Girls Gotta Eat - When Nudes Go Wrong

Episode Date: October 30, 2023

If you've ever experienced the nightmare of sending a nude to the wrong person (or just have the fear inside of you), you're not alone. We're chatting all about nudes gone wrong – sending to the wrong person (family included), uploading to social media, accidental airdrops, and more. We're also giving tips on how to avoid these incidents, and on the other (aka toxic) side, purposely using the "oops wrong person" as a power play in a situationship. Before we go full send on nudes, we're talking about our multiple Halloween costumes and unpacking a shocking birthday cake incident. Enjoy! Follow us on Instagram @girlsgottaeatpodcast, Ashley @ashhess, and Rayna @rayna.greenberg. Visit our website for tour dates, merchandise, and more. Shop Vibes Only. Thank you to our partners this week: Living Proof: Get 25% off all orders over $50 at livingproof.com/gge and use code GGE25 to take advantage of their biggest sale of the year. Article: Get $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more at article.com/gge. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I think it is really funny to send a nude to somebody and be like, sorry that wasn't for you. A girl's gotta eat. Happy Halloween. Is that your number one spooky noise? Do we have other, we were trying to find spooky noises earlier at my house. What a testis? That was, testes has been really, we were like blood curdling screams. And she was like, what about like the sound of like a knife puncturing somebody's body?

Yeah. She was like, what about a stab sound? I'm like, what? A stab sound is like, e-er, eat-er, eat-er. It's not like a, what, puncture wound. She said puncturing someone's body. Blood gushing out.

Yeah. So we were trying to think of some spooky sounds to put in our Halloween shows, which we will have done at this point. But we are going to talk about our costumes. A little last minute inspo in case you guys are celebrating Halloween

on the actual day. We'll get into it. Yeah. We'll do a big reveal. You said costume different before. You corrected this time. Costumes. Say costume.

Costume. Costume. Like C-O-S-T-O. A. M. B. Like a tomb. What are you saying? Costume. Costume. Not costume.

You're saying costume. You're saying costume. Costume. Costume. What are you saying? There's not an MB at the end of it. Costume. Costume. Costume.

There's not a Y. Costume. Costume. Do you guys hear the different costume? Costume. Yes. You got in like a Y. Costume.

That doesn't say. You can you wait in on this costume? Costume. You're out of the Y. Just now. Making fun of her. You say it. Okay, here, let me go.

Costume. Costume. No. Costume. Costume. Tume. Yes. Costume.

I think it's her list. It's not her list, but she's just... I'm saying it hard. Costum. Just tomb. T-U-M-E. Like, plume, tomb, tomb. Fume.

Actually, you're saying it like fume. Costume. How it's spelled? You're adding like another... Costume. Costume. Now that's just... Yeah, that's it. Costume. It's my speech in Panama. I can't guess.

Anyways, we just got back as we're recording this, we're going. But as we said, we just got back from Portland, Vancouver, and Seattle for Halloween shows. Thank you guys for coming and for dressing up. I'm sure that it was really fun. Yeah. Are we going to talk about our costumes? Yes, our costumes. Now you're saying it correctly.

I corrected. Okay. Well, yes, we did three different themes. We tried to combine our costumes to align with each other. And the first night in Portland, we did a Barbie theme. So I did the original Barbie, like the black and white bathing suit with the heels and weird curly little bangs. You hear your bag? You know, the sunglasses?

Yeah. It was a journey, but I figured it out. Okay. I'm so excited to see it. And mine was kind of a journey too. I got workout Barbie, but then I realized you're going to be in heels and I'm going to be in sneakers the whole show. And then we talked about me doing rollerblades, but I was going to roll her blade off the stage. Also, I don't know how to roll a blade. So I went with a cowgirl Barbie and I love it so much. It's so comfy. It's just like PJs. Yeah. I feel like that's probably like again, we're kind of before the shows, but I'm sure we're going to see a lot of like that specific Barbie or all the Barbies. And then we had a Ken Stripper. So it's weird to talk about this in like it hasn't happened yet.

But that was one theme. And then in Seattle, we did pop singers. I did Beyonce. I couldn't decide which Beyonce to do, but I just feel like from the Renaissance tour, the jumpsuit with like the hands over it. And then did a kind of long, like blondeish,

ambre wig. And yeah. I wanted to do Madonna like a Virgin for so long. I feel like it's not the most unique. I see it every year. But like I just love it with all the pearls and the jewelry and everything. And I made a belt that says fuck.

It's because you're supposed to say boy toy, but I couldn't find one in time. So I did that. I am just like so amped over at the moon. about these two costumes. They're going to be so fun. And then for Vancouver, we or just these like naughty costumes. So I was a ringleader, which I'm really excited about. It's like tassels. And Tess and I went on a whole journey looking for jewelry for it. And I decided to do a dominatrix. So I did like this body suit and just tights with it and like thigh high black boots and like the

riding crop. And this is like really funny. This is what I had wanted to tell you. So I ordered this stuff from Fashion Nova, which they just have easy shipping, you know, really inexpensive stuff, all this, like, slutty stuff, you know, whatever. Like, I just, I appreciate the brand. And Tessa, sometimes, like, she'll run errands and stuff for us and, like, she'll take our Goodwill donation bags, like, drop them off. And I'm always like, you can get in there if you want anything, you know, because, like, we have nice stuff that, like, we're not wearing sometimes. Like, one day she was wearing this, like, really nice tube top. And I'm like, where did you get that? She was, like, from your bag. I was like, oh, right. Like, it was this nice, like,

ALC tube top I'd like never worn. So I was like telling her that I like bought like a bunch of different sizes from the fashion of items and they were all like final sale. I didn't even realize. So much stuff on their site is final sale. All body suits, all shoes, accessories like whatever.

Oh, it wasn't like a costume. It was just clothing. Yeah, it was just clothing. Yeah. So I was just telling her that I bought all the stuff that like I have to basically donate now. And I had died thinking about Tessa dipping into there pulling out my dominatrix body suit. Wait,

the one that's like back in the middle and she just like wears it to work. We were laughing It's so hard I was like If you just showed up In my like slutty dominatrix thing She's like I found this in the donation pile I just wanted to wear it to work

She gas like that's like what It's a work outfit you gave it to me We were just laughing so hard Thinking about her showing up with like It has like a leather thing And it's like a full like stomach cut out It has like straps along your butt cheeks Well you sent me a nude in it

Yeah I was trying it on And Sparkal Eyes was sleeping And I was like I gotta show this to somebody I sent it to him to wake up too, but I also sent it to you. Because I was up. Yes. Tessa, you should wear it to the shows this weekend. Tessa just dresses like me. The whole company is just Domitrix themed for the weekend.

I can't wait to see you wear it. Are you going to wear it, Tessa? I think it's too small. It's a body suit. Well, I got two different sizes. I want to have one body suit. No, this is a new fresh bag I haven't even given to you yet. It's my car right now.

