Girls Gotta Eat - The Snack: Sex and the City, Sex Coaches, and Sexy Podcasters

Episode Date: October 31, 2024

Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we're talking about: Timothee Chalamet lookalike contest People's sexiest men – readers choice winners Megan Thee Stallion's reaction to SATC Tell Me Lies sex scene tea Nicole Kidman's orgasm burnout Gisele's pregnancy (and Tom Brady's response) Sutton Foster and Hugh Jackman's new romance Are Joe Alwyn and Kendall Jenner together? Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit girlsgottaeat.com for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Thank you to our partners this week: Fatty 15: Get an additional 15% off the 90-day subscription Starter Kit at https://fatty15.com/gge with code GGE. Beam: Get up to 50% off at https://shopbeam.com/gge with code GGE. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to The Snack, a lighter serving of Girls Got to Eat. This is a dear media production. Enjoy. It's happy Halloween. Happy Halloween. We finally did it. Three weeks of recording about it. It's finally here.

I have thoughts about how much we've recorded about it. Halloween is next level this year. You mentioned the decor, which we kind of analyzed why you felt like that. But it is on another level. It is so much more extra. And I think I know why. Why? People are scared.

It's a spooky of the town. People are terrified of the world right now. It's twofold. People are scared. So scared. We're also just terrified of what's about to happen in the world. And people just need to find joy. Yeah.

So I do think with the election looming and the stay of the world, people are projecting their fears into their decor and also just trying to find joy. One of the other, maybe a little bit of both. That's why I dressed as Mr. Peanut today. So we are doing the weirdest fucking bride and groom you've ever seen. And we don't have our costumes from the tour. Like I left some of mine in Philly. I don't have my whole share a costume from Clueless. You abandoned yours.

I just loved to abandon costumes in green rooms. I keep most of my costumes, but I left a few things. Like the tights were all ripped. Not from anything crazy. Just from... So we were like, let's... to bride and groom. This is part of my Vegas costume.

I have never, I've never recorded without pants before. This is a vibe. This is my first time, no pants. And I was going to wear my Vegas dress. I did this, like, sexy wedding vibe for the Vegas show, which was a wedding theme. But then I just decided to do this.

That's not what I thought you were going to walk into this house in. It's so hideous. And I don't know why I'm doing this. Well, Tessa was like, parts of it are really nice. Asher was like, what part? So let us know in the comments, what bride do you guys think this is? What did you guys call it earlier?

Corpse Brought. Corpse Bride. I also think it's giving Sandra Bullock from the proposal. Runaway bride? Oh, the proposal. Yes. That's a good call. They did that like high. This is very, this part of it is. Or, okay, so Vanderpump for Sheena's bachelor's party. They all went to like ugly stores in L.A. and got like the ugliest bride's dress, like wedding dresses they could find. It's also giving that. Yes. And the sex in the city moment where Miranda and Carrie walked out of the dressing rooms and then Carrie had a panic attack. And they had ugly dresses. And they had ugly dresses. on on theme because we're talking about sex in the city today. Yes, exactly. So let us know what hideous bride you think I look like. And sorry, you have to look

at me. Yeah, well, I look like a hooker slash Mr. Peanut. Mr. Peanut's funny. Yeah, I know. I like it. I'm into it. I have a top hat on today. So you wore this like amazing feather headpiece in Vegas and I don't, who knows where that is. Well, that was like $10 on Amazon so I don't mind that I

lost that. But the feather train, like my showgirl train, that was like really expensive. I got on Etsy and I just left it. I was like, I'm going to travel with this. Yeah. I've already traveled once with it. You'd lost half of it on the green room floor.

There's feathers everywhere. Yeah, definitely. People were ingesting it. People still probably have them in their lungs. Yeah. Okay, let's think some of our partners and then we'll get right into it. Thanks to Fatty 15, get an additional 15% off their 90 day subscription starter kit at at fatty15.com slash GGE with code GGE.

And thanks to Beam, get up to 50% off at Shop. theme.com slash gge with code gge. Okay, so we're going to kick it off with our Halloween report because it's actually Halloween. We know Halloween has been drug out. So it's been 84 years of Halloween at this point. I just, I love it now. I'm making up for all my years of not caring about Halloween. I was telling you before, like I just, I wasn't a big like theme person.

I guess like in my 20s, I had money for costumes. I lived in New York City. I guess I felt maybe embarrassed in a costume on the subway, which is crazy because people look crazy in New York City all the time. Exactly. Everyone in New York looks like they're dressed in costume every day of something or other. Totally. So I don't know. I mean, I'm just making up for last time. Yeah. I love your passion for it. I've always felt like this. And I was just telling you that I really would like to get married next year on November 1st. It's a Saturday. I have some symbolism with 1-1-1. But then the night before would be Halloween. And he and I've talked about doing a Halloween party. No, I'm obsessed. I can't wait. Like doing some of some traditional. Do you think you guys will do like a couple's costume or should like you and me do it?

Well, okay, let me pitch you something. He said to me the other day, he said you would make a really hot cat woman. And I was like, yeah, like you should do Batman. Because also his eyes are so beautiful. Oh, I love this idea. I love this idea. I'm obsessed. So I was like, should we do cat?

I'll be Robin. Or the Joker. The Joker. Trying to ruin the wedding. Wait. Okay, I should know this. Poison Ivy is what? X-Men.

But also. like is Robin even in these movies? That man, Robin. Yeah, but is Robin, Robin, Robin wasn't in like the Dark Night. There's no Robin. There's different characters in all the movies. Right, I know that.

