Girls Gotta Eat - The Snack: Brat Girl Summer and Bisexual Chaos

Episode Date: June 20, 2024

Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we're talking about: "Bisexual chaos" in pop culture The Pope at Pride Brat Girl Summer defined Justin Timberlake's DWI Bill Belichick's 24yo girlfriend Jay-Z at Tom Brady's HOF induction Is Bravo the women's Marvel? Whether a hot mom upstaged her daughter's wedding Are tankinis back? Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Thank you to our partners this week: Beis: Get 15% off your first purchase at beistravel.com/gge. Bilt: Get points by paying rent at joinbilt.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to The Snack, a lighter serving of Girls Got to Eat. This is a Dear Media production. Enjoy. Hi, snacks. Happy first day of summer. First day of Brat Girl Summer. Brat Summer. Let's go.

Brought Summer. People did misread that one. People interpret it Brought War Summer, and I'm here for it. Get those wieners in your mouth. We'll talk about it. Weaners in your mouth summer. We can't wait to talk about all the summer trends. Before we jump into it, thank you to base.

Get 15% off your first purchase. at base travel.com slash gGE. And thank you to Bilt. Get points by paying rent at joinbilt.com slash GGE.E. So we're going to start it with a pride report. We always have an update. It's June.

We're talking about pride. Happy pride, everybody. Happy pride, guys. You've been celebrating. Yeah, so we've a great episode on Monday, too, for pride. Yes, but we have some pride news. Bisexual Chaos is 2024's biggest pop culture trend. So I'm glad this came up. This is a Bustle article.

There's not the only one this week. We swear. Bustle's going to be like you guys, stop. They're going to like block us from the site. They're like, they like block our cookies. I'm glad this came up. This is an article in Bustle because I was going to sleep last night watching the final episode of season three of Bridgeton.

I was going to ask you what your favorite sex scenes are. Because my favorite sex scene in that is the brother. Have threesome. Is it? Okay. I mean, I can't. My favorite scene in the chat in Challenger's was. the two guys making out.

You want an MMF. I really, I masturbate to it sometimes. Yeah, I believe it. And so we can talk about the article, but what I've been saying to you is that I'm actually been a little sick of like the books I've been reading because I feel like every story is these like very heteronormative sort of, I'm bored with it a little bit, stories about like these women and men saving them and their great love stories.

I'm just, I'm looking for some variety of people to focus on other than just this straight man-woman couple stories. My favorite sexual scene of season three is when she was getting finger to that horse and carriage. It's my favorite because I didn't see it coming and she was just, she had such an erotic orgasm face. You know, so that was my favorite. But I said, I don't think I texted you this because you started watching after me and I was like, who can I talk to about this? And I do think it was Brittany. And I texted her early on season three and I was like, when is someone going to be gay?

I feel it. I felt it like someone has to be gay. Like where is the queer story? line. And then I was running the tape, like, was anybody, like, there was a few threesome, so a little woman-on-woman action, but not in like a queer-feeling way in season one and two. And I was like, how have we not had this yet? And I haven't read the books, so I want to be clear. But I was just like, this better be happening soon. I know that I'm not the only person that would like to see it. And it better be a main character when it happens. So I swear that they like probably heard that

feedback from other people. Again, like there's stuff in the books too. But I just kept saying that like I swear that last season, season two, people were probably like, give us more sex and give us more LGBT love. And they listened. Like, Shonda was like, say less. I got you. I love it. You know, I was asking you, I skipped season two,

so I was asking you what's up with the oldest brother. Yeah, Benedict. Benedict. Tilly, oh, she, that's who I would want to fuck. I just liked watching the two guys. She's so hot. Also, the fact that, like, she wants to be with him now, but she introduced him to guys. Well, isn't that how it always goes?

She's like, look at me. I'm so spicy and different. And he's like, what I'm going to do is take what you did and go out into the world with it. The fact that she, also, spoiler alerts abound. But the fact that if you guys are, the fact that she called him over to DTR and he was like, where's Paul?

I was like, poor girl. He wants that dick. She was just like, I'm the freakyest bitch in town. And he was like, that's awesome. And then she changed the rules of the game. When she was laying there with both of them, I was like, a queen. A queen among us.

She's the real queen of that town. I've really been in. Every time I say tawn, I'm like, go off. I've been really into MMF and my fantasies. I really think about it sometimes. And yeah, they're hot. I just like to see it represented. I don't think you see vice.

That's what the article is about, that you haven't previously seen bisexuality represented in media as much. And when it is, it's represented as people who are like selfish, people who are women as a characteristic that is selfish and not just something that people are exploring and that these can be all types of people of all. type of backgrounds. Yeah, and we want to be clear, like the title of that article was funny, and it obviously is like it's a trend that we're seeing more in pop culture, not in the world. We don't think of anyone's sexuality as like a trend or a phase. If you think of that,

that's fine. But, you know, we don't speak about it that way. But obviously we saw it in, well, I didn't see this movie, but I will. Challenger's, you can speak on that, but like in Hacks. And Ava, the main character in Hax, she's always been bisexual since the start, but then they got into the conversation about bisexuality in season three. And basically Deborah is having a conversation with a bunch of like dusty old male comedians on bisexuality. And they're all like, that's not real. You know, like just the old school way of thinking like that's not a thing. And then they kind of shun her for standing up for it. And they're like, oh, who brought the woke person to the dinner? I don't know. It was just, it was a storyline that they kind of touched on more.

