Girls Gotta Eat - The Snack: Grammys, Super Bowl, and Pu$$y Charms

Episode Date: February 6, 2025

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Welcome to The Snack, a lighter serving of Girls Got to Eat. This is a Dear Media production. Enjoy. Hi, guys. Hi. First day in our new studio. We are here. It looks exactly the same as the previous one.

No, people are like, are you fucking with us? I know. This is all just like a scam. Yeah. For views. I bought my old pals back, actually. No, we just wanted the clips to look really different for a few weeks and not as beautiful. Yes.

I thought we looked grown and sexy. Grown and sexy. I loved the ones from Gravitous. They're so dramatic. That's what I'm saying. Like grown and sexy. Grown and sexy. Yeah.

Like newscasters. Yeah. Grown sexy newscasters. We need them more than ever. We've recreated the studio in L.A. and I just, I couldn't be happier to be back in our chairs with our vibrators all around us. I'm just like thrilled. I really missed it. So we got rid of Azul's Ottoman that he never sat on. Azulie? you want to come in the shot? But he has been wanting to sit between us. So if you guys tuned in, he's wearing a pink bandana, which... Someone thought he was a girl yesterday.

Everybody... Well, he's wearing pink, and people just assume. I think people assume you see a dog in a pink bandana, but the pink really pops on him. This is his Valentine's bandana. This is Valentine's look. You're like, he's gay, but he is a man. Please don't assume his sexuality.

But we're just really happy to be here. Yeah, it feels nice. You guys have been along for the ride. for a couple different studios, Switcharoos. Hopefully this is where we'll be for a while. For a minute. Yeah.

We're going to rest our little or else. Rest our weary bones. Yesterday was a rough day. I was here six times. It was freezing cold and raining. Oh my God. Stop. Yesterday, yeah, the weather.

I went and looked at a wedding venue. I'm like, do I hate it? Or is it just the weather? Do I even want to get married? I think it's yes. I was like, the wedding is canceled because it's raining and cold. It's cold. Yeah, it was a rest of it.

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I mean, what a better way to celebrate with your partner or solo or with friends than a circle jerk. Well, we had a friend. She did like a girls' night pre-valentine's party. And what did they all exchange gifts? And she brought the Lucy Love Kit. So perfect. For Galentines, Valentine's. Yes.

And I just, I stand on it. we have the most beautiful packaging I've ever seen something that you will be really proud to gift to somebody. And the best products. Also, it's in the box. The boxes are empty. Surprise. No. Well, next week is a Galentine's episode.

So we'll be back next week to, we'll mention it. And every week after that. Okay. Let's kick it off with the Grammy's report. Can I just tell you? So I, this is the longest. First, I don't really watch award shows. I started to really enjoy award shows because me and Brittany watched the Gloves a couple weeks ago.

a couple weeks ago, and I had such a nice time, and you were like, Trevor Noah's speech at the Grammys, and I was like, all right, I'll turn this on. And I turned it on. And it was like five hours. I think it was normal. I didn't, I think they're usually three hours. Maybe I just not really in the culture. I don't think you tune in start to finish. I mean, like a football game. I felt like I was watching a sports event. Totally. I would never watch this stuff. They should do a half time. It's usually three hours. And then since it's live, it runs over. What was it like 315, 3.20? It didn't feel excessively long to me. It felt excessively amazing.

That was the best Grammys ever. I wouldn't know because I'm nothing really to compare it to. I guess I used to watch the VMAs. I really loved all the nominees. This year I love what's happening in music. There were so many women, I mean, almost no men to speak of for nominated. I'm not mentioning one man. It was like so much girl power.

It started so strong. It was just like the Dochi win and then Beyonce. Can I say, I've never seen Beyonce. caught off guard. That caught me off guard. That surprised look, I gasped. Caucasy Musgraves off guard. Bitch was mad. I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't want to say, I think that's, I don't love the narrative that, like, a woman was mad at another woman winning. They, they did look caught off guard, her and the other, and Lainey Wilson. But I'm not going to say they were, like, hating. I'm not going to play into that. I think that's a good point and a good reframing, because, like, you

a camera on me for an hour. The multitude of shit-talking faces. I mean, they panned at Casey Musgraves twice. She looked paced. But, I mean, you could get a camera on me and make me look like that. I like Casey Musgraves. I think she might have RBF. And she also lost. Like, don't let

me go to an award show and lose. It doesn't matter who won. I would probably look pissed. The only person who lost 100% of the time, Taylor Swift, no one had more fun. No one was dancing with Alicia Key's son. Since they want.

She's always been like this. She is front row up on her feet, dancing not to the beat, having the time of her life. No one is having arms in the air, cheersing with Jay-Z. Always. She is always having the most fun

at an award show. She gets loose. I mean, she, I thought she may win, what, the record for five Grammys for Best Song of the Year? Is that what it was? I didn't think she went into it

thinking she was going to sweep the Grammys, right? I loved watching her. She was just having fun. Losing every single round And she was like, don't care. So she hit the red carpet and I text rain immediately. I'm like, she's here in red sequin, ice capades, your vibe. Because for a minute, that's all you were picking out for holiday shows.

It's all I want to wear. Obviously holiday colors and something that looks like you were a figure skater. I want to look like the ice capades. I want to buy something on Amazon for $25 and look like the ice capades. That's my vibe. And then I was like, this is Chiefs coded because it's red. And then I saw that pussy charm. You called it a pussy charm.

I called it a pussy charm. This badge chain. I literally was like, what the fuck? I literally was like, we're all going to be rocking pussy chains this summer. It's so edgy. It's so edgy. And at first I saw that dress and I did, listen, I talked to my shit. I was like, that's so stupid.

Like she can't dress. But her body, her confidence, the blonde hair and like the perfectly tan skin with the red sequins. I mean, the chain, no chain, hate the dress. Yeah. Vagina tassels, though, love the dress. I post on my story. I said, hate the Chiefs Red,

love the pussy charm. And people were like, go off. Like, that's my thoughts exactly. I like the short, flirty dress of it all. I,

like, Taylor's going to tailor. And she's going to, I just was like, oh, I saw her walk in waist up. They caught her on camera, and I'm like,

what's below the waist? And I was like, a tiny little figure skater outfit. Yeah. I didn't, they're musicians. They can do no wrong to me. you can act as crazy,

dress as crazy as you want, but I wasn't crazy about the fashion this year. Oh, really? See, I just liked it so much more than the Golden Globes. I just think musical artists

are always going to be better. They're going to be edgier and sluttier. I loved it. I wanted more of it. Olivia Rodriguez, she looked like an only fan's model. A beautiful one. Her and Miley just competing

for the cutout black dresses. Okay, so Miley came out on stage and made that joke about her dress. She's like, I'm here for two reasons. To drop this Vivian Westwood dress. Alia. Whatever it was.

