Going West: True Crime - Yvonne Baldelli // 455
Episode Date: November 20, 2024In the fall of 2011, a 41-year-old California woman set out for a new life on a beautiful island in Panama. But what seemed like an adventurous fresh start quickly took a turn for the worse when she s...uddenly disappeared without a trace. As her family’s concern grew, a horrible story of abuse and manipulation began to surface. As investigators looked for any sign of her, they soon uncovered a trail of lies, fake emails, hidden relationships and shocking evidence that pointed to a murder. This is the story of Yvonne Baldelli. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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What is going on true crime fans? I'm your host T and I'm your host Daphne and you're listening to going west
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I stumbled on this case while I was doing
my usual online digging for stories
and I just could not believe the details
and the callous acts committed in this case.
A lot of it takes place in Panama
and it has such a positive and hopeful start
with this like exciting move to Panama from California.
But when you guys learn what is actually going on and then you hear the details of exactly what unfolded,
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Alright guys this is episode 455 of Going West so let's get into it! A family brought to tears after seeing the former Marine that they say murdered their
loved one.
When Yvonne disappeared in November 2011 in Panama,
they went themselves to search the swamp
around Bocas del Toro,
where she had gone to live with her retired Marine boyfriend.
On the ground though, it seems there's no trace.
She even brought a dog with her,
and the dog has disappeared now.
Federal prosecutors say they found an internet search
on her laptop for washing mattress bloodstain.
That he had generated false emails and ATM withdrawals
to make it appear that she'd run off with another man.
Months later, Baldelli's remains were discovered
in a green military-style duffel bag.
Forensic experts in Panama have identified a human sculpt
found in the Central American country
as that of missing American woman Yvonne Baldelli, who went missing two years ago.
A backpack was discovered in the Panama jungle by a local resident.
Authorities in Panama found the bag contained skeletal remains and some clothing.
When I was a little girl, and when I would be afraid of monsters, she would say monsters
don't exist, but you know today I saw a monster come into the room chained like an animal
and that is a monster. Yvonne Lee Faust, who became Yvonne Baldelli, was born on March 4, 1970, to parents James
and Emma Faust in Los Angeles, California.
She was one of four kids growing up with her sisters,
Lorraine and Michelle, and her brother, James Jr.
Yvonne spent the majority of her life in the Los Angeles
and Orange County areas working for Procter & Gamble,
also known as P&G, as a regional sales representative
in her 30s.
And under Procter & Gamble was Sebastian Hair and Cosmetics,
or Sebastian Professional.
So her specific job was basically for them,
mostly visiting salons to make sure
that they had product in stock.
And because of her job,
she ended up moving to the San Diego area.
And there in 2009, 39-year-old Yvonne
met a 34-year-old Marine named Brian Carl Bremiger.
Brian was a decorated Marine, serving over seven years in the Marine Corps while he was
stationed at Camp Pendleton, which is about 40 miles away from San Diego.
The two of them met at an Irish pub called Hennessey's Tavern in Dana Point, still there
to this day, and this is just north of San Diego.
And according to Yvonne's family,
she was immediately head over heels in love with him.
He was this very like buff, kind of brawny Marine man,
and she always said she wanted to date a Marine.
So meeting him and him seeming like this really great guy,
you know, she was super happy.
Now, even though her family was very happy for her and her new relationship, they were
still a little bit unsure about Brian because it seemed like everything was moving so fast.
Because by the way, Yvonne was recently divorced.
That's where the last name Baldelli comes from.
Like she officially got divorced the same year she met Brian.
So her family didn't want to
see her get into another relationship only to get her heart broken again. But they continued to see
each other and their relationship continued to progress. But after two years of dating,
Michelle and Brian got some pretty devastating news. Michelle was laid off from P&G.
Even though this was not good news,
especially since they lived in a coveted, expensive area,
being in the Orange County and San Diego areas,
as they did not live together yet,
the couple decided to use it as an opportunity
to kind of shake things up in their lives and start fresh.
So they decided to drop everything, sell their belongings and move to a small island
in Panama, just the two of them to really get away from the American rat race. You know, this is like
cocktail the movie. Yeah, exactly. A lot of people do this. Yeah. And obviously this is such an idyllic
idea and something that is actually achievable for so many people. So with this they each had a loose island getaway plan. Brian was gonna play guitar
and sing in bars and Yvonne would sew bikinis and sell them to tourists on the
beach. Like they're just getting ready to live a total dream life amongst turquoise
waters. They even found a small waterfront house called Casa del Sapo, which translates to frog house,
on the island of Caranero, just off the coast of Panama.
And together with Yvonne's dog, Georgia May,
they got ready to start their new life
in an island paradise.