So obviously you're seeing a lot more of it. We say that life imitates art. But I'm kind of like, art is imitating more life because I just feel like everyone is not everyone a lot of people are by a lot people are experimenting I feel like I meet people and they're dating men and women and it's just so much more prevalent so I just almost feel like pop culture is maybe even catching up to just what's actually happening in the world I mean I like seeing it represented in media because I'm a person at a very young age when I was like 14 I was really attracted to lesbian porn but I wanted to sleep with men and not 14 but

I did I was a ninth grade like can someone fuck me I mean I've talked about this on like on girls got to get on the podcast but I really kept thinking what what does this mean about me what is wrong with me why am I attracted to this sometimes but not all the time why do I like a certain type of porn but I don't necessarily like it in real life like I didn't really want to sleep with women at that time and then I did sleep with women but I like seeing it because I just had never seen it

represented in media as a kid and I just kept thinking, is there something really weird and wrong with me? I didn't admit to anybody I watched lesbian porn until, like, way into my late 20s. Yeah. So I like it. Total podcast, yeah. And we've talked to therapists about it on the show, so you guys can listen to that. But I like to see it represented because I think it's so important for people growing up to see themselves represented on the screen.

And challengers, listen, I'm going to say something controversial. The movie wasn't for me. Okay. I just, I thought there was so many storylines. Tough to keep up. No, I'm smart. but like I I didn't mean it like that

could you not could you not handle it I didn't I felt like there was too much stuff that was implied and not explained I thought they just jumped around a lot and the whole theme of the movie was like you'll figure it out

I didn't really root for Tashi at all and I wasn't really rooting for the main character but the storyline that I was obsessed with was Patrick and arts like bisexuality like hints of bisexual towards each other this super sexy makeout scene and the whole thing is sort of

teasing are they into each other? And I loved it and I would have watched just a whole movie about only that. Sometimes it doesn't even have to be a whole storyline. Like sometimes I think about the summer I turn pretty, which is a huge rift between Rain and I, because it's like my favorite show and you didn't watch it. Actually, I saw an entire TikTok with the characters of it. It said like, T-S-I-T-P and I was like, I don't know what that means. And all the characters were walking around like doing voices and stuff. I was like, I've never seen one of these people and I don't know what they're talking about. Stop what you're doing. Oh, no, it's okay. But I am, I've always been team Jeremiah but he like makes out with a guy like season one or two and then that's really just it which

could be a lot of people's story like he wants to date belly the main character but it's just like he experimented and you know sometimes going to like kiss boys at parties or whatever and so even representation like that because people young people may be feeling that type of way and then not seeing it ever and like in our day you didn't see that stuff you know what I mean so they're just seeing more representation there of just you might just want to be a boy. boy who kisses a boy at a party. Remember when I was sleeping with a guy that's 10 years younger than me? And then we saw him kiss his guy friends.

And I was like, what is happening here? But good for them. Good for them. Okay. So that's a little bit of what's going on in pop culture. And we love to see it. And I'm so glad that Bridgeton is like hornier and sexier and gayer. And we're here for it.

I can't wait for the next season. But we also have another pride update. And this is that the Pope has got to get a shit together. He keeps using gay slurs. You can't get it. Pull it together. You're the Pope. Okay, can I ask you a question?

What? The article I was reading kept saying he said like a gay slur. He said basically our equivalent of the F word slur. It's like something terrible. Yeah. Okay, got it. Can you imagine? No.

I mean, I go back and forth because I'm like, yeah, can I imagine like the oldest man on earth who's supposed to like uphold the Bible and traditions that were written like thousands of years? Can I imagine? Yeah, pretty clearly. But like, figure it out. Like you've got to get your shit together. Like lock it up. I also, there's a difference between saying I, I'm a Bible literalist and I adhere to every single thing in the Bible and using slurs and hatred.

Yeah. Like those are different things. I mean, I'm just, I understand this is how old is he 200 years old? Like 200 years of breeding. And it's hard to fight against that. But like, I think that our religious leaders aren't supposed to be full of hate and terrible words and slurs. Like isn't everybody, listen, I'm an atheist. I don't know, but isn't everyone God's children?

I mean, obviously if you're using gay slurs, you're homophobic, but I don't know if that's been his track record. I always see stuff about him. And sometimes it's like, he's a cool, he's a cool pope. And then other times it's like, what the fuck is he doing? You know, so I just, I don't, I'm not an expert on him. But regardless, he needs to lock it up and, you know, not hold those beliefs. But basically what happened in Italy and maybe in other places, but so a pride celebration

recently in Rome, basically people just brought Pope Francis with them. It says Pope Francis' image was on cardboard cutouts, adorned with flower necklaces. People came dressed as the Pope wore papal hats and said there was never too much gayness. So they kind of took, spin it on its head and like jokingly brought him there and gayed him out. Like what are they called like fatheads? What are they called the sports figure? Yeah, they brought like a bunch of cutouts and stuff like that, which I just love to see that. I just, I love taking back like a slur like that and being like this has no power.

This is no power. We're going to make fun of it. In a parade, we're going to put rainbow necklace. is on you. Yeah, we'll show some pictures if you guys are watching on YouTube, but it just says at Rome's Pride celebration, bare-chested men and pink angel wings, dance to Abbasongs, women wrapped in rainbow flags, kissed, and shimmering drag queens waved from parade floats, and then there was Pope Francis. So just like his image, and it says, someone says the slur is the slogan of the 24 pride. Someone said, which she held a banner with the word. So people just kind of took it back,

which you love to see it. I love seeing people troll the Pope. Yes, exactly. But they're also like, come embrace it, be with us. Like someone just said, like, Francie, you are welcome in our parish. I like that tone, and I don't think you see that a lot. We're not okay with this. We are going to mock it a little bit, but we do have like open arms for you should you want to be a part of this and like see what this movement is actually about. Well, right.

