Going West: True Crime - Murder in the Hamptons // 450
Episode Date: November 1, 2024In October of 2001, a 52-year-old man was found bludgeoned to death in his East Hampton home after missing a work meeting in the city. Just days before finalizing their divorce, investigators were kee...n on questioning his wife, along with her suspicious electrician boyfriend. But were they involved, or was someone else out to get the powerful investment banker? This is the story of Ted Ammon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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What is going on true crime fans? I'm your host T and I'm your host Daphne and you're listening to going west
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Alright guys with that this is episode 450 of Going West so let's get into it In October of 2001, a 52-year-old man was found bludgeoned to death in his East Hampton
home after missing
a work meeting in the city.
Just days before finalizing their divorce, investigators were keen on questioning his
wife along with her suspicious electrician boyfriend.
But were they involved, or was someone else out to get the powerful investment banker? Robert Theodore Ammon, who went by Ted, was born in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania on August 30, 1949 as the second
child born to loving parents Betty Lee and Robert.
Ted's father Robert worked as a pension coordinator and his mother Betty was a homemaker.
By all accounts, the Ammon family led a traditional suburban all-American life.
Although Ted was born in Pennsylvania, when Ted was a tween,
the family moved to East Aurora, New York,
which is a quaint historic town just outside of Buffalo.
As a child, Ted took piano lessons
and really thrived on the keys.
But, I mean, he was like that
with pretty much everything he took up.
Like he could, he really could do it all.
According to the fascinating book on Ted's life
called Almost Paradise by Kieran Crowley, He really could do it all. According to the fascinating book on Ted's life called
Almost Paradise by Kieran Crowley,
Ted had an almost photographic memory.
He could learn any piece of music and memorize it with ease.
And his early passion for piano gave him a lifelong love
of jazz music.
Aside from musical talent, when Ted became a teenager,
he proved to be an amazing athlete
on his high school's football and swimming teams.
He was a handsome, popular guy at school who had a ton of friends and seemingly always
had a girlfriend on his arm.
Ted was intelligent and had dreams of one day accomplishing a successful career as a
businessman at a major corporation, and even as a teen, he aspired to live an upper middle-class life of his own someday. After high
school, Ted attended Bucknell University in Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, majoring in
economics. Now visually Bucknell is a classic East Coast-style campus, flocked
with lush trees that turn shades of yellow and red in autumn when this story
takes place, and Ted flourished at Bucknell and graduated from the esteemed university in 1971.
Upon graduating, Ted entered Bank of America's executive training program where he met a woman
named Randy Day. They turned into this total power couple, getting married in 1973 when Ted was 24 years old.
Shortly after their wedding, Randy took up a job in England, so the two relocated to
the UK.
And while in England, Ted set out on a mission to take the New York bar exam, and reportedly
the English bar as well, even without a law degree.
Remember, he majored in economics.
As most of us know, the bar is even difficult
for people who do have a law degree.
So the fact that he was going after it without one
shows you how smart this guy was.
Well, and it also just shows us how ambitious Ted really is.
Yeah, clearly he was a go-getter
and he was so insanely smart. So on his first try he passed the bar
Ted and Randy were proving their career successes across the pond
But they eventually moved back to the US and landed in New York City
But after nine years together Randy and Ted's marriage fizzled out and they agreed to get a divorce
years together, Randy and Ted's marriage fizzled out and they agreed to get a divorce. At this time, Ted began working for a law firm in New York and in the early 1980s, 35-year-old
Ted was recruited to work as an associate at Kohlberg, Kravis, Roberts & Co., also known
as KKR, which is a private global investment firm specializing in leveraged buyouts.
Ted's career at KKR was blossoming quickly and the hardworking associate turned
partner earned multi-millionaire status.
He worked at KKR from 1984 to 1992,
but shortly around the time that he started working at KKR,
he was looking to buy an apartment in New York's elite Upper East Side.
Thus, Ted got in touch with an estate agent, California-born Jenna Rosa Rand,
who is a very pivotal part of this story.
And I just want to give a little heads up, there is a decent amount of setup and backstory in this episode today,
but it's all very important to where the story goes.
And a lot of it is super interesting, because there's a lot of scandal,
there's a lot of success, there's a lot of hard work,
lots of relationships and affairs, there's a lot that we're gonna get into.
Yes, we are talking about love and money, my friends.
So the two arranged a meeting to view an apartment for Ted in his desired neighborhood.
And to Jenna Rose's dismay, Ted actually forgot that he was supposed to meet her
and was a no-show at this appointment.
So, Generosa called Ted after he missed his appointment,
and kinda went off on him regarding his absence.
Although her approach was aggressive,
Ted was almost intrigued by the approach of this unknown estate agent,
and he asked her out on a date.
Yeah, he kinda likes her feistiness.
Yeah, he's like, oh, she's a tough woman. Alright, sounds good.
So, when Ted and Generosa met, it was seemingly love at first sight.