I'm going to be Bain. Wait, what the fuck? I only recently saw The Dark Night with him. I think the whole bridal party should do one costume idea. Like, whether it's Marvel or just Batman. Like Batman gives you a lot to work with.

Thank you. But I don't think you'll be into X-Men. You're going to be all blue. No, I don't know that. That does not, I can't, I can't do that. But I, I think Catwoman would be hot. Batman, I love Robin for you. What did you guys decide?

What did you guys decide? He said he's not gonna do it. He said he's not gonna wear tights and a cape. He said he's gonna be, he can wear like the metal suit. He said he doesn't want to. A metal suit. He said he'll wear, he'll be like the Batman by day. And he'll wear like a Batman t-shirt underneath his suit.

I don't appreciate him taking this away from me because Poison Ivy, you know I want to do poison Ivy. But she's not Batman. She's Batman. You know I've always wanted to do. Seriously? Yes. All right, well, it's settled then. Yeah, I think so. I didn't, yeah.

Yeah, Poison Ivy, Batman and Robin. Raina Robin's really funny. It is just so funny, but that would mean... But then you two are a couple. I'm his sidekick, not yours. I think Batman is so sexy. Thank you, and it's just like... He could have like an eight pack at the wedding.

Yes, he'll do it, he'll do it. Because the car, we'll get him a car. We'll get him a Patmobile. No, like, can you guys pull up to the rehearsal dinner? In the Batmobile. Thank you. I'll rent him like a black Ferrari or something. This is my favorite idea of all time.

Thank you. Thank you. He'll do it. He'll do it. A whole bridal party is going to get dressed up as this. Yes. So what? It's just me, Corey and Matt and Sparkle-I sister.

Yeah. No, we're not doing like a bridal party, but yes. What would Matt be? Bain. Big, big joker. Bain. No, Bain's like as big as it gets. Bain's terrifying.

Okay. Who's going to be the Joker? My dad. He always the jokes. What are you actually? You don't really make me laugh at the Halloween show last weekend. Your dad came as your mom and your aunt came as bees. And your dad came as a beekeeper.

And he spanked me with the swatter. He loved that swatter. So when we were shooting out the t-shirts, he had his swatter in the air trying to catch a t-shirt. They were so adorable. That was one of the cutest things I've ever seen. So my mom was a bee before. She just loves being a beehive. And her and Aunt Kathy wore bees.

And my dad just did the beekeeper suit. Wait, that is so precious. I know. Okay. All right. Well, speaking of precious, my whole feed this week has been the Timothy Shalameh lookalike contest that took place in Washington Square Park in New York City.

And every single person looked like, I mean, I know it's a look like contest, but like every person legitimately looked like a skinny, I don't know, wildly haired Timothy Chalamee. I mean, people really showed up for this. And it got like so crazy the police had to come. And Timothy showed up to his own lookalike competition. The first headline I saw was an arrest. And I was like, what is happening at the till Timothy Chalamey look-a-like? I thought he got arrested at a protest.

That's what I. It says like Timothy Chalameh is arrested. Meanwhile, it's not really Timothy. Can I tell you, I would not want to see my look-a-like contest. I would be at that thing like, that's what I look like. Remember that time that girl sent me that thing? And she said, you look like my professor. It was one of the least attractive women.

It's really upsetting. And like, I kind of see where she got there. I know. That's the worst part of it. Like, people, when people tell me you look like somebody, the most insulting thing is when your brain goes, that's disgusting. Oh my God. I kind of see it.

Yeah. It's so bad. I usually, well, I would say half and half. I am in, people do this to me a lot. And who do you get the most? I forget. Well, I get Ashley Tisdale, but just regular, just regular people. So someone might send me or some like micro-infraintraintra.

influencer or somebody might send me somebody and be like, I thought this was you. And half the time I'm insulted, but sometimes I am flattered. Also, like, this doesn't affect me. I'm confident in the way I look. But sometimes it's just funny. That professor, I need to look at my DM. It was crazy. I was like, that is me in 30 years at like a two. People used to say something Navy, which I think she's, she's very pretty. She's really thin. I always think like, I'm always like, I don't see it at all. But that, like something navy to me, like, you don't look even a little bit like her to me, but she's beautiful. So to be her face, not her personality. Yeah.

So to be compared to her, it's flattering. No, it's half and half. It really is. Like, I remember one time, like, I think it was like an Uber driver or somebody was like, you look like a young Donna Karen. And I was like, oh. And I just thought she would be like so beautiful and glam. And it's no shade to Donna Karen. I didn't find it to be in a compliment so much.

It was my older face. You're, you think Barbara Streisand. I'm like, I see what you're saying. Yeah. People tell me Sean Johnson, and I'm like, I see what you're saying. Well, she's 4'8 foot 8. You get Hillary Duff and you don't like it. And I get Hillary Duff a lot.

Yeah. It's, I think she's beautiful. Like, her vibe's not for me. It's just, it's just on vibes. It's not for me. I get you Barrymore a lot. I have my whole life. Yeah.

Especially when she was a kid and like E.T. Mm-hmm. Yeah, I'm trying to think. My fiance said Allison Williams one time, and I was like, Like, I'll take it. Uh-huh. Also a huge compliment. Yeah.

I mean, it's just, it was a lot of like skinny white boys. And honestly, there were so many. The guy who won was dressed like Willie Wonka. And this was like a charity. So $5,000 won to charity. Oh, I didn't realize that. Tessa, were you turned on? That's your type.

