Girls Gotta Eat - Clear Your Energy, it's FERAL GIRL SUMMER!

Episode Date: May 29, 2023

Are you ready for FERAL GIRL SUMMER? We're planning on three months of fun, and setting you up for success so you can start the summer without any negative energy or emotional baggage from a toxic ex, that loser who ghosted you, a friend who fucked you over, or whatever you may be holding on to. We're also sharing our listeners' summer goals, and giving you a manifestation assignment. On this episode, we also discuss Scandoval and share thoughts on cheating and how some people can do such hurtful things, plus breaking down Selling Sunset season 6. We're also spilling all the tea on Ashley's matchmaker date and Rayna making out with her ex on the road. Enjoy! Follow us @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Native: Get 20% off your first order at nativedeo.com/gge or use promo code GGE at checkout. Nutrafol: Get $10 off at nutrafol.com when you use promo code GGE. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. HelloFresh: Get 16 free meals plus free shipping at hellofresh.com/gge16 and use code GGE16. (Also mentioned on the episode: Get 20% off when you become a client at tawkify.com/gge) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

everybody listening, like have fun with her without dating the summer. Someone said feral girl summer. And I'm like, I love that. Just fucking go wild. Girls gotta eat. Full studio. It's done. We're in here. This is most beautiful studio I've ever seen. Do you cry? I love it so much. Like nothing looks better than this. We really did it. We really did it. And our very hot task habit did it with us. This was a joint effort between Raina and her and her boyfriend for hire. I was never. This is like his fifth time over here.

No. My friend did I was like, do you guys just like hang out? You guys are in a full-bow relationship. Okay, the funniest thing was we were just fucked up, tired in the Delta lounge other day. And he said you talked to him about Bannerpump for 30 minutes. And I go, 30.

Seems light for you. Right for you. Oh, you are insulting me about the show. My favorite show, I got my Daryl sweatshirt on today. Wait, oh, I didn't even notice. I'm telling you no. Send it to Daryl. I explained, send it to Daryl to Ashley yesterday.

Well, it took three days. Well, I texted you, can you explain, send it to Daryl to me? And you just blew a person. I just had to do our Boston show. It was a little busy. No, it was 48 hours. But yeah, it took a minute to, like, get the explanation. It was nice.

It was a nice moment in the airport. Anyway, I won't, I'll spare you guys. But, yeah, that guy. I think people want to hear it about Daryl. No, I think people want to hear Vanterpump thoughts. We're going to do it today. We're going to do it. And happy Memorial Day, guys.

We're a really fun episode. Yeah. Just us. Just us. Just the two of us. We can make it if we trust. I think we made it. It's been like six years.

We did it. We did it. Time to quit. No. What did I say? I said, I'm quiet quitting. Actually laid her summer out for me. She was like, this month I'm not going to work.

This month I'm work a little bit. And then by September, I'm going to take my foot off the gas. October, I'm quiet quit. I said October comes I'm quiet quitting one of the company. Not this one. Well, the other day I was like, I'm quitting. Don't tell anybody. Do you quit? I quit doing this without you. No, we love our jobs. We're very fortunate. And while we're at it, we did mention both of our companies. I have been bringing back the Ashley to masturbate with. This is our company vibes only. We sell vibrators. They're incredible elite. And I've been on that Lucy,

brought the Lucy on the road with me. Yeah, you relate to something because you had to run back up in charge it. Well, I knew something was going to happen. You knew you were going to maybe use it later? Or like be with someone else later or use it with them. One of three options. I was going to come home alone and masturbate, come home with someone and not masturbate, come home with someone and use the toy with them. Oh, I was like, what's option three with the toy? I thought you're going to say they were going to watch you with the toy. I mean, yeah, but he noticed and he was like, I said your vibrator plugged in. I was like, yeah. I mean, you know what I do for a living?

Yeah, it's super normal to me. But anyway, so I'd been on this Lucy kick and now I went back to Ashley. And Ashley, I just forget, like sometimes if I haven't used in a while. Like we designed to really like cover so much surface area of your pussy and it's just full body orgasm. Like if you've just been using something that's like a little smaller, which I'd love the Lucy too. But then you go back to it, you're like, oh shit. Full surface area. It's really a lot of coverage.

I love the Ashley. Yeah. It's next to my bed. The Lucy's not next to my bed. But in my bed table, I have the Ashley and the Raina. Well, Lucy is my child, so I just keep her close. Yeah. It's your little baby.

Well, May Madness is over. We made it. We did it. This was just an insane month. No weekends off. No day off. Not one. Not a one.

Thank God the shows are so fun. You guys are so great. Because, yeah, we thought we'd be living back on the East Coast in May. So we did Chicago, Philly, D.C. Boston. no days off. Yeah, and those were just some of our biggest shows and so much fun. And we just thank you guys all for coming. It was just such a blast.

And I just felt so accomplished by the end of it, you know, to just have done the Chicago Theater, have done the Wang in Boston, and then these two incredible shows in Philly and D.C. I was like, we really did it every single weekend and no days off. And it was unreal. I feel really emo about, like, you and our audience this week. because I feel like those shows were so great. I feel like who on earth can, like, stand being with each other for like 30 days, two days off?

We had so much fun. We had so much fun with Tessa and, like, our audience was so great. You guys just, like, send the best emails. Thank you for doing that and sharing your life with us. And also for your emails last week about last week's episode, we covered a lot of ground about Disorded Eating, assault, things like that. So thank you for all of your wonderful kind emails about that. I just feel very email about you guys and what your share with your life. And I just love it.

I will say, I want to clear something up. Because we have been in the same city as Taylor Swift a couple times, what, Philly and Boston, and maybe even more than that. Within the week, yeah, and she's going to be in Ohio at the same time as us. And we announced our tour first. She copied us. And I'm sick of this. Girls Got to Eats following Taylor.

No, we announced our tour on October 22nd. She announced her as on November 1st. I have the receipts. So looks like Taylor Swift is following Girls Got to Eat. Everybody's following us. Yeah. I just, no, I'm totally. kidding and we both love Taylor Swift. Listen, I know that we're like minuscule compared to these huge

artists, but it's kind of cool to look back and tell our kids that we'll never have one day that mommy toured the same time as Taylor Swift and Beyonce, truly. And people came to our show instead of hers. Like, 2023, you know, spring, summer, like is this time in our lives where Taylor Swift and Beyonce are on these massive tours. And they're two of the most iconic performers of all time. favorites, you know, and like we're touring too. It's just, it's cool. Just blessed. Yeah. It just feels really nice. It feels nice. I feel emo about the whole month. Yeah. I'm excited. And I'm excited to just be back in LA for a little bit. We got like a couple weeks here. We're so blessed. I'm going to pick up my car tomorrow, which I'm really excited about. Do you want to talk about it? You want to like three seconds. I got a

Jeep Grand Cherokee Summit. I love it. It's beautiful. And I just, I wanted an SUV and I really love it. And I think it's just really fun and cool. Most comfortable interior. I'm so excited. It's beautiful. I'm excited to like drive you around in it. It's a big deal in my life. I've never purchased a car. Yeah. I had a Chevy Cavalier that my dad and I think co-owned. What color was it? Was it teal?

It was silver. Okay. It was a two-door silver car. I think my dad and I both signed off on, but I totaled it pretty quickly thereafter. I hope that I never got a car again. So this is my first car that I bought as an adult in my late 30s. And I'm excited about it. So I'm glad.

It's a big accomplishment. So I can't wait to see it. Can I run through a few highlights from the tour? Oh, yeah. Okay. A few highlights, a few thank yous, crazy stuff. So Philly. Philly was one of my favorite shows of all time. And I love them all, mostly. But Philly, of course, you know, that feels like a hometown show for me being from Delaware. And it was my favorite Philly show. It was one of my favorite shows of all time. It was perfect start to finish. Like nothing went even the slightest bit wrong. Everything flowed perfectly. The audience was incredible. I just, it was my absolute favorite. And I'm so glad that that happened in Philly. We had the 76ers drumline, I mean, right in the middle of their series at the time of the show. Like they were playing the Celtics and they, We had the drumline, like, between games, you know, like, which was just so incredible.

They were so good. And we had this hilarious guy. His Instagram is Say B-B-U-R-M, and he came into this funny thing. He does this in Philly accent, these very funny videos, and he came up and, like, did a little segment with us. We loved him. And then this thing that I've been planning for so long for over a year was to have... More than that, I feel like.

It was about a year, a little over a year that originally bought the costume because we canceled that show. or we postponed it rather. And I wanted to have a guy in a costume that was like a gritty stripper. So we had our crew from Hunkomania, the same guys that did the Apollo. And one guy dressed up as gritty. And like they all came out in flyers jerseys. I think people were like, what the fuck?

I'm sure some people, especially with alcohol involved, thought it was gritty at first. Well, he was thrusting towards the sky and being so sexy. And I was like dying and just thinking about like being inside of everybody's heads. Like why is gritty being so sexy? Well, not at first. Like he came out normal. and they all had their hockey sticks, and they got in a circle around him.

And then, like, the music shifted, and he started being sexy to body shop. And then he stripped. And it just, I'll post this real on my Instagram. Ash Has, you should follow me. And it was iconic. Like, they nailed it. And then they went in the crowd.

