Girls Gotta Eat - Take Your Dirty Talk to the Next Level

Episode Date: June 13, 2022

It's an episode about one of our favorite topics/hobbies: DIRTY TALK. And we're announcing the other half of Vibes Only (!!!), an app that is going to elevate the dirty talk in your life and allow you to experience your wildest sexual fantasies (don't worry, we'll explain). We're discussing how to start talking in the bedroom if you're a novice and getting your partner to speak up more, and also addressing more advanced dirty talkers, complete with foolproof lines and tips for all levels. We're sharing our own stories and hilarious ones from our listeners, and also catching up on Ashley's latest date and Rayna's awkward moment with her dad. Hope you enjoy! Shop products and download the Vibes Only app by visiting vibesonly.com. Follow on Instagram @VibesOnly. Follow us @GirlsGottaEatPodcast, Ashley @AshHess, and Rayna @Rayna.Greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Thank you to our partners this week: Daily Harvest: Get up to $40 off your first box at dailyharvest.com/gge. Living Proof: Go to livingproof.com/gge and use code GGE20 to get 10% off your first purchase. Tushy: Get 10% off + free shipping at hellotushy.com/gge. Native: Get 20% off your first purchase at nativedeo.com/ggedeo or use promo code GGEDEO at checkout. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Those last moments when you've already come and you want them to come and you're getting foot cramp. It's just like the stuff that's coming out of my mouth. Staring up at the ceiling and you're like, okay, this is what we saved it up for. Back to another episode of Girls Gotta Eat. Recording on a very special day, 6-9. Oh my God. Happy 69 day, everybody. My God, you guys.

Suck some dick. Get your pussy eight. Have balls dangle in your face. Get them up in someone's butt hole. Let's do this. We're going to get so dirty today. We're going to talk about vibes only part two. We're going to do dirty talk.

We have all kinds of stuff for you guys. Yeah, we absolutely do. I can't wait. Such a special day. I'm so excited we're recording this day. It's really a special. It is special. I wish it was my birthday.

We launched the company on sex, sex, sex, six, and now we're recording on 6'9. I'm excited. Yeah. Sun's still out. We're killing it. We're doing it. Okay. So we promised you guys that we were launching vibes only in two parts.

This is the second part. The launch went incredible. We're going to tell you all about it. But week two, part two, do you want to announce what part two of Vives Only is? Yes. It is an app, but it is so much more than an app. It is an immersive experience. It is going to take your erotic pleasure sessions and your orgasms to the next level.

It has never been done before. We have an app with erotic content that powers your vibes only product. so it powers your vibrators. They connect via Bluetooth. You're going to listen to these erotic experiences, these fantasies. We've crowdsourced them from you guys. We've thrown our own in there. We've everything you could ever imagine.

And there'll be so much more to come, literally. You are truly going to be the main character of your wildest fantasies. Everyone wants to be the main character, at least in your fantasies. So this has been designed that you are part of it. So the characters in the experiences are talking to you. This isn't your typical story. where there's two characters or even three talking to each other, they're talking to you.

Like, you really get in it. Like, this is one reason why we wanted to do this. Prior to coming up with this idea, we'd never seen it done, whether it is or not, but we wanted it to be, like, they're talking to you. You're the other person on the other end of it. You are truly the main character in the fantasy that you choose. It's so immersive.

It's so fun to just, like, reimagine yourself with your trainer, with your masseuse, maybe the plumber fucks you. There's just so many experiences you can just lay back and sort of let it happen. It's nice. And I say it all the time. I'm a lazy masturbator. There's nothing more perfect than this for me because I can listen to a story. It's powering my vibe.

So I literally can just lay back and hang out and have an orgasm and I love it. Get on that girl's trip. We didn't say that one. That's a hot one. I just, I mean, I've always primarily masturbated to girl and girl content my whole life. And so I really enjoy that. And we're going to do more of that for you. The female voices in the house. app.

We're just real. Yeah. And you're going to connect your Ashley or your Raina or your Gigi to it. And it's going to blow your mind. Yes. Blow your mind. Blow your pussy out. It's going to be unbelievable.

It's just we're going to get into it. We are going to update on your lives because we didn't do that last week. We just did all, all vibes. Everything. As my dad said, your vibes infomercial. Fuck you, Bill. My dad is the only member of my family that's congratulating me this week. We're going to talk about that.

We're going to roast our whole family. No, but this, this app is true. I said this before. I was like, I get weird about using words like revolutionary and groundbreaking, but it is. We've created this content. So much has gone into it to create what we think you guys are going to want to listen to with your vibrators, with your juiced up lube and just get off like never before. And there's more to it than that. There's a video component that Raina can talk about. Well, if you guys ordered this week, first of all, thank you. We are so honored by all the support. we have had, this is Thursday, we've had thousands and thousands and thousands of orders come in.

We're so proud. If you've gotten your vibes yet, you know that there's a QR code. You can download the app. And once you get in there, like Ashley said, so many erotic immersive experiences. There's a remote control in there. So either you can DJ your own orgasms in there with the remote or let us do it for you. Ashley really has programmed beats. Well, you know, I'm a DJ.

I'm a DJ and a PI at heart. Do you can take a part while you can off-wait DJPI? Is that my DJ name? But yeah, we're gonna, okay, we got, we want to just give you the overall, the overarching and and then we'll again catch up and go back to like really the nitty gritty and do an infomercial for that as well. Right. So one last thing about the app, which we are so proud of and I'm so proud of is that we

have a video component. We have dozens and dozens of videos for you guys about sex, dating, and relationships. We're going to tell you all about who's in there. It's so many guests from the podcast. Oh my gosh. Everybody's been so supportive. We have comedians, we have therapists, we have dating experts, but everybody has come together to make these incredible, everybody has come together. We've all come together. We're all DJing our

clits together to make these incredible videos for you guys. You'll go to the app, you'll masturbate, and then when you're done, you're going to go over to the videos and we're going to have new content for you guys every single week. And we are just, we're so proud of this. We're so excited. I feel so honored by everybody that's participated in this. I feel glad that we've built so much goodwill with so many people. Every former guest we ever asked to be a part of this said yes. Except for one. Except for Jared Freed. I think she's going to say it.

She's going to say it. Listen, now's the time. Go bomb Jared and tell him you want him in the vibes only app. He's been breadcrumming me for a year. It's insane. You guys know, I email him every week. I'm like, Jared. At first you started with, I need three videos. And then it was like, just do two. Just do one. Now I'm just like texting him like,

hey, how's your day? Can I get the video? When he kept asking him, and then he would just text us about the other stuff, We were like, is he just trolling us? And then he asked you to open for him in Denver. And then I was like, Ashley, you're going to get it. You're going to film him, doing some dating content. You guys are like one to two minute videos about like a huge range of stuff.

He's already doing it. He does it every day. I'm like, you're on the plane. You do 75 ask me anything's on the plane. Like, just shoot me a 90 second. This is how you know if a guy's into you video. I don't know if Jared's going to like this, but I don't care. Yeah.

So I went all the way to Denver. I just was sick the whole weekend when I was opening for him. I didn't have the energy to ask him to do it. And then I didn't want him to be like, get the fuck out. You're going to get out of the comment on. You can't bother me about this video. Go home. I'm sending you home.

Wait. Also, he texted us on Monday. Congratulations, girls. Oh, we, I was like, Jared. Can you please give me the content, you promise? We love him so much. He is part of the family. And we'll get him.

It's a long game. I'm waiting him out. It's like that he's trying to pretend he doesn't like me. I'll get him. I'll get him. So, Jared. It's not in the app. Listen, by the time you're hearing this, maybe he will be.

But so many other people, we will definitely talk all about it. But again, it is a three-prong approach within the app. It's this badass remote control for your vibrator, a whole video content section, exclusive content. You're not going to see anywhere else. And then, of course, the money shot is going to be these experiences that we will tell you a lot more about. It's just, it's been so fun to create with you.

You know, because we've both worked on both parts. but like I've taken the lead on the experiences. Raina has taken a lead on the video. But then there's like these times when I'm like, I got to call in Raina. And I'll be like, you got to get in there. You got to get in there and put your your dirty mind.

Okay. But what's been going on with you? We will, so we have a great episode for you guys today in the spirit of the app. We have a dirty talk episode. We know you guys want it. We did something sort of years ago about this and this is just an even better, I think,

spicier reboot of it. Ashley and I are huge fans. We've dirty talk. We've different styles. I'm going to tell you I want to suck the come out of your cock. And Ash is going to be like, tell me how pretty am. But we have a great episode. We can catch you up on our lives.

Tell you more about the app. And that's it. I went to your show last night. You had two sold-out shows at Caroline's. It was really special and fun for me to see you there. That was where we had our first show on September 12, 2018. And all your friends came. Our agent was there.

Bella was there. Bella with her man. Ray, I mean, it's so weird. It got so creepy on Bella's boyfriend. She goes, he's looking yoked up. I was like, who said yoked up? He was wearing a tight shirt.

