Here's Where It Gets Interesting - The Hate Next Door with Matson and Tawni Browning

Episode Date: June 23, 2025

Ever wonder how a white supremacist becomes an extremist? Sharon has a conversation with Matson and Tawni Browning about their book, The Hate Next Door. Matt gets candid about his time working undercover in white supremacist groups and what it was like to balance his dueling realities: where the job ended and where his home life began. Matt and Tawni also talk about the type of person white supremacist hate groups target for recruitment and the types of messaging they rely on to spread their violent ideologies. Credits: Host and Executive Producer: Sharon McMahon Supervising Producer: Melanie Buck Parks Audio Producer: Craig Thompson To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Hey friends, welcome. Delighted to have you with me today. My guest is somebody who spent decades working undercover in hate groups in the United States. And this is a very eye-opening conversation and honestly, it's really timely. So let's dive in. I'm Sharon McBann and here's where it gets interesting. I am really excited to be chatting with Matt and Tawny today. Thank you so much for being here. I read your book with great interest and I think people are gonna be very excited to hear from you. We are so thrilled to be here.

Thanks for having us. Okay, so let's set the stage for your work. First of all, of course people love to hear behind the scenes things. People love to understand what is going on in the background and the concept behind your new book, The Hate Next Door, undercover within the new face of white supremacy. Matt, I would love to hear more about how you got started doing undercover work in skinhead groups and groups like them. It was kind of an easy transition.

I was working in the gang unit in Mesa, and I just got tired of sitting in the van. The guys on my squad were ethnic based Hispanics. And so we would go to different Tejano bars or Hispanic bars around town. And I would get stuck sitting in the van, you know, documenting. You didn't blend in? You didn't blend back? No, I couldn't blend in. And so one night it was about two, three in the morning,

and I get a phone call from my boss, and he's, you know, where are you at? Well, I'm sitting in the van in the parking lot. Where are you guys? Well, they had left and they're all gone home, and they forgot that I was sitting in the van documenting. So it was that time that I thought, you know what, I think it's time to get involved

in something that I can do. And then I was helping on a traffic stop with a motor officer and a skinhead tried to kill me. So you take the sitting in the van and you mix it with somebody trying to kill you, sticking a gun in your chest. And it's like, yeah, I think I need to learn about these guys. It became really personal. It was really personal. Were these sorts of groups always of interest to you?

Was this always on your radar of like, you know, someday or was it truly the catalyst were those two events where this is the first time you thought to yourself, I need to do more with this? I was born and raised in Phoenix, been here my whole life and never did I know that there was hate in Phoenix or in the Valley. And this was truly the two incidents that made me think, yeah, I need to do something. I bet you were thrilled, Tony. I bet you were thrilled when he came home.

He's our protector. And I grew up in a home that I was full of love and I never knew that this existed and that quite frankly, we grew up in Arizona where there's a very high Hispanic population and I grew up with kids, at least 30% or more of my grade school classes were Hispanic. So we just, I didn't know this existed. I know that's naive, but I really didn't know that there was such amnesty towards people of color because that's just not the way we were raised.

When he decided that he was going to start doing undercover work, was your initial reaction like, are you kidding me? No, you're gonna get killed. You can't do that. What was it? I think that that really came when he told me he wanted to be a police officer,

which was so far removed from anything that I thought my life was going to be about. And that's where I was like, you know, no NARCs, no selling drugs and no SWAT team. Undercover didn't seem that big of a deal. Little did I know, right? Yeah. Little did you know. If we could all predict what was coming down the pike in our lives, we'd all just run in

the opposite direction. Well, he was really good at being in law enforcement. And so I supported him in that, even though that wasn't the trajectory or the way that I wanted my life to go. The whole being a police officer conversation on our honeymoon wasn't really a good time to bring up the fact I wanted to be a cop.