And it was just, it was one of the best things I feel like I've come up with that I was able to bring to life. And it just was executed flawlessly. And it was incredible. It was amazing, you guys. And then my, like, best friends also Raina's friends now. But, you know, my best friend, Corey, and my two girlfriends, Laura and Lee came

and, like, we went out all night. And I threw up all day. Raina. First of all, if you were there, there was this bald guy that came up on stage. We made up with him after the show. Nothing happened, but like, you were flirty. You hung out. But when I heard you order a Jack and Coke, he ordered a Jack and Coke too. And I was like, it's over for this bitch. And I was like, oh my God, Raina, a Jack and Coke, we'd already been drinking. We'd had shots. It was a It was bad. I mean, I don't ever go out the night before a show like this. Like, never have in the history of the podcast, like, never gone out.

So we had a show the next day. Yes. To be clear. Yes. And I mean, I'll go out, but like, I just don't go that hard. I don't know what, how is just, like, I got wrapped up in it. Like, because your friends were there and I, like, love them. And the sky was there.

You were dancing. Like, Lee went and paid the DJ. Did you know that? The music was not hidden. And she went upstairs and paid the DJ. And for the next hour, I was like, it's all the hits. It's all the best songs of our time. and you're over here with this guy.

It was so good. Well, I drank liquor at the show, then wine, then went back to the liquor. Oh, my God. I woke up at 4 a.m. and vomited every single hour. I went to the bathroom three times during brunch. I could barely get through brunch. Brunch was chaotic. Laura ordered a pasta at 10.30 a.m.

I ate half of Corey's entree before realizing it wasn't mine. Also, I watched you do it. And I was like, that's not hers. knew it wasn't yours. I watched you have a whole conversation with the waitress about your entree. And then I watched you eat it. And I kept thinking that's not hers. Half of Corey's omelet before being like, this isn't what I order. Corey didn't mention it either. Corey and I were having a bad day. Yeah, you guys were not well. Tag team in the bathroom. I saw this funny, like, real or TikTok, I think it was on

batches of like bringing your hungover friend to brunch. Oh, I saw that too. Did you see it? I just reminded me of both of you that day because I felt great. You did a whole look. You're wearing white jeans, an orange t-shirt, your hair was pulled back in a cute little scrunchy. Like, I was not okay. Here's the thing. I'm just in a better headspace because of not being on birth control. And you know me, like I get so hungover, anxiety, sads, and I'm not getting wasted or blacking out by any stretch. I haven't done that in a long time, like years, really at this point.

But like, went out every night after all these shows, like out out, like went out out, like partied, drank, you know, rip some shots and I just, I don't feel great the next day in my body, but like I'm not as sad as I used to get. Oh, interesting. You know, yeah, I've been like, you know, there's other stuff.

Other things to be happy about. Yeah. Some of serotonin from the sex. I gotta tell you, you and Tessa and Ryan were so nice to me that day. Like, nicer than I would have ever been to anybody. You guys just like took such good care of me. I could not stop talking about it

about how much I was vomiting. I couldn't hold anything down. Like, you did the whole outline for the show. Like I didn't help it all. I ain't got to be pediolite. Tusset just tolerated me. Like, you guys were so wonderful to me. I told you this.

I have so much sympathy for a hungover person. As long as it's not like every weekend or something, but like I have so much sympathy for the person who is the most hungover when you're like, you're not. You feel their pain so deeply. You're like, they're really struggling. And like all Raina wants right now is to be on my level and not be this way.

You know, when you're the person that's like okay and your friend is so hungover, I just have all the sympathy in the world. I just want to do whatever I can do. Because I've been the other side. You fully wrote the show that night. You carried the show. I was like, I'm not going to make it. Okay, well, that show, I just wanted to say thank you to the Command Force,

which is the Commanders Entertainment Team. They're incredible. They did our show before. The Warner Theater is incredible. We love them. So we had the Warner Theater again, the Commanders, the Command Force again. And my friend Terry, who is a drag queen,

was incredible. Tara Ashley Austin on Instagram. and did this Beyonce mashup. I was like, we don't even need to go to Beyonce now after seeing this and pulled out these giant sleeves that took up the whole stage that said drag is not a crime. So we love to send that message.

And then can we talk about what happened? You and your ex. I don't care. Making out. Oh, it's so good. So I will admit that I had like a thought in my head before the show

that I like wanted you guys to make out on stage. Can I pick different people to make out? out with at different shows. Yeah. Okay, I'm going to make requests and make song requests. Okay. Whoever you want. I'll try to make it happen.

But he came up on stage for the fourth fucking time, right? Fourth. So this is somebody I dated like for quite a while on and off. And he's like wonderful and we're very platonic and amicable. And he's come to every single D.C. show. He's a big supporter of ours. And he brings friends. And he's so hot.

And I just, I love having him there. He's been on stage at the D.C. improv, at the Lincoln, at the Warner. And at the Warner. He's always on stage and we always fuck around with him. And I just wanted you guys to make out and he was hot. It was nice. I was uncomfortable with how much I enjoyed it. I know. Like I was like, what is going to happen?

That tongue was so strong. It was so... He like kind of dipped you? I know. I like threw up a leg a little bit. Just like, sure, it was good. I'm not like... Listen, our sex life was not good when we were together.

He just like, it wasn't good. But I think he'll be better now. Also, he clapped back at me and he was like, we've been fucked in like seven years. And I was like, not true. No. He fucked in 20 years. 19 after the improv. 100% you did.

But thank you so much. So I was really turned on by it. Yeah. I know, but not enough to really seal the deal that night. Well, because I was so hungover. I really wanted to die. That was the biggest missed opportunity

is he to go a birthday party and I would have gone. But like, you know when you're just so hungover? The thought of like talking to a new person is the worst nightmare you could ever imagine. I was wearing hot pink pants. I was going to get a lot of attention.

And I just couldn't do it. And so we went back to the hotel bar and like there was another guy there that I was sloiding with. And I still went to better. Yeah, you were not in a good place. I was in a really bad place, yes. Okay.

Lastly, Boston, we had the Celtics dancers again. Again, in the middle of the playoffs. Like, these people make time to come do our show. It makes me so emotional. It's so flattering, you know, and they were the very first professional sports team dancers we ever had that really kind of started this whole trajectory. So we had the Celtics dancers.

They're the fucking best there is. And Jared Freed was there. And he was so funny as always. We had jealous about funny. Jared. You were saying something about me having like a big clit. I was talking about how big your clit is. It's not. By the way, you know I have a teeny tiny little pussy. And Jared came out holding like a giant, I think he was holding like a case for the t-shirt cannons. And he was like, Ashley, I brought your vibrator. That's how he came on stage. No one is funny or I hate it. I'm so

jealous. He makes me laugh so hard. And he scared me so bad. He had this like special guest. I put it on Instagram and then I was like, when do you get here? And he was like, tomorrow morning and all feeling left my body. I started like vibrating and shaking because like our worst namers promising you guys something that like we can't deliver on. And then I was like, oh my God, I gave him the wrong date. Oh my God. Oh my God. I can't imagine. Sick about it. So anyways, he came, but he just had to make me want to throw up one more time. He's like, that's the theme of your month throwing up. And then if you were at the show in Boston, we love Boston so much. So thank you guys. You guys are wild. And I was saying that I was going to meet up with this guy after the show, and we did.

And it was a really fun night. It's nice. Yeah, it was someone that I met before and have just been kind of messaging with. And this was someone who was pretty open about, like, wanting to see me, you know? And like, for lack of a better word, like hitting on me a little bit, you know, like, I knew he was interested in me, is what I'm saying with confidence. You know, he doesn't live in the same city as me. It's whatever. But I just message him was like, hey, like, are you going to come into the show or whatever?

and he was like, oh, my going to finally get to take you out. So we met up after the show and spent some time together. I don't know. I got to tell you, I am loving non-birth control, Ashley. She is so horny. She is wild and free. You just, you have much, you're juicier. I'm just telling you, your energy is, like, juicier.

You say that, like, I always lead with sex. And by the way, that's never an insult from you. You just me, I'm very flirtatious by nature. Yeah. You are leading with sex these days. You put the pussy first. Stop. So yeah, we had like a fun night and I definitely plan on seeing him again when it's convenient.

I love a long-distance relationship. I'm not getting into a long-distance relationship. I prefer it for our relationship too. I'm still the priority and they don't live here. Oh, for you. It's nice for me. Yeah, so it just felt nice. So it was a nice night.

It was a good way to end that show in Boston. And so, you know, just a little tea for the listeners. But it was just, yeah, it was a crazy month. The fact that we went on every single night. saw so many friends, family, exes, and just had all these performers. Everybody wants to be a part of the show. So I just really want to thank everyone who came out and everyone who participated and made these shows so magical.

And we'll see our Ohio snack heads in a couple weeks. And then obviously we'll be off for the summer and we'll start it all back up again in the fall. And we just can't stress enough that these shows keep getting like wilder and crazier. And nothing compares. And I say that with full confidence. It's, yeah. Nothing else that you could possibly compare to girls got to eat. could compare to girls got to eat. I just can't. I guess Taylor Swift and Beyonce.

But you're not going to laugh. You want to stand outside of the rain on her? You're not going to be shocked. Shocked. Shocked. Shocked. Like, Ray and I are shocked. Every show. Every show people are like, did you guys plant this? Never. Never. Like there was a show within five minutes. We had two guys, two beefy guys from the front two rows arm wrestle on stage. People didn't believe us that it wasn't planted. We couldn't plant these people if we tried. They came up in arm wrestle. We did a spanking tutorial. This guy could not find my butt. His wingspan was way too wide.