They seemed to work really well together.
Ted was tall, standing at 6'4", with a full head of chocolate brown hair,
had a charming smile, and he had a muscular
build because he loved working out and eating a very clean and all-organic diet.
Generosa in her late 20s was a petite blonde blue-eyed bombshell, so this turned into
a hot and heavy romance.
They eventually moved into a townhouse in the Upper East Side, but Ted admittedly wasn't
ready to dive into a new marriage,
which really upset Generosa, and the couple decided to split up because of it.
Which I feel like is fair, he was married for nine years.
Yeah, yeah.
You know, that's very common to not want to jump back into another marriage.
Exactly. But, seven months after their initial split, they ran into each other at a New York art gallery,
and rekindled their relationship.
Now, Generosa admittedly did not want to take Ted back unless he was ready to commit and give her
an engagement ring. So Ted proposed. After a four-month engagement in February of 1986,
the couple hosted an elaborate 80s fairy tale wedding. Now before we dive into their life together, let's take a step back and get to know Ted
Ammons second wife a bit, because it is important to this story as Daphne mentioned.
Generosa Rand was born on March 22, 1956 in Long Beach, California, which is an urban
oceanfront city just south of Los Angeles, though we will
add that some reports state she was born in nearby Laguna Beach.
Generose's mom Marie, who also went by Babe, we're gonna call her Babe, everybody else
did, who had three children from previous relationships, was living in Long Beach in
the early 1950s and reportedly would go out drinking and dancing, often leaving her kids unattended with a relative
when she did so.
At this point still before Janerosa was born, Babe's two eldest children were no longer
living with her, but her third-born Dolly was.
So on one summer night in 1955, Babe dropped three-year-old Dolly off at her brother's
house and hit the town.
It was this night that Babe met a uniformed Italian sailor named Generoso, and their time
together could best be described as a week-long one-night stand.
When the passionate fling came to a close, Babe watched her Italian lover depart from
the Long Beach port, blew him a kiss goodbye, and a month later, she
discovered she was pregnant.
Babe sent letters to Genoroso writing him about the imminent arrival of their love child,
but sadly she never heard from him again.
So when their baby girl was born, Babe named her after the man who had impregnated her,
hence her name, Genosa, after Generoso.
At the time of this short affair,
Babe was still married,
and although she was estranged from her husband,
to avoid any issues,
she did give Generosa her current husband's last name,
which was Rand.
Growing up, Generosa was overall a happy kid
and grew very close with her sister Dolly.
The sisters leaned on each other in the early days and stuck together while their mom indulged
in her party lifestyle.
When the girls were young, they moved with Babe to their uncle's house in Oceanside,
California, which is a couple hours drive south from where they were living in Long
Beach.
Although Babe did love her kids, her social life and alcohol use proved to be a main priority.
Now, Babe and her youngest daughters were living with family, and it was at this time that 8-year-old Generosa was sexually abused by an unnamed adult male in her life.
There were several adults coming in and out of the house regularly, so it's difficult to speculate who committed this horrible act, but it's sufficient to say that, of course, the abuse
deeply affected her.
To make family matters worse, when Generosa was 10, her mom, Babe, was diagnosed with
cancer.
The disease had spread all over her body, and not long after, Babe died after a short battle with
cancer and her two young daughters were forced to live in various different households for
the rest of their youth.
And as if the loss of her mother wasn't bad enough and everything else that she had gone
through, when Generosa was 17, her beloved sister Dolly was killed in a hit-and-run accident.
After years of foster homes, Generosa enrolled at the University of California Irvine,
and once she graduated in 1981, she decided that the fast-paced lifestyle of New York was what she
wanted most. So she made the move on her own and began working as an apartment agent, which is often considered
an entry-level job in the real estate world, but nonetheless, she was working and providing
for herself, and she was working towards this bigger goal.
After many misfortunes, abandonment, and abuse in her young life, Generosa decided that she
would take life by the reins and obtain full control of her circumstances, and she was really thriving in New York.
So by the time Generosa married Ted Ammon in 1986, the 30-year-old was living the kind
of life that she always dreamed of.
She was married to a handsome, wealthy New York elite, and while she was working in real
estate when she met Ted, her passion was making art.
So, at this point, reports state that Generosa stopped working in real estate to focus on her artistic passions, because being married to Ted meant that she could do that.
The couple was living on 5th Avenue for a while, and moved somewhat frequently to new townhouses
in the city. As they moved around, Generosa decided to kind of combine
her interest of real estate and art by decorating the interiors of their homes. And she actually
really was good at decorating, and aside from her at-home interior ventures, Generosa still
continued her art projects. Using unique materials, she created sculptures that covered the walls of their homes.
But unfortunately for Generosa, no galleries ever acquired her creations.
But Ted still purchased her a loft in Soho where she could work on these projects.
