From the Kitchen Table: The Duffys - Gratitude or Narcissism? A Look At "Romanticizing Your Life"

Episode Date: October 10, 2024

In 2022, Sean and Rachel's daughter, Evita Duffy-Alfonso wrote an article for the Chicago Thinker, entitled “How The ‘Romanticize Your Life’ Tik Tok Trend Is a Gen Z Rejection Of Postmodernism”   The topic remains timeless — so the Duffys are looking back on their conversation with Evita about how Gen Z’s continued trend of romanticizing everyday life is actually a form of rejecting postmodernism and the idea that life has no meaning.  Follow Sean & Rachel on X: @SeanDuffyWI & @RCamposDuffy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Hey everyone, welcome back to From the Kitchen Table. One of our favorite parts of this podcast is having the opportunity to have guests join us at the kitchen table, whether they be political leaders or commentators, social media influencers, or journalists like our daughter Evita. Today we've decided to revisit a previous conversation with all of you. We hope you enjoy, and we'll be back soon, right here from the kitchen table. Hey everyone, welcome to From the Kitchen Table. I'm your host, Sean Duffy, along with my co-host for the podcast and partner in life, Rachel Campos Duffy. Hey Sean, it's so good to be back at the kitchen table. And today at the kitchen table, we have, by the way, a non-invited guest called Valentina,

Today at the kitchen table, we have, by the way, a non-invited guest called Valentina, who's sipping her sippy cup right here and may end up making some sort of, I don't know, noises or questions. I don't know what she's going to do in the middle of this podcast, but we have our oldest daughter as well, Evita Duffy. She is a senior at the University of Chicago and a writer at The Federalist, And she is the co-founder of the Chicago Thinker, that newspaper, that conservative collegiate newspaper that's making all kinds of waves all over the country, coming out on behalf of students who have been forced to vaccinate, forced to mask. She's been calling out all kinds of wokeness on campus. And she's our daughter. And by the way, she's getting married, Sean. She's getting married at the end

of June. And as she's busy studying, I've been busy wedding planning. That's right. Welcome to the kitchen table. Back to the kitchen table. That was an awesome welcome. Thank you. There's a little bit of guilt in there about how little you've been contributing to the wedding preparations. But aren't you grateful that I'm not a bridezilla controlling everything? I actually am. Well, hold on a second. We've actually debated that maybe a bridezilla would be better than the disabled daughter

and mom does everything. No, you know what? I've actually decided. So at first, you know, I I've actually decided. So at first, you know, I was really upset that you would not participate in wedding planning, that you just wanted to get married, but you didn't want to deal with any of the wedding details.

And then I, exactly what Sean said, I just, I embraced it actually. And I decided that I was going to pretend like this was my wedding. And so the cake, the menu, the flowers,

everything has been my idea. The only thing that you were absolutely determined to have a say on and you got your way on and we spent more than we wanted on was your dress. So true. Just to know, Rachel, your mother and I will have been married for 23 years this Sunday. So that's wonderful. So do you know that I joke every time I, every time you ask me a question about wedding planning and say, what do you think of it? And I say, it's your wedding mom.

I know you do. Well, guess what? When I got married to Sean, I said the same thing. I kept talking about it as my wedding. And Sean's like, aren't I part of this? I'm like, not this part. It's my wedding. Mom has it all, but that's, we're not here to talk about weddings on today's podcast. Actually, can I just say one thing? I can't let the wedding stuff go. We're actually going to do a segment I don't know, in a few weeks from now

on cutting corner with all the inflation and all the bad economic news. How do you save money on a wedding? I'm like, this is a little late for the producers to tell me about this, but maybe we might be able to use some cost cutting last minute things on the wedding. If you've seen the movie Father of the Pride, I feel like I'm living that. I'm like, this costs how much?

I know. The stores are ripping hot dog buns out of the case. Six buns to eight hot dogs. Ridiculous. By the way, we're not having hot dogs and hamburgers. Not that I didn't propose that. Not that Sean wouldn't have been down with that. All right.

