Girls Gotta Eat - I'm a Hustler, Baby feat. Rumble Founder Noah Neiman

Episode Date: September 3, 2018

Are...you...ready...to...RUMBLE? We got down and dirty with Rumble Boxing founder Noah Neiman about starting from the bottom to build a successful brand, how he handles dating when the hustle never stops, DM slides, dog parks, dick pics, and more. Ashley and Rayna also share their upcoming relationship goals, discuss cuffing season, and continue to hate on things other people love. Enjoy! Follow Noah on Instagram at @NoahDNeiman (don't forget The D), Rumble @Rumble_Boxing, and Girls Gotta Eat @GirlsGottaEatPodcast. **Upcoming live shows in NYC, Atlanta, Chicago, and Nashville -- check our Insta and website for info** See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I don't actually feel bad. You can rub her thigh while we make out. I'm good. I'm all set. What a time already. Relive your Jewish. Yeah, so humble boxing. You're starting.

Okay. Jumping. I'm ready. Welcome back to another episode. She wasn't ready. Roll it again. We are coming to you. This is a podcast.

This is a, what are we doing? Coming to you from Mouth Media, powered by Sunheiser. Happy Labor Day. Summer's over. If you're living. listening on the day this comes out, it is Labor Day. I got to tell you guys. Unificial end of summer.

I hate summer so much. Hide it. Hide them. I have to say, Ashley and I hate all the things that other people enjoy. We hate Paris. We hate Las Vegas. Are we talked about hitting Las Vegas? I hate it.

I'm just going to say it. Hate Vegas. There's things I like in Las Vegas. Like what? Leaving. Leaving the airport. I love that. Super cute.

Pick you and me took in front of the summers. The departures area, yes. Anyways, hate summer, not for me. I also have, like, curly Jew hair. So, like, I spend six weeks out of the year. Allegedly. I've, you see how frizzy I get, though. I've never seen this frizz you speak of.

I look so sweaty and frizzy. And there's nothing like I enjoy more than spending, like, two hours trying to look like a human going down into the subway platform for 30 seconds. And then you just look like dog shit. Bugs. bugs are in the summer. The feedos. So here's the thing, guys.

Yes, we did great summer. We had a lot of fun. We traveled, spent a lot of time at the beach. I love that. I'm down with the beach. Of course, like, I like, you know, being in a bikini, clearly I, like, wear bras out in public.

Like, I like to do those things. I like drinking margaritas. Like, I like sunshine and shit. But, like... Yeah, but do that in the fall. The heat. Like, I can't. I'm just not a summertime girl.

I love the fall. You know what I like is those two weeks in the fall. That's the perfect season. Two weeks in the fall. Like, who am I kidding? I'm going to complain all one or two. But, like, I honestly, like, I think some people really are naturally, like, they want cold weather. They want warm weather.

And, like, I think I'm becoming, I'm just a cold weather gal. You always in air conditioning. Like, that's a big deal for you. Yeah, like, I'm never cold. Like, I'm like, I'm out when people are like, oh, my God, I'm freezing. I'm, like, in, like, a bra. A bra top. I just am so glad summer super.

It's not ever yet, technically. but like... Listen, I'm going to get a boyfriend because... Guys, my theory is that you can only get a boyfriend in September or October. Here's why. Okay. These are the only acceptable eight weeks to date. Because you can't date once the holidays start.

You... What? You just can't. You can't start a relationship. Yeah, you can't start a relationship. Over the holidays. Yeah, because I'm just never around. Thanksgiving until January 2nd.

You can maintain one, yeah. Yes, lots of people do that. Never heard of it. And then once winter happens... Always get dumped right before Christmas. Oh my God, I have been done twice before Thanksgiving. It sucks. Okay, anyway.

Nothing to be thankful. You know, once it's winter, it's just I can't date in the winter. I can't show up like all snot-nosed and fris-ing to a date. Oh, my God. I love to date in the winter. All you want to do is stay inside and cuddle and fuck. First dates, not dating, like initial dates. I see.

Okay. And then spring is almost summer. So you can't date, start dating in the spring. And then summer, summer, nobody's starting dating you in the summer. I went on so many dates this summer. And rain, I'd be like, don't be out here dating in July. Don't be out.

How'd they all work out? You got a boyfriend? Oh, my God. Proof my point. Proof my point. You got a date in September and October. Okay. So, you guys, I have to say this.

Raina has never heard the term cuffing season. 30 seconds ago, Ashley told me. I was like, yeah, cuffing season. That's what we're going to talk about. And she was like, I'm sorry, what? I don't know that word. Cuffing season. I mean, it just means like, you just get cuffed up.

Like, guys are, that's when, I think it applies more to guys. Like, guys are, like, wanting somebody to kind of like, lock down with. Post Labor Day, pre- Thanksgiving. In the fall, yeah. Coughing season. Yeah, I think Cuffing season officially starts on, like, actual first day of fall is, like, September 20th or whatever. Like, that's when it officially starts.

So we still have a few weeks to prep, but we are going to hit it hard on the dating scene this fall. We have something planned. We're not going to say it right now. Yeah. We'll hold it off. Yeah, we have a little, like, actual tactic. We're going to date for work. We'll talk about it later.

Yeah, it's fine. It's not important. I'm on these dates for work. I have to have sex with you because it's my job. But anyway, September, October, I'm going to get a boyfriend, I think. Do I even want a boyfriend? We haven't discussed this. Do I want to be bothered with a relationship?

Do you want to? I don't, actually. Are you sure? Yeah. Like, I used to for, like, maybe a year. I would go to sleep every night and I would think, like, God, I would just, like, love somebody to go to sleep with me. Like, I just, I don't know, maybe I just felt really lonely and empty, but, like,

I don't feel like that anymore. I don't feel like that at all. I don't feel, like, I think my life is so full. You know, I, like, cry every single day about, like, how much I love what we do. Every day actually cries. I hate using the work gratitude, but I do feel it on a daily basis. I really love my life. I've never been more in love with my life. But like I do really feel like I want somebody. You want to share that with somebody? I do. And I want somebody that's really busy. I don't want,

I don't want someone that like needs a lot for me. But like I want a person to like. I think that's a good way to put it. Somebody that also has their own shit going on. Yeah. Like someone that just adds to my life and I really like I do like to spend a lot of time at home and just like watching Netflix and ordering food. I just want to share that with somebody besides my dog. I think that's nice. I always say, like, the nice thing about our relationship is that it makes your highs so much higher and it makes your low is not as low. Right. When you can just sort of share that with somebody.