Yvonne packed two sewing machines in her luggage
since she would need them to start her new business venture on the island.
And Brian packed up his acoustic guitar.
They did leave some items back in California as we're going to get into later when it's
relevant.
But you know, they're ready.
They're going to see how long they can make this last and just try something new.
Yeah, and at least they have somewhat of a business plan of how they're going to support
themselves. Yeah and at least they have somewhat of a business plan of how they're going to support themselves. Yeah absolutely. So after their arrival in
September of 2011, the two of them quickly made friends on the island since
most of the people who live there were either American expats or other people
in the same situation as them. Just normal folks trying to get away from the
corporate lifestyle. Brian would sing and play guitar at local bars,
and Yvonne was hard at work sewing
bikinis to sell on the beach.
Joan and Stephen Crabtree, who were two American expats who
owned the Cosmic Crab Cafe in Panama,
remember how the couple was a very common sight at their bar.
Brian would be singing and playing guitar,
while Yvonne would be cheering him on over some drinks.
And Brian would play at the Cosmic Crab a couple nights a week, and on the other nights he'd play at all these surrounding bars.
Most of the time getting paid in food and free drinks, so he's not really making too much money here.
Yeah, he's just trying to like get his foot in the door kind of thing, and see if this can be financially reliable.
But for now, he's getting the food and the drinks.
Yeah.
Well, Penny Tom, another bar owner on the island, remembered the couple as two quote
very nice people, but mentioned that it was most likely because of the booze.
She told CBS News in 2014 that quote, they used to drink a lot so they were always happy.
And when asked how much a lot was, she just replied,
a lot.
Another island resident named Jim Merton said that Brian would drink so much that his singing would end up sounding like a quote,
hound dog on a porch, even though he still somehow managed to play guitar well while he was drunk.
So this is probably not a good look, especially if he's trying to make a living off of this,
and he's just getting totally plastered on the job, you know?
Yeah, it kind of seems like it's just a party time for Brian.
Yeah, so true.
So it did seem like their new island life was off to a fun start,
and all the pictures Yvonne sent back home to her family and her emails showed her and Brian smiling and laughing in their new island home.
So at least it seemed like they were having a good time.
Right.
Well Yvonne would write her family these long, detailed emails, letting them know how her
new life with Brian and her dog Georgia Mae was going.
Even though Michelle, Yvonne's older sister, never really trusted Brian and felt like he
wasn't a good emotional match for her sister, she was happy to see her enjoying herself
in Panama, and felt really reassured by her emails.
Michelle told CBS News that she could just close her eyes and picture Yvonne's life
in Panama, since her emails and calls were so detailed.
In one of her emails, she told her sister about how excited she was that everything was going so well for them on the island,
saying that after only five days, Brian had already played three gigs at restaurants and bars in the area.
She told her sister Michelle about how every morning her and Brian would go for a run,
then go swim in the ocean, and made sure to mention how happy her dog Georgia was
to be in this like nice air conditioned building.
I mean, sounds amazing.
It does. Like on paper it looked like everything was going great for Yvonne and Brian, but in reality,
there was some serious trouble in paradise.
Now given how happy 41 year old Yvonne sounded in her emails, the family started to relax
a little and even started to warm up a bit about Brian.
Even though Michelle thought the two of them were not emotionally compatible, she was ecstatic
to see her sister happy with someone new, and even thought the two of them were probably
going to get married at some point.
And as far as she was concerned, if they didn't get married, then she had this really great
experience and little kind of respite from normal California life.
And like Heath said, the family loved reading Yvonne's email updates about their island
living.
It was like a fun distraction from their own everyday lives, and it reassured them that
her kind of wild plan to just drop everything and move to Panama was actually somehow kind of working.
Michelle in particular loved reading the updates and would trade emails with her sister as often as possible,
asking her how she was feeling and how her new job was as Brian's kind of manager and promoter.
Because you know while she's trying to sew and sell these bikinis, she's also trying to help Brian
to make sure that his venture, you know,
turns into something fruitful.
So Yvonne would always reply pretty quickly
and again, just write these long, very detailed emails,
which is why Michelle thought it was very odd
when Yvonne started sending her typical emails
less and less frequently over time.
She also stopped calling her family back in the states as much and that made Michelle very
worried. Like she kind of got the sense that something wasn't going right but she didn't have
any evidence of that at all. By Thanksgiving of 2011 it had been two weeks since Yvonne replied to any emails
or calls, which made Michelle even more suspicious that something may have happened to her sister.
And remember, by this point, it had only been just over two months since the couple had
moved to Panama, so this dwindled contact happened very quickly.
