fresh Air - ‘Spider-Man’ director Destin Daniel Cretton
Episode Date: August 11, 2026Cretton grew up in Hawaii, and says movies expanded his perspective: “That is how I traveled. That is how I was exposed to other cultures. That's how I understand how kids grew up in high school on ...the mainland,” he tells co-host Tonya Mosley. He explains how his job at a group home for at-risk teens inspired his film Short Term 12, how he relates to Peter Parker’s loneliness, and how his difficult relationship with his father helps him with directing.Subscribe to our free weekly newsletter Follow us on Instagram Subscribe to our YouTube channel Check out the Fresh Air ArchivesSupport public media with NPR+ and enjoy perks for over 25 podcasts like this one. This show’s perks include bonus episodes and curated playlists of archive interviews. Learn more at plus.npr.org.See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for sponsorship and to manage your podcast sponsorship preferences.NPR Privacy Policy
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This is Fresh Air. I'm Tanya Mosley. At the end of the last Spider-Man movie, No Way Home, back in 2021, Peter Parker makes a choice. To save the people he loves, he had everyone on Earth forget he ever existed. My guest today, filmmaker Destin Daniel Cretton, picks up the story years later in the latest Spider-Man brand-new day. Peter, played by Tom Holland, is still Spider-Man, but years after everyone he loves has forgotten about him.
And he's living alone.
When strange things begin happening to his powers,
there's no one in his life who knows him well enough to even know something is wrong.
What is happening to me?
Did you miss me, Spidey?
I'm losing my mind.
I am totally out of control.
I got to fix whatever this is right now.
That's Tom Holland as Peter Parker and Spider-Man brand new day,
and it opened with the biggest debut in box office history.
Director Destin Daniel Cretton came to Marvel from a very different kind of filmmaking.
His first job out of college was at a group home for at-risk teenagers.
He turned that experience into the 2013 film Short-Term 12,
which featured young actors Brie Larson, Rami Malick, and Lakeith Stanfield.
Creighton went on to direct The Glass Castle and Just Mercy
about attorney Brian Stevenson's work defending men
on Death Row. His Marvel debut was Shang Chi and The Legend of the Ten Rings, the studio's first film
with an Asian lead and an Asian director. He also created the Marvel series Wonder Man.
Destin Daniel Creighton, welcome to Fresh Air. Thank you. Okay, 23 million people went to see this movie
the first weekend. And a movie like this, I mean, it has enormous expectations. There, of course,
the studio expectations, because this is a franchise. It's a show. It's a movie. It's a movie.
brand. And in many ways, these stories have to carry each other from film to film. But there's
something in particular that you have to bring to the film as well, your sensibilities as a
director, knowing that you're stepping into an established story. Was there a moment or any time
during the beginning of the process where you said, this is the film and this is my stamp,
my place in it? There were a few moments in the development process.
where I felt like I now understand the heart of this story.
One was in the writing process.
We were trying to really understand
what the internal story was of Peter Parker.
And I was reflecting a lot on my 20s
when I left university
and when I didn't really have a real direction in life
when a lot of my friends are going off to other things.
and it felt like a lot of people were moving on without me.
It was easy at that time to feel completely alone.
That was around the time that I was working at that group home for at-risk teenagers.
And when I think about that particular time in my life, I don't know.
I just felt like that was Peter.
That was this stage where you're looking back at the things and the places that you've been
and you don't know how to define them to move forward.
And so to be able to look at Peter and watch him redefine kind of the pain
and the things that he's been through and actually use them as part of the things that make him strong
was a very therapeutic experience.
I actually want to play a clip.
It's a scene where Peter Parker, as we said, he's been erased from the memory of everyone who loved him,
And he crashes a house party thrown by MJ, the girl he loved, who was played by Zendaya,
and Ned, his best friend, played by Jacob Battalon.
And neither of them knows who he is.
It's the first time we kind of see them all together.
And it's a real trippy experience because, you know, of course, he knows and we know the whole backstory.
But they don't know who he is.
And Peter is at that moment unbelievably lonely.
And he loves these two people so much, you know.