And I agree with you. Somebody that's busy would be really good for your life because you're busy. You're busy. Like, I just want someone to take care of me when I'm hung over. You know, the grub guy? No, like, you know how it is? Like, when I would be hung over. When the grub guy comes over.

Like, when I'm dating somebody and I'm hungover, I'm like, just hold me. Let me just bring me food. Well, you get really low when you're hungover. I get really low. And when I'm with somebody that I'm dating, I don't get as low. Like, I'm just like, can you just snuggle me and bring me some gatorade? Guys, I don't have a lot of needs. You don't.

You're not a needy person. But yeah, I'm excited for the fall. Yeah. What do we have some live shows coming up? Yeah, live shows. Chicago, we're coming for you. Atlanta, we're coming for you. Oh, we're saying it.

Chicago and Atlanta are on the books. We will announce dates and give ticket links and everything like that soon. But yeah, like fall, dating, new cities, new guys. Yeah, I'm going in Mexico City. I'm going to D.C. I'm going to Nashville. Shit. Are we going to time to fuck?

I'm definitely fucking in Portugal. You got to fucking Portugal. Get you some Portuguese, man. Ooh, shit. Get that. Portuguese stuff? I'm going to Mexico to say with a gay guy. So I'm not fucking in Mexico.

Or maybe. I'll turn a guy. I wouldn't put it past it. You know. What are we doing? What are we talking about? What are we talking about? We have spiraled.

Speaking of hot dick. Anyways, happy Labor Day. We have a hot dick in the studio that's today. He's fine with this. Should we cut this? No, keep it. Keep it. Okay.

Anyways, we have somebody that I grew up with in the studio today. Super excited. Everyone, we'd like to welcome. No one Neiman from Rumble Boxing. No one. Rumble boxing in Pittsburgh, apparently. I am from Pittsburgh. What?

Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. You guys go way back. We do go way back. Jewish summer camp? Camp. Did you just say you never got a blowjob at camp? Because that was weird. That was a weird way to first enter this conversation.

That I never gave a blowjob at camp. You guys back up. It's 2018, you do whatever you got to do. How old are you at camp? That Jewish camp. What were we, 11th? Middle school? I don't know.

Are people blowjobbing? Oh, you learn about the words. Blowjabing? Is that a verb like that? Also, let's just be clear. I didn't volunteer this information. Noah brought it up. I did.

Well, I'm just saying like at summer. camp, that's what you do. Like, you learn about things. That's when you first learned. That's like when you play like live doctor. Yeah. Yeah, you'd like sneak out the middle of the night, make out with kids and like the bunks.

I think I made out with like all of Noah's friends. I don't think we ever made out. No, we did. It's okay. It's fine. It just big leaped you so hard. Wow. It's okay.

I guess it was forgettable. That's fine. It was like 20 years ago. That's all good. That's fine. I'm just, my ego's just shot right off the bad. We do you make out now. I'd make out with you now.

Would you make out with me now? God bless. That would be kind of awkward for you if we just like, we're like, fuck this podcast. We're just going to go back to Emma Kaufman camp, circa, like, 1995. Noah came on the podcast to try to get Raina back. That's really it. She's like the one that got away. This is a live bumble interaction.

I'm just going to swipe on your blouse, right. I don't actually feel bad. You can rub her thigh while we make out or something. I'm good. I'm all set, you guys. What a time already. Relive your Jewish. Yeah, so humble boxing.

So, aside from growing up, aside from growing up with me, you're actually a very interesting, dynamic, successful man. So we are excited to hear your story. So you started rubble boxing. What is rumble boxing? So rumble boxing is a 45 minutes strength and conditioning workout that utilizes the sweet science of boxing, something that's been a passion that's kept me sane for pretty much all my life. It's incredibly therapeutic. But we wanted to bring boxing and kind of group fitness to. a different group of people, especially boxing.

Boxing can be very intimidating, but it's such a great workout. It's so, you know, in terms of efficacy, in terms of getting your body in shape, it's incredible. There's no rival, really. And in terms of therapeutically, there's not really a rival to it. There's just something empowering about bawling up your fist and punching it. But the gym can be, especially a boxing gym, can be very intimidating. So we wanted to bring that skill in that sport to a broader audience. So I under Rumble boxing.

Yeah, I mean, I go. It's my favorite. There's really like, you know, there's other workouts there. I don't really just, for cardio, I don't love to run on a treadmill, like, I'll go spin. But like, the way you guys set it up and so, you know, people know, like, you box and you go on the floor and, like, do other, like, strength training exercises. So, like, but the cardio workout, you get boxing. And, like, also, I've only taken your classes. Your music is insane. Like, I'm like, no and I are like music soulmates. Like, what you play, I'm like, I can't even believe the, like, play. I'm like, I can't even believe the, like, play. playlist that you curate for like that type of experience. It's insane. So aside from running the business, you teach the classes. Yeah, no, that's the fun part. The fun part of the business is actually teaching the classes. You know, we still got the meetings. You still got to sit and, you know, your answer. I got 30,000 emails. So that, that is something that is not my favorite thing to do, but it's a necessary evil to make sure that place is up and running. But I love teaching. It's so therapeutic. And for me and to get in front of you guys and to just drive that experience that brings enjoyment to you, that really is just everything in the world.

To make sure the music's on point, to make sure the energy is all positive, and to make sure that the walls are literally buzzing with that positive energy so you could feed off of it. It's a really special place. It's so good. And it's like, it's very, it's fancy. You guys have like, what did you call them, like, the Lambo of like workout benches? Like the bad, everything is. I could say that.

