Higher Learning with Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay - Ime Udoka’s Troubles and Adam Levine’s Peak White Mess

Episode Date: September 23, 2022

Van and Rachel discuss the pending suspension of Boston Celtics head coach Ime Udoka for having a relationship with a woman on staff (17:11), and NBA and WNBA team owner Robert Server selling his team...s (37:46). Plus, a Black Memphis woman sues police for failing to investigate her rape after the suspect has been charged with the murder of a White woman (45:25), and Adam Levine’s infidelity gets the social media treatment (56:48). Hosts: Van Lathan Jr. and Rachel Lindsay Producer: Donnie Beacham Jr. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Starting point is 00:00:01 Yo, yo, yo, thought warriors. What is up? How I learned is on. It was Ivan Lathen Jr. And it's me, Rachel and Lindsay. Rachel, what is going on with you? What's up? What's happening with you?
Starting point is 00:00:19 You're all over the place. I'm all over the place. Honestly, I was doing a shoot. Supposed to start at one time. Three hours later, but starting. So, yeah. I had to. It was, Judge Judy.
Starting point is 00:00:36 Judge Judy? Judge Judy. Judy Justice. She's on Amazon now. Judy, Judge Judy Shindland. How, let's see how, Donnie, let's play a game. How old is Judge Judy? She's almost 80.
Starting point is 00:00:49 Well, Rachel just ruined the game. Yes. Sorry. I didn't realize when you were playing the game. She's been around for a while now, Judge Judy. And she, so it's Judy Justice is the show. I don't feel like people fucking with Judy justice as much as they fuck with Judge Judy.
Starting point is 00:01:04 She just won an Emmy. Oh, for real? So I'm wrong. It's on Amazon FreeVee. What the fuck is that? What is Amazon? What is Amazon FreeVee? I think it's free?
Starting point is 00:01:23 What's that mean? Amazon FreeV. It's like Amazon, you watch it for free? It's like an Amazon channel. Yeah, you speak for free. How could you have done this? And you don't even know what's going on, Rach. Wait a minute.
Starting point is 00:01:36 I know about the show. I know it's the second season. I know what it's about. I watched a couple of cases today. I just didn't know the platform was, it's free. I was right. Free.
Starting point is 00:01:46 You know what? You're going to have a judge show one time. Yeah, according to my Wikipedia page. You would be so good at that. Judge Rachel. Judge Rachel. Judge Rachel. I feel like I'd be embarrassing my dad.
Starting point is 00:02:03 He's out here. He's out here. really presiding over cases, really writing briefs and not briefs, but he's writing opinions that can change the law. You know what I mean? And here I am making a dollar as a judge on television. Like, at least Judge Judy's legit. You feel like he would, you feel like he would look down on you because of that?
Starting point is 00:02:33 I will watch Judge Rachel I mean at this point I guess it's out the window because I went on the Bachelor So if he was going to look down on me If there ever was a time I was then I like Judge Rachel The thing that I like is that
Starting point is 00:02:45 No one on the Judge Rachel show Would be able to apologize for anything As soon as they apologize It's not the place To be honest it's not a place to apologize You're not supposed to apologize in court You can't say I'm sorry It's not going to help you grace
Starting point is 00:03:01 Did you do it or not? Did you do it or not? I don't care if you're sorry. Did you commit the crime? Assuming it's... But it can help you in sentencing, right? They ask for them to apologize. All the time I see people...
Starting point is 00:03:13 Sometimes you have sentencing guidelines. Yes, they give a victim statement. Or they say something. Sometimes I hear the judge when the judge is sentencing people. They actually say you show no remorse. So here it is a thousand years. So that leads me to believe that if you show some remorse, that you might get maybe 120 years.
Starting point is 00:03:36 I don't know. Sometimes it helps. Like, you know how like you'll have a case that says up to 20 years? Sure. Yeah. Sure. Maybe you give 19 instead. If you, man, I'm not going to lie.
Starting point is 00:03:48 I saw some shit one time where, you know, this woman had killed somebody with a car. God bless the dead. And then the family of the person they killed with the car was in there. and they were like, hey, we forgive her. It's cool. And the judge let her off. The judge was like, well, I mean, he didn't let her off, but he was like, hey, he didn't hit her with a whammy.
Starting point is 00:04:12 Because everybody seemed so remorseful and it was like an accident. Wow. What they look like. Caca, caca, caca, caca, cagia, gage. And, um, but still, though, I think your judges can listen to you, apologize and be like you're. Absolutely again. No, you can give a statement. I'll Donnie's got some.
Starting point is 00:04:34 I want to say I'm sorry. Yeah. For the things I've done and I try and be stronger. And it's like I chose, but I want you to know. I don't even have that. I don't even have that. Oh, ooh. I love that day.
Starting point is 00:04:54 Every time I hear that, it brings a smile to my face. What happened to that guy? Did that guy? The comedic timing. The comedic timing. timing was too good. Did he get the book thrown in him? What happened to that guy?
Starting point is 00:05:05 Did he get a record deal? No, man. That nigga probably in jail still. Let's look. Singing. People. Singing. How would you put that?
Starting point is 00:05:16 Singing defendant. Singing in courtroom. His name is Brian Earl Taylor. Uh-huh. Okay. He's from Michigan. This happened in a Michigan courtroom.
Starting point is 00:05:35 Brian Earl Taylor, yeah. If I was a judge, I could only hope for a moment like this. He was on trial for pressing a gun into a man's stomach while trying to rob him of his medical marijuana. Wow. So it wasn't some misdemeanor. This is a felony. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:05:53 Now, oh, he's out. He's finished serving his time and wanted to show the world he's a reformed man. And he came back, he remixed in Adel song. Nah, he's out. No, this is not. Stop. He did. I think he served three years.
Starting point is 00:06:09 He served three years. Yeah. He was released. I'm seeing this from 2016. From the Woodland Correctional Facility in Michigan on September 10th. So he sings on his new song, Hello World. It's me. I was wondering if after all these years we could meet and go over a couple of things.
Starting point is 00:06:26 So he remixed Adele's Sari and he dropped that house. I'm not sure how things are going. Ma'am, I got to say you're right on this. It sounds like that was armed robbery and he got out in three years. It sounds like the song worked. Well, he did a lot of stuff.
Starting point is 00:06:44 So check this out. Let's talk about this guy real quick. He said that he tried to spend every minute being productive while he was inside. He never gambled. He never got into fights. He used the time to improve himself. While locked up, he volunteered for the prisoner
Starting point is 00:07:00 palliative, I don't know that word, care aid program to help sick inmates during their final days. That is kind of amazing. He also volunteered for the prisoner observation aid program and was entrusted with watching over other prisoners to ensure they didn't hurt themselves or commit suicide. It says that it had a deep effect on him. There are a lot of mentally ill people and I wanted to help. During peer-to-peer group therapy, see, they never show you what. happens on the other side. They show you when a nigger looked his most ridiculous.
Starting point is 00:07:36 During peer-to-peer therapy, he sang songs to people to lift their spirits. And he says he felt like they're related to it. He says, now that he's out, people don't even think that he's been to prison because of how he conducted themselves. He said he tried to learn to respect boundaries while he was in there. Didn't want to come out worse. Came out better. Wow.
Starting point is 00:08:01 He said he's planning to release an album in March of 2020. I'm going to reach out to this, brother. I hope that he's doing okay, Brian Earl Taylor. Did he release the album? I'm about to look him up. If he did, I want to make sure that Brian Earl Taylor does not fall victim to recidivism because Brian Earl Taylor seems like a good dude. He's lost even more weight.
Starting point is 00:08:26 He's got a family now. Oh. Oh, but look, he's good for Brassy. Donnie came on here trying to trying to really come at this man, trying to make fun of this man, and it turns out that this is what Mongo's snake killing people do.
Starting point is 00:08:42 Not at all. That's what you tried to do. Let's be honest. He's on Spotify, by the way. He's on Spotify. He's got a single call, get it up. I believe this is him. Well, get it up, Donnie.