No, that was a mistake on your part, I'm sorry. Yeah, it was. But the thing about Tony is that Tony is extremely supportive and we have the conversation and it's like, OK, you know, OK, I can see that you want to do this. And so we gave it a shot. It took about six months. Right. I was like, hell no.

I mean, it's just we're not doing this at all, but it was in his blood. I would love to hear more about, first of all, the bigger, broader issue with the rise of these sort of like white nationalist or neo-Nazi skinhead type groups, because you talk in the book about how these groups are not a distant relic. They're not a thing of the past. They're not something that died in the 1950s or after World War II, that they are alive and well, and in some places in the country are in fact growing in popularity. So can you talk a little bit more about this rise of hate groups in just ordinary communities? Hate has always been here in this world, and quite honestly and sadly, it's never going

to go away because it's a decision a person makes within themselves to hate or not hate. When we talk about your street level skinheads, your Nazis, your neo-Nazis, those are core groups of disenfranchised, angry white boys out on the streets doing hunting trips, jumping anybody for any reason, as long as they're not white. As things morph, then you become part of an organized group, which is like the Aryan nations or the Klan or the National Alliance. These national groups bring in these younger guys to be their street soldiers, to be their enforcers, and they're just moldable and they can mold them into doing whatever they want.

And from there, it just goes up and up and up, you know, from your organized group. The problem with today, and that's why the book undercover within the new face of white supremacy, it's not boots and braces anymore. It's khakis and camels. It's not getting kicked out of high school for fighting is going to colleges and universities and protesting and fighting with it, protesters and everything that has to do with that. It's also going into your politicians, it's going into the laws.

You know, you have lawyers and doctors and accountants that are part of these groups and they're just not knuckle-dragging thugs as Tani says, but they're actually educated people who are trying to convince and coerce other people to believe in the same way they do. And that's what makes it so scary. And I worry about our children and us all being sucked into something that we really don't know what we're getting into.

Yeah, it's so true. And I know this is true of all types of criminal behavior, all types of behavior, whether it's a gang or it's a hate group or it's somebody who just decides to do something bad to their neighbor. Most often people don't wake up in the morning one day and think to themselves, you know, I'm going to join a hate group. You know, that's my goal for today. It's like a series of small steps down the road. And then you turn around and realize like, how

did I get here? All the guys that I was undercover with, the majority of the guys I was undercover with, they come from great families, their parents are attorneys or parents of doctors. Then you go into the split homes and the dad was a hater or whatever it might be. But the thing about it all is that it's still a conscious decision that we as parents make to teach our kids what's good in life.

And I think that's where a lot of people, parents, educators, politicians, we miss the boat. These kids are following our lead. And that's one of the things that I would like the message to be in the book is politicians quit the arguing, quit calling each other names on TV because kids are watching that and they will repeat what they learned from you and they will go to a Democrat and say, Oh, I heard that you guys are all this, or they'll go to a Republican and say, Oh, you voted for Trump. You're a hater. Well, no, those aren't true statements. The vitriolic discourse that you see between different groups in the media teaches children that this is how we're supposed to interact with other people, that everyone is an enemy.

Either they're for us or against us. And if you're against us, we need to defeat you. And some people take that to the nth degree. And it becomes, I'm going to put a gun in the chest of a police officer. Yeah. What you just did is you said, it's the way that the life is going. I heard it, therefore, it's true and I'm going to do this. The rhetoric that is said by certain individuals promote the violence and promote the hate. Even the little words like nationalist or invasion or the other words that a lot of these organizations hear and it's like, oh my gosh, I got to do something. Well, it's just not the way it should be.

Words matter. Yeah. Words matter and the words that we're using, our politicians are using either knowingly or unknowingly, they have to be chosen carefully. I totally agree with that. From your experience, Matt, working undercover, can you identify any commonalities between people who tend to join these groups? You mentioned that they're disenfranchised, young white men by and large sort of acting as the foot soldiers. In what way are they disenfranchised? What are some of the common traits that they might have that make them vulnerable or susceptible to this type of thinking and wanting to join this type of group?