I think it was an Instagram post. No, I think. No, I think it was so bad. We would never say. Ferrari. It was Ferrari. It's a lifestyle brand. No, it is. And we wanted to really elevate it because it's an elevated brand. If you're giving us your money, which is obviously important, we take that with a lot of respect. But if you're giving us your time, something that you can never recover, especially with something so important as your workout, which bleeds into every other area of

your life, we really wanted to make sure that that experience was holistically from the moment you walked in, the clean environment, the beautiful artwork that we pay very close attention to, that we spent the biggie buddha what the biggie buddha that we had commissioned from london that we flew in from from london that probably got caught up in customs for four weeks because they're like there's a hundred percent all the drugs in this big thing they're like there's no way that somebody commissioned a big buddha statue gold and there's not drugs somewhere there's so much drug there was all the drugs but there wasn't it was actually the other way it's for a gym so we're going healthy with it right but everything is so curated but it doesn't feel it's not

ingenuous because it really is the brain shout in the heart and soul of the four founders. You know, Eugene Rem, Anthony DeMarco, Andy Stensler, myself. It was we sat in Soho House and we said the gym space needs some disruption, as everyone says when they're trying to get in the market. What's your point of entry? How are you going to shake up the marketplace? We knew we were going to be unique. We knew we were going to be separated in the marketplace. So that's our common goal. And to stay authentic to that and fun. We know the workout's going to be dope. We know you're going to And really, you're going to burn 10 billion, like, we didn't care about that. Yeah.

We wanted to say, when you walked in, how are we going to ensure that you walked out, just feeling the fuck out of yourself, feeling great. You do walk out of there, like, and if you're pissed at somebody, just go in there and just, like, punch the fucking bag. And like, there's my ex's face. And that's my ex's face. Like, when I was a kid, I used to, I had a lot of ADD problems and I was just getting kicked out of classes.

And I was getting yelled at a summer camp. I always got kicked out of Emma Kaufman of trying to sneak into the girls' tents and stuff like that. To make out with me. Yeah. To make out with her. I had a therapist and he was like, well, you know, you got a lot of hostility. You got a lot of aggression.

Why don't you? He sounded exactly like that too. He's like, why don't you just punch a pillow? And I was like, that's fucking corny. Like, why don't I just take up martial arts and why don't I actually do the damn thing? Yeah. So, again, it was always such a natural outlet for me that I wanted to bring that to the masses. So again, you want to elevate the experience.

You want to polish it up because, listen, New York can be bougie. New York expects a lot because they should. We pay a premium emotionally and financially to live in this city. And so you damn well better to deliver if you're expecting somebody's time and money. Right. So you sound like this super competent guy, successful, like knows what he wants, like great business, man. But I love your story and I think it's interesting because you weren't like always this person. No.

Right? Like you didn't just like come up in everything you did. You succeeded. So like, am I talking a little bit about it? Of course, man. I fucked up royally. I mean, I really wouldn't change anything for the world. And I openly talk about my story because, one, it's very, it's like a vent for me to release and, like, remember.

So I keep that chip on my shoulder, which drives every long-ass day that I have. And so I never take anything for granted. But also, it's, you know, it's smart to learn from your own mistakes, but it's genius to learn from other people's. Right. So I always post about the fuck-ups right along with all. the cool things that I do on Instagram and when I go on and talk on podcasts or whatever it is on television. So, I mean, eight years ago, not that long in the scheme of things. In the scheme of life, I was living in my parents' basement. I was doing all the drugs, all the Biggie Buddha

drugs. I was trying to sneak it all in. So, I mean, cocaine, painkillers. And I really let myself go. I was in a really bad place. I felt really aimless. And I just let myself get out of control. I lost every ounce of discipline that I had taught myself throughout my life, playing football and jujitsu and boxing and I just threw it out the window because I was I was scared about the future I didn't know what I wanted out of my life I was I got my degree in accounting which I absolutely no disrespect to accounts they have an incredibly important job yeah but you give some kid with boundless energy and ADD and you sit them in a cubicle no I mean no wonder there was like that that that kind of anxiety in my heart because I wasn't I always thought that I had more

to give and I just didn't know where to place that energy so I went negatively with it. Right. So all that energy, a year and a half of just really being destructive and partying and doing drugs and stuff like that. It got to a point where I'll never forget this experience. I was sitting in the hospital after a night of partying. So doing cocaine, doing painkillers, which is literally the worst thing that you possibly do. It's like up or downers, it's like what kills people is like that combination.

When you actually want to die. Yeah. And it wasn't even that. I just wasn't thinking. I didn't care. It was like, yeah. It was like, yo, little bitches, but like not in a cool rap video way. It was like, you're a piece of shit.

Yeah, I was in Pittsburgh. It's not that cool. It was like, yeah, you're not in a Drake video. You're not like Lulzan or whatever it is. So I remember, and I was in the hospital because, like, I really, like, I thought I was going to die. Right. Like, I, my heart was pounding.

I was like, all types of messed up. And I remember, like, kind of fading in and out. And when I, I, like, came to my senses, I remember seeing my whole family there, like, everybody, my mom, my sister, my brother, in-law, my brother, my niece is, my nephew. and I was like, wow, I'm like a piece of shit right now. Like, my whole family is so nervous and concerned about me and what I'm doing and the choices that I'm making that the next day, I never touched anything.

So that was the last time I touched any of that shit. And I remember that was also a fundamental shift in my life because before I was like a snotty little kid. I was always like, how can I be successful? How can I do things for myself? How can I, I, I, me, me, me? And at that moment, I looked around and I was like, holy shit, I got to focus on these people.

So how can I make them proud? How can I make them feel positively? Because I made them feel so terribly about myself and the decisions I was making. So I really apply that to every class that I teach, every interaction that I make. And to be honest, it's very liberating. Because when you focus on other people's enjoyment, you don't have time to get caught up in your own bullshit or where you're at. You have to live in the present because you have to actually engage people. Yeah.

And you're like, it holds you accountable. Yeah. Yeah. So again, from that rock bottom position, I was able to learn from my own mistakes and say, listen, this isn't, I can't live like this. I can't do this to my family. I can't do this to people I care about. So let me focus on what I can give. Even if it's nothing. I had no money at that point. I had nothing. But I fell into fitness because, do you know, Micah, Micah Jessie. I tell the story a lot. Yeah, she does, too. Well, yeah, we both do. And like, we wouldn't have mom, but I actually didn't know. He's very fancy. I don't know if he can do this little rinkie. No, I'm kidding.