Starting point is 00:08:54 Get it up. Play some Brian Earl Taylor. Play that. Yeah, what you need you, what you need, what you need. I can't stay for too long. Got another show in the mom. Want it to be where we sit for. Hey.
Starting point is 00:09:10 We're so gone. We're so gone. You know, my grind. I need it all the time. I got to get it up. I got to get it out. Oh. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:09:25 So, I mean, that's dope. Good for Brian. Like, look, bro. Keep plugging away, Brian. You know, I'm happy to see that the brother changed his life. I'm glad you told the full story. I didn't even, I just wanted to know what happened to him because we already see people like that. And, you know, like, I want to know what happened to him.
Starting point is 00:09:47 What happened? What the hell? What the hell you got going on later on this week, Rachel? Like, what's your, what's your? Actually, I have a very chill weekend. What's your weekend? What is it entail? Nothing.
Starting point is 00:10:01 I have a friend's birthday party to go to. And that's it. So that means housework, chilling. Housework. I do have an announcement. I do have an announcement. Uh-huh. You know how we have the little dog?
Starting point is 00:10:15 Yeah, the little dog, Brownie. Browning? He's officially ours now. What does that mean? Just as I said it, he's officially ours. He wasn't chosen before? No, he was my friends. Uh-huh.
Starting point is 00:10:30 she had there was certain things that came up so we were like I was like yeah we'll take care of him and then she travels a lot so we kept taking care of him we kept taking care of him and I was kind of like I want to keep him and anyway it's long story short now he's ours officially ours we split him co-parent him your friend is a bad your friend is a bad person no actually you would have to say that she's a great person because she realized that her schedule was so busy so rather than be selfish and say, I just want him. She realized that he had a better home and a better life here because her schedule did not permit her to keep him.
Starting point is 00:11:07 So he's best friends with copper. Now he's got, he's got outdoor space. He goes to daycare. I got to be honest with you. Look, there's a situation, very nice person that Kalika and I know, that has a dog, a dog that I love. Okay. I'm not going to say
Starting point is 00:11:31 I'm not going to say the dog that I love. Great dog. Great dog. And look, this person is a great person, but couldn't make time for the dog. I had the dog over here with Bozeman. The dog was great. I look at you a little different
Starting point is 00:11:46 if you can't take time out of your busy schedule to give love to the dog. I'm glad that this is your friend of yours made the right decision. But over in this world over here, dogs come first. Dogs come first. Bozeman comes in here right now. For her, that's what she gave in us. It says, Dad, stop doing a podcast. I'm stopping.
Starting point is 00:12:06 Yeah, look, I'm going to bring a resurgence of animal lovers. I've been getting a lot of videos from Thought Warriors, not just about Mountain Lion. There's all kinds of different mountain animals out there. I've been getting videos about Mountain Bear, you know, Mountain Moose,
Starting point is 00:12:22 just different animals in the wild going nuts. And I'm and I really, I've been getting into wolves lately. I want to be a nature man. I want to be a nature man. I want to be a man that is supportive of the wolves and the mountain lions and the bears of nature. Because I don't think what's happening to them and the dogs is fair.
Starting point is 00:12:45 We shouldn't be able to dictate the life of the dog and the bear and the mountain lion. It's not fair. We share this world with them. We share it. And I don't think it's fair. that the wolf and the bear and Mount Lion and all these people, I don't think it's fair that their lives are dictated based upon where we put freeways. I'm really passionate about this.
Starting point is 00:13:10 I'm getting passionate about animals in the wild. What are we supposed to do, Van? I mean, not live. So you can't, so you have a problem with taking the freeway to work now? You've got a problem where at one time where you live, animals roam. So what you got to say about that? That's what I'm saying. I'm saying just because people,
Starting point is 00:13:32 I'm saying just because people were wrong in the past doesn't mean they have to be wrong in the future. I'm going to look, I'm going to be honest with you. I'm punting with humans. I don't think we can change them. Bill Maher, try to excuse slavery. So all of this evidence, all of this reading you can do. But I think I can be a friend to the animal.
Starting point is 00:13:54 It started with Mountain Lion. I'm serious about this. you know what we of course we need a free way you know what we need to do we also need to consider that we're not the only people that need to move around the goddamn cat needs to move around so why don't you provide a way for the cat to move so the cat can move back and forth so that it's getting killed when it's got babies in its stomach would you want to do you want a world where the animals just go extinct be honest you want that all right then we have to try to make a world with the animals with them come on rachel get down with this
Starting point is 00:14:27 Let's help the animals. I'm serious. Donnie don't kill a snake. Don't kill any wild animal just because jump on, Donnie. What happened with the snake? Seriously. There's nothing else to say about it, Donnie.
Starting point is 00:14:55 No, I feel like the snake has moved on. Or nature took its course and that hawk I was talking about might have eaten the snake. I haven't seen the snake in a long time. So I didn't have to kill it. Nature deal what it does. All right.
Starting point is 00:15:12 Well, I'll just be this. That's the way it goes. Nature's a cruel, cruel mistress. You know, you should keep us up to date on, since this is such a passion and seems to be such a mission for you. You should keep us up to date on what it is you're doing for the calls
Starting point is 00:15:31 other than ranting and raving about pregnant mountain lions and videos that you get. You're right. Next time you want to come on here and defend the animals, stand in their corner and root for them. All right. Tell us how you're acting on it. I'm going to, you're right. I haven't done enough.
Starting point is 00:15:51 I need to do more. I haven't done anything. But I'm going to start. I'm going to figure out how I'm going to do something. But I'll tell you, just remember, next time you're ranting and raving in your office cubicle about racism or sexism, Rachel is saying, unless you've done something, shut the fuck up. Okay. I mean, listen, I had to come out of retirement and address all our dear friend Jimmy Hendrix from recently.
Starting point is 00:16:16 Jimmy Hendricks? You remember our black-faced friend? What did you call him? A black-faced white? I love this guy. Nobody said, nobody said anything. Nobody said that a whole bachelor finale. And then they talked about text messages and all these things.
Starting point is 00:16:32 And they just skipped right over the black face. He said, okay, well, good luck you two. we wish you the best and kept it moving. People were upset, but they'll tune in next season. I think they should move into streaming so people can pay to be racist. Oh, whoa! The big deal of the day on the other side of this break. God damn it.
Starting point is 00:16:59 Boston Celtics coach Imer Adoka, boning a cold. worker. Suspended one year. We'll talk about it. Other side of the break. Did you know about one and three people with plaques psoriasis may also develop psoriotic arthritis, which causes joint pain, stiffness, and swelling? Does this sound like you? Listen to what it sounds like to be a million miles away. Trimfaya, gusalcumab taken by injection is a prescription medicine for adults with moderate to severe plaques psoriasis, who may benefit from taking injections or pills or phototherapy, and for adults with active psoriotic arthritis. Serious allergic reactions and increased risk of infections and liver problems may occur.
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Starting point is 00:18:47 and the National Basketball Association of a coach that led his team all the way to the NBA finals is facing a one-year suspension. This was broke by. Adrian Wolljanowski Hashtack Wogemam for having a consensual relationship with a woman on the Celtics staff.
Starting point is 00:19:17 It's been very famously reported and you've seen her at the sidelines in Madi Doca unless we don't know everything that's going on in his relationship has been in a relationship with Neo Long since 2010. They have a son together according to these same reports, his job is not currently in jeopardy.
Starting point is 00:19:36 And the decision on the length of the suspension will come on Thursday later on Thursday, but from what we're understanding, Thursday is today. So it's Friday now. We don't quite know yet. It looks like a year. And this has gotten a lot of people upset. Like a lot of people are mad. Your friend, Stephen A. Smith, said that this is racialisms.
Starting point is 00:20:01 Donnie, run the audio. Ain't that being done to a brother? Because I got news for you, America. There's plenty of white folks in professional sports. That's doing their thing. And I say that not complimentary. I don't see the information out about them. Why are we talking about this?
Starting point is 00:20:21 We got to talk about it because it's the news. Ain't none of our damn business unless you fire him. But if you keep them, it's none of our business. it should have never been put out there by the Celtics organization. And don't tell me you didn't do it because you absolutely did it because news reporters got it.