That's the, it has his ultimate type. Do you think Kylie was turned on? Do you think Kylie was like, send me picks? Or did she get the ick? Do you think Kylie saw picks and was like, ew, is that what he looks like? Is that what people think he looks like? Yes. Wait, that would be so funny.

I don't want to go to my own lookalike contest and I don't want to go to my boyfriend. Yes, exactly. Totally. Tessa, answer the question. No, I'm out on Timothy Shalame. He looks too young now. He's too young for you now.

Tessa, don't you dare. Now he's older, he's too young for her. We roasted Tessas so hard the other night. She was like showing us this guy. And Frida and I just went in. We were like all at dinner. We're having a nice like off the clock hang. And you have some audacity.

to say he looks too young is all I'm saying. Because this guy, you were talking about looks, I mean, he graduated from, he graduated last week. Raina pulled a baby picture up on his Instagram. I was like, was this three years ago? I laughed. No, I used to like Timothy Shalmy, but as I've gotten older,

I look like I've gotten older and he's stayed the same age. That's very hysterical. Matthew McCona Haye, you. I get older and they stay the same age. That's so funny. She's a high school sexual predator. I just wanted to shout out one woman. who dressed as Moudang.

Tons of you guys sent this to me. She did like prosthetics. I mean, it was very like Heidi Klum of her. And we're going to put it up on YouTube. And her handle is Kirby Johnson, K-I-R-B-I-E, writer-producer host, Gloss Angelus podcast. And she got some press around it, people and different publications. But everybody sent it to me. It was like all my DMs along with a guy who dressed like the Olympic pole vaulter with the dick.

Yeah. But I just tagged her in a post. host and she said, thank you for sharing. And I was like, this is so iconic. And she said, thanks. I saw so many people tagging you and Raina. So I love it. I feel like I know people were talking about Mudang as a Halloween costume, but you and I, like, really, I feel like broke the news that that was going to be a hot costume. And she did it better than everybody I've seen. So we'll put up a little reel of hers if you guys are watching on YouTube, but just unbelievable. I mean, and she was so funny about it. She was just like, I couldn't really eat. I, like,

shove some charcuttery down my snout. She was like, I brought my, like, Stanley Cup straw so I could like drink a little bit. And she said people kept asking me, are you well? And obviously not. No, I'm not. What kind of person does this? I hope she's a listener now. This is how we get new listeners.

Yeah. Okay. So the rest of the episode is also kind of themed. This was Tess's idea she works really hard on these episodes. She does. But it's a sex theme for the rest of the episode. Yes. So sexiest men, people having sex, intimacy, coaches on set, all kinds of stuff.

So it's really like a fun week for just like niche gossip, which is why we started this whole podcast. Yeah. So Halloween and Sex. That's what you guys are getting. So people came out with the Sexiest Man Alive Reader's Choice poll results. So this is not like the Sexiest Man Alive. That's going to be in, what, two weeks, I think. These are just some very random categories.

350,000 people voted. Damn. That's more people that are going to like go vote in the election. But there is like some very funny categories. Like sexiest podcast hosts. I can't believe that we were nominated. Well, I wanted to throw some ones that didn't get mentioned Scott Galloway. Just sexiest person. Sexy as Daddy.

Justin Baldoni podcast host. I think John Favro from Potsave America. You're into John Favra. I like his gap. Wow. I didn't know about this. Well, and it's like what he stands for.

Sometimes it's hard to separate the content from the person because I find like, you know, progressive men so sexy. So I don't know. Those are my three picks for sexiest podcast host. I love this. I love Scott Galloway. He is so sexy. Okay, I have to ask you, is the sexiest TikTok star.

Did they invent this just to give Mark Estes an award, or did this exist before? Yeah. So like Raina said, Mark Estes, Kristen Cavalieri's X won sexiest TikTok star. I don't think so at all. I think there are so many sexy TikTok guys. Like, I think this is one of the categories that made the most sense. It made more sense than sexiest first time, dad. That's fucking crazy.

Again, they invented that just to give Robert Patton another award. Ugh. Anything to talk about him. Also, I've no beef with him. I'm just bored of it. Wait, you didn't even say who won the sexiest podcast host, though, and that was the Kelsey Brothers. Oh, yeah.

You know what was interesting to me, sexiest tattoos, because, like, traditionally actors don't have tattoos because they want to get roles and you can't be, like, covered in, like, tats. But Jeremy Allen White won, and it's so funny because, like, looking at his arms, he's, like, three tattoos. Because I think people are thinking. So all the tattoos on the bear are fake. It's just art.

Oh, so they just, like, gave him an award for his... He has three tattoos. him cosplain tattoos. Yeah, I mean, the other nominees are Post Malone, Bad Bunny, people that really are covered with tattoos, you know, musicians. Sexiest Dog Dad. Did you see this?

Dave Batista. Wait, stop it. How did I miss this? They've added some new ones to this article, I swear to God, because when I looked at it yesterday, it started with Sexiest Musician, and now all of a sudden they're Sexiest Dog Dad, sexiest talk show host. Sexy's Dog Dad, Max Greenfield won, but it looks like Dave Batista was on the list,

like one of the runners up. I mean, he just has like so many pits. Like he loves to rescue dogs. Like, oh, she loves him so much. Sexyest supportive partner in sports. That's funny. Who on that? I don't know.

It's not Travis Kelsey. It's not, which is crazy. All these athletes are devoted wife guys to their A-list loves. And Andre Levone Jr., Jonathan Owens, Simone Biles, Kristen McCaffrey, okay. Hunter Woodall. That was the Olympic couple. Okay, that's a cute category. Really cute.