Yeah, well, he should have came with me because. Oh, right. So, Micah. So what's the story? So I went to Hofshah with Micah. And Micah was always the gay best friend of all the girls that I was hooking up with in college. So I literally was dating, well, not all the girls.

I've dated one girl for three years. So let's not get it twisted. I'm a serial monogamous. So I dated this girl and he lived in the sorority house with me. I was there for other reasons, but he was there for other reasons. but he was like the unofficial, you know, gay mascot? Yeah, gay best friend. And we just hit it off.

I was always like, we were always so close. And he knew that I was obviously very into fitness. And he had these passes to this place called Barry's Boot Camp. And he was doing an article on him. He was writing for his blog, Kim Kardashian's favorite workout that had just arrived in New York City. And he asked me if I wanted to go. And I was like, no, I'm good. Like, I don't want to do that kind of corny shit.

Like I was always, again, an athlete. I was very serious about like. you know, jujitsu and martial arts. And I thought it was kind of like cheesy, but I'm so glad that I did because that was my entry point into fitness. So I built up my name for myself. You were Barry's trainer. Yeah, I was a master trainer for Barry's boot camp for five years.

I really helped put that brand on the map. And they were super supportive, give me a platform. And then I linked up with Eugene Ram, who, you know, Nightlife Empressario, Ten June, owns catch restaurants, which is literally the hottest restaurant, coast, west, you know, and in New York. And he asked me if I wanted to start something. and watched all these videos of me boxing that I posted on Instagram because I was getting really into boxing again.

And we started coming up with the concept. And, you know, fast forward a year and a half, we opened up 1917. Rumbleboxing is the hottest brand in and outside of fitness in the country. You know, we have four locations already, although the Upper East Side has a double studio, so it's really five. We just announced our second concept where we're going to do treadmills and weights as well. also not boxing, but treadmills and weights. Rumble treading.

We already have our location. We're already doing the design. We just announced our partnership with Scooter Braun. I know. I saw that. No, Scooter, too. Back from Atlanta. Oh, that's right.

The ATSL the Emery's. Yes. When he was, you know, when he was a little promoter, yeah, I know, right? It is insane. I used to party with a bunch of these, my friend that went to Emory. She's like, my friend Scooter throws these parties. Like, I met him in a house party. We're like drinking probably Burnett's vodka.

You know, like, looking back, I'm like, it's so. It's so crazy. Goldschlager. Goldschlager and... Yeah. Yeah, but... Like, we use a text. I'm like, he doesn't remember me now. We all have our origin stories, everybody. And those are my favorite.

Like, X-Men Wolverine origin stories. Like, those are my favorite because you get to know, like, everybody thinks it just happens. Like, Scooter's just Scooter. Like, Rumble just happened. But this was like, this was like 20 years in the making. For sure. Like overnight sensation, 20 years in the making.

They always say that. They don't see the darkness before this, before you see the, you know, all the likes on Instagram and all the fun stuff. People ask us all the time. Like, you know, how did you get to where you are? It's like, well, there's no quick fix. There's no recipe. Like, I failed at a million things.

I succeeded at some random things. I met this person. Like, there's no. I can't explain to you how to get here. But anyways, this is a dating podcast. Oh, what do you want to talk about? I'm just, I'm curious. You know, there's a lot of people in New York that are trying to build businesses

and hustle and traveling a lot. It's like, how do you make time to date? Like, so how do you make time to date? Like, are you on hold? Are you like kind of, like, it's very fascinating to me. Because I think a lot of men are like, no, this is my baby right now. Like, I can't, I got to stay focused. Like, can you?

It is. Right now, like, I certainly don't think that I have the time and energy to settle down because a relationship is incredibly time consuming. And it's important to respect the other person enough to delegate enough energy, to delegate enough attention and focus to them. And I physically just don't have it. Right. So I feel like I can't properly dedicate the time necessary to foster a relationship.

And that's not fair to somebody else. Has that been an issue for you? Like, have you dated somebody that was just like, I can't do this? I mean, listen, yeah. Like, my last relationship, I love the, I still love the girl to death. Like, that's like my heart. But it's incredibly unfair for me to not be fully present. And I, again, it's a time thing.

Like, you got, like, I have a dog who I love to death. got him tatted on my arm. He is the cutest. I've never even seen a dog that looks like that. He is so special. He's like the Brad Pitt of dogs. He came like, I'll tell that story too.

I thought, that's funny. He said that I call my dog the Ryan Gosselin of dogs. Yeah, he's just, he's got this profile. And when he sees the camera, like he picks his head up and he tilts it.

Like he knows his good sides. Yeah. And I'm like, damn. He's like, got to hit them angles. Yeah, he does. He's like Drake Drizzy. And, you know,

it's just, being in New York City, and it's not a cop out. It really isn't. It's not like I'm trying to just, you know, fuck around and be like this he whore around New York City. We get it. Like, you only have a certain amount of hours a day.

So, like, will you even entertain the idea? Like, if you meet somebody like, will you go out, you know, and kind of just like let him know, like, I just, I like you, I just don't really have time. I'm very open. And I think that's the most important thing. I think what you can never do as a guy, girl, anybody trying to, you know, date around or do whatever.

whatever is, is to be cheesy or try to be sly about things. Like, I'm very open. Obviously, I'm on a podcast right now, being very open. I think communication is really key. And I always, like, if I start talking to someone, I'm like, I tell them flat out, like, this is what I have. Like, I have a window, you know, because there's always the new concept. There's always a new thing. So what we try to do is elevate every day, the brand individual brand. Are you ever going to have time? I mean, what do you picture for your relationship? I'm on a four-year plan. Not to give away all my secrets. but I got a four-year plane.

But I'm curious. Yeah. Like, is there a stopping port? You're like time to settle down now. No, it's, it's again. And this could all change. I could walk out and meet somebody that makes you rearrange your whole universe. Exactly.