Great question. Again, I think they're bullied. These groups look for kids who have been bullied, who are kind of standalone alone stand off by themselves. I kid that goes online and starts googling spending all this time on the computer looking at the different chat rooms and educating himself in the ideologies of hate that's always done a lot now is everything is online and so when i was doing minor cover work. was doing minor cover work, I would go and actually meet face to face with these guys and have conversations and hear it directly from them. And then I would formulate a backstory and a story that would fit the narrative of what this particular group is. But now, I mean, kids just go online. The big thing, if you've been picked on by a gang member, a minority, just pick a topic and they will target you as being

one of their own because they want that rage and that anger that you feel now to explode out on the minority. The thing that I see so much is that if a child doesn't feel or a kid or a young man or women doesn't feel that they have a place where they belong, where they're included. It's that whole very human basic need of being included. If we're not providing that in our schools and our communities and quite frankly in our homes, children are going to find that somewhere else, that sense of family. I hear that, that it is such a basic human need.

And if you're not getting it in a healthy, constructive way, it makes you very vulnerable to seeking it out in a destructive way. These groups are praying in our children and they see the vulnerabilities and the weaknesses. And that's how they get involved in something that is shocking to us as parents and as a community. And to them, quite frankly, how did I get here? and to them, quite frankly, how did I get here? I can imagine that it really takes a toll on you to do this kind of undercover work and to be surrounded with these kinds of messaging

and people and the amount of vitriol that has to be present when you are essentially pretending to be one of them. Because if you blow your cover, that's very dangerous for you and your family. You talk about how even in the book, this sort of low-level fear that your family continually experienced when you were doing this kind of work. I would love to hear from you more about what it is like mentally to have to pretend to be a member of a hate group. Oh, wow.

Now I have to go back into the garbage and into the hate and into the ideologies. Studies have shown that when you surround yourself with hate or bigotry, it chemically changes your brain. And so the more you're enthralled in it, the more you're involved in it, the more your brain changes to accept what you're hearing and seeing it to be true and factual. For me, man, I would just come home and sit in the driveway for 20, 30 minutes

in my undercover car, just trying to get my head straight of what just happened and trying to come back to reality because I'm in the driveway, but in the house, I got five kids and a wife that need me. But here's the great thing about it. I was blessed and lucky because Tani would come outside and she would help me go through what I needed to talk about the The realities of life, I'm dealing with the images of what's going on with hate in the world

from the meetings, of how bad the immigrants are coming across the border, how we need to go down and shut down the borders by shooting and by killing. And then I come home and sit at my house and all of a sudden out of the driveway, out of the garage comes. Tani who is the essence of love. I mean, if you know, Tani, Tani really is the true definition

of what a loving person is. And she would come out of the house and she'd stand by my door and we talk. And then she'd go back in the house and come out with one of the kids. And it wasn't like jumping, Hey, we got to do this. We got to do this. It's more of a, okay, I want to gradually get you out of the hate cycle back into the love cycle. And I, I tell everybody this, when you go into the psychology and ideology of hate, it will kill you. It can consume you. And if it gets to that point, it will kill you. And I was at the point in my life and my career that it was to that point.

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We react to news, what's trending, viral clips. Follow and listen to Fly on the Wall everywhere you get your podcasts. Tawny, what was it like when you were talking to him in the driveway? What was he like when he would come home at the end of the day? Sometimes he was losing himself. And if he was out there longer than 15 minutes, I tried to give him space, trying to find that balance, then I would go out there, just as he said. And if we weren't getting to where we needed to go, I'd go check on the baby, bring the

baby out. And that usually would bring him back. We just needed to bring him back. But I knew that he needed to do this work because if not him, who? And I knew that we were equipped to, I felt naively perhaps that we were equipped to handle this and to be our own foot soldiers

against hate. Let me put it just like this and to add what Tanya was saying, anybody in law enforcement, I don't care if you're a patrol, you're SWAT, you're NARC, you're whatever position you are in law enforcement, before you go and you start your day, you mentally have to prepare yourself for what you're going to go and do. So when I was going to these meetings, I would have to change my mind from Tani and a loving, caring, world is great, bubble-esque, Disney-esque family at home.