Oh, it's a fresh bag. Okay. All right. Well, stay tuned, you guys. Fresh bag. There's some good stuff in this last hall. So get in there. I just thought that was like really funny.

But again, we're doing this before we head off. But I'm sure these shows were so great. And we just love Halloween. Yeah. It's always fun to do holiday shows. We're planning 2024 Halloween right now. Yeah. But we'll have a couple more shows till the end of the year.

And then as we mentioned, we aren't really doing much touring in 2024. So we will see you this week in starting San Francisco, followed by L.A. and San Diego the following week. But we're really excited. These shows just get wilder and wilder. You guys just participate even more. It's really such a blast. So if you're new here, come on out. It's nothing like the podcast.

It's just a wild, crazy evening. And you grab tickets at Girls' Gotta Eat.com. Yeah. Sandy Ego, I think, is like really almost sold out. It probably is by the time this airs. But we still have some tickets off for L.A., which is our hometown show. We're going to do all kinds of crazy stuff. And then San Francisco, we just booked the most incredible opener to kick off the show.

So excited. Really blew the budget out on that one. But it's going to be worth it. So get those tickets. the Masonic. It's incredible. L.A., we're at the Ace Hotel Theater, which we have not done before. We always did the will turns. This is going to be new, fresh show. Everything's always fresh. And like, you never know what's going to happen because we never know what's going to happen. So we can't wait to see you guys at these home state shows. When you were at home state, I was like, oh, yeah, we live in California. Halloween, home state holiday. Those are the three themes for the rest of the year. Friends, family, football. Friends, family, football. Trish. I added friends. Friends. No, sorry. Yeah, why did I say friends? Faith, family, football. That's what we do in the fall. Well, I'm really excited.

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Yes, we're really excited. So I had an amazing weekend. I did nothing. And I was trying to go to the Steelers game, but I didn't end up getting tickets. But they did win. They did win against the Rams. And I love that team. We'll go to another game together.

Eagles won, too. The Eagles won against Miami. It was a good weekend. I was really hoping to Eagles for a year. Chiefs won because they are on a streak, which we won't talk about. I'm so excited. So I didn't do much. You had a really wonderful weekend.

I had a wonderful weekend. I had a wonderful weekend. It's my dream. But you had a really great weekend, too. Yeah, it was Sparkle eyes. birthday weekend. So he came out here and I just wanted to like plan a much of fun stuff and do like we went full send on like the cheesy fall activities. Like we went to a pumpkin patch and we did. It's so crazy to me. We can't get over it. Actually, we've had some nice cooler days, but that was not one of

them. It was 85 degrees in that pumpkin patch. We were like, is this for real? I was driving on the street and I saw a photo of you guys there. You sent me one and I was like, it's so hot out. We just still wanted to do it. It's great. I mean, that's how people here live. It's weird. But you do get sometimes those nice, cooler weather days. In Venice, yeah.

Yeah. So we did this pumpkin patch, and then we did, like, one of the outdoor movies. We saw the ring. We packed like a little... I never seen before. I never saw the ring.

We packed a nice little girl dinner and some pumpkin beers and, like, went to this outdoor movie, which I love doing that in LA. It's called Sinispia. They have one in the Hollywood Cemetery, which we did as like a girl's night, saw the Devil Wars Prada.

It was so incredible. This was the downtown one. And so you get like downtown skyline views and you like bring your blankets and your food and drinks and stuff like that. And you can also get food and drinks there. We just love it. It's like such a fun L.A. thing to do. This is not an ad for Sinaspia, but they are.

They did Harry Potter the other night. Yeah. I love it there so much. Yes. They did the Harry Potter one in that cemetery. I tried to get you to go, but you already planned it sparklyze and I bond over Harry Potter because you don't care about it. I'm not part of culture.

So we did that. And then we did an overnight trip in Malibu. I just thought it would be fun to do like a little getaway staycation, if you will. So stayed at this really incredible. incredible place, had dinner at Nobu and walked on the beach and just, you know, had all the sex and all the things. She's like very romantic. Like this Malibu Beach Inn is right on the water. Like they'd upgrade us to an ocean front room. I was just like, this is unbelievable. This feels like just a dream. Yeah, I wish you would have planned that weekend for me.

Yeah. And then we did like a group thing at this place, Elefonte. And you came and like our friends came. Andrew Collin, who was from last week's episode came. Yeah. They never even met. I was like, you'll like Andrew. Yeah, it's going to come. Yeah. So, yeah, it was, it was fun. I loved a plan. And it was just really nice to, like, plan.

And then, like, he had to let me pay for stuff. Like, he doesn't let me pay. And I got to, like, treat. Like, I love doing that. I think it's great. We were talking about gifts for, like, somebody's birthday and, like, how much you have to buy them. But, like, I really prefer something like this.

I prefer an experience from somebody. I prefer, like, the thought that goes into picking a hotel, picking a restaurant. I'm going to like, I'm going to be a gifty person. Like, I don't want stuff as much as I want. like a really well thought out thing. Yeah, I mean, I just kind of like went off. I mean, I got him gifts too. We were talking about sunglasses and he like mentioned he used to have a pair that he lost. And so I got him like sunglasses. Then I got him a cute mug that I bought from in Austin. Then I found this Cabo coffee company. Like we both always talk about coffee. We love coffee.

And I was like, what's like coffee? I could get him coffee beans, but like that are meaningful. So Cabo. You got him a nice gift? I did. Right. Your gift was like really, I feel like it was better than my. Yeah, it was better than an entire weekend in Malibu and all these reservations. The actual gift was just so cute and thoughtful. I was like, what does he like? Okay, he likes cars, he likes Ashley. So I always get people framed photos. That's just like my, I've gotten it for your family so many times.

Oh, you're right. That is your thing. I get it for you all the time. Like, I think it's just the easiest most thoughtful thing. You have to like get a picture developed. You got to like buy a frame. It is thoughtful. And so I put A&S stickers on it for Sparkalize and they were sparkly stickers. And then I was like, he likes cars.

So I had to go to multiple stores. I was trying to find Hot Wheels cars to go. glue on the frame. And I, Saturday night, I went to Michaels at like 8 p.m. to get him hot wheels cars to glued on the frame. Then I finally found it at Walgreens next day. I was excited to do something nice for him. It was really cute. It was his picture of me and him and his old on the beach and then this like hot wheel glued to it. I was just like, this is the best thing I've ever seen. He likes two things. Ashley and Cars. And I was like, do you like the kind of car I picked? And he was like, we'll work on it for next year. And I appreciate that

about him. He still had to give me a knock. But yeah, I mean, I always go frame. And it was really fun. And this crazy thing happened. Okay, so you got a cake for Milk Bar. We love Milk Bar so much. And you were just like, it's also just for me because I love Milk Bar. So we brought a Teleton-A, we had them cut it.

