Global News Podcast - The Happy Pod: Filling the empty chair left by my best friend

Episode Date: April 18, 2026

We meet the man helping to tackle loneliness by offering strangers somewhere to sit and chat. Dean Perryman started the Empty Chairs project, honouring the memory of his best friend. After he posted the concept online, it has been replicated around the world. Also: How technology has allowed a dancer with a muscle-wasting disease to see herself performing on stage again. A headset allowed Breanna Olson to control a digital avatar with her brainwaves in real time. Plus, we meet the 95-year-old swimmer still breaking records and showing no signs of slowing down. Brazil gets its own tartan. And we introduce you to Marcus, the black labrador too friendly to be a guide dog, but who's found his calling supporting cancer patients receiving chemotherapy. Our weekly collection of inspiring, uplifting and happy news from around the world.Presenter: Holly Gibbs. Music composed by Iona HampsonPhoto: Dean Perryman hosting an Empty Chairs event in his distinctive orange hoodie. Credit: @EmptyChairsUK

This is The Happy Pod from the BBC World Service. I'm Holly Gibbs, and in this edition, the man on a mission to fill empty chairs. The thing that I couldn't wrap my head around was this idea of the empty chair, where he would have always sat. So I was like, what can I do to kind of have an impact on that? And I was like, well, I'm not good at many things, but I'm okay at chatting and I'm good at drinking beer.

So let's go to the pub. Let's just see if there's anyone there that wants to chat. We meet Dean, who created the campaign in memory of his best friend. Also on this podcast, the cutting-edge technology helping one dancer be on stage again. It was magical and exhilarating. It's a new way of expression to be able to move in a new way. The 95-year-old swimmer still breaking records. Plus, why Brazil now has its own version.

of a classic Scottish tartan. And this stillness, this calmness, it's so incredibly powerful. That's where the magic starts. That's where the cancer recovery starts, the healing physically and emotionally. Meet Marcus, the Labrador too lazy to be a guide dog, now helping people in his own special way. We start with a man who is turning his grief into a campaign

to help others feel less alone. Dean Perryman started empty chairs after his friend Rob took his own life. The concept is simple. Dean will go to a pub and sit with empty chairs around him and people can join him if they would like some company. This is me on day one of empty chairs, on what would have been Rob's 30th birthday. Fourteen incredible people across the country wore orange and hosted their own empty chairs.

They showed up in their local pubs to create space for people in their community who might have needed it. Across the UK, we filled over 100 empty chairs. Day 19 of trying to fill empty chairs in pubs to fight loneliness. I've been showing up to pubs alone for just over a month now, leaving empty chairs at a table and seeing who pulls one up. Dean started empty chairs here in the UK, but the campaign has now gone global, with people hosting their own events in places such as Norway, Australia and the United States.

I spoke to Dean and Bel-N-Luna Sanz, who set up empty chairs in Belgium, and just a warning, our conversation includes details some people might find distressing. In November of last year, I lost my best friend Rob to suicide. And almost immediately after that, I just, I really struggled with the guilt and the grief that came alongside that. Rob was my best friend and I had no idea how sad he was. So I was just overwhelmed by all of that.

And I felt compelled to do something. I didn't know what it was. I was like, I have to do something. The thing that I couldn't wrap my head around was this idea of the empty chair where, like, he would have always sat. So I was, what can I do to kind of have an impact on that? And I was like, well, I'm not good at many things, but I'm okay at chatting and I'm good at drinking beer. So let's go to the pub. And let's just see if there's anyone there that wants to chat.

And I started doing that every day in December. And yeah, it's kind of spiraled into what empty chairs is now. I wear a really garish orange hoodie every time I go out. And thankfully, not many people wear this. So it's kind of worked as a signposting signal for people. Have you had a memorable interaction with somebody that has come and sat next you in the empty chair? I think my favourite story so far is I didn't really have a plan when I started doing this. And I think if I'd spent time to kind of figure out what it was I was trying to do, I'd never would have done it.