I mean, Generosa really wanted to be prevalent in this New York art scene,
and would mingle with local artists at gallery events and art exhibits around town because the Ammons were quite social and often hosted dinner parties at home as
well, but it seems that they lacked a solid and consistent friend group.
Although Generosa was living the high life in New York City, her strong personality would
often manifest into what many described as childish outbursts.
While Ted's was casual and laid back in comparison, and other couple friends would
notice that Generosa would shun people from her life sometimes without any explanation
at all.
While Ted loved his wife and clearly had a soft spot for her good side, he admitted to
friends that he was constantly trying to avoid her emotional blowups.
And in an attempt to escape the chaos of Manhattan, the couple would take weekend trips to the
picturesque terrain of upstate New York, where Generosa took up horseback riding.
And clearly enjoying their stints outside of the city, in 1990, the couple purchased
a home on Middle Lane in the upscale town of East Hampton.
Now the Hamptons are an elite grouping of small towns, known to be occupied by the rich
and famous.
And nowadays, countless celebrities, wealthy business magnates, and even politicians alike
reside in the Hamptons, and it's a popular safe haven where New York City dwellers own
vacation homes. The Ammons East Hampton home was at the time a $2.7 million shingled estate on a sprawling
property which is currently actually worth around $10 million.
And this new home was the source of Generosa's latest project.
She jumped right into a massive home renovation. Her meticulous nature and obsession with perfection became as clear as ever with
the Hamptons house.
The house was gutted and Generosa envisioned a redesign from the ground up.
The Ammons hired a large crew to get the renovation underway,
but many accounts from workers portrayed Generosa in an extremely demanding light. And here's a good example of that. She once hired a
team to plant 600 tulips in the yard and once they were planted she got on her
hands and knees and angrily ripped them from the ground, claiming that they were
not the ideal color in the morning light. Okay, um, that's a little, a little nutty.
Well, she also took full responsibility for the entire home project
and even discredited the architect who had labored on the job.
Like, one day she called him to demand that he stop taking credit for working on the house.
While Generosa was occupied with the renovation and the Hamptons, Ted was still partner at
KKR and the early 1990s provided the Ammon family with very exciting changes.
While Ted was having major financial successes at KKR, his life on Wall Street was proving
to dissatisfy him and in 1992, to much surprise, Ted left
the company.
Prior to this, Ted really wanted a child, and although Generosa wasn't known to be super
maternal, they had still been trying to conceive.
Which was honestly a big challenge for them, because when she originally did become pregnant,
unfortunately the pregnancy became life-threatening and she was left with
no option but to terminate the pregnancy. After many bouts of IVF proved to be unsuccessful,
Ted and Jenarosa turned to adoption. And they were thrilled when two-year-old twins
Gregory and Alexa from Ukraine entered their family. And Ted really loved being a dad.
He was known as a doting father that would often miss work meetings to take the kids
to things like baseball games.
In 1995, Ted started his own company called Big Flower Press, which became a leader in
the printing of advertising inserts for newspapers.
Big Flower Press, which was later changed to Vertis Holdings, Inc. became majorly successful
and eventually grossed $2 billion in annual revenue.
Ted's company thrived for several years and by the late 90s his business was booming.
So he had a lot on his plate work-wise and that wasn't the only reason that this was
happening but his relationship with generosa
Was just not going in a good direction. He was becoming very unhappy with her
They did try marriage counseling and in 1999 as kind of a last-ditch effort the family relocated to Surrey, England
So this is Ted's second time moving to the UK
Well, they mentioned to loved ones that this fresh start in the English countryside was just to benefit the kids
But it was clear to friends and family that it was a final attempt to save their marriage
They kept the Hamptons estate but sold their properties in New York City and moved into the new
22-bedroom manor house in Surrey, which of course
Generosa remodeled.
When the family moved to England,
Ted had to remain in New York City part-time
since he was trying to sell his company,
but he would often fly home to Surrey on the weekends.
Which sounds absolutely exhausting.
Yeah, I mean, this guy is just going back and forth.
But because he was often gone,
one day in Surrey, Generosa was snooping through
Ted's desk and found out that he had recently contacted a divorce lawyer in London. So she
confronted her husband about this, and he actually admitted to it, but told her that
he wasn't planning on taking action in a divorce. That he was just kinda looking. But in typical
Generosa fashion, she decided that she was going to take things into her
own hands.
So she actually contacted her own divorce attorney and learned that divorcing Ted in
New York opposed to England would be much more beneficial in terms of finances and custody.
So after about a year in England, she took the kid's state side and preemptively filed
for divorce.
Now, Ted was kinda hesitant to agree to this divorce because he realized that it would likely affect him seeing his kids,
which really, really mattered to him. You know, Ted was just this great guy and a great dad, and he absolutely loved his kids.
While separated, Ted bought Generosa and the kids a townhouse on the Upper East Side, and
another home means, you guessed it, another renovation from Generosa.
During the construction of the new Manhattan home, Generosa and the twins were staying
at the Stanhope Hotel, and her suite alone cost over $1,500 per night.