Starting point is 00:20:39 So it emanated out of Boston. Somebody ain't in L.A. or Utah or something leaking this stuff about the Boston Celtics. This is on y'all. You shouldn't have been out here. That's what I have to say. All right. I guess Stephen A's point is that
Starting point is 00:20:55 either they should have fired him or kept everything in house, but to give. Is he saying he should have fired him? I mean, yeah. That's what he said. I mean, I watched that clip. He says, if this is what he said.
Starting point is 00:21:07 He said, if they were going to do something, they should have fired him. But to suspend him for a year and then air his dirty laundry and the organization's dirty laundry to everyone to Stephen A. Smith wasn't fair. So I got a problem with how this whole thing was rolled out. It was, I remember. I was sitting on the couch, Simon & Brian, and he's like, whoa. And you see the tweet from Wojj. And this is what the original thing said. ESPN sources.
Starting point is 00:21:40 Boston Celtics coach Ime Adoka is facing possible disciplinary action, including a significant suspension for an unspecified violation of organizational guidelines. Discussions are ongoing with the Celtics on a final determination. There's a big picture of EMA and that's a breaking news from Adrian Wolliornowski. He might not have had all the details and maybe that's why he put it that way, but he also wanted the clickbait and the attention and I get it and I understand that's his job to do. But when you tweet something like that, it leaves it leaves it open for so much speculation and assumptions. And I, to my knowledge, and please correct me if I'm wrong,
Starting point is 00:22:28 I can't recall a coach being in trouble in this way. Step in here, if you can't. It turns about like fucking somebody on the staff type shit? Well, we didn't know the details yet, but at the time, it's like facing a possible disciplinary action, significant suspicion. And it's like, it sounds even bigger because it's like, can you think of another coach this has happened to in this way?
Starting point is 00:22:52 What could it be? Especially when it's on the hills of Robert Sarver. So you're listening, he just got a year of suspension. He just got fined $10 million. So you're like, man, it's got to be up there. We all know, as we've talked about on this podcast, what he was suspended for. Racism, sexism, creating a hostile work environment. So you're thinking that this is on this level. Then it comes out that it was an improper, intimate, and consensual relationship. And I'm not saying that I condone this type of behavior, especially, and I don't know as you. you said, the details of what their relationship is. It may be open. They may have an understanding. Who knows? But the fact that it was that and it was a consensual and it was a violation from the team's
Starting point is 00:23:38 code of conduct versus this huge significant suspension that was coming and looming and you're thinking that it has to be something to me. And this is where I agree with, as you said, my friend, Stephen A. Smith. Yeah. That it seems to be. It seems to be rooted in racism. And you can't, for me, when I saw, well, I'll say this. And I'm going to tell you why.
Starting point is 00:24:02 Okay. When I hear this news and then I see the team that he coaches for in the city that he's in, I can't separate the history of racism in Boston to how this news was released to us. I think that they're related and they're one and the same. And I think that it was purposeful and intentional that the news came out this way with a black head coach of this NBA team. And like it easily could have been kept under the wraps. It, like, we didn't need to know about any of this,
Starting point is 00:24:34 especially with it being a consensual relationship. So I do understand Stephen A. Smith's sentiments here. And I do think that this could have been handled a completely different way. I want to say by no means, am I excusing, you know, assuming that they don't have an understanding and assuming this was an affair and he cheated on the along. I'm in no way of excusing that. but I did feel a certain way about the way that this information was released and coupled with a year-long suspension.
Starting point is 00:25:05 It doesn't make sense to me. So without having all the details, I can't really talk about whether or not the suspension is warranted. I can't talk about that. I can't because if this is against the guidelines of the team, then I have to see what the deal is. but I want people to consider a couple of things here. Number one, I'm not saying that race doesn't play a part in this. Of course, I believe that race plays a part and everything. Okay, okay.
Starting point is 00:25:34 But I just have to, I'm trying to take the 360 view of this. There are a couple of things. Number one, if the staffer comes forward with this, it's much worse than if the team comes forward with it, much worse. Can I tell you why? we have in society litigated and discussed ad nauseum back and forth about whether or not it's even appropriate for someone in a power position that works at a place to have a relationship with one of their subordinates we've talked we've had that talk right don't know if she's a subordinate do you we we she's the head coach she almost certainly is if she's in the C suite she might not be that I know but like like the term that's been used is staffed So the term that's been used is staffer. There are very few people that are going to be in that situation.
Starting point is 00:26:34 And I'm assuming, too, as there's some assumptions being made, I'm assuming that this is the case. This might not be the case. You're right. So if she is in fact, if this lady is, in fact, a staffer and she has less power than Ime Udoca, it is a situation. for the organization. And it's a situation for any organization because we spent a lot of time over the last couple of years talking about whether or not, like you should have, you should enter into a sexual relationship with someone who is your subordinate because, you know, even though we know that two people can consent, the question is, you know, how much do you feel that you can consent? How much do you feel that pressure to do something? If you're reporting. to somebody or if somebody is above you,
Starting point is 00:27:25 you know, what is it that you're doing? And I'm not saying that that's the situation in any of this. He's a great looking guy. He's a very powerful guy. I'm not saying that women wouldn't want to sleep with him. I'm saying that organizationally, the Celtics might be overcorrecting here for something that they felt like could have been a lot worse.
Starting point is 00:27:45 And this is kind of in my opinion. I'm just spitball in here. This is kind of, in my opinion, like where we are right now. He's having a consensual relationship with somebody in the organization, as tawdry as it might be or you might feel like it is. It's not illegal, but it goes against their guidelines for whatever reason. And they feel like they have to be draconian in the suspension for whatever reason. Until the details come out, we won't really know. I think, though, to jump to this wouldn't have happened to a white coach,
Starting point is 00:28:23 you would probably have to have an example of another white coach that did something like this that was then let off the hook. Now, Stephen A. Smith claims to have those examples, and I'm sure he does. He's an NBA insire. But as far as everyone else, we can look at this and say, this is being treated in a certain way because he's black, but
Starting point is 00:28:46 the reality of the situations, we have to look at the fact that he actually did, like, do something knowingly that broke a code of conduct in terms of his employment with the Boston Celtics. Now, as far as the suspension,
Starting point is 00:29:03 a year suspension, look, I don't remember Sean Payton got a year's suspension for allegedly being part of Bounty Gate, right? Yeah. So I don't know how, how the serious, I don't know how they determined the seriousness of his suspension. I don't know. It seems like a pretty significant suspension. But these are the questions that you have to ask the Boston Celtics. Those are the questions. As far as whether or not it's, it's racist or they're coming down harder on him because he's a black coach, it's tough for me to say that now without having the rest of the information I would need to make that deduction. everything you're saying is 100% true and I totally agree and as you said we talked about on the podcast about the power someone who has more power over someone who's a subordinate and how that can cause
Starting point is 00:29:56 an unbalance in the relationship and all of that I understand that and I agree with that the reason I said I said I can't I'm not saying it wouldn't happen to a white coach I don't have that knowledge, but to the best of my knowledge, I have not seen a team suspend their head coach for something like this, this long. I don't even know if there's been a coach that's been suspended for a year when we've seen like, like Jerry Sloan pushed a ref before. He got like, I don't know, like seven, eight games or something like that. I've never seen a head coach have this type of suspension from their team. So then I start using, with the little knowledge I have, I start using circumstantial evidence. And I'm looking at a city that he plays in,
Starting point is 00:30:40 the history of that. And it's, it just, it's hard for me not to make that comparison. I'm not, I won't go as far as saying it can't happen to a white coach. It just seems when I look at all of this and that year suspension, it just seems to be extremely excessive, especially the fact that it has been highlighted that this was a consensual relationship. I'm not saying that there shouldn't be some type of suspension. But a full year and you're not losing your job, like a year is a hefty suspension, but he still has his job.
Starting point is 00:31:12 To me, to me, I look at that as, it's interesting. They don't want to fire him. They just, he just took them to the finals. The Celtics were having trouble getting over the hump with Brad Stevens as their head coach. Brad Stevens is an excellent basketball coach.