And then Ashley had explained to him how to spank me. Ashley spank me was pretty nice. So it's great. I mean, you guys have made our dreams come true. You know, like these shows are wild and crazy because of you. We don't plant any of this. It's because you guys are so fun. So fuck, thank you so much.

Yeah. We just love you guys so much. And then between Philly and D.C. We're the same weekend. And between those in Boston, I just stayed on the East Coast and was with my family. And I got to see my mom on Mother's day and my dad, of course, and Matt and Steph and stayed with them and was just with my nephew Jay the whole week and nothing is more special. And he is truly the love of my life. I miss him so much.

Like I feel it in my heart of just how much I miss him. He's like the perfect baby and he's so cute and he just doesn't cry and he laughs all the time and he's just a total icon. But just being with him, I mean, I really do truly feel and Matt and Steph can reiterate this that he and I have a really special bond and he just loves being around me and he smiles every time he sees me and I just love holding him and playing with him and not changing diapers and I'm not doing that but everything else. I just love him so much and it was just so special to be there for the week and also like live my best life, ride bikes, go to yoga, do all the things. Every time I saw him on your Instagram story, I was like, he's just like, I mean, people are like, how was that baby so cute? And then everyone says

he looks like me. Like so many DMs and comments on my picture. of us on Instagram just saying he looks like me. I think she looks like Stephanie. So what is that? Stephanie and I look like a little bit. I said it before. My brother has great taste. No.

It just, yeah, he looks a little bit like me. He looks a little bit like Steph. He kind of does look like mad as a baby. Well, he's gorgeous. I just, I get so excited when I see him on your story. He's just, I love it so much. I love being an aunt so much. My dad's at me either day.

My dad was like, I feel like your brother. and Adriana are like, do for a baby soon. I was like, I fucking hope so. I'm not part of the culture at all. Oh my God. I'm so happy. I can move back and like get on this.

No. We'll see them in London and hope she'd be pregnant by then. Elizabeth was doing something. She's like, start fucking already. You're like, what are you doing, Arlen? Are you pulling out? Lame. They just had their...

How long have you and I've been together? Almost six years. They just had their... They just had their six-year wedding anniversary. Oh, right. I always think about them, and I was trying to test about this earlier, because we're going to talk about breakups today and just some really terrible, hurtful behavior.

And, like, sometimes I just get in my head, like, oh, my God, is everybody like this? And I just, like, remember, they're not. A lot of our friends have really amazing marriages. My brother has an amazing marriage. I love to see his, like, partnership with his wife and how obsessed they are with each other. And, I mean, I really was thinking when I read these emails today, like, oh, some people act so terrible.

But, like, some people don't. And some people are really wonderful. And there are people out there that will love you and respect you. So they are hard to find. I'm not going to sugarcoat it. It gets worse every day. And I'm going to be real about it. I'm trying to give this like uplifting moment.

And you're like, but don't be uplifted. It's terrible. They're out there. They're needles into haystack. You know what I want to find in L.A. is a date that I can go on where somebody doesn't talk to me about meditating. I am at a 100% success rate or failure rate of Every person tries to sell me on meditating.

I'm fine. I don't need to do it. Okay, I don't need to disassociate from what it's going on in my life. I think meditation is beautiful and special and it's all these benefits and blah, blah, blah. I'm happy if you guys find happiness in it, but I don't need to be on a first date

with a grown-ass man selling me on meditating. If I want to do it, I'll do it. Anyway, download the call map. Calm.com slash Gigi to start your meditation journey today. You're not into that kind of stuff, like, on a deep level. Like, you work out when you want to, and you just don't get down in this, like, super woo-woo wellness spiritual shit.

And you're good. But the thing is, like, and that's fine. And, like, I feel your pain. Because I have way more of a tolerance for it. I'm a little bit more in that wellness world. But I get it. I feel, you know, you move here and that's really kind of most people. It's everybody.

hear and it's also like listen if somebody's trying to sell you on the culture of like being into sports you could be like that's fucking stupid i'm never going to do it you can't tell somebody that like a mental health wellness thing is fucking stupid you don't want to hear about it like i just want to be like that's great for you that's great for you like the way that i like meditate is i like get up at 630 i have a coffee i sit outside and drink it i work out i answer some emails i feel like i'm good for the day like if i ever hit a place in my life or i have a ton of anxiety and i can't sleep i'm not sleep in nine hours a night like I normally am, then I will do things like go to therapy and meditate. Well, it's totally like life changing for a lot of people. Like I'm into meditation, but you really do

want to find somebody you're kind of aligned with on all that stuff. It's the same with like fitness. Like I don't really know how I would really work with somebody who wasn't into it and wasn't like really took their fitness and health seriously. So someone that is like, meditation is my shit. And you're just like, well, that I'm not your girl. I mean, it's fine. It's like, it's not your whole personality, but I'm assuming if you're bringing it up on a first date and you're explaining me how to do it, all the ways that you like, all the ways that you like doing it. And then I'm like, I don't really meditate and they kind of like look at you weird. Like if it's a first date and you're bringing it up, it's probably a bigger part of your life

where I have to talk about it all the time. I feel like it's insulting every person. It's really foreshadowing that this bitch is moving back to New York. This is what's going to get you. I support anything that makes anybody feel good. If you want to stand on your head and eat cheese its at six in the morning and that's how you feel good, then great. It's really funny because I feel like if guys in New York

are talking about like their wellness journey and their meditation journey, they're full of shit and they're just trying to fuck you. Yeah, big time. In L.A., that's really their truth. Yeah, yeah, this guy was like, I have this loft. I like to go up there and read and meditate in the morning. I was like, I don't think we're going to...

Here, I'm making fun of people for reading and meditating. And that's great. I'm happy for them. I just, I don't want to talk about it on every day. We're allowed to share our truth on this podcast. Yeah, it's our show. I just, I don't need to talk about it on every date is what I'm saying. Okay, so I'm narrowing down my pool to like three people.

So I need like a specific age range. I need like specific interests. And I think I also need people that they've migrated here from New York City. There's like three people left in the world for me. Who's not like a total asshole. Right. Who's single. Well, listen, I'm going to talk about like a matchmaker date I had.

But I have thoughts on like certain type of guys who were you're super attracted to and they're like super masculine and all this. And then they're just like the worst. Mm-hmm. Yeah. There's those two. It's all bad. Just circle back to what Ashley said.

Like I said. It's all bad. Have fun out there. Except for our brothers. It's all bad. Okay. So, yes, I wanted to discuss this matchmaker date I went on. I joined Talkify, which is actually a partner of ours.

I'd heard of it, but then when they became a partner of ours, I was like, well, let me sign up for this and go through the process so I can accurately talk about it. And I started to go through the process and I did like the initial phone call with not a matchmaker. This is like another person, probably like a salesperson that just like gets all your information and even sees if you be a good fit for it

because they don't accept just anybody, which I do love. You know, if they feel like they can't match you, they're not going to take you on as a client. If you're somebody that doesn't meditate or go to therapy, they're like, you should do that first

and then maybe somebody will love you. That's right. Well, it's so funny because you do talk about your deal breakers and yours to be like they can't meditate. That's so funny. They're like, well, we're going to just, AX L.A. out of the area for you. So this initial call, we were in Miami. This was like earlier in the year and I just had this like 30 minute phone call with this woman and I really enjoyed it and she

was just telling me more about it and kind of the caliber of people that are on it and the amount of people in their database. It's so large and they really, you know, the whole country and they just do really great things and I loved talking about what I was looking for and the thought that someone else is just doing the work for you and they're vetting these people based on all these things that you want and don't want is attractive to me. So, you know, a little bit of time went by, and I did decide to join and got paired with a matchmaker, did another call with her, like a Zoom. So we're on like a 45-minute hour long, maybe even Zoom. And again, more of talking about, like, what I'm looking for, and you share like deal breakers. So for me, it's like someone that

doesn't want kids or doesn't want more kids. Like, I'm not having kids, basically. So that, someone that's like super religious is a thing. And I want something that, like, aligns with me politically enough. And I talked about what I'm attracted to and you even send photos of your exes and people that you're attracted to. So they get a vibe of like the look that you like too, which I'm super open, but just so they know, I like sent like three pictures of people I've dated. So she's like, okay, I get it. And I love my matchmaker. She's amazing. I just feel like she got me and like understood me. And so I did go on this date. I wanted my first matchmaker date like a couple weeks ago now at this point in between like one in Chicago and DC and Philly. And I will say that it is one of the most like

nerve-wracking experiences you could have in dating, truly. Like, when else would you do that? Like, a true blind date where you have not seen a photo. They don't, like, send you photos or anything. You just kind of have to, like, trust them. No photo. Obviously, I haven't spoken to this person. You know, usually you're meeting someone you've texted maybe or you, again, you've seen a picture of them. I know everything about them. So they want to maintain their privacy and they don't want people, like, stalking before his hand. So I didn't even get his first name until two hours before. And then they tell you what he's going to be wearing. They share with him. and what I'm wearing, which is so funny that they text you, what are you wearing?

And it's two hours before. I'm like, no idea, girl. Give me another 90 minutes. I've been asking you all week what you're going to wear. I didn't even know. So they're like, this is his aim. This is what he's wearing. And I mean, listen, I'm a person that doesn't really get scared a lot because I do things

like stand up and I'm just, we perform and I'm just not, I don't have a lot of stage fright or like, I just don't scare easily. But even for me, I'm like, what is the average person going into these? They must be having panic attacks. Like, I mean, just because I'm a person that doesn't really, and I'm over here, like, having the jitters and like, this is a crazy situation. Well, it feels like the stakes are so high, too, because also someone's, like, vetted this person. So it's like, this should be a really good match for me. Like, it's not just some dumb fucking hinge, dude.