What is all yoked up? Well, Bella said, she's like, he's just so hot lately. And I'm like, do you think he's glowed up a little? Or do you think you're just in love with them? You know what I'm saying? And she was like, both. Yeah. He was wearing a really tight shirt.

He looked really handsome. He recently graduated from, I don't remember what it is. He's not like 22. Oh, Bella is. I actually think he's not a child. I'm like, well, Bella is. True, true. She's 23 now.

She's almost 24. Oh my God. Bella, what's your anniversary with us? June 15th. So it's... I know that. I say that all the time. It's next week.

It's next week's your birthday week. So happy anniversary. One year with us. You're so lucky. Bella's episode's coming soon, you guys. But she, while we're talking about Bella, she's been a huge part of this app, obviously, all of the things. We just, again, we have this incredible team.

Monday, we launched vibes. And it was a lot. And now we're launching the app. And I, yeah, I started my tour last night, which was just like, thrown in the mix. I was like, am I going to die? Like, I feel like a crazy person. I feel like plans every week. We even celebrate. We've been drank to vibes only. We'll do it on Monday. We haven't even celebrated. Yeah. So Monday, but yeah, it was, I was so glad

you were there. It was so nice. I did two shows of Carolines and Sunday, I'm going to head to Boston. So if you guys came to Boston, thanks so much. It was great. We had a little special guest, second show. Jay Farrow came. So, so. Do I use J.J.J.J.J.J. Unit. Yes. Yes. J. Farrow, who we talked about. because we met him in Cancun, and we performed crazy in love with him on the beach, and he sang. He was the J.Z to our Beyonce. Ashley's trying to perform it in private with him. And I'm trying to.

And so he came up on stage, and we just, I had him do a couple impressions. He did Drake, Jayze, and Kevin Hart. It's unreal. He's the best impressionist I have ever seen. In the world. So both shows were great, but the second show, they got a little treat. They got Jay, they got Raina. It was great.

You did great. It was really fun to be a part of it. Okay, so we'll catch you guys up on our lives. Also, one thing. Okay, tell me. It's because we didn't do this last week. I just really want to say how insane the Toronto show was. Oh, right.

It just, again, like we're a week behind. I'm not going to dive too much into it because it's kind of old news now, but it will live in our hearts forever. It was the most insane show we've ever done. I will never get over it. The amount of moving parts, like we're like, let's do this dick pinata. Now let's trash this dress. Now let's do all this.

It was insane. Let's call these horridged. Horse girls up to dance on this stage. Yes. And then, so this has happened twice ever. And it's, like, I overlooked it both times and you, like, brought it back. It was in Philadelphia last summer. And then it was a Toronto show where you got this, like, clip of somebody dancing.

And you were like, I better be funny to bring them up to do it. And it was my favorite part of the show in Toronto, Darlene. It was. So in Philly, yes, last summer, our first show out of COVID, this, this girl had gone kind of viral on, like, bar stole for dance. to what, who run the world on like a pedal tavern. And she came to the show and she came up to the stage and dance. Darlene, her friend basically sent in a video of her.

It was like, roast my friend. And it was darling in her bedroom doing the wop dance. And I was like, do you want to come up here? She climbed up on the stage. Climed. Climed. Did the steps. Climbed.

Did the dance. Did a split. She was an icon. Miss her every day. And then to wrap up the show, first of all, we gave condoms. But I absolutely does not have condoms. We made custom condoms. Come to the show.

I'm we've condoms. We did custom condoms for everybody. there. We had these incredible dancers. The Renegates open. They've been on Canada's Got Talent a bunch. You guys can check them out. They're unbelievable. It's just, we hadn't been to Toronto since 2019 and we did this huge theater and it was just like, we announced

the company, so we announced vibes only because we threw all these condoms and it was only days away. So we told everybody what we were doing and they gave us these standing ovation. And Ray and I just both started cry. We were hugging. It was like one of my favorite moments we've ever had on tour, truly. It was like announcing this. Everybody was like wade in the edge of their seat and we

announced it and they just like rose up out of there's seeds. I just will never, you know, I love Canada. I love it. I love it. I love it. Three thousand people stood up and we're clapping. I could feel it in my chest. I could feel like the vibration in my chest chest. I know. I mean, we love launching these businesses and we love creating things, being creative and of course we like making money. But the most exciting thing is seeing you guys use the stuff that we do and loving it, taking our advice or taking our sex toys now and taking the Ashley Wander to your pussy. And it's just, it means a lot. So thank you guys for your support. I mean, I've been really

overwhelmed this week reading our DMs. The vibes on Instagram account. It blew up over a night. Thousands of orders came in. And I was like, these people, they trust us. And I'm excited to create something so special for them. I am too. And I just, I can't stress enough. Like a lot of people with whatever it is,

whether it's celebrities, influences, people, podcasters, people with platforms put out products that they don't use. Like, you're like, this person doesn't use this skincare line. They don't wear this shit. You know what I mean? And it's just like we created these straight out of our own nightstands. This is exactly what is. Okay.

What are you going to say? What has been going on? A little anecdotes for you. The first one is that my family has been not. Oh my God. I'm going to say my husband. Is Raid in this episode? She's like, Jared, my family.

No one is safe. Well, as soon as my mom texts me, congratulations, she'll be safe. But my dad has been so sweet and wonderful. And every day he wants him to be a business meeting with me about how many orders we've done. What is selling? How are we promoting it? It's very sweet and cute.

Your whole family has texted me. Every person, every member of your family. Stephanie. Stephanie. Matt's wife. No one is. more thoughtful than my brother's wife. No, and I've known my sister lost three times as long.

She's going in. Yeah, Stephanie texted me before anyone. Mom, dad, Matt, I blew everyone up on the Wordle group chat. I was like, excuse me, launched a company today. How's the Wordle going? On Tuesday, I finally get a text for my mom and I'm like, it's happening. It's happening. And she goes, what's that show you told me about?

It was like this very long text. I'm like, I hear it is. It's the I'm proud of you text. No. What's that show you told me about? I don't think it's called bad blood. What's the show called? Oh my God.

And my parents, like, my mom's like, Ashley, we were so proud of you. Like, shut up. And I was like, well, I had to roast you because Stephanie's winning right now as in terms of a thoughtful family member. But sometimes I feel like they can't keep up with what's going on. We've got a lot going on. Yeah. I mean, I'm not mad at my family.

Actually, they've always been supportive. They love me. They'll figure out that they love me at some point. And then I launched a company. No, your dad is enough for everybody. He is. He's like more than most people get. So he was like, so tell me about like who you're coming up on the show.

Like how are you going to promote this? What guest do? And I was talking about this one episode that we want to do where we talk about like erectile dysfunction and that like why guys experience it, whether it's physical or mental and things like that. My dad was like, he starts to say, did you ever hear somebody saying something and you're like, put it back, put it back, put it back in the box. When our agent asked us when Dewey was going to die? Yeah. We can talk about it.

Keep going. On Dewey's birthday. On Dewey's birthday. So how much longer is he going to live? What? excuse me i brought it up to him again without you being there he just put his head in his hand he says he thinks about it every time the other agent in the room walked to the back of the room she's she was like i can't

i have to be farther physically away from what just happened she sat on the couch okay so yes i get it but he was just like he starts saying this thing and it's washing over me what he's saying i'm like you gotta stop bro you got to stop bro and i was like I don't really start experiencing that into my 60s. But honestly, like, it's not even that, like, a couple of Viagra can't take care of. No, no. It was insane. Take it back.

And, like, I knew the Viagra was coming, and I was just like, I. You could feel and probably not. I can hear him start to say ED and, like, I didn't, my brain wasn't processing and fast. I have to get the words out. Please don't finish this sentence. And he said it so casually. you should pop a few Viagra and you just keep fucking. Let's have him on. I guess that's our expert. Your dad, we should have your dad on. We need my mom and your dad. It's so crazy.

So you, I love your relationship with your dad. It really is like a friendship. You know, like, it's like more like me and my mom. You talk all the time. But those moments are funny when you have a close relationship with a parent like that. Like I'm not saying you talk to your dad about like sucking dick and stuff. Like I can tell my mom any of that. But when you're having those friend talks about something sexual and they like start to interject and you're like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Like my mom, every once in a while, I'll start telling her something. And she'd be like, well, me and your dad. I'm like, nope, do you, I'd rather, mom, tell me about other guys you fucked before dad. I cannot hear about your sex life with dad.

It's like, have you forgotten where we are? But I feel bad. Like, I'm her buddy. I know. I know. That's me and your dad. He just wants to be, like, he does, you, forget for a moment. They'd forget. I don't forget. But it's true though. I mean, also, he wasn't trying to be gross. He was like, guys, your age shouldn't be experiencing this. People in their six. My dad's 75. Bill's a doctor now. He's probably, tell Dylan that. Bill. Like my dad would like Dylan. I'm just picturing your dad

coaching Dylan. Well, Dylan, why don't you explain what you're working with? Also, Dylan, this isn't a dig. We did a whole episode about his dick. So you guys can go back and listen. Yeah.