Starting point is 00:31:26 But for whatever reason, the player stopped responding to him. Yeah. Yeah, for whatever reason, the players stopped responding to Brad Stevens. They stopped picking up whatever he was putting down. Okay? Emao Doca comes in, energizes the Celtics.
Starting point is 00:31:40 They had a... I'm talking! Sorry. I'm just joking. Email O'Doka comes in, energizes the Celtics. They get off to a so-so start. Then they go on a tear the second half of the season.
Starting point is 00:31:54 Enough so, so, so when they went into the Celtics, a lot of people expected them. A lot of people said that they were playing. better than the Golden State Warriors. I don't think they want to lose Ime Udoka at all. I don't think they want to lose them at all. I think potentially if this were another coach or a coach that was having any less success than him,
Starting point is 00:32:16 that he probably would have been fired. Now, knowing the way niggas get treated, there is no way that you're going to make me believe that when punishments are meted out in America, that we don't get hit a little bit harder. I'm not saying that at all. I'm just saying, I was surprised that Stephen A's response to this. I was surprised that he was.
Starting point is 00:32:44 I'm sure you are. Well, yeah. I mean, look, I agree with Stephen A sometimes, but I wasn't mad. I was just like, oh, shit, okay. I didn't even know that that was the conversation. People on the Internet are mad that we're not talking about Brett Farv
Starting point is 00:33:00 and we're talking about this and this is people's personal lives and all of that stuff. Look, this is definitely people's personal life and it's not our business. But everything that happens to somebody is their personal life and it's not our business. When somebody gets a DUI,
Starting point is 00:33:15 it's their personal life and it's not our business. When somebody commits a crime, it's a personal life and they're not our business. When you're in a certain light or you work for a certain organization, they are going to make those infractions or those mistakes public to us and then the public is going to debate them it is the way that it goes.
Starting point is 00:33:33 So I don't know what's going to happen in his household. I'm hearing that maybe him and Neil Long have broken up before this. I'm not sure what's going on. But this relationship has been ongoing for some time according to the reports that are out. But until we hear what they say and what he says, I think maybe the conclusion jumping
Starting point is 00:33:57 should maybe just maybe we just pause maybe we just pause. Because I'm hearing that maybe he is saying that maybe he might resign. And he resigns. Yeah. No, what are we going to say?
Starting point is 00:34:10 If he resigns, there might be franchises who fucking fire their head coach. You think see, and he's like, if he resigns, he's going to be off the market so quick. It's interesting you say that because I look at it too. There's suspending him for a year, but he still has the option to have his job.
Starting point is 00:34:30 They haven't fired him. I would think that it's extremely detrimental to him when we already don't see black people in professional head coaching jobs. That it would be hard for him to go to another team after this. Oh, that's not true in the NBA. Black coach is not being hired. That's not true in the NBA. And in other sports, that's a thing. In the NBA...
Starting point is 00:34:57 Is it more black than white? It's not more black than white, but there are plenty of black head coaches in the NBA. I'm not saying that there are plenty of black head coaches, but I would think that this having this reputation, because this is what people are going to see for a long time, if not forever with him when they think of him. How detrimental is this to him? How damaging is this to his career?
Starting point is 00:35:20 And how, you know what? Forget I even said all that because Jason Kidd is still a head coach, and so is Chauncey Billups. So forget it. I mean, by the way, right now, right now in the league, half of the NBA's franchises have black coaches. That didn't even matter. Didn't even matter.
Starting point is 00:35:38 Forget, forget half. Jason Kidd is a head coach. Yeah. Jason Kidd is a head coach. Well, I'm just saying that. No, I'm shutting myself up. Him, he'll get another. If he, if he, first of all, you're right, you're right.
Starting point is 00:35:55 If he, if he quits, he'll get another job. First, the first job he'll get is with Brazzers. That's the first job because this is Taylor made for a porn parody. I'm telling you right now, this is going to be a porn parody. If you guys, shout out to my friend Adam over at Brasers. If you guys don't get on this quickly. this is one of the best opportunities at a real-life porn parody ever. Dribbling balls with Ime Udoka.
Starting point is 00:36:28 Okay. This is how you can tell you were an avid porn watch. Let me tell you. That wouldn't even cross my mind. Dribbling balls with Imeu-U-Doka. This is the porn scene, right? Ime Udoka is he's sweaty. He's getting ready for a team.
Starting point is 00:36:44 He's there, you know, late at night. You know, the, the, the, uh, Staffer walks in, you know, he's like, God damn, I'm so stressed out. I don't know how we're going to be Golden State. And she says, Well, hey, I know a way to relax you.
Starting point is 00:37:03 And then he goes, before they have sex, he draws up to play. Okay, this is what you're going to do. You're going to reach around here, all right? And then I'm going to go over here, put your leg up there, boom, turn around this way, bam, ready, fuck. And then that's how. You're disgusting.
Starting point is 00:37:21 Thank you, man. Thank you for that. I have to share all the thought warriors. Higher learning, guys. Oh, they're so uptight. They'll get over it. Look, but seriously, though, all just aside, this is sad. This is sad for a million reasons.
Starting point is 00:37:38 Number one, the relationship between IMEUDoka and Neil Long, we haven't really talked about it. She was so visibly court-side at all of the games. And I don't know what's going on in their relationship. and I'm not casting any I'm not being judgmental or talking about or being immoralizing with anyone
Starting point is 00:37:56 I'm not doing any of that she was very very visible courts out of all the games and he was having such success that in a real way it's sadden me to hear this it's just a bummer to wake up and see this going on and see it's so public and know that people are hurting
Starting point is 00:38:12 places so it is very sad you know so it's tough yeah no it really is I'm looking on social to see if she posted anything. No, it's like a nature video. I was trying to see if she posted something. It is sad. And I mean, obviously, we'll be following the rest of the story.
Starting point is 00:38:31 And, you know, I wish everybody the best. Yeah, we'll see. By the way, I tweeted, I tweeted, I said, Neil Long has 100% approval rating with Black America. And EMAIDOCA is about to understand that. So many people are mad. So many people are mad So many dudes are like
Starting point is 00:38:52 Oh man You that Oh dude dog I'm not moralizing I'm the last person to moralize I'm just saying Motherfuckus is going to be mad at him Because they love Neil Long
Starting point is 00:39:03 And that's facts To me you were just reading the The Twitter room Because fumbling me along Was trending on Twitter So to me you would just say What people were How people were reacting to it
Starting point is 00:39:14 Uh Uh uh uh uh Robert Sarver says he's starting the process to sell the Phoenix Suns and the Phoenix Mercury. Wow. As a man of faith, I believe in atonement and forgiveness. I expected that the commissioners one year's suspension will provide the time to focus, make amends, and remove my personal controversy from the teams that I and so many fans love. But in our current unforgiving climate, it has been painfully clear that that is no longer possible,
Starting point is 00:39:45 that whatever good I could have done or could still do is outweighed by the things I have said my past. For those reasons, I am beginning the process of seeking buyers for the Sons and the Mercury. Bye. Bye, bitch. This upsets me so much because it shows not only do you not get it, not only were you never sorry, it just shows your privilege. and the fact that you feel entitled when you were the one who created a hostile environment that made people feel, I mean, not feel,
Starting point is 00:40:28 that was racist and sexist, and I think homophobic, I'm not sure if that was, I think that was in there as well. And all of a sudden, you made this about you, talking about you believe in atonement and the path to forgiveness. So you want people to forgive and forget is basically what I'm getting from all this.
Starting point is 00:40:46 And because people, you this report just came out not the report but i guess the findings with the suspension just came out sure and people are just now digesting it and having an opinion it's been what a couple of weeks and you're already like but our climate is so unforgiving it just happened people are still reacting to it and all of a sudden you're going to blame these people for reacting to your transgressions and that's why you got to step away away from the team go like get out of here you like I'm glad you're stepping away um the audacity I don't care if he steps away or not uh I guess I would want to step away if you ask me but this is my thing and we've tried to
Starting point is 00:41:34 we keep trying to talk to white people about nigger and they just won't believe us they literally they won't believe us. Call us some niggas and we're not going to forget. You know what I'm saying? It's like it's hard to forget. As a kid, I grew up loving Hulk Hogan. Loving Hulk Hogan.