And I would have to start listening to screwdriver bound for glory, aggravated assault, different hate bands, hate music to get my mind in a place where I can go and talk to these other haters and not slip back into that. Oh yeah, I got, you know, T told me this or, you know, I was playing with the kids and this happened. That life didn't exist when I was undercover. And so you, you mentally prepare yourself putting hate into you. And at some point in time, the hate has to leave.

Otherwise, you know, different from any other hater, when you go to bed hating and you wake up in the morning hating and you spend your day hating. And I don't want it to be like that. And having a Disney-esque home is, you know, it's exhausting and it's not sustainable. So, you know, there was definitely things in there. I don't want it to sound like it was this great big bubble all the time. You can't you can't sustain something like that. But we tried and we knew,

and that's one of the messages of the hate next door is that love is the antidote to hate. It really is. It has to be really mentally exhausting and it has to take a toll on your mental health to continually compartmentalize like that to say I have one part of me that loves my wife and kids and is not abusive to them and treats them well and loves them and is present and engaged.

And then to force yourself into a mentality, as you were saying, where you have to do all of these things to psych yourself up into even being able to tolerate being around those people, to even like get into the mental space where you can pretend to be one of them. And then you have to pressure release all of that out of you in the driveway at the end of the day. That has to be mentally taxing and exhausting, Matt.

I'm still tired, but you know what? It was, it was a job and it was a career and it was successful. I like to think that we were successful and you go in the house and you put your gun away and you hang out with the family, go to bed and you wake up the morning, you do it all over again. Just speaking as an officer, what is it like for the mental health of people who work in law enforcement?

What kind of supports do people who do this work need? I'm glad you asked that, and thank you for asking that, because law enforcement, people think that cops are robots. I mean, we're not, we're guys who, who actually want to make a difference in this world. We have families, we have our hobbies. We have things that we like to do. Being a cop is a job and we go out and we do our job and we go home.

The problem is, is that everything that we do involves trauma. It involves trauma. It involves threats. It involves when we make a traffic stop, we have no idea if the guy is gonna shoot us or run from us, cry because we gave him a ticket. We don't know how their day's going. And before you know it, I mean, somebody's world could come to an end

in the blink of an eye. And that's what we do on a day in and day out basis. We need to take care of our police officers. We need to understand that this is traumatic for them and we need to take the time and actually police agencies need to take care of their people, provide the mental health that they need, provide times for the decompression to release the steam. There's too many police officers committing suicide in this country every year. I believe we're up to 46 now here in the United States

this year alone, and it just needs to stop. We need to realize that our brains are not wired to go from one traumatic event to another, and that we've got to have compassion and know that, as Matt said, cops aren't robots. And if we take care of them, they take care of us. I think it's so, there's a tendency amongst people who work in law enforcement or the military

to be like, you have to have mental toughness, mental toughness, really important, because you cannot just happen upon a terrible crime scene or enter a war zone and just collapse into a heap. You have to be able to move forward, do your job, do what you got to do, and then worry about that later. And I understand that. That is needed in that moment. You don't need officers crying on the side of the road. You need officers who are going to get the job done in that moment. But I think often that mental toughness viewpoint never gives people any space to not be mentally tough.

Never gives people any space to your point earlier to decompress, to get counseling, to see professional. If you're not mentally tough 24 seven, well then you're weak and that's suspicious and then you're not doing your job right. But if we want people to be mentally tough in the moment but then not commit suicide or become a member of a hate group, we have to provide them with those kinds of supports.