He's been following their lives on social media, and he's at this party, and he sees MJ, and she speaks first.
Let's listen.
God, there's like 50 people on our apartment.
Statistically speaking, that means at least two of them are sociopaths, which is kind of cool.
Nice flowers.
Oh, they're a housewarming gift.
Really?
Yeah.
Oh, okay.
Most people just brought beer and chips.
It's very nice.
I'm MJ.
I'm a
Maynard.
A Maynard.
Oh, you two don't know each other?
No, I'm a neighbor.
Friendly neighbor?
Net cough, that's a scene from Spider-Man
Brand New Day directed by my guest today, Destin Daniel Cretton.
Of course, the friendly neighbor is a play
off of the whole Spider-Man franchise.
But this is kind of
what you're talking about, about that, those growing pains of getting to the next stage of life,
because, of course, this is the device where they don't know him and that's a big part of the storyline.
But it's also something that is very ordinary, too, where you grow out of your friends at a certain age in life.
Maybe the people that you have kind of been on the journey with, you're now kind of, you know, separating.
There's a certain grief that lives in that.
And it also just feels so, to me, so relatable.
At that stage in life, I remember being in those parties.
I remember being surrounded by people who all seem like they have it together
and seem like they are having the time of their lives.
And I remember certain times feeling very alone in the middle of it.
But it was really, it was actually really fun to explore that.
And, I mean, Tom playing awkward, there's just nothing better than watching Tom play an awkward scene.
Yeah, why? Yeah. He's just his comedic timing with his awkwardness, I think, is one of the most brilliant things about him. It's so relatable. It's not just comedy. It's just like a feeling and situation that I just feel like I've been at.
Okay, I'm going to ask a few specific questions about the film. So people who don't want spoilers, I'm going to pause, maybe skip the next few minutes of this comedy.
conversation. This movie also introduces Gene Gray into Peter Parker's world. And for people who
don't know her, Jean is a mutant who can enter people's minds. She can hear their thoughts, live
inside their memories. And she is one of the X-Men. And, you know, so everyone is talking about
this is like, oh, okay, this is setting this up for me for the next movie here. But I've read
that it was actually the other way around. It wasn't the studio who was pushing you for
this. This was something you actually want to.
it for yourself. You wanted her to be a part of this storyline. Talk to me about why she was
important to introduce, to kind of reinforce all of these themes that you were so interested in
exploring. When we were writing this movie, we wanted an antagonist. That would be a real
reflection of Peter Parker and where he is in his emotional journey. And we went through a lot
of potential villains. And I cannot think of a better.
reflection than where we landed. I was really interested in having our antagonist be somebody who
is younger than Peter, who really represents in many ways what young people are going through
right now, what young people are feeling. In what ways? Well, this is a character who can literally
jump into other people's minds and experience the lives of other people. But
she's also a person who is completely alone in this city, and nobody really knows the real her, you know?
And that, I think that feeling, to me, just felt like a young person's experience.
And initially, we didn't know who that would be.
We were talking about fictional, just creating a fictional character, but then we started brainstorming, like, who could that be?
So we started talking to Kevin, like, who on the roster can...
Kevin?
Kevin, Fige.
Yes.
Who on the roster can we pull from?
And Gene Gray was like, you know, it became the top of the list.
But it did, you know, Kevin's not necessarily ever pushing things on us.
We have to, once we know what we want, we have to go to him and ask, like, is that going to work?
Can we use this character in our movie?
I mean, the same with Hulk, too. It made sense to our movie to have the Hulk. It wasn't a mandate to put him in. We had to request and Kevin let us do it.
Request and then sell it, sell the idea?
Yeah.
Are there folks that you had thought about that just like, no, that wouldn't work initially.
Many.
I mean, if you see our writer's room, it's just like we've got every character up on the wall as potentials.
But to me, that's the challenge is to, is to,
to just kind of let the story evolve.
And then what characters should be in the story,
usually make their way into the story,
as opposed to starting with a mandate and working backwards.
Let's talk about this time that you were working in this group home.
There's a story that you tell about how cocky you felt as a young man when you got this job.