Starting point is 00:41:58 Like Hulk Hogan, one time, God rest his soul, my dad was so hurt. So hurt. It must have been like 86. Because he asked me, he was like, and I don't know why you would ask. ask a six-year-old kid this, but he goes, who you think stronger?
Starting point is 00:42:15 Me and Hulk Hogan. I was like, p, hosk, Hogan. I was like, you think Hoke Hogan's stronger than your daddy? first of all, he was stronger than him. And secondly, this is the most toxic thing.
Starting point is 00:42:41 When people look at what's wrong with me, and everybody knows I got some shit fucked up, think about that. where he was testing me to make sure that I didn't think that any man on the planet was stronger to him, especially a man. Think about what that does to a brain. You know what I'm saying? So I say Hulk Hogan. He's like, son loves Hulk Hogan and stuff like that. Then my dad started putting it in my head.
Starting point is 00:43:00 You know, don't ever put too much on a white man. And then I started getting off Hoke Hogan because he was white. Anyway, I love Hoke Hogan so much. I love Hollywood Hogan. Hulk Hogan said the nigger word He told his daughter Don't bring no niggas in here I just can't
Starting point is 00:43:17 I'm not mad at Hulk Hogan right now But when I see Hulk Hogan I see a I see a nigga I see a big end on his head Like a scarlet letter It's a nigger You don't want no niggas Dog the Bonnie Hunter
Starting point is 00:43:30 Nigger Nigger I see nigga Yeah Dog the Bonnie Hunter Nigger Hock Hogan Nigger Michael Richards
Starting point is 00:43:36 Nigger I see nigga Robert Solver We probably would would have moved on. But you want us to, what you, it just happened. Like Rachel said, we're supposed to be like, ah, shit, straight. He really, he probably should have thugged it out.
Starting point is 00:43:51 Just thugged it out. LeBron James was madder than I was. Thug it out. Thug it out. People would have been lying. Fuck him. But think about if they win the championship. And he has to hand the nigger trophy to a nigger.
Starting point is 00:44:06 Hey, this is the basketball trophy, the MVP. Pete, it's like, what are we supposed to do to ask us for so much? Right. You fucked out, doc. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, you fucked up, bro. In our current unforgiving climate. When has it ever been forgiven for us?
Starting point is 00:44:24 Suck it up, Sarver. You're about to get a billion dollars. You're about to get $5 billion. This is the entitlement and the privilege. You can't handle a couple of weeks of people being against you. And rightfully so, because you said some fucked up shit. and you continue to do it. And you created a place in your workplace.
Starting point is 00:44:44 You made people underneath you feel a certain way. And you did it over and over and over again. And let's remember he was saying the N word allegedly. He was not even allegedly. It came out in the report. He was saying the N word as in he was repeating what other people were saying. Let's think about this for a second. What could he possibly be, why could he possibly be repeating the N word?
Starting point is 00:45:09 van. Like what could he possibly be watching listening to where he felt the need to say the N-word? Like what type of scenario? Is it a social media thing? From what I'm told, somebody said it and he was saying, why say nigger? Five multiple times? This is the thing, though. This is the thing. We're not stupid. We know when y'all do that. We know, like, we, like, we know when y'all, y'all just getting your shit off. It makes you feel good. like it makes you feel good it's like with your kids and you know you can't curse
Starting point is 00:45:45 but you say it and you're like well he said it just so you can get it out right because you know you wanted to but you know you would never go up to you would never go up to your parents and be if you really that's because you know that motherfucker can't do nothing to you if there was any authority that the person
Starting point is 00:46:00 on the other side of you had you wouldn't do it I would never go up to my parents and be like hey man emney told me fuck me I'm not even going to say F one time my I said, man, I said, the dudes over there said, F me. My dad said, what do F me?
Starting point is 00:46:14 Come here. What F me? I know God damn right. You ain't about to get your motherfucking ass in that house. So what I'm saying is, what I'm saying is they, it's a test. It's a test when they do it. They know it. Some fucking forgiveness.
Starting point is 00:46:29 You better go forgive your ass to the bank. You got to, you're about to sell the team, five, six billion dollars. Sick. About to sell the, uh, the, uh, the mercury for at least $100. $50,000. Stop. Stop. Stop.
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Starting point is 00:48:32 So a woman says Memphis police fell to investigate her rape. The suspect is now charged in Eliza Fletcher's murder. So here's what went down. A woman who said she was raped last year by the man charged with killing Eliza Fletcher says police in Memphis, Tennessee, did not properly investigate her case and that if they had done so, Fletcher would still be alive. So she is suing the city of Memphis. Her name is Alicia Franklin, and she says that she met the suspect that is charged for Eliza Fletcher's murder. His name is Cleotha Abston. She met him on a dating app last year.
Starting point is 00:49:11 They talked for about a month before they did. decided to meet in person. Now, this is last September. So she goes to meet him at his apartment and she states in the suit that she knew the man as Cleo. They had planned to go to dinner. And so she arrives at his apartment, what she thinks is his apartment. He pulls a gun on her and he forces her into a vacant apartment where he takes her out of the back door. And then she says he raped her in the back seat of the car. She immediately sought medical attention after this. and she immediately reported this attack, this sexual assault to the Memphis police. Now, the lawsuit says that she submitted her forensic medical examination.
Starting point is 00:49:53 And you know that, where maybe you don't know, but with this, as a sexual assault kit, and that's where they gather all different types of evidence, and it includes DNA evidence, if there is any. She gave the name of this man, Cleo. She gave his telephone number. she gave his social media accounts and she gave a description of his vehicle. Pretty much they did nothing. Absolutely nothing.
Starting point is 00:50:18 They didn't even touch this sexual assault kit and all of this evidence until June of this year. Then they determined that the DNA from this matched Cleos, or they didn't even determine that it did until this month, September 5th. And three days after, he was accused of forcing Eliza Fletcher into, his vehicle and we now know that she was later found dead in that STV and he's being charged with first-degree murder and kidnapping. Basically, Franklin's lawsuit is saying that abstin should and could have been arrested and indicted for aggravated rape of her many months. And most likely in 2021 when this occurred and the abduction and the murder of Eliza Fletcher would not have happened
Starting point is 00:51:09 if they did their job. I watched the Jeffrey Dahmer thing last night, which was tough to watch like before you go to sleep, but I did it anyway because I'm not smart. And I'm not going to ruin it for anyone, spoil it for anyone, but there were people that knew. Jeffrey Dahmer had a smell coming from his apartment.
Starting point is 00:51:35 He was weird. He was selling. You know, you ever look at somebody and go, ah, I don't know. This was the thing. And one of the women, women that felt that way was his next door neighbor
Starting point is 00:51:44 played by Nisi Nash. See, the thing about it is that Jeffrey Dahmer's victims were predominantly black. Nobody holds their breath. Yeah, absolutely. Black ganges. Who does Zach Efron play?
Starting point is 00:52:04 Sorry. I don't mean, I, I mean, I, it's, okay, sorry. So Ted,
Starting point is 00:52:10 I'm like, he did. Okay, got you. Ted Bundy was like sorority girls and stuff. Right. Right.
Starting point is 00:52:15 But, Jeffrey Dahmer was, and it was even a big deal. And you're also, another thing is you're right on the cutoff of him being this huge, huge deal. Because I remember the Dahmer case when it was going on in 1990, 1990, 1991, 1992, whatever it was. And it was just huge news everywhere. And it was like comedians were talking about it. The people that had survived Dahmer were on talk shows.