Like, it's just different. Yeah. And I will say that, listen, I was going to be a few minutes late, but I wasn't going to be, like, late, and I actually ended up being kind of late late. Their traffic was just, like, insane. So I was like, I'm running behind. I walk into the bar. They tell you where to meet, obviously. They pick a place.

walk into this like restaurant bar, very cool place in West Hollywood. And I immediately see this guy sitting alone at the bar. And my like heart sunk. I was like, no, no, no, no, no. Like just immediately like just too old unattractive. Like how could this happen? You know, you're immediately like turned off. And I started to panic a little because I was like, that's absolutely him. That's got to be him. He's a guy sitting alone at the bar. That's like in my head I pictured he'd be at the bar. And I was like, I don't know what to do right now. I felt like a little panicky. So I just went straight to the host's stand to like take a second. So I go to the host of stand and I'm like, I have a reservation under the matchmaker's name. That's how they do it. And this other guy comes from like another part of the restaurant and

like grabs me and like, hey, it's me. And I was like, oh my God, thank God. And like we just immediately start talking. And so I'll say a couple things about this guy. Perfect personality match. Like talked just for three hours straight, didn't even have time to like take a breath to like order food for 90 minutes. Like really, I felt like I could be my true self in terms of like, like, like talking about my career and success even, not that I'm like bragging, but just facts and just what we do for a living and didn't have to downplay anything and could tell him about my family and my friends. And I really enjoyed everything about him. He had so many things on like my long list, you know, a guy that has like a motorcycle and a rescue dog and like all these different things and like

close to this family, friends, all these things. So I really did like enjoy it like fully, like really enjoyed the conversation. But ultimately I just, I was unsure if I was attracted. to him. This isn't in a way that he's not attractive. It's just like, it takes me a minute sometimes to, like, figure out how I feel. I will say that I felt the same way with my ex who I ended up being very much in love with. It just was like, I don't know. It's hard to tell. It's also going into like a crazy situation. It took me a minute to warm up. Like, I'd take a minute to warm up to most people as it is. So I just couldn't tell, right? Like, I was just unsure if I was attracted to him in that way. And I understand that that can build over time and chemistry and yada yada.

So I'm super aware and basically we ended the date and afterwards they ask you for some feedback and if you'd be willing to go on a second date. And I said I would and he said he would too. You know, you share that with the matchmaker and then they basically share your phone numbers with each other, which I'm sure if he really wanted my phone number, he just would have asked me. I mean, I know you need to like respect the process. So whatever. I didn't hear from him and I was a little bit surprised quite honestly. I mean, he knew I was like traveling for a while right after that, but I still know that that's an excuse. I think you're interested in someone you reach out, especially a man that's like super confident, you know, successful in his 40s, whatever.

And I had a follow up call with my matchmaker and I told her, I was like, I feel unsure about him, like attraction-wise. So it just makes me not want to like make the first move and reach out. And my fear was it she would be like, no, no, no, you should. You should reach out. Just do it. You know, shoot your shot. And she was like, totally like, I get it. And she was like, there's nothing worse than two people who are on the fence. And first of all, she couldn't believe in and reach out. She was like, really? She was like, he had such nice things to say about you, all the nice things.

Like, you thought you were attractive, funny. Like, he loved all these things about you. She was like, I am really surprised, quite honestly, from the feedback we received about you. But she was like, I just feel like if I had to reach out to him, it would turn me off more. That has been kind of unsure as it is. So if he reached out to me, I would go on a second date, but I just felt like I wasn't motivated enough to do it. And I loved that she backed me up on that and was like, okay.

well, maybe he will, and maybe you'll feel like you want to go on a second date, but in the meantime, I'm looking for another person for you. And I've just been really pleased with this experience. And again, like, I'm not getting paid to talk about this right now. You know, like they purchase an ad on our show. But other than that, you know, this is on me and this is something that I voluntarily wanted to do and sign up for. And I just wanted to share it. I'm seeing some articles. I think maybe one of the cut of like matchmaking is back, you know, like it's this thing. And I love it. I love that someone else is like doing the work for you and vetting people and knowing what you want and finding people that have those qualities. I think about it all the time when people say like I wanted this first

date and the spark wasn't there and like do you follow up with the person or not. And like there's the added level of like I think they should follow up with me and I think you should ask me for my phone number. So like even removing that I just think my issue with Indian matchmaking, which I'm obsessed with that show. I love it so much. It's so wholesome was I thought that the feedback all the time was like, well it's not always going to be such a hit after a first day and you got to like accept you're only going to get like 70% of what you want from somebody. And I just, I just feel like if there's no spark on a first date and you don't walk away, you said to me, I haven't thought about this in a couple days. And to me, I was like, okay, that to me is like,

there's no spark. You'd find you're like talking to him, but like you didn't think about it for a few days. I know. I think you're right. Like, I've had a lot of dates. I've hooked up with some people. Like, I know when someone like lingers on my mind a little. And I just was like, I haven't thought about this guy. Like, you feel like that was like a fever dream. Like, did that happen? Like, did I vibe with someone this hard? But I'm not sure if I am attracted to them. It was weird, honestly. And my gut feeling was like, I will go out with him if he contacts me. And I just don't want to do it.

Yeah, I don't want to force it. And especially, like you said, like, I didn't get your phone number. He would have if he wanted to. I mean, my feeling was that maybe he was trying to respect the process. But, like, he's an adult man. He would have gotten your number if he wanted. And maybe he was like, I'll get it for the matchmaker or whatever. But I don't know.

If I go home and I'm not marinating on this whole night thinking about this. The last, like, two dates I went on. I got home and I just didn't really think about it. I didn't care if I heard from them the next day. It just didn't sit with me like, oh my gosh, am I going to hear from them? And it's not because I was so busy. I just didn't care. I know.

It's a weird thing. It's a weird thing to like have that type of conversation and back and forth and then be like, I don't know if I like him like that. I mean, the guy that I was just hanging out with in Boston, like, he's not on my mind constantly, but we're also messaging and we're texting and communicating. But I'm kind of like, I wonder what he's up to. I'm thinking a little bit about it. Yeah, I know.

So I don't think he's the guy for me. But I was like, you guys nailed it on this personality on paper. Like, wow. And so I had such a warm, nice, supported feeling from my matchmaker after the whole thing. I glad she validated it. I actually thought you were going to tell me that she was going to be like, you need to give people more of a chance. All this stuff was really good because all this stuff really was good.

It sounded like he was respectful, he'd a lot in common. Like, it sounded like a really good date. It was. But also, I know exactly how you feel because I went out with this guy, like, a week and a half ago, two weeks ago. And like, nonstop, four hours, just talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. We laughed. I was like, that's the best person I ever met.

And I don't feel like I want to fuck him. But like that's how we are with our guy friends. Right. Like I'll be friends with this person. I know. Like people are in your life for different reasons. Not that I see a friendship with this guy. I mean, I'd be down for it.

He's got a lot of connections. I'd be down for your friendship. But, you know, it's like Francis. Like, I mean, the moment I met him, I was like, oh my gosh. Like this person is going to be in my life. I don't connect with people like this all the time. We talked all night. We shut the place down.

And that's my friend. You know, that happens. Those relationships happen. I'd just, I'd rather be alone and force it. And it's so interesting, though, and you're like, really connect with somebody and you're like, there's so much to talk about. But I don't need to like fuck you and prolong this. But then I'm like, if he was so sure about me and like being more assertive, like that would turn me on a little. Yeah, of course.

So if this guy was reaching out and being like, yo, I had the best time, like we got to go out again and be like, okay, okay. I'm feeling a little tingle. I'm attracted to your attraction in me. You know how I am. Yeah, but I like that too. Well, like, doesn't it make you feel so sexy when somebody's just like, I can't stop thinking about this person? I want to, like, see you again. Once's the next plan.

You're so funny. Here's this joke. Well, I think about, like, my ex who I just mentioned and he just didn't let up. War you down. I mean, we obviously had such a connection from minute one. But, like, again, was a little unsure, but he really, he kept that moving. Yeah. Listen, men like to wear you down.

And I'm here for it. I'm just saying, like, if I don't wake up being like, I got to see this person again, I'm not being like, I got to see somebody for the sake of seeing somebody. Yeah, and I just, if it's there a little bit, it can grow. But if you feel like it's really not there, because she said that to me too, she was like, I love that you understand that like not everything is chemistry, spark, attraction, moment one. Like, it can build over time. But she was like, I really agree with you on this.

Well, I also feel like a blind date is a little different. Like chemistry, almost like when you can stalk somebody ahead of time, you kind of just get a vibe for like, they're a good person or they're a funny person. You walk in already a little attracted to the person. and like it took a little more time to build this? Totally. I feel like just to even look at this person of what they look like,

what they talk like, what they move like. That was the first hour even, just kind of digesting that. Meanwhile, while they're like peppering me with questions, he's a British guy. He was just fast talking. Like a lot to say, same, same. But it was just, I felt like I had whiplash for a second

in like a sexy way. But do you feel like he was overcompensating? I do that sometimes because if I'm like, there's a silence in the conversation, I have to ask more questions. Not really. I mean, I think he came in hot. He came in real hot where I really had barely gotten my bearings.