This isn't a lie. We don't hear a lie a lot. We haven't really heard it since Clueless. Gossip Girl and Clueless, you're right. Not Vivian Westwood. Not Sex and City movie. Okay. A wedding dress.

She was like, I'm here because of my custom, Alia, just crickets. You could have heard a pin drop. She thought she was being like such a bad bitch saying that. Don't want to emoting. Wait, thank you, because that was the worst joke of the night. Okay, can I just say, like, we said we didn't have that much to say for the Grammys in, yet here we are. I thought that Trevor Noah monologue through the crowd was so awkward.

I felt like it was so hard to not watch everyone's reactions. Like, I couldn't even focus on what he was saying because I was watching everyone around him. And everyone was like, how do I react? The cameras on me? Like, he's hosted for, what, five years? That felt new, and I could be wrong. But, like, just keep him on stage. Like, I'm all about crowd play and let's get the crowd involved.

And it felt so awkward to me. But also then again, I kind of lock some awkwardness. So I'm like, maybe I'm not hating, but it was interesting. I didn't care for it. I mean, I don't mind it when somebody's in the aisles walking down, but because there was all these round tables and he ended up, I said to you, like, why is his crotch in Billy Eilish's face? And the camera's up in her face catching her reaction to him standing next to you.

And I'm like, this is my big night. I'm this, I'm an award nominee. I don't want to look up over my shoulder at this person. Just put him on the stage. Right. And you could tell everyone, I mean, these people, are on camera for a living and they just didn't know quite how to react. And so I was like, I don't even know what I'm paying attention to. Did it surprise you that like, I thought he would be

standing next to like less famous people. Like, if I was in the pit, if I'm Taylor Swift and you're presenting standing next to me and I have to like, I know I'm on. I mean, it's weird. Those, there were too famous to be presented next to. But also like the famous people are going to be in the front like that. The whole vibe was, was interesting to me. I thought they did an amazing job with the LA fires tribute. Yeah. They weaved it in and out through the whole show. They highlighted local businesses and then they brought the firefighters up at the end

to present the final award. And I just really, they didn't just like say a thing and move on. Totally. And they raised a lot of money. We were saying, like, was that just money raised from people at home? Like, are you going to tell us where the people in the room raised? Like we were, you said on the group chat, they should have like a ticker up there. So that's like a telethon.

A telethon. A telethon. Like, I would have been in it like just amped watching that. It was like Taylor Swift, three million. Yeah, I mean, also, I think it'd be funny if Taylor was sitting there, like, send them three mail, right? Like, and you could just see it come in. Yeah.

That would be so fun. I, yeah, so they opened every segment with, like, L.A. for hours, with L.A. fires. I mean, I got to tell you, this is the hardest I cried, honestly, from any television experience. But, I cried on and on and on. Oh, my God. It was just, like, Dochi, who was the third woman to ever win that award. She kicked off the crying.

Yeah, Lauren Hill, Cardi B., Docee. Then Alicia. and a lot of the stuff that she said and Chapel Rhone decided to use the moment to talk about health insurance, which I feel like was not only a message to the music industry, but a message to America. I feel like it was very coded of like, hey, we need health insurance that we all do. But I don't know if that was like her motive. But yeah, it was emotional and it was just so much pussy power, pussy chain, pussy power.

So many. I mean, I, when they also, they did, they did a whole like B-roll segment of like the fires in LA. Of that, too. Yes. Oh, my God. Of course. So I finally hung this TV in my bedroom.

Who's TV? It's your TV from years ago. So we brought all the TVs to my old house to my new house. And there was three of them. There was two in my house hung up in my living room in my bedroom and one from the studio, which you have just been housing at the, how old is that TV? It's 2019. It's not too, I mean, that's kind of, I don't know if you, TVs do age and they actually age

and like you can't get the apps or whatever. So it's six years old. So I mounted this TV and the guy that was mounting it was like, the mount doesn't work with this TV. And I was like, that can't be possible. I brought two mounts and two TVs. He was like, you need to buy a new one. So he sold me a new mount for $80.

And then I'm like, and neither of my remotes work with it. And I'm like, why won't this turn on? I realize it's Samsung. I've like, I've never bought a Samsung. All my TVs are LG. And then I realized it was your television. So now I have Raina's much newer television. Much bigger, much newer television.

which I just gave you last night because I'm by dismounting this TV. How did this happen? I cannot stop laughing. So the last night we popped into the studio and I saw the TV. Again, this TV has just been, Rain has been kind enough to like, how is it for me? We thought we might use it for some recording stuff.

We've had it to your house. My 2019 TV. It came from New York, whatever. And I was like thinking my fiancee moved in and I'm like, we'll put a TV in the bedroom. It's nice. You know, I haven't had TV in the bedroom like, forever, you know, but like, well, it's fun.

We like to lay in beds. It's nice. It is a luxury. That's why I like to be in a hotel so much because I can lay in bed and watch TV. We were like, we'll do a TV in the bedroom. So I was like, Raina, can I get that TV? And then you were like, by the way, here's what happened. I mean, Raina, we walked out of there, like, we robbed a bank.

When he was walking out with my gigantic, brand new television just under his arm, I was like, God, the fact that you mismounted my old TV and you were like, I have to just keep it. Like, you just. And you have to put money into it. You had to buy a new mount. I just have this other. You want to mount? too. I'll give you the math that goes with that.

Like also, no, like, will you carry it out? We're like, is this okay? How did this even happen? Also, like, it never occurred to me that like to check them out. Like, this doesn't, like, that should have been my first tip off. Thank you so much. You're so welcome. I laid it in my, like, king-sized bed with my new mounted TV.