Starting point is 00:52:45 Like you have people, you know, but I'll tell you what. The thing is when the victim is black, people don't move with the same urgency. They don't care as much. I'll listen to this lady talk. She was on, I think Good Morning America. And the account that she gave should have triggered immediately a statewide manhunt for her alleged assailant. Because the pathology of it was so chilling. It
Starting point is 00:53:21 Never mind the fact I mean, you know, anyone that says that they were raped or assaulted I just, I don't understand What was interesting to me is the reporting that I watched Both the police and the Tennessee Bureau of Investigations The Tennessee Bureau of Investigations was had the rape kid And the police which was supposed to do the investigation
Starting point is 00:53:40 They both declined to comment on the case. How could you decline the comment? Like how can you like how could you like how could you decline the comment you have to say something we ask questions whenever we see
Starting point is 00:53:58 abuse we ask questions whenever we see a sort of overreaches of power but this type of investigative neglect like who are these organizations serving
Starting point is 00:54:15 and just to be honest with you, the fact that this sister couldn't get anyone, she was four months pregnant when this happened to her. Oh, I didn't know that part. The fact that this sister couldn't get anyone to listen to her accusation, her claim, what happened to her, cause somebody their life. And it, I can't, I don't have anything intelligent to add to this besides disgust and anger. I don't know what you do.
Starting point is 00:54:50 I don't know. I don't know what the answer is. I don't know what you do. I have no clue what you do. You call it out because what can you do, right? I mean, the lack of regard for black women is really disheartening. And it goes beyond violence against black women. You see it in the workplace when it comes to promotions.
Starting point is 00:55:11 You see it with missing girls. You see it with medical treatment and the health, maternity health, with black women. You see it. You even saw it in the social justice movement. I mean, that's why we had to create the whole thing. We, I didn't do it, but that's why they had to create the whole say her name. Because when you were talking about the names of people who were the face of the social justice movement, it was black young men. They weren't the women. You could name one. Most people couldn't name three women that have been subjected to assault by the police and killed or brutally assaulted. So it's just this ongoing reminder of where black women stand in this country in the
Starting point is 00:55:58 social caste system. And it's really an interesting intersection between racism and sexism, right? race and gender. And I think, and I'm with you, there's really nothing that, I mean, we can do in regards to it other than call it out and bring awareness to it and keep talking about it in the conversation. But because if we don't, just like in this situation, the failure to act on the fact that this young woman was sexually assaulted resulted in something else. And if we don't highlight and demand accountability for what's happening to black women, then it allows people to continue to invalidate their experiences and what they're going through. And so, and it makes black women more vulnerable to this type of treatment. So. You know what we, you know what we, we never talk about because it's, it's tough to discuss.
Starting point is 00:57:03 Because it makes you a little mad. we never talk about how white supremacy affects white people. I mean, I mean, precisely that, like white supremacy isn't just a drain emotionally and a cancer to the black community, to the world at large. Well,
Starting point is 00:57:26 white people can't see is that white supremacy is hurting them in myriad ways. White supremacy and the lack of capitalization into young black minds inside of all young black and Latino minds all over the country, is holding society back, you know. And in this case right here, we didn't really talk about this case until a white woman lost her life. That's just facts.
Starting point is 00:57:51 True. And I am in no way going to politicize her death or make it about something that's grotesque or disturbing to her family. But take a step back and look at what's going on. A woman claims, she was raped in a calculated and brutal way. By someone that like, hey, I'm going to leave now.
Starting point is 00:58:17 Don't move until you hear my engine rev is what he told her. Put a bag over her head so you have to see her face. Like really specific and brutal details and nothing was done. What happened was he progressed. he progressed in his psychosis, in his aggressiveness, and in his criminal action. And the reality is, you know, look,
Starting point is 00:58:51 I got to stop saying, the reality is, I use it too much. I use it too much. I use the reality is I use, I'm going to be honest with you all of those things too much. It's your thing. But I, maybe not the time to do it now. Maybe we'll have a different conversation.
Starting point is 00:59:08 about this. I encourage everyone. It pales in comparison to what it does to other people. But I encourage everyone to do a little research. There are a lot of good articles and books out there on exactly how white supremacy fractures the psyche and the community and the society of actual white people. You know, those police down there killed that woman. And I'm sure her family will sue as well. They killed that lady. They killed that lady because a black woman came to them, looking to them for what they were supposed to do, they ignored her. Okay, we got to take a break after that. This episode is brought to you by Spectrum Business.
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Starting point is 01:00:54 Adam Levine addressed his model Sumner Stroes claim that they had an affair after she said he wanted to name the baby after her. Donnie, play her audio. I'm just going to rip the bandit off because I've re-taking this like 10 times now. Essentially I was having an affair with a man who's married to Victoria's Secret Model. At the time, you know, I was young, I was naive and I mean, quite frankly I feel exploited. I wasn't in the scene like I am now. So I was definitely very easily manipulated. Rune 5 is practically elevator music at this point. So I'm
Starting point is 01:01:30 sure you know who Adam Levine is. But Adam and I were seeing each other for about a year. After I stopped talking to him over, you know, a period of months, this is, uh, how he came back into my life. He said, okay, serious question. I'm having another baby. And if it's a boy, I really, uh, want to name it Sumner. You okay with that? Dead serious. Um, okay. So according to Sumner, they had, uh, uh, they had an affair. And, um, and, um, they had an affair. And then he, after the affair was over, he came back and wanted to name his kid. He's married to a Victoria's Secret model. He wanted to name his kid after her.
Starting point is 01:02:21 And that was his way of kind of getting back in contact with her by saying, hey, you know, I would like to name my son after you that I'm having with the wife that I was, you know, ducking out on when I saw you. More women have since come forward accusing Adam. Levine of sending raunchy messages while he was married. And our friend Christian Walker, you know how much we love CW over here. Friend of the show, for sure. Friend of the show.
Starting point is 01:02:54 Has weighed in on this. Let's hear what Christian had to say on old TikTok. As someone who comes from a broken home, you're not a victim when you sleep with a married man. The only victims and affairs are the loyal partner and children, if there's any children involved. We've become this weird generation of yelling, pour me on the inner. and expecting to garner all of the support. All right, shut the fucking shit off. Shut up.
Starting point is 01:03:17 Shut up. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Blah, blah. Blah, blah. Nigger, how many kids your dad got? That's the first time I've heard him acknowledge that he comes from a broken home. Because before, he was very holier than thou with his father until it started coming out that he had all, that he was not taking care of his other children and just admitted to even having them.
Starting point is 01:03:37 So that was interesting to me. You know why this is peak white mess for me? why because everybody looks bad some nerd yeah of course she looks bad why because she exposed them I mean that but she was fucking around with him when he was married
Starting point is 01:03:58 I mean every he looks worse it's his responsibility hold on let me make sure I make this clear it's his responsibility to care for his relationship it certainly is it's his responsibility to care for his relationship
Starting point is 01:04:12 and I'm not sure it can, I'm not sure it gets worse than trying to name your kid. You can't, how do you get out of that one? It's twisting. It's disgusting. What kind of maniac are you that you want to name your child that will forever for life be a constant reminder and it's such a unique name when your children ask,
Starting point is 01:04:39 like, why did you name you that? My name's Rachel and I ask my parents why they need. name me that. What are you going to say when they ask, why did you name me Sumner? Like, it's gross. My mind, I can't even comprehend that. That's a week was the worst one. That's the worst one. That's the worst thing. Do you think so? Okay, let me ask you this before I go into my like slightly patriarchy, mansplaining thing. Do you think something that looks bad at this? Do you think something that looks bad at all in this? Let me come to you for some clarity. So Sumner says that the reason that she decided to rip the Band-Aid off is because she had shared this with friends, which I would imagine most women would.
Starting point is 01:05:20 And the friend was trying to sell the story. So she wanted to get ahead of it before her friend did. Let's just take that as the truth. Uh-huh. I'll go back to the conversation that we had earlier in this podcast. He is an older, powerful man. Uh-huh. She is a younger, I believe she was in college when this was happening, right around about to graduate and he just graduated.
Starting point is 01:05:47 Impressionable young woman who is embarking on a social media influencing career. Okay, that's what she is. She's Instagram model. You have to acknowledge the power dynamic and how influential and on his part, I will use her word manipulative that it can be. I'm not saying that she didn't know that he was married to Bahadi. And obviously there's some responsibility in that. But more of the responsibility falls on him. And you can't tell me that he was not being intentional and purposeful about who he was seeking out,
Starting point is 01:06:21 knowing that he could have more power and manipulation over a certain type of woman. I will always think of it that way. And with her, she's younger. She's impressionable. She's trying to get into this industry in some sort of way. and it's easy to make mistakes. I'm not saying she's right. And fall victim, not victim,
Starting point is 01:06:42 but fall into all of that because of the place that she is in her life compared to where he is. So do I think that she's wrong? If she knew he had a wife, which I'm sure she did, then that's wrong. But I'm not really looking at her.