And he was like, so how long you load to here? What do you do? And again, I wasn't annoyed. I was like into it. But I felt like in that moment was like, okay, get your energy up. It's going to be a long night. But anyway, guys, at this point, I really can tell you that I support Talkify and there's different levels of things.

And you can sign up for really, like, on the cheap and like just be in the database as someone who can be matched and then obviously it's pricier to have your matchmaker dedicated to you and all that but check it out okay we really need your scandival we need something from you but at this point the reunion has come out

the first part of the reunion it is three parts the first part we watched it this will be a little dated by then but I did watch the finale and you did too I'm really you're saying it to Matt you watched last night I just I know you didn't love it but like you're not in the culture like I am I'm 10 years deep into this for sure I respect it.

And I do feel bad that we can't share this. Not bad enough to go back and watch 10 years. But I do know enough, clearly. I think most of us know enough. And, like, I did watch most of the finale in, like, two different sittings. Yeah, I mean, I don't know that I have anything left to say that other people haven't said. I think that it was just like this episode was this weird apology tour. It was just Tom Sandoval crying in different rooms.

Yeah. I did. The whole episode was just Tom Sandable going to. everybody's apartment and crying. That's all dirty, messy apartments. All he did was just cry in different places, except for his own home where he should have been crying. Oh my God. I think that you can like watch it

and take a lot from it. This girl email, and I want to read her email about her boyfriend's take on it. But, you know, I think that you listen to him talk and he's just like this relationship sort of ran its course. We live separate lives. We weren't having sex. We had different friend groups. You don't have the same interests as me. All those things are super valid. And he was saying,

it feels like you're annoyed by me all the time. You don't ever back me up. We're not a team. Every single thing he said was valid. And I understand breaking up with somebody because of that. And he said, you know, I was afraid to do that because I was afraid about her mental health and her wellness. And every one of these things is super valid. But like, you don't do what he did and cheat on her. You don't cheat on a person. There's no excuse for it. And like, I know life isn't black and white. I know cheating isn't black and white. I know the people make mistakes. But this is not a person that I see is having any remorse for what they have done. He is a I'm sorry but person.

Everything is like, I did this thing, but you didn't fuck me enough. You didn't do enough. for me, you weren't on my team, you weed not be separate lives. And it's just like, I don't see a person who is disgusted by their behavior. Well, to me, watching the finale and like, you know, their big moment in the apartment, you know, screaming at each other, well, they weren't screaming and then all of a sudden they started screaming. It was jarring. But, um, I know. I was like, was she on Zana? Was there like a jump cut here? Like, this is crazy. But I'm curious if it would have just felt different if it wasn't her friend. You know, like if he had just been with some rando, having, A, one hookup with a rando one time, probably could have been forgiven if they'd wanted to stay together or even

differently, like, an affair with like a random person. I mean, it was just kind of like cut too deep. It was just like two terrible things. It's the worst thing I've ever heard of. Yeah. And I was thinking like, it's the worst thing I've ever heard of. And people I was watching around to do these interviews this week and people were like, why do you think this caught on? It's like such a big deal. For this long. For this long. It's the worst thing I've ever. It's the worst thing I've ever ever heard of. Like, people cheat, people have a fair, sure. To have an affair with somebody who's in your home with your significant other on a constant basis is the sickest, most unimaginable, like, inhumane thing I can honestly ever imagine doing to a person. Yeah. I don't care if you came

home every day and she beat the shit out of you. I just, I can't imagine such a thing. And to watch Raquel kind of like laugh about it and smirk and be like perfectly fine, to be honest about this, I feel like I'm looking into the face of like evil. I know. Real evil. Like, one of the confessional style interviews. I was like, she is so giggly. Uh-huh. I mean,

I get that she was talking about this guy who she's probably in love with on some level, but I was like, we can't just show a little remorse. She's like, I mean, I just really wanted to sleep

with somebody who I loved like a friend. She's laughing. I mean, it's truly, I know, I was like, I feel you on this,

like, that's the face of evil. I've never seen anything like it. You can't even pretend to care. I don't. I think she is. actually one of the dumbest people on earth. I mean, I don't...

I know that everybody dances around. Don't call her stupid. She's stupid. I don't know if she's like capable of processing thoughts that deeply. Like, I don't know what the other explanation is. It's not just like being a sociopath or a narcissist or a palatological liar. Like, this doesn't seem to be a person that is capable of processing what they have like really done to a person. It doesn't seem like a person that has the depth and the intelligence. Like, I don't think that she's like understanding the depth of this. And I know people that have had affairs. I know people that have cheated. I know plenty of people that have done stuff like this. I don't know one person that has ever had an affair with

somebody that the significant other is their friend. I don't know. Maybe it's done such a thing. It's so sick. It's so horrifying. Yeah. Obviously, not personally. You don't know. But I think that happens all the time. Yeah. I'm sure it happens. I'm just like those people are around you, you know. Yeah. It's just, it's unbelievable. So I guess I understand why I took off and, somebody wrote this email and I just thought it was interesting and I mean it just reminded me of every man that's walked into a room at the end of like a reality show I watched selling sunset with Jeremy yesterday

I love watching reality TV shows with men because they're like this is stupid and they ask like 400 questions this email's short, read it to you guys get your take on it also I'm really appreciating that you're like really going back and forth of you about this I mean I've said it before that I've never seen something in pop culture

last this long I'm almost bored it's two and a half this was March 1st you're going to die I remember exactly where I was when Scandamall broke. I was at the Tampa Marriott in bed watching the Murdoch documentary. Texting Hannah Burner, is this true? Well, the night before we were in Miami and the latest episode was on and we were at Laura's and I go, is this an old episode?

Because it just looked so dusty. I think the show is low budget, but whatever. And Raina was like, this is the new episode. And so I caught like five minutes of it. So that's the first five minutes of Vanderpumperals I've ever seen. Oh my God. The first time I've ever watched the show, we watched maybe 10, 15 minutes of it the night before this broke. In your mind that day where you're like, I can't believe I've had to deal with this for two days. And now we're like three months in. Yes. So this email came in and this girl said,

I went over to my best friend's house to watch the Vanderpumperals finale last week. Her husband made her pause the show and rewinds so he could hear what Ariana was saying. Then proceeded to go on about all the things Ariana did wrong, how they never had sex, how she wasn't listening to Tom, and then what. on about how Tom did everything right. He tried to sit down and have a conversation. As someone who's been cheated on, I found this very triggering. What do you think? And is this a red flag. I mean, to me, this is somebody who walked into a room and got five minutes of information and just like doesn't understand. I don't know how you could ever hear that somebody had an affair with someone's best friend and back them up at all. Like all the things he felt, like I said, are totally normal. And I completely understand them and you break up with somebody and you move on

with your life. Like Sheena said, you know, you just let people pick up the pieces for you. To me, this is just like a guy that walked into a room and got five minutes of information. If you say to the person, like, here's some more texture and they still say, I think she did everything wrong. Yeah, I think that's weird victim blaming. And I think that like all these dumb little things that Tom Sandoval used to justify his behavior was gross and childish and weird and unfair. Yeah. I mean, I have a friend whose husband and, you know, father of their one child have an insane affair on her. and like just the amount of lies and hiding things over significant, you know, months of time

was like shocking to me. I mean, she told me earlier this year, we went to dinner and I couldn't even stomach it, you know, and same stuff, you know, but whatever. I don't need to get into the weeds about this. But just, you know, of course he had excuses. Of course he had, you know, midlife crisis. We weren't having the same type of sex. You know, I just view you as like a mom kind of thing, which is just fucked, like, your dad, what? But there's so many more steps before the affair. And, like, again, like, we did this whole episode with Esther Perel about cheating. And it's like, there's just differences to me between a slip up in Vegas and then a full-blown

line to your partner's face every day. Like, you have somehow decided you're so much of the victim that you're allowed to do this. That's so true. You're in the right. Like, but there's so much. many more steps before you get to that point. Oh my gosh. That is so true. You've decided that you're the victim. Yeah. And that like, because to me, like, I couldn't carry this on because every day I would come home and be like, I can't let this person be nice to me, knowing what I am doing to them.

Yeah. Whether they knew the person I was having an affair with or not. I would know that every day I was lying to your face and, well, you're cooking me dinner, you're standing up for me in front of other people. You're like being my ride or die. And I'm just like lying to you and manipulating you. And when you find, out, it will ruin your life. It will shake your ability to ever trust a person again, to ever feel safe and secure in a relationship ever again. I know it will ruin your life. And it doesn't matter because I just feel so bad about what we don't have sex enough. Well, and to like extrapolate on it further, you have so much resentment towards your partner that you feel justified and cheating. So how did we get here without a conversation? You know, like again, there are different

circumstances. There are certainly like, well, I tried all that. I tried to tell my partner, I would try to go to therapy. They said they were going to commit suicide if I broke up with them. Okay. But if all those things haven't happened, I'm not saying you need to go through a checklist of all these things. But like, if cheating is the first thing you do, you haven't brought it up until all of a sudden you're having an affair. I just, I can't wrap my head around it. I think there's so many more steps before you really get to like wrecking someone's life that loves you and cares about you and decided to be committed to you. Like I understand building up resentment where you feel entitled to do shitty stuff. I think we've all been there. I think we've all been resentful and

mad at our partner and we do shitty stuff. I'm not saying I've cheated, but to get to the point where you are fucking their friend is like a high level of deep down hatred contempt. So how did we get here? This took a while. It's so interesting. You're so right. I'm like so, listen, I think with them there's this. I don't know. I don't know I'm talking about also with them. You really do know. You do know what you're talking about. I think I'm just only with them. There's this added. layer of like they're on a show together. Their incomes are based on each other and based on being together on the show. And you know, you think you're the celebrity power couple. So uncoupling from that is, of course, another layer to that, whatever. I don't care about him. But

just in general, none of this sounds fun to me. So you're still in this shitty relationship where you hate this person and you have to lie all the time. And you can't just be open about what you're doing. Like, I can't just exit this thing I hate and go be in something I enjoy. This sounds like making your life worse, not better. It seems like such a more male behavior to not think about the future. Like talking about my friends, like not thinking about your kid. Uh-huh. What?