Well, Thanksgiving passed without any word from Yvonne,
which was on November 24th of that year, by the way,
when suddenly on December 14th, 2011,
while waiting for a phone call from Yvonne,
Michelle got a text from an unknown number,
but it wasn't from Yvonne, it was from Brian.
The text was short and had an odd, kind of formal tone to it, simply saying, quote,
This is Brian. May I make arrangements to pick up my truck?
So obviously, Michelle is completely confused by this. She hadn't heard from her sister
in weeks, and now her boyfriend just texts
her out of the blue insinuating that he's back in the states and he wants to
pick up his truck? Because by the way she was keeping his truck at her home in LA
for that time when they were in Panama.
Yeah they probably made these arrangements for certain items too that
were more serious like a truck.
Yeah exactly. To kind of be put on hold while they figured out how long they were going to be in Panama.
Exactly, but this situation felt incredibly fishy to Michelle, so as soon as she got that
text, she called Brian back and point blank asked, quote, where is my sister?
On the call, Brian said that he figured Michelle had read the email that he had sent her explaining
the entire situation,
but Michelle didn't remember any recent emails from anyone.
So she hung up the phone, telling Brian that she'd call him back, so that she could go
check her inbox and read whatever this explanation he had was.
And sure enough, she found an email from Brian explaining that he and Yvonne had broken up.
Michelle immediately called Brian back and asked him to explain what had happened, since
the emails weren't very detailed, to which he said that he and Yvonne got into a fight
because she found out that he cheated and had a love child with another woman back in
the States in 2010, which was the year prior and the year after they started dating.
Insane.
Yeah, and the woman that he was talking about was Kristen Workovan, who he met while on
a visit to her workplace, which just so happened to be the White House during the Bush administration
some years before.
Yeah, he was a color guard in the Marines in Washington DC, so he was, he
was in that area, living in that area at the time when they met, and they just
kept talking and hanging out. Yeah, apparently. Well, Michelle knew how
awful her sister must have felt when she heard this news, especially since she knew
that Yvonne couldn't have any kids of her own due to a medical condition. Her
biggest dream in life was to start a family, and to have a man that she loved and trusted
betray her on that level must have just been devastating for her.
So Brian told Michelle that after their fight, Yvonne just quote, up and left.
But Michelle obviously did not buy this.
It didn't sound like something that her sister would do at all.
And then of course, there was the fact that she hadn't reached out to any of her family.
So where the hell was she?
Michelle asked Brian if Yvonne had left a note, tried to call him afterwards, or maybe mentioned where she was headed.
All of which, Brian said no to. And despite, you know, not hearing from her sister in weeks, Brian just said
that he was sure that Yvonne was alright. But Michelle did not agree. She knew that something
was wrong, and she could just feel it. Ten days after the phone call, still without any word from
Yvonne, Brian had called Michelle again about his truck, completely ignoring the fact that
no one in her family had heard from his now ex-girlfriend of over two years, even once,
since they had supposedly broken up.
When Michelle picked up, she told Brian to come pick up his truck, but that once he got
there that the two of them should go down to the police station and file a missing persons report together,
which I think was really smart of Michelle because she knows he has way more
information than she does.
She knows that she still has not spoken to Yvonne and that he might know more
and be able to provide the police more details than she'd be able to.
And on top of this, if he refuses to go down there with her then that makes
things even more suspicious and is kind of leading her in the right direction. Yeah so this was her
plan and of course at this point she is still devastated by the story that Brian had told her
and her instincts were screaming at her that something was off about the whole situation.
So she went back into her emails and actually found an email that Yvonne had
sent her that she had missed and immediately felt relieved to know that her
sister had talked to her recently, but not for long.
In the email, Yvonne breaks the news to her sister,
explaining the breakup with Brian after discovering that he had had a kid with
another woman while
they were together.
So thus far Brian's story made sense, but Yvonne also mentioned that she was moving
to Costa Rica with a man named Tony Gonzalez that she had met in Panama.
So Michelle was just supposed to believe that this Tony Gonzalez was originally from Arizona, as Yvonne
is explaining, but he was living in the area for over three years after retiring from working
and investing.
And that Yvonne decided to enter nearly three year relationship and immediately start another
one with a man that she had just met.
And I mean, she did kind of do this when she met Brian, but this felt way more extreme.
Yeah, this is more like, I just met this guy and now I'm moving to a different country.
Whereas, you know, with Brian, she had dated Brian for a few years before they decided
to go to Panama.
Yeah, and before they even moved in together.
So now it's like immediately jumping from one relationship to the next, not even coming
to stay with her family in California for a bit and
figuring out her plan but just like,
okay, nope, next day I'm in Costa Rica.
So this story just didn't make any sense to Michelle
and her suspicions only got stronger as time went on.