So listen, we want to talk to you about a lot of things. But the first is a lot of people have been absolutely loving this piece that you wrote for The Federalist. piece that you wrote for The Federalist. And I, you know, I haven't, I don't think I recall so many people writing me and over something that you wrote and saying, I needed to read this. I was losing hope in young people. And this actually, so why don't you tell us about the piece and then why you wrote it? Yeah. So the piece is about a recent, actually not recent, a two-year-long TikTok trend that's still going strong. And it's called romanticizing your life. And people will, you know, say hashtag romanticize your life and it'll be them, you know, talking, changing the way that they look at life. So, they'll be, you know, using, starting to do, starting to have better habits or enjoying the

beauty in everyday life. And all these little things that are sort of changing their outlook and making their lives more meaningful. And so they're saying, hashtag romanticize your life. And so my synopsis was that actually this entire trend is a rejection of postmodernism in young people because postmodernism, and this is something that Jordan Peterson talks a lot about, doesn't believe that, doesn't espouse that life has meaning. Everything is just suffering. And then eventually you die because there's no God. Everything is a critical theory. Everything is arbitrary and can be constructed and morals are relative. And so when you have that belief system, when you have that worldview, your life becomes really

meaningless. And this trend is the exact opposite. It's saying enough of this really horrible outlook on life. We're going to start romanticizing our lives. And so maybe Gen Z doesn't know that they're rejecting postmodernism because they're not aware of what postmodernism is, but they are. And I think that it might not be perfect, but it's a really hopeful trend in our current social media sphere because there's a lot of really horrible things on social media too. And this is just a great bright spot. Right. It's a super positive thing. So for people who have never been on TikTok and seen somebody romanticize their life on a TikTok video, can you give me just a little better description of what that looks like? So what that means is, pretend like you're talking to your dad who has no idea

about TikTok or what happened to me. Yeah. So one of the ways that people participate in the trend is there's this audio that will play in the one of, one of the, so one of the ways that people participate in the trend is there's this audio that will, that will play in the background of every one of the romanticize your life TikToks. And the audio is basically saying you have to start romanticizing your life. You have to start enjoying the little things and then they'll show you in the TikTok them doing those things. So it'll be them, you know, you know, having better habits. They're getting up in the morning and they're going to work out and then they're coming home and they're making a healthy breakfast and they're, they're looking at, you know, a sunset or, or flowers and they're looking at beauty in their everyday lives and making things seem better,

making their lives feel more meaningful. So they're, they're showing you a visual representation of how they themselves are changing their perspective on life. And it probably makes the most sense to actually watch the videos. And if you look it up on the Federalist, you can see a bunch of TikToks embedded of examples of this. But that's the best I can do. You know, I think that's, I kind of get it. I'm with you. Is this, because there's this idea too, that we're this collectivism, this socialism, this Marxism that's taken root in culture.

Is this also a trend to say, listen, I'm an individual. I'm in control of my life. I'm not a victim. I'm going to drive, you know, my own life. I'm going to be the star of my life. Yeah. I mean, I mean, I think, I think, I think that's part of it too. I think, you know, we, there's a lot of, there's a lot of, um, so this is, this is actually, this is interesting because I talked about in the article that there is in Gen Z, a sort of toxic self-love culture. So I think,

yes, I've seen it. It's like self-care. Elton John, Cortez is really big on this. And it kind of goes into not just self-care, but then self-obsession, where you are like the center of everything. And I think what this, so I think this trend can be dangerous and that, because one of the lines in the audio

that I was talking about says, you have to see yourself as the main character. Well, you know, you're not the main character of the world. You're not the center of the world. So that's not a good thing to devolve into main character sort of energy. But the idea that like dad was saying that you should, you know, take control of your life. You should be an individual.

You should take ownership of your habits and your actions and your life. You should be an individual. You should take ownership of your habits and your actions and your outlook. Those are really positive things that I see the trend promoting. So there's always a chance that people can take it in the wrong direction, but I think overall it's good. You know, Vida, you have been taking a class on Thomas Aquinas, right? Yes, that was last quarter. Yes, you took a class on Thomas Aquinas, right? Yes, that was last quarter. Yes, you took a class on Thomas Aquinas, I should say. I forget you're in the trimester cycle at your university. So can you talk to me about this trend in the context of that philosophy versus post-martyrs?