So some of the quotes said, someone said, if I laugh about the word, they have no more words to offend us. Someone said, even if the slur was derogatory, if I take ownership of the word, I can use it as a marker of my identity. and then someone, and then he added, it makes you immune from any insult. So basically they're just like taking that word back, turning it on his head and like kind of trolling him. And some people feel differently. Someone said he shouldn't have dared to say that word.

You know, like especially as a holy man. I mean, you can think whatever you want, but I like that some people took that and ran with it. Me too. Okay. So Brat Girl Summer. Okay. As an elder millennial,

I need you in Tess to explain this to me a little bit. I spent a lot of time researching this. I read about it. All I came up with was, white tank tops and smoking cigarettes. Well, it came from Charlie X the X's album titled Brat, which is taken off. It's a great album. Great.

You would say she's a queer icon, right? Okay. Yeah. So it's just, which goes in the theme with what we've been talking about. I think people are just taking that and running with it, and that's the theme of the summer. Like, Hot Girl Summer, we had that for Megan the Stallion and Farrell Girl Summer and Vax Girl Summer, like all that stuff.

I think this is just what people are latching onto in. giving their own interpretation of it. Okay, will you read me the definition? You guys, I did research this, obviously, but sometimes I just like Ashley to teach me stuff and Tessa. This came from an article on a site called Rush, R-U-S-S-S-H. It says what it means to be a brat, being unapologetically yourself and reveling in the complexities of being a woman.

Being in one's brat era means understanding that some days you'll feel hot and others you'll feel vulnerable. Sometimes at this age, all you want to do is go to the club, and others you'll be worrying about whether you're missing your chance to have a baby. So I did see that too. I saw that in like the New York Times article. Like it said something about like women in their 30s just like living their best, most free lives. But then to me I'm like this, I'm skews a little younger.

I mean, it's for whoever. It's for however you want to celebrate it. It has no age. It is ageless. You know what I like about this is that I think a lot of the other summers were like feral girl summer and like vaccine. It was about like getting fucked and things like that. And I think this is just about like your own vibe this summer. Yeah.

You know like hyping yourself. being confident in any situation. Also, you can go get dick, but it's less dick related. I think it's being like messy and just not giving a fuck. But like on a yacht? Are we like being messy on a, is it like

being messy and luxury situations? If you want. So to your point, like this quote, The New York Times says, they interviewed someone, she said, I think people were really craving a fun summer in a collective moment that we could all get behind, said Shelby Hall, a Charlie fan who runs an Instagram page dedicated to It Girls who wear wired headphones. She says, it's a time

to be hot, trashy, drink vodka sodas, fly to Europe on the Amex with $30 in your bank account, stay out till 3 a.m. and not care what anyone thinks. So you can interpret it how you want. Okay. I mean, if you have $30 in the bank account, you're living different than someone who has $300,000 in the bank account, but you can still be messy, no matter what. All those people could be messy. You go wear your, like, white tank tops, nips out. I saw a lot of black leather. Smoke a sick. A lot about cigarettes, which I don't condone cigarettes, but I'm like, you want to smoke a sick here and there. Smoke a sick in Europe. We went to Paris.

We were smoking six. We didn't eat food. We just smoked cigarettes. We just smoked a six. I spoke a cigarette like once a quarter. Can I tell you, so we asked our audience, like, what does it mean to you? Like, how are you, if you're embracing Brat Summer, Brat Girl Summer, how are you doing it? Can I tell you my favorite one?

Mm-hmm. It said, whale tailing at the cheesecake factory. Whale tailing is Brack Girl Summer. Whale tailing at the cheesecake factory? Hell, yes. I've had to get some low-rise jeans just to pull my thoughts. up in whale tail at the cheesecake factory. It takes me back to high school so hard.

I never didn't have a whale tail, just those little threads. Like not even nice underwear, like wet seal whale tail. But is that not the most descriptive? Like, catch me at the cheesecake factory with some Southwest egg rolls. A white g-string. Wed strings had little cherries on the white front. My Playboy Bunny tanning bed tattoo. Oh, my God.

I probably did have cigarettes in my back. That's a crack girl summer. Okay, do you want to read some other ones? Yeah. I like only wearing bikinis in my house. I do that a lot at my house. It's a lot of like, some people are just interpreting this. Like someone's as dirty bitch energy, slept in makeup and hair, making out the club, last minute plans.

So a lot of stuff like that, like making out on the dance floor, just not giving a fuck. Doing whatever I want. Not having goals. Just viving. Not having goals is amazing. I feel like, self-help is like so huge. And we spend a lot of time on the pockets talking about goals. Don't have goals this summer.

Yeah, Beyonce said to quit your job two summers ago. It's summer. No goals. Unsubscribe from Boss Bitch Life. Absolutely. No people pleasing. The summer is for me and my aesthetic, which is going to be lime green and sags. Getting my pussy ate in the club.

Making my boyfriend do literally everything for me. But it's okay because I give amazing head. I think that she's being alive. Twinks, poppers, sluts, Julia Fox memoir, and garlic bread. That's starter pack right there. That's the Brack Girl Summer starter pack. Quitting my job because I need to spend more time viking. Tessa, did you write that?