Starting point is 01:06:57 I'm looking at him. Okay, that's fair. And you're right. I didn't know who she was until this. So she forever will be famous for this. You know what I mean? So this is this, now this. Now this is why she's famous, okay?
Starting point is 01:07:09 The only reason why I say everybody looks bad, because I'm like, I'm looking around and that's the good sign of Peak White Mess. Peak White Mess doesn't have a white knight. I just want people to know this. Peak White Mess doesn't have anybody that can, like, that can come and get you out of the dogems. That's not what Peak White Mess has. Peak White Mess is messy on all sides. You know what I'm saying? Peak White Mess is the fucked up shit that white people get into.
Starting point is 01:07:34 You know? The Hatfields and McCoy is. That's peak white mess. You know what I mean? And I don't like it. Look, I'm not sure where Adam Levine. He's on the voice now, right? He's been off the voice for a while.
Starting point is 01:07:47 He's off the voice. So what happens now? What do you mean? What happens? He's like a business owner. He's making music. Can I say something? He's a father.
Starting point is 01:07:58 I'm going to be honest with you. White men don't get enough credit for their cheating prowess. They don't. white men like it like like even with the emma udoka thing right you see a black man can't stay faithful black man can't stay faithful and i'm not saying anything about that i can't speak to that as far as the sisters are concerned but think about this uh ben affleck adam levin adham ashton kutcher what was your man from los vegas that cheated on fergie i can't remember his name josh dumel like josh d'emale like josh d'emel Like, they get it in. All right. Like, it, it happens.
Starting point is 01:08:43 There was one now that I'm blanking on that I can't even remember. Like, they, white, white dudes kind of, they kind of skate a little bit on the whole different situations. The timber snake. Some people say the timber snake was out there a little bit, you know, the timber snake got himself into a, got himself into a little bit of a problem. I don't know. It just doesn't seem to stick with them. I don't know why the label. The label is on black men heavy.
Starting point is 01:09:14 But I'm looking at this. Adam Levine is like, that's like the last nigger I would expect to be involved in some shit like this. You know what I'm saying? It's like the last guy that I would expect to be down with some Robin Thick. Robin Thick. You know what I mean? Robin Thick.
Starting point is 01:09:33 Robin Thick was one. People still looking at it. Damn. But they still look at him. You know what I'm saying? Like Robin Thick, like white dudes cheat and they, they, it's like everything else, they skate for it. They don't really get the same type of scrutiny.
Starting point is 01:09:49 I think, I think black men get, uh, get to skate a little bit too. I think people move on past their cheating. Well, people are going to move on past everything. I mean, you, it doesn't define them, though, like that. You know, look, you're like, uh, I remember when he did this. it might happen in certain instances but for the most part men just get away with the shit
Starting point is 01:10:11 well for yeah for the most part people do you know what I mean like like is there a woman right now that you can think of that cheated on somebody and it ruined her career like for example right now Olivia Wilde most likely
Starting point is 01:10:26 she don't put that that that is not that has not been confirmed she nigger if those roles will reverse ain't no fucking way anybody would believe that she didn't cheat. Like, it's like she,
Starting point is 01:10:43 and nobody looks at her as a cheating harlot. No, because it's Harry. They're like, they're fascinated with the relationship. Everybody's like, oh, okay, it's okay, it's Harry. Christian Walker. I can't believe we put Christian Walker on the podcast. Rachel, you want to take this last one because, like, this is something that you have.
Starting point is 01:11:03 This is wild to me. No, this is not something that I would do. you like to think that I can't cook. I know you like to put these things on me. I have never heard anything like this. It's hard for me to even think that this is a real thing. But apparently it is. Okay, so the FDA comes out and issues a warning.
Starting point is 01:11:20 FDA comes out of issues of warning. You think, okay, this is something I need to pay attention to. The warning is against a social media challenge. The warning is telling you not to cook your chicken in NyQuil. I repeat, don't cook. your chicken in NyQuil. So the reason they had to come out with this is that there's a social media trend where people are misusing non-prescription medications and encouraging other viewers to do so. These challenges, they often target youth. I mean, who else are they targeting?
Starting point is 01:11:55 And of course, this is the FDA saying this. They can harm people and they can even cause death. So the trend that's that's on the rise now is that people are cooking their chicken in NyQuil, or similar over-the-counter cough and cold medications. The FDA is also letting people know boiling certain medications can be harmful to breathe, let alone eat. Van. Your thoughts.
Starting point is 01:12:23 Since you think this is something that I do. My thoughts are this. My thoughts are this. And I'm very serious about this, because we take stuff like this lightly, but it's a very serious commentary on the state of the world and kind of how things are on the internet. I'm encouraging anyone who was considering cooking their chicken and NyQuil
Starting point is 01:12:48 to please do it. Cook the chicken and NyQuil. Eat the chicken and then do it for the subsequent days. I want you to try different versions of NyQuil to cook your chicken in. NyQuil cold and flu. if you got high blood pressure, do it in the NyQuil low blood pressure. If you want to go to NyQuil AM,
Starting point is 01:13:16 if you want to stay awake, just try until you get the flavor that you like, until you get the color that you like, the sear that you like on your chicken, please cook your chicken and NyQuil. Eat it. Cook it in NyQuil and then eat it. Cook it.
Starting point is 01:13:35 everyone listening to me. If you're thinking about cooking your chicken and night quill, cook it and then eat it. Please. And whatever happens to you, I promise it will be good for society. I don't like the fact that we're getting in the way of El Selection Natural. Let them cook it. This is what you do. I want to see somebody make a Shet's video with a piece of,
Starting point is 01:14:05 of chicken cooked in night quill with a tied pod on top of it with a little bit of windex drizzled on the top of it just for a garnish eat it not just for the garnish listen y'all got to stop i know peer pressure is a real thing especially when you're young but like this isn't it first of all nightquil is disgusting i don't care what flavor it is it's gross so to use it to cooking in your chicken, what are y'all really doing? I'm trying to find a video. Oh, there's a video. I'm like, I've yet to see a video of this actually being done. It looks disgusting. Are you, are you looking at this? It's a pan just with NyQuil, like, does it show the people actually eating it? Does it show them actually eating it? That's the thing. Nobody's actually eating it.
Starting point is 01:15:01 I hope they do. Guys, do better than this. This is ridiculous. What is this world coming to? I hope they eat it. I hope they eat. One thing before we go. One thing, one thing before we go. There's a family in Utah where the mother is surrogating for her son and his wife. She's carrying the baby for her son and his wife. Weird to you or not weird?
Starting point is 01:15:31 It's the wife's egg and his sperm and she's just the one holding it. The mother is holding the baby. Weird or not weird? I don't think it's weird at all. You don't think it's weird at all. People are, people are divided. I think that's beautiful that she's giving that to her son.
Starting point is 01:15:47 It is, it's the son's sperm and somebody else that she's caring. She's giving them the baby that they want. I think that's, it doesn't bother me. It doesn't bother me. Once again, mother.
Starting point is 01:16:00 I heard it. Holding a baby for her son and his wife. You're, the baby for son and his wife. Just she's just the carrier. She's not, it's somebody else's egg and her son's sperm. She's just carrying the baby. Yes.
Starting point is 01:16:17 Yeah. I'm not mad. I'm not, I'm not, is this something I would necessarily do? No, but I'm not mad at them for doing it. I'm not mad either. Not mad, but that shit is a little weird. I mean, maybe, I mean, maybe this is weird coming from the guy that wants his mom to have all the great sex in the world. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:16:37 That shit is a little weird. It's a little weird. That's my, how about this? Everybody always says, Van has no line. Van has no line. Van outlined, the brass was seen earlier in the podcast. Nan,
Starting point is 01:16:48 Nanny Boo-boo, we hey, van. Here's a deal. That's my line. That's my line. Real quick, kids. That's your line. When I say kids,
Starting point is 01:17:00 I don't mean kids. 13-year-old kids, 14, 15, 16-year-old. You don't even use the stove without your mother's consent. Just don't be in there even though I did it. But y'all young-minded. Everybody that's in college and wants to do this, eat night quill with your chicken.