And when Yvonne's dad Jim was told about the email,
he was also immediately suspicious of the whole thing.
Like why would his daughter drop everything and follow yet another man into a different country?
So pretty much everyone agreed that everything described in the emails was completely out of character for Yvonne.
And they couldn't call her to make sure that she was okay for anybody wondering why are we just waiting for emails back and forth.
Because the situation is that when they moved to Panama, they shared one cell phone.
So when they apparently broke up, Brian took the phone for himself.
So she doesn't have a cell phone at this point.
So her family just had to trust that Yvonne was alright through her emails alone.
After three weeks of no emails once again, Yvonne sent Michelle and her family another
update from the island, this time saying that she was in Costa Rica with her new boyfriend,
but that she was starting to get homesick.
She reassured her family, saying that while her unemployment benefits were probably going
to run out soon, she wasn't hurting for cash and would be okay for the meantime.
She also said that she was working on getting home to her family as early as the second
week of January.
The family felt reassured by this, since if everything went well, Yvonne would be back
home in the States just in time for a big family reunion planned for the middle of January
in 2012.
For a brief moment, the whole family could finally breathe a sigh of relief.
But again, not for long.
On the very same day that Yvonne sent out her last email update,
Brian Brimager knocked on Michelle's front door.
He didn't have any questions about Yvonne or her family,
and was visibly in a rush to
just get in his truck and get out of her LA home.
Yeah, so he certainly did not go down to the police station with Michelle.
No, he definitely did not, and once he got his keys, he got in his truck and he just
simply drove away.
Michelle noticed that after Brian's visit, her sister hadn't sent any more emails.
But she was still waiting, just hoping Yvonne would send her another update and
put her worries to rest.
Yeah, cuz remember when she came up with this plan to report her sister missing,
she didn't know that there was that email about being in Costa Rica.
So- Right.
After receiving that, she's hoping that communication is sparse because of
her situation.
Possibly travel.
Yeah, but that at the end of the day, she's probably okay.
But unfortunately, after waiting over 16 days for any signs of life from her sister,
Michelle took matters into her own hands and wrote her sister an email herself.
In her email to Yvonne, Michelle said in a half-joking kind of manner
that she was just checking to make sure that Yvonne, Michelle said in a half-joking kind of manner that she was just
checking to make sure that Yvonne hadn't been kidnapped or that someone wasn't impersonating
her through her emails.
The subject line of the email simply said quote, worried.
And Michelle had every right to be.
After all, she hadn't seen her sister in months and hadn't heard from her in over two weeks.
And remember, they know nothing about the supposed Tony guy
or what her exact situation was,
and just wanted clarity and reassurance.
Well, after sending her email,
Michelle never heard from her sister again.
So she decided to act on her suspicions
and reach out to a cousin of hers who was good with computers
so that she could look into the emails that were sent
by her sister
After the two of them talked about how weird the entire situation was with Brian
They decided the best thing to do would be to try to track down where exactly these emails were being sent from
To make sure that it was really Yvonne that was sending them
Michelle's cousin reminded her that if the emails were sent from Panama or, you know,
Costa Rica, the IP address would guarantee it.
So the cousin set up an IP search, and after a few minutes, the IP address location came
back to Dana Point, California, which is exactly where Yvonne and Brian had met and the area of which he
had recently been living after returning from Panama.
So as you guys can imagine, the two cousins were absolutely stunned by this, since there
was no possible way that Yvonne would have been able to send those emails unless she
was back in the States, which she said that she wasn't.
So they felt confident that the emails had been
coming from Brian. So they needed to clarify this fast. So the cousin had the
idea to track the IP on the email that Brian had sent to Michelle discussing
their breakup and see if they just matched. And sure enough, the same location came up. Dana Point, California.
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So once Michelle and her cousin determined that both emails from Brian and from Yvonne were coming from the same location again, Dana Point, California.
Michelle was absolutely sure that Brian was the one who sent that email talking about
how Yvonne had moved to Costa Rica with Tony Gonzalez.
I mean, Brian had been impersonating her sister for God knows how long, so Michelle wasn't
even sure how many of Yvonne's emails were actually sent by
Brian and how many were truly sent from her. She had no real timeline of events. She was sure of
one thing though, Brian had done something horrible to her sister and she was going to
get to the bottom of it. So she immediately went not only to the FBI but the State Department as well. Michelle presented
her case to Special Agent Andrew Masters and made sure to mention the IP addresses from the emails
showed that they were sent from the states, not Panama. So the FBI started an investigation in the
U.S. but Michelle and her family couldn't wait any longer for answers. So they got together and made arrangements to fly to Panama as a family and look for Yvonne themselves.