I drank like a whole bottle of wine. I just was crying my eyes out. I had my new bedding from Brooklyn. I really had a bite. Oh, I just put my brook linens on. What color are you at? Cream? Cream?

I got, you get it. I put cream on two. We creamed on it. You didn't see for I was going. No, I did. I did. Oh, you too. I have a cream duvet and then I think I have some kind of pebble sheets.

Okay. Oh, yeah, you love your pebble. So I want to talk about a couple things, Kanye's naked wife on the red carpet. I did not. I mean, she's usually naked, but this was a different level of naked. Like, it felt like exploitative and predatory to me. Like, if he was naked, like, I was. Like I was like, if Kanye was like, we're making a statement, bodies are beautiful.

Here I am in my dick cover. Not that I want to see him naked. Not that you want to see a naked man either. But like, it feels so strange to have a clothed man head to toe clothing and he like has his wife take off all her clothes. I mean, there's a million takes. You could be like, children are watching. I mean, whatever you want to say about it. But like the energy was weird and there was a video where, again, you couldn't hear what they were saying.

But it almost like she didn't want to. Yes. And he was like telling her to. And, like, it just felt so icky to me. And again, she's a grown woman. She's consenting to these actions. But, like, it's so weird. Like, I just felt like if something would have felt better to me and also, you know, not okay.

But, like, if he was like, we're showing up naked. We're going, we're making a statement. Yeah. It's for PETA. Like, if they would have done something. And, like, but for him fully cloth and he's like, take your clothes. Ah, I just, it really gave me the ick. But, I mean, that's always their vibe.

She's always almost completely naked. And he's some, some. dirty, ripped up black sweatpants and an oversized black sweatshirter and a jacket with sunglasses. Right. I mean, you can barely see any skin. There's no skin on wind for him. And she's always completely naked. And I don't know what their agreement is or their vibe.

But like he is somebody's father. He, I don't know. It's just, that's what you want your daughters to see? Like, he has two young daughters and that's, he's two young sons. That's what you want your sons to see. You treat women as. You're parading around this naked woman. You know, like, and then one thing that I thought was like kind of funny, it was this beef between him and Don Lemon.

I didn't see a comment. So there was a rumor, I guess that what, I guess they did not get escorted off the red carpet. I guess he was nominated for something. So they came and then they got, she got naked and they left. But then he started saying that Don Lemon started the rumor, former CNN anchor, that Don Lemon started the rumor that they got kicked out. But Don Lemon was like, I said that you didn't. And then like, Kanye's calling him like racial slurs. I mean, it was like crazy.

Like him and Don Lemon are going back and forth. I'm like over this. Like, just get out of here, Kanye. And then I just don't like his. What, he? He unfollowed everyone on Instagram except Taylor Swift. Yes. It's gross.

I mean, everything he does just seems shock value. And like really just like, I don't know. Really just like targeted at women. Yeah, it feels unkindly motivated. And I know there's a lot of talk about him being unwell, which of course, you know, we have. all that sympathy in the world for mental health issues, but like it feels really targeted in a negative way.

And I just, I hate to see like a real icon behave like this, a parent behave like this. It's just, the whole thing is disgusting. And then the other thing I have a big problem with is this jellyfish haircut. We don't know about this.

Well, it was Miley's haircut. Okay. And we love Miley, to be clear. But it's giving bad extensions. Yeah, it's giving my hair two weeks ago on a podcast. I'll let you say it. I'm not going to say. No, but like, so I just found this article, and I think it's the funniest.

We'll put pictures up on YouTube if you guys are watching, but again, it's like Bob in the front and then like a long, like, mullet in the back. So the Bob, like, was kind of to her ears, right? And then, like, from the back of her ears down, it was like long hair. And so I found this glamour headline. The Jellyfish haircut is perfect for anyone torn between a Bob and long hair. Who's torn? That's not a thing. No one's like, I'd like both.

throw them both in. That's like I don't want to, that's like if you're torn between wearing jeans and a skirt, put them both on. You can do it. People do do that. You look stupid.

It looks ridiculous. You do you. But like I saw that haircut. I'm like, it was a jump scare. I was like, is this an accident? I mean,

it is party in the front. And I like a bob and I've been threatening for years to get a bob. Take out my hair extensions and get a bob. But I would not be like thrown both in.

I just like, I just think it's so funny that glamour is like, guys, we know you're torn. We know you want both. A bikini and a gown. I'll do both. It's an unblended bob with long disconnected tendrils that resemble the tentacles and shape of a jellyfish, says Amy Ambram mighty creative director and stylist at Chicago's Max C. Don't try to rationalize this, Amy.

I don't know. I just think that. was something that really shocked me, but I really did love the Grammys this year. It was healing. I loved every minute of it. It was, I mean,

it was really positive. It was for a good cause. I just loved watching those women. Yeah. Win Charlie XX's performance. I mean, I liked all the performances, but like I just,

I wanted it to go on forever, and I was reading this whole list of the cameos of people that were on stage. Yeah. I did not know one person except for Julia Fox, but there were a lot. Tessa,

did you know who the cameos were? Okay. You didn't either. So I read a list of all the people that were cameos, I was like, I am too young to understand. I'm too old. I am too young.

I'm too old to understand any of these references. And then Beyonce won album of the year, which she is never won before, which is crazy. For Cowboy Carter, which I fully support the album I listen to the most. Like one of my top favorite Beyonce albums. And so we love to see it. I can't wait. She's coming to L.A. in the fall? Yeah.

So Beyonce and I are starting our tour the same month. I guess you guys, we did call it. We just, we collaborated on it. So we were like, let's just tour together, girl. You know, like, let's both kick it off in April. Okay. No, so she's starting her Cowboy Carter tour, end of April in L.A. Oh, the end of April and L.A.

End of April, early May, with four shows at Sofi. Okay. I am starting mine on April 4th with two shows at the Den in Chicago. Same energy. No big deal. I just think it's very funny. Like, what a time to be alive and touring at the same time as Beyonce. Oh, I love it.

a similar size venue. We have been on tour at the same time as Beyonce. And Taylor Swift. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway, Catch us the Cowboy Cardin. That tour is going to be the absolute best. And I mean, we went to Renaissance and it wasn't my favorite tour.