You thought, like, these kids are going to love me.
I'm going to be, in some ways, a savior.
and you got a rude awakening.
I sure did.
What happened instead?
It was a job that really threw a lot of things back into my face.
It was by far the most difficult experience that I had up until that point and also the most rewarding.
I grew up on Maui.
I didn't realize how sheltered I was until I was working at that group home.
I just was not exposed to the type of experiences that these young people had gone through.
I also wasn't ready for the people that they had become because of their experiences.
These young teenagers were, in many ways, much more mature than I was.
but then they were also very, you know, they had very real, real pain from their past just right under the surface that they were always dealing with.
So it was very quickly a very humbling experience for me.
I want to actually play a clip from the film, and it was your second film.
And short term 12 is the name of the facility in the film.
and the kids stay there until they find somewhere else to live or until they turn 18 and age out.
And in this clip, the scene is Rami Malik.
He plays Nate, a new staffer on his first day.
Is he a proxy for you?
Yes.
He is.
He definitely is.
Okay.
Yeah.
And he is talking with Brie Larson's character, Grace, who has been working there for a while and shows him the ropes.
Let's listen.
These are the files on our kids.
You want to see what kind of crap they've been through?
How long do they stay here?
Supposedly less than a year, but we have a few that have been here a little over three.
We just keep them until the county figures out where they're going to go next.
Tom!
Go brush your teeth!
Remember, you're not their parent, you're another therapist, you're here to create a safe environment, and that's it.
Got it.
And since you're new, they're going to try and test you to see what they can get away with.
So, just say no for a while.
No. Okay.
Kind of got to be an a-h-h-un before you can meet a friend.
You're going to be fine.
That was Rami Malick and Brie Larson in the film Short-Term 12,
directed by my guest today, Destin Daniel Cretton.
When you took that job, what were your aspirations?
You know, I graduated with a communication degree,
and I was making short films.
I would do a short film once a year,
and I would just save my money.
So I worked at a group home for two or three years.
I taught high school video production.
I worked at a hotel putting up their media, their projectors and things.
I had a lot of odd jobs to pay the bills.
I shot wedding videos.
But it was all really a way to just pay the bills
while I made movies as a hobby.
Okay, because you were very clear at that time
that you wanted to make movies.
I was very clear that I wanted to keep making movies as a hobby.
I wasn't really chasing it as a career.
I feel very surprised and lucky to be where I am.
I tried moving up to L.A. early on,
but I found it to be a little too overwhelming.
And so when I moved back to San Diego,
where I went to school,
it was also an admission to myself
that I was not going to make it in the industry.
I was going to go back and just try to find a way to do what I loved
and continue to do it without getting paid for it.
So I didn't see that as a failure.
I saw it as a way to survive psychologically as an artist.
I want to switch gears to talk about another film of you,
First off, I just want to say thank you for just mercy. I watched that with my children during the pandemic. And surprisingly, I think it's surprising for me, that they still reference that sometimes. And for people who don't know it, it's based on Brian Stevenson's memoir about his work defending men on death row in Alabama. I want to actually play a clip from the film. And this scene features Jamie Fox as,
Walter McMillan. And Walter is a man who was wrongfully convicted of murder and sentenced to death in Alabama. And Michael B. Jordan plays Brian Stevenson. And at the time, he's a young lawyer just out of Harvard who has taken on this case. And the two are meeting for the first time in the visiting area of the prison. And Walter basically tells Brian Stevenson, I don't really trust that you can help me and get me off death row. Let's listen.
Rich boy from Harvey, you don't know what it is down here.
When you're guilty from the moment you're born,
and you can buddy up with these white folks and make them laugh
and try to make them like you, whatever that is,
and you say, yes, sir, no man, but when it's your turn,
they ain't got to have no fingerprints, no evidence.
And the only witness they got made the whole thing up.
And none of that matter.
When all y'all think is, is I look like a man
Who could kill somebody?
But that's not what I think.
You know how many people have been freed from Alabama death row?
None.
What make you think you're going to change that?
God.
Mr. McMillan.
We're done here.
Mr. McMillan, please.