But that's so Travis Kelsey. That's like he's the top. It's like they invented this for him. They were like, give him the podcast host. What? I forget he's a podcast host sometimes. I do too. I mean, even though it's like the biggest podcast ever, but like it clearly should be Scott Galloway.

Travis Kelsey has so many jobs. Let's rank his jobs. Number one, Taylor's his boyfriend. Number two plays on the Chiefs. Number three, one of the most popular podcast in the country. What's number four? I don't know. Fashion icon.

He is. He is so many. endorsement deals. So next, we really wanted to talk about sex in the city. And specifically Megan the Stallion watching it recently. She's just started watching it. She's like, how did you all not tell me about this before? I can't stop watching this. I'm watching it like in the makeup chair. Like she's like, I'm a busy woman and I can't stop watching this show. And it does seem like other people are watching it too for the first time. Like Caitlin Bristow, which she started to critique it. And she was like, I'm on the third episode. Is this going to get better? I'm like, Caitlin, do not. We have

always had your back. This will turn me against you. But no, she was watching at Daddy Academy, who Nico, we've had on our podcast, he's commenting on it now. And I think it probably has to do with Netflix acquiring it. Totally. Like, way more people have Netflix than we're going to get into HBO and watch it. But it's just funny to me.

Like, I guess there's a certain age because my thought process was like, how did you avoid this all this years? Like, how did you not know about sex in the city? Like, I went to college in South Carolina. and we were watching it. But I was also watching it in college. So if you're younger than me, even if you're 35,

you were like in middle school, high school when it came out. I still was on the conflict school. I remember my mom didn't love that I was watching it. And Megan the Stallion is in her 20. She's 10 years younger than I am. That's true. So that makes,

Caitlin Bristow was a real shock to me because she's exactly. But is it Canadian? She's amongst the age. Oh yeah, Canadian. I didn't really think about that. Like, it's an interesting show also because like two of my favorite shows of, well, three of my favorite shows of all time.

The Office, The Sopranos, and Mad Men are really timeless shows. The Office is supposed to be kind of problematic. Mad Men is a period piece. And the Sopranos, it's about the mafia. So it really removes a lot of stuff about, like, technology today and social media. Like, it just wouldn't be present in a mafia show regardless. Sex in the City is really a time capsule. Like, it is dated in a lot of ways.

It's interesting to me that people go back and watch it. And, like, Caitlin Brist was like, is this going to get better? And she was talking about, like, well, I don't like this take on. this thing or this, it's like, but it's, it was so revolutionary at the time. Yes. Everything you're saying, hard agree. But I can't even imagine watching it for the first time now. I don't even know what that experience would feel like. But I will say so much of the dating stuff still tracks. I mean, that was the beauty of rewatching it. I feel like I can confidently say I've seen every episode like 10 times. And I loved rewatching it in full in my 30s. I loved rewatching it.

in my 30s in New York, you know, like it's still tracks, even though it's dated in terms of like some of the stuff is problematic, the technology, everything that you just said and like the way things look and feel and even the way the show is shot and looks and feels. But it really still holds up and I think that's why people still love it. And I love a lot of the comments because people even commenting on the post about Megan Staling or whatever it may be or like you, this should be required viewing as a woman in your 30s. And you shouldn't even watch it if you're not in your 30s because you'll feel differently about it, but I don't necessarily agree with that because I feel like it shaped and molded me at 19, you know, but I love to see it. I mean, I think of Eli Rallo, who we had on,

and she's in her 20s, and we had her on the podcast months ago. And she says, just like us, this is the most important show of her life. And this changed her life for the better and inspired her. And she is who she is because of it. And you and I agree with that statement, too. I mean, I'm just very much of the generation of women that this changed my whole life. I mean, that's why I moved to New York City. how I just realized there's just like not one prescribed way to like date, fall in love, find a partner that there's this whole kaleidoscope of terrible male behavior. And so many of these funny stories are also, they make sense because they're real stories. I mean, the writer's room is all these people just talking about their real dates.

And there's some things that didn't age well. I mean, probably in my early 20s, I didn't have a problem with how Carrie was as a friend. Today I look at her behavior and the way she speaks to our friends. I would never speak to anybody like that. Yeah. But other things, it just, it shaped my whole. whole life. It made me think that sex was normal and healthy. Dating around was normal and healthy. You know, that there just wasn't one way to be. I want to go on record and say nothing Samantha ever

said has aged poorly. Totally. No one, everybody else has those moments, like, especially when it comes to sexuality and race stuff, even, like everyone has those moments. And even in the movie, the first movie, we pretend like the second one doesn't exist, that you're like, ooh, cringe. Like, that wouldn't fly today, except Samantha. Samantha was the first character. that had a relationship with a woman. She was having sex with people of different races. Right. I mean, Miranda gets one African-American partner,

and that's the only time that anybody dates outside of the race on the show. No one out kicked their coverage more than Miranda with Blair Underwood. That was crazy. I'm sorry. He wouldn't have. That was crazy. Okay. So, speaking of all the characters,

I want to, can I talk about what Megan's been saying. Some of Megan's quotes are from her interview on Jimmy Fallon. Samantha, she says, she is me. I'm her. when Sex and City started for me, I said, oh, I hate this character, yada, yada. But then she's, as the show went on, she's like, wait a minute, I'm glad I hung in there because she runs men. She does not let men run her. She keeps trying to tell the girl, stop making the man the center of your life, like, go shopping, have a good time, make your money, and then have fun with your little toys.