I've been to the formation tour or Lemonade and I've been to On the Run. What do we see? On the Run. And then I went to Lemonade in Atlanta, which I absolutely love. That's on my top albums too. And we loved the Renaissance tour, but it just wasn't my favorite. favorite because it wasn't my favorite album. I mean, on the run, so much fun. I had the time of my life. I just love that so much. Renaissance wasn't for me. I didn't know the songs. And that's really not

like me, but I just, I just didn't know a lot of the songs that she did. It wasn't my favorite. I am so excited. I just, I love, I just, I love country music so much and to watch her do it and the outfits. I just, you know, I have so many outfits for this. I, I know. You're like already prepared. Yeah, I mean, and I love what Renaissance, like, stood for. I mean, I really did I loved it. It's just like if I'm going to rank them, you know, this is probably going to be up there with how I thought about lemonade. But yeah, the outfits. I'm so excited.

She better just let us do our thing. Oh, you think she's going to like pick a color? I don't think she is. I think I love that she did that for Renaissance. I love that it was like wear silver. Oh my God. But I think she's going to be like, y'all do y'all's thing. I hope so.

Shabuzzi. What if Shibuzi comes out? I will, I want to go to the kickoff night. So bad. I know. Well, my tour in the Beyonce's store. You know, guys got your tickets. Okay.

Well, I'm really, really so excited about it. And Super Bowl? You know that I forgot that the Super Bowl was this weekend? And I scheduled a bunch of construction at the house. Well, I had to text them and be like, well, I mean, technically they're only working upstairs. Okay. So I was like, hey, I forgot that the Super Bowl was such an awkward text. I was to just send a man.

I had to text him this morning and I was like, hey, he. I forgot the Super Bowl's this weekend and I have a party at the house I said I guess it doesn't really matter if you guys will be upstairs but I'm just thinking out of whatever you said I forgot about that I only watch real football he's Israeli so soccer

I just think it's funny to be like welcome to my home the Philly cheese steak egg rolls are here the beers and wines are over here and then the hot construction workers are upstairs in the bedrooms if you'd like to have your pick you are going to be in multiple of the bedrooms

running a brothel see yourself into one of the bedrooms and pick one of the men that has skills honestly get yourself a man in L.A. the job. It is really hard to find them. And I have sourced all of them. All these men are gainfully employed. I am dead. Which is rare. You just un-invite everyone to the party except single women. You're like, we change the theme. And it's an orgy now. It's a singles mixer. If you're like, isn't the Super Bowl today? I'm like, just go somewhere else. So I'm really excited because I am

put in charge of the Philly food. Well, you were really cute about it. I was like, I was like, let me tell you the menu. And I'm going to do, I'm also going to let you get back to what you're But I'm obviously big dips. I like to do the classics. So spinach dip, buffalo dip, caramelized onion. I'll probably do like a rotel queso in your honor. And I'm going to do pigs in a blanket. And then I'm going to do a bunch of like hoagies and subs from base cities in San

Monica. Got to say hoagies. Huggies. They say hoagies in Philly? Yeah. Wawa hoagie. It's a Pittsburgh. Hohies.

Oh, right. Pittsburgh too. So I'm going to just get like a huge assortment of Bay City's Italian subs, hoagies. And then I said to you, I want to do something like Philly. inspired and you go, I will be handling. I will handle the Philly stuff. And I was like, okay, go off girl. Well, so the only reason I said that is because Sparkle eyes will make it. I live in chef now. I live with a chef. I know. I actually have hosted like dozens of parties since I met

Ashley. She's never been like, slow your roll. I will take care of this. Ashley shows up early. She does the playlist and she'll bring a bottle of something. But she's never been like, I will take care of the food as well. Last year, I was going to bring that borson cheese. And then it just was like, you kind of said don't be in the kitchen. Like I was going to make it there and you were like, you know what, don't. And I was like, whof. I were pretty, no, I said yes. And I was like, I'm going to hate every second. And we didn't need it. So yes, I mean, I am putting him in charge. I'll sue chef with him. Well, we've been cooking together. But, um, and I'll talk a little bit more about living with him on Monday's episode. But yeah, he was like, what if we did sliders? I'm like, I really want to try

these Philly Cheesesteak Egg rolls. I think it's just it's, but we might go slide. Either way, we're going to make it happen. I love an egg roll. Also, you and I have a very special connection to Philly Cheesestick Egg rolls. So the first time we, both of us, ever met my sister-in-law, my brother's wife, it was, do you think that's the most hungover you've ever been, like drunkest you've ever been and most hungover? It's a top three for sure. Yeah, you called 911.

Raina's first night in Dewey Beach, she wasn't prepared. Do we always win? I was so fun. And the shots and the size of the drinks. And she got so hammered. She called 911. Like, she woke up the next morning and still in her, like, jumpsuit from the night before. and we all go to Starboard for Sunday

and we walk in and this is first time I'm meeting Steph and she just took one look at us and just put Philly Cheezing Egg rolls in our mouths like she was like you need these and I was like I love her she gets us. We talked about it for years how that was like the first she just took care of us like Stephanie is she's just such a nurturer.

Yeah. She also is so tall she like emerged from the crowd with this egg roll. She like hugged she like I'm a hugger and she like hugged us and we were just like not okay. I was like, Raina's unwell. Like, 911 has called her back this morning. What was his name? Daryl. Daryl. That's not, that's a maintenance guy. That's that guy too. I thought it was like heaven. All right. I forget

what it was. If you guys know, I don't remember. It was six years ago, but I think it was Daryl. But yeah, 911 called me back. I left a message. Like, you don't sound okay. You called by accident. Yeah. Your phone just whatever. Yeah. Because you shouldn't, obviously, you're not pranking 911. No, it was just on speed dial because Verizon knew. They were like, like she's going to do it. She's going to need help. So just a couple of things about the Super Bowl. So ticket sales are down because Donald Trump is going.

Oh, I'm kidding. I'm making that correlation on my own. Okay. It would make me not want to go. I'm not trying to be in that room. But I guess he's going. I guess he's like the first president to go. I mean, he is really he was at the Pittsburgh Steelers game a few weeks ago too. I mean, he

they're saying that like they're allowing podcasters and influencers into the White House. I mean, he's doing some things different. Not us. Not us. We will not be allowed in the White House. A certain type of podcast. We've actually been blackballed from the White House. We're probably on like I do not. I'm all set.