So Michelle, Yvonne's dad and stepmom and a couple other family members traveled to
Caranaro Island and hired an American expat detective in the area named Don Winner to help them out.
Don Winner had previously aided in the arrests
of three serial killers and was a former US intelligence
officer and consultant for the CBS News show 48 Hours.
So this was a really good guy to have on their team.
Don Winner was also known for having a lot of influence
on the local police and government,
because obviously of his track record.
So he pressured the local government to put the word out
that Yvonne was missing.
And the family also made a televised appeal
for any information regarding Yvonne's whereabouts.
In that press conference, the Panama police made it clear
that Brian Brimager was the prime suspect.
And back in the States, the FBI had chosen Brian
as the main person of interest in Yvonne's disappearance.
Brian had no idea though that he was being investigated by the FBI, the State Department, and the
Panamanian government at the same time.
Caranaro Island's lush greenery was now covered in pictures of Yvonne Baldelli.
And the family was going door-to-door asking neighbors and locals if they knew anything about what happened of Yvonne Baldelli. And the family was going door to door,
asking neighbors and locals if they knew anything
about what happened to Yvonne.
And very quickly, the family discovered that the island paradise life
that she claimed to have been living in her emails
was just an illusion.
Witness after witness told the family how they noticed
Brian was often aggressive with her,
both verbally and physically.
One local bar owner, Jeff Salzman, told the family that he remembered seeing Yvonne with
black eyes and bruising on her face one day at his bar, and noticed that she was trying
her best to hide these injuries.
After the family interviewed neighbors and locals, they made their way to the house where Yvonne and Brian were living, and they started searching for their missing family member.
The house was on the waterfront, as Daphne described, but it was surrounded by miles
of thick, boggy swampland, meaning searching the area was going to be a nightmare, since
not only was it such a big area, but also so difficult to travel through.
The family started their search in the bug-infested jungle swamps with the help of a bunch of
local volunteers, Don Winner, and the local police.
And while they trudged through the thick muddy waters of the swamp, a few of the local volunteers
found some items that gave the family hope, but also a little bit of pause.
They found a Safeway pill bottle, a woman's purse, and even a US passport.
Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending on how you looked at it, none of the things that
they found belonged to Yvonne.
But even though the family's investigation in Panama was going slowly, the FBI was making
progress back in the US.
Special Agent Andrew Masters and his partner visited Brian Bremiger's house
in Dana Point, California, and they interviewed him for over four hours.
When the FBI arrived at his house, Brian said that he had been expecting them and
let them in his house while he babysat the daughter that he had with Kristen. Brian stuck to the same story he told Michelle when the FBI asked him about the situation.
He said Yvonne left him for a man in Panama, you know, and moved to Costa Rica,
because Brian was a quote, lying, cheating asshole.
And he was.
He was, I was going to say, at least that part's true.
And also a piece of shit.
Yes. And he was. He was, I was going to say. At least that part's true. And also a piece of cake.
Yes.
So the FBI kept probing and prodding, just trying to get them to maybe slip up and give
them some information that they could use.
But they knew they had an ace up their sleeve with this, you know, IP address information
that they were told.
After the agents got what they could from Brian, they confronted him about the emails coming not from Panama,
but the exact address they were in in Dana Point.
Of course, Brian didn't have any convincing answers for that, but also didn't necessarily
incriminate himself with his answers.
One incredibly suspicious detail that the agents did notice during the interview was
something very specific that caught special agent Andrew Masters' eye.
A white Sony VIO laptop.
Yvonne's laptop.
Brian had said earlier in the conversation during his retelling of the story that Yvonne
took her laptop with her, so when he was confronted about whose laptop that was,
Brian changed his story and said that yes,
he had kept Yvonne's laptop but never sent any emails from it.
Yeah, right.
Likely story.
So next up on their list was interviewing another person of interest or at least
somebody who could have some very pertinent information, and that was Kristin Workovin.
But Kristin didn't go by that name anymore.
No, no, no.
Now her name was Kristin Brimager.
Because as it turned out, Brian proposed to Kristin less than two weeks after he came back to the States from Panama,
and more importantly, less than two weeks after Yvonne disappeared.
Because guess what? The two of them had continued their relationship for years,
meaning Brian had been living a double life with Yvonne and Kristen.
When he was in Panama, he wrote emails to Kristen promising that
he would come back to the States and marry her and he stuck to that promise.
Like what I don't understand is why move to Panama with Yvonne then? Like make it
make sense. Yeah if you're in love with Kristen then why not just be with
Kristen? Like I don't understand the point of this this, unless he just enjoyed living this double life.
He enjoyed having, you know, two women in his life.