Because I think for a lot of people, these terms are very esoteric. And I want to help people understand what you're talking about a little bit more on that level as well. Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, philosophers all throughout history from the great ones like Aquinas, like you like you said, and Aristotle, they all promoted the idea. They all believe that beauty was objective, that we can actually quantify and understand and evaluate what beauty is. And it's not just whatever, it's not just a construct. It's not a social construct that we've decided beauty is. It's actually something much more innate. And so it's like, Evita, can I interrupt you? It's like porn. You know it when you see it, right? I mean, you know, that's exactly just like, you know, when you see it right i mean you know that's exactly just like you know when

something is beautiful and when somebody shows you something that's garish and ugly but then tries to convince you that that building is actually beautiful and post-modern and you're like no it's not biden painting is beautiful right the same thing right no but i i love that that there that that beauty is knowable, right? Right. And so just to bring the connected tissue in with that, the trend of all of the videos in this TikTok trend happen to be very beautiful. So on another, even deeper level,

this trend is actually rebuking postmodernism again by showing that they understand what beauty is and that beauty actually exists because they're able to recognize it, record it, and share it on social media. Yeah, it's so interesting because Tucker Carlson on Tucker Carlson Today had a really great show. And Sean and I were kind of talking about it the other night, just on how ugly so much of American architecture has become.

And again, it's that idea you're talking about. We'll be back with much more after this. Hi, it's that idea you're talking about. We'll be back with much more after this. Hi, everybody. It's Brian Kilmeade. I want you to join me weekdays at 9 a.m. East as we break down the biggest stories of the day with some of the biggest newsmakers and of course, what you think. Listen live or get the podcast now at BrianKilmeadeShow.com. Can I touch about something really simple that this TikTok trend, you know, is fascinating to me, especially because it's happening in this Gen Z culture that's kind of known to be very secular and and and sort of rejecting a lot of these, you know, ideas that that, for example, Thomas Aquinas has talked about and others. But I had a friend. You actually knew her, Evita, when you were a little girl and her name was

Elfrida. She was a German immigrant. She was a good friend of Sean's mom and I became very close with her and I would go visit her with you. And she once told me that she, when her husband died, she was really depressed. And she was just this really hardworking woman. She cleaned homes. She cleaned like a good German woman. She knew how to do it.

She just had such a great work ethic. But when her husband died, she was just deeply, deeply depressed. And I remember I was a very young bride at the time. I had you and I don't even think I'd had your brother yet. And I asked Alfreda, I said, well, how did you get out of it? And she goes, it is the small things, Rachel. Darling, darling, darling. It's the small things.

I would pour my diet Coke into a wine glass, a goblet, and it would just make me feel so good. Like it was like that little thing of pouring her soft drink, right? This very pedestrian kind of drink, right? But into a nice goblet and just sort of that special moment. It kind of, I mean, I know it's probably not the same thing as this, you know, multimedia TikTok thing you're talking about. But again, it's about elevating the ordinary, right? Yeah.

No, I think that's absolutely right. And I know maybe you guys probably don't know, but if you guys have any younger fans that listen to the podcast, one of my favorite quotes. That's why you're here to get us fans, younger fans. One of my favorite quotes from The Office is at the end of the whole series when Pam says, you know, there's beauty in ordinary things. And I think that was the point, the whole show, the show was about, you know, people in a dying industry, the paper industry, right? They worked for Dr. Mifflin and they had pretty mundane lives. They lived pretty boring lives, but at the same time, you know, arguably the main character was Jim Halpert. He met his wife, he built a career, he raised a family, and suddenly this is this really entertaining show. And it really actually kind of, the message is

profoundly beautiful that you can find joy and happiness and fulfillment in ordinary life or in an average job, like at a paper company. I love it. That's actually very Catholic. I thought it was interesting too, that this is a side note. I didn't realize how popular The Office had become with your generation, Evita. And you're watching every episode. And I think it was on Netflix when they were going to take it off. They took it off of Netflix. Like your generation was wild about it. Like they can't take The Office off of Netflix.

It was outrage. Yeah, it was one of the highest rated shows on Netflix. And you guys all started watching. You didn't grow up with it, but you all started to watch it on Netflix, which I thought was interesting. Can I ask you, I don't mean to be a pessimist, but I see so much on social media, Vita, that is fake. Everyone is like,

Rachel and I were just, we went to Mexico for a couple days because we can't go for that long with all these kids. We only get a couple days. You see all these young girls on the beach taking pictures of themselves. We would go for couple of days. But you see all these young girls on the beach, like taking pictures of themselves. We would go for a walk and they'd be like on, like taking pictures of each other and pretending like they were sex objects

on the beach. And they're in this professional shoot. Like there's a lot of staging. There's a lot of fakeness around social media to, to, to present to everyone who follows you that you are having a blast and you're having a ball and it's so much fun. And if you're not with me, you're missing out. When really, they're not really having that much fun.