The vibrators. And I'm like, yes, I get that. Charlotte, she says, my girl, she is a little Dululu, but it's cute. She would be my bestie because she's so emotional. I feel like it's okay to cry. She's a little crazy. She might be the cancer in the show. And then Miranda, this is controversial.

She said Miranda is the worst character on the show. I cannot stand Miranda. She never got nothing good to say. She's so sad all the time. And then Steve is the best character on the show. Everywhere that this is posted, like Evan Ross Katz posted a lot of this. And then the shade room posted. And people are like, no girl, Miranda, with the exclusion of it and just like that.

But Insects in the City, Miranda is that bitch. And you realize it later in life. you realize it in your late 30s. The view of Miranda has aged differently than you thought it would. Because they give her this like corporate badass job with the ugliest haircut and the ugliest wardrobe and the goofiest man.

But it's like that's the one you should want to be. Yes. I mean, also all of them. I mean, Samantha was such a badass. Honestly, as I've gotten older, I have less a problem with Charlotte too. I just, I think that she's just like cute and sweet

and she doesn't bother me. And then Carrie, her commentary about Carrie is just so funny. Carrie, she's always attractive doing these sicko things. She's nuts. But you know what? I see a lot of myself in this character. Carrie really love drama. She literally wake up and figure out how can I mess up everybody's day? How can I be my cutest and mess up everybody's day? How can I make my life more complicated? Simply, she could have always made the right choice. She could have always chose sanity, but she always chose insanity. And I had to wonder, is that me? And then Evan Ross Katz, who we love is a great follow.

He shared this on his Instagram. And then Sarah Jessica Parker herself commented with just a, hmm. I read that and I was like, I don't, what is that supposed to mean? You're thrown shade? Sarah Jessica Parker has one opportunity to be cool in her life and this is what she chooses. She's not fucking cool. She's, I don't, I'm, you know, we're not a fan. We're team Kim Cottrell.

And can you just be fun or funny once? You just shit the bed in this Instagram comment? I just, I don't really understand it. And I don't get it. I feel like Megan Estalian actually has one of the more favorable takes on Carrie that I've heard in recent years. I mean, so many women have said currently. that the Carrie Big relationship ruined their lives and their view of like how men should treat you and how long you should hang on and how long you should wait around for somebody and just get treated

like shit because you're like he's the one like so many women are like I built my views on how I should be treated based on this relationship and how much it was normalized well first of all Sarah Jessica Parker is not Carrie Bradshaw she's playing a part right I wonder if it had to do with Samantha because the post especially was like Samantha's the best, the best, the best, the best. All the other ones just can kind of fall by the wayside with the exclusion of Charlotte, I guess, a little bit. But yeah, she said favorable things about Carrie. But this was an opportunity to be like, enjoy Megan or anything.

But what is the hmm about? Thanks for promoting the show to people of this age. You could have said anything. You know it's going to go viral. I actually can't believe it. I want Kim Cottrell in that comment section. Get in there. I wanted to just comment a tomato back at Saratisco Park.

I'm just right like, bitch. Shut up, Carrie. I actually would like a shut up carry. She calls her by her character name. I love it. Okay, well, I just, I love this. I love the people are watching the show. Caitlin Bristow, we hope you turn the corner on it

because we want to keep supporting you. Well, I mean, we've done a lot for you, Caitlin. So we hope that you will align with us because we're a real apologist for you. And if you hate sex and that, the city, please keep it to yourself. Don't be, it's just really like shitting on an entire, you know, movement, generation of inspired women.

Like, just don't. I can also, like, feel both ways about it. I can feel like it really changed my life and inspired me and opened up my mind. And also understand that some of this aged poorly and is problematic through the lens of 2024. Yeah. Also, Caitlin said, like, the comments were really interesting because Caitlin was saying, like, should I stick with this?

Yeah. And people were, like, stick through the first season because it's a little bit of a different tone. The pilot is wild. So weird. So, yes, I agree with that. People were gentle with her, which I liked. And they weren't just like, fuck you, bitch, which was my internal monologue. But they were like stick with it.

And you're right. It does feel different. And I hope she sticks with it because, yeah, when you rewatch the pilot, you're like, oh, this is crazy. They're doing like man on the street interviews. Remember that? Yes. You're totally right. You got to get to that second season.

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thrusting critiques during season one. So he plays the main character on Tommy Lies. He is Stephen. Stephen and Lucy on the show are actually in a real relationship, him and Grace Patton, in real life. But those were truly some of the steamyest, hottest sex scenes I've ever seen in my life on a television show. Yeah. You don't agree. No, so here, my feeling on Tell Me Lies is the,

A lot of the sex scenes are like really devoid of foreplay. And I thought to myself, that is what college sex is like. You know, it is accurate of 2008 college sex is just get in, get out. Like it does, there is no real foreplay. Like the clit's not getting any action, you know, like I was trying to remember. I do think their sex scenes were hotter to me in season one. Yes. Season two, I just like hate him so much.

It's hard to watch. And then the scene. where he came in when they were at the wedding in 2015 and he came in and just like ripped her underwear off and like fucked her so hard. I didn't like it. I mean, I'm sure some people found it. It just looked so painful.

Unless she was, unless I'm thinking too much about it, unless she was in that room, masturbating, getting lubed up. He came in and just penetrated her and then was just like thrusting so hard. I was like, oh, my pussy hurts. Sometimes I want to get in fast.