Well, to try to figure this out,
the FBI knew that they needed to speak to Kristen
and see if she knew anything about Yvonne's existence
or potentially what had happened to her.
And when the FBI agents interviewed Kristen,
they laid out the whole case on the table,
telling her about what they thought Brian did and how he had been living a
double life with her and Yvonne. And the truth was exactly what they had surmised.
Kristen had no idea Yvonne even existed and just thought that Brian went to
Panama to decompress after retiring from the military. Because remember,
he was only there for two months, so this could have easily been looked
at as like a long vacation or a quasi-sabbatical.
So this is what she thought, apparently.
But despite all the lying and manipulation, disturbingly, Kristen wasn't really affected.
She still loved Brian and openly told the FBI that she was going to support him no matter
what.
Which is just a really messed up thing to say to the FBI regarding a missing woman that
your cheating boyfriend and baby dad is connected to.
Yeah, I was going to say, like how insane.
I mean if somebody came to you and they were like hey
We found out that you know Heath was in Mexico with some woman
And she is now missing and she's been missing nobody's heard from her like you wouldn't just be like oh, yeah
Well, I don't really care about that like I still love him. I'm just gonna stand by his side
It's like that's alarming like girl girl, do you realize that you yourself,
you yourself are in danger? No, I'm sorry. I would never support you. That's just crazy. I mean, it's horrific. And it's also really scary. You know, we just talked about this last week on
our most recent episode on Kelsey Barrett that it's so hard to understand why somebody would
support somebody after knowing that they did such a horrific thing.
Because they could turn around and do the very same thing to you. Like, you're not safe.
That's exactly what I'm saying. It's like, you know, you could potentially...
If Brian has the capability and just the evilness inside him to do something like that to Yvonne,
what makes you think that he doesn't have the capability to do it to you?
100%.
Well, while Yvonne's family desperately searched for anything that could lead them to their
family member, Brian Brimager was living his life as an unemployed stay-at-home dad, just
playing golf and drinking while Kristen worked as a defense contractor.
He was confronted on camera several times by CBS News about what had happened to Yvonne,
and he never said a single word, not once.
After the FBI had exhausted their options in the states, they took the investigation
to Panama and started to interview friends, locals, and neighbors alike.
And just like the family had found out, the agents learned that the couple's relationship
was filled with violence, both verbal and physical.
Neighbors said that they had personally seen Brian hitting, choking, and even dragging
Yvonne.
Several interviews later, Special Agent Masters was able to put together a rough timeline of Yvonne's disappearance and determined that on November 26th, 2011, two days after Thanksgiving, Brian and Yvonne had a massive
fight.
The fight was caused by Yvonne discovering that Brian had a child, the one thing she
always wanted, but was sadly unable to do herself because of that medical condition. And the fact that of course he did this with another woman while they were together.
It's a pretty big deal.
It is.
That's when according to Special Agent Masters, Brian decided that he had to kill her.
It was obvious that Brian had been lying to federal agents and he was the main suspect in Yvonne's disappearance. But the FBI had no actual evidence tying him to anything other than the IP addresses, so
he was still a free man.
That was until they searched Yvonne's laptop.
The same one that Special Agent Masters spotted inside Brian's house during their first interview. And inside the laptop, the agents found a picture of Yvonne that she had taken herself.
Her face swollen and covered in bruises.
She even had a black eye.
Also on the laptop, the agents found a Yahoo search for, quote, how to clean blood stain
on mattress the day after their argument and remember
This was on her laptop. Yeah, so he probably searched it on hers thinking police wouldn't check exactly and
This kind of proved to them that things had gotten physical between them during that night
So now the FBI was officially treating this case as a homicide investigation
Now the FBI was officially treating this case as a homicide investigation. The FBI also found ATM camera footage of Brian using Yvonne's card in Costa Rica to withdraw
money from her account.
Which proves even more that he's creating and trying to push this narrative that she
ran off to Costa Rica, even stopping there and doing this on his way into the US, which
there is proof of.
We also know, of course, you know, her laptop is in his possession,
he's writing fake emails from her account. There is so much here.
Yep. But the most damning piece of evidence came from the private investigator, Don Winner.
Don was searching through Brian's Facebook page for any clues,
when he found a comment that Brian had left on a post after Yvonne had gone missing, and this comment was under
a post selling a machete in Panama.
On the post, Brian commented that he had actually bought the machete back in the States before
giving it to a friend and moving back home, that he and I quote had only
Dismembered one stripper with it. So it was hardly used
Not only is that a really weird sick joke to make but your girlfriend is missing like are you a literal idiot? I mean he is he's such an idiot
So with that information the FBI were able to track down the machete because now they're thinking that it was used in Yvonne's murder.