It was really nice. They put it in a box, the rest of it for you to take home. But the photo you sent me inside the box was so crazy. So you had got out and bought happy birthday candles. Every single letter was a candle. So you stuck all these spikes all over the cake. So I don't know how many letters happy birthday is, but it's a bunch. And we gave them the cake to like box it up.

And the photo you sent me had every candle thrown in. And I bring up that it's a lot of different ones because each one was on a spike. The cake was also in two. Like we ate half this cake. Somebody had a problem. It's not like a cheap cake. It felt like a real violation to me and Sparkleys and Milk Bar. I've never seen someone just wreck a cake like that.

Like I've never seen that. Heather McMahon DM me and she was like, call the cops. It looked violent. It looked for... I just loved that Heather was like, uh, 9-1-1, there's been a murder. Literally. But, like, I feel like it would only happen in LA

because people were like, they're not going to eat that. Okay, so let me ask you this. Okay. That was crazy, obviously. But someone said... It's funny when my series was, let me ask you this and they make a statement. Well, someone in my DMs,

because I post this on my story. Also, it's on my feed. It's like the last picture of this carousel of he and me. And it's like the text I had sent to you and another girlfriend. but I also did a story about it and was just like, I just wanted to elaborate on what the fuck was this. And someone said,

some people think that you should leave the cake for the staff. And someone was mad that you didn't or something. But first of all, I am going to eat it. That's an expensive cake. I want the cake. I didn't think we were leaving food for people. And especially in a post-COVID world. Like, to me, that's leftovers.

Like, because you know me, Raina. I love to give food away. Like we've had people bring us like so many cupcakes and then I brought them down to like the hotel staff or like we'll leave stuff at the venues. Like we leave alcohol. Like I always had those pizzas left over in Chicago. We want to give like I am down for that. But I did not think that restaurant workers were eating people's leftover cake. I didn't think that was the thing that was happening. Okay. I'd like to speak up as somebody who worked most of her life in restaurants. I started wearing restaurants at 14. I worked in 14 years. So did you. I worked in every position. I managed them. I was bartender. I was a waitress. I started. I started. I started. I was a bartender. I was a waitress. I. I did literally, I went to culinary school. I am fully ingrained in the culture. I've never heard of this before. And yes, I would happily leave something for the staff if they wanted it. Also, that guy came to the table twice.

He didn't deserve it. He came to the table twice in like three hours of us being there. And you pay a cake cutting fee. I did pay a fee. It was like $5 a person. Yes. So the tip on top of that. Yeah, like, of course, that we always overtip.

But yeah, I bought this whatever, $70 cake, $5 a person to eat it. And then they think it was that they're trolling us for not. No, someone just said, again, she wasn't saying I did anything wrong. She was just like, do you think this was because you didn't leave it for the staff? And I was like, I didn't know that was the thing. And I will say this, though. I hate to waste food. Again, if I can give it away, I will.

I'm going to eat the rest of that cake this week. Do not get a twisted. But I have seen people leave a full milk bar cake like on a table in a restaurant. And I'm like, oh my gosh, like, what a waste. And I never once thought like staff would eat that. I just didn't think they'd even want that. Listen, I ate some gross stuff off people's plates back. off their plate.

Listen. Listen, I was eating in the kitchen. I was in the fry bin. When I was like in college, if somebody left like some lobster or scallop on their plate, I definitely did it. I don't even act like that

was the worst thing I put my body in college, okay? No. I put disgusting things in my body. The men and the drugs that went inside my body from the ages of like 18 until last week, all of that is worse than eating a piece of lobster off.

I really think about it. Yeah, I definitely did. I'm not even going to lie. I totally did. But in a post-comodid world, I didn't think that we were doing that. Also, even Sparkle-I said, do you want me to blow out the candles? I'm going to blow all over this cake. Even he was like, I know one of you has had sex with me today.

And do you mind if I blow on this? Yeah. So, no, I didn't really think to leave it for this stuff. No offense. I'll do anything. I overtip, no matter what. That cake is too expensive. I know.

I don't need to defend myself, but I like to be clear. I do not like to waste food. And I do like to give it to people if we can. Like, when we leave our green room and there's stuff left over. I'm like, can we offload this? Take the alcohol, take the stuff, take the pizzas, whatever. But yes, I never thought of that. And yeah, I, like, feel like I'm living free outside of a post-COVID world. But I still think we have some things left over. And to me, like, eating people's leftover food is not something that is going to fly now. And I don't think even

before that, like, when I worked in restaurants, I was not eating off people's plates, but I was all up in, like, when I worked at the rusty rudder and do we eat, like, I was all in the fry guys all the time. Just like fries, fries, this, fries out. They called like Corey and me the Fry Monsters. Did you eat the fries at people's place before they went out to people's tables? No. I did. What? It's in the French right here. Yeah. What are they going to do about it? You, you know what you can't ever be is a postmate. Oh, because you'd be in your car eating out people's bags. I don't understand how that doesn't have more option. Well, I just thought somebody got caught, like on the security camera eating

someone's food in their car. I'd be so fucking mad. I would definitely be doing that. I also like, sometimes it takes like a little too long. I'm like, I know what you're doing. I can see your car parked. I know you're eating your food. I know you're going through my food. No. Stop! Don't say that.

I'm going to start thinking that. I think that all the time, but I just try to block it out. I just, I don't want to know. I can't know about it. I did some fucked-up shit when I was a waitress. I also had, like, sex at the restaurant and just like went back out there and waited on people,

probably with, like, dick stuff still on my hand. Also known as semen. Dick stuff? What? I just did terrible things when I worked in restaurants. Everybody's doing it. But I wasn't through. throwing 45 burnt out candles on spikes into somebody's cake.

Also, you know how I feel about like getting shrimp tails off of like anything? I don't want shrimp tails in my food. I don't want a bunch of littered candles in my cake. I got to pick out one by one. On YouTube, we'll put the picture up of this cake. Like, when I opened that box, I gasped. It really felt aggressive. It felt like an assault.

It felt violent. It inspired me to send a GIF. Oh, yeah. Yeah, so this is, you know, I don't send gifts. I don't believe in them. I think you should make a joke. And I think you should make it funny. But I felt inspired to send like an, oh my God.

Giff. Yeah. Yeah, I sent it to you in Anushka. And I was like, are you guys good over there? Like, what happened? And she was like, what the fuck? And you just wrote like, not the candles with the Jonah Hill. I think it's from Wolf and Wall Street.

Little Wall Street, yes. So anyway, weigh in, you guys. We'd love to hear, you know, leave a comment on YouTube if you leave cake behind or if you've ever assaulted a cake for a guest at a restaurant and why? I forgot about blowing candles out until he offered to not do it. And all of us had to be like, no, do it. So he did a great job. You know, he's just like graded everything.