Yeah. But right now, like I just haven't, not that I haven't met that person, it's just I haven't met that person and also given myself to it. But when the time's right, I can't wait to just take care of somebody fully and really just be present, you know, physically, you know, emotionally, financially, but just right. now is just not that moment. But it's good that you know that. And like, we always say, like, all you ever want from another person, another partner

is honesty. And, like, not for somebody to blow you off and blow you off and blow you off, but for somebody to just be like, you know what, I don't have, I'm married to this business. And that's my wife. I'm married to the game. I'm married to the game. You don't have all the answers. No.

Why does somebody yell that in your face? You're like, I'm trying to spend time with me. You just start rapping in your face. It's so instigative. So, I'm curious, though, like, do you gravitate towards girls that have the same type of thing that you have going on, like an entrepreneurial type, are you more like, no, I just want a girl that's like a little more low key. Like I don't need this like same exact hustler. I just vibe off energy. Like who do I, and I know, I trust the fuck out of myself because I, like

I said. How do you feel when you're around somebody? Yeah. So if I feel good, I like to hang out and then, you know, I like, I'm a very open person. I'm very accessible. Um, so if you just say hi to me, chances are we'll talk and I'll, you know, I'll give you. Okay. So that's a perfect transition. I have a very important question. Well, yeah, we talk about this because obviously Raina and I are both social media people with these big Instagram accounts. I mean, you do some like... Humble brag. I mean, we just live on Instagram.

You're on Instagram all the time too. I am. So you... I put my phone down for this, though, okay? You really like... I'm here. Thank you for being present. I'm present.

Tough. I'm present. You're very attractive guy. Like, you know, you're not ashamed to like show off your body, a little thirsty, little thirst traps sometimes. I'm getting... No, no, no, no. You got a...

Do you get... Are you just getting like DM slides? We got to talk about this. I want to talk about how you manage the DM slides. What are a girl? Like, are you just overloaded? Yeah, I mean, like. Would you ever date somebody that, like, slim to your DMs?

Of course, of course. You like, I'm not like, click on, click on. Like, that's a good looking girl. I'm feeling that energy. I'm a human. Listen, like, I'm not some, like, fitness guru that's holier than now that doesn't drink, that doesn't, that doesn't get it in. Like, I'm a human.

I'm still a dude in New York City and like, trust me, fighters make better love. too. I'm just saying a little bit. What can a girl slide in with? We want to let him know. There's no, there's no, there's no like, there's no like, yeah. All right. That is, you've obviously followed my account before. So, yeah, I, I physically, physically, it's always the bottom. I'm like, you know, growing up listening to Kanye West, it's like, you know, up top two beast things and on the bottom it's an ass that can swallow up the G strength. Right. That's okay. People like what they like. Yeah. But that can't be it. Like, you know, that might get you. is somewhere.

But again, if I talk to you, I'm super sarcastic, and I love to just, like, play around and be witty. I can't imagine a girl needs to have, like, the banter going on with you. You got to have bansor. If you can't fuck around and, like, you don't get my obscure pop culture references. Like, Big Sean, like, I don't fuck with you. Like, I can't. Because there's like... Ladies, study your rap lyrics, your Harry Potter knowledge.

Like, what else do we have? Brush up my dog. But no, it is. You got to, it's not one thing anymore because there's so much access with, like, you know, the dating apps and the, in the social. media and then being in real life. Could you date a girl that does not go to the gym frequently? Somebody who's not into fitness.

Would that be tough? I mean, probably not. Just because that's such an important part of my life. Well, it's not going to work out with Raina. I'm sorry to tell you. Raina, you got to come in. But you look like to workout. No, you look like you work out.

It's fine. She does not. It's not even about the gym. The gym for me, at least now, like in the past, you know, five, ten years. has never been about aesthetics. I've never worked out to look a certain way. But I have a propensity to hang out with people who really work out and train because it brings a level of self-care and self-respect that radiates into relationships. So I know that if I take care of myself and I'm eating right and I'm working out and I'm getting enough rest and I'm doing what I need to do to become a

better person, I can be a better person for other people. It's so true. And I am just probably going to date somebody that works out and those like takes care of themselves and like eats right. And because I mean, I also think it affects your whole mental state and like your emotional state. It's all kind of goes together. It's not a matter of like, I need a girl that has this body and she goes to this every day. And she, you know, it's like it's less about that and more about like. It does help. Let's not be like all fucking Gandhi over here. Like, but it does make you look, but it also gives off a glow like again, an internal and external low. Okay, guys, I'm feeling very personally attacked right now by both of you because I don't work out.

I see you with your little jumper on. I got you. I got you. You are a happy person. Like, if I don't work out for like four days, it's scary. But I think it's important to just be with somebody that shares like a common lifestyle and common goals, things they like. I always ask on a date, like, if you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go? And the person that says to me, like, I want to go to an all-inclusive resort and Belize for 90s.

That's not my person. Like, I want somebody that wants to go to like. I feel like to go on a carnival cruise. I'm like, not going to work out. No offense. No, not for you. I'm going to go to Thailand. I want somebody who wants to go to Bangkok.

adventurous, yeah, 100%. Last group, like relationship, like couples vacation I went to was Mexico and Yalapa, which was gorgeous. And the first thing I asked for was like, can I get a machete? Can I get that? And my, the girl that I went with was like, that's, that's dope. Because all I wanted to do was go off the resort, off no paths, and just like chop my way through the jungles of Mexico. And if somebody's not down to do that, like, what are you supposed to do? You know, you sit around, you eat, you know, you sleep, which is all, I like that too.

Don't get me, don't get it twisted. I like to live. There's time of place. But like, you got to have somebody that is adventurousome. But tying back to the gym, like, it's about self-love. And I've always thought that when you show yourself self-love, and that's not physically, that's mentally, you know, reading and educating yourself and studying, you know, culture so that you can really contribute to a conversation.

Yeah. You know, that's a really important thing. So self-improvement, self-love. radiates onto that other person. So that's why I'm just, I want to get my money right. I want to get my business right. I want to grow as a person myself so that when I am ready to settle down, I'm fucking ready.

We say that all the time. I mean, that's something that as far as like I think that like that's, it is kind of more of a male thing. Like guys want to get everything else in line and then they're like, then the girl comes in. I think girls sometimes, they'll rearrange their whole life for the right guy. Like they'll meet somebody and they'll be like, well, all right, I'll move cities. I'll do this, I'll do that.