I'm here to help.
That was Jamie Fox's Walter McMillan and Michael B. Jordan, who played Brian Stevenson.
What is it about filmmaking that's your language?
That is your way to explain.
express, because you're touching on something with these people, especially Brian Stevenson,
who just recently he had this, he was talking about how this moment that we're in is a moment
where we are taking the record. It's narrative change. It's through storytelling that we're
able to make change in this generation, in this moment. And I'm just wondering for you,
what is it particularly about filmmaking that is your language?
I grew up on Maui, a small island in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, and I found connection to the outside world in movie theaters.
As a kid, I would watch many movies with my dad, with her family, and that is how I traveled.
That is how I was exposed to other cultures.
That's how I understand how kids grew up in high school on the mainland.
And one of my biggest takeaways was not how different we are, but how similar we are emotionally.
The things that, you know, when I watched E.T.
and the things that I see this young man going through in his family, in his school, were things that I went through.
And I have always found movies to be a way of peering into other lives that I would never otherwise experience to peer into other worlds and find those things that still connect us.
And I feel lucky that I went from being a spectator to then just kind of getting obsessed with doing this as a young kid.
And I think over time, I've just become, I don't know, become very addicted to the process of exploring a subject, of jumping into it and understanding it and finding a way to write it in a narrative through the eyes of a character that I identify with.
And watching that character struggle with something that,
I have struggled with and allowing that character to get through that struggle on some level
and come out the other side, that whole process for me has always been very personally fulfilling
and life-changing every time. And that's true for these dramas that we're talking about,
and that's also true for these bigger Marvel stories. If you're just joining us,
my guest today is movie director Destin Daniel Cretton. We'll be right back after a short break.
I'm Tanya Mosley, and this is Fresh Air. This is Fresh Air. I'm Tanya Mosley, and my guest today is filmmaker Destin Daniel Cretton,
director of the new movie Spider-Man Brand New Day, which just had one of the biggest opening weekends in box office history.
He also directed Just Mercy and Shang Chi and The Legend of the Ten Rings and created the Marvel series Wonder Man.
His breakout film was short-term 12 about the staff and the teenagers inside a short-term group home
drawn from the two years he spent working and won after college.
Do you find that there are themes you keep coming back to?
That these films are all different, but that there might be a thematic through line of something that Destin is kind of always trying to work through and come out on the other side.
Yeah.
Not consciously, but it is weird how when I step back and analyze everything that I've worked on.
In many ways, I feel like I'm exploring the idea of family in different ways.
And, you know, that idea of family, I think, extends to whether you have a regular family with a mom and dad and kids,
or whether in short-term 12,
there is a family that is created out of circumstance.
I think even in Spider-Man Brand New Day,
the idea of family and community is really at the core of this movie.
And I'm always interested in what happens to a person
when they are outside of that family and community
and the importance of that connection
with people who truly know who you are,
that you can fully be yourself around.
To me, that has just always remained the most powerful aspect of my life
as staying connected to the people who really know me.
Do you think that, I think that probably there's something all of,
lots of people can relate to,
but is there something specific about being an island boy
and then stepping off the island and you being kind of separated from your family
and experiences this big life outside of them, that is your story, your origin story.
Yeah, when I first left the islands and went to college in San Diego, it was really hard.
It was really hard.
The first year, I was, you know, it took everything in.
me not to just leave and get on a plane and go back home.
I didn't realize a lot of things.
When I got to California, I didn't realize I had an accent.
I didn't realize at that time because everybody was like, what, what, what?
So even the way that I'm talking now is sort of like I kind of learned by default to change the way that I speak just so people could understand what I was saying.
But there were, you know, there were a lot of things that I was naive to.
Growing up in the islands, I didn't really ever feel like an outsider due to my ethnicity ever.
I, you know, I felt like I had feelings of being an outsider just because I was a bit of a nerd and I was homeschooled at some, for three years of high school, for other reasons, but never because of my ethnicity.
And that was something that when I got to California,
I remember the first time I was like at a bar
and some dude just thought it was funny to call me Bruce Lee.
And I was like, oh, that's a first for me.