He did a great job of blowing out the candle. No, because Andrew Collins' birthday, spit went flying. Well, he is a crazy list. He is a huge speech impediment, a lazy mouth. We have this video of him blowing out. I think we had like multiple desserts. Something happened. We went to his like sushi dinner.

Remember for Andrew Kahn's birthday? And the way he blew, I think he blew to be funny, but he blew so hard. And you could hear you in my Instagram story and going, Andrew, we wanted to eat that. Like it's this perfect thing of you being like, Andrew. I don't remember it. And I never thought about it until after that. Until after Sparkleys, it's such a good job. And then he asked, and the first thing came to my mind was Andrew spitting, and we still ate it.

Definitely. I would still eat it. I would eat it. I would need a sparkle. I spit all over. What do I care? Again, I put disgusting stuff in my body. Who cares? Okay. So, Raina, tell us what you've been consuming. Oh. Content-wise. Thank you. I am so excited for reading these little fairy books. It's a court of thorns and roses. And so our friend Alyssa, who we're going to have on the podcast. Publicity, and she just launched a tea brand. Yes. Check it out. Tea with publicity. Really cool packaging. Yes. Really, really awesome.

And we'll have Ron. We'll talk about it later. But she was reading this book and she was just like, I love it so much. And I was just like, I don't know if it's for me. I do. I love Harry Potter, I read every book. I'm obsessed with the movies. I loved The Hunger Games. I never got into Twilight.

Lord of the Rings is fine. But I'm not seeking out those books at this time. Fantasy. I'm no longer seeking out fantasy books. Also, I have a hard time. I don't want to have to imagine them. Like, make me the movie. Just make the movie for me.

I don't want it to envision while these things are. But anyways, I put it on my Instagram story, and people went wild. It's the most people have ever DM me or forwarded around a book that I'm reading. And everyone's like, just trust me. The second book's even better. So I am like so. far deep into the second book, a court of mist and fury. I think it's called. It's 700 pages.

I cannot put it down. I wake up in the morning. I can't stop reading it. I wake up in the morning excited to read. I go to sleep. I laid in bed last night with a glass of whiskey and my little fairy book and I read a book. Well, 700 pages, but how many did you skip? I had to skip ahead, 300 pages. I can't believe she left. She is a rena. 300 pages is a whole book. Well, it's not even half of this book. So I was like, I got to know if these people sleep together. It's literally people or is it fairies? Well, they're fairies. Also, I'm sorry.

There is a secret underworld of people because every person that we have ever come into contact with has messaged me and been like, oh, no, I already crushed everything. People, all the men that I've dated. Tons of men. Boys, our videographer is listening to it at the same time that I'm reading it. My ex is listening to it. Your ex. Yeah. Which one?

The bodyguard one? read the whole series. No, he didn't. Whole series. No. He was like, oh, I read that entire series. No, he didn't. Yes, he did.

He can read. He loves fantasy. He reads. He does audible. Raina. He's like, I can't read. Yes, he can't. You think he's too sexy to read?

Be honest. I am being honest, Ashley. Raina, he's doing audiobooks. No, he's not. I've seen him read. He's on a boat in the middle of nowhere. Okay, he has a weird thing. He only likes really weird stuff, like little girl stuff.

Like, you look at him and he looks like, like he could murder you. He likes the ballet and the symphony and like Lord of the Rings and that's that show about those little Irish girls. Derby girls. Dairy girls. That's the kind of shit he likes. He said to me,

he was like, men have to pretend they don't like this stuff because they think it's like manly, but I don't have to pretend because I look like this. And I was like, that guy just on the beach reading a 700 page little fairy book. I'm dying with the visual. Are you back into him now because of this? I knew he was like into that stuff.

I specifically told him I have a bookwreck for you. He was like, I crushed that whole series. How many are there? Five? Five or six. Ashley, who works for us is like, I love it. I'm obsessed with it. Like, she's also just like such a hard ass.

Okay. People are keeping this under wraps. Under wraps. There is like an underbelly in America. A little fairy fantasy books. I'm telling you. And like, it's not because it's so smutty. There's one sex scene in the whole first book.

There isn't a sex scene in the second book until like 529. pages into the book. Oh my gosh. I know's the page number. I do because I skip to it. Somebody sent us a whole email and she is so excited. She said the second book's fairy smut is wild. She goes on to talk about literally fucking crazy in the absolute best way. Once you start smoking the Sarah J. Mast crack, you really can't stop. People are obsessed with this book series.

I don't know that I'd recommend it for you. I just don't see it for you. I don't see it for me even. I don't know. I think I just like, I'm curious what like it makes it so different than other types of like quote unquote smut or like will they won't they type stories like again i'm not really into the fantasy like i loved the first twilight movie and then i saw all the others and they were just like fine for me and i think i read like one book but these just aren't the kind of books i do it's not

first of all that's muddy like again there's i don't care about that i'm just i'm not like really giving a spoiler but like there is really no sex in the second book for like 500 pages what it what's the And then she has sex with this guy. And then she's like, his cock twitch. His cock twitch came out of nowhere. I mean, these people are fairies. People fairies. They have body parts or like wings.

Okay, you know when Lord of the Rings? No. Ashley. Like, okay, Lord of the Rings, the elves are like full grown giant people with pointy ears. Got it. This is fair people. They're just called fairy people. Are they small?

No, they're huge. Do they live in their own world or they live amongst humans? This is a dystopian society where like on one side of the world is all the fairer people. people and there's all these kingdoms and on the other side. Like only one of the communities has wings. They're just like people to walk around. Okay, I got it. Honestly, it's a disservice to the book to call them fairies.

Just like, call it something else. Okay, well, they spelled it differently. Yeah, that's her contribution to uniqueness. She's like, I spelled it different. Yeah. There's nothing that unique about it. I'll be honest. I like the writing.

I think it's like a good book, but I feel like they took all the best parts of Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones and the Hunger Games and they're just like, use it all. Okay. Just take all that stuff and put it in a book. I like the writing. I do think it's really good. Well, that matters.

because, like, I couldn't read 50 shades that writing I felt was pretty poor. Did you read? I couldn't get through it. I couldn't get past the writing. I think I read most of the first book. I was like, I can't with this. It's just, it's like, I don't know, sixth grade reading level. Yeah.

Which for me, it was when I was eight. Here's what is really funny to me about this genre, because I haven't really read it in a long time. I was talking to Alyssa about it because she's my fairy person. Is that there's like all these plot holes and they don't bother to tie them up because it's just like there's fairy people walking around. And it's like there's talking animals. And they're like, what are you going to do about it?

We don't have to type these plot holes. Yeah. So like this half of the kingdom is immortal. So these, all these immortal people, but people die all the time. Okay. And I'm like, there's kind of a disconnect for me that you call them all immortal. But they die like all the time. Right.