And guys are like, not ready, not ready, not ready, not ready, not ready. And then like, then when they're ready, it's beautiful. It's like a special thing. I think there's a shift, though, in that because, like, you know, the best thing I've seen in the gym space, which I think radiates into just life is this like women's empowerment movement. Yeah. So we have 90,000 some clients paid up signed accounts and 71% of those are female and a boxing, which is like a male dominated sport.

Yeah. But I think business too. I think, you know, even things like the Me Too movement. and things that are, like, everything is about the woman finding her, you know, space in the workplace, socially, physically. And I think that's a beautiful thing. So I've seen it much less like women, like the classical, you know, I'm ready to uproot my whole life. Now, obviously, that's so prevalent.

But I know guys that do that too. I know guys that will literally, like, chained up. Yeah. Chained up that are like, oh, you want me to move to, you know, some remote village in Alaska? Like, yes, whatever you want, boo. No, you're right. I'm not making fun of them. I'm saying that works for them.

The woman can be like the more the breadwinner type. Yeah. But it depends on how you're raised. Your mom worked. My mom worked, you know? Like I was raised to, that everybody provides, you know, the mother and the father. But a lot of people are raised, you know, son, you got to grow up. You got to provide.

You got to, like, not everybody, not all females are raised to, like, want to have a career and success. And so, like, I understand that more women, I guess, are more willing to rearrange their whole life. But also, like, you got to look at the city where in, like, New York City, you have an abundance of, you know, women that are very focused on their careers. because it's hard to live in the city. So you've got to... You have to work. Yeah, you've got one. You can't afford to not work.

You can't afford to, yeah. I mean, it's crazy. All right. No, if you're going to take a girl on a date in New York City, what is your style? What are you doing? Oh, I like this question. 10,000% cash. Like, that's like my go-to restaurant.

Catch? Yeah. I mean, it's just... I like you're plugging the family the whole time to that? No, but listen, you know, you, like, why I love New York is it's such a small city because you create your own network and your own network has to you know, their own neighborhoods and the little things that you like to do. I just like, that's family.

So in a city of 10 billion restaurants, why wouldn't you go where you're, you know, your big bro? Yeah, it's, and you walk in and they treat you like your family. So, I mean, yeah, and it's delicious. It's delicious. And, you know, Joe Mungo and George take you to the club after.

And they're shouting you out on the thing. And if you got to, you know, you're with a girl, they'll shout her out on them. And then she glows up because she's just been shouted out. For sure. fucking Jay-Z in a club. And no, but like, that's like on the high end of things. But honestly, like, low-key, I just like dog parks.

Like, if you can sit with me at Washington Square Dog Park and just sit and talk and vibe and we can make fun of each other and we can be, you know, like that banter goes back and forth. And there's not, and we can just literally talk about nothing and everything for, you know, 45 minutes an hour. That's the girl I want to talk to. And what if your dog doesn't like the girl? That was one of my questions. That's happened before.

Oh, my God. Okay, first of all, did she not like, did she not the dogs? No, I think it's just energy dogs pick up on energy. Like, if my dog runs up to you and like jumps on you and like gives you kisses and stuff like that, like you got a good. Okay. Well, no, what happened? Like, no, just cold shoulder. Just cold shoulder.

Just like not. You can't date. They cold should each other. No. Does she try? Yeah, we try. But, you know, you can tell. I don't know.

I have a dog and like, like, they're funnyest part. And I'm totally baiting myself. Talk about transparency here. Like, if I'm walking. my dog and the dog runs up to a girl and like jumps on her, chances are that I've hooked up with her before. That's like, there's a good chance because my dog, I have to like hold him on the leash when I'm walking in public.

Not that I've hooked up with that many people, but he always, like, he remembers people. So if you've been in the apartment and if you pet him and like rubbed his belly and shit like that, you've given him a treat and stuff like that. So I'm like, don't, I'm like, don't bait me out right now. Please don't bait me out. Not always. Sometimes it's just he catches eyes of somebody and he thinks he knows. So not all the time, damn it.

So if I'm walking with you to the park and Oz starts to run at people, it's not always the case. But oftentimes, I'm like, damn, you're supposed to be a wingman? Why you mess on my flow right now? God damn it. We have like 20 minutes. Do you want to do the game? Yeah. Okay.

So every week we play a game with somebody. What are we playing? With men, and I'm going to just say the same word. Oh, I told them. Oh, you dead. Okay. About the mansplaining. Mansplaining.

Yes. As I man spread all over you. You are man spreading all over here. It's fine. Listen, these jeans are very tight. Those are jeans? These are jeans. I can't believe you can spread out like that.

He's like jeans? No, these are some of my favorites. These are polo, Ralph Lauren, black label. So what's the game? You are going to speak on behalf of all men. No, I'm just kidding. I'll hold it down. No, we're going to ask you things like, you know, male behavior.

We wouldn't hear your take on it. Rapid fire. Okay. Come at me. We asked this one to every guy. Why do guys just want to fuck you once and then watch your Instagram story for the rest of eternity? What? Oh my God, I just said something about that. Oh, it's called haunting. It's called haunting.

Is that, so they just linger forever. Yeah. So it's called haunting. Yes. Or the girl, the girl, listen. Sure. Yes. It's happened to me before. Be humble right now. It's happened to me where a girl hasn't responded to my text, but I'm like, you watch every story religiously, like the moment I posted. Right. It's called haunting. Why do they do that?

Oh, it's so insidious when they throw it a like, but won't respond to you. They won't respond to your text. I think it's better to throw in that like as opposed to just like creep it. like Casper the Ghost. Like they're still on here? But like they blessed you on red. I see you, but I don't fuck with you, but I see you. But I just won't fuck with you.

Honestly, I think that's a gender neutral phenomenon. I think you see it more obviously because you're a woman and you probably talk to like mind of women and it happens to them a lot. But I think guys, it happens to guys as well. But I don't know. I think it's like it's like it used to be on Facebook. Like there was just no record of it. Like you would go to your ex's page or go to somebody you had.