You know, and I also, not only growing up in the islands,
I have five siblings and we're all very close
and family has always been very important.
but for me that time away from family really helped solidify how important my brothers and sisters are to me.
And they have always been my biggest strength in life.
You mentioned how you'd go see movies with your dad.
And your mom was, you called her, you know, a little hippie mom.
I think you referenced that she was sort of a hippie mom,
but she also was a mom who was very particular about,
the media and other things like that that you consumed. How did that work in your household?
My mom was very kind of anti-TV. She would allow us to watch certain things like we could watch
TGIF on Friday night, but most of the time she- What's TGIF? You're talking about the home video?
No, it's like that run on Friday nights that had family matters.
Oh, okay, yeah. Gosh, I forgot. Like a bunch of different family themed sitcoms? Yeah.
like four in a row or something.
Yeah.
But it was actually looking back really wonderful.
We lived in Haiku, a small town right next to a pineapple field and lots of open spaces.
We grew up in the same property that my mom grew up on.
And she would just force us out of the house.
And because of that, we had to find our own ways of playing make-believe or making up
or making up dance routines or fight choreography,
and then we'd perform it for my mom.
And we used to do that when I was really young.
And then around 11 or 12, my grandma loaned me her VHS camera.
And that's when I got addicted to making movies.
And so my mom wouldn't let us watch TV,
but she allowed us to make as much stuff as we wanted.
So that's when I started making movies with my siblings.
And honestly, the process has not changed.
We would spend all day making a short film or a commercial or whatever.
And then I'd put it together and then we'd have a little premiere.
But the premiere was just like my mom or my mom and dad.
But that feeling remains the same.
I'm still like kind of buzzing and have those butterflies in my stomach before I'd show it.
And then my mom collapsed.
And it's like that's the full process.
And that's still the same creative process that I go through.
Your grandma sounds like a pretty special person.
I saw you post a series of photographs with her holding that big VHS camera from back in the day.
Grandmother's love, I mean, it's such a special thing.
It also, sometimes they can see things in you because it's so pure that they can see things in you that others can't see.
And did your grandmother ever tell you things about yourself?
My grandma was incredibly supportive of all of us.
She was a nurse her whole life.
And her husband was, my grandpa was a cement mason.
And even though in one breath, they would say things like get a secure job,
make sure you like try to just get a county job was the whole,
get a county job.
because it's, you know, you'll get good health insurance and you have job security.
But my grandma also had always wanted to be a fashion designer.
And she would make my mom's dresses when my mom would go to junior prom.
Like my grandma would sew her dresses.
She would also do these beautiful dresses for all of my mom's dolls.
So when she took me and my siblings
on kind of our first big trip off island,
I was in the fourth grade,
and we went to California,
and we flew into,
it was my grandma and my grandpa,
and then at that time,
it was my youngest sister didn't come,
so it was five kids.
And I don't know how they juggled all of us.
They would get those adjoining rooms,
and we'd all sleep together.
And then in the morning,
they would force us to go to the bathroom so that we don't pee our pants when we're...
And then we would just get on a bus, and they took us to Universal Studios.
That was the first time that I was able to see the behind the scenes on how movies were made.
I saw Jaws E.T. I saw that stunt show for...
for Waterworld, the Waterworld stun show.
Right, yes, yep.
And the whole time that I was experiencing that,
she had that VHS camera that she allowed me to use for the first time was on this trip.
And so I became the person who was documenting the trip,
and my grandma kind of encouraged me to do that.
That trip really defined me.
After Universal Studios, she took us to Disneyland.
And the same thing.
It was my first time kind of seeing, oh, my gosh,
there are thousands of people who make this stuff that I love.
And then when I got home, it was just all of that inspiration came back with me to Maui.
And that's when we started making movies nonstop.
If you're just joining us, my guest is filmmaker Destin Dan.
Daniel Cretton, and he directed the new movie Spider-Man, Brand New Day, which is in theaters now.
We'll continue our conversation after a short break.
This is fresh air.
This is fresh air.
And today I am talking with filmmaker Destin Daniel Cretton, director of the new movie Spider-Man, Brand-New Day.