But as I started doing it, I was like, it would be amazing to build something that Rob might have actually engaged with in a positive way. And after about, it might have been the third weekend to doing it. I had a man in his 40s come. and he came for the first time and he saw it purely as like a way to meet people and like a comfortable environment just to have a beer and a chat and that was kind of it and then he came back a second and a third time and each of those times he kind of opened up a little bit more about the actual reason as to why he wanted to come and I saw him at the back end of last year and he was like now I've opened up at empty chairs I'm in a position now where I can seek professional help and I thought that was really really inspiring because

for me, it was just like, that's what I would have hoped Rob would have done. He isn't someone who would have ever engaged with anything professional in that light, because it's just not what he would have, it's just not him. But he would have gone to the pub and chatted to a stranger and hopefully developed the confidence to talk about how he was doing. So that for me was amazing. Gosh, how do you feel knowing that you've had such a positive impact on somebody's mental health? I really struggle to kind of talk about how this has impacted me. I still find myself kind of like, I don't know, just forgetting, but he's not here. So I really have almost like been naive, almost to the fact of like what empty chairless has become and how many people

it has helped. And for me, empty chairs has been incredible because I've been able to process that in a way that I never would have done before. Before Rob passed, I was not a talker. I was not someone that would be on the front minds banging the drum for men talking about mental health. I don't know what I would have done without empty chairs because one, it kind of forced me to talk and it also kind of Just expose me to other people around. I mean, how helpful people are. If you give them an opportunity, strangers tend to be quite incredible.

So that's been really lovely for me to experience. Well, now it's gone global. We've got Bellin here with us. She's Bolivian, but runs empty chairs in Belgium. Belin, what made you want to do that? I watched the whole story in TikTok, and it was really hardwarming because for me it was a way of how he'd turn his

grave into something that makes everyone feel so much, so much better about the way they do community. And at the time, I was quite a lot struggling to find that community, especially in Brussels, where we have so many events and so many people coming and going and seeing that really spoke to me. I am very community-oriented and that's something that is quite hard to build when you are a migrant. And has it gone well in Brussels? I think it has gone well. I just go to a bar and because it is international, there is not this symbolic part of the orange hoodie. I still wear my orange sweater, which is, I'm not very much of a fan of. It has done wonders. I'm, I was very surprised that people actually sat down and

talked to me on the first night. Dean, how does it feel knowing that people all around the world? because it's not just Berlin in Belgium, but it's also, I've seen Canada, the United States. Like, how does that feel knowing that your campaign that you set up for your friend Rob has gone completely global? It's just surreal. Like, it's honestly insane. I think it's more of a shock to me because I have no idea what I'm doing. The first video I ever put on mine was day one of me going to the pub. And I had no expectation that anything would have happened. I sent myself the goal in December to just, I'm going to. going to do this every day. And if I can meet two people in the month of December and maybe give them a space that Rob didn't have, then I'd feel as I did something positive. So to see that it's taken off

in this way, it's just it hasn't sunk in. And I don't think it will. But I've been so inspired by everyone that's gone out and done it. And Dean, what's the feedback been from social media? A number of consequences that I did really have think about is so many people are taking solace just from watching the videos, which is something I never really understood. Like just seeing people out there in the world doing this thing is just giving comfort to so many. It's amazing to see that so many people are finding something from it. What would you say to somebody listening

who feels too scared to come and sit next to you in the pub at an empty chairs event? I mean, I would say that's totally understandable. I think the one thing that I want everyone to kind of understand is that like this isn't an easy thing to do. it takes courage to put on the orange hoodie and it takes courage to go and sit with a stranger. Just from my own experience, the one thing I would really want to stress is that I've hosted countless times now. And there have been days where I've just not wanted to do it.

But every single time I've left an empty chair, I've felt so much better for going. And it's the same situation for me every time, right? I never know who's going to come. I never know what topics are going to come up. I never know that I'm going to have the right thing to say. But not once have I left regretting having done it. If you do something simple for others, it's honestly the greatest thing you could ever do. And I'm confident that if you put yourself out there, you'll have a good time.