Starting point is 01:17:19 I'm sick of y'all. Our only hope, some of y'all got to get your stomachs pumped. Some of y'all got to learn the hard way. Eat it. Okay, let's do mailback. Mailback time. Time to read your letters.
Starting point is 01:17:37 And then we'll reply to them. Oh, it's mailback time. Write us with your queries and we'll chime in. All right. First one is coming from something bad happens on Reddit to ask, you guys could bring any three things to survive in Mountain Lion backcountry. What are those three things? Yes.
Starting point is 01:18:07 Yes. Yes. Why? So is this like a naked and afraid situation where we have nothing other than these three things? Is that how we're looking at this? Van, is that how we're answering this question? Yeah, I guess so, yeah. All right.
Starting point is 01:18:27 I would have a knife, a fire starter, and a book. Okay, well, you just, you went two for three. I would have a tomahawk with a hammer end. Okay. You can tell who's thought about it. Did you submit this question? No, I didn't. I would have a tomahawk with a hammer end.
Starting point is 01:18:53 I would have matches. Okay. And rope. Because I'm not making rope. I'm not bringing any guns or anything like that because that's cheating. I'm not making rope. I would have some. rope. Okay.
Starting point is 01:19:13 Because I, naked afraid, to me, what I watched naked and afraid, the thing that separates the man from the boys, and look, excuse me, that's very heteronormative, as very gender. The thing that separates the adults from the kids is people that know how to do
Starting point is 01:19:29 specific shit. I watch two twos burn a log until they had a canoe. Burn a log? I watch two naked guys on naked and afraid, take a big log, and burn out the middle of it.
Starting point is 01:19:51 Oh, wow. Then they sat in it and it was a canoe. You know what my issue is about this show? Nobody wins anything. They win money. I have not seen that. They win money. All I thought is their survival rating goes up.
Starting point is 01:20:08 Do you know they come in with a specific rating? When it's over, they're like, yay. we made it. I think there's some money won. Donnie, I'm wrong about this. I could be wrong. I think you are wrong.
Starting point is 01:20:18 Google says the winners of naked and afraid don't get paid extra for winning. There is no monetary winners prize. The only prizes for the winners is that they know they can survive naked and afraid. You got to be fucking kidding me about that. No. Naked 60 day survival challenge prize money.
Starting point is 01:20:36 No, there is no prize money for the winner of the show. Oh, y'all niggas is nuts. I'm sorry. See what I'm saying? When we figured that out, I went on a binge watching it. Brian and I love that show. These people don't read anything.
Starting point is 01:20:48 They're just, their rating goes up, which I don't know who rates them in the first place. 21 days of subjecting yourself to that. I think it's 21 days. Ridiculous. It'd be 20. It could be 40. It could be 60. It depends on the challenge.
Starting point is 01:20:59 Oh, I haven't seen them 40, 60 ones. Yeah. Okay. Next. All right. Cadell James on Instagram asked, when did y'all realize you didn't have a future in sports? Well, Vance still trying to figure that one out.
Starting point is 01:21:15 I think we know that. I got a quarterback coach. Boxing, basketball. I hired a quarterback coach. You see what I'm saying? I did. Why? You encouraged by the Eli Manning video?
Starting point is 01:21:28 No. Why? We're doing some funny, we're doing some funny content, okay, about whether or not a 42-year-old man can learn how to quarterback, and I'm going to learn how I want to learn something new, quarterbacking. By the way, I never felt like I couldn't have made it. I still feel like if I put my mind to it, I could have done it. Exactly, you guys.
Starting point is 01:21:47 Exactly. I, on the other hand, realized I didn't have a future in sports in high school. I was realistic. I met her sister. She was a good basketball player, huh? Constance? Yeah. She had a really good shot.
Starting point is 01:22:05 I could tell she played. Why? Because, man, she got that little. She walked like a ball player. You know what I'm saying? I don't like how you're imitating her walk. She walked like a ball player. She's going to listen to this and see this.
Starting point is 01:22:18 She's going to go. I can tell. Shout out to concerts. All right. Donnie next. One more. All right. We were talking about pets earlier in the podcast.
Starting point is 01:22:29 So let's go with the pets question. Heidi 6C asks, how did you come up with your pet names? Copper is because he's brown and he's got copper eyes and all that, but mainly because of the movie. be fox and the hound. It's Copper and Todd. Copper's the name of the dog. It was either Simba, Hennessy, or Copper, and landed on Hennessy.
Starting point is 01:22:53 And Brownie, that was already his name. Yeah. I obviously named my dog after Chadwick Bowesman. So it's Bozeman. Boz, chat with Bozman. Where are Copper's nicknames? Papa. Papa.
Starting point is 01:23:09 My nephews call him copy. Copy. That's good. It's all great. It's warm my heart. I feel like that's it We got So
Starting point is 01:23:19 Bozeman's Bozzie Wozer Bozerly Woserly That's the one I was looking For Yeah
Starting point is 01:23:28 Bozzy Woser Woser Woserly Woserly I call him Wabit Sometimes Wabit Because he hops around Like a Wabit
Starting point is 01:23:35 But yeah He's got nicknames I love these dogs Okay that's enough It's now time For an unexpected Ally of the Week presented by State Farm.
Starting point is 01:23:46 If you're a small business owner, it isn't just your business. It's your entire life. You could be in real estate or a painter that helps decorate homes. Whatever the business, you need someone who understands what it's like to have one themselves.
Starting point is 01:24:00 And that's where State Farm's small business insurance comes in. State Farm agents are small business owners too. They know what it takes and how to help you. Like a good neighbor, State Farm is there. Talk to your local agent. today. Rach, do you have an unexpected ally every week? I do. And my unexpected ally
Starting point is 01:24:20 was already mentioned in this podcast. And I think you would have to agree because you think to when you were mentioning him. Mine is Stephen A. Smith. He's a friend to some on this podcast and to some, he is not. That would be you, Van.
Starting point is 01:24:35 You don't always have the most pleasant things to say. You're always saying he... Oh, oh, it's a great one because you as earlier and you can run the tape on he said you were shocked by his take you have been critical of Stephen A. Smith on this podcast
Starting point is 01:24:52 and so that makes him the unexpected ally of the week because usually when we're bringing him up it's controversial. All right, that's cool. Mine is controversial. My unexpected ally of the week
Starting point is 01:25:10 is Jared Kushner. Jared Kushner criticized Ron DeSantis for his migrant flights saying that we have to remember that these are human beings Wow He's very troubled Very troubling
Starting point is 01:25:33 He says he's very troubled By the flights launched by Florida Governor Ron DeSantis Now let me flip on this a little bit Ron DeSantis Is becoming the chief political rival of Donald Trump and Jared Kushner is a piece of shit. However, a broken clock is right, two times a millennia.
Starting point is 01:25:55 And anyone, anyone who calls out the total, total, total, total, total, total, total, dehumanization that was that flight, or continues to be the treatment of migrants. Somebody that has a platform, I at least got to crack the door a second, but it's closed. Fuck Jared Kushner. But it was unexpected. It was unexpected. Okay. Yeah. That's a good one though.
Starting point is 01:26:22 That's a good one. But I'm glad you corrected it in the end. All right. That was this week's ally of the week, which is presented by State Farm. There's nothing more personal than a small business that takes dedication, patience, and of course a lot of hard work. State Farm agents are business owners too, and they're ready to put in the hard work to help you pick personalized policies that fit your small business needs.
Starting point is 01:26:45 Like a good neighbor, state farm. there talk to your local agent today. Paything caps off, but do not stop learning. I am Van Leighton Jr. And I'm Rachel and Lindsay. We're out. Bye guys.

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