No, not at all. So it was just like funny. And also like, yeah, I started trying to be like a little more professional and be like, well, you know, young men these days have those problems. My dad, he just wasn't happening. He was like Viagra, Viagra, Viagra.

Okay. Great. Thanks, dad. So that was really funny. that happened with my dad. The thing that I didn't talk about last week again, because we didn't talk about anything but vibes, was I went on this date. I wanted to talk about it because I think I kind of did something that I do recommend and then I wanted to talk about Raina got, Rana got into it because he was a teacher. And so Rana was just like started saying like dirty teacher,

dirty talk. So it's kind of relevant to today's episode. But I just matched with this guy and Hinge. I was out to dinner with some friends. Like I was out with Rob and Bobby and Izzy and we were at Ozatar, of course. And I just matched with this guy. I thought he was cute on Hinge. literally as soon he liked me and then when I went to match him back, we matched and I was like, come to Ozatar. Like just bold, come meet me. And he was responsive. It was like 10 o'clock at night. He was like, I have to teach in the morning. I was like live a little, you know? And I think he was like really feeling it to the point where he's like, let me take out for drinks. Like, we actually went out the next night. But I've done that a few times and it goes over really well.

If you're like, come meet me right now. Like Airbnb guy. Like I was out with girlfriends. I was like, come to this bar. He was like, okay. Like to me it also feels more organic. Like it's not like a set time and there's like anxiety before the date and you just are like come out right now come right it's like if you could almost create something that feels a little more like meeting in the wild than an app date but anyway so that's just like a tip you know if you're really feeling it again I'd had a few glasses of wine and I was like come meet me right now like I think anyone male female whatever like appreciates the boldness the confidence and it's like sexy like I didn't demand it I was that in like a flirty way but it's worked before and I just think it's better than like hi how are you

what's your favorite color when would you like send me your availability you know To me, like, I feel like dating apps are more of an exploding offer. Like, I'm either feeling it today or I'm not. If I make a date with you, I talk to you for two days, then the third day we have a date. I have so many days to talk myself out of wanting to be bothered by you. Like, I met not on a dating app, but I met this other guy at a party a couple years ago at New York Wine and Food,

and we were exchanging numbers and flirting a little bit. And I was like, do you want to meet me at a bar in like an hour? Yes. Because I don't have the day to talk myself out of it. So I love that. We have a good guy friend that met his wife on an app, and he always says that they exchanged like four messages. They matched and they were out and about.

I think they just met in Soho for a drink. Like, it was like quick. It was immediate. I mean, you just hear those success stories. You don't have the time to overthink it. You just go. So anyway, again, he didn't come out that night, but we went out. I think the next night, he, we started flirting in a funny way of like him being like my tutor.

It wasn't like dirty talking, but it was like very funny. He was very witty. And then the way he asked me out for the next day, he was like, do you want to pregame this dinner with me? Which was so funny. I like, love the language. And I was like, yeah, I randomly have shows too. I'm saying this to you guys. I didn't say this to him. But I was like, yeah, sure. So we met at like six. We both had stuff to do at eight. And it was just funny. The texts were very funny. I was showing you. I was showing you. I was showing you. I was showing you. I'm trying to feel after I charge you my full rate or something like that. And then I was running late. He was like, I'm here. I'm sitting by the door or whatever. And I was like, sorry, I'm running a few minutes behind. I'm coming from detention. And it's just gone like very funny. Anyway, I don't think it's, it was just kind of a friend vibe. And he was like a really nice guy. And we,

one date and we'll probably never go out again. But the funny thing that happened was that after this date, this is like a funny part of being a comedian. After this date, I had to go to the stand to perform. And he had a dinner that was near the stand. So we walked together. He walked me up there. And as we're walking up to the stand,

it was like a beautiful night. So all these comedians were outside. And I was like, I don't want them to see him on a date. Like, you just, they'll just roast me. Like, no matter what, they'll find something to make fun of him about. They'll make fun of me.

Whatever. So I kind of try to give him a hug, like before we get up there and like, then just scurry away and go inside. And I see this comedian, Aaron Berg. He looks like just a beefier Joe Rogan. I see his big bald head. I'm like, if Aaron sees me on this date, I'm going to be so embarrassed.

And I was like, he didn't see me. I'm free. I go inside. Aaron was like, we're going to date? And I was like, yeah, he just starts roasting me, roasting the guy. The guy was fine. He wasn't, but he just goes in and then he went up and did the first 10 minutes of a set all about me, just roasting me.

I walked to the room. I was like, what the fuck? And so we're going back and forth. It was just this very funny thing that like comedians, I would never want them to see me on a first date. No, you've got to get dropped off a block away. Got to get dropped off a block away. But yeah, that was pretty much.

That's what I did. Also, by the way, I think people should steal that line. Not that I don't think this guy was lying, but you want to help me pre-game this dinner. It's such a good... If you're like, I don't know if I want to be out with this person all night. I love it. It's the best line.

And then you can plausible denial bill, you can leave if you don't like the person. Or if you like them, like, what a cool move to be like, I'm with a sinner. Let's just stay and hang. Well, it's perfect in every way because these people are strangers and it should be on the table that like,

I don't know if we're going to vibe and I want to have something else to go to afterwards. We all think like that. Like you shouldn't be offended that someone has plans for later when you're a stranger. Totally. You know what I mean?

So it's perfect. You have two hours to hang, see if you like each other. And then I like it because you know that person is a social life. You know they have friends. You know they have plans, stuff to do.

It's like the hottest way to ask someone out. Perfect line. It like implies like pregame is like a fun flirty word. Anyway, you're getting drinks. Like it was perfect. I was like, say less. It's the best line. Okay, we're going to get into the dirty talk,

but we're going to take some time to tell you a little bit more about our app and some new things that we're offering this week. This company just keeps getting better every week. Ash and I really have our hands in every single part of this. So we have launched Sezzle, which will allow you to break up your payments into different payments. The first two days, you might have noticed that the credit card processing wasn't there. It's there now. Nothing was more of a journey. You guys, we heard us talk about, listen, I don't care. I think this is like important. information to share because of the nature of this business stuff has been difficult. It is not easy to start anything that is sex related. Truly. And the person who was working on credit cards

for us is a brilliant person and started working on this in April. And we got credit cards approved two days after we launched the business. So now if you guys went to the site and you noticed that wasn't there. Now we have everything. We have Amazon pay. We have Apple pay. We have Sezzle, which will allow you to break it up into multiple payments and we've all credit cards. We ship internationally. We ship everywhere. Some of you ask what are the best vibrators to start with. We're going to tell you guys about that. Yes, and there is free shipping U.S. only, so domestic free shipping over a certain amount. It'll tell you when you check out how, like what to spend to get free shipping. But we made that easy to achieve.

Yeah. You get a toy, throw something else in there. And then the last thing we want to ask is you guys like really went crazy promoting this on Instagram stories. Please continue to do that for us. We appreciated so much. If you can leave a review on the app, anything on iTunes. And write funny stuff, right, nice stuff.

The stuff you guys been running is fucking crazy and hysterical. everything you've been writing on Instagram is like comments and reviews of the toys. So keep doing it. We'll read our funniest ones. We'll repost them. We'll make feed posts with it. So if you guys leave like really funny stuff, we will keep talking about it. Yes.

And there's so much to review because once you get in there, you're going to see what you're into. We really promoted the toys last week. We went a little too hard on the Raina, I think. People were like, Ashley, when I heard you talk about the Raina, I got the Raina. I'm like, damn it. I did it. I was like, Ashley's great. I love it.

Anyway, so the Raina. So I really just, I do want to hype it a little bit more. I'm not going to dwell on this too much. But it really is our signature product in that the Ashley has the VO stamped on it. And it has this rose gold handle. It really is, it's so stunning. And I just feel like all of our tours are incredible. We want you guys to have the whole collection.

Some of you bought the whole collection are all stars. But if you've never had a wand like this or if you've never had a wand, you really have to get one. This is truly the best one in the market. It's so gorgeous. It's so powerful. And it's so lightweight. We had it in the green room last night.

And people, it couldn't believe how lightweight it was. People were just picking it up. We have a ribbed handle in case you get all wet, you're lubed up. So it works great with the lube. Again, the lube is called juiced up, which is our phrase. And we love that. And I want to just really explain it because I think if people find it intimidating, because we say it's the most powerful, you can turn down the vibration very low and even

lower within the app. You're going to have all these different settings within the app to change the vibration. So it really is if you really want that power, but you don't need to use it. So it can, whatever you're into, and it's made for all body types, I will say that I feel like this is, I know that this is the best toy if you're any sort of a larger person. If you're tall like me or your plus size, you just have more body. You have a bigger vagina. Just because you're a bigger person. This is going to be it. I've gotten some messages about that. And of course, I like this. I just have more body. I got a bigger pussy than you. And but you love it too.