I don't need to go there. But super bold ticket sales or doubt. I'm sure they're still astronomical expensive. But I just, I mean, Tessa put this article in our outline and I skimmed it. And I mean, it just seems like people have like chiefs fatigue, which I understand. I think like I love New Orleans. So do you. Like it's not maybe as popular city as Las Vegas.

A lot of people went last year. Last year like record numbers and it was so expensive. And then the first year, I went two years ago. I think at the third time, like, you may have exhausted your chiefs fan base. Yeah. And I think obviously Eagles fans want to be there. But they were saying, like, had it been another team, it probably, this probably wouldn't be the case.

That's an interesting take. Because I think New Orleans is just the fucking best. Oh, totally. I'll be performed there. I love visiting there. It's just the best food in the world, the best music. But I think that's a good point. Maybe people are just like, I don't know.

Like, I've done it. I've gone a couple times. Vegas. There's also just way more places to stay, probably. And things to do outside of, just going to the game. I mean, I think it's probably, if the Chiefs has to do with it,

like I think it's just kind of like the third time, you know? Yeah, but if somebody wants to invite me, I will cancel the Super Bowl party right now. You can, no, you can host it at my house. And the, the,

um, Superdome is larger than it's like 10, 10,000 more seats. Oh, really? Yeah. So anyway, we just thought that was interesting.

There's some commercials that have been released early. So I wanted you guys to, tell me. Is this the first time that's happened or is it common that these these commercials get released ahead of time? I think I feel like I've, I don't think, I don't think it's the first time it's ever happened. I do feel like in past years, it's like these teaser type things, but the one I love the most is this Hellman's commercial and it's Meg Ryan and Billy Crystal, Billy Crystal, from when Harry met Sally. And she kind of like does the orgasm scene in Cats Deli. Wait, I love that. Yeah. Oh my God.

This is like iconic thing. They filmed it there? I think so. Yeah. Wait, I know about this because there was like an influencer event

at Katz's with Heinz and Jeremy are a good friend and Hank who's Salt Hank on Instagram. They went and did all this press there. Okay. This makes sense. Yeah.

I got it now. Yeah. So I like that. I saw like a funny Pringles one. There's a Coors Light one. Instacart, Hagenas, Helmins, yeah,

which is the one that we love. And then it ends with Sidney Sweeney repeating the classic line, I'll have what she's having. Oh, that's an amazing cameo. I know. I just love seeing the celebrities that they get. Adam Brody, he's in the Pringles one. I love him so much. There's all these mustaches flying through the air. Whatever, you guys will see. But anyway, so that's really the super. I'm excited for the Super Bowl party and I can't wait. And then people are, of course, asking Travis Kelsey if he's going to propose to Taylor Swift during the halftime show and he's being like coy, like we'll see it. He gave us really, really wonderful interview about her. I mean, I just love the way that they speak about each other. And he's just like, she is such a hustler and a hard worker. She motivates me.

I better show up. I better win this. Like she inspires me so much. I mean, I just love the way he speaks of her. But I just don't, listen, I don't know. I'm sure she'd be happy to get engaged. But like, I don't think that she's like, this is your time. I don't, I can't imagine them, I'm proposing it.

Can you, okay, if he wins, maybe he'll propose at the end. Well, he's not going to win. But I just like can't. It feels too like on the note. It feels like, no, the most famous couple in the world is going to get engaged with the football game. But it is the most famous football game in the world. I know. Like, I can't decide, like, how I feel about it.

But I don't like it because I think that she's like, this is your moment. I've had my moments. Like, take your moment. It doesn't have to be our moment. He's not winning, first of all. But if he did, then he's had this moment two other times. Like, it's not that big a deal. Oh, it's over.

So here's the thing. I don't like when men propose at a woman's accomplishment. Like I've seen like when a woman graduates from like whatever, but like let's say med school. Don't see my thunder. And you get out of here. But some women might really like that. They're like, this is already such a happy joyous moment. Maybe friends and family are there.

But then would you want to be proposed to at like his moment? Like that does that feel even more selfish? Like what feels more selfish? Like a man that wins a big thing and is like now I'm going to propose to my girl or he kind of scoops you on yours. I think you don't want either. I mean, I think that you kind of know. the kind of person your partner is.

And if they do one of those things, you're like, I know the type person I signed up for. So like, yeah, Lewis Howes, who was on our show, proposed to his, I guess now fiance at one of his live shows.

Oh, yeah. I mean, that would not be for me. Like, I'm at your event. You're on stage doing your thing. I don't really need to like, I don't know.

I can't see myself really enjoying that. I'd be like, all these people are here to see you. Like, I'd like my moment at my thing. Yeah. I don't want our moment at your thing. But like,

yeah. One of our live shows, like to your point about Travis Kelsey in the Super Bowl and he's done it so many times, like our live shows, I could see getting proposed to do at one of our live shows. And I'd be like, this isn't the only time. I've been on stage hundreds of times. So like it wouldn't bother me. Like I said I would be down with that. I know you would. I said either like the way I got engaged was perfect, but like second choice would have been a live show. Yes. But I've been down for that. It's like it's not a once in a lifetime event for you. Like when we when we sell out Radio City Music Hall. I would get a proposed to there. Oh, okay. At the end of the show. It has to be the very end of the show. I'm going to get proposed to and then just go back to our show. You can go back to work?

No, go back to work. Get back to work. Can you imagine? Well, Alex had to. Yeah, it was our tour manager. Alex. Alex had to get engaged with them to sell the merch. We had to tell her fiancé out of time, too.

We were like, just so you know, she's got to get back out to that merch booth. Well, we, but we did do it closer to the beginning of the show, so they had, like, time to themselves. and stuff like that, but it's also like, you're on tour to do the merch. You got to sell the merch. I know. No, she was like, it was perfect. It was really special.

It was really special. We did at Minneapolis. So yeah, at our shows, I don't mind it. Um, because we've done it so many times. And it's ours. It's not my solo thing by myself. But like, I don't want to get proposed to at someone else's event. Yes.

Okay. I think you are right. Yes. Like I remember when Lewis House said that. I was like, ick. So yeah, I don't think I'm Taylor Swift. I'm trying to get proposed to at the Super Bowl. I mean, I'm probably just trying to do it private.