They're like, what are you going to do? Call us out for being unrealistic. Yeah. That's what I'm saying. Yeah. And then the couple in the second and the first, she's 19. The protagonist is 19. And all these men are immortal.

And they've been around for like 500 years. Ew. So like the love story when you really like zoom out and think about it, even though it just seems like two people that are sort of around the same age as a 19 year old and a 500 year old. Gross. Predatory. I don't want to read this little book. She like got mad at this one guy for like not defending her against his friend and she like stormed off. And I'm like, they've known each other for 500 years.

And they met you last week. So that's what I'm doing right now. And then the Britney Spears book came today. Thank God we've been gifted with it. And it might as well be three pages. It's so small. So I'll get through that quick. Yeah, you're going to fly through that.

I'm going to give it to you as soon as I'm done. So we're talking about nudes today. I really had fun trying to think about who I've accidentally sent nudes to and like what situations ensued. Okay. So we are going to talk about it. But I wanted to read the email that really inspired this episode topic. And I guess I'm just going to like give it away in the subject line because it was so good.

And obviously it was like, oh, we have to read that. The subject line is accidental nudes. to my couples therapist. I know, I was like, what happened here? So she writes, hello, my GGE, big sisters. I had the most mortifying thing happen to me, and all I can think of was how Ashley and Rana would eat this up.

My boyfriend and I were going to our first couples therapy session on Saturday, and on Thursday night we had gotten to a bit of an argument over text. I thought the texts were a great example of what we wanted to work on in therapy, so I screen recorded our conversation and sent it to her via email. She replied like normal and also agreed it was a good example. The next day, I sent my bestie the same screen record. video of me and my boyfriend's text convoy and asked for her thoughts on the way I had communicated. And her reply was, well, we have gone 20 years without me senior Vaj, didn't think today would be the

day in which I replied very confused and she so kindly brought it to my attention that in the screen recording I'd recorded not one, not two, but three full nudes that I had sent my boyfriend after our argument had ended. I wish I could say it was just a titty pick or I was in a bra, but no. They were top-tier X-rated fully nude picks that, of course, had to include full puss. Yes. This girl is an icon. She's like, I'm going to win this fight. I know. There's so many layers to this. She said, yes, I know that it's rogue of me to send a full puss pick, but we've been dating for a while in our long distance. So you got to do what you've got to do to keep it spicy. I hear you, girl. Well, I appreciate her playing it cool. I felt like I

had to say something. So I fired off an email apologizing to the therapist, not her best friend, and telling her how embarrassed I was. Her reply via email was great and said it was no biggie and she stopped watching when the text got spicy. And then in our therapy session when it came up again, she made a funny joke about how fire I looked and we all had a good laugh. But I did low-key,

want to die a little bit walking up to office knowing this woman has pretty much looked into my soul via my pussy. Anyway, she learned a lot via those texts, our communication cycle and that I for sure send nudes to help reduce that awkward feeling after disagreement. I cannot believe this wasn't a whole topic in therapy that she wasn't like, good for you, girl. you escalate a fight and then you de-escalate a fight.

Seriously, you get a bunch of blood to rush their penis and you have won the fight. This girl is an icon. Have you sent a nude to end a fight? Yes. Is this your move? I have a lot of questions for you today. Oh my God. Thank you so much.

That's the first one. No, I have never sent a nude. I know this is going to surprise a lot of people. I don't send like a ton of nudes. Like I'm more of a phone sex. You're more of a put-in-your-on-your-on-in-in-in-in-in-in-in-o-in-in-sig. Yes. You don't need to.

The most engagement I've ever gotten. I posted this photo of myself covered in paint this weekend. This amazing artist, Camille Hunt. I love it so much. I want you to do it so badly. I definitely want to do it. Sparkalize was like, can you do that?

I would love it if you did it. I'll just give her like a quick little plug. One of our listeners reached out and said, I think you guys would really like this. Yeah, I think they might have reached out to me too. I mean, we were talking so early on, right when we moved here about the type of art we wanted in our home. I mentioned like sex and silhouette.

Yeah, that's when people sent her to us. Yeah. Yes. So her name is Camille Hunt. She's based in Brooklyn. But it was a really crazy experience because I met her and I just got butt naked and she painted me. And then she lowers you into the position. So like it's a whole print of my back and she grabbed my hands and lowered me into it.

I'm just full pus out. Yeah. Under this total stranger I met five minutes ago. But she was absolutely incredible. It's a great gift to yourself or to somebody else. Or to your significant other. I love that. Yeah.

I don't send a ton of nudes. I'm more of a FaceTime sex, phone sex, sexting. I'll do it, but it's like the last thing that I do. Okay. Are you a huge? When you're long distance, yes. I'm definitely doing it more when I'm long distance. Yeah. I mean, I've talked about like more subtle nudes. Like I don't need like full nudity, full puss, but no judgment. I will be like fully naked, but like there is a mirror. And I love to take photos in a sexy hotel rooms. Like when we picked back up on the tour after the summer and I'm with Sparkle Eyes, I was like, get ready. Because nothing I'd love more than taking hotel nude. You're really an icon out of it. So we were, I think Dallas, we stayed at the Thompson in Dallas, and they had this mirror.

The mirror was like, it had stuff all over it. It wasn't like an actual mirror. I know your time, but I don't know what that's called. San Francisco had that too on the mirror. It might look like it's like cracked or like it just has a design on the mirror. So you can see in it, but it's not a mirror you would ever look into like do your makeup or anything. So I just took like a full nude in there. It's like frosted with stuff.

Yes. And I've like the shower one that I'm so proud of. Like I am fully naked, but there's something else to it. So it's like a little bit more covered up. But we send photos back and forth all the time. Like sexy photos. like, you know, here's what I look like today. I mean, I think you're long distance, you do that like a lot more.

But I don't know that it will be that couple that it's like, here's my full pussy. So that's where I'm, it's not, it's nothing to do with trust. No, no. It has a lot of judgment. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, it's just, I feel like I send a lot of sexy picks that are like suggestive, but like pussy hole out, fingers in it. I'm a big fan of the, like, reach your fingers into your underwear and like,

mime masturbating. But like, whatever, do whatever you guys want. It's just, but what I'm, like, horrid. I'm ready at phone sacks. Like, I want to just do it. Yeah. And I sent him one when he was just like, usually we shower together, not every single time. I would say like 80% of the time.

But this was a time, this was like one of the times he's visited me. And he was just like, I don't know, I was on the couch. He was like watching football or something. And I went to go take a shower and I just sent like a nude from the bathroom. That is really funny. Sure enough. He wandered in. Essentially.