It's just, it's, I get it. also listen we're limited on screen time how much foreplay are we doing i just all i'm saying is it's realistic i'm saying this is the sex you have in college i think that's a really good point that like for play wasn't even a thought in my mind in college you just pants came off the dick on a few kisses and you're in you know my favorite scene though from season one was when she is telling when lucy's telling stephen about sleeping with somebody else and there is there like a real foreplay it's my favorite section i think about it all the time where he's like tell me what you did with him telling me what you said to him and he's kind of like fingering her while she talks about it.

Yeah. It's the hottest scene I've ever seen in my life. Yeah. And you know, I can't even remember season one once there's like a season two. I'm just like what was it. But some of these quotes from him in the article are interesting. Like Raina said, there'd be sex scenes all day long. So there'd be an intimacy coordinator running from set to set because Lucy and Leo were doing it.

Then Bree and Oliver were doing it. And it would be like sex days. And he joked that he would just be in his trailer while the scenes, some of which involved his real life girlfriend, Grace Van Patton, were being filmed. Like, that's so funny. Like, she's fucking Leo, and he's like, I just got to sit this out. He's like, I'm not doing a sex day today. I thought it was fascinating. You don't really

think about the behind the scenes of these type of scenes. All I really think about is like some of these people, I mean, Grace Van Van Patten and him are actually a real like couple, but like so many other people are in scenes where they're like married to people in real life. He's like really hypersexual scenes and they sell it so well. And I'm like, how do

that? And I didn't really think about an intimacy coach on set training you want to do this well because Stephen said that he was told that the way he was like thrusting is not really natural. Right. Because it's not porn. Right. You know, which I want to be an intimacy coordinator. How do you get that

job? So I decided to research intimacy coordinators because those scenes are really interesting to me. And a lot of their jobs is actually about safety. Yes, of course. They have them with pets on. They have them with like pet animals on sets too. There's like an animal person making sure that animals are safe. Oh my God, that's so cute. Yes. Anyway. They do like mediation.

and they make sure that there's like, specifically women feel like comfortable and safe on set when this stuff is happening. Because some of the stuff is really realistic specifically in Tommy Lies, both of their underwear is off. So like to be like that on set, I actually met somebody at a party two years ago. It's this woman and she invented this thing and it's these like stick on invisible underwear that will kind of like, I mean this sounds really graphic, but like seal off your slit essentially. Their adhesive underwear. Yeah. Sail off your slit. Is that their tagline? No. I made it out. I pitched that to her. But she basically invented this type of like quote unquote like adhesive underwear that there's no sides on it. Yeah. But it's adhesive down the middle so that like when somebody is naked on top of you that like their private parts aren't like directly up against like your pussy hole. Is it for? That's what it's for for movie. For movie sets. She invented it for movie sets. But yeah, but you could also do that if you like are out somewhere wearing some like thin dress. and you don't want to wear underwear

and God forbid you get a little turned on your vagina starts doing its self-cleaning mode self-cleaning cycle like a dishwasher and then you got to just be safe I think she told me that like the idea was born from Spanx and like obviously wearing stuff under

I mean if you wear like silk dresses for weddings and stuff you still can see underwear or Spanx unless but she designed ones without sides totally but I just like think about this all the time like how turned on. I am from these scenes and it's like this hot actors on top of you and how do they not get a boner. I think about it all the time. Well, I want to talk about this and we can transition into baby girl with Nicole Kidman and we'll hit you with that headline too. But I wonder if actors

who do sex scenes all the time and have to fake it all the time and we'll talk about Nicole Kidman and her faking orgasm exhaustion. But like does it translate into the bedroom at all? Like how, I mean, you really have to compartmentalize a lot of parts of your life as an actor. But like if you were constantly having people, you know, on you, having to fake orgasms. Does it hold you back at all in the bedroom? I mean, do you desensitize yourself so much for your job that the real sex, you also are desensitized? Like, I'm just curious. I guess everybody's different. I mean, I feel like I'd be so turned on by it. I'd be like, I got to go back to my trailer and get fucked right now. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. So if you're a new actor and you're just a

horny person, you know, and so you decide to go into acting and you're like, I got to tamp it down. You're like, I'm getting too wet on set and it's a problem. And I got to have my seal off my slit and Rain is too horny to be an actress. I am too horny. I would have to... But I'm saying you're having to do self-talk. You're having to calm down your body.

So like when you're intimate with a real partner outside of work, is it a problem? Because you're so used to like holding back. I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I just would think that like when you're with a real partner that you're actually turned on by, you're just excited to be in that moment. But I don't know. I'd have to do a lot of like mental gymnastics to be in.

in these situations and not be like so turned on by this very hot man on top of me. And he probably is a little hard on. Like they're not roping it off, right? I would have to masturbate every day before I walked on set. Like right the second before I walked on set. I mean, I would love to have an actor on this podcast and just talk about it. Like what's going on in your brain? Because you want to be in the moment.

You want to be into it. But it's work. And I mean, I am fascinated by this. I'm fascinated by acting out sex scenes as much as I'm fascinated by dancing with the stars and how these people get so intimate with each other when they're dancing and they're married to someone else. And like, how do you have these intimate moments with somebody for show and, like, not catch feelings or not get turned on? I don't know.

I'm very interested in all of it. Acting is very outside. It's such a blind spot for me. I've never been on a set. I don't know anything. I know. Maybe. I mean, everybody's a little different, but I would think it would really be a turnoff for a lot of people

to have 40 people in the room watching you, filming you. Like, I've heard some actors ask that there's only like two people on set during these type of scenes. Yeah, I think that's probably also changed too. Yeah, I mean, there's a scene in season one of Tommy Lies where they're in the bathroom together and she is butt naked and he's like naked too. And like, I don't know, a whole set of people would make me feel that comfortable. Yeah. I would be hard to be in the moment.