Yeah, and I'm glad you said that Not become part of a haker that's a very important thing you just said because a Person's traumas and and what happens to a person on a daily basis is one of those things that can guide them into Belonging and being a part of a hate group You know There's been people who've taken their plans to the city's office to do an add-on to their house and after being redlined 14 times They just lose it and they think the government's out to get them and those are people we have to come in contact with as police Officers, we don't know what's going on in their life

but they explode on us and we have to deal with that and I think Luckily for me and I know there's a lot of other police officers that can say the same thing Luckily for me, and I know there's a lot of other police officers that can say the same thing, luckily for me that I have a wife and a family who got it. And then Tani would always say, Matt, if you don't let it out now, it's going to come out sideways in two weeks, three weeks, whatever it is. And we don't want that. And so that's why my time in the driveway was so important. My time to decompress, take the screwdriver and Bound for Glory out of the CD

player and listen to Tony and the kids playing. And that was what I needed for that decompression. It makes complete sense that to your point, it has to come out somehow. And we can either create constructive ways for it to come out, or it will find its own way. Yeah. And that's why we wrote the book, The Hate Next Door. Tani said, Matt, you got to write this stuff out to get rid of all those traumas that are in your head. I think when it came down to it, it was very difficult to talk about some of the more deep family times and things that were very personal. That was hard to write about. But when it came right down to it, I didn't want any family to think that they were alone. I didn't want officers to think they were alone. And I didn't

want parents that had children in hate groups or that were involved in some of these extremist organizations to think that there wasn't a way out because there is. There's hope. And if there's awareness, you know, that's where it starts. And we knew and that's kind of when you know more, you got to do more. We found ourselves in this position, and that's why we wrote the book. I would love to hear a little bit more about what kinds of activities are hate groups involved in today? As you mentioned, Tawny, you were kind of naive about the fact that these people, what are you talking about? What hate groups? You know what I mean? Especially

if you grow up in a nice family, loving family, you grow up in a place where you just don't see this kind of activity, it's easy to feel like that's not real, that's not happening. And obviously, Matt can attest to it,, both of you can attest that they are, but what kinds of activities are they out there doing? Are they having like, I'm the president, take the minute, you know, like fill us in. All right. What kind of activities that these guys are involved in? Allentown, Texas shooting, killed eight people. Colorado Springs Q Club, they killed people. The Buffalo City supermarket killing.

El Paso, Texas Walmart shooting. That's the type of thing that these guys are involved in. And that's not the groups, but the guys who get radicalized and they get their ideology from other shooters. Dylann Roof shooting in Charleston, South Carolina. So many people have read his manifesto that they get the same idea.

The New Zealand shooter, all kinds of different shootings, that's what these guys are getting involved in. Now, when we talk about the groups, they're getting involved in, I mean, if you talk about Proud Boys, they're going anywhere they can possibly go to fight, that's all they want to do. And they'll find a reason to go to a left leaning organization and fight and try to make a stand for themselves.

You still have your street level thugs that just want to go out and beat people up because they're not white. That's the type of stuff. But then if you want to go to your other groups that are trying to get people into politics, into law enforcement, and now we're in a totally different breed of stuff. But then if you want to go to your other groups that are trying to get people into politics, into law enforcement, and now we're in a totally different breed of people. Professionals. Yeah, it's sad. It is sick and wrong. And what was so shocking to me is that some of these groups were planning international war.

Yeah, we talked about in the book, I got a call down to the border because a bunch of guys from the local skin crew that associated with the National Alliance were down to the border because a bunch of guys from the local skin crew that associated with the National Alliance were headed to the border to shoot at the Mexican military and One other way to shut the border down but the cause of the international incident, you know And luckily we're able to stop that but that's the type things these guys are doing Whatever they can do to keep America white and to push everything else out can do to keep America white and to push everything else out. And what was scary to me is that I would watch it evolve until it was more and more and more mainstream. And I think that's another reason that we wrote the hate next door is, hey, folks,