That's how you lure someone away from football into the bathroom. But I wanted to ask you this also because we're talking about sending accidental nudes today to like the wrong person. Have you done this by accident, but on purpose? Like, have you ever sent a sexy pick to someone that you're trying to get their attention and then been like, oh, sorry, wrong person? Because that seems like something you would do. And I'll explain why. I haven't, but that's not past me. And I think it is really funny to send a nude to somebody and be like, sorry that wasn't for you. That is hilarious. If you are like in a relationship with somebody who like is situation shipping you until the end of time,

Send them a nude and be like sorry that was for someone else. I love that move. I love it. I'm obsessed with that. Oh my God, I'm so embarrassed. That was for someone else. Also,

okay, I saw another move that I thought was really good. Outside of news, I'm just going to drop this hint because I saw it. I thought it was so smart. If like a situation ship kind of person is like just stringing you along and they're like, I can't make it, text them and say,

my plans fell through and I would love to meet you tonight. Like imply that you're confirming another date to that person by accident. Oh, I love that. Yeah, great. Okay, I see what you're saying. Yes. To like fuck with them so that they're like, oh, okay, she had another date lined up.

Okay, so I get what you're saying. Your fuck boy situation ship is like, hey, no, can't see you tonight. Can't make it. So you send back a text as if you're sending it to someone else and it's like, my plans fell through. My suggestion would be say, oh my God, no worries, have a good night. And then immediately text them again. It's got to be immediate. Immediate.

And then just be like, oh, shit, I'm so sorry and do like the red emoji face. Hips. Or you try to edit it. Just to like even double down on your lie. You try to unsend it after you know they've seen it. I love this move. That's a fun fucked up move. Okay, I love that.

Okay, but yes, the accidental nude to somebody else, you know I would do some shit like that, but no, I have not. I really have not sent a totally fully accidental nude. I don't think. Sex, yeah, stuff I didn't mean to send. Yeah. But no. Yeah.

Have you? No. I'm really careful about this stuff. Yeah. You know, like, I think some of the submissions we're going to read today are people that are, like, living so much more chaotic than I would. Like, I am making sure that's going to the right person. But I also think there is an element of when you're feeling yourself and doing this,

you might be drinking. You know, like, I, especially, like, when I was younger, like, I remember this one guy, I would always send sexy pics too. I was like usually drinking, come home drunk, do that kind of stuff. But something I used to do that was kind of crazy. And I had one of my girlfriends got her doing this too. I don't know what the fuck I was thinking. But early days of Instagram, I would, like, do a sexy

pick because you would filter it. Like this is before FaceTune and stuff. And you would take a sexy pick and you'd be like, oh, I just wish I looked like Tanner or like different or whatever. So I would like put it on Instagram and post it and then delete it right away. And I don't know why I was doing that because couldn't I have screenshot it. But I think I just wasn't thinking. And I would put something through Instagram and try to delete it right away.

And I kind of like taught my girlfriend this trick just to make it look better. You know, we have this weird like sepia tones and like Instagram. Yeah, but maybe you had to post it to get it to be the right size or something. Yeah. couldn't like edit something afterwards. Yeah, it would look crazy when you were editing it, so I didn't want to screenshot that. And so I told a girlfriend, and she did that trick.

She did it for a few times, and she was like, oh, this looks so good. I'm doing these, like, you know, even black and white or whatever. Like, that was early days of Instagram. What else were we using to edit photos, like an amateur like me? So that was like my editing. And then she did it once and her phone restarted before she could delete it. Ashley, it's like that time with that concert. She was like mad at me.

And I was like, I didn't force you to do this. I just gave you the tools. and you built the house wrong. I don't know what to tell you. That is so crazy. Yeah, like that happened us one time. I was talking so much shit. I meant to you just send it to Ashley and I put it on our story.

Yes. Not about a person, about a brand. A big brand. Yeah. I just lost service. I was like, I don't know what to do. We were running around trying to find like Wi-Fi and like an artist tent. I called the whole thing, the trash can.

The whole event we were at, welcome to the trash can. And I just posted a photo of like a flaming trash can dumpster fire. We were panicked. I was terrified. I was like, this is so bad. I thank God every day. If I believed in God, I would thank God every day, that you and I did not have such ready access to camera phones

when we were in high school and college and my early 20s. Yes, camera phones existed when I was in college, but not in the form of there right now where you can flip it around, take a front-facing selfie, and then you can edit it, put it through Photoshop. I thank God, because the decisions I would have made would have been so chaotic. Remember Blackberry photo?

photos. They look like you took them underwater. Like, nothing was grainer than a Blackberry phone. Try to see my naked body. You can't. You can't. You can't. You can't even try. Today it would look artsy. You'd be like, oh my God, how'd you do that? Blackberry? That was, that had to be the worst camera. I'd rather use a disposable than a Blackberry. There was no worse camera. Blackberry was like, what we're going to do is you're going to get emails the second someone hits send, but try to take a photo and have it look good. Like, I love nothing more than my Blackberry typing away. The emails came through. Like, you know what? I phone. You got to refresh. They're not immediate.

Like, Blackberry had the lock on some things, but not those photos. I loved my BlackBerry. So I was trying to work hard, but not send nudes hard. But, like, I would take pictures of Dewey, and it's like, what even animal kind of is that? I want to see our old BlackBerry. We can even, I don't think a whole Facebook album of, like, Blackberry picks. Yeah, they're just hysterical.

They look like they're from the 40s. You're right today. It would be artsy. She's so different. She's that email. I think God literally every day. because the decisions I would have made. And, like, I used to just get more fucked up.

I know. Like, I was always just so drunk in college. Like, that's when I would have been making, like, huge mistakes like this. Like, just one eye open, blackout drunk, trying to, like, get a guy to come over, like, sending something to the wrong person. Totally. I would have just been doing that constantly. I was so in love with my restaurant manager when I worked in Bloomington, Indiana. His name was J.D.

Of course it was. Not in Uston? No. His first name might have been Justin. You know what his name was was Justin Dustin. J.D. is Justin Dustin. Don't tell me it's not. Rain, I know his name is Justin Dustin. It's like Justin Bobby. It's probably like Justin Damien. It is something like that. He was like in a band. He was from Bloomington, Indiana. And he had a girlfriend. I was so in love with him. I was madly in love with him. And he like bandaged this Italian restaurant in Bloomington, Indiana. And I just think like the stuff I used to, do to try to get his attention, like, was really thirsty and crazy. And there is nothing that would have stopped 19-year-old me from, like, firing off a bunch of nudes to that guy. Yeah, like, I'm putting-in-girls.

His girlfriend wouldn't stop me? Yeah. I'm putting whole song lyrics in my AIM away message. You think I wouldn't have sent a nude? Okay, remember you would, like, try so hard to, like, not move the mouse to somebody would think you were out for so long? I would be like, just give another 10 minutes. I just, okay, we're really doing ourselves.