So the other headline is from page six, baby girl star Harris Dickinson, who was 28, spills on sex scenes with Nicole Kidman, who is 57 after she admits to orgasm burnout. So this is a movie that's coming out on Christmas Day. Rain and I are going to watch it with my family. And it's about Nicole Kidman. She starts sleeping with the intern, like a much younger man. And this is going to be highly anticipated. And the article talks a lot about their intimacy coordinator too, which is, again,

why we got interested in the job description in general. But I just think that was funny that she's like, I'm tired of faking orgasms. She said there were times when we were shooting where I was like, I don't want to orgasm anymore, Nicole Kimman says. I get it. It takes a lot out of you. Oh, totally. To fake an orgasm? We've all been there. A convincing orgasm? That shit is hard. That's why I stopped doing it.

Exactly. Don't be doing it. I'm not going to convince you you're doing a good job if you're not anymore. Tired. And then I like this too. It says the male star Harris Dickinson, he dished on how he and his co-star Nicole Kimman freestyled some of their steamy sex scenes. We'd have a discussion with the intimacy coordinator and then Nicole and I kind of did our own thing once we set the parameters of what we were both comfortable with. Like, what a conversation. It's just, I'm so fascinated by like, like, also like, did Keith come to the set ever? She's married to Keith Irvine. Who has, every time he speaks, it's a surprise.

He's an accent. Oh, yeah, is Australian. You don't see it coming because he's country story. You think he's going to sound like Morgan Wallin. And then he's like, he's like, has an accent. So, yeah, we are excited about that one. We, last year, on Christmas Eve, Raina, me, and my mom watch Saltburn as a family. By the way, I had already seen Salt Burn. I just love it that much. I went to see it again. Like, I already knew how inappropriate it was to watch it with your family.

I don't even, I don't know if you even knew how bad it was going to be. Like, my dad was coming in and out. We're like, get out of here. Go back to your room. He's licking the blood from her period. It was crazy. But this year it's going to be baby girl. So, okay, now we want to talk about people who may or may not be having sex.

Yes. New couples, potential couples, rumored couples. Most likely having sex. So we put it in the order of most likely is definitely having sex. And that starts with Giselle Bunchin, who just announced she's 44 and she's pregnant with her boyfriend's baby, which I don't care about at all compared to Tom Brady's response to it. So yes, so this is what her third child?

Her third child. She has two kids with Tom Brady. Yes. He has another kid with Bridget Moynihan. Oh, right, right, right. He kisses them all in the lips. Yes. If they become adults.

And that's how they become it at all. But you're not allowed to say that. It's like, yeah. They said they couldn't say it at the rose. They said you can't talk about something with Robert Kraft. Robert Kraft and you can't talk about Tom kissing his sons on the lips. Listen, if you do that. Craft is totally off the table and just the lip kissing is off the table.

That's my boundaries. Okay. So, Giselle Funchin is with her jit-sue instructor. Giselle announced that she was pregnant. She's 44. Good for her. Tom Brady responded by posting a photo of a sunset and then a song playing over at Landslide, which is being covered by the chicks. So it's a cover of the song, Landslide.

Did a 14-year-old girl hijacked the most famous sports athletes account and post this? I thought it said something in the corner. Oh, it was just the lyrics. It was the lyrics. It was the lyrics above it. Three hearts. Yes. Three hearts.

And which part of the song was it? It was, I think it's can a child rise above. What the phone? I mean, you never expect to see it. Yeah, it's the chorus. Mirror in the sky. What is love? Can a child within my heart rise above?

Can I sell her the changing ocean ties? So Lex Nico, who we love, that's her Instagram. If you guys want to follow her, L-E-X-N-I-O. And she does amazing, like, topics, pop culture every day. She's like, these are some things that's going on in the world. And she posted. It was a tweet. I'm sorry, kids, this is really funny to me.

The tweet was from Madeline Hill. It says, not Tom Brady posting the chick's cover of landslide after news broke that Giselle Bunchin is having a baby with her hot chit-soo instructor boyfriend. And Lex Neco put on her story and said, Tom is going through it? And I just responded. I laughed and she was like, I mean, is he okay? I mean, that is one of the craziest responses I've ever seen. And celebrities just have to like watch their ex-partners, find new partners and get pregnant.

And like, I've never seen a response like this. But so it's definitely a response to it? Did his daughter post this? Like, it's, he has definitely a response to this. I don't know what he posted. No, listen, I'm with you. I'm with you asking out because you're like, the most famous athlete of all time could not have posted this as a response to that. And he did.

He did. Okay. So they're definitely having sex. I want to watch. I want a new roast. I demand a new roast. Just based on this. We'll just get Nikki on. We'll just get Nikki on. We should. Actually, let's get Nikki back on. Yeah. Only roaster we care about. Yeah. Okay. So next, which probably having sex. New couple alert, right? As official? Oh, they're official. Okay. Sutton Foster and Hugh Jackman. So Sutton Foster, the star of the show Younger, which we were obsessed with. And also she's what a Broadway star. And Hugh Jackman, who, what, is recently divorced? Or is he's really? He's really. recently, I mean, they're both now recently divorced, I guess. I think people were speculating that she left her husband for him. Oh, no. Yeah, I don't want to, I don't know all the details. I don't want to, like, support any sort of like adultery. I mean, she filed for divorce this week from her husband of 10 years. He is the director of Oceans 11. So people are speculating this has been going on longer. He has been

divorced. They met when they started together in Broadway's The Music Man, and it ran from December of 2021 to January 2023. So they have known each other a long time. Hugh Jackman filed for divorce from his wife. He was married to her for 27 years. And September of 2023, so exactly one year ago. Oh, well, I mean, obviously sad when people break up. I don't know that much about their relationship,

but this is a new relationship alert. Yeah. Okay. Sutton's not in the news that much. She's not. She really don't see her name that often. Okay. And this one, finally.

least likely to be having sex. But maybe having sex. Kendall Jenner. Go for it. Kendall Jenner and Joe Alwyn. So this is incredibly shocking because Joe Alwyn is Taylor Swift's ex of like six years, ex-fiance.