this is right. This is next door and we need to be able to see it. It's at our local Walmart. We talk about it at Denny's. And for us, it came into our home. And hate is mainstream because we allow it to be mainstream. In the past, hate groups like the KKK, looking back, they've had several iterations over the centuries. But in the past, one of the big drivers of groups like the KKK and other hate groups, a big driver has been economic instability,

and economic insecurity of these immigrants are taking our jobs. That's a very common theme from the past. For a while, during the 19-teens, 19-20s, it was immigrants coming from Southern Europe and Eastern Europe, and they dress differently. They don't speak languages we're familiar with. They don't speak Swedish. They're speaking Polish. They have different foods than we do. They're by and large Jewish and Catholic. That's where you saw the KKK morph from being just an anti-black hate group to also being anti-Catholic, anti-Jewish, anti-immigrant, in part because of those economic pressures where they felt like you're taking our jobs, you're changing who we are, you're changing our way of life, and we're going to essentially take back the

country for white Anglo-Saxon Protestants. To what extent is that still true? Is that still an ideology espoused by hate groups today? That's a very interesting thing, and I'm glad you brought it up because history does nothing but repeat itself. If you listen to a lot of different politicians or lawmakers, the rally cry right now is we're being invaded. The borders are being overrun.

We're letting gang members and rapists and murders into this country. They're taking our jobs. They're causing our insurance to go up. They're doing all these things and we need to do something to stop it. So what that ideology does, what those triggering speaking words do is they spark all these different groups. So you got your haters who are gonna go down to the border because now they have a reason to hate the immigrants, they hate the Mexicans and hate the Guatemalans coming up.

Now that you have your oath keepers who are military police officers and people who've taken an oath of office to protect the country, think now that they need to go down and protect the country because we're being invaded. You have your three percenters that are doing the same thing. I was asked just about a year and a half ago to be part of a militia that would go to protect the border.

And they asked me to be on the sniper team and to actually shoot at immigrants as they come across the border. And that is what's happening with this rhetoric and with this speak and with this ideology that's just like you said, it comes back from the twenties and teens and it's the same thing now. It's just progressively, it's, I believe it's getting worse and worse. This episode is brought to you by DZONE. For the first time ever, the 32 best soccer clubs from across the world are coming together

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ones from this kind of rhetoric? I'm not sure that we did. I think we spoke. We talked a lot about it. We had everyone, all races and nationalities at this house. It was never an issue. It's just inclusion. I think it sounds so trite and simple, but it's about inclusion and love. and simple, but it's about inclusion and love. And Brownings don't exclude based on anything but character. If you would like come to one of our kids' birthday parties, hey, dad, I'm going to have a birthday party. OK, how many people are going to be there?

I don't know, maybe 10. OK. Well, the first 100 people show up, and then you have 200 people show up at the house. And the great thing is that every nationality, every race, every religion, every part of society is at the house. Tawny was able to teach our kids, we love everybody. We don't hate anybody and we understand what everybody believes and you know what? We can have a conversation and talk about it,

give each other a hug and say, we'll see you tomorrow at school. That's the way that Tani was able to raise our kids and to make our house this house of safety where kids could come to if they needed to get out of the whatever situation they're in. And what's really cool, and I'll tell you this, we have kids that are football players

and one of our sons played football last year in high school and his team took state. They won the state open division and at the beginning of the season he was on a team that his freshman year they won one game out of 10. They were horrible and they stayed together and their coach brought them together their senior year and had them sit in a room and understand each other. So every race, every nationality, every religion was sitting in this room together, a bunch of teenage boys, understanding, talking, not judging, not casting hate towards anybody, but understanding enough to love each other that when they step foot on that football field, they were a family and they want. And that's what we need to do in our homes and in our societies and our politics.

We need to come together and understand. And I think that's one of the main reasons that we wrote The Hate Next Door. Read the book and if you have questions about it, hey, let's talk. Let's understand each other. It's about being good people, I think. You know, raising good people so that we can be good Americans. And I think that's where it's at. And I felt like if a football team could do it on a high school level, why can't we do it in our homes, in a community, and really as a nation. I don't really think that's all that idealistic. It's about leaving our agendas at the door and coming together.