I just, yeah, I would have made a lot of really bad decisions, so I'm glad. I mean, I still make some now, but less bad. Can I tell you this one? This is so funny because Louisa sent me this meme, and she didn't even know we were doing this topic. Maybe she saw it on the girl's got to eat crowdsourcing. I'd seen this before in some way, shape, or form, but I just think this is a good hack.

And the meme says, I accidentally sent my mom picture of my boobs, so I followed up with a medical question and booked a mammogram. Have you seen that? Like, if you accidentally send someone pictures of your boobs, you can be like, do you think I should get a mammogram? Or if you send something if you're a pussy, you're like, oh, sorry, this is for my gyno. That is so smart. art. Yeah. I sent so many pictures of my boobs to people over the last two years. I had so many

boob jobs. And like, I was sending like progress picks to everybody. And I'd send them to like you and Merrill and Melanie and everybody. And I would like cover my nipples with like different emojis depending on like the holiday or the season or whatever. Like, go pumpkins for Halloween. And there was quite a few times. I just forgot the emojis. Yeah. But I don't care. Those are my friends or whatever. Yeah. Open pussy. I'd have a problem with it. Yeah. Okay. Should we read some of these submissions? Well, I thought this was really interesting talking about like have you ever sent an accidental nude. So we did a poll.

We did a poll and said, have you ever sent a nude to somebody was not intended for it? And the results shocked me. 80% of people, no, I have not. I know. 80%. Maybe people are just being more careful.

I think that they really are. I like check it five times before I hit send. Yeah. And I won't send it from my computer because you know I've done like mistakes like that before. Just like dragged the wrong photo over the long person. I do have some of my own stories. But I realize somebody who's taking nude.

of me once. I was on like a FaceTime Topless and you know when you send a photo back to somebody, if you open up your camera roll and like if you select a photo, it still has all the photos across the bottom. Yes. Oh yeah. So I was like Topless on the phone with somebody. I wasn't like

totally naked but I was topless in bed. And I was FaceTime with somebody and they sent me a photo of something else but had forgotten to sort of like switch their settings and I saw across the whole bottom of the screen. Oh my God. They'd been taking all these screenshots of me, Topless, but I was topless.

So FaceTime tells you when someone takes a photo. Not to my knowledge, but you can see it sometimes. No, they do. They do. They tell you. So if you are on FaceTime, because Sparkalysis all the time, he's always like taking photos. Like, we both do it. It's like a cute thing.

But if you're on FaceTime and you hit the camera down on the bottom, that's how you get the full photo of just them. Oh, I'm screenshot. But the screenshot, I don't know if it tells you a screenshot. Okay, but it tells you the photo photo. Oh, interesting. Yeah, it's like, he'll just be like, take his photo. Like, we do it to like fuck around with each other,

too. And then you get the full photo of them without your face in it. Oh. They're live photos. But I guess you're right. It doesn't say screenshot. But you can see it sometimes. If it's a dark room, you can see it kind of flashing a little bit. Or if your sounds on, you can hear it. So yes, I thought that was funny. I don't care. Obviously, I was topless. Yeah. That's so, yeah. You exactly. Yeah, but you don't like, I don't know. I kind of like knowing if someone's taking photos. Yeah, I'd like to know. Yeah. I'm not topless on a FaceTime with somebody where I'm trying to be demure with them. But yeah, I'd like to be in control of who's taking the photos. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So we wanted to go.

through some of the ones from our listeners and just talk about these. So many about Snap stories. I mean, most of the submissions were about posting some into your Snap story. Every day, I'm just like, Snap still exists? It does. That's great. Are you, do you use that? Are you in Snap? I mean, I have it, but I only use it for, like, for one. Nudes. Yeah, it's people are still doing it. But this probably was also, like, prior, like, years prior. Yeah, I feel like that's the most I've ever seen people ask and I put on their Snap story or send it to the wrong group of people. Yeah. Someone said my friend, I sent an accidentally sent to my friend, she thought my vagina was a lampshade.

I mean, sometimes you see a nude and you're just like, I don't know what I'm looking at. There's so many folds. Yeah. Especially a vagina. You're like, what is happening there? Raina's dad? A few of these. Raina, did anyone air drop your dad nudes?

No. This is just a joke. I think this is a joke. Okay. I hope. I don't know. I don't think my dad knows what airdrop is. People probably thought that they were air dropping.

Because it's probably always on. My friend that I was in a huge fight with, we hadn't talked for weeks. and this sparked the end. I wonder if it sparked the end of the friendship or sparked the end of the fight. Can you imagine fighting with a friend? You send a nude. That's like your last ditch effort.

You're like, I'm going to get her. I'm going to get her back. And then my Bible study group leader, hashtag, oh God. Those are the fregiest people there are. The people that are pretending that they're not all sinning. Okay, I post that instant on the guy who goes to me the previous week message to tell me when someone that you do not want to feel humiliated in front of

has to tell you you've done something humiliating. That is so funny. Well, you got him to talk to you. It was a Polaroid in a book. I was donating to my college. The girl chased me down out of the shop. I love this. She was using her Polaroid nude as a bookmark.

As a bookmark. And some girl was like, you want to take this back? This is inappropriate. She's like, I'm good. Oh my God. This one, my sister, so she accidentally sent her a sister,

then told her my phone was hacked and she told me, whoever's vaj that is looks bad. That is mortified. Accidentally airdroped my neighbor, 24 nudes. This happens to me a lot because my neighbor and I are just, there's only like a wall between us of like inches.

And every time I go to air drop something in the morning for work, it always comes up. And I'm just do it. You know what I'm usually working on is like some kind of thing for vibes only? And like it's like sex toys. And I do think all the time about air dropping him sex toys stuff. Yeah, or nudes. Literally or nudes.

Just whatever. Yeah, he knows. Somebody sent me a drop box of nudes once. Yeah. He was a prostitute. If you know, you know. We talked about the shows. Yeah.

This one I died. My now ex-husband. but I sent it while we were going through the divorce. That is so funny. It reminds me of your favorite movie, The Breakup. Oh, yeah, that's a good call. Yeah, I love that. And again, it's just like, show him what he's missing.

This one, my grandparents have a digital photo frame. I accidentally uploaded a tit pick. Those frames, can you imagine it's cycling through family photos? It's crazy. Oh, my God. Crazy. Okay, here's the one of the craziest one. Maybe the craziest one.

I sent a video of me masturbating to my best friends. mom. How did this happen? Literally how? I like add the photo to the chat and then I like make sure I know what chat I'm in before hitting send. Yeah. And it's just like a full blown only fans video. You know, like I'm double checking, triple checking. Also, please explain this to me. Why is iPhone not allowed the feature on I message yet for you to unsend something? Why does that not exist? What do you mean? You can unsend a photo or a text. Oh, you can't unsend a photo or a text. Oh, you can unsend a text. On iMessage?