And like you want to see what they're up to. you kind of want to be a part of that because like you've shared this bond with them, whether it was one night or, you know, whatever it was. But you don't really want to, for whatever reason, keep them in your life like that. Yeah, you're like, you just pop in. And it's also on the other end, it's a little bit more insidious because you pop in, you're like, mm-hmm, I'm still here, I'm still here. And then you pop back out.

And then you pop in. You're like, I'm still here. Oh, you want to text me? No, it's like you reclaim the power. Like you got all the pussy power. All of it. All the penis power. We've heard two different things.

We've heard conflicting reviews, which we find very fascinating. One guest, one male guest we had, he said if he is into a girl, he is not going to watch her stories. He's her stuff her stories. He's like, I don't want to, I like, I like, I like, I like, I like, I like, I like, if you, if you are into a girl, are you watching her stories? Yeah. I mean, if I want to.

Again, I don't think about it that month. I try to live, like, in the damn present. If I, if I'm like, something pops in my mind and like, or if I see the story little window pop up. I'll watch that shit. You're like, I'm too busy tradition. I'm just saying there's no shame. Like, I don't think, yeah, there's no right or wrong answer for that, but I think it is like sometimes you just hook up with somebody

and like you have that connection, but it's not going to, you know it's not going to go anywhere. Right. But like you don't want to, so you don't want to like waste your time like, you know, and text back and like have that banter because like what's it leading to, you know, you're not to be with that person you might, you know, but also it could be you're keeping them on the burner a little bit. You're just letting

them know. So like for that one time when you're like, damn, it's, you know, 2 a.m. Like, where at like YWA, you know. This is in line with everything. W. W. W.A. where you at.

Yeah. But I think everyone has their own fucking agenda. Yeah. But it's weird. It's weird to have that kind of thing even be an issue because social media, like, you know where everybody's going. You know where they're at. You know who they're hanging out with.

You know, like, you can kind of piece together who they're sleeping with, who they're talking with. Even by following. I've had people like, I'll follow a girl and I'll have some girl who I've, like, been hooking up with for a little bit. She'll be like, yeah, she'll be like, why do you follow this girl? And I'm like, did you hook up with her? And I'm like, no, I'm friends with her.

I've just followed her. They're like, no, you follow. Like, you wouldn't follow her if you didn't like. We, it's crazy because I know this. We had like guys, mostly guys, like, when we first started this podcast, we had people come out of the word of work and be like, I didn't know that people can see when I watch their Instagram stories. Yeah, that's the worst.

Yeah, people don't know that. Well, I make the mistake sometimes and I've done it. And luckily, I've done it quickly. And somebody is like called me out and I delete it where like I go to send like a private, like, video or something, and it goes and posts to my whole damn story to, like, whatever amount of people. That happened to us the other day, and we were at a festival, and I couldn't get the story down. Oh, no.

It was, because there's no, because there's no, um, we had no service. We had no service at the festival. I think you just throw your whole life out at that point. You just, like, you just quit. You throw your phone in the, in the river. Yeah. And you just, you just leave. I live in Cambodia now.

Yeah, you never, you never, you never, you never seen again. You give it up. Okay. Next question. Yeah. I want a real answer to this. I don't want like the polished. No, no politics right now.

Because I... The media trained answer. It's okay to not like this. A girl sleeps with you on a first date. Yes. Do you judge it? No, not at all. No.

Not at all. And I also don't judge if she wants to wait a week again. A week. Oh shit. A week. No, what I'm saying. That came out fucking bad. What a prude.

She wants three days. Grow up, Angela. Three days. God damn it, sister, Mary Clarence. What is wrong with you? Okay, Janine. Just go to the nunnery, go to the convent with your prude ass. You don't let me put a...

No, honestly, I am like the least judgmental person in the world. Hey, you know, if you, there's no, there's no nothing, there's no wrong or right answer. I think especially tying into this like women's liberation movement, like, do what you want to fucking do. Who the fuck cares? If you feel connected enough to, you know, fuck some guy, you're asleep with some guy on the first fucking date. Who gives a fuck? Yeah. But you would be cool.

You'd be like, all right. That was great. I'll ask her out. I mean, no judgment. But if that one girl, if you find out a guy or girl, guy, whatever is doing that with a billion people. You know, you want to feel exclusive. You want to feel special. So if everybody has it, it's kind of you don't want it mentality.

But that's just human nature. So I don't judge. I never judge. I've had, you know, I've had times where I've connected with a woman instantly, and we don't even make it to catch. Right. So, so, seriously. And sometimes that's just, sometimes it's just, it's like, it's like Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie

and like, what is it? What is it? Is that movie? You guys just out here adopting African children on the first name. Yeah. Well, maybe not that. Maybe not that. Although I do it.

I want a child just so I could give them like the dopest sneakers ever. Like, I see these IG kids that are so swaggy and their parents are so. cool and like I'm like one day and they outgrow the sneakers in like a week you're like the kid hops out of like a neon green g wagon and you're like who the motherfucker is this kid like I was riding the bus until I was 30 right why are you yeah it's crazy so with that being said listen do whatever the fuck you want to do but again remember that if the whole neighborhood had it chances are people don't aren't gonna guys both right guys and girls like you can't help but wonder like is this what she does every single

night, you know, but I think what you're saying is, like, every once in a while, like, lightning strikes and you have, like, a crazy connection. Connection is connection. So it can happen. Especially someone like me who vibes, like, I know energy. And I think that that's, that's a real palpable thing. Like, when you, like, lock eyes with somebody. Right.

You just, sometimes you just fucking know, you're like, and I think it even on Instagram, like, you know, I've seen women on Instagram and we've started talking and I'm like, holy shit, this person is super sexy. Yeah. Why? Like, why can't you just have some fun? Why can't you just not? put any pressure on it and just see where things go, not worry about the, you know, the future and

just have some fun. And we always say, like, waiting three weeks doesn't guarantee somebody's going to wipe you either. Like, you know, the converse, the converse? Yeah. The converse. I went to publish, you just want to talk about shoes. Yeah.

You're throwing school words at me right now. Did I tell you that I lost my shoe and didn't bring a calculator to the SAT? So that's the kind of person you're talking to right. With one shoe at the SATs? No, I had both shoes. I lost, during the SATs at some point, I lost my shoe. And I don't know how. I was always like the kid that would like entertain and fuck around and try to be like the clown and joke.