Dean Perryman and Bel-N Luna Sands. If you are suffering distress or despair and need support, you can speak to a health professional or an organisation that offers support. Details of help available in many countries can be found at befrienders worldwide. www.bfrienders.org. Next to a remarkable story of human determination and cutting-edge technology. Two and a half years ago, an American dancer Brianna Olson found out she had ALS. It's a form of motor neurone disease which progressively weakens muscles and has no known cure.

But now, Brianna has been able to see herself dancing on stage again, controlling an avatar with her brainwaves in real time. Nayuki Tanaka from the Japanese technology firm Dentsu Lab led the project. Talking with ALS people, I learned from the final stage of ALS, totally locked in state. In this stage, the person can no longer communicate. So I felt that this is a profound issue. There are many brainwave technology in the research all of the world, but most of them are very expensive.

and they require surgery. So I think this is not accessible for everyone. So this is exactly why we start this project. The performance at a theatre in Amsterdam saw Brianna on stage in her wheelchair, while her avatar followed the dance moves she imagined. She spoke to my colleague Mark Lobel about how it felt. It was magical and exhilarating to watch her move.

I really feel that this technology is unique and definitely has a place for those with disabilities. Would you say this was a case of technology giving you your voice back? Absolutely. It's a new way of expression to be able to move and. a new way and a different way. What has this experience taught you about ALS? The mind is very, very powerful. You really achieved something incredibly special.

What's your message to other people with ALS? I really hope that they feel a little bit of, hope and joy. I hope that they feel their own inner strength and even the days that they feel like they're doing nothing. I hope that they feel that they're doing amazing things, even just making it through one more day with ALS. That's the dancer Brianna Olson. Pace yourself and enjoy spending time with friends. That's the golden advice from a 95-year-old swimming champion.

Jane Asher has broken five age group world records for swimming. She can add that to her collection of 100 Masters World Records. Originally born in Zambia, her swimming career has taken her across the world to the US, Australia and Europe, earning her a place in the International Swimming Hall of Fame. And she's showing no signs of slowing down, as our reporter Gem O'Reilly has been finding out. She's been nicknamed Super Grant, but many would say she's got more strokes to her than that. She's won more than 20 gold medals, is in the International Swimming Hall of Fame, has a British Empire medal, all for her dedication to swimming.

It just makes you feel well, makes you healthy. And after you've had a swim, you get out, you just feel, oh, I can go anywhere. My mother was English, and her mother taught her to swim in the sea. It's sort of part of the family history. Despite recently celebrating her 95th birthday, she's still working towards her next competition. and another potential world record in Budapest. And her skills are very much still going strong. I'm watching what the others are doing

because I never go too fast. Pacing is the most important, especially in these long swims. People watch and they can tell me that's so helpful because it's friends that makes the whole thing work. Originally born in Zambia, Jane's swimming journey has followed her all over the world. Indianapolis, New Zealand, Christ.

church, Perth in Australia, and Italy twice, Paris, oh, Spain, of course. She broke her first master's record, which is for swimmers over 25, in 1986, which grew to 100 records by the time she was 80 years old. And she's got many more targets to go. But she says it's all down to the people she's been supported by along the way. What do your children think? How proud is your family? Well, I didn't realise that they were proud. I'm pleased. I feel grateful.

It's just I'm so lucky. I've had the right parents. I've had the opportunities. I've got the friends who help. That's what now, that's absolutely crucial. It's friends that make the whole thing. That's what life's about, isn't it? Gem O'Reilly reporting.

Coming up on the Happy Pod. I was really semi-unconscious at that point. And I just heard a voice and we are so glad to see you. And I was like, oh, I think I'm more glad to see you. A woman who almost died at sea returns to thank the lifeboat crew who saved her. You're listening to The Happy Pod. Tartan is something that people in Scotland will instantly recognise. It's a traditional cloth with a pattern of interlocking stripes.