I wonder if the same thing is happening with this TikTok trend that you're talking about. Are people pretending to be the star of their life and pretend like they're working out and eating healthy and making their bed every morning to make them seem really great? Or do you think actually it's a trend that people are showing that I'm actually doing this? Is it real? Yeah. I think that's a great question. And I'm not going to tell you that everybody who did that, who was participating in the trend is doing it sincerely because that would be a lie. There's absolutely people who are not doing it because they're actually changing something about their lives. They just want to show people that they have it all together. But what I think is heartening is maybe they're lying about it. Maybe they're not. What's interesting is that they've recognized they don't like what the

postmodern world has offered them. Maybe even maybe they're lying about it. But the point is that what they have is not working for them. They don't like thinking that life is meaningless, that nothing is innate, that beauty doesn't exist. They don't like it. And so they're trying to do something about it. Maybe it's fake. But the heartening thing is that at least they recognize what we have right now is not good. They aren't happy with it.

So they're rejecting what our culture is offering now, this postmodern. But even if this is fake, they're putting things out there on the line. A quote from the intern. Okay, Sean. See, you're so obscure. I know. I love that movie too, but I didn't know that. But they're putting it out there

and it's aspirational. So even if they're faking it, they're inspiring other people who may not maybe do their own videos, but they're going, isn't that great? People are actually

making their lives better. They are the stars of their lives. They're taking control of their lives. They're rejecting, as you say, postmodernism. And maybe that'll inspire people to live better, healthier,

beautiful lives. You know, Vida, in Catholic, the Catholic way of thinking of things is, and of course, I kind of come back to a lot of that. You hear Mother Teresa always said, do small things with great love, right? These little things that we do and as a mom for me one of the things that was really important for me when i you know i was at home people see me on tv but they they don't know that i was actually an at-home mom for 14 years most of your life evita until i got my first job um out of the home mostly at home yeah i yeah i got a job with the Libra Initiative, which led me to Fox. But, you know, even when I was with Libra and Fox, I still was working out of home, but traveling and definitely busy in a different way. But those 14 years when you're a mom and you're home and you're home and you've seen all those home videos that we have of either of those times when we lived in Ashland, Wisconsin.

And, you know, the things that you do, no one sees, you know, you're in your house. These things mattered, you know, whether I was cleaning or, you know, changing a diaper or teaching you how to sing or helping you with your homework or making cupcakes with you or whatever we were doing. That it may seem like a small, you know, thing to, you know, it may seem like nothing to Barbara Walters. Nothing to the world. Yeah, nothing to the world. Nothing to everybody who everyone thinks is so accomplished. But it was the world to you. And it was the world to me. And again, that thing about I'm the star of my, this is the life that I'm building for my family.

Kind of like what you were talking about with The Office. office, I thought that was such a great analogy you brought up because, you know, the rest of the world would look at the characters and even the industry, as you mentioned, at the office and sort of mock it. But in the end, what is life about? But relationships and building, you know, a life and a family. I just think that's so interesting. Yeah. Yeah. And maybe this is a little tangentially related, but, you know, dad was bringing up how, you know, upsetting it was to see all these people living these fake lives when they were supposed to be enjoying themselves in Mexico. Right.

And they're just living in the digital world. And as I'm thinking for myself, when I one day want to start a family because I'm getting married, as much as I think this TikTok trend is heartening, I'm not going to give my kids a smartphone or social media. If they want to pay for it themselves, maybe, and that won't be for a long time, right? I don't want to put that in their hands because I don't think that it's ultimately healthy for them and for the exact reasons that dad brought up. So as well, this might be a good trend. And I think it's helpful because we know that a lot of kids are going to be on social media no matter what.

If you are a parent who's thinking about whether you want your kids to be there, I would suggest not. And I'm so sorry because I got a phone as a freshman in high school, which is old for some years, but I would say I probably didn and I'm so sorry. Cause you know, I got a phone, you know, and as a freshman in high school, which is, you know, old for some years, but I would say I probably didn't even need it then. So it's kind of the rules after you. No, no, we didn't. So the first four have all gotten phones probably at that same time, like freshman year, but Paloma is not getting a phone.

She's so mad about it. She's in eighth grade. She's going to be a freshman next year. And we're like, Nope, not getting a phone. She's so mad about it. She's in eighth grade. She's going to be a freshman next year and we're like, nope, not getting a phone. We really learned a lot from, I think, the mistake we made of letting you guys have phones. I don't think we understood just how powerful the tool that was.