And they're hoping that finding it and testing it could lead to having physical evidence against Bryan,
and physical evidence to prove that Yvonne had been killed.
In the summer of 2013, so a year and a half after Yvonne's disappearance,
the FBI arrested 37-year-old Bryan Brimager, but not for murder. He was
arrested under the charges of obstruction of justice, giving false statements to federal
agents, and falsifying records. And he obstructed justice by disposing of physical evidence,
including a bloodied mattress.
Yeah, the same bloody mattress that was discussed in two Google searches made from Yvonne's laptop
Yep, they also uncovered that hours after this argument with Yvonne and believed murder of her
He sent this text to a friend of his quote
Hey, bro, what you up to? I got stories for days
I'm living on an island off the coast of Panama love in life and living Semper free
And then there's like 10 exclamation points after this and by the way
Semper is a Latin word that means always or forever
It's also used by Marines often in the term Semper Fidelis to mean always faithful
Which is something that somebody like somebody showing their lifelong commitment to the Marine Corps would say this.
Yeah, a lot of people shorten it to Semper Fi.
Exactly. So this could just mean that he's not in the Marines anymore and he's living a free life on an island,
but you know, he seems pretty excited and pretty happy considering what just happened and what, as you guys will see, he just did.
Well, the problem was still that the FBI had no bodies, so they couldn't prove that Yvonne had been killed,
let alone that Brian had been her murderer.
That was until later that year, when a farm worker in the area where Yvonne went missing
was clearing some brush and found a green, military-style duffel bag in the jungle.
Inside the duffel bag were the full skeletal remains
of someone who had been disposed of at least a year earlier.
After the FBI ran DNA forensics on the dismembered skeleton,
they could confirm the worst.
It was Yvonne.
And this news, of course, just brought up the same feelings of the agony and, you know,
the early days of the investigation for the entire family, but it also clarified their worst fears that she had been killed.
So despite this being news that they did not want to receive, they at least had an answer and could push forward in pursuing
justice for Yvonne. Now, regarding her autopsy, even though so much time had passed,
a medical examiner was able to determine that her cause of death
was most likely due to her being stabbed.
And this was because there were numerous cut marks on some of her bones.
So that is how the medical examiner was able to determine that this was most likely.
It's not conclusive, but it does seem like that's what happened.
And that Brian most likely cowardly stabbed Yvonne in the back at least twice before she
died due to blood loss.
But that wasn't all this absolute monster did because he also broke some of her teeth
as well as her nose in an attack. And then after he killed her, he cruelly dismembered her body in the shower,
packed her into his green duffel bag, and dumped her body in the swamp nearby.
But he hadn't put all of her remains in that duffel bag because it was determined that while
her torso was put in the duffel bag, her limbs were put in trash bags that were thrown off an embankment 1.5 miles away from their home, and her hands
were thrown off a cliff.
And if you didn't think this guy could get any worse, the FBI determined that he most
likely also killed Yvonne's dog, Georgia May, since if the dog were around around they would raise suspicions.
I mean this guy is just such a horrific piece of shit.
Yeah and this really puts everything else into play knowing that he did these unthinkable things to this innocent woman
and then he's texting his buddy hours later saying he has stories for days and he's living it up.
You know he's making jokes about dismembering a stripper
when he literally did dismember his girlfriend
with this machete, as we'll get into.
Then he moves back to California and acts like nothing happened
and moves back in with this other woman.
I mean, absolutely no remorse.
Well, shortly after the discovery of Yvonne's remains,
some other tragic news was brought to the family.
In the spring of 2014, Yvonne's beloved sister, Michelle,
who fought so hard to find answers in her case,
was diagnosed with an extremely aggressive form of cancer.
Over the span of only months, Michelle went from a lively
woman ready to get justice for her sister to a woman bravely fighting
through chemotherapy. Despite her disease leaving her bound to a wheelchair,
Michelle also bravely fought through her pain and suffering to take part in a
deposition against Brian Brimager, where she said on camera,
everything she believed happened to her sister, pointing at exactly who she believed did it,
Brian.
Michelle was so exhausted by hours of deposing that she passed out as soon as the recording
ended, and devastatingly, she died only days later.
That is so heartbreaking to know, just how hard she was fighting.
I mean literally to the point where she couldn't even keep herself upright.
Yeah and we do not have access to this video but it really is like you said so heartbreaking
that this was one of the last things she ever did and that she spent the last few years
of her life focused on her sister's murder
instead of enjoying what time she had left because this horrible POS decided to do something completely insane.
And for what? Because if he wanted to just go back to California and live his life with Kristen and their daughter,
he could have just done that. But it was almost like he wanted to have both, like you were saying earlier, Heath.