And this was back in 2000, so as you guys guys can imagine it's almost twice that now due to inflation
And Ted had to pay for that
Exactly well the estrangement conjured another level of desperation and generosity and she began to believe that Ted was cheating
So she hired a private investigator to spy on him and guess what her? Her suspicions were proved right, because Ted was having an affair with a successful,
attractive banker named Laurie Finkel.
Laurie, who had children from a different relationship, became pregnant during the affair
with Ted, and it was speculated that the love child belonged to Ted, which he denied.
So feeling furious and scorned,
Generosa channeled her anger into the townhouse renovation.
And while staffing the project,
she was introduced to an electrician for the job.
This is when she met Daniel Pelosi.
Now, Danny can hardly be called an electrician,
considering he was not licensed to do the job,
but with three kids of his own,
he was going through a divorce when he met Generosa,
and he needed the money.
Danny was a high school dropout,
had several DUIs under his belt,
and by all accounts, severely abused alcohol.
Danny was tall with a greasy comb over,
and his demeanor and personality replicated a character
straight out of Goodfellas, to give you guys a visual.
Yeah, he was just kind of a wise guy.
Yeah, and he and Generosa started up an affair of their own, and he moved into the Stanhope
Hotel with her.
Again, where she and her kids were staying during the townhouse renovations.
During their stay at the Stanhope, they would rack up daily breakfast charges of $500, pay
the bellman $50 each time the dog needed to be walked, and these fees, along with other
massive expenses spent at the Stanhope, totaled upwards of $70,000 a month.
All on Ted's dime.
I mean, what are they eating at breakfast?
It's gonna cost them five hundred fucking dollars. I know I love a hotel breakfast with day
I mean I do too, but five hundred dollars. That's a lot
So I mean it's clear that her spending was outlandish which aside from the hotel stay by the way included
$50,000 annually for a bodyguard
$50,000 for a housekeeper $50,000 annually for a bodyguard, $50,000 for a housekeeper,
$50,000 for a chef,
$50,000 for a driver,
$30,000 for a gardener,
$100,000 for an assistant,
and $60,000 in residential maintenance.
And that didn't even include the mansion
that they still owned back in England.
Remember, the 22-bedroom manor.
While cycling through divorce lawyers, Generosa was trying to see how she could get the most
money out of her impending divorce.
During this time, Ted was still able to see the kids and would often pick them up from
the stand hope, which would send Generosa into a rage each and every time.
It kind of seemed like she was using their young children as pawns and eventually denied Ted
from seeing the kids at all, while attempting to completely alienate them from their father
who loved them.
And by August of 2001, Ted was sick of it.
He hated knowing his kids were in the company of Generose's new boyfriend, and he knew that
his estranged wife was becoming more and more unhinged.
So Ted decided to cut off Generosa's allowance,
which forced her, Danny, and the kids to leave the Stanhope.
Now with this cutoff, the divorce battle was in full swing,
and between custody agreements and working through financials,
it was a highly stressful time for everybody involved.
However, the circulating drama of this high-profile New York divorce came to a screeching halt
on September 11, 2001, and of course, you guys know exactly why.
The city that they called home for so many years was under attack, and this affected
Ted deeply.
Despite the horror of the events in New York City, Ted was reportedly happier than ever.
With the finalization of his divorce looming, Ted was proposing business deals, and had
even gotten heavily involved with philanthropy work.
He was hoping that once the divorce was finalized, he would be able to live a peaceful life again, see his children regularly, and begin healing as a family.
A couple of weeks into October 2001, the terms of the divorce were settled,
and the last thing to do was sign the papers.
According to reports, Generosa was set to receive 40 million dollars,
which was half of Ted's 80 million dollar
fortune.
I mean, god damn.
Yeah.
Especially just because, you know, she is just seemingly taking and taking and taking
and has been for so many years and he's working his ass off over there being a good guy, and
she just wants as much as she can get.
Well, in addition to the 40 million dollar settlement, per the agreement, Generosa would also be
entitled to the Upper East Side Townhouse.
While still wealthy, Ted had just lost a large sum of money entangled with bad investments,
which had lowered his net worth to the $80 million that I just explained.
And believe it or not, Generosa was displeased with the $40 million settlement amount, and demanded that
she receive the manor in England as well, which was set to be sold.
I mean, not surprising, but so gross.
So by now, Ted had sold Big Flower Press and was the founder and chairman of Chancery Lane
Capital LLC, which was a private equity investment firm.
On Friday, October 19th, so a handful of days after the divorce documents were completed and
ready to be signed, Ted decided to take a little solo cruise by himself in his Porsche to the
Hamptons' house on Middle Lane for the weekend. As Ted made his way from Manhattan to the edge
of Long Island, unbeknownst to him, this would be his final journey along
this route. On the morning of Monday, October 22, 2001, Ted's business partner Mark Engelson realized
that Ted hadn't showed up to a scheduled meeting.