And that's the benefit of having all these kids. We can make mistakes with the first four and still have, you know, five left to get it right. There's a study that says that, you know, half of, of, you know, I think it's 12 to 18 year olds who have smartphones a little less than half of, of teens who have smartphones spend around 10 hours a day on their phones. So they're consuming social media and text messaging almost all of their waking hours. They're completely consumed

on their smartphones. And that's a really frightening stat to think about. Yeah. Also, most, I think it's like it's most boys. I wish I had the stat in my head, but the number of boys that are exposed to pornography at the age of the average age for a boy to be exposed to pornography is 11 years old now. which is also frightening and has massive implications about how boys develop the way they think about girls, the way they think about sex, their expectations. I mean, it just absolutely pollutes their brains. And that's because of the ease of the phone. And I'll just go back to my youth at that age. I mean, young boys at that age.

At 11? Or 13. I don't know how old. I mean, but you you shocked by that no but you might you might see a playboy you know magazine right oh my god they're playing legos at 11 that too but there's a difference though in in the hardcore porn that's there now versus um versus what someone might have seen 30 years ago or 40 years ago um no doubt. But if you take kind of what I find fascinating about this conversation, so, you know, mom and I come from culture a little bit. We met on reality TV.

We did reality TV. We were on MTV. But as I've gotten older, I kind of accepted the fact that I'm not hip. I'm not cool. But it's interesting now to have kids your age to kind of bring us up to date on what's happening and the trends that are taking place and the meaning of the trends, the good and the bad. As a dad with a early 20-year-old something daughter, it's fascinating to go,

I'm so out of touch with what's happening. Even when you were in your 20s, you were out of touch with pop culture. But we would never know what's happening but for having kids of the age that is using it, right? Which I think is actually really helpful. That's true. But when everyone had already moved on to Nirvana, Sean was still loving. Who are the ones you like a lot? I can't.

Oh, come on, Sean. Was it Guns N' Roses? Yeah. No, no. I wish it was Guns N' Roses. No, it wasn't. It was Guns N' Roses. You're talking about Meatloaf?

Yeah. No. I love Meatloaf. I'm sorry. I got stuck in a lumberjack truck in Iowa somewhere and it got rained out all weekend and the only cassette tape we had was Meatloaf. Poison! I was going to say poison. Oh, I love poison. Yes, Bret Michaels. Oh, that's classic. I was trying to think

of the name. Yeah, Guns N' Roses, Poison. You know. I liked them too, but you're a little late. Still thinking them. Everyone moved on to grunge. I didn't move on, right? I didn't. You rejected grunge. Grunge was too dirty for me.

You rejected grunge. I did. And you embraced it, right? You were kind of grungy yourself in those old pictures. I was too crisp for that, right? She was. I saw her on the real world. She was kind of living on the edge.

She was. They even said that. They said, Rachel's views are conservative, but her lifestyle and her vibe is pretty edgy and liberal. And here's the problem with what, if you do reality TV when you're in your 20s, you have to remember that your 20-year-old daughter will watch you when you were 20 and hold you back to your 20 back to your mother yeah i've had a lot of things thrown back it is it is the greatest form of entertainment for me but i will say if anybody actually watched the real world when it came out mom's season is way better than dad's i couldn't even make it through dad's so season season three was amazing yeah boston was a little boring. There was some good stuff in Boston, for sure. But anyway, you know, Avita, I love that you wrote this piece.

I think that it's a very interesting look at young people, at what they're doing, at, again, this rejection of this, you know, nihilism and bleakness, and I don't know how else to say it. You call it postmodernism. But I do think that, you know, we allism and bleakness. And I don't know how else to say it. You call it postmodernism. But I do think that, you know, we all want what's beautiful. We all want what's good. And and that that maybe there's it's built into us. Right. And and that even people who don't know they want it actually or didn't even know they wanted it are seeking it in their life. We'll have more of this conversation after this.

Tell me what you think. Are there any other trends that you're seeing out there that make you make you or others feel a little bit more hopeful about Gen Z? Oh, that's a good question. You know, I'm going to I'm going to circle back to there are many. That's why i felt so inclined to write this piece is because but you know in in the in the article i do talk about there being other other ways to to find hope or to give your kids a a better outlook on life and and that's you know stuff you're not going to find on social media so like the best example is the lord of the rings i mean i love that series i didn't actually read it until i was in college um but it's one of the greatest one of the Lord of the Rings. I mean, I love that series. I didn't actually read it until I was in college. Um, but it's one of the greatest one of the, first of all, it's a,

it's entertaining. It's a, it's an amazing epic story, but also it's one of the best refutations of, of post-modernism of modern leftism. So, I mean, this is, these are, these are, so, I mean, it's an, it's an, it's in the characters, right? So one of the best scenes in Lord of the Rings is when Sam and Frodo are climbing the mountain to destroy the ring. And Sam, you know, notices, he says, you know, we're in the stories that we were told as children that, you know, there's some good in this world and it's worth fighting for. And all of these these storylines and the quotes are not just integral to that story from Middle Earth, but also reflected in our own world. And it's a deep Tolkien said of himself, it's a deeply Catholic story, even though it's it's, you know, fantastical and has elves and dwarves.