He also directed Just Mercy and Shang Chi and The Legend of the Ten Rings and created the Marvel series Wonder Man.
His breakout film was short-term 12 about the staff and the teenagers and the children.
inside a short-term group home, drawn from the two years he spent working in one after college.
He grew up on the island of Maui, one of six kids, homeschooled by his mother, who didn't allow comics in the house.
She didn't allow comics in the house?
Nope.
The lore is you had one little beat-up Spider-Man comic.
Yeah, that was more from my, that my grandpa had some comics.
And of course my friends, you know, right around the time I was 10 was like, that was like the Todd McFarlane days.
And I remember those Spider-Man comics and sneaking.
I have a memory of sneaking one that was potentially at my grandpa's house or it was from one of one of my friends.
But it was like those Spawn and Spider-Man were kind of the big thing when I was like 10 or 11 years old.
Do you know why your mom didn't want you to read those or you and your siblings?
I think there's, I mean, I think she was, anytime she would see something that was violent, she wasn't into it.
So fighting wasn't cool.
sexiness
probably
she wasn't into that
when I was a kid
so
and it goes hand in hand
with her
being pretty protective
of the
things that we
would consume
in any type of
media, TV, movies
but
you know
when you're a kid
you find ways
to sneak
your Marvel debut
happened in
2021 directing
Shang Chi
the first Asian superhero.
And you said this was the first time in your professional career
that you walked into a space and everyone was Asian just about.
Describe what that was like for you and what that meant for you
at that particular moment in your career.
Yeah, it was one of those things I didn't really know I was missing until it happened.
And when I when I stepped on to set once, you know,
Once all of our stunt performers were there and all of our actors were on set,
and it was kind of that first day on set, it was, I mean, it was cool.
It was just like there was something about set that just felt homie,
that felt so comfortable to be able to have conversations with people
that fully understand what my grandma is like and what growing up in an Asian.
and culture is like.
So I didn't know that that aspect of myself
could be a part of my filmmaking.
You know, I always sort of compartmentalized my upbringing
and my culture and growing up in Hawaii
as sort of a separate thing than my experience as a filmmaker.
Until I was on set for Shang Chi, it was very special.
Maui has been through so much,
especially over the last few years with the fires and everything.
And there is a film program, though, helping filmmakers.
Tell us about this.
When I was growing up on Maui and I had this passion for filmmaking,
I didn't know anybody who did it.
I didn't have very many resources on how to develop the skills to do this thing that I loved.
And so it was always a dream to.
to create a safe space for young people
to explore this world of filmmaking
and to take young people through the process
that I've grown to love so much.
In honor of my grandma, we created the Hisaco Film Lab,
which is a nonprofit on Maui
that is specifically for young filmmakers
growing up on the islands.
And throughout that process,
the students are exposed to professionals
who are all my friends who want to give back in some way.
So at the pitch process, they're pitching to professional screenwriters.
Screenwriters help them learn the process of writing a screenplay.
We have professional editors talk to them at that point.
And then professionals are helping judge their movies in the end.
And it really is one of the joys of my life to watch these kids.
start in a place that often when they come in,
they've never done anything like this before.
Many of them don't have a real community or friend group
that they connect with.
And many of them have never spoken in public in front of people
and maybe never wanted to or never dreamed that they would.
But over the course of this process,
us. By the end of it, I've seen so many of these young people grow as people grow in their
confidence and hold the microphone on stage in front of a community at the end after their
movie is played and answer questions to everybody. And you just feel the pride.
Oh, I know. I can imagine. It's wonderful.
If you're just joining us, my guest is filmmaker Destin Daniel Cretton, and he directed the new movie
Spider-Man, Brand New Day, which is in theaters now. We'll continue our conversation after a short break.