Like the level of selfishness. Yes. Like you brought a kid to the world. Like now you're the cheating dad forever. That will like ruin that kid's life. Yeah. Seriously. And all the lives of that child's significant others that they date.

Ugh. So glad we talked about this. Okay. Well, really quick. We both watch Selling Sunset in full, and I guess we have different feelings, because I did like it. I don't think you're going to feel differently than me.

I mean, I like the way the show is shot. Like you said, Vanderpupor's feels a little low budget. It is the most beautiful show. I didn't like the same thing I didn't like about last season. I just wish we would have seen more of the characters. Like, Mary is trying to have a kid. We don't hear about this until the ninth episode. Amanda has cancer, perhaps.

We don't hear about this until the ninth episode. Chrisel is in the first, relationship she's ever had with a non-binary person who's assigned female at birth. Like, I would have just liked to see more of this. Like, I think it's really nice that, like, Heather and she's so close with Terrick's daughter. Like, I loved all these snippets I got in people's lives. And I was just like, I'm being forced to watch this manufactured fake-ass bullshit fight between, like, Nicole and Crichelle.

And, like, she's clearly cast to have a problem with Crishel. And they couldn't even sell me on a good lie. I know this is all fake. I know everything is fake, but like, sell me a good lie about why she's a problem with Chrisel. Yeah. I mean, that's my problem with the season. Yeah, I mean, I'm with you.

Like, I'm like, who's this stepdaughter? Like, I do want to see more of that. Like, I like these people, not all of them, but like, I love Crishel. She was so spicy, so funny. I know. And I love her friendship with Emma. I love Emma. I love Heather.

I just, I love, but I just want to see these women's lives more. I know. I know. The way she stuck up for herself, I was like, good for fucking you. She didn't like bring up drama. I mean, I know she accused her up being a drug addict, but I feel like she didn't back down from stuff in a way that I appreciate. It wasn't so angry.

It wasn't screaming. She was just like, you're not going to do this to me. The drug story. The drug storyline is insane. Like, first of all, that mic drop of like, well, and you're on drugs. Like, everybody's face, Heather was like, Mary was like, uh, we, uh, well, um, um, um, um, uh, Mary, like short-circuited. And we love Mary.

We've had her on the show, but she did not know what to do. And, yeah, accusing someone of being a drug addict isn't cool, but they acted like her saying she does drug sometimes was like being a sex offender. I mean, it was crazy.

I'm sorry, doesn't everybody do drugs? Like, how do you think they fit into those outfits, you guys? Listen, not that I've done a lot, but I would never again do any sort of party drug just because of like fentanyl. Those days are over. I did like twice. But, you know, everybody we know is doing mushrooms.

Like, I just don't. Like the drugs accusation was so crazy to me because am I in the wrong here? No, because I will say that. It seemed like she accused her being a sex offender, like a pedophile. People acted like, this is so crazy. You could destroy somebody's reputation. But Chrisel, she invalidated her own argument because she was like, I have seen her smoke weed and take mushrooms and drink alcohol.

I don't know what's in that cocktail. Like alcohol is not drugs, Chrisel, let's back it up. And then mushrooms, half this country microdoses on mushrooms for just the mental health of it. And then weed? Well, and Michelle, that was hysterical. But then, like, it became very clear that people were doing coke at Mary's Bachelorette. I know.

Mary was like, and it's disrespectful to me. I'm like, what? You guys did some lines at the Bachelorette. I can feel it. And then Amanda's, like, I have kids. You can't bring this up. This is detrimental. Yeah, we were all doing coke at a bachelorette.

Are you an at a bachelorette if there isn't coke? Listen, we don't know for sure. And we don't want to make accusations because apparently accusing people of doing drugs is like a cardinal sin. Okay, but when she went and got that, nothing was funny or when she got the drug test. Like when she handed it with that read it and weep energy, I lost my shit. Well, Jeremy and I look at each other and we go, you can't get results from a drug test back in two hours. And she's like, oh, she's out for the day.

And then, Chrisel was like, is it going to be reported to a third party? Are they just going to email her the results? That was so good. I will not ever get over that drug storyline. That was insane. It's the funniest thing I've ever seen. When she said they're just going to email her the results, because when she's like, here you go, I was like, there's no results on that piece of paper.

She's like, I went and did it. And it wasn't like a mic drop moment. Everybody was like, why are you so bothered by this? If somebody accused me being on drugs, you think I'm going to waste three hours of my vacation to get a drug test? I'm like, ooh, you got me. I mean, I will say, I always said that I would like the show without Christine. I don't think we need her.

And I enjoyed this season. I'm with you. I just want to see more of these people. But that's just how I am in general, because I don't really get off on like all the drama. Like I like seeing their friendships and seeing what they have going on in their lives. Like I genuinely after, you know, five seasons like these characters and want to see what they're doing in their lives. So I like the personal storyline's better too.

Like we didn't see enough of Amanda and just different things. But the fashion is out of control. They've gone too far. They cross the line. There's too many gloves. They are dressed for the Metgala at an open house at two in the afternoon. Thank you. I'm so glad that you brought this up.

I have some photos. We'll show them in the YouTube. Like, it's fun to watch. and honestly at this point make fun of because it's so insane. It's so insane. Listen, they've gone too far. I don't know how they're eating because half of them are in gloves, shirts that go directly into the glove.

Pants that are boots. This is just like a restaurant in West Hollywood. They're out to dinner. Chelsea looks like she's going to a slutty prom. But that doesn't even bother me as much as like the open house gowns. I'm sorry. That was a penthouse, open house, in a condo building on Hollywood Boulevard.

gowns. There's under titty, there's side titty. That was the most shocking thing I've ever seen. It was like they were all going to a wedding. It was a very slutty wedding. And I post this on my story last night

that after I finished season six, it rolled right into season one, episode one. So the fucking pilot. And I'm like, what in the Banana Republic are these outfits? Heather's just wearing like slacks and a sweater. Like, Mary's in like a sheath dress from Anne Taylor loft.

I mean, I get it. You start, like, you make more money and you see yourself on TV and you make a bunch of changes. Like, whatever, we've changed our looks. But it's insane to wear that into the office. Chelsea is the top top. Like, the wildest stuff I've ever seen in public. Like, I wouldn't even wear this stuff to a live show. Her shirt was a hard shell.

She wore that, like, skirt, you can't sit in. Yeah, that diesel belt, like, they came out and said this wasn't ever made to wear off the runway. And she was like, I'll wear it. And she was like, I don't have sit down like a Barbie doll. that's not bent at the waist. She was like, but also I was like, bitch then how'd you get here? What was the vehicle? She walked.

She rode the bus standing. Manhattan Beach. From Manhattan Beach. I mean, I still love the show. I'm totally with you. I mean, the drama is beyond manufactured. I saw this meme that was like me trying to figure out what Nicole's beef was and it was the red string and all the like.

Your stories last night were very funny. It's always sunny. Yeah, it's just, it's super memeable. And again, though, I feel. great that we had a season that I liked without Christine. And I'm just like, I love Crischel and she carried the season on her back. And I think like the other meme that I posted was like, this guy said his favorite part of the show is Jason's obsession with apparel spritzes.

He's literally just found out about him. This 46 year old man or whatever who's traveled the world just found out about apparel sprits. I'm sorry. My crew has been drinking these for at least five to eight years. I can't even reach the bar. Chrisel, like, one of the funniest mic drops of the season. She's like, I almost had a child with this man.

And he doesn't know what I drank. Well, no, Chrisel's, my favorite mic drop was when they were saying that Mary Lou, like, studied economics. And she was like, well, obviously she's good economics. It's economically smart today, Jason. That is so funny. She just was on fire. Literally on fire. Also, she's my nominee of her best dress of the season.

And she was not great dressed her first season. She was like a normal person. But like I thought she struck the good balance this season of like really high, fun, over the top fashion that still seemed normal and appropriate for the place she was out. Like when they were in Palm Springs, she's the only bitch that showed up in jean shorts and a halter top and some sneakers. You're right. Yeah, she is like the most reasonably dress. But listen, like we can sit here and talk about how insane the fashion is, but I still like it. It's funny to me.

It's funny to wear those to an open house. Yeah. Well, okay. Craziest dress of this season is Amanda for me. Amanda. The stuff she showed up. She went to see a house in Manhattan Beach with a giant black visor hat and the biggest black dress I've ever seen. And also a saucer that looked like a frisbee around her neck.

And she has a different hair every time, which I love it. I'm living for it. But she was just at like happy hour at some bar with the full like gloves. Kim Kardashian Met Gallo style. The amount of gloves this season was egregious. I know. Oh, I also just want to go back to Grishel. I just stand, Grishell.