While this wasn't completely out of character for Ted,
later in the day, Mark learned that Ted failed
to make after-school arrangements for his twins,
Gregory and Alexa.
I mean, like we said, Ted would maybe sometimes
here and there miss a meeting
because he was doing something with his kids,
but he also didn't just like fuck off meetings all the time.
You know, this was only once in a while. Yeah, absolutely. But when it came to his twins, but he also didn't just like fuck off meetings all the time. You know, this was this was only once in a while.
Yeah, absolutely. But when it came to his twins, I mean, they were, you know, his pride and joy.
So this kind of put a pit in Mark's stomach.
Yeah, because he's like, OK, this has happened before, but especially without warning,
without saying anything like what's going on, like where is Ted?
So Mark frantically called Ted's cell phone and the Hamptons house phone, but became
even more nervous when his calls went without answer. So Mark, along with Ted's personal
chauffeur Milton, jumped on a corporate helicopter from New York City and flew to East Hampton.
The two arrived in the Hamptons at about 5 p.m. and rushed to Ted's middle lane home.
Now the alarm was not set because multiple doors and windows were opened and when they entered the home
They noticed Ted's three beloved dogs were in the house, but they were seemingly hungry and disoriented
Meaning that they probably had not been fed in a couple days. Yeah, which is obviously very concerning.
What is going on here?
They're not seeing Ted.
They're just walking through the house calling Ted's name multiple times.
And as they made their way through the French double doors of the master bedroom, they came
upon a grisly scene. The men discovered a blood-soaked massacre in the bedroom,
and amongst it, Ted's nude body laid lifeless on his bed.
There were visible head wounds,
making it clear that Ted Ammon
had been violently bludgeoned to death.
So upon this horrific sight, Mark called 911.
And this was just a really strange scene to come upon because obviously Ted was
a powerful man. He knew a lot of people,
but it didn't make any sense to them why this would happen, how it happened,
who did it? They didn't know when it happened.
And it is important to note, even though Heath kind of touched on it earlier,
that Ted was sizable and brawny in stature.
So some also questioned how a man with his build
wasn't able to even slightly evade the attack.
However, it is believed that Ted was most likely attacked
in his sleep and marks on his neck were consistent
with a taser having been used to incapacitate him.
After the 911 call was made, detectives arrived to the East Hampton home and while it wasn't
apparent that a robbery had taken place, they tentatively concluded that Ted had died
from blunt force trauma to the head. Following the discovery of Ted's body, considering the
prominence of the victim and the rarity
of such a crime in the area, East Hampton was flooded by news on this story.
Regarding home security and cameras, obviously Ted made so much money, even though it was
the early 2000s, he would have been able to have a security system and cameras.
And he did.
That's the thing is he did.
There was a security system and cameras. And he did. That's the thing is he did. There was a security system.
And a few days after Ted's death, the employee from that security company who installed it
went to the home to show detectives where the system was located.
Now interestingly, the system was hidden behind a triangular shaped panel in a small area
upstairs.
Well, it had been.
You see, when the employee brought detectives
to the spot that it had previously been installed,
the system was gone.
There was nothing but hanging wires in its place,
proving that the equipment had been removed.
Prior to Ted's death, Danny and Generosa spied on Ted
via the cameras while he was in the home,
allegedly even when he was having sexual encounters.
Like, I don't know why they would do this.
It's such an invasion of privacy,
especially because like Generosa is still his wife.
They're in divorce proceedings.
Why is Danny privy to this footage?
Why is she, Generosa, even privy to it? Why are either of them having access to this?
Yeah, I mean, they are in the final days of this divorce. Like, all they have to do is
sign the papers and then they're not married anymore. So, you know, that definitely proves
your point. Like, what are they doing spying on him?
Right. So, the missing surveillance equipment was majorly suspicious because only a few people
were even aware of its existence at all.
Genarosa and Danny Pelosi being two of those people.
Well, let's kind of dive into Ted's last days alive
to understand his whereabouts
and try to figure out what happened to Ted
on that fateful October weekend.
As mentioned, he got to the Hamptons on Friday, October 19th.
The next day, Ted called his sister Sandy and said that he planned to take a beach stroll
with his three dogs and just kind of reflect on the chaos of the divorce drama that had
been absolutely plaguing him for a long time.
Ted made plans to see Laurie Finkel, who was the banker that he was
having an affair with when Generosa discovered that he was cheating, because
Lori, who had a lucrative career of her own, was still seeing Ted at this point.
Lori did admit that they dated throughout Ted's separation from his
wife and they consistently got together about twice a week and she also owned a
Hamptons home, so she was in the area.
Which makes sense, you know, generosity is with somebody else, they are getting a divorce, Ted
and Lori had a great relationship. Yeah, no problem there. Yeah, everything was good between them.
So on Saturday afternoon, Lori had gone over to Ted's at about 2 p.m. where the two were intimate.