We're smart people. You're not in those leadership positions unless you've done something very smart. There's no reason that we can't do this and give our kids a better America, just like generations before have done. We don't need hate. I don't know where that's helping any of us.

In your experience, Matt, is everyone who is in a white nationalist group of whatever iteration, is everyone white? Because this has been a topic of conversation nationally, that some of the leaders of some of these militia groups, you know, like the national leaders are not Caucasian. They're not. They're born and raised in the US, and so they're American citizens, and they want to stop the invasion.

See, it's kind of a hypocritical way of thinking, but the ideology within it, I understand, because you can be a white nationalist, but you can be from Spain. And so when I first heard that, I was thinking, well, how can a Spanish person be a white nationalist? Well, it's because they're part of the pure European bloodline and the pure European bloodline is a white bloodline

that these guys preach about. So now I think these groups have all different races and things in them. As long as you're American and as long as you have the same views and philosophies as everybody else, then you can be part of it. Now, if you're talking your street level skinheads, now you're not. There's not going to be a black person or an Asian or or anything else within those organizations that straight up white and white hate. It's all about ideology. I mean, that's what you always say. or anything else within those organizations. That's straight up white and white hate.

It's all about ideology. I mean, that's what you always say. You gotta understand the ideology. If we're gonna talk about hate and racism, then you have to understand the ideology within the organizations. We've talked multiple times about how inclusion means working to understand each other.

Even if it doesn't mean at the end of the day you agree and you arrive at the exact same conclusion, that feeling accepted and understood for who you are, even if you have a difference of opinion, really is the difference maker. In your home at the birthday parties, people who are trying to join a skinhead organization, and I also think on a broader community national scale that seeking to understand where somebody

else is coming from, just actually caring enough to understand where they're coming from, that in and of itself is a difference maker. It's not, now we agree. It's that you care enough about me to try to understand where I'm coming from, how I came to believe that, how my parents got here, or if I'm an immigrant, or what my goals and aspirations are, why I might have voted for Bob instead of Susan. Just actually feeling like somebody cares enough to ask and listen and take whatever answers that person gives you and welcome them into your home anyway.

Yeah. That's the crazy thing about working so many years undercover in these organizations. I was able to go to a lot of different concerts and a lot of punk shows and different things. There's one band that the singer, one of his songs said, don't ask me how I'm feeling unless you have 30 minutes to stop and listen to an hour or two, an hour or two, and I think that's what we need to do. If I ask you, Hey, how you doing today? Let me hear how you're doing today.

Or if I come and ask you, can you tell me what you'd learn in your synagogue? And then I need to at least have an open mind to understand what you learned in your synagogue. I understand you have this holiday month for your race or your culture. Can we talk about, can we understand? So I don't have to just feel like I'm being forced by A&E or not A&E, but history channel or whoever else to watch this stuff, but let's have a conversation. And that's where we as adults are dropping the ball.

We, we are teaching our kids that it's okay to argue that is okay to fight. That is okay to yell and throw things at the TV when somebody says something that we don't agree with. We need to be more adult like in everything that we do because our kids are watching. And it goes back to what you said, how do we raise our kids? If I came home, blaring screwdriver and bound for glory every minute of the day when I was home, I would have been teaching my kids to hate. Matt always says we're not born to hate. It's learned.

So, we got to be really careful what we're teaching our children overtly or even subtly. What are the objectives of an undercover officer like you were, Matt? When you are infiltrating these groups, what is your objective? Is it to just learn about potential criminal behavior? What is it? You have different styles of undercover work. You have the guys that go buy drugs, so they buy, make three 20 rock buys and they'll hit the house with a warrant after the third buy. My objective was intelligence based. My job was to go to the meetings, gather the intelligence on who was there, and when a crime occurred, because you can say whatever you want, and you can do that. It's not against the law to hate.