I love this thing that she said at the very end when she was talking to Mary and she was like, your career will properly always be there. You can kind of always figure it out. Like she didn't say like you'll always have a career because that's not really a accurate statement to make, but she was like, your relationship may not. And like basically I can pick my career back up. Right now I really want to focus on this relationship. And those things are much like true love is harder to come by. And I just loved that. I love it too. Like I really love the sentiment of like my heart is not in this right now. I'm going to take a break and be with this person. I mean, again, this is just like a reality show, but their relationship is real.

Oh, yeah. And I love to see it, and it is so unexpected, and I really enjoyed it. Ashley, what if I said that to you? What if I was like, listen, our career will always be here? Oh, you can't say that. That doesn't apply. I was just imagining myself having this conversation with you would be way less happy. Well, we're also a partnership.

Like, it hits a little different than leaving the Oppenheim group, which is may or may not be real. Bree, as in addition to this season, I don't know. know. I mean, she was cast to have drama with people. Chelsea was told to have a problem with it. You know, I don't know. It's not for me to have people that are just cast just to have a problem with people. That's how I didn't like Christine. I think Christine is a horrible sociopath. I don't feel like that about Brie. I have no feelings about her as a human being. I started to like Brie. I liked her moments of like, I don't care if you don't agree with my life. It's done your business. Get over it. Like I liked the way she spoke about it. She never really got riled up. I wonder like how much the producers are like,

no, you have to double down on this. Do you think Chelsea's like, hey, I really don't care that much? And they're like, you have to care. Yes. And you have to double down. Like, Nicole, actually, I can't stand Nicole. Like, again, we don't know how much these people are like playing a part. Her character, I couldn't stand.

But do you think that producers are like, yeah, Nicole, no one really understands what the beef is, but you have to play into this. Like, who would sign up for that? Yes. I would never sign up for it. I think that like some people, if they really are real estate agents, I think they're like, people are going to see me like looking great, selling homes. It's good for my business.

I'm more famous than maybe somebody who's not. not well known, so maybe like I'll get some business from it. To me, Nicole specifically, this made her look terrible. At least, Bree, this didn't make her look bad. She was just like, this is my life. If you don't want to do what I do, bring, don't do it. Bree came out looking no different than going in. I'm, yeah.

I feel like Chelsea has a husband and two kids and a life and she's like. The biggest fake tips on the planet. It was insane. She has two. My mom was like, those boobs. I made my mom watch it. She was not a fan. Wild.

I made my dad watch it. He was a fan of their bodies. But no normal person is like, I'm going to just keep hitting this person about their life and hitting and hitting and hitting and like most people would just, even if it's true that she's like, I'm a Christian, I don't believe in this. I, like she said, she brought up being a Christian twice. And also she did say like, I don't think this is good for children. Well, you and I say this all the time. When someone has a problem with like a belief that we hold or something we talk about in the show, you can usually dig a little deeper if they email us some really long email and you see where it's personal in a way. So if all that, which I'm assuming is obviously her true. story, like about feeling abandoned by her parent, that's why it's triggering her. It always comes out on the end of like why you really have a problem with someone and the way they're living their life. It's because it's something that you've dealt with in your own life. Yeah. And listen, if all she was saying was like, yeah, I don't think it's healthy to bring a

child into this world that has 10 half siblings with five different mothers and how could that father ever show up for them in a real way? I think that that's a valid feeling. But I think that a normal person like her who's like busy as a husband, has two children, says it maybe once or maybe says it never and moves on with their fucking life. Especially because her energy was like if you accuse me being a drug addict, I wouldn't care and I'd move off my life because I'm not. So it's like those energies don't match. Like the energy of like I would just keep it moving.

I don't care because that's not my truth. It's not the same energy. It's like I need to dig my heels into the way that you live your life. Like she probably doesn't really care but she's willing to play the part. Uh-huh. And I think that they said to Heather, they're like, you're the pregnant one. So you're going to have to get in the middle. You're going to get the middle of everybody.

I think Chelsea was saying like, they're talking about like how the can and it gets away with this. And she said, well, maybe he just is a master manipulator. And Heather turns around, or maybe somebody else in the cast was like, they said he's a master manipulator. And it's like, that's not really what they said. They're pontificating about how this could possibly happen, which was a normal thing to say. I certainly don't understand it at all. Yeah. I will never understand the Nick Cannon thing. And again, I have no judgment. I don't give a fuck about these women wanting to procreate with him. but literally how. There's so many other rich celebrities in the world

that don't have 12 kids with six women or whatever the number is. Like, I don't get it. He's not exceptionally, like, attractive. I truly don't understand it because I think, you know, these beautiful women who prefer men with money and status could find other guys.

Also, looking like Bree, and she's so beautiful. Like, she couldn't say it enough. Like, I don't depend on him for money. I mean, her client list, maybe it's real, I don't know, she's showing sweetie around houses. That was one of my favorite houses. Their clients were outrageous, Justin Bieber's producer. Yeah.

Like, her clientless. Honey boo-boo or something. Boob-bear? Boob-bear. Or poo bear. Okay. And then that boxer's wife, like, she has. Well, it might be all fake.

Yeah, it could all be fake for sure. But, like, she says, like, I make my own money. So it's not because she, like, needs money. I don't understand it. I don't need to. It's not my life. None of my business. But I don't understand why you would choose that man.

to bring a kin to the world knowing that that kid is going to feel like his dad has 10 other kids with all these other women. Then he's like spread so thin. Like I truly don't understand it. You couldn't actually even fantasize about the fact that he would be a father that would be there. That is going to be an absent father. Just the numbers. What was the thing they were saying that after 10 kids, they don't have to be child support anymore?

Well, then I saw that that wasn't true. I don't know. I didn't really look it up. But someone said, like, I can't believe I'm learning family law on selling sunset. And then someone else in the comments was like, that's not actually true. I don't know. I mean, at some point though, I mean, somebody could go to court and say, like, it's not realistic for me to be able to support five people. So I can pay $1,000 a month, divvy it up, you know?

It's like, you're not even financially getting somebody who's there for you the way you needed to. So I do think it's like a normal thing for Chelsea or anybody on the fucking planet to be like, maybe I don't agree with this. But I think the rest of it was manufacturing. The producers are like, you're going to get in there. Yeah. So it's something I realize a lot. I noticed on a lot of reality TVs is in group dinners. They always assign somebody to be like, how's everybody doing?

To start the drama. Yes, they made Leva do it on Southern Charm all the time. They did on Summer House recently. But it's not real. Like, no one sits around and does that. And then one person was like, actually, I'd like to start a fight here tonight. Like, it's not like how it works. So, yeah, I think it's all fake.

If she wasn't on this season, I would have been happier. But then we would have gotten all these Griselle moments. I know. I know. Okay. Okay. Here's the other things I'm watching. And maybe we'll deep dive on a couple of them.

And I just think we're really blessed with all these shows right now. Okay, also I watched Anna Nicole Smith on Netflix, the Bama Rush documentary on HBO, which we're really excited to get into. The Bear Season 2 is coming out, but I don't know if it's coming out until mid-June. The Hillsong documentary and Chow House on Food Network, which my very good friend, Sarah Afetto, is on it. She's one of the chefs, and I'm just really loving watching her on TV. So those are all of my racks, and we'll deep dive on some more.

Yeah, as we're recording Bamar Rush comes out, like, tonight. That's the plans for tonight. Yeah. Bamma Rush Doc in my Hello Fresh. Okay. So again, this episode was just kind of us like shooting the shit. It's a holiday episode. It's Memorial Day weekend, but we're, you know, unofficial start to summer.

And so we just wanted to talk about clearing your energy for summer and living your best life and just really getting rid of all the stuff in your past that might be holding you back. And exes or people who ghosted you or, you know, friend breakups or just general toxic energy that stuff. you could kind of just be holding on to, and then it's going to hold you back from having the best summer ever. Yeah. So we're always continuously getting emails about how do I get over this person

or how do I get over someone that ghosted me out of the blue that I had a relationship with, you know, or how do I get over somebody that I didn't really date that seriously and I feel silly. And, you know, I just think that I want to validate how hard it is to get over someone when you're confused on why it ended,

why you can't, like, comprehend or they didn't give you the courtesy of explaining anything to you or you're searching for answers or, you know, you still have feelings for them. And I just think that we've said this over and over. Like, you really have to tell yourself that it's not your person, that people who hurt you and leave your life are making space for people that are meant to be in your life. And then it's for the best. And I think it's so empowering when you can find closure and move on by yourself and do something for yourself that you thought you needed someone else to do for you. I think there's like a lot of power and like collective energy. So we kind of just wanted to like get everyone all together

and like being this together and really just clear out the energy and make space for like new awesome things. It doesn't necessarily have to be dating or finding a partner just having fun, making friends, doing cool shit and like having a great summer. I mean, this really is the first non-pandemic summer since 2020. Oh my gosh. Officially. Yeah. And if you beat yourself up for these things about like why is it so hard for me to be over somebody I didn't really date or How could they have ghosted me? I think there's such a level of like, where were the signs? Should I pay attention more?

Like, how could I not have seen like the line or this is coming? And I think that we beat ourselves up. And it's like, you shouldn't beat yourself up for enjoying something that felt nice for a little while, not looking for every clue that somebody's going to be terrible. And then when it ends being like, should I have seen this? I don't know. If somebody's nice to you, isn't it nice to just lean into it and feel like they're not going to be horrible to you at the end of it.