It's also great for petite people. Like it can work for whoever. Well, it's funny that we named the toys like Therina and the Ashley. Because I'm, listen, I'm obsessed with the Rana. I think it's incredible. But I am more inclined on a day to day basis to use the Ashley. I want something that's just going to get me there. I don't necessarily need something suck in my clit. I mean, I love it. Don't get me wrong. But my day to day is the Ashley. I think the Ashley is your boyfriend and the Raina's your sidepiece. It really is. The Ashley is and the thing about it is that they are so different. Like I'm just going to get like graphic with it. So if we're just talking about your clip, right? Like the Raina, it's sucking it. And of course you could have the other end inside of you. You can have in your booty hall, whatever you

want. But the Ashley is just, it's this big, soft, bendy silicone head that like just covers so much surface area. Like if you've only ever used a bullet or you're even using the other end of the Raina and you use the Ashley, you're like, it's a whole different experience. It feels like such a full body orgasm because it's like taking up more space. And so I'm just obsessed with it. And I just feel like last week, I just, I went so hard on the Raina. And we can tell. We can tell what you guys are into. So keep them all in mind. And the Gigi is really special. And, It's really special with the app because you can be listening to these experiences anywhere and just have the Gigi in your panties. And now with the remote controller, someone else can control it.

So with all of these toys, you can control them within the remote or of course someone else can. Your partner can within a Bluetooth range. We don't want to say number of feet because everybody is a different type of home, different walls, everything. But normal Bluetooth range, someone can have the phone and someone can be across the room or whatever with the vibe. So you could have the Gigi in your panties and your partner could just be going off, DJing it, whatever they want to do with you. And I mean, this is a new company.

We're working in the features. We want to hear what you guys are looking for. But I would say the Gigi is probably my favorite paired with the app of the three toys that we sell because you can use it with a partner really fun. And it's my favorite for travel also. And I just love to bring a vibrator when we travel. And one of the best things about the remote control on the app is that it's going to unlock more patterns and more intensities on your toys.

So we have great ones built into every single toy. on top of that you're going to be able to unlock even more. And so it just makes the toys even that more special. It's incredible. Yeah. It's just like there's so much to do within it and that we're going to be releasing new features. And again, there's going to be new content every single week. So every single week you at least have a new experience, new video. Every week there'll be new stuff in there for you. But yeah, the remote is such a cool thing. And we designed it to be one-handed because we know your hand's going to be doing something else with your toy. So you can kind of dial it up and you'll see where there's like intensity for your steady pulse.

And then there's patterns too, which is going to be like the different pulses and the rolling hills and all that kind of stuff. So that's all within the remote. And then also within the app in the video section are tutorials for everything. So Rain and I have filmed tutorials for everything. If you want more video content of us,

here you go. We have done tutorials for every single product. How to connect your vibe. How to clean it. How to, we did an unboxing video. How to charge it. You know, all this stuff is like, we love doing these.

We felt like we were like QVC, you know, just kind of instead of you're going to have your product manual when you get it, but there's also these videos of how to do all this stuff. I'll talk a little more of the videos, but if you want to talk about the really the premier product within the app, which is the experiences. And it's just so special. And there is something in there for everybody. And we ask you guys, what are your fantasies? Yeah. And, you know, of course we want to be as inclusive as possible, but we did create this app and the products with women in mind. but of course when anyone and everyone to enjoy pleasure with them, we'd love to see it. And we do,

of course, plan to evolve over time. We're just getting started. But you'll find within the app content for women and men and women and women. But again, anyone can enjoy it. And we do plan to offer more over time. This is just the beginning. But you go in and you're going to see like what's hot and new. I'm looking right now. There's the training session. The training session is one of my favorites. You're with your trainer. It ends up you guys hit the showers. There's Cowboy Clint and he's going to be a character. There's going to be more from him. You guys wanted a cowboy so bad. When we crowdsource us at Instagram, everyone said

like cowboy. And again, there's different characters. So you're going to get more episodes. And there's also just like one offlings too. There's a massage that gets sexual. Raina loves that one. She really helped with that one. And then one that we are so excited about is the Dorman. Dormand dick. We know you guys love it. And one thing we really thought about was like everybody has such a

huge range of what turns them on. So there's going to be stuff that's a little more romantic. There's going to be stuff that's little naughtier and dirtier. Like, listen, not everyone wants to masturbate to fucking their stepbrother. I do, but I don't know that that's for everybody. So we really kept that in mind when making this. Whether it is opposite sex, same sex, whatever we have stuff that's a broad range of kinks.

Oh, yeah, the gardener. Oh, my gosh. I'll give you, I'll play you guys a little snippet. We have a character. We called him the Duke of Vibesbury. And his voice is, this is what I played for my mom. And my mom just was like, what is this app? So I'll play you guys a little snippet.

You paid this for your mom. I mean, his voice is unreal. Please do forgive my brashness as I confess to the stirring and as I share my innermost desires with you. And it agreeable. So there's a little snippet of our Duke. So that's a special one. You know, that's like a really kind of supposed to transport you to like an old-timey place.

But there's just so much in there. I don't want to give too much away. I've already said too many. But you guys are just going to get in there and see what you're into. And again, like Raina said, there's categories. There's one that are, you know, we're going to feel more dominant. There's a dominant category. There's intimate. You know, you want to feel like it's you and your boyfriend and, you know, you're cooking dinner and you have sex in the kitchen. Or you want to feel really dominated by like a rich, powerful Christian Gray type. We really did it all. So and again, it's going to power your vibes. So you will turn them on. You'll power them on first. And then you'll connect them. They connect so quick. It is the quickest Bluetooth I've ever seen. Everybody that has used this. can't believe it. Everyone that's even worked in this industry, like our app developers, our partner on the products is like, I've never seen a Bluetooth that connects this quickly. It's incredible. We're so

proud. Yeah. And we, I mean, if I can hype more, we kept the cost down. I mean, these vibrators costs just as much, if not less than anybody else as you can find. And they have an additional Bluetooth chip built into them. They're less than like quality, same quality products that don't have Bluetooth. Yeah. Like we kind of can't. In the Bluetooth, there are most of quality Bluetooth two vibrators are 200 plus. So, I mean, yeah, there's a deal. We did it. So the final thing that we're going to talk about with the Vives Only app, which will take us

into our amazing topic for today, is the video component. And I am just so proud of what we've done here. You know, the app was not released yet. The company wasn't out. We started contacting all the former guests and thinking, like, what are we going to put on this and how do we compile this? And what we have come up with is so much sex, dating, and relationship content. we have former guests,

you've psychotherapists, comedians, dating experts, plus me and Ashley, and there is a huge variety of weed up on there. And so many people just trusted us. And we're excited to make videos and produce this content. And we picked the best of all of it. And we went to every person, we were like, this is what you're an expert at,

make a video on this. And everything is really digestible, 90 seconds, nothing's more than like three minutes, really. And it's on a huge range of stuff. And those are ours. We went harder. Mine about sexting. I'm just like, it's so long.

It's fine, though. I had a lot to say. It's great. Our whole episode today is about dirty talk and sexting. So when you go in there right now, you'll get an Ashley sexting video in a week or two. I have one about dirty talk. I have one in there right now about blow jobs. I have one coming on shower sex.

Yes. And her and Dylan are going to go head to head. Dylan is doing. I hate shower sex. I have her rebuttal. She's a rebuttal. In a towel. Get ready.

The other people in there, I mean, it's such a wide range. So we have Lily and Charles. who's a stylist, she's telling you about the best laundry for your body. We have Logan Yuri, who is the chief data scientist at Hinge. She's telling you all about how to build a better dating profile. Matchmaker Maria is telling you about best combo topics on a first date. We've Emily Fedner, she's a chef, our good friend, talking about the best after next morning sandwiches.

Also, there's morning after, the morning after sandwiches. And then we have tons of our comedian friends on there. You guys will see Francis Ellis, Julio Galerati, Mateo Lane, Usama Sidigi, Dylan Paladino, all doing all kinds of content for you guys. Plus me and Ashley, we've multiple dominatrixes on this app talking about how to get naughty with blindfolds, figuring out your kinks.

I mean, I am so proud of this. It's so fun. There's just, there's a million reasons to use this app. Like, it's so exciting to me. It is so exciting. And, you know, it's kind of like dirty TikTok. Like so much of this content doesn't,

like you just want to an app like TikTok, for example, or even if you're scrolling in Instagram, but obviously it's more about TikTok is like, I wish there was like a sex. TikTok. That's kind of why we did this, you know, because that stuff doesn't really fly. So, listen, I love TikTok, no shade. Like, they keep it clean over there. So this is like, you went to a TikTok channel for like sex and dating, basically. And here's all your content within that. So we love it. Obviously, it's not all explicit, of course. I mean, it's like we have Lillian talking

about like bras and panties, which I love. And then we have Mateo talking about anal. So it's really, it runs the gamut. And but of course, it's like totally uncensored. And there's captions. And the person in the video, you click on their handle. You can see more from that. go to their Instagram, go to their Twitter, TikTok, whatever handle that they've decided to provide. And it's just a really cool, fun experience. And it's just this other layer to like the erotic experience that you get on the other side of the app. It's just kind of this is like the come down and the laughs and the knowledge and all that kind of stuff.