And when that was threatened, once Yvonne found out the truth,
he took action. But also, just knowing how abusive he was to her and their relation-
or their relationship, anyway, sorry, uh, this guy, in my opinion, was just looking for any
excuse to be violent. And you know, now he knows that Yvonne knows about Kristen, so I'm- I'm
guessing that he was thinking, well, if Kristen knows about Yvonne knows about Kristen, so I'm guessing that he was thinking, well,
if Kristen knows about Yvonne, then he can't have either one of them, so he had to take
action.
Which obviously wasn't the case, because Kristen didn't seem to give a shit.
Yeah, she apparently didn't care.
Well, in 2015, after months of legal debate between the US and Panama officials, the US
was able to convince the Panama government
to make sure that Brian would face trial in the US and not in Panama, so the family could
have closure and he could face the full brunt of the law.
Brian was already in custody because of his earlier charges, but after finding Yvonne's
body, the FBI added a charge of second-degree foreign murder of a US national to his record.
Brian was not charged with second degree murder since the murder took place outside of the
US, so that's why that specific charge was used.
And by the way, both charges relate to a murder being intentional but not premeditated and
have similar sentencing time ranges.
Now, Brian of course, pled not guilty originally
and had the full support of his wife, Kristen,
who he now had a second child with.
Court records show that Kristen attended
nearly every single court hearing related to Brian
for years, despite all evidence pointing to the fact that
he not only had lied to her and Yvonne for years,
but that he had obviously murdered and dismembered Yvonne.
Finally in 2016, the case was headed to trial, when an absolutely crucial piece of evidence
arrived that changed the entire case.
Finally we're circling back to the machete, because under the handle of the machete, the FBI found blood samples that matched Yvonne Baldelli's DNA.
And who was last in possession of this machete trying to sell it off?
Brian Bremiger.
So it was now undeniable that Brian had not only used the machete to kill her,
but also to dispose of her body before giving the machete to a
friend, but without even cleaning it completely.
Once this new evidence arrived, 40-year-old Brian finally decided to plead guilty to the
murder of Yvonne Baldelli, knowing that he could no longer attempt to get away with it.
So that is how we know a lot of the details in this case, the fact that he hiked approximately 1.5 miles
to the other side of the island.
And that's when he threw the duffel bag
and the garbage bags down an embankment in the jungle.
And then of course they were found.
He also even turned around during trial
and told the family, I'm sorry,
which obviously was not well received.
So he did take accountability in a small way.
And after lying for nearly five years, in May of 2016, he was sentenced to 26 years
in federal prison, meaning, terrifyingly, he should be released by 2042 when he's about
66 years old.
At his sentencing, US Attorney Laura Duffy said,
the day of reckoning has come for Brian Brimager.
Not only did he show a callous disregard
for Yvonne Baldelli's life by viciously beating,
stabbing, dismembering, and dumping her in the jungle,
but his words and actions in the hours, days, and months following his
horrendous crime exhibited an extreme lack of remorse.
He stole a precious daughter, sister, aunt, and friend, and now he is paying the price.
In my opinion, not big enough of a price, but after an emotionally draining five-year
process Yvonne's family had not only lost her,
but her sister Michelle too. But after Brian was sentenced, the family finally had some much needed
closure and could lay Yvonne, who they called Vanni, to rest with the peace of knowing the
person who killed her would be in prison for nearly three decades. Yvonne's remains were sent to her family
who cremated them and placed them inside
a beautiful pink decorative clamshell.
Her burial ceremony was attended by her family,
her siblings, and her niece who loved her so dearly.
Yvonne was laid to rest at sea,
surrounded by rose petals and her loved ones again,
who not only mourned her, but her sister Michelle as well.
I mean, if it wasn't for her sister's intuition,
Yvonne may have never been found,
and Brian Brimager might still be free to this day.
Michelle Valenzuela's last act on this earth
was making sure her sister would get the justice she deserved.
Today, Yvonne Baldelli would be 54 and her
sister Michelle would be 56.
Thank you so much, everybody, for listening to this episode of Going West.
Yes, thank you guys so much for listening to this episode.
I can't believe the amazing work that Yvonne's sister Michelle did to solve this case.
I mean, as you mentioned in the episode, had she not put in all of that work,
it's possible that we may have never known what happened to Yvonne.
Yeah, and honestly, it's so crazy to me that he is apparently gonna get out when he's
66 or by the time he's 66.
I mean, that just really pisses me off.
This is clearly a very violent individual and he doesn't deserve to be out in my opinion.
Yeah, because we're talking about not only the fact that he murdered Yvonne, but the
fact that he was physically and emotionally abusing her before the murder took place.
Seriously.
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