Right. I guess. But like, okay, here's the other thing. Our audience, like, I love them so much. And to have them be a part of like my moment or your moment would be special and beautiful for me. Yes. And that like people have like paid money to be in that room with ice and that they get to be a part of this moment. I don't want to be part of someone else's moment with their audience.

Oh, I thought you meant that you don't want a bunch of NFL fans. I'm saying. Yeah, that's his audience. I wouldn't want it. Here's what I think will happen. The Eagles will win and he'll still propose and the Eagles fans will boo the whole thing. Eagles fans are wild. Yeah, they booed Santa Claus.

It's like their legacy. Okay, Tessie, you seem like you really hit this idea. So what are your thoughts? I think it's, I think she wants private. I first of all, I think like, but also like I think on the notion of if he picked an event, I mean, he at least he's like, it'll overshadow like the three Pete of the Chiefs. And like all of that. And just like it's also his choice.

to choose to do it at her, his event, but also I think she would hate it. Yeah. So just to clear it up, the chiefs aren't winning. But if they were to win, that is historical. That's great. No one, no team's ever done it. I think people think like the Cowboys did it. They didn't.

So no teams ever won three in a row. Um, they've won three. The Steelers and the Chief, the Steelers and the Cowboys have won five, but not in a row. Nobody in a row. Three. Nobody in a row. I forget all the stats. But this, I think it's pretty much like, Cowboys, Steelers, Patriots,

don't quote me on this are like up there with wins, but no one's never won three in a row. Okay. But they're not going to. They're not going to. They would never. So I do like this idea that the Eagles win and he still has to propose because he's got the ring on him.

He's like, we got to do it. We planned it. He's like, even though I lost, I still won today. Fucking it all back because then it will overshadow the win. That would take away the Eagles win. Like if they block the three feet and then he chose to come in. It will be the biggest deal on planet Earth. That would cause rise.

That would be crazy. Yes, people would be like Eagles who. You're right, I hate it. The Swifties would come in and the fact that Swifties haven't stormed the tickets for this, for this potential to see this. Okay, thank you for bringing that up. I am dying to know who she brings. I mean, I live for who she has in the sweets with her.

And like, we will talk about Justin Baldoni, very briefly later. But I am dying to know Blake Lively shows up because people are saying like, are they still friends? We don't know. But she is the godmother, Blake Lively's kids. Like, we're not sure. And I'm just, I'm dying to know who she's going to bring. Is it Gigi Hadid?

Is it Ice Spice? Like, who is she going to bring? Well, she's always just bringing like the hottest person. Okay, so who's the hottest right now? Ashley and I have this theory that she really just buddies up to like whoever is like super famous right now. She brings. Justin Baldone. Rachel Kirkcon.

Rachel Kirkconnell and Dochi. Not Justin. What? If I look at that box, it's Doche and Justin. No, Justin's insane. We're like, oh, that would, I mean, that, I don't even know what would happen. Like, the world would just explode if she brought Justin Baldoni. Okay, let's take a quick break.

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And we've never, ever seen a court case among celebrities get this petty in the history of time. And we have Johnny Depp case. We had the Weddeth Paltrow case. I mean, there was... There have been so many cases that I'm just like, you just have not seen this depth of pettiness. And Justin Baldoni is like, I will not be silenced. So it's the lawsuit info.com. And you can click on amended complaint or you can click on timeline of relevant events.

And there's only two places you can just like read everything. So there's more, I mean, there's like 150 pages of text. Yeah. And I haven't read all of it. I've read like different things. in different articles, and I've read some of it, but I can't claim to have read all of it. It's 168 pages. Yeah. Some people are coming through this and making TikToks about it.

They're doing God's work. Yeah, they're doing the Lord's work for sure. When I read comments and I'm on TikTok and stuff, I mean, I still think the public overwhelmingly just is kind of grossed out by Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds. Uh-huh. But also Justin. You know, I think people are like, you're trying to absolve yourself with this late-night voice, voice note, you know, like, I think the thing that I feel like I have a new theory. And again,

like, sorry guys, I haven't read all 170 pages of this. Well, also on top of this, 224 pages of the complaint. Right. It's, I'm, nobody could get through this. I mean, I might just settle in. Like, just people are like, I got the time, you know? Like, I think it's riveting. Friday. You should do on Friday. Yeah. We don't really work on Fridays. Okay. But I feel like the, the thing I have the problem with is, like, this narrative, like, she was in love with him and this is her revenge. And it's like, I like the theory that they have something going on mutually. But I also just, why is it not that he was into her? So at one point, he, Justin Maldoni texted Blake lively, and this is in all the texts and everything. And he said, I like sentimental

Blake. I think that's flirty. Every piece of, well, is there more, you want to read me? Because I have more the same. Yes. And then she writes, never met her. I'm hearing a flirty and a shutdown. Totally. I'm hearing a flirty. I'm hearing a flirty. I'm hearing a flirtation. Don't know that pitch. And then he goes, I also like asshole, Blake. Don't worry. We're flirting.

And then I like what she writes back. She goes, I've met her. So have my suppositories. That is telling someone, I want you to think about me putting something in my butt hole so you'll stop flirting with me. I mean, that is the opposite of flirting, to be honest. That is like, I mean, I want you to think about turds coming out of my butt. You stick a suppository in your body.

you hold that in there as long as you can, it's just like 10 seconds. You are an expert. And then you explode out of your butthole. Right? This is a pository expert. Yes, I am. So anyway, listen,

I just think that regardless of whatever you think about Blake lively's lawsuit, I know some people think it's not true, they're accusing her of making it up, they're accusing Ryan Reynolds to get involved, but whatever. I just never like the narrative when we're talking about a situation like this, that she was in love with him and he didn't. I'm like, are we reading the same thing?

Because I'm happy to go along with a theory that they had something going on. But like, why is it just her? Like, I feel like even in the footage of the movie of the scene, again, I don't know what was pre-planned. I don't know what the intimacy coordinator was involved in. But, like, I feel like he was way more on her than she was on him. They're both acting.

I don't know what it's like to be an actor. But like, if I almost feel like he was flirting with her to a point where she felt uncomfortable, she told Ryan, Ryan got involved. Ryan did the Deadpool thing. Like, if I already, if it were like I had to pick one, was Blake in love with him or was he in love with her, I'm going him. Like, even the text feel. like flirting in that way.