And it's really fun to share. It's fun to watch with the partner. We have incredible TikTok people actually sign up for the next round. We've dozens of videos in the bank for sexy nudes, all kinds of conversation topics with partner. have opening your pussy up with better yoga. We have pole dancing, all kinds of stuff coming. So there will be new contact every week. And if you guys make this for a living, if you guys think you're experts in these fields, we have a contact form on our website at vibes only.com.

You guys can submit to make videos for the app. And if you're interested in writing or voiceover. So that is all at the bottom of vibes only.com. It says work with us and you'll go there and you'll see three different applications for those three things, writing, voice acting, making videos. And we have a process for that. and we're always looking for talent. And just, you know, of course, take a look first and see what, see what it's about. Yeah.

So that's our company, guys. We, uh, we have launched a consumer goods company and a tech company in the span of one week. It took us a year. Uh, we self-funded this. We worked so hard on this. I am so proud of it. I love you so much.

I'm so excited to launch another business with you. I know. It's like so crazy. Here we are. Um, no, it's, it's, it's unlike anything else and we're so proud of it. And we love the way it looks. It's very. sexy and there's just more coming.

Like we have, I don't want to announce it because I don't want people to get all excited and be waiting with bated breath. But there's just some really cool innovative features that we're still planning on adding. Like this is just version one. Give us some grace with this stuff too. We want to hear your feedback. But we made this for you. We want to know what you guys think about it, what you want more of.

You know, if you don't like something, that's understandable because everyone's different. So I'm not asking for feedback on. Like, I hate this story. It's like, yeah, well, guess what someone else loves it? So that's not exactly what I'm saying. Like, just keep in mind that everyone's different. and everyone's different kings, different fantasies.

So we made it for someone. But in terms of like what you want to see more, what you like, let us know. Yeah. And we hope you guys enjoy it. Thanks for believing in us. Thanks to everybody for participating in this. All of our partners who made this possible,

all of our former guests. We just love you all. And we're excited to keep creating this. So without further ado, our topic for today is dirty talk. And we're going to cover sexting and dirty talk in the bedroom. You guys have just, you've asked for years for this topic. We've done it once.

and I think we talk about it all the time, but I'm excited to just do it me and you. Yeah. It's, I mean, it's such a big part of my sex life, especially if you guys have a long distance relationship or you're like, I'm looking to reinvigorate my relationship a little bit. This is the perfect thing. And I think, Dirty Talk is really intimidating to people.

And I think especially if you've been with a partner for a little while, and you're like, I can't just bust this out. Like, it starts to become really intimidating. And you're like, am I going to scare somebody? Is it going to be too much? And Ashley and I are going to give you, like, tips and tricks. And then we're going to give you lines. We're going to feed you lines.

line. And for getting your partner to get into it. Yes. Because that's, that's the hardest thing, I think sometimes. Yeah. I mean, I love it. We all, we all know that. The guy that I was dating, having sex with when we first started the podcast, like week one, this is like a fucking hot, 24-year-old. He, I mean, he was, he was hot and he could dig me down. He had a great body. He was so sexy. But it was like his dirty talk that put me over the edge. Like, the body connection between the two of us wasn't as much as like the dirty talk, like just him right in my ear. He had like a sexy voice. Like it like got me off. I was so into it. Yeah. I have a hard time kind of getting there at this point without it. But yeah, it can be really tough. I mean, it's usually, I mean, I don't know. I'm not

other people, but it's hard because I can dirty talk with anybody. But if your partner doesn't do it, it's hard to get somebody into it. Yeah. And I mean, I think that this comes with with age and confidence too. Like I don't really think that I was so much dirty talking when I was a lot younger. I've just over time. And now it's to the point where it's so comes so naturally. I'm so into it. And like, you're going to do it. You're going to say something. You're going to, I'm going to get you there. You're going to say something. Like, I will ask you questions. Like, I will not let up. You have to say something. I agree. I've gotten better as the years have gone on. Practice makes perfect, you guys. And I will say some people are never going to get there. I literally wrote that

down. I said some partners are never going to get there. You've decided if you can live with it. But I think even if you're out of zero, you can get someone to like a level three. Amy, but listen, some people will never. Not all the time. And some people are like only in the moment that you can't ask them to do it. Like I have this guy I used to date who like only like half the time and I can almost never get them to have phone sex with me. But yeah, if you can't get somebody to do it, then you have to decide if you can live

with it. Because like not everybody's going to be comfortable with it, whether it was how they're raised or they're a little sexually stunted. They're a little more religious. They're not comfortable with it. I mean, I'm just going to be completely honest. It would not be for me. I could try and try.

But like I don't think we're getting past. ask like week three. Yeah. And I think if we're talking about ground zero, I mean, that is someone who is not making any noises at all. Like I can't remember the guests we had on that kind of said like starting with noises is just like it's still being vocal. Like it's still, so you as someone that's just like silent, silent commerce, silent everything. No, not emoting at all. Like it might be a struggle if you want this to get them there. So we can talk about it. But I think that you have to lead them with what you're doing too. And some of that is just noises. If you're uncomfortable too, It's just like starting with like, again, like, here's the thing that's going to be tough about

this episode. I'm going to say this up top. I've said this before on the podcast that my brain right now is not like my brain in the bedroom. It's like being on a drug. So I can't even get there. Like the stuff I say in the bedroom, I can't, I don't know her. Like she.

I know. Like, who said that? It's hard to do this episode. Like I was making notes and I was like cringing at myself because I'm like, the stuff that comes out of my mouth when I'm in the heat of the moment. I'm like, I, I cringe thinking about it. I don't know that bitch. I know.

But everybody. like that. So I think that guys, we're talking about guys, I think they tend to be a little more hesitant to speak in the bedroom, a little quieter in the bedroom shy, whatever, just intimidated. They're not into it. You know, whatever. So the more you can do to like get them really turned on to that point when they get there, to that point when they don't know who they are and they're just saying crazy stuff. That's a hysterical point. That is so funny. Like you've got to, make sure you're not asking for it when everyone's not all aroused. That's so true. You know, make sure they're rock hard.

They're like, for play. Really passionate all over you. Like, foreplay, sex is reciprocal. But if you're trying to get something out of somebody, like make sure you're giving it to them to get them in that place. That's such a good point. Like I think like edging,

foreplay, anything like that, revving the knob. Yes. And don't feel, if you, listen, if you've never sexted, don't feel the pressure to go from zero to a million. Like the stuff that comes out of my mouth has taken me years to muster the courage.

I can't say that enough. And it's taking me years to muster. And I don't, I'm not saying this kind of. stuff with a stranger. Like, it's usually with, like, a more consistent, serious partner. And if you really can't say to somebody's face, sexting is always the best way to start. I love just, like, a little sex. Like, I, you said this, I can't stop thinking what you did to me last night. Or, um, I'm getting so wet thinking about you coming over later. Anything like that to just

like get it going. And again, to edge them to make them excited for later. We didn't know about sexting. We're going to do another one. And then, of course, Ashley has a great video in the app about it. So go watch that. And it pops up. So you can like even screenshot that. them. Like, we had like little bubbles come up. Yeah. And it's low level. It's, we're going to do more, but my video in the app right now is sexting for beginners. Yes. You're not going to scare anyone. I think that Dirty Talk is just a natural extension of your sex life. It should just be like another, just like bringing a sex toy into the bedroom. It's just like another accoutrement to sex. But no one is, I mean, you said a kutermot twice. I guess. It's our word of the week because I misspelled

it on the website. Listen, all a minute. It's a toughie. It can be plural or not. Um, listen, I guess there, we have some stories. There are things that people could say in the bedroom that you joke about with your friends over brunch that are fucking crazy. But for the most part, especially if we're talking about male, female couples, no guy is like, dude, you'll never believe what she said to me in the bedroom. They think everything you could say is hot. Like everything. I've never in my life of all the guy friends and all the guys that I've talked to about sexual experiences have never heard them make fun of anything a woman said in the bedroom.