After spending about an hour at Ted's home,
Lori left and went back to her place nearby. Then soon after leaving, Ted called
her on her cell phone and during their conversation mentioned that the yellow
flannel sheets on his bed were not comfortable and that he was going out to
buy some new sheets.
He kind of mentioned it like during their intimacy that day that he had gotten
too hot so it
was just kind of like, you know, they were dating, they talked to each other on the phone
a lot, this was just a casual little conversation, something he's mentioning.
Right, so at that point Ted headed into town and spent around $800 on a set of designer
bedding.
Now according to prosecutors, those sheets were bloody during his murder, but then removed
and discarded by the killer.
Between 7.30 and 8.00 pm that evening, Ted went to the Farmhouse Restaurant in East Hampton.
He sat alone at the bar, drank three glasses of Chardonnay, and had tuna with rice and
asparagus.
Yeah, it's the details guys. He stayed until about 930
p.m. and then a little before 10 p.m. Ted called Lori again who was out to
dinner at a different restaurant in town. Ted left a message on her cell phone
when she didn't answer stating that he was at Two Mile Hollow Beach which he
said may have been a gay beach. Ted explained that some of the guys at the beach scared him for whatever reason so he just decided to go home.
After dinner, Lori called Ted back but at that point he didn't answer her. When she
continued calling him the next day without an answer, she and an unnamed
male drove over to Ted's house to check on him. Now when they arrived, Lori claimed that she stayed in the car, but the unnamed male, who
Lori referred to as a friend, exited the car and walked up the driveway before heading
back to the vehicle with Lori.
The friend said that he didn't see anything odd, and mentioned that Ted's cars were in
the driveway, and just kind of assumed that Ted had gone for a walk with his dogs or something.
Of course, at this time, Lori and that friend had no idea that Ted was dead inside that house.
Because it was presumed that he was slain in his home sometime late on Saturday night, so the previous evening.
As the investigation was well underway in late October of 2001, Ted Ammon's funeral
service was held at Alice Tully Hall, the home of Jazz at Lincoln Center.
The service was attended by nearly a thousand supporters, including friend and former President
Bill Clinton.
Ted's children, Gregory and Alexa, were also, of course, in attendance, but Generosa was banned from attending.
And since the divorce was not technically finalized yet, and you remember it was about to be,
Generosa was entitled to everything.
Only a few months after Ted's death in January of 2002, Danny and Generosa got married at Queensboro Hall.
Yeah, that happened fast.
Yeah, I'd say.
And after their courthouse wedding,
they moved with the twins to the England mansion,
but after only a month, Danny had to return to New York
where he faced DWI charges and spent four months locked up.
Generosa had hired a British nanny named
Catherine Maine, who also served as a
manager of the Amman Surrey estate.
But once Danny's short sentence was completed,
Generosa, the kids and the nanny,
moved back to New York to be with Danny.
Danny and Generosa then purchased a $700,000
home in Center Meriches, which is a hamlet
on Long Island.
They were hardly getting settled in their new home when in May of 2002, Generosa was
diagnosed with advanced breast cancer.
Within just a few weeks of the diagnosis, in June of 2002, Dani and Generosa decided to separate
just six months after their wedding.
Because in the wake of her cancer diagnosis,
Dani had been spending her money frivolously,
going on major spending sprees.
And then over a year later on August 22nd, 2003, a little over a year after being diagnosed,
Generosa died from breast cancer at 47 years old.
Now in her will, Generosa had originally planned to leave a majority of her $35 million estate to Danny,
but then changed her mind when their marriage started going south prior to her death.
So Generosa actually cut Dani out of her will, leaving almost everything to her children,
plus a hefty $1 million to Catherine, the nanny.
At the time of Generosa's death, she hadn't said anything about knowing who killed her
late husband Ted.
And before her death, police had not publicly listed any potential suspects.
Still, almost two years later, even though it seemed like a pretty simple investigation.
Which brings us to March 24th, 2004, seven months after Generosa's death when, surprise
surprise, Danny Pelosi was
arrested for the murder of Ted Ammon.
Then in October of that year, his trial began.
Autopsy photos were shown in court, proving the intensity of the wounds that Ted suffered,
and just how personal this attack really seemed to be.
The autopsy determined that he received 30 blows to the head with a metal object,
which was determined to be the murder weapon.
Aside from the head trauma, Ted had fractured ribs, punctured lungs, and even fractured hands,
which would point to him possibly trying to defend himself during this attack.
which would point to him possibly trying to defend himself during this attack.
Most damning was the mark on his neck where his skin had been burned away by the stun gun.
Now, as we mentioned, this was most likely done to prevent Ted from fighting back despite his fractured hands.
The killer tried to incapacitate him slightly, and this is why Danny didn't have any defensive wounds. While
the stun gun and the murder weapon were never found, Danny admitted to owning a
different stun gun and turned it into investigators. Well also important to
mention Danny had another taser and his brother Jim later admitted to picking up
this taser from Danny and dropping it in a police precinct drop box that let you drop
weapons off no questions asked to be melted down, which feels insane to offer.