Tess was like, I can't be here. I'm actually, I'm involved in vibes right now. She's like, you guys told me to celebrate Brack Girl Summer. I like the ones of people that, because there's a lot of single girl energy in here, which we love. And then some people are coming from a place of having a partner, but they still want to celebrate. It says letting my husband buy me whatever I want. And then it says not letting my boyfriend choose dinner. I'm choosing dinner all summer.

I'm obsessed with that. Like you're like June 20th. I choose dinner all summer. You can choose again on Labor Day. I feel like people would love that. I feel like men would appreciate that. I feel like men's biggest complaint is they're like, what do you want to do for dinner?

And you're like, you just pick. Exactly. You don't have to be the you just pick girl anymore. I'm picking. Okay. But on the other side, not picking dinner all summer. You could also go that. No, I don't eat dinner.

You're like lazy all summer. You pick dinner all summer. I don't give a fuck. My shorts are way too short to be worn out of the house. Okay, this trend has started in L.A. I was at the Gettie Museum with my dad, and half the girls in the Gettie Museum had their whole butt cheeks out. And I was like, I can't believe I'm near my dad.

And all of these young women with all their butt cheeks out. That is so funny. I have been with my dad when I saw someone's butt cheeks like that, too. I remember this one time we were at this restaurant in Dewey, and our server's cheeks were out. Like, she's working. Like, I was like, I see a coochie lip, you know, and she's bringing us our food.

I'm like, I feel like she can live her truth, but I was like, I feel like I shouldn't see her, like, pussy lip while she's bringing us our, like, tacos, you know? Okay, that's worse. I was thinking, like, museum, if there's, like, a Van Gogh in the room, your butt cheeks should not be out. But if you're serving me food, pussy lips is unsanitary. Like, you can still get.

Right, though, when I worked a few jobs in restaurants where we got to wear shorts, and there was no limit. They were as short as they could come. Like, I didn't have my ass hanging out, but they were short. Yeah, I had a little shorty shorts, but there was no butt sheet crease at the bottom. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I still remember just like my, and I watched my dad. His eyes were wandering.

I was like, Dad. Right, you're like, you should be with your buddies right now. I shouldn't see you being this like this, you know? Well, someone said dressing for the female gays too, which I love that. Which that could be boxer shorts. You're more just like, fuck it. I hate the boxer shorts. Go off.

If you are confident enough to wear boxer shorts out, go for. for you. For you guys. I've aged out of that. No, that's too. Yeah. Yeah. It's Gen Z.

I'm walking around box of shorts. You know I'm trying too hard. Something has happened. Riding the fine line of controlled chaos, having the best time, but $2 away from overdraft. Oh, that's then it chilled on my spine. That was my whole 20s. You felt that?

Yeah. Yes. I really felt that. And then, of course, the people who interpret it, like we were talking about Brought worst, which I just love. Someone said, I read this as Brot like a hot dog and started listing my toppings. Can you imagine? Someone's like sourcrow, spicy mustard. That's how I'm celebrating.

That sounds amazing. Brot girl summer. It does make sense. They're like, it's summer. Yeah. Cookout summer. Okay. So really, that's it. However you guys want to celebrate it. Blast the album. Smokes eggs. White tang tops, no bra. Quit your job unless you're Tessa. No bra. Yeah. Whale tail. No underwear except for G-strings

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In music news. We have a developing story. This is happening as we record. This dropped on Tuesday. It's not a laughing matter. I'm sorry. A celebrity mugshot is typically a laughing matter. Justin Timberlick got a DWI.

It's the first thing I saw when I opened on my eyes this morning. 100%. I checked it before I looked at your DMs and before anything. Which, listen, if y'all know me, you know, I have no room to judge. But I do have room to judge because I think it's crazy to be a rich, famous person and get a DUI. You got yours before Uber. I got mine before Uber before I had any money. Like, I was like, that was my only option.

No, you always have another option. You're also a kid. It's just, I find this crazy. This happens all the time. Just driving through Southampton. We recorded with a celebrity once, not name any names, and she showed up to our recording, had driven herself so. high her eyes weren't open. Anyway, that was a bad day.

People want to, people want to hear me speak on the DWI versus DUI, probably. They can be interchangeable in some states. What do you speak? As the rest of an expert, as the rest of expert. No, because people are seen in it, the headlines say DWI, which depends on the state, but it's, it's alcohol and or drugs, basically. So I want to, so I was looking at all the headlines. I just Googled this.

So Yahoo, Justin Timberlake Arrest on DWR, I charges, people. police released Justin Timberlake's mugshot. New York Post, Justin Timberlake was wasted and drinking other people's drinks. I saw it. Can you just like picture him just like going around? He's just like drinking everybody's drinks. Like I can't even picture it. Like people are like Justin, you can afford these drinks.

You can afford to buy the whole bar. I like that the New York Post just they choose violence. Every single time. The first thing I thought of, I mean the first song that came to mind was Cry Me a River. I mean, I don't, I'm out on him. I used to be a huge fan. And I just, there's just little things over time, Janet Jackson, Brittany. I don't need to deep dive on it.

But it's one of those people that I used to be a huge fan and I'm not anymore. I think he's had an interesting fall from grace. Yeah. I think that you either hear him not spoken about at all or it's usually some negative stuff in relation to behavior with women. Some women have been collateral damage in his right. to fame and I just I don't know that he's been genuinely that accountable we don't need to get on this road I'm just saying I'm not really a fan of him anymore so the mugshot I was just like yeah cry me remember glad he's okay nobody's hurt nobody got hurt of course you know don't drink and drive I can't stress it enough but the thing that now I feel like is making headlines is that the cop who pulled him over didn't recognize him or had never heard of him was so young I just I'm trying to think like what I recognize him. Like, I guess so, but like middle of the night, out of context, by himself, driving a car,

one o'clock in the morning, rolls the window down. Like, even I, as like a stand growing up, like, I don't know that I would have immediately been like, I've been like, who? Yeah. Well, then you've drunk asked for license and registration. But I mean, I think if he started talking, I'd know. I think I know his talking voice pretty well. But you're right. I don't know that I would just, if I saw him in a bar drinking everyone's drinks, I don't think I'd be like, that's Justin Jimberlake. Just walking around drinking empty. I'm dead.