Not once ever. Women different story. because guys they don't know what the I just can't I can't we have stories so I can't say but I am truly saying like we have talked to so many guy friends guests about sex

and they're never going to be turned off I mean I guess if you said something so crazy you said something racist are you not funny as they said like no I'm just saying like it's a joke of like what you couldn't do to say to turn something off yeah as as they should

but well I have an example and I think it's my like the only serious thing say this whole episode is that like everybody has boundaries and you should draw your boundaries with somebody. And like one thing that I really, I like some degrading dirty talk. I like being called a slut and a whore. I do not want to be called like a stupid slut or a dumb horse. I'm like, like, that's my boundary. Like, and Ashley wouldn't like, I'm telling you like, don't you think it would take you out of the moment if somebody was like you're such a slut, you would hate it. I don't like it. Um, but you ask for that, right? Like, they know you want it.

They know you. Yeah, but I, you know, no one's ever called me that because I didn't ask and they did, like, if people even listen to the show, they know you like that. Like, whatever it is, has anyone ever done it out of bounds? I've probably opened the door up texting with that, because I want to say, like, I want you to come over and treat me like your dirty. Yes, yes, you do. Like, I was asking you, have you ever felt like someone did something that you didn't even give, you didn't open the door and they just went? My bottle. I'm just saying, Raymond, yeah, is asking for it. And so, I'm trying. It hasn't happened to me. What was I wearing? Because I'm not asking for.

You had it coming. I can't get it. Bell's laughing across the room. It's making me laugh. Raina, you laugh too much. Everyone hates your laugh. That one girl. I think she's listening.

So if it's too soon, I don't like it. So I always say it's my caveat. I like to be disrespected in the bedroom by somebody I know respects me in life. Yep. So I can deal with like choking me whispering in my ear. like, you're my little fucked doll. Tell me you're my little fucked doll.

When like, when I know that person cares about me, when it's somebody that's a little more anonymous, I don't like it. And it feels like they mean it. I can't. Like, I don't like it. My body is like punching up. That guy in Australia who spit in my mouth and we fucked all night. Like he was, he really

degraded me in a way where I was like, oh, you really hate women. Yeah. But also it's like, that's what you were there for. Like, I think it's been on it. Like, you went into it. Like, sometimes it's too soon. I just want to say, like, if you don't like something, I think it's fine to, like, wrap up a sexual experience.

Be like, listen, you said this thing. It took me out of the moment. I think that that is a good way to say it. I mean, you can also say, don't fucking call me a slut. I don't like it. But it took me out of the moment. I think it's just like a less horrible way that, you know, less, I think it's a less aggressive way to say it.

Yeah. Have you had somebody say something that was going to, like, really take you out of the moment? Like, what's your, what's your boundary? I don't, I mean, no, not really. I mean, I think I have a pretty good picker for guys. I think I get a whiff of disrespect. I don't want it. So I'm usually fucking guys that I feel like respect women. And guys understand that we don't all want it. So for the most part, I feel like even a guy that's like my ex-girlfriend wanted me to call her a dirty whore is still not going to call me that. You know, they've realized that like I got to figure out if she wants it first. Like so not everybody can nail the dirty talk. Like I think I was talking about the guy that I was fucking when the show first started. Like he just had the perfect voice. He had the perfect energy for it. He could talk nonstop and it wouldn't take me out of it. I think there's, obviously a limit. Like you don't want someone for chitter-chattering the whole time. But yeah, I'm a little

different than you. I just like more compliments. Like I like more like you like that kind of stuff, you know, telling me how hot I am. But like I'm into like questioning, questioning too. But with talking, if you were trying to think about you talking, you're like, I want to be more vocal in the bedroom. I think it's the low level stuff is like how you feel and how they feel. So I just think like you feel so good is so easy. That's like the lowest level. thing is like you feel so good, your dick feels so good. I remember the, I feel like I can remember the first time I used the word dick and like it came out of my mouth and I was like in my 20s and I was like, oh my God, I'm so bad. I think you can always, I'm so wet, you're so hard, you're so hot,

yada, yada, that stuff too. I think that is the easiest place to start. Do you agree? So what I think the easiest way in is exactly what you're saying, I would talk about sensory things. So just describe like what's going on in the room to you. So that's taste, touch, smell, sound, wetness, hardness. I'm so wet is, I would say,

one of the easy, you feel so good, I'm so wet, are the two things about me, about you that are like the lowest level, easiest places to start.

They're so hot. And it's not going to scare anybody. Just make sure you're wet. Use our loop. Use our loop. Can you say I'm so wet? He's like, no,

you're not. He's like, I'm literally inside of you right now. It's the desert. You can say, I thought about your dick all day, missed your dick all day. I thought about this all day.

You smell. smell so good. You taste so good. Your hands feel so good. You're getting me so wet. I love when your mouth is on my neck, my tits. You're so hard. I love the way you sound when you're fucking me. Like any sensory things, just describe what's going on. Describe what's going on the room. Well, it's funny because I had this guy dated for years on and off and we, I mean, admittedly, we did not have a good sex life. And he was a silent comer. He didn't talk during sex. He didn't really, he was not creative. I mean, he's hot. He's a nice guy. It's just, it wasn't for him.

And we're still good friends. And years later, he started dating this girl and he was like, I want to talk to you about how I can be better in bed for her. Oh, my, right. I'm like, who was you talking about? Yes, you read the sex on stage at some of our shows when he was there. Yeah, he's my DCX. And he was like, I don't know how to like get into this more.

And the first thing I said was like, you don't say anything. So start with, like, describing what's going on in the room. Your body looks so good. Yes. You feel so good. Yes. I like, you're so hot. You're so hot.

Easy. Like if I feel like a guy like can't hold back and he's like, you're so fucking sexy or like you're so hot, I'm like, yes, say more. Like I need it. But I'm doing the same thing. I'm not wanting compliments and not returning them. Like I'm doing the same thing. I'm like, I complimented you, compliment me back. We had a funny thing, this guy that I hooked up with after a show. Someone at the show had written in that she had hooked up with a guy and he had said I'm so wet. And so I ended up looking up with the guy after that show. And we joked all. all night. He kept saying I'm so wet and I kept saying I'm so hard. It was very funny. So I think that's a good way. And then you can ask them to tell you how it feels. You know, tell me how I feel. Tell me how I taste. Tell me how good this is for you. Just encourage them to say stuff. Yes. I put that down to like questioning, I think low level, does that feel good? You know, do you do like when I ride you? How's my pussy feel? Stuff like that. Tell me what to do you. Tell me what you. I wrote that too. Tell me what you want is key. Tell me what. You do you. Tell me what.

you want me to do to you or tell me what you want to do to me. Those are so hot. Like, tell me what you want is like, it feels a little like if we're starting again from a lower level, I think the yes or no is it good to start. Does that feel good? Do you like when I ride you, how's, things like that. One word answers and then you can move up to tell me what you want, tell me what you want me to do to you. And you can tell them what to do too. Like I'm always like, I will tell someone to smack my ass if they haven't yet. I don't tell people to choke me. I just put their hand on my neck. Me too. Yeah. I also suck on their fingers.

Yeah. Sucking on fingers is so hot. I suck that guy's fingers that the ghost guy. I never said this on the podcast. A little Frankie's guy. His finger was in my mouth. I can't believe it. You were fucking and sucking, you were not fucking and you were sucking on fingers. It was so hot. It was so hot. That was like, yes, we were making it on the couch. It was so hot and heavy. He was so hard. I was so wet.

Yeah, I sucked on his fingers and he never talked to me again. That's the hottest thing that you can do is suck a finger. That's just a freebie, guys. That's not even dirty talk. But like, I dare you to not say something dirty to me while I'm sucking on your finger. Yeah. I'll tell people to like pull my hair. They usually are bad.

I mean, just like you can tell them what to do. And I think positive and encouraging. is so key. If your partner is doing something you like, tell them. Especially men are so reactive to positive encouragement. Like, they'll keep doing it in that session and they'll do it again and again and again. Like, the positive encouragement is so, like, I love when you do that. I love when you do that.

That's so hot. Like, don't stop. Like, tell them not to stop. Also, don't stop. I wrote down, I broke down my dirty talking to like beginner intermediate and like the highest level. And the beginner stuff is all like, I love when your hands are on me. I love when you grab me like that.

Lay back. Let me take care of you. Oh. Okay, that might be the next level. You're so sexy. I love your body so much. I get so turned on when you do X, Y, Z. I get so wet when you do X, Y, Z. I get so hard. I need you right now. Do you like that? Things are very low level. We got this, guys. Yeah. You know, don't feel intimidated to be like out of the gate so dirty because it has taken me so long. In my last relationship, we had the phone sex every day. We'd a lot of this relationship, we'd phone sex every day.