fantastical and has elves and dwarves. And those are the kind of stories that we should be putting in the hands of kids that will actually create, you know, or foster their minds and their souls in a meaningful way, not the smartphone. So Sean and I are reading little house in the big woods to your sister, Margarita and to Patrick. And it's so interesting. Like there's one chapter, first of all, how these people survived in in Pioneer Days is amazing.

And it's actually very there's a there's it's very accurate to what people had to do to survive in the big woods, which, of course, is so interesting to them because it but what i what there's an entire chapter on how the dad cleans his gun and makes his bullets and your siblings were absolutely mesmerized by the whole story and i thought there is no way anyone would be like no publisher would allow a chapter on how, you know, Paul cleans his gun and makes homemade bullets in a book today. And yet, even if they were telling it historically from that perspective, and yet it was riveting to the kids. It was so descriptive. It was amazing. And and the kids loved it. It was amazing. And, and the kids loved it. Yeah. Yeah. I can tell. And I love those books too, growing up, but I'm so glad you guys are reading them, reading it to them because I mean, that's, like I said, it's, it's the best way to,

to combat everything that they're going to, that's going to be thrown at them on the phone, perhaps even the classroom with their friends. I mean, it's, it's the only way is with the family and with other books. And it brings me back to the theme I continue to harp on is a parent's responsibility to expose their kids to Little House on the Prairie, right? And to Lord of the Rings. It's bringing those great pieces to the attention of your kids. Getting them to read them or reading them to your children is how you expose them because they

don't find it themselves. You're not going to get it in school. Now you're not. And especially with some of these books, they're like, these are racist books, gun-toting books. You're never going to read them. But I also think, again, if we also have to pay attention as conservative parents or America-loving parents and raise our kids well, the future is really bright. It's when we turn our kids over to social media, when we turn our kids over to the school system and disengage from the education and formation of our children is when they're able to get our kids. formation of our children is when they're able to get our kids. And you, I mean, again, you've been in your fourth year, you know, in your fourth year at University of Chicago. I would argue from what you tell me is pretty liberal, it's pretty woke, despite what they want to present to the rest of the world about, you know, we're a campus of free speech. And you've done pretty well in actually, you know, starting a conservative paper, actually creating dialogue on campus, you know, pushing a different point of view that some kids may not like. You might get a whole

bunch of threats and a whole bunch of hate, but it's forcing a dialogue and a conversation. For us, that makes us proud that you've done that at the school. It's not just at the school. You've brought your writing and the issues on campus to a broader audience, whether it's at The Federalist, you've been on, you've been on Tucker and Fox and Friends. So again, I'm proud of you, but I'm kind of proud of us as parents. I'm not going to take credit for Evita. I'm going to tell you what,

she was born so flipping smart. I was just talking to somebody about how precocious you were as a child, but yeah, you're right. I mean, I think that, I think what you're doing in letting people in, giving a little window into what's happening on campus. We do sometimes occasionally hear

the crazy campus stories on the news, but you've given us some perspective. Really quick before you go, because today, the last two days, Barack Obama has been at the University of Chicago at a conference, I guess, on disinformation and democracy. Members of the Chicago Thinker, you and your friends, your colleagues at the Chicago Thinker have been there to to observe, to ask questions. A few of these questions have gone viral. Tell us what you're seeing. Tell us how it went. Yeah, I mean, well, the crazy thing is that so this is an event put on by the Chicago

Institute of Politics, which is run by David Axelrod, Obama's former chief advisor. So that's why he has the contact of Obama. And but this is a three day event about disinformation and the people that they've brought in to combat disinformation are some of the greatest you know liars in american history we have obama who whose administration was you know responsible for the russian collusion hoax and then we you know he invited brian stelter and um some other from CNN, from CNN. Yeah. Right on his opponent. Right.