Like a frat party. Again, this is on Betches on their Instagram. I don't know. This is just, it's a developing story of you guys, but it says the cop was so young. He didn't even know who the 10-time Grammy winner was. He didn't recognize him or his name. Our insider says, and a second source adds, Justin said, under his breath, this is going to ruin the tour. The cop replied, what tour?

Justin said, the world tour. That's how you know he was drunk. The cop's like, all right, get out of the car. That's all I need to know. The world tour. Is it even a world tour? Well, is that our Justin report? That's our music report.

All right. Well, best of luck. Glad nobody got hurt. Yes. Bringing sober back maybe. I don't know. That's his next album. Who knows?

Bring it sober back. Who knows what he's got going on? Okay. And then in sports news, I just have to shout out the Boston Celtics won the championship. They are the basketball. world champs and you know I'm a Philly girl but I was rooting for that's my other team was the Boston Celtics so congrats to them that's like a big story and I went to game one and I've just been pulling for them all along but this does kind of lead us into our other Boston New England

sports news which is who is Bill Belichick's younger girlfriend she's a cheerleader so if you guys don't know Bill Belichick long time coach of the New England Patriots is dating a girl This can't be right. 58 years younger. She's 24. She's 24. He's 72. He's 72.

Can you imagine being a cheerleader? And being like, I want to date a player. You go after, you want to date the Tom Brady. Totally. You want to date the oldest coach in the league. He want to date the Jalen Hertz. Not that he's available. But it's just, then you're like, I got the coach.

He could be my grandfather. I mean, literally. Okay, so the line in the article, the unlikely pair reportedly met on a flight in 2021 after bonding over a philosophy project the then student was working on, and he signed her paper. Philosophy project.

She was in college. So they met years before on a plane when he had a girlfriend, and then he's broken up with his long time. Girlfriend, he's dating this girl. His child now was age of purpose. She's 62. Yeah.

So we got this information. and at the Tom Brady roast, but we just glossed over it because Gronk was talking and we were just like, what is he saying? Like, he's not all there. He's just so, you know,

he was just like, Bill Belichick has a girlfriend, you know. I love watching Gronk try to finish sentences. Even I know that's one's not real money. Okay, so he says, coach, you used to talk about Foxborough High School when we sucked, Gronk said,

but now I know why you were so obsessed with Foxborough High School, you were scouting your new girlfriend, which is... That went right over my head. Me too. Was she in the audience? I don't, I don't, I mean, I don't know.

And we always say, do, who cares? Do it makes you happy. We've been out here. Do who makes you happy. To me, it's the age with the age gap. It's not the different 58 year age gap would be more comfortable. 48. 48, 48.

Share has a 40 year age gap. But like we were talking about this on the group chat, the three of us, like he's in his 30s. Like after 30, do whoever. There's something about the young 20s that really just gives me the ick. does feel predatory. And that's just what it is. It's like that same thing of like some old fucking man waiting for a girl to turn 18. Like it's, it's creepy to me. And if that's what you want, that's fine. But it's, it's less about the huge age gap and more about like her young age paired with it. Like, I totally agree. I really hope people that are dragging Kristen Cavaleri

for dating a 24 year old when she's 37 are saving that same energy for this times three, because it's three times the age gap amount. Fifty eight years. Um, I totally agree with you. It just, it feels like really questionable decision making. It just, this guy in like a high power position who's like clearly a very successful intelligent man. Like, I don't think you're with her for the conversation. But like, listen, I understand wanting to fuck a 24 year old.

I just don't, you want to spend time with them day to day. Yeah. And listen, it's just jokes. You know, she wants to suck on those old balls. She can. You know, she's an adult. She has agency. you know, but when I see it, I'm just like, it does, you know, give me pause.

Uh-huh. And then I guess, like, Gronk also kind of alluded to Tom Brady dated a 24-year-old. Gronk was being interviewed on the red carpet. Well, we'll play the clip. Mr. Kraft, 100% made the right call by putting Tom in within the first year. And doing it on June 12th, obviously six months of the year. He won six Super Bowls here. Tom's number 12 and

24 is just age girls that Tom and Bill are talking to now, 24 year old He makes his little joke, he stumbled the joke Which is cute. He almost landed and he was like 2024 Which is the year of him and it's like Yeah, Gronk making jokes But so far I think there is no

Yeah, there's no evidence to support That Tom Brady is dating a 24 year old It would still be more normal to me Yeah, I just, I think Who knows? Grank Might just got confused I'm proud of him for getting there. He had a bunch of 24 swirling in his head.