But the thing is, is that Jim was actually an NYPD officer, so that's why he had access
to this box.
And he claims that he didn't know that Danny had used it in a murderer and also
Didn't believe Danny was the killer saying quote my brother might be a fuck-up, but he's not a murderer
Yes, he is and he's a piece of shit
Well also Jim died at the age of 36 shortly after this from natural causes
So I I don't know how much evidence he was even privy to, but
he he was shocked and pissed off when he found out, you know, why Danny was asking him to
get rid of this taser when when he found out that, wait, are you are you connected in this
murder?
Yeah, I mean, I don't know why you would ask your brother to drop this weapon off at the
at the police station. Because he's trying to use his family to help him get away with the murder, and even his cop brother.
Well, yeah, yeah, exactly.
It's crazy.
I mean, I do know why. It just seems dumb.
Now, the surveillance system in Ted's home was brought into question as well.
You know, the one that was missing from the home when the murder happened.
one that was missing from the home when the murder happened. Well, the prosecutor revealed that Danny had access
to the system via a rapid eye computer program.
So the alarm was deactivated on October 20th, 2001,
which again was the day that Ted was killed.
So it was believed that Danny was the one to do this
in order to get into the house and kill Ted.
But what was Danny's alibi?
Well Danny's sister testified that on the night of the murder, he had driven from the
city to Long Island, which is where the Hamptons also are, to retrieve items from her house.
Danny said he and his friend Chris went out to get some beer early in the hours of Sunday,
October 21st, so after Ted's murder.
And Danny's niece testified that he returned home
between three to four a.m. that morning.
So I mean, that's hardly a solid alibi.
Yeah, it's like basically not an alibi at all.
Like he saw his sister on Long Island,
where the Hamptons also is,
then he went out for drinks a few hours later,
and then he returned at three to four a.m.
Yeah, there's a lot of time missing.
Absolutely.
Which is why despite these accounts, several people close to Danny testified against him
in his trial, including his own dad.
On the stand, his father recounted a conversation that they had the day after Ted's murder.
Of course, this is before Ted's body
had been found the day before.
Danny's father said that Danny approached him asking,
if someone wanted to get rid of something,
what could you do?
Which is really vague.
Like, what if I just came up to him and was like,
if I wanted to get rid of something, what could I do?
What do you mean?
What are we talking about?
Did you want to get rid of a piece of garbage? Did you want to get rid of some, what could I do? What do you mean? What are we talking about? Did you want to get a piece of garbage?
Did you want to get rid of some furniture?
You want to sell your car?
What are we talking about?
A dead body?
Like what?
Yeah, it's so vague.
And so he kind of hinted at getting rid of something that he wanted to be destroyed,
right?
So, by the way, his dad was not a cop like his brother, Jim.
He was a retired banker.
So why he asked him this? You know,
maybe he was just looking for general advice. But I mean, his dad testified against him,
explaining their conversation and saying that they talked about getting rid of things in the ocean
versus burning the item, but that Danny did not specify what the item was or why.
I mean, I can kind of understand why Danny went to his dad.
Most young men go to their dads for advice,
but I mean, his dad was a banker.
He's not that young, by the way.
Yeah, I mean, that's true.
But also, you know, just the fact that his dad
is now saying like, yeah, we talked about like,
throwing shit into the ocean.
It's like maybe his dad was just kind of covering his own ass as well
Well, we know what that you know he went to his dad about this and then he went to his brother
Asking his brother to get rid of a taser so his family is explaining this coming forward and saying this
It's not looking good for Danny Danny is telling people in so many ways what he did
I guess Danny probably just should have shut his mouth
and maybe did the work himself,
but this is what got him caught.
Like I said, multiple people testified against Danny.
One of them was also Catherine, that English nanny,
and she testified against him saying that one night,
Danny stumbled home drunk
and detailed how he committed Ted's murder.
So Catherine is saying, he told me that he killed Ted.
And then the next morning, probably regretting his drunken confession, Catherine says that
he threatened her and said, I'm going to kill you.
So after a two month trial, jurors took three days to make their decision.
And on December 13 13, 2004,
the verdict was read.
With money as the motive, Danny Pelosi was convicted of second-degree murder for the
killing of Ted Ammon, and he was sentenced to 25 years to life in prison.
However, he will be eligible for parole on October 14, 2031 when he is
67 years old. Well, in addition to Danny's conviction, his friend Chris, who was with
him that night, was charged as an accomplice in Ted's murder. In 2006, about two years
after Danny's trial, Chris took a plea deal and testified that he and Danny
had gone to the Hamptons house the night of the murder, finally confessing to something
that Danny just could not.
Chris claimed that Danny went to the house to discuss the divorce with Ted.