Right. And then Ann Applebaum, who's, you know, another partisan from from the Atlantic. So this is a partisan event. There are a couple of conservatives, but they're acceptable conservatives. So there is Jonah Goldberg and Adam Kinzinger, who are obviously very useful to the left. So really, they don't care about combating disinformation at all. The reality and what I learned from actually listening to them is they care about taking back the power that they lost when social media democratized information.

They literally said it straight up. And I wrote a piece about it. It's also in The Federalist that they want their gatekeeping powers back. And they want to put back trust in government and in journalism and academia. those institutions. They just say, we need to control the social media algorithms so that we can control the information again. And that is a scary thought. So instead of combating information they don't like with whatever they deem better information, they say, actually, we're going to silence you and we're going to do it via the government. So if you think things are bad now with the tech oligarchs in Silicon Valley, you better be concerned because everything I've heard this, you know, these last couple of days has been they are gearing up to get the federal government to have oversight over the algorithms and what you're allowed to say and think essentially in this country. They don't want government to free speech to advance free speech.

They want government to put tighter controls on on technology. Yes, exactly. So it's it was it's really disturbing. And you can read about it. And if you go to the Chicago thinker dot com or our social media on Twitter, you can see a lot of clips. We've had a couple of our journalists push back, student journalists push back against, you know, some of the reporters that have been there. And it's, you know, it's been interesting and actually very insightful. If you want to sort of take a look inside their brains and see what's going on, it's quite disturbing. Well, you know, I find it interesting because the eyes opened of the left when Donald Trump won in 2016. And they said, listen, Donald Trump won because of Twitter and

Facebook. And it was still at that point, it was a free speech platform. After he won and used those platforms to get his message out and others would share his message was when they said, we have to shut this down. We have to have better control over information. We have to control disinformation, which by the way, we all know that again, for three, four years, the left wing media was promoting and big tech was promoting the Russian hoax. Absolutely disinformation. They shut down the information around Hunter Biden's laptop, which is important because Joe Biden was making money off of Hunter Biden's foreign escapades and therefore may be compromised right now as president, they completely shut that down. And so the purveyors of disinformation have been Democrats and big tech. And I just, I'm a firm believer that no one can tell you what truth is, right? Because everyone has a different perspective of truth.

And that's why our founders were brilliant in saying, listen, we believe in free speech. You can tell lies, you can tell misinformation, you can tell partial information, partial lie. And I leave it to the smart people in America to figure out what the truth is. I can't have a ministry of truth, right? Decide what is true and what's not. That's not the way we were founded. We were great debaters. We had great conversations. And with a smart public, we could figure out what the truth was. And it's worked well for us for over 200 years. But that also takes away power from the elites. And if the elites can control information, can control speech, can control ideas, they control everything. And so they see the power of the public square, which is now social media. If they can control that, they can control you. And so the tool for this free engagement of free speech and ideas has now been used as a horrendous tool

against one side by another side. You know, I think also, Evita, prior to social media and then social media plus Donald Trump, what happened was the New York Times basically set the headlines for the day and the rest of the country kind of followed. That's why they were called the paper of record. And they would put out their headlines during the Trump candidacy and presidency. And Donald Trump would tweet something and blow up the headline. I mean, it would be the whole country would be talking about whatever Donald Trump tweeted about because they were genuinely interested in whatever that was. And that drove the New York Times and all these, you know, important publications.

Very, very crazy. They couldn't take it because they want to be able to decide what everyone in the country has to talk about. Right. Can I have one last point? And I forget the magazine that did it. So someone said something about election time about Donald Trump. They were a conservative as a conservative, a conservative article. And then the left wing media started to call that and other articles in favor of Trump.

Fake news, fake news, fake news, fake news. They use that phrase first. The left wing media did MSNBC, CNN, The New York Times, and Donald Trump took the moniker of fake news and applied it to the liberal media at them. And it stuck that fake news is actually the establishment media. And by the power of one guy in a Twitter account was able to flip the narrative on the most powerful media outlets in the world. And it showed the power of what Trump could do. Again, take their attack and throw it right back at them. And everyone was like, of course, are the fake news.

And he was, you'd point them out. You'd point out their lies, which led lended credence to the fact that they were, you know, providing disinformation. And I got to tell you, I'm proud that you're there and that the thinker who I know had a fight to get a press pass. It's the most wet red paper on campus. You do better than the maroon. They weren't going to give you a press pass.

The establishment liberal paper. Right, on campus at Chicago. You guys fought for a press pass. You guys got in and were able to report on it and get major views because I think a lot of us, like mom and I, and a lot of others don't see what happens on campus and how liberals and professors and universities will use the power of politicians and people from power like David Axelrod, you know, big authors, Barack Obama, and use that to drive a false narrative to students and that you guys expose that the rest of the country. Again, one I think one of the videos has 1.3 million views on Twitter.