Yeah. You know, but. He still thinks he's at the roast. He thinks he's a comedian. He's still in that roast energy. You know, do what makes you happy to see the picture of her and see the picture of him. You're like, what is happening here? Listen, we think you should do what and who makes you happy, but we're going to make

funny for it. But again, if you're out here talking shit about Kristen Cavalieri, check yourself. She's like, Bill, check yourself and send that energy over. People are like, she's a mom. It's like, well, he's a great grandpa. paw. Okay, and I just have to say one more thing. Last week, they had a ceremony for Tom Brady for the Hall of Fame induction to the Patriots Hall of Fame. And Jay-Z performed. And I don't know if the videos, like, people are not paying attention. Like, it's crazy. I mean,

it's wild to see Jay-Z. Like, it's not like Jay-Z some washed-up artist. Like, it's Jay-Z. And he's performing and, you know, some of the clips I saw, it's just, you know, there's some, like, dusty old white men just going on about their business, talking. Is it like a banquet hall? It was in the stadium, Gillette Stadium. Oh, okay. So he, and it's, the stadium's not full. It's, you know, it's not like a game, but it's like, Jay Z comes out. Like, I couldn't believe it. And I mean, fans were just like, what the fuck? Like, we haven't had a Jay Z performance. He hasn't performed in, like, so many different things, but he's going to do this. This is what you're going to come out of retirement for.

It's not even in New York. Right, like I guess money talks. Like it was just kind of nuts to watch. Like my brother, it has like really been my brother's like Roman Empire. He can't get over it. He's like, I never thought I would see him like this. Like to see Jayzy on stage and there's just people like the shade room posted a lot of it. And it's been everywhere.

And then there's just people like literally not paying attention. Like literally like he's some background like hotel bar singer. And it's why I asked us it in a banquet. It's so great. It's just it's wild to see. Just broad daylight. people aren't paying attention. Jay Z. I mean, the energy is not directed towards him. I mean, yeah. I just, my brother, because I just, we talked about it all last week,

couldn't get over it. I don't think it's the kind of crowd that would be like so amped on it. Part of you was like, what's the NFL? That's so cool. Of course, you're going to come out of retirement for something, but not this. Right. And that's like a bummer too. It's like, what kind of crowd? Like it's Jay Z. It's like a legend. I expected more from the NFL crowd. And I guess it was a surprise. So maybe people were caught off guard. You know, I wasn't there. but it didn't seem like he got the respect he deserved and wrong audience he deserved better yeah somewhere else yeah um can i tell you as a thought starter it's not on our outline but i just i saw this thing and i was like that's so accurate okay so we have no bravo stuff to talk about this week

there's no bravo shows on right now that i care about summer house is over a vanderpumphal the valley everything's over for the summer i'm like die what do i have to live for right and i saw this clip comparing how men speak about the marvel like mcule to like how women that's that's women's Bravo. Like, Bravo is my MCU. Like, I will speak about it

so high level. Like, it matters so much. And, like, all the characters that cross-pollinated between the different shows. And I have, like,

so much to say about how they all, like, date each other. I, like, really get in it, like, it matters. And I don't know

what to live for right now. Right. Maybe you'll get into Marvel. Also, MCU, what is that? Marvel Cinematic Universe. Rina. Not that preview.

You say it, like, you just, you're in it. Well, I've been, I've been forced to listen to this by so many men and they come out of nowhere with it. Just living amongst us in society, just men that you're like talking to you about like this. We talk about the girls got to get about like just the really like a so top level. They're explaining to you all this has never been down. Your little cartoon show.

So I've realized like that is how I talk about Bravo. And I love to see your passion when you talk about Bravo that way. Do you think there are people that cross over? Do you think there are women out there who are both Bravo and. They're in separate neighborhoods. And they take the summer off Bravo and they go MCU? I think that I think the Bravo women are doing

like trashy dating shows for the summer. I think we're doing a perfect match. I think Love Island. Ariana is hosting Love Island. So people have like something with like Bravo people to watch. I want to give women more credit and I want to see the Venn diagram. I want to know if you are a crossover, Bravo and Marvel Girlie. Let us know in the YouTube comments. Please

speak up. Don't be scared. I mean, there are a I like X-Men a lot. I like Planet of the Apes a lot. I think that's it. Plenty of Apes is not Marvel. But I realize I should stop making fun of men so much because like when I could say explain Scandible to somebody, it's the best hour of my life. Oh, 100%. So anyways, I just wanted to like float that idea to you that like, yeah, Bravo is the MCU for women. I think that's a hot take. Thank you so much. It's not my take. I got it from the internet. Oh, okay. I would have, I wouldn't have known otherwise. Deadpool's like my boyfriend's like favorite movie, one of his

favorite movies. Uh-huh. There's a new one coming out. Yeah, there's a new one coming out. Oh, there's a new one with Ryan Reynolds and the X-Men guy. Yeah, huge acmen. It's like a huge deal for these people. I care.

I saw the preview. I was like, I don't care about it all. I told him I would start watching Deadpool with him. We watched it. I said, I'll give it 20 minutes and I just, I don't like it. And I mean, I get it though why that's his favorite because Ryan Reynolds is funnier and as an actor, he would be my pick. You know what I mean?

Like it is, I guess, a funnier dialogue than maybe some of the others. And, you know, my boyfriend appreciates that. I don't know. I tried it. Listen, people all... I'm proud of you for supporting your man like that. Okay? It was really part of the demise of my last relationship,

but I just couldn't watch these little cartoon movies with him. And he will watch Summer House with me. He'll fall asleep. That's compromise. He started watching the reunion, part one. He was asleep within 15 minutes. But he tried. I've never met a man that watches a brink.