I don't think she was egging it on. Anyway, that's my hot take. So I just, I think it probably was mutual, right? And I think maybe she felt like it got, it went a little too far and got her husband involved. But like it would, even when you are deeply in love and you're in a really serious relationship,

I think people at work sometimes flirt a little bit. I think it's innocent. It's harmless. Makes you feel alive. This is a love story as long as it doesn't go too far. I think everything he's released makes him look like he was also into her. That voice note that he released as evidence, I don't, I didn't make it seem like he wasn't into her. The voice was sexy and sultry.

It's two in the morning. I find it really highly inappropriate to be sending text messages and voice notes like that to a married person at that hour of the night. Well, but like to that point, did she text him at 150? You know, like I think one time they were texting at 1 a.m. She, like, they're up late hours. You know, who knows? I don't know the lives of those type of people. So it's like we're missing a lot of the context and nuance and the whole story sometimes.

but I just feel like, you know, you read enough comments and you see enough TikToks, either skewed to one side and you really start to believe it. And I have to check myself on that too. And again, like, I don't really know what to believe. I think a lot of the stuff in her initial lawsuit has been negated, but like I'm, I think he's a fraud too. And I think the whole thing is gross and I'm not on either side. But I'm just like, I guess I don't really like the narrative that like, she was in love with him and he didn't, like, he rejected her. It's like, or we, that's just a problematic. I totally agree. I, what definitely did not happen was that Blake lively was so in love with Justin Baldoni and he was like,

ooh, gross, I would never, Serena Vanderwoodson. Like the most beautiful woman alive. He's just like, ooh, don't touch me. And then she tattletailed on him to her husband and then they created this whole thing to take down Justin Baldoni. Like, that's not a thing that happened. Because no one brings up suppositories when they flirt. Right. And no one would know better than Raina. I love suppositories. Because you've been heavy in the suppositories and also texting and flirting with guys at the same time. And you've never let the two cross over. Probably with a suppository in my butthole at that moment. And I never would have told them about it.

That's crazy. But what definitely did not happen was that she was so in love with Justin Baldoni. And he was like, ooh, gross, don't touch me. And when she tattletailed on him, that's crazy. And then she's like, let me make it look like it's more plausible to me that he did make her feel uncomfortable. and it got escalated to a point of sexual harassment between her and Ryan. But again, who's to say?

Uh-huh. If I were to, again, if I had to go either way, that just seems more plausible. Anyway, so I guess I just wanted to pop off about that narrative. So the judge has made a statement. Oh, yeah. And has basically said, y'all both need to stop. Like, you got to stop doing this shit for like PR and clicks.

This is too crazy. Wait, what's the headline, Tesla? Tesla just pulled this up. So again, what, March 26th is. when the March 2026. Yeah, 2026. We have a whole year of this. Oh my God.

At least we have Summerhouse coming on soon. Okay, I'm glad you brought that up because it is crazy what's happening. Paige is just like, no, no, no. People keep saying stuff about her online about like that she cheated on Craig, that she was like roaming around behind his back that Craig knew. And Craig has not come forward and refuted these claims, which I don't know if it's true or not, but like it feels a little bit mean that he's not refuting them. And Amanda Betula called him out publicly and was like, I think he's,

You should come forward and say something. But Paige very publicly online keeps being like, that's funny. That's hilarious. Austin Kroll accused her of having an affair and that Craig knew about it and has known about it for a long time. And she was like, it's hilarious that somebody that I haven't spoken to in six months seems to think they know so much about me. I love the way she responds to everything. I do too. An unbothered queen.

She makes it very public. Y'all are just goofy. Stop. Yes. I mean, she is just, I mean, I'm just like loving the headlines about her. And every single one of them, she's just like, no. Stupid. Moving on.

Bye. Okay. So what's, what is the headline for the judge? Lawyers from Blake Lively and Justin Bald don't get a reality check

from a federal judge. Okay. So, and he just was like, you guys can't, you can't be doing this because what? It just like influences.

Potential jurors. Potential jurors. Yeah. But like, I don't. This point. I don't know, though. Like, is that,

can you, isn't this just life? Like, they can release whatever they want. I don't know. I think the judge was like, you fucked around and found out. Stop it.

Just. Stop it. Stop acting like children, releasing websites about there, some footage and text messages. Like, y'all are acting like kids. And to that I say, shut up. Stop telling them what to do. I want to live there. I'm sorry, federal judge.

Focus your efforts elsewhere. I can't think of anything else you can be spending your time doing right now than stopping us from the entertainment we were receiving. Yes, I was like, we need this now more than ever. It's like, there's not a lot in the news cycle right now. I know. Politics. It's like just Justin Baldoni.

Okay, so wrapping up, Rachel Cocrinnell goes on call her daddy and talks about the really highly publicized Matt James breakup. If you guys are brand new here, basically what she's alleging is that they had been on a trip in Japan together. They had kind of had an argument about where to go out to eat. He had a fight with her. And then she left to go to the airport to fly home, which was already pre-planned that she was going to fly home from Japan by herself. and in the meantime he posted online that they had broken up without any warning shot tagged her

and she boarded a plane and had intermittent service essentially for the next. I mean, Tokyo to L.A. is 10 hours. Back to New York is another six on top of that. So yeah, pretty much. And I mean, I think that interview felt very sort of a naive young woman

that got wrapped up in this relationship. Again, if you guys aren't really familiar, he was The Bachelor and there was a lot of controversy surrounding their relationship and they did break up and people were coming at her for some racist things in her past. They got back together and that they've been together now for for years. And we talked about it before that obviously she wanted to get married and that he kind of blindsided her in this way. And I mean, I got to say, like, I've been in these like TikTok holes about him

and I'm just like so icked out by him. Like I didn't ever follow them, either of them. Like I really haven't thought about their relationship ever, you know, until this. And it just, it was, it's really off. Like, he was just always really like nagging her and just kind of like making her the butt of the joke. Like, I watched this one TikTok where he like pushed her into the pool. Oh my God. Yeah. I mean, and it's like, whatever. If that was their dynamic and they staged that ahead of time, which I'm certain that they did. I just found it really off putting and like how I don't want to see a woman be treated by a man, like the power dynamic. And it's when he, especially, speaking to her and he's like nagging her for whatever.