And somehow during the SATs, my shoe ended up somewhere that I never found it. Shadyside Academy. That's a shit. Shad Academy. And I didn't have a calculator. So I had to, I was like counting on my fingers. I was like. No Ti 83.

Yeah, no Ti 83. All right. I think somehow I got it. Why do you guys send dick picks? I honestly don't fucking know because a dick by itself is the, the. ugliest thing that I've ever seen. Can I volunteer an answer? Yeah.

No, no, no. Please interject. No, no, no. I want to hear what he has to say. Interject, my dear. Do you know, guys, like, why, in your head, why is a guy ever going to send a dick pick? It's either ego or insecurity, because, like, it's got to be. I think, like, like, thinking that they're so desired and wanted, like, this girl.

Delusion? Yeah. From across the fucking country or from, like, a different fucking, even apartment building, wants to see my ugly-ass dick. Delusion. Yeah, it is. I think the female body is a beautiful thing. In general, I think that's not even like a sexual thing.

I just think it's very, it's like there's an appeal to it. And that's not like a guy saying that. That's not a girl saying that. That's just like the female body is a beautiful form. Guys, not so much. I don't want Dick Pecks. Not at all. I have yet to meet a girl that's like, oh, yeah, daddy shit.

Like send me that dick. It's like, it doesn't. No, maybe like vocally, like, you know, text something sexy. Yeah. Like, I think that that, like, sex thing. Yeah, like, sex thing is a beautiful thing. And I think, like, again, that's a way that you can really, you know, vibe with somebody over the phone. But a dick pick, like, I've never sent one.

Guys, just stop it. It doesn't, it's not, it doesn't look how you think it looks. Unless you, like, I don't know, maybe, like, you shave a little cute little, like, monave drawing in it. Put a hat on it. Yeah. Dress it up a little bit. Like emoji sunglasses. Yeah.

Yeah. Turn it into a gif. I went out with a guy that would like send me his dick like one time picture of it with sunglasses on. One time it was wearing a bow tie. That's kind of funny though. I was like that means you're like connected enough to the person. Yeah.

Enough that they feel comfortable to like be silly and not take themselves. But if you're like you're like look at me and my sexy dick and you take a picture, that's fucking terrible. I don't want it. Stop it. I just stop it. I pulled all the girls in the room. I pulled the whole room. Nobody wants it.

I've never, I think, I have, I know so many females. Like they mind. No female. So I had a guy tell me that he sends dick pics because he just wants naked picks in return. And like that's the, that's the mentality behind it is that they're just trying to get you to send pictures back to them. That's what I'm saying. If you're confident, like, I'll literally, I'll flat out. If I, if I want to like, if I'm sexing you, I'll be like, yo, can you send me something sexy? Yeah. I'm not like, hey, I'm going to send you my dick in hopes that you send me some back.

I'm like, no, like, you listen, you're, you're. sexy as fuck. Like, you're in L.A. right now. Send me some. Send me some. I need some visuals. She sent you a package. She's like, no need to send anything back.

Don't need to receive it. No, and I, and girls have said that before. Because I think they've been conditioned. Like, yeah. Like, I want to hear what you think about it. Like, if I send you a sexy pick, it's a turn on for you to like say what you're, like, I want to hear your like words of like, here's what I'm thinking, doing like, hella complimentary.

I don't need the. Complementary. Like, as a guy, like, if a girl, it's a sexy, girl. vulnerable enough to send you something like that, you better just rein her down. Like here's what I would do to you kind of stuff. I'm trying to get my DMs cracking right now. I'm like, I will shower you with compliments.

If you go to at Noah D. Neiman and you send all, no, but for real, but maybe I don't know. I don't know. Emphasis on the D. Don't forget the D. I think I said that in class. Are you in that class? No. And I was like, that sounded really bad.

I hope that Eugene and Andy. I said that in class and I was like, if you want to follow me on Instagram, at Noah D. Neiman. I was like, don't forget the D. That's your tagline. I know, don't forget the D. But I just said it in front of like 60 people that just wanted to get a workout.

And I was like, oh shit, that sounded bad. I'm like, I stand by it though. Don't forget the D. It's important. You need your daily dose, vitamin D. I would love for you to stay all day because this is great. But we got to wrap up.

I like that. So I want to tell people, I want to thank you for being here. Thank you guys for having me. It's an honor. And I want to tell people where they can find you. Oh, can I come to Rumble later? Yeah, yeah, of course.

Whatever you want. You're teaching today, right? Are you going to come? I am. I teach three classes today. Are you today? I told you, that's my fun part. Are you a therapy at Rumble?

I'm at NoHo. If you guys, oh, it's not live. I was going to say, if you guys want to come out and come to 430, 630, come through. All right. Put pencil me in for 430 at Novo. Yeah, come through. That's my class. We'll come.

Can they follow you on Instagram? Of course. Don't forget the date. And I promise, I'll send you all the dick picks back. What days do you teach? I teach all the time. I'm there. And if I'm not teaching I'm there all the time, because, again, I just love it.

I just love the space. I love the energy. And follow Rumble boxing. Yeah, so definitely follow at Rumble underscore boxing, R-U-M-B-L-E, underscore boxing. So definitely follow the main gym account, but personally, at Noah D-N-E-N-A-H-D, N-I-M-A-N-I-M-A. So there's a T. There is a, it's a prominent D. Just want to make sure. It's groomed.

There is a big D. They're right there. I'm not going to picture of it, but just no. No, it looks great. Just understanding your heart of hearts, it's there. This took a turn. Yeah, whatever, man. We're going to tag you and everything.

We're going to tag you in the post. We'll put you in Instagram service so people can find you guys really easily. Awesome. Thank you so much. And just to wrap it up with us, guys, follow us to. Girls Got Eat Podcast on Instagram, shop the merch line, Girls Gotteeapodeepod.com. Check, keep, stay posted with all our stuff we got on, live shows, all the things.

They got money. They got money. I think that's it. Thanks, guys. Have a good week. Thanks for you guys. Thank you guys so much. Thank y'all.