But when you go past the line and you actually have an overt act based upon the hate, so if you shoot somebody, if you beat somebody, whatever it might be, my job was to know who the people are and where I could find them. And that's what I did. And I think I go back to, I wish I was more successful. I wish I was able to do more, but you know, we locked up 18 guys in Arizona alone for murder and attempted murder from organizations that I was a part of. So that was my objective. I didn't want to learn about hate. I don't like hate. I wanted to stop the hate. It makes sense that you didn't have to, you know, you already had a potential list of like, who could potentially be involved in this when something occurred because you have

because of your undercover work. Yeah, and in fact, I went into my undercover work after the guy stuck a gun in my chest. I knew no names, no places, no people, no anything. And then from that one incident, fast forward 13 years, yeah, I knew who the people were. I could tell you what church they went to because they went to church with our brother-in-law,

my brother-in-law, her brother. They showed up the house, they showed up at different places. When you start to know what to look for, it really was all around us. And we have to have our eyes open to it. And they need to know that we know, the haters need to know that we know

what we're looking at and what we're looking for to keep it out of our homes and our communities. Yeah, they know that you're onto them. I'm like, we're not playing that game. It becomes a lot harder for them to recruit from when you're like, I'm watching you. Now change that to, I'm watching you and next thing you know, you get a death threat.

Now they're gonna come after you. We need to say, and that's what happened to us is that we just had to stand up and keep fighting the fight. And because they do, once you expose them, they fight back with hate. We're already seeing it with this book right now. We're getting very hateful articles and comments and it's expected we're ready. And it's really just part of what we're doing. But call me. If I mean, if you got a problem, let's talk about it.

One of my favorite comments is, you know, it's all right to be white, bro. And I'm like, you really didn't read the book because it is all right to be white. It's all right to be you. And that's what the message of the book is, is bring your best and let's be our best and do better. What do you hope somebody who reads The Hate Next Door, which really is a fascinating peek behind the scenes of America's hate groups,

what do you hope the reader takes away? I'll start with you, Tawny. What do you hope the reader, when they have closed the book, what do you hope some of their takeaways are? Well, when it was hard to write some of the pieces that we wrote hope the reader, when they have closed the book, what do you hope some of their takeaways are? Well, when it was hard to write some of the pieces that we wrote in the book, I didn't want anybody to feel alone. I didn't want a mother whose son or daughter was involved in these groups to feel like

there wasn't a way out. And I didn't want families of law enforcement to think that what they were experiencing was unique to them. I wanted them to know that they weren't alone and that there's hope and that there's something we can all do to fight hate. How about you, Matt? Law enforcement to take care of their people. I want professionals to be able to understand what law enforcement goes

through on a daily basis. As you read the book, I want people to be grateful for the things they have, their families, and to take advantage of their families by spending time with them and appreciating them for everything they have. And I think most importantly, I don't think Tani and I put our story out there

just to be read and put the book on the shelf. I hope people share it and talk about it and start that line of communication. I hope that, and these are all big hopes, I know that, but I hope college professors in psychology and criminology read the book and say, okay, what can we do to make a difference in these hate groups? Because as we just talked about, when you expose hate,

they try to go underground, but when you shine the light on them, they have to scatter. The only way to get rid of the hate is to expose hate, they try to go underground. But when you shine the light on them, they have to scatter. The only way to get rid of the hate is to expose it, to talk about it, and then we can get rid of it. So, I mean, what's my goal on the book? Get rid of hate. I hope that it, you know, starts communication within our homes, within our society, and let's have those conversations. Whether we like where it goes or not, let's have those conversations.

Thank you so much to both of you for being here today. I really enjoyed reading The Hate Next Door, and I really enjoyed getting to chat with you and hear more about your story. I appreciate you. Thank you. Thank you, Sharon. You can find Matt and Tawny Browning's book, The Hate Next Door,

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