But now Brazil, a country more than 9,000 kilometres away, has just got its first official tartan. Spirit of Brazil was designed by six-year-old Indy Mingis as part of a competition to mark the two countries' meeting in this year's Football World Cup and celebrates the Scotsman who introduced the game to Brazil in the late 19th century. Fernando Dal Piaz from the Brazilian consulate in Edinburgh

was on the judging panel and spoke to my colleague Leila Nathu. So it has the Brazil colours. It's predominantly green, with dark blue, blue, yellow, and it has a very thin red line representing the school that participated in the competition. I mean, it is very vibrant and it is recognizably Brazilian in some ways. Why did you think that Brazil needed its own tartan? So we are only three years old, the consulate here in Edinburgh.

I think it was important to us to deepen our connection to Scotland. And when we arrived, every place we went, people asked, ah, do you have a tartan? And we didn't. We looked into the Scottish National Register of Tortons. We couldn't find a tartan representing Brazil. So we thought it was important to have one. And now we can use it in official functions.

The Brazilians can use it. It's a tartan for everybody, really. And you were one of the judges in this competition. How did you assess all the entries? So we had the students from primary seven. during a previous selections. So they brought to us five designs. And we thought that Indies design was the most Brazilian one of them.

She chose beautiful colors. So that's how we decided to go with hers. And coincidentally, she has a lovely connection herself, doesn't she, to Brazil? Yes. So that's such a coincidence because we didn't know that beforehand, obviously. but her family, her grandmother, did the research on the family lineage, and they found out that she has a connection to Charles Miller, who is credited to have introduced football to Brazil.

That's an incredible, incredible connection, and so lovely for her that she has had the opportunity now to design this material. How is it going to be used? So the first event we have is the Chart and Day Parade here in Edinburgh. I think it's on the 10th of May, but it's going to be used in any of the first. official event. We have made ties, we have made kiltz and trues. And also, I think it's going to be

worn by Brazilians in the World Cup, you know, that Brazil and Scotland are playing together. Well, I was going to ask if the football team were going to get a sample of it. We hope to send them some. I don't know if they're going to be able to wear it, but definitely, yes. Well, it's all very collaborative now, though, isn't it? But when it comes to the game, it's going to be the competition between Brazil and Scotland will resume. Yes. And we are so happy that we're playing. against Scotland because Brazil has played against Scotland so many times in World Cups. And yes, we're going to be compacted us, but I think it's going to be a great party anyway.

Fernando Dal Piaz, and staying in Scotland, a mother of four who nearly died after being swept out to sea, has been reunited with the lifeboat crew who saved her. Mandy Galloway was paddleboarding on the West Coast on a sunny summer's day three years ago when she got into difficulty. Graham Ogston takes up the story. A desperate search for a paddleboarder swept out to sea. We spotted the paddle board. We all was instant relief,

but also we're still worried because we didn't know if Mandy was attached to the paddleboard. Hypothermic and clinging to her paddle board after being swept out to see Mandy Galloway was minutes from dying. My grip was going. I could now hold on and I was like, okay then well

if you're going to let me die we're just going to die then Amanda it's really good to see you again now almost three years later Mandy's been reunited for the first time with the crew from Anstriller who saved her life I was so glad to see everybody it's really good to see you again

I feel so special to have made the crew that saved me I am obviously I kind of remember what any of them looked like but their voices are very familiar now that I've make them. Lifeboat crew member Scott Brown. It was a lovely, really nice to meet Mandy again. But it's something that doesn't happen often. A lot of rescues, we'll maybe never see the person again. Mandy was paddleboarding when the wind picked up and blew her miles out to sea. I was panicking when I was

under the water. I was panicking then. It kind of went to a surreal calm. I was talking to my Auntie and Uncle we are no longer here. And I think that kept my brain going. As the minutes passed, Mandy started to lose hope. I was really semi-unconscious at that point. And I just heard a voice saying, we are so glad to see you. And I was like, oh, I think I'm more glad to see you.