He also said that while he apparently personally never went into the house, Danny ran from
the home with blood on his clothes.
When Chris asked Danny what happened, Danny allegedly said quote, I had a fight with Ted,
I think he's dead.
And this is Chris saying that this wasn't premeditated, but I feel like I don't know,
personally I feel like it it likely was.
It's but I mean, he wasn't convicted of first degree murder, but I just think about
how the security system was turned off and why is Danny going there at all? Like he and
Ted are not friends. Why are you going to Ted's house to talk about the divorce? That's
between Ted and Generosa.
Yeah. And the other part of this that kind of is concerning to me is the fact that this happened right before those divorce papers were signed,
which means that, you know, Ted would have most likely been able to keep half of his estate,
but now that Ted was dead, all the money was up for grabs.
And we know that Generosa wanted more money, and that Danny is also a very greedy, greedy, scummy person.
that Danny is also a very greedy, greedy, scummy person. Well, it's really hard to say whether or not
Generosa was involved in any of these plans
because she did die shortly after this,
but I don't know.
I mean, maybe this was a plot between Danny and Generosa
to just get all the money and supposedly live happily
ever after, and then that just didn't happen.
Well, and the murder weapon was never found.
So I also wonder where did this weapon come from?
Was it in the house?
Did Danny have it with him?
Why did he have a taser with him?
Like if he brought the weapon and the taser into the house, which we know he would have
brought the taser in at least, that's why I wonder if it was premeditated because why
do you just have a taser in your
pocket? You know what I mean?
Yeah, no, you wouldn't. And that's why I truly believe that this was premeditated. I think
Danny kind of got off on that a little bit of having to not go down for first degree
murder.
Yeah. And I also do wonder, of course, how much Jen Rosa did or didn't know. Obviously,
the charges were brought down
seven months after her death,
so she wasn't able to explain her side
or tell a story or whatever.
And obviously Danny is not saying that he did it,
so he's not telling us what really happened.
But you know, it would be crazy to think if they,
cause murder is useless all the time.
We talk about this of course. Nobody should murder for any reason, but if they... Because murder is useless all the time. We talk about this, of course.
Nobody should murder for any reason.
But if they were in on it together,
and they said, well, let's kill him
so that we can get all the money,
then they get married,
they separate only six months later,
and then a year later,
Generosa dies.
Like, then this and Danny gets none of the money,
then this would be truly the most useless murder ever. Yeah, I mean
Killers usually kill people thinking that they're gonna get away with it
You know what I'm saying right true, and that's just it just wasn't gonna happen here also another reason why I do suspect
Genarosa is because she told the kids the kids said this later in an interview that she had told them
the kids. The kids said this later in an interview that she had told them that their dad Ted killed himself. So I understand maybe not saying that you know your dad was murdered so that they're not
afraid but to say he killed himself like that is a weird choice instead of to say oh he died of
natural causes or whatever and then later tell them the story but to say that he took his own life
Tell them the story but to say that he took his own life is really suspicious
But Danny has continued to claim his innocence in the murder of Ted Ammon And he has even pointed the finger at several different people
Yeah, I mean at one point Danny even claimed that his late wife Generosa hired a hitman to kill Ted
But maybe Danny was the hitman
to kill Ted. Which, maybe Danny was the hitman.
Probably.
But the twins who once adored Danny believe that he was guilty of this murder,
and are utterly disgusted that they ever told Danny that they loved him.
Well, and let's talk about what happened to the kids, because by age 13,
they had both lost their parents.
And although Generosa stated in her will that the kids were to be raised by their nanny,
after a heated court battle, Ted's sister Sandy won custody of her niece and nephew
and raised them in Huntsville, Alabama.
Finally, giving them a chance at a loving and stable home.
Unfortunately, due to years of parental alienation on their mother's behalf, Ted's kids, who
were only 11 years old at the time of Ted's kids, who were only 11 years
old at the time of Ted's death, were not on good terms with their father when he was killed.
But as the twins grew up, Sandy continued to remind them that their father loved them
and that they were his greatest achievement.
In 2012, so 11 years after the tragic murder of their dad, twins Gregory and Alexa Ammon,
who were now about 20 years old, released a documentary on this case.
The film was aptly named after the address where their father's murder took place, 59
Middle Lane.
And in the film, the twins visit the East Hampton Manor where the murder unfolded, and
they also document as they head to their birth country of Ukraine to meet their biological
family.
And the documentary premiered at the East Hampton Cinema as part of the Hamptons International
Film Festival.
The murder in the Hamptons remains one of the most notorious scandals in an otherwise
idyllic, peaceful East Coast community, with the murder
of Ted Ammon-devastating family, close friends, and the neighborhood alike.
Thank you so much everybody for listening to this episode of Going West.
Yes, thank you guys so much for listening to this episode.
What a wild story.
What a wild ride.
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And at the end of the day,
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It's so sad that all of this happened.
Like what an all around devastating story.
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