Barack Obama was there. Were you guys able to ask him questions? Yeah. So that's an interesting one. So virtually all the speakers have been able to ask questions of, except for Obama, who had pre-screened questions that were asked by the moderator. They're not very brave of him. It's kind of like when he was in the White House, pre-screened questions from the media. Don't ask him any of those. All right. Any last thoughts, Evita?

By the way, tell us the name of both articles. What's the article that you just wrote yesterday about the conference at the University of Chicago about disinformation and democracy with David Axelrod and Barack Obama. What's the title of that one? Yeah. So the title is Barack Obama and Company Dishonestly Lecture UChicago Students on Disinformation. Okay. That's at the federal list. And by the way, she starts off the article by saying, Barack Obama talking to the students about disinformation and democracy is like seeing an arsonist lecture you, hearing an arsonist lecture you about fire safety.

I think that's a pretty good description, Evita. Okay. And the one, yeah, pretty accurate. And then the one that you wrote about being the star of your own life, what's the title of that one? The TikTok trend. That's how the romanticize your life TikTok trend is a Gen Z rejection of postmodernism. And both of these are... One more time. Say it one more time so people can remember. That's a mouthful. How the romanticize your life TikTok trend is a Gen Z rejection of postmodernism.

Love it. And that are at the Federalist and the Chicago thinker.com. All right. And so just so you know, Vita, this weekend, me and your sisters are going to your cake testing, tasting. We're going to be tasting cake. Yeah. We're deciding on your cake. Me and your sisters are going to do that this weekend. I am not going. He's not going. He's staying home with Valentina and the boys.

And then I'll take all the other girls. And we're going to decide for you. It's going to be a surprise. We're going to continue planning away as if this were our own wedding, Evita. Mom plans away and I pay away. Well, I'm grateful to both of you. I'm very, very grateful. It's going to be beautiful. We're really excited for you. We love you.

And again, very proud of you. I think these are two really great articles that people can check out at the Federalist and also at the Chicago thinker. If you have not subscribed to the Chicago thinker, if you're not following them on Twitter, you should, if you are looking for a good publication to give a few bucks to, to keep the fight going. And the Chicago thinker is a great place to put a little of your extra cash, too, because they're doing great work. They're really at the forefront of the freedom movement, of the free speech movement on college campuses.

There's not a lot of other publications that are doing as much to advance that cause and be a respite and an oasis for students, not just at University of Chicago, Vita, you've told me about people, kids from across the country that write to the Chicago Thinker and say they're inspired by that work. Last word on the Chicago Thinker. Yeah, well, and I would just say, you know, we're one of the few publications in the entire country that is actually fighting the fight. Most of them, you know, a lot of the other papers like the Stanford Review and the Harvard Paper and the Dartmouth Review, they tend to be pretty centrist and not very brave. And the Chicago Thinker is brave. And I think that's why we've had the amount of success that we have is because we've had,

we've cultivated a team of very courageous writers. So if you want courageous young journalists, the ChicagoThinker.com is the place to go for those kind of stories. Yeah, not just courageous, great writing. Great writing is hard to find. There is great writing at the Chicago Thinker. By the way, one last plug for the Chicago Thinker is that when professors are attacked on campus or are in any way, you know, silenced, a lot of times they can't come forward because they're afraid. And they'll leak stories to the writers at The Thinker. So you have the students who are, you know, sadly more brave than many of the professors,

but the professors have, you know, their careers on the line. And that's really what happens on college campuses. We have university administrators, students, professors, even members of like the UCPD, like the Chicago Police Department, all of them have leaked stories to us because, you know,

that they're looking for a place that they can actually tell the truth to. And we're that institution that's going to give them a voice. All right. Well, Levita, thank you so much much for joining us i know you have so much to study so many papers to write here in your last semester at u chicago thanks for joining us at our kitchen table we're looking forward to when you can table too it's your kitchen table too but we want you back we don't want you virtually at the kitchen table all of us really miss you want you back home so we're looking for for, I guess you're going to be

back in a couple weeks, right, home? Yes. So very soon. I'll see you guys at the real kitchen table. At the real kitchen table. We've enjoyed this conversation with you. Love you, Vita. I talked to you earlier this morning. I'll talk to you later tonight. But this is our public conversation. Go Spanish moms.

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