Yeah, like, this stuff takes practice. Like, I love that we're just like, I saw this TikTok the other day that this woman was like, you see people that are so good at posing for pictures. They've probably practiced. Like, this feels like it's disconnected, but it's the same. It's all the same. Like, these things don't come naturally. It's not, we aren't born knowing how to flirt, how to date, how to dirty talk, how to do all these things. Like, practice makes perfect. So I think as we like move on, if you're like, I've done this, because I think that like, especially long-term relationship, a lot of this gets repetitive. Like, even my ex and I, my last ex, who was like so dirty, you don't see it when you look at them, but wow, what a filth ball. And even like somebody who's so dirty and creative and wants to sex all day long and at phone sex all the

time. Everybody has a finite amount of things they can say. Yeah, material. So I think we exhausted it. After like eight months, it was so intense all the time. So I wouldn't lean on it. I'm we don't long distance relationship, so I had no choice. But I think it's great to have phrases that are just like locked and loaded. If you're like, I don't know what to say, write them down. I know that sounds so boring, but Google dirty talk phrases. What do you think I did before this episode? Google them and have them locked and loaded. So here's the thing. The app. It's designed. So it's designed. So it's, someone is talking to you. You can talk back. You're a home alone. I mean, again, like we said,

you are the main character of your wildest fantasies. This person on the other end is talking to you. So talk back. Yeah. When we came up with this idea of this like dirty talk in the app, we were just like, oh my God, we were so excited about it because this is going to make you better. This is going to make your partner better. Like the whole point is yes, to get off and have these erotic experiences, but also to help you be sexier in the bedroom too. Like these experiences are going to get you in the fucking mood and give you new lines. I love that you suggested practicing with this because like it's judgment free. Talk back to the people in the app. Yes. Don't feel weird about it. If you want to just level up a little bit, we're going to start to fold the words cock and pussy and

come into our dirty talk. You can say I want you to come all over me. I mean, no one loves come talk more than me. Talk about where you want somebody to come. Recently when I was having sex this guy, I told him to come in my tits. It just felt right in the moment. I haven't said that before. It wasn't like the first time. But it just sometimes is like very sex. to say that and I love to say it. Yeah. Anytime you can incorporate come, especially if like you've not done that with your partner, like come on my tits, come on my mouth,

come on my pussy. And just talking about coming, like I'm gonna come so hard. I want you to come so hard. I want you to come so hard. I say that all the time. Usually when I'm ready for it to be over. It's when I'm ready to be too. Yeah.

It's I really bust out my crazy. I go so hard. It works. I beg for it. Clench my vagina so hard. I'm like, I want you to come so hard. And I'm just like I'm having a cramp.

Like I just, it's such a, Those last moments when you've already come and you want them to come and you're getting a foot cramp It's just like the stuff that's coming out of my mouth staring up at the ceiling and you're like Okay this is what we saved it up for It's time to bust it all out

You're begging to be filled up Fill me up with your comb Do you think guys know Do you think guys know that like you save your dirtiest talk For after you come when they know now They're gonna they're gonna take them out of the moment And they're never gonna come now Guys won't know.

God damn it. Yeah, you're right. They're going to forget this happened. So any kind of cum talk, I think advanced is like fill me up with your cum. I want you to shoot your hot cum inside of me. I mean, when somebody starts talking to me about their com, like, I will get off in one second. I do love. I don't know.

Right now. I just, I'm trying to, I think it's funny about where we differ. Like, I want a guy to say, like, I'm going to come so hard. You made me come so hard. Stuff like that. I don't want the details of the actual semen itself. I want you do. quantities.

Like if I was fucking a guy who's like, I'm about to fill you up with so much hot come, I would be like, I want temperature and quantities. I want to know that it's hot. No, no. It's so different than me. You know what's crazy about me though? Is it like I don't want to see your come afterwards. Like when someone like comes on me, I beg for it so hard.

And the second the sexual experience is over, I'm like gagging. I know. I feel like I'm different with that too. Like I don't hate it. it that much. Like that time, that guy came in my tits and part of it ended up in my hair. I was like, leave it. Let's go to the pool. So come dog is great. What do you got that little girl? I want you to dominate me tonight. I'm going to rain his notes. You have a very talented little mouth. You have such a perfect

little pussy. Raina, okay. This is the funniest word doc I've ever seen. I want to be my pants. You have a very talented little mouth. You've such a perfect. You have a very talented little mouth. I mean, I got that to you. My favorite ones. Guys, I don't co-sign that one. I don't co-sign you a very talented little mouth. I love it.

You like that condescending little, like you like being called little girl and stuff like that too, right? Good girl, not little girl. Little girl is a little weird. Good girl. I don't. I call a little girl. That's my king. I like good little girl, actually.

Like I still masturbate. So when I was like 19, I was sucking this guy's dick and he told me I was a good girl. At the cheesecake factory. Yeah. The cheesecake factory. That's the clip. How did I guess?

Some people like Daddy talk, some don't. Daddy's little girl, things like that. People really hate it. Like I have a girlfriend that was like, if I hear the name Daddy, I will never have sex to the person. Yeah, I mean, that is just, again, like we can't stress it enough. It's so specific to what you're into. Everyone is into different stuff.

Like, sex is so polar. polarizing fantasies, dirty talk in terms of like something you love would turn me off. You know what I mean? So again, that's what I said. Keep it in mind the app. Some stuff you're not going to like some stuff you're going to fucking love. It's so true. And calling someone daddy.

I mean, you've got to figure out if your partner wants that or not because I don't say it. And I've heard guys say that they don't want it. And then some guys really do. So I can take it or leave it. It depends on the person. Some people is just like, I don't know. You want to read more?

You want to read that last little line? Which one? Yeah, Daddy, give me every last drop of your delicious cum. You guys can leave the daddy part out of it. I like that you have Fuck Me Harder on there. Yeah. I mean, and... Fuck Me Harder feels like it should have been in the other category, but I was just copying...

No, fuck me harder is good. I mean, I like... I like that one. I like even... We're giving guiselines, too. I don't like the word little in the bedroom. You have little on there so many times. There is a lot of little...

I love it when you grind that little clit on me. I own this pretty little pussy. Get these. Yeah. I don't want to crash the website. I just pulled it from this website. I love sucking your cock. I'm your little whore.

I didn't get any from the internet. Mine all came from me. That's why they're more tame. This one, you're gonna need crutches what I'm done fucking you. Oh my God. If you want to talk about like ownership, like you own this pussy,

you're my king, stuff like that. Some people love that. Some people hate that. Again, like I think that you gotta test the boundaries of people and see what they like in terms of like domination and being just degraded and things like that. 100%. I mean, we're going to share some of y'all's stories, but I share this in the podcast, but I guess it's like an appropriate time to retell the story. But, you know, my first dirty talk

experience was the second guy ever slept with. My boyfriend, who I lost my virginity to, like, I don't know. I remember him making noises. I just don't think there was dirty talk. I mean, I was 18 years old. Like, I just wasn't, you know, but then the next guy, the next person I slept with after him, it was spring break freshman year in college, we're in Panama City Beach. And I met this very hot football player on the dance floor. So I'm like, you know, Panama City Beach Club and we went back to his hotel and that was the guy that we were fucking and he said, do you like the dick? And I was like, no one's ever like dirty talk to me. My ex treated me like a princess, you know, and he was like, do you like the dick? And I was like, and he was like,

tell me you like the dick. And I was like, I'm sitting there. I just didn't say anything. I'm like, maybe he'll give it up. And he said it again. He was like, tell me you like the dick. And I was like, I like the dick. Like I was like, this was also like a different time. This information wasn't as accessible. I mean, I guess I was reading Cosmo, but I like, couldn't wait to tell my best friend. I was like, can you believe it? I mean, I wasn't doing it back then.

I probably was doing my early 20s. There weren't guys asking for it. Like, maybe there's just more information on the internet available. I wasn't doing it. That would have, like, made me feel crazy. I wasn't even doing that in, like, my mid-20s. I think I forgot to me. I like oral sex, dirty talk.

Once you start having sex, here's what I'm talking about. So if a guy goes down on you, you can talk about, like, I love tasting myself on your mouth. Not everybody likes that. Ashley hates it. I think it's great. I always like to give a little BJ for a little bit before sex. So while I'm fucking somebody, I like to talk about how I love sucking their dick.

And you can just say, like, I love the way your cock feels in my mouth. Listen, this is a very advanced level. But if you want to fuck for a little bit and then suck their dick, you can say that you want to taste yourself on their dick. Yeah. I'm not trying to be prudish about it. You're not. That's not for everybody.

Like, I don't. Yeah, it's not for everybody. But I know that it's hot. It's a little porn-starish. And also, if you're just feeling like your routine is a little stale, Come talk, oral sex talk is always just great to sort of like work in there a little bit. And just go on the internet and Google it. Make a list of stuff you want to just start to say.

Yeah. I mean, and also, again, drag this out of someone if it's really difficult. Like get in their ear after you've been having foreplay. They're like, if we're talking about a guy's rock hard, you're wet and be like, do you want me to suck your dick? They're going to say something. Like I'm talking at that someone's so silent. Get them to at least say yes and say, tell me how much you want me to suck your dick.