Like there was one where she was like eating pretzels in the airport he was telling her. It was too early. There was one where she like she would dip like two of her dips and he would like just not let up that she was like cross-contaminating the dips. And like again, these can feel really light and like you're kind of joking with your partner. They just have a weird tone about him. And the tone that he uses in those types of videos with her is so different than the tone he uses in his like food videos. It just feels like really disingenuous. Like I can't like watch or listen to his food videos.

They really made me cringe. So I mean, I follow a lot of food accounts. I was happy to be a food blogger and I've never followed him but I get served a lot of his content. And it's not for me. I don't care for it. It feels just a little, it's just been a little corny for me to be honest. I don't really care about the takes on different stuff. She's always felt kind of like a prop in those.

Yeah. Which is fine. Lots of people like bring their partners along and their partner's like, yeah, sure, I'll take a free meal and I'll hang out in this video for a minute. Like she's just kind of felt like an afterthought and those to me. There didn't seem to be any type of dynamic other than she's just kind of around. Yeah, I mean, I guess some people like those relationships where the couples neg each other. I don't.

I guess there can certainly be where you're like roasting each other with love. You know, like I think we roast each other. You see couples do it and like, well, there is a difference between the negging and where you're almost, it's like you're kind of seen what feels like a little bit of like contempt between the two. Totally. You see it on both sides, but to be gendered. about it, like, when a man is doing it to a woman, it even feels like different. Like, it just, it feels like, and he's older and she's younger. And I'm just glad she's out

of that relationship. And, um, you know, I was, I watched a clip where I guess she had said she wants to stay friends. And Alex Cooper was like, please try not to. Like, please try to cut him out of your life and like, maybe down the road. And like, really gently kind of big sister to her. I was like, don't do this. And I think like they were all just kind of like dancing around this like, this guy sounds like a narcissist. I mean, again, we don't like to throw that word around too much, but it just seemed like not the greatest guy. I mean, if what, if, I'm sure what she's saying is the truth,

I know that everybody has their own version of what happened here, but if it is the truth that like he kind of blindsided you with this breakup, posted it very publicly online, brought God into it, which by the way, it's not like a godly kind thing to do. You want to like talk about being a good Christian and you put it on the internet that you and your partner have broken up today. and you are this public couple

and you don't allow her to speak to her family before this happens or her friends you are such an unkind person you are a bad partner and I don't care what you did any day for the last four years like this you honor our relationship in the last four years by doing this to me

you were fucking dead to me friends oh my God right she is go off she thank you she seems sweet visibly really shaken this is really raw and fresh she'd that interview a couple days after this happened right And they got into the relationship, but she was 24. She was super young.

It sounds like she didn't have a lot of agency. She probably was also raised with a lot of religion, which doesn't always lead women to feel like second-class citizens, but some can. And it just feels like, you know, she didn't feel like she had a real voice there. But for somebody to, like, wrap up the end of my relationship by doing this thing to me that is so cruel and so public,

I will, how could you ever forgive that? Yeah. Oh, my gosh. I could not agree with you more. And like I watched this one interview. Again, this just started to be my algorithm. I was like, I'll get into it. And there was this one interview where they were talking to like a fight they had.

And he would have her like try to pick a restaurant. And it's like, aren't you the food person? Okay. And she would like stress about it. And she said like he told her to pick a restaurant. And then she was like, okay. So she gets on like TikTok and she's like scrolling. And he was like, could you not play the sound on those?

And she's like, you told me to find the restaurant. And so they got to the destination. And he was like, well, where are we eating? She was like, you told me to stop scrolling a TikTok. So, like, I was just like hearing them fight. You know, you, like, hear about a couple fight and, like, you think they sound like they're being cute and you're like, I am cringy. Yes.

Because you're like, you're, like, y'all aren't like in on it with each other. You know? Like, you're not on the same team. Like, you, it reminded me of being 24 and being in relationships and this was before podcasts existed. The internet did not exist in the same sense that it did when I was 24. TikTok didn't exist. Instagram didn't exist.

And, like, this behavior is so mean and manipulative and unkind. and me at this age with all the information and knowledge I have and verbiage and I can name the behavior. It's very easy for me to turn around and say like, knock this shit off, which is why men don't like older women. This is why men, you know? And listen, Tess is 24. I think she's really so brilliant and smart and you would never let a man treat you like this. But I think there's some young women that they can't name the behavior so they're not going to stop it. And that's sort of what seems like it happened here. Like, you or I would turn to somebody and be like, this is not my job. This is not my dream. And you're not going to talk to me like this. You want to go to a restaurant.

You find a restaurant. Right. And people are welcome to disagree with me that have been following them for years. I mean, again, I just went in this hole of like all his red flags. I feel like obviously breakup and people hear about the way that the breakup happened and they're like, okay, well, he's always done this type of thing. And people have their issues with her too and they're past and the race stuff. You know, that's a whole other side of the internet as well. But just the general behavior doesn't seem great from him. Yeah. So anyway. So best. of luck to her and, you know, have a great week to everybody besides Matt James. She should be the Bachelorette.

Could you imagine? I am dying for this. It has to be. If they don't do this, they're crazy. They've missed the biggest marketing scheme in the history of time. She, would you, have you been seeing this test? Do you think, have you seen anything about it? I haven't seen anything about it.

I think she would be a huge pull. I definitely think. Like, it would just be crazy just because, like, yeah. Wow. Unreal. If you call this and this happens, I mean, ABC, like, give us credit. it. Yeah.

Like, we're going to need some credit on this one. Tuning in. Okay. All right, well, I ship it. All right.

Guys, that's it. And speaking of shipping, last day to get crowd shipping on vives only products. Oh! That was iconic.

I thought you were going to say championship, which go birds. Championship. Championship. And, what's the thing about there's,

there's big ships and small ships, wood ships, but the most impressive. friendships or friendships. I don't. We keep looking at Tessa this whole time. Like she's got all the answers.

And every time I look at her, she's like, you're in charge here. All right, guys. On my days episode, I was something funny to tell you about Tessa that happened with me and you, me and her yesterday. Okay, Girls Gotta Eat.com. Girls Gotta eat podcast on Instagram and TikTok. I am Ash Hess.

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