Bravo show, though, doesn't ask a few questions to get into it. Like, I genuinely have not cared about most Marvel movies I've seen, but, like, men watch Bravo and they're into it. And that's just a thing for all men. Right. And also, why people like Marvel so much is there's all this crossover between shows exactly why I like Bravo. There's spin-offs, pages dating Craig, they're just, they're fucking across

shows. It's just... It's the same thing. It's amazing. Yeah. Anyways, that's my Bravo. That's my Bravo input until Southern Charm is on. Okay. Okay. We're taking summer off okay it's wedding season ish summer wedding season and we have a wedding story so this story was making the rounds and basically this i'm going to pull this from just a distractify article but this was in a bunch of different places and it was basically a mother of the bride's dress sparks controversy online we'll post the photos and people think that the mom was upstaging the daughter and of course again internet was divided people are like no it's her mom grow up and then other people were like

why would she do that? She's trying to upstage her daughter. And can I just tell you that? I just hate the concept of upstaging the bride in general. You're not going to upstage the bride. Like if I'm the bride, you're not upstaging me. Go off. It's my day.

I'm the star of the show. I'm the hottest person here. I have the best dress. I got the man. If you're worried your mom's going to upstage, you get hotter. Yes. Like, there's no competition. Like, you better look hot at my wedding.

my wedding theme attire will be look hot get fucked come as hot as you what like I guess there's a there's a line Kendall Jenner's the line that little strappy drawer I love that that's kind of what Sierra wore to Hannah's wedding to Hannah Burton like Sierra had that same energy she'll talk to shit Hannah was like go off queen totally but like I would never be like Raina's tits are out too much at my wedding or my mom looks too slutty I feel like they're gonna wheel out the cake at your wedding and you're gonna be like let's get

Raina's tits in this yes if Raina doesn't show her full tits at my wedding. I'm going to be like, I'm not eating this cake. I'm not even married. Totally. This wedding doesn't count. Totally. I didn't, no one saw rain as ariolas. It's just like, I get like, don't wear white. Okay, so I'll describe the dress of you guys. You should go to

YouTube and watch. But it is a, it's a loud dress. It's a really bright color green. It's floral. It is low cut in the front and it really does display her cleavage. And there is a train on the back. So, the train on the back, I could

see people, there's like a big bow with the train in the back. You think the train is like the smoking gun. Okay. The smoking gun. I mean, I just, I've mixed feelings about it. First of all, I don't believe that your mom could have stayed you at a wedding. I think that- Some moms would do this.

I want to be clear. Sure. Absolutely. We talked about this on episodes with Lori Gottlieb and just moms, unfortunately, sadly, have some competition and jealousy of their daughters. And this, I know this happens. I just don't want to not. validate, but who knows?

This feels classy, sexy to me. It doesn't feel unnecessarily showy. I mean, she has, it is low cut, but she has some big tities. And she should be able to wear whatever dress she wants. Okay, hear me out though. I guess I would be a little, if my mom had like better tits than me.

Oh. Why do you buy me boobs before this wedding? I'd be like, this is so rude. My mom, like, her mom really is so hot. But like, the traditional mother-in-law outfits can be so horrendous. They're like, wear this sequin hazmat suit. You know, like, B is covered up and put this jacket on over it.

Like, here's this moo-mo. Sometimes they're so bad. And if women want to, like, I'm sure a lot of moms are like, I don't want to show my body. Like, I'm older. Like, whatever you want to do, your comfort level. But I'm just like, man, if my mom wanted to slut it up, titty's out, train out.

I'd be like, Cindy, go off. Go off. Yes. Get fingered on the dance for tonight. Grind up on somebody who isn't dad. I was going to say. Get fingered by dad? Yeah.

Can I tell you? Can you imagine looking over? I'm like, you know what? It's too far. I was joking when I said that on the podcast, guys. Yeah. I like Bridgerton, but I don't want you to act it out on my dance floor. I did see a really crazy mother of the bride dress at a wedding a few years ago.

The grooms, it was the groom's mom. The bride's mom, beautiful, elegant, long gown, fancy wedding at a very fancy hotel. the groom's mom wore an Air Valle Leje bandaged dress. Oh. Like the short micro mini no bandaged dress. I put that on my outline.

I was like I can see if the mom was wearing a bodycon dress. Body con micro mini. Oh no. I just, I couldn't have stare at her. She stole the show. Not a good way. I just was like, this is wild. Wait, I never even once thought of this.

My fiance's mom wearing something like that. Yes. I would be talking my shit. It was a lot. I would be have all my girls up in that bridal suite. Like, can you believe this bitch? Thirsty as fuck. I would have to say something.

Like, why, you really brought it out for my wedding. But it's a different tone, too. I would just sort of like laugh about it internally. I would laugh. Is that how you want to show up in the world and in photos forever? That's on you. Yeah, exactly. And I'm going to, I just, I don't, okay.

Mother of the bride, I also think, do whatever you want. You probably paid for this wedding. Maybe. This is your day. Yeah. I mean, I can't relate. I would pay for my own wedding at this point. Yeah.

Because my second go at it. No, I just, listen, who knows what's going on? This could be that competitive mother-daughter thing. But, like, I'm just also going to assume the bride knew what her mom was wearing. You don't know. I can't imagine a world in which I don't know what my mom's wearing. You don't have to run that shit by me. That's crazy.

But even, not even to run it by me, just I know what my mom's wearing to the wedding. Well, didn't we shop for it together? Yeah. Like the vine? She asked my opinion and just as like a younger person in the world. Yeah. Yeah. But I don't know.

I just have always felt like again, there is a line. But I don't really subscribe to that. Like I'm just like, look hot at my wedding. Like when people say they don't like want to wear red because that's too loud. Uh-huh. I'm like, what? I guess every bride is like different sensitivities. Yeah.