Make them beg for it. Uh-huh. They want the blow. job, they're going to say something. It's so true. Like, drag it out of them. Yes. If I'm having like phone sex, for example, with somebody that is not so vocal, and this works in the bedroom as well,

like, if you just get them so turned on, like, I will talk about touching myself and thinking about them. And like, I will get them so horny. They're like, you said. They're just saying shit that they don't even know who the fuck is saying. It's just coming out of their body. They don't even realize it. I mean, I've had phone sex for like, I'm the only person participating for the first couple minutes.

And I can hear them breathing and I can hear it. And it's the same thing with like dirty talk. sometimes you're just going to have to carry the experience for a little bit. And then they will eventually get into it. And if you don't, not your guy or your girl. Right. Like for me, not for me. Yeah, if you're not going to do it.

So we had some tips from you guys and some stories. We'll just, we cover a lot of these ourselves. But, oh, I want you to come with me. Is that, that's great. That's a good one. Start simple. Lots of compliments. Lots of adjectives work up to the filth.

I love that. Don't let it be one sided. If someone is initiating, they probably want reciprocation. Shut off your mind. Say what your body wants and not where your mind thinks is right. That's what's happening. that's what's happening when you're saying that crazy stuff. You're like, my body's talking.

Who is even saying this? Yeah. This one really speaks to me because I've done this more practice while masturbating. I wasn't trying to practice dirty talk, but like I'll talk to myself when I masturbate sometimes. And it's just you're inventing more lines. It's fun. Again, it's a judgment-free zone.

It's just you. So it's a really fun thing to just bust out lines. As many descriptors as possible, you know, be a wordsmith. Use a lot of adjectives and a lot of verbs. Say what, say I want slash need you inside of me. Just say what you want in general. just be descriptive about what you want done to you. I like this girl said,

key words, wet, pussy, hard cock, deep, tits. In my mouth, spank, tongue, sit on your face. Deep is great. Deep is so good. Those guys love to hear that. You're so deep. You're so hard. I mean, it just gets a little tricky if they have a small dick.

Like, that's, like, the Nikki Glazer thing of like perfect. Like, she had a special called perfect. It was great. But yeah, there's just a little bit different adjectives. Like, you feel so good is what you kind of go with there. Like, I just would never say your dick is so huge. it's not. I feel like guys know it's not. So, but any kind of like, you're so hard,

you feel so good. Even like you're filling me up, like you're, you know, but if they have a little dick, it's, if you're going to be like, you're so deep, he's like, I know I'm not. But I still might want to hear it, but any kind of dick worship that you can do. 100%. Or just body worship in general. You have the most perfect tits. Your nipples are incredible.

Your pussy tastes so good. Any kind of like, worship. This girl said, don't mumble. Yeah, stay with confidence. Don't mumble. Stay with your chest. She's a dictation specialist. Dictation. Ask a guy what turns him on. A lot of words of encouragement.

Tell them to say it again, do it again, keep doing it. I love that you said that earlier. Tell them how much you've been looking forward to this. So like I will usually bust out like I've been thinking about this all day. I've been wanting you all day. I got to wet thinking about you coming over here. So just like any kind of like I thought about this all day. I masturbated to last night.

I came so hard thinking about this yesterday. Yes. I love, I want or need you inside of me. Say that all the time. I mean, that's like more encouragement. Like, that's an easy line to bust out when you're having floorplay and you're ready for the penetration. I love this.

Focus on turning yourself on with the talk, not them. You want to come not put on a show. Sometimes you want to put on a show though. So I'm just, I like that her point is like turning yourself on, which you should have. I will talk about, I'll talk about past sexual experiences while I'm having sex. So like one of two things, either past sexual experience with that person, like the last time you fucked me, I came so hard. I love when you bent me over.

Like talk about the last time they fucked you. so good while you're fucking and they're just like oh my god I'm the man yes um or in the past I have talked about um when I hooked up with girls while I'm fucking a guy oh okay love it I love this simple but to encourage add extra spice saying say and say it again when you like what they're saying that's hot uh-huh yeah because and then you're just like buying time constant no I'm kidding but if you like something be like say it again that's so hot uh-huh and then they're like I already said it so I can it's easy I practiced they're like I remember the line yeah I remember the line I love this last one.

Just reiterating what we said, start small and don't be afraid to say something because your partner will most likely love it. Yes. So we asked you guys to hit us with when dirty talk goes wrong. Crazy, funny things people have said to you. And you served up some very hysterical short emails. Thank you for the shortness.

Short and sweet like Raina. And little. So I was quote unquote dating this guy would randomly transform into a two to three year old mentality. during and after sex. He would never actually finish. He'd look at me, him always on top, and say, I tired, I sleepier, I hungry, roll off me and go to sleep. Oh my God. And then the times he didn't go to sleep, he would ramble slash babber sounds like a child learning how to talk and his face was like he was possessed. This is so crazy. It was so unattractive. He had to go. I

did tell my friends at this instance and now it's a recurring phrase. It still haunts me to this day. I don't like any type of, listen, role play. I think it can be really, really hot. We didn't talk about this earlier. I think role play is so sexy. Baby talk. Do not want it. Oh my God. But again, listen, if that's your kink, we're not about kink shaming. It's not for me. If you like baby talk in the bedroom, you find someone that likes it too and go off together. But I just don't, it's taken me. Oh my God. It's my nightmare. I'd rather hear, I'd rather be called a dumb little slut than any sort of baby talk. I can't imagine who, I mean, whatever. I can't imagine like who would say it to me. I, like, there's no guy I've ever dated. I think that has ever busted something like that out. But

role play can be fun. Yeah. I'm trying to think of like role playing I've done in the past. You're a kind of college's exam. Yeah, any kind of like doctor's office, any kind of masseuse, really anything that's in the app, any kind of like somebody's coming over, like fixture pipes, your chef. Well, you could listen to the app and then figure out what you'd like if you're like, I don't even know what kind of role plan on I would want.

You're welcome. It's all in there. Okay, so another one. Okay, I get to read the best one. Okay. She says, hi, Ashley, Raina and Bella. Love you ladies. Had a blast your Detroit show.

Us too. I miss you Detroit. And of course, I just ordered myself a Gigi. Can't wait to try it out? Okay. The Gigi. Now onto the dirty talk. This happened very recently.

I attempted to have FaceTime sex with an ex last weekend. Things were heating up. Good dirty talk was happening. That all of a sudden he says, are you touching your cooter right now? Instantly my mood was gone. Who the fuck says cooter? Needless to say, I ended that call before going any

further. I told him if we were ever to attempt that again, he needs to work on his vocabulary because Cooter is not it. Hope this makes you chuckle. I can laugh now, but at the time, it was so annoying. I love that she called it annoying. Also episode title, are you touching your cooter right now? Work. Do people want episode titles like that? We can do like a subtitle. If somebody said cooter to me, it would make me feel crazy. It's just like what? It's just so country. I just, there's somebody said the word, heck. to me. I was there. Who was at a venue? Oh my God. We were all there.

We were all just like, oh my God. Okay. So, hi ladies. She started your Instagram about dirty talk, little. Okay. I was at a friend's birthday party a couple years ago and ended up hooking up with one of the guys there. He's going down on me and pretty much just licking my left thigh the whole time. And he pops his head out from under the blanket and very proudly says, I bet you didn't know I could do that. Did you? I didn't really respond because like, do what? did you do? It doesn't end there. We started actually fucking keep in mind, this is a drunken one-time

hookup and he whispers in my ear. I want to make love to you for the rest of my life. Okay, first of all, I would have had to clap back. Yeah, no one's ever like my thigh like that. I'd be like, yeah, I didn't expect that. I'm trying to like put myself in the mindset of this guy, like, what is going on with him? Like, has he had sex before? Oh, my God. Maybe, you know what it is? Like, sometimes I think people like bring dirty stuff from the last relationship into this. one and the thigh thing was just like, I don't know, like one girl's kink. I know. Okay. All right. The last one. I was having rough sex with this guy and I was talking so dirty and out of nowhere I said, get me fucking pregnant. And we both froze and I wanted to throw up. I have no idea why I said

that LMAO. Um, guys are really into pregnancy dirty talk. They love it. Um, I wouldn't make that sweeping generalization. I think some guys would be like, that's my nightmare. Like I just think so many guys are, worried about even getting a girl pregnant. So saying like, get me fucking pregnant, they might be like, wait a second. Are you trying to do that right now? So I'm saying guys are into them doing pregnancy, dirty talk. I would never bring it up and I don't ever want to bring it up.

Like them saying, I want to get you pregnant. Yes. That's so funny. The guy said I want to get you pregnant. Like, first of all, he would be, it would be a joke. Like, it'd be funny. But if he said it seriously, I'd be like, good luck. Have fun trying.

Sure. Go for it. There's so many roadblocks to that. Even happening. A copper eye you do is on my body. But guys like pregnancy dirty talk. It's not a weird kink, actually. I think it's funny that she said it.

It's so funny. Get me fucking pregnant. Like, she's zero the fuck. It's like the F word in there. Yeah. It's very funny. Well, you guys submitted a lot of stuff. Thank you.

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