And so there is a level of beating yourself up and just stop. It's fine. That wasn't your person. thank God they showed you early on. Yeah. You know? And we talked about this before or we said like,

do you really want to be with a person like that that would do something like that unkind to you? And you don't. Yeah. I mean, when someone does something shitty

and they don't care about you or they ghost you with no explanation or your friend stabs you in the back or they don't show up for you. They're showing you who they really are. They're telling you and watch these signs early and don't go down the road with these people any longer than you have to.

But it really is about knowing, your value and your self-worth and you're meant for better things and for better people and you look at it as a blessing truly. I know it's hard to believe in the moment, but when we've hammered this a million times, this is not new information coming from us, but like it truly is always meant to be when someone like that who was like any level of toxicity in your life leaves your life. Yeah. So it's clear your energy summer. Clear your energy summer. And I say this. Like I have said this since the beginning of the year that I really wanted to find a partner and I still really feel like that and I'm having fun and I'm all birth control and I feel really great and I've been on more dates

than I can even count and, you know, have had sex and like all the things and I still feel like I'm on that journey but I really just feel like everybody listening like have fun with or without dating the summer, truly. I don't want to put all the focus on like dating guys or girls whoever you date, you know, just have fucking fun. Someone said feral girl summer and I'm like, I love that. Just fucking go wild. Well, we got this email and it was this girl. I felt really choked up about this. This girl was talking about this guy who really ghosted her in a horrific way.

They were supposed to go on this trip. And she said, you know, I was crying and I was so devastated. But the email ended with her saying that she went on the trip with her friend. And I, like, felt really happy about it. It made me feel warm inside. She was like, I still cried on the trip

and I still was upset. But, like, to know that you can, like, lean on somebody else and still have fun and life goes on. And you can still do all these things with her without a partner. Like, really warm my heart. It made me feel really happy.

Yeah, we're only having fun this summer. Truly, we're officially out of the pandemic. I mean last summer, like, you know, it felt like we were, but like officially. Well, last summer, per the government. If you will remember, it was a chaotic meltdown of all airports because we're traveling in years. And so now we're for that. Now hopefully we're like staffed up.

Allegedly. We're not losing luggage at airports. There's not going to be an airport strike. We're staffed up. Right. Last summer was just like all the shit you wanted to do was super crowded because we'd been like locked up. So I just think if dating's not fun for you, don't date.

If it is fun for you, do date. If you're like, I don't want to sit down for dinner anymore or even drinks, I want to go mini-golf, play pool, play games. Only do that. Think if something is going to be fun and do it. And if it's not, don't. And I know you have to work and stuff and that sucks. Same with us. But your job. Quit your job. Yeah. No, I want to validate not everything's fun. As someone who hoped that would be their truth, that's not true is my truth. But just when it comes to like your extracurricular time, then your job.

dating life. Yeah. And your social life. Every part of your life. I love this energy. Okay. Well, we ask people what their goals were for the summer and I just, I found it really uplifting and a really large range of what everybody said in terms of like not dating, dating, finding a partner and not finding a partner. Can I show you my favorite one? Yeah. I'm still a virgin and I still want to have a threesome by the end of the summer. I mean, she is going full sense. Zero to 60. Zero to 100. Oh my gosh. Yeah, I mean, again, like devote energy into dating. Or some. To never use dating apps, only meet men in the streets. I want to play men like they play us. Okay. I love that toxic energy. Get eaten out by every guy's sleep with. Meanwhile, not giving a single blow job. And on the other end of that, make out and go down on more women. I love that. Stay single and a little bit sketchy, noncommittal. Big if I were a man, energy. Fuck outside. Okay, lots about boats. Fuck on a boat and only date men who have boats. respect that so hard. I love boats. All I care about is boat. Yeah. Literally go on a date. Go on so many dates. I don't

need to buy groceries. Literally just one kiss would be great. Like, where you have the bar is low? I have a question. Can you explain this to me? Okay. As many DFMOs as possible. Dance floor makeouts. Wait, really? Is that just like a thing people know about? Tessa didn't know. Tessa didn't know. Tessa? Or is that a millennial thing? I bet it is. Well, I mean, I don't know it. And Tessa doesn't know it, but I respect the quickness with which you came out with that. Well, I just knew what it was. So go on fun dates. again, like I said, mini golf darts, I don't care, but I want to be doing things. I love that. And, like, you can decide that. I mean, listen, if someone really put thought and energy into a place they want to take you, like, it's not the best look to be like, I'd rather do something else. But, like, if you're in charge of planning or you have a say in it, like, there's no harm in being like, let's do, like, a fun activity. There's no energy I like more than I want to be doing things.

There's no less energy like my, like all I want to do is do nothing. But when I do do things, I'm always happier. So I love that energy. Move on from my rancid swine. scum of an ex. Oh, there's no better summer than right now, you guys. I want to make out with a muscular, tatted hottie. Fuck European men. Going to make my husband landscape our yard. Love that.

Masturbate daily. You could do that. Oh, I like this. Finishing my kiss list, trying to kiss every letter of the alphabet. Oh, I love that. Going to Greece. The hardest one would be X. X. X is definitely.

Zander. Okay. Y. Yonis, which, speaking of Yonis, going to Greece for 10 days. naming for 10 makeouts, which I will all be named Yannis last summer. Hot hookup. So if you are looking for a Y, go to Greece, you'll find him.

If I could pick one person to watch you have sex with, that's the one. That's a great choice. We were in the car. Yeah, but I feel like, Raina, at one point you'd be like, stop choking her. It was like in a headlock and like, I didn't know him. Like, when we were out, I was like, Raina, do you think it's okay that I be in the house alone with this guy? Like, he's a stranger.

Like, he could just snap my neck. and you were like, I'm sure it'll be fine. But like, I feel like if you watched it, you'd be a little like, is he about to snap her neck? Wait, what did I ask you in the car? I said, would you rather watch me have sex or watch me throw up today?

It was when I was in the car. Yeah, what was it? I'd been throwing up all day. And I said, would you rather watch me throw up or have sex with somebody? I would rather watch you have sex with that guy than most things. I was so hot.

I don't want to see that dick. It was pretty good. The full entire tatted body. Yeah. And the man bun. All right. Well, watch your friends have sex. Put that on your list.

Here's the thing. Here's my assignment. Here's my homework for everybody listening. Pick a thing. Write it down and do it. Are there to light it on fire. Sage the room. Meditate on it.

That's where I'm out. We're out of people now. No, just one little thing. Like, it can be so simple. It can be like, One kiss, one date, one mini-golf date, one European guy, you know, whatever it is. Or no dates. Make one new friend.

You know, whatever it is. Like, just write it down. Think about it. Meditate on it. And make it happen. We have from now until we're going to give you until Labor Day. So Memorial Day to Labor Day is the perfect goal span. And I will tell you.

So speaking of my brother's wedding six years ago, right before the wedding, I, like, couldn't afford the dress. And I couldn't afford all the travel. and I said to myself, like, Memorial Day is coming up, and I need to really make some goals this summer. And if, like, by the end of the summer, by Labor Day, if I'm not really figuring it out, then I will quit doing the food blog,

and I will, like, move on to some, like, marketing job or I'll go back into tech or whatever. And by Labor Day, I had, like, a couple trips coming up, so I, like, push the date a little bit. And then I met you a couple weeks later, and it changed my life. Oh, my God. So it is a good time to, like, manifest change.

I love that. And just think about, like, what your life looks like and what makes me happy, and whether it's fucking more or fucking less or just finding more friends or quitting your job. It is a good time to do it. And listen, this is a little woo-woo. Raina's probably going to hate it.

But I did this a couple times and I feel like it worked out for me. And that was like an intention bracelet. And so I remember putting it on and then I think I ended up taking it off after I met you when we like started the podcast because I was having such a hard time dealing with, you know, knowing what my next move was and my ex and all this stuff. And so I've found them. There was this one cute shop on Abbott Kinney where I got that one like so many years ago. And it's just like a cute little string beated thing.

and you just see it every time you look down at your wrist. I mean, if you have to tattoo it on yourself, like whatever. But I just love having an intention, however small it may be. And it also could just be like clear the energy of this X or this friend or this bad job getting fired, like whatever it is. Just like clearing it out, making space for new, only positive things. Oh, I don't hate this. I like it. And I really believe in like you get the energy that you put out into the world.

And I feel like you do things with intentionality. And I think if you say to yourself, like, I want to get married. by X date, then you date people that you would marry. You don't date people that are completely wildly wrong for you. So I believe in sending intentions. Okay. Well, have a good summer. We're so happy for you guys.

Get out there and then we'll check back in with you guys. We'll do a question slide on Labor Day and we'll see what you've accomplished. Yes. Yeah, let us know. Like, I really want to hear the success stories. But I'm excited. We have a couple more shows left. And then we have like a summer of travel.

We have my birthday and your birthday. And we're just going to probably go to Dewey and Maccabo. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Well, we hope you enjoy this episode and you can find tour tickets and all of our episodes and a refresh on the website, new photos at girls got to eat.com. And you can follow us on Instagram and TikTok at Girls Gottoeat podcast. I am Ash Hess on social media. Raina is reina.com. And of course, we have this incredible other company called Vibes Only. And if your intention is to masturbate more this summer, we got you or listen to erotic audio, get yourself off more.

We got you on that too. So vibes only.com and vibes only on Instagram. And of course the app is in the app store. And, you know, share this with a friend. Share it with your crush. Make your intentions. And we'll see you next week. Have a good summer, guys.

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