This is fresh air. This is fresh air. And today I am talking with filmmaker Destin Daniel Cretton,
director of the new movie Spider-Man, Brand New Day. He also directed Just Mercy and Shang-Chi and
The Legend of the Ten Rings and created the Marvel series Wonder Man. His breakout film was short-term
12 about the staff and the teenagers inside a short-term group home, drawn from the two years he spent
working in one after college. You know, in addition to this theme of family in your films,
there's also something about young people who feel alone and have had to deal with the loss of
loved ones. And that theme is in short-term 12 and Spider-Man, Peter, and the young villain in the
movie. Also in Shang-chi, he went through the same loss and violence. That also seems like that's a
pretty strong throughline. Yes, I agree. There were times in this, in shooting Spider-Man, that my
director of photography, Brett Pollock, who also shot short-term 12, there were times where we were
in the middle of shooting a scene and we looked at each other and were, and, you know, and,
just felt like we could be on the set of short-term 12.
Oh.
It's, and that to me is really the amazing part of doing a movie like this that can get so big on many levels.
But really, it's the scenes, it's the scenes between two characters sitting on a bed, sharing, sharing in their,
in their pain and in their grief,
it's those scenes that to me are the most powerful.
And I felt, you know, I felt very lucky that this particular story was able to hold both of those things.
Is there a reason that you keep coming back to making films about that?
I mean, maybe this is true for many artists.
the experience, I think, of my childhood
was made up of so much joy
and also quite a lot of pain and hardship.
The experience that I had
having a very complicated relationship
with my dad who passed away a few years ago
was an experience that many times left me feeling very isolated and alone.
But really, the thing that carried me through
was my relationship with my siblings.
And they have always been there.
there when I was at my darkest moments in life.
And so I don't know, somehow that's probably just ingrained in me somewhere,
and it comes out subconsciously when I'm writing,
or it is a story that I personally don't feel,
I will ever get old examining in different ways.
But yeah.
Can you share more about what you mean about the complicated relationship with your dad?
I hear you talk about your mom a lot, but not so much your dad.
I think in many ways, most of my movies have something to do with my dad.
My dad was a very passionate man.
I don't like to diagnose people, but I think we all suspect that he was undiagnosed bipolar on some level.
He was very passionate, very wonderful to be around, very loving in moments, and could also be very dark and very angry.
And it just depends which dad you were going to get on the day.
You know, I grew up, along with my siblings, learning to navigate those emotions, those real intense peaks and valleys.
and when my dad would come home,
I learned to become very sensitive to what state he was in.
I have found over the course of my career
that I have so much to thank from my experience with my dad.
I am so grateful that he really was the person
who instilled in me my love of movies.
I mean, while my mom wouldn't really let us watch
TV late at night, my dad, who was a big action fan, and he loved Clint Eastwood, he loved
Schwarzenegger, he loved Stallone.
I would hear the sounds of guns and explosions going off downstairs late at night, and he would
be watching the latest Schwarzenegger movie or whatever, and I would sneak downstairs and pretend
I was going to the bathroom, and then I'd go and hide behind the couch and walk.
watch him, you know, as he's watching the running man or total recall.
I have some of my fondest memories with him.
I'm going and we watched The Fugitive together in a theater.
And that was my first, like, PG-13 movie.
And it was so exhilarating when we came out of the theater.
I mean, this was so my dad.
We came out of the theater.
My dad just raised both fists in the air and screamed,
The Fugitive!
But that's a type of, like, passion he had, you know.
And so I have those memories.
But then I also have a dad who was often depressed.
I didn't understand it was depression at the time,
but who would often come home and just want to sleep or not talk.
And then there was also the angry side who could be very intense and very scary.
So aside from my love of movies,
my experience with my dad did other things for me.
It really allowed me to not be afraid of any person,
no matter how intense they are,
no matter how, unquote, powerful they believed themselves to be.
I feel like nobody compares to the experience that I had with my dad.
But it also allowed me to subconsciously create this skill
of feeling other people's emotions,
which I find I use all the time as a director.
The moment an actor steps on set,
I feel like I just know what state they're in
and I know what they need.
You know, I've learned how to bring down
a very intense situation.
I do feel like he was a very wonderful and troubled man,
but I am so grateful to have had him as my dad.
Destin, thank you so much for this conversation.
It's been great to meet you and great to talk about all of this.
Thank you for having me.
Such a lovely conversation.
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