And you know, whatever your boundary is, is your wedding, do whatever you want. But like I just don't really like. someone could wear like a really revealing slutty dress bright red and I wouldn't think twice. It'd be like, go get after it. Get fucked. Get fucked. All right. So I'm dressed in slutty for Ashes wedding.

Tessa, take your whale tail out. I got it. I'm not engaged. I just want to be clear. I'm just saying it if it were me. Okay. Imagine you got engaged. We just didn't talk about it.

You guys just to be clear. Surprise. Yeah. Okay. So speaking of summer fashion, yeah. We are going to talk about. controversial trend that is allegedly back Purton style.

Tankinis. Tachinis are back. Every ugly style is back. Listen, I think bathing suits are very much like you should wear whatever feels good. And I think that people are really in their heads about their bodies and what they look like. So you should wear what you feel comfortable with,

especially people after they have children feel even more insecure about their stomachs. That being said, it's not for me. I would just rather wear a one piece. That's what I'm saying. Like, I'm not out here like, if you don't wear a skimpy bikini or a fugly loser. Like, I have one pieces. Like, it's just like, make a decision, Tankini.

You know, are you a one piece? Are you not? But then I'm like, it's convertible. Maybe you don't, maybe you want to tan your stomach. You want to pull it up and then you don't want to be out. You got just like a window, like a window for your stomach. The versatility. Okay, here's what I like about Tankini's is you're not constantly getting a wedgy every time you bend over.

because your back is not connected to your butt. As opposed to a one piece? Yes. Okay. Yeah. Someone with a long torso. I hear you on that. You're always complaining about body suits and how they're just like literally inside of your body.

In my labia. So maybe what you're really wanting is a tankini. No, I'm a bikini girl. I also just like, again, I think they're like a great option for people that want that, you know, that versatility and that look. And like I can bring it up, bring it down. I can wear the tank out later with some. jeans and my whale tail. But so it's kind of like maternity-esque to me. Like it's a great like, that's how I thought. Yeah. It's like maternity or postpartum, but like I don't want to be out here

someone thinking like I'm wearing maternity, but I'm also like if you're trying to have kids dressed for the job you want, you know, maybe if you're trying to get pregnant this summer, you're like, I'm going to wear a tiki. I'm going to manifest it. Don't do IVF an acupuncture. Wear a tequette. We're a. We're a. We're a. We're a tiquette. We're a. We're a. We're a Ticini. It's a keeney. It's a keeney. So we, like, have no judgment.

But there's something about it, too, that I find for, like, an elder millennial, like, trends that come back, we either, like, embrace them or really reject them. So, and I don't know what it is. It, like, hits us somewhere different because it's, like, what we used to wear. Like, there's definitely some trends that are back from the 90s that we're like, oh, like, dope. I love this. And then we hear about some things, like hip hug or jeans or, but we're wearing them

cheese together with our whale tails. be like tankini's that were like, oh no, stop. You know, like we have some sort of visceral reaction to all of this and whether it's justified or not. Well, I already went through all this. Tube tops are back. Do you know how hard it's just carting around a tube top

with double deep boobs? Well, now I have a breast reduction. I can wear it. Do you know how hard it was to keep a tube top up back when I had F-sized tinnies? I know. Like, I love a tube top so much. But we were at dinner in New York.

It was me and Raina and our friend Louisa. and Raina was about to go meet up with this guy who she has talked about on the Monday episode, what doing guy actually. And we're leaving dinner and you were going to meet him close to the hotel. And you go, I'm going up to my room and I'm putting on a tube top and I'm meeting him. And she has not forgotten it. She was like, oh, I never heard someone say that. Like that's Raina's time.

And she was like a tube top. Okay. Like Rayna's. And I think to you, you're like, I finally get to wear these. Like I can like wear them with my. like since my breast reduction, but she brings it up. And then every time I'm wearing a tube top,

she's like, you and Rain on that tube top game. I like it. It was just so funny the way you said it. I really like it when you're like on top of a guy, like straddling a guy. And you just like, you pull your titties out with the tube tops.

What I'm saying is maybe I like tube tops. Yeah. But not low rise jeans. It is fun to pull the titty out. I was like, I was like, I invented that. Wanted it?

I invented one tit out. I like my life. that boob better than my right boop sometimes you guys are new around here at reina's birthday in 2021 we were yelling show your tits and she could only get one out of her body suits she just ripped one titty out and it was like the best thing i ever seen i was walking on the street i was meeting brittney for dinner the other night and i was like face timing just on like a side street i wasn't being like obnoxious in public and um was face time with my boyfriend right before i like walked into the restaurant and he he just was like jokingly because i had like a low cut shirt and he was like well let me

let me see something and I just pulled a tea out on the street. It felt nice. It feels nice. Yeah. Just get some air on one area. Yeah. And he was like, oh, I didn't know you're going to do it. I'm like, don't tempt me.

Yeah, don't ask. Yeah. Show me your dick. Yeah. I know, exactly. I'm always, and then the other night he said something like, just joking around. Like, show me your tits. Show me your ass.

I'm like, I showed you my tit last week. You didn't even show me your dick. I showed you a tit last week. Oh, man. You haven't even returned the favor. No. So Brack Girl Summer. tits out. Tankinis. Slutty wedding attire as long as you know you're allowed. And let us know if you're wearing tan kinies. We want to end every episode of the sack with a question. So are you doing tan kini summer? We'll put a pull up on on Instagram. We're doing tan kini. Okay. Well, that wraps the third episode of the snack. And again, we would love if you guys watch this on YouTube and subscribe and share it with a friend. We really have noticed a lot of the really nice comments.

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