Booth boyfriend, if you will. Yes. And Kendall Jenner, sister of Taylor Swift's number one enemy. This can't be real. This is just like speculation, right? Like this, I would die if this was real. be absolutely insane. There's not a lot of smoking guns here. They were photographed together at the

Academy Museum of Motion Pictures, Fourth Annual. Gala. Gala. Gala. I say gala. He's liked a few of her photos. I'm confused because it also says she was smiling for a photograph alongside one of Swift's other exes, Patrick Schwarzenger. So not a lot of smoking guns here. People have just seen them photographed together. They're sort of liking each other's stuff on social media. But it would be very crazy if they ended up together. Wait, I have, this is like, I have a really stupid question. Are her and Bad Bunny done? Oh, her and Bad Bunny have been done. She, no, no, I knew that they broke up, but then I thought they got back together. I guess I didn't know they are done again. I don't know. They've been on and off photographed together. So she was with Devin Booker, like, 2020 to 2022 and then Bad Bunny. And they've just

sort of like teased being together and not being together. Just kind of on and off, but no, like, I don't know if they've ever made an official statement that they were together. Yeah, I didn't always, like, see the chemistry between them, but what do I know? But I still like them as a couple. But this would be crazy. Crazy. He dated Kim Kardashian's sister. That would be insane. The person that, like, terrorized Taylor Smith. I said Smith. It stays. Taylor Smith is the most basic name. Oh, that's so funny. Okay, well, we'll be staying on this developing story, which may not be a story at all. Right. I mean, it's just funny when people are together. Like, people respect. speculating Kaya Gerber had broken up with what Austin Butler, because she was with Marcello,

Marcelo Hernandez, who we know, and is a friend and is on SNL. And I don't know, it's just like, they were like, they were like just spotted together and people were like, oh my God, she's with Marcello and she's breaking out. You know, it's just, things could just be people hanging out. But why is Kendall hanging out with Joe? But like, the only thing that really has happened is there are photographs on a red carpet together. Okay. So I think those are the only like speculations I think it's just like TikTok. Yeah, I think they were just like in the same place together at the same time. And so we're like hundreds of other celebrities.

Yeah. All right. And it's like a fun rumor to spread because like he's probably bitter that he didn't get a lot of songs on the recent album. And Matt Healy came out and really talked some shit and was just like I would never write songs about her. She was like somebody I casually dated essentially. He really threw some real shade. Okay. Well, lastly, two people that are definitely not fucking.

but are one of our favorite power couples are Andy Cohen and Anderson Cooper. Have they ever confirmed they've never dated? Oh. I'm not 100% sure that they've never fucked. Okay. I would love to watch it. I might have made that up, you guys.

I don't know, but I don't remember. Maybe. Okay, so anyway, all we want to say is that Andy Cohen and Anderson Cooper are going to return to co-host New Year's Eve Live and they're going to be drinking. So, thank God. It's the funniest shit ever.

I remember the first year when they co-hosted together New Year's and they were like drunk and hilarious. And then they had them stop drinking because what? It was just too much. And then- Andy Cohen was just lit. No, the stuff they say is crazy. Like, they called, some woman called in last year and she was wearing a shirt that said, like, I'm horny. I forget it was crazy. Like, I was watching it with my fiance. He was here for New Year's last year.

And he didn't know anything about this. He's never, like, sat down and watched them together. And he was like, what is actually happening? He was, like, laughing out loud. I'm like, no, this is the thing. They, like, drink and act up. Yeah. And so everyone's always like, let them drink.

Like, we need this. I don't know I'm trying to watch a sober Andy Cohen. Yeah. I don't want me. I mean, I love him very much. but like I want to see him drunk. Mm-hmm. Also, I think that I'm going to have a New Year's party again this year.

I'll be my housewarming party. Yeah. Unless you had some other ideas. No, no, no. That was my idea. Of course that was my idea. Well, because we can't, that's the only first party event. Like you do Super Bowl in New Year's.

So let's do New Year's. Yeah, that would be my housewarming party. Yeah, 100%. Oh, my God. I'm getting emotional. I'm so excited. Like ending the year and starting the year. Stop.

It's like a new beginning. No. Oh, Raina. All my renovations are going to be done. And I just, I met all these contractors, stay tuned and I'll take you guys through the whole process. Oh, I'm really so happy. They all said that everything will be done in two to three weeks. I'm going to move in December 6th and should be good to go for nears.

Okay. Well, let's end it on that note. I hope you guys enjoyed our Halloween slash sex episode. You know where to find tickets to our upcoming shows, Girls Gotta Eat.com. You can follow us on Instagram at Girls Got to Eat podcast and also on TikTok at Girls Gottoeat podcast. I'm Ash Hess. Raina is rana.com. Subscribe on YouTube. Share this episode with a friend. Leave a comment. We love reading your comments on the snack. And we will see you Monday. Have a good weekend, guys. Bye.