And that was when I knew they were there. She was very pale, very cold, shivering. Lifeboat crew member, Lou, McNaught. Barely clinging onto the board. It was quite difficult to get into the boat because she couldn't use our legs at all. Mandy was lucky, but admits she wasn't properly dressed for the conditions. I had a swimming costume on and a t-shirt and a pair of crooks.

So that's not appropriate just in case. I mean, these things do happen. And even checking an app, it can still happen. But if you've got proper life saving gear on, you've got more of a chance. Mandy made a full recovery, but after her ordeal has never returned to the water. Obviously, it's never left me. That was quite a horrific, traumatic experience because I was only a couple of minutes for dying. So the emotions are still quite raw, even though it was a wee while ago.

Mandy Galloway ending that report by Graham Ogston. We end in Australia with a dog that's found his true purpose. Six-year-old Marcus was deemed too lazy to be a guide dog and was more interested in affection, companionship and treats. But the Black Labrador has found his calling as a therapy dog helping people going through chemotherapy. Sam O'Keefe from the charity Guide Dogs New South Wales says he didn't have the necessary drive to work hard.

Instead of finding satisfaction in reaching targets, he preferred to look towards his handler and like to check in. Andy was very affectionate. He loved nothing more than sitting close by you and just receive all the affection you could give him. Marcus has a calm and friendly personality. He's happy when he's greeting people, but he quickly settles into a relaxed state

where he can offer a comforting presence when needed. He's reliable and intuitive, and he just seems to know when people need his support. Marcus is from a long line of dogs selectively bred to become a guide or therapy dog. He was carefully selected for his role to ensure that he suited the client, and their knees, but to also ensure that the role suited him and that he would be happy going

to work each day. Marcus has an innate ability to seek out people in distress and allow them to take comfort in his presence, makes him much more than just a cute dog. The charity matched Marcus with Dr. Lena Pugliano. She's an oncologist who founded the Cancer Care and Rehabilitation Center Cancer Fit. She says Marcus's personality makes him a perfect therapy dog. He can definitely be a little bit on the sleepy side, but actually he's always present. He's always in the moment. It's actually quite difficult to put into words because what he does is really not dramatic. He's very subtle. He's very quiet in how he approaches things. And so what you see is often someone is coming in. They're kind of holding everything just together. The shoulders are tight. The voice.

is very controlled and he obviously gets a sense of that and just kind of, you know, casually walks over to them, sits beside them or sits under the desk. There's no fuss. And all of a sudden you just notice that the room changes. It softens. It slows. You can hear in their breathing that there's this real sort of proper exhale. And Dr. Lena has seen firsthand the impact Marcus has had on patients. There's lots of stories that come to mind, but there's one patient who I remember quite well. She hadn't really cried through all of her cancer treatment because often people are just in doing mode. They're just trying to get through all the different appointments.

And then Marcus just kind of came and sat next to her and she rested a hand on his head and she just burst into tears. And it wasn't because she was upset or scared. It was relief and it was really sort of an acknowledgement of everything that she'd been through with this cancer, this stillness, this calmness. It's so incredibly powerful. And, you know, that's where the magic starts. That's where the cancer recovery starts, the healing physically and emotionally. When patients talk, they talk about things very simplistically. I'll hear things like, I felt like myself again just for a moment, or that was the first time I've relaxed since my diagnosis.

One of my faves is I came for the exercise, but I stayed for Marcus in the community. And it shows you how much people are carrying emotionally, physically, psychologically, a long time after treatment ends. That's the part that the world around them often doesn't see or fully understand. and it's often the part that cancer treatment doesn't quite reach. And so these really small, gentle moments that Marcus creates allow people to start to rehabilitate after a diagnosis. Dr Lena Pugliano. And that's all from the Happy Pod for now.

If you have a story to share or want to comment on anything in this episode, we'd love to hear from you. As ever, the address is Global Podcast at BBC.com. co. UK. This edition was produced by Rachel Bulkley. The editor is Karen Martin. I'm Holly Gibbs. Until next time, goodbye.