Yeah. Get out of here. Raina, once last time you updated your phone? You have an iPhone 12. But you have a time limit. Like, you can only do it for a certain amount of time,

you can only edit or un-send. Yeah, you can un-send though. You do it immediately. What are you talking about? What are you talking about? Don't shame me for my iPhone 12. You obviously even update your software in a year. You hit send on a text message.

I'm like, hi, Ashley, how's your day going? And then I hold my finger on it and hit unsend. Yeah. I heard that it doesn't unsend on your computer, but I'm not certain. But yeah, there's an unsend feature. I'm only texting on my computer. You know me.

It's very rare to get a text from me from my phone. What? All right. Well, now you guys know. But it's got to be quick. And I'm not sure if you can do it. Like two seconds? Yeah.

It's before they could have opened it. But like what if you're already in the text? It also will say someone on sent it, right? It does say, yeah. I had an awkward situation with this recently. Because it's still going to tell them, but at least they didn't see it. Oh, I don't care of it says. It is more for something like this.

You know. I cannot believe this. A two second one, if you send a video by accident, You have like a two second window to hold on top of it and unsend it. Mm-hmm. Oh, I don't know about two seconds. I don't know, but you do have a short window. But again, just double check because it still could stay on their computer if they're using their

MacBook to text. But this other mom one, my best friend helped me take sexy nudes on the beach. I thought I was sending them to myself, but I accidentally sent them to my mom. She texted back, so youthful and beautiful, honey. Enjoy your youth. That is so funny. The mom was just like, you're beautiful. I know.

Humiliating at the same time. Your mom would say something like that. She'd be like, Ashley, you look so beautiful. Yeah, she wouldn't think anything of it. I know. My 7-year-old boss and the caption was, miss you, babe. I cannot. I would die.

I'd never go into work again. I'd have to quit. I would quit that job. Yeah, even if I own the company. I'd have to quit. Tessa, if you ever send us a nude, please quit. No, I'm kidding. It's a different kind of company, you know?

Exactly. We'd be like, is this market research for something? Sent a nude of my pierce nipples to my dad while I was doing long distance with my boyfriend. There were like three or four submissions of peer snippels. Like obviously you pierce her nipples. You want to show them off. Uh-huh. You went through all that pain.

I'm going to show the world. They're the wild childs of the world. Yes. Supposed to go to my boyfriend at the time, aka daddy, accidentally said it to my dad. That's your fault. Yeah, literally your fault.

Don't have your boyfriend in your phone is anything you haven't to do with dad. That is insane. You changed the name to Daddy. Oh. I know. I went out with this one, I think it's so funny.

She says, I haven't, but my brother sent a nude of his girlfriend to our eight-person family group chat. That is just next level. Also, I want to know who that was meant for because he meant to send the nude of his girlfriend to someone.

Right. I didn't even think of that. You can never tell her because she's humiliated, but like, okay, let me ask you what's worse. What would you be more mad at? The whole family saw you nude or that they were sending it to somebody. Well, who's exactly like you said. Who is this going to?

Who is this for? Huh. I'd be way more mad. I don't care if the whole. family gets my nude. That's an accident. He he he. Who is this going to it? Your friend? Who's this for? Why are you sending this? Yeah. I thought I would be way more mad about that. Oh my God. Do you think guys do that a lot? Not about that. I don't know. Like, probably guys do it and girls do it. You know, like, it just depends on the way you feel about somebody that who you are as a person and how much you like respect that person.

Like, Sparkleyes would never. Like, he would just die before he sent like a sexy pick of me to someone else. Like, A, he doesn't want anyone to see that. He's like respects me more than that. I mean, That goes without saying. But like you do or you don't, I don't know. If I see any type of future with somebody, I will never show. Yeah, of course, like with your girlfriends, you show stuff and you joke about it. But like if I saw it, I mean, yes, I respect people's privacies, of course, also. And I would not betray their trust like that. But especially if I see a future with somebody, my friends don't need to know what my man's dick looks like.

Oh, no. And like I think about that, like, second date being like, if I end up with this person five years from now, I don't need everybody at the wedding in my friend circle knowing how big his dick is, what his pubic hair looks like? I'm all set. Yeah. Unless it's really huge. Well, if it comes through, like, when you're out,

dick, vagina, no. And like fair tits and things like that. But I don't know. I've been out with a guy friend and like he got a sexy pick from his wife. And he was like, oh. And like I saw it. I don't know. I feel like she wouldn't care if I saw it.

I don't know. It didn't feel like it was icky at all. Well, that's also somebody that like specifically wouldn't mind. And like you were signed off on the guest list to see those photos. Also, I'm a girl. Yeah. I feel like if I sent Sparkalizes. sexy pick and then like he was with his best girlfriend who kind of like played a hand and us like getting

together. I'd be like you can show her. Okay so she's on the guest list. That's so funny. You all have a list of like who can see the news. It feels like unfair when somebody's showing a group of their guy friends a photo of you. It feels like really disrespectful. I don't want it's not for me. And I don't care if you're like bragging to your friends about what I look like. I just it's not really, it's not for me. It communicates to everybody else that you don't respect me. Yeah. And I mean, we've talked to this before on the podcast, but while we're here with this nude conversation, until you really, really trust somebody. And even then, I mean, just live as if someone could see these one day, you know? I don't think that anyone really has photos of me or videos of me. I don't really do that

that, like, would ruin my life if they got out, you know? But also, like, I understand. I understand you, like, are with somebody, especially if you're long distance or not even, and you want to send them sexy videos and picks and stuff like that. So I just don't have any judge. surrounding it, but I'm just like, especially until you really trust someone, like, don't let that get out there in the world. Yeah, I really do feel for people that have, like, been through experiences like that. Totally. I personally, like, listen, you and I own a sex toy company. We talk about sex very openly on our show. It wouldn't ruin my life if there was videos like this out there. I'd be like, I don't know. What are you going to do? I don't care. But like, I guess most people

would. And there's nobody I've ever sent it to you that I didn't trust, but the betrayal would still be, like, unimaginable. Like, it's not that I care of anybody sees me naked. I show my tits at every show. Yeah. But like, and somebody betrayed me like that. Yeah, I wouldn't like it. Totally. Nobody, to my knowledge, has really, really graphic photos of me.

Unless they screen recorded me. Mm-hmm. Oh, yeah, yeah. Anyway, be safe out there. Yeah. Check your contacts. That's so crazy. Check who you're air dropping to.

Just, you know? Check your Instagram story every 30 seconds to see you. Every 30 seconds. You know that when I get done masturbating to porn, I make sure that I didn't post anything. I know. Just get all crazy on my phone. Okay. Well, I hope you guys enjoyed this lighter topic. And thank you for all your submissions of course and sharing your stories with us as always. And we hope to see you at all of our upcoming

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