Huberman Lab - DAVID SENRA: Daniel Ek, Spotify
Episode Date: September 28, 2025I’m excited to share episode one of a new podcast that I’ve helped create and produce. This new podcast is called David Senra, and it’s hosted by David Senra. For those of you not familiar with... David Senra, he is an expert in all things related to greatness. He studies greatness and understands it, mostly in the domain of business but also among creatives, athletes and other world-class performers. This first episode of the podcast is with Daniel Ek, the co-founder and CEO of Spotify. It's an absolutely spectacular conversation that I'm certain you'll enjoy. With episode one of David Senra now available, please be sure to subscribe wherever you’re listening so you don't miss future episodes. You can also subscribe to the podcast on the platforms below. Spotify: https://spti.fi/TVrr557 Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3WaK1S6 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@davidsenra X: https://x.com/davidsenra Chapters (0:00) Introduction from Dr. Andrew Huberman (1:13) Reflecting on a Life-Changing Conversation (2:30) Optimizing for Impact Over Happiness (5:21) The Journey of Self-Motivation (10:11) The Importance of Trust and Relationships (15:37) The Role of Criticism and Self-Reflection (17:37) The Evolution of an Entrepreneur (23:27) Building a Company True to Yourself (34:56) The Power of Trust in Business (42:25) Intellectual Humility and Learning from Others (42:49) Shadowing Leaders for Growth (45:01) Learning from Mark Zuckerberg (48:15) Balancing Personal Taste and Metrics in Product Decisions (53:35) The Evolution of Leadership at Spotify (59:13) Building a Company That Outlasts the Founder (1:15:25) Managing Energy Over Time (1:25:31) The Never-Ending Game of Life (1:25:54) Lessons from Henry Ford (1:27:08) The Value of Solving Problems (1:31:42) The Importance of Quality (1:37:20) The Power of Focus and Patience (1:54:32) Balancing Work and Life (2:00:25) The Journey of Self-Discovery (2:08:43) Final Reflections and Gratitude Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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I'm Andrew Huberman, and I'm a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine.
Today, I'm excited to share the launch of a new podcast that I've helped create and produce.
This new podcast is hosted by David Senra.
For those of you not familiar with David Senra, he is the expert in all things greatness.
He studies greatness and he understands it, mostly in the domain of business, but also creatives, athletes, and other world-class performers.
In this new show, David sits down with the best of the best business founders,
and extreme winners to understand their drive, their process of creation, how they overcome
failures, their lessons in leadership, and other tools for achieving success.
This first episode of the podcast is with Daniel Eck, the founder of Spotify.
It's an absolutely spectacular conversation that I'm certain you'll enjoy.
If you'd like to listen to future episodes of this new podcast, please be sure to subscribe
to it.
It's simply called David Senra, and links to it are in the show notes for this episode.
Again, the podcast is called David Senra.
Episode 2 of David Senra will be with the founder of Dell Technologies, Michael Dell.
So again, make sure to subscribe wherever you're listening now.
And now, episode one of David Senra with the founder of Spotify, Daniel Eck.
So I want to consider this conversation, like a continuation of the conversation we had last year in New York.
It was by far the most impactful conversation I had the entire year.
It is in large part the reason we're sitting down and actually recording this conversation.
And what I loved was, I thought about how the advice you gave and the stories you told really fundamentally changed my approach to my work and then also like my philosophy of how I'm living my life.
And because you, it's very rare, like this year I'm going to hit over 400 biographies read for the podcast, right?
And somebody asked me recently, it's like, do you ever uncover new ideas?
It's like, no, I feel like I'm telling the same story, the same personality type over and over and over again.
And you'll get a new idea or a novel idea every once in a while, but certainly not all the time.
But you shared something at the dinner that was a truly novel idea.
And then a few months later, I read this interview.
And I was like, oh, I'm not the only one that Daniel's advice changed the career.
So I'm going to read something.
There was an interview given by the CEO of Uber, who's a friend of yours, Dara.
And I'm going to read this excerpt, which was absolutely perfect.
And he was talking about contemplating, should I take this job?
or not. Like, this is a huge opportunity, but also, like, kind of scary. And this is tied to
your idea that you should optimize for impact over happiness. I haven't heard anybody else
articulate that. And so Darcy says, I was reading about all the issues happening with Uber
and the news, the various challenges that were coming up there. So when I first got the call to be
the CEO, I said, heck no, I'm not crazy. I'm not up for this. But I had one particular conversation
that really shifted me, which was with Daniel Eck, who's a good friend. And I still remember,
I was talking to him about my career at Expedia and how happy I was.
And he looks at me, and he looks at me, and he goes, since when is life about happiness?
It's about impact.
You can have an impact on Uber, which is a really important company in the world that's shaping the future of cities.
And I thought to myself, my God, this is so obvious.
I've got to take a shot.
I knew it was going to be uncomfortable.
Can you just explain how you think about optimizing for impact over happiness and why?
Well, first off, it's incredibly kind of Dara to say that.
You know, I think about this.
I think happiness is a trailing indicator of impact.
And I think you can be, you know, you can feel happiness in small bursts, in small moments,
and you can have a lot of variance in your life.
So you can choose to have that part, which is the ups, the downs of life, et cetera.
So I'm not saying you can have happiness.
But I think truly sustained happiness.
comes from impact, and impact is something that's deeply personal to you. Only you can define
what impact means for you. So I think it means different things for different people. But I do think
it's a trailing indicator. So the way I would put it in this case is, you know, what was obvious
for me with someone like Adara was he was content. He wasn't happy. And, you know, he had gone
through a face, knowing him for a while where he had a lot of ups and downs with Expedia
and all that stuff. And he kind of mostly figured it out. And so he was content. And I think that
in his case, you know, where he was at his life, it was such an obvious thing that he didn't even
realize that he'd just grown content. And so for me, you know, Uber.
is a very special company
and to even be asked to be the CEO of that
and the impact I knew he could have
on that company
just felt to me like an obvious thing
and so
I sort of advised him
to hey you should go
for this
and that's a far greater thing
and that's going to be far
will lead to much more happening
it's not just for you but also for other people
did somebody do that for you
Did somebody tell you to optimize for impact over happiness?
Or is this just the way you work?
I think of self-motivate myself that way.
Okay.
To do the hard things.
You know, like many other people, I'm quite lazy by nature.
I try to take the simple road out often enough.
But what I've learned that has given me the greatest joys is overcoming the biggest
adversities. And overcoming the biggest adversities usually has been solving a problem of some
kind for someone or something that no one else had been able to figure out. And for me, that's my
definition of impact. And it's not right there at the moment that I feel bad. Actually, in many
cases, I feel much longer. But it's when I go back and I reflect on accomplishments or
moments of impact, then I feel true happiness. And so I've just grown to kind of like self
motivate myself constantly. And I think this, by the way, kind of comes from like a much deeper
thing, right? Like I came from like pretty much what was the project in Sweden and I was not the
normal kid. You know, I was kind of probably a middle of the pack kind of kid, but I certainly stood out.
I didn't belong to any social group.
There was no social cohesion, et cetera.
So, wait, you felt like an outsider even at that age?
Oh, yeah.
Do you still today?
Yeah, every moment of my life.
Even among other fellow entrepreneurs, I sometimes feel like an outsider because, like,
right now, for instance, you and I were in Silicon Valley.
I'm not American.
So there's an element of myself where I don't belong to the club.
And I've always felt that way.
And because I've always felt that way, I've had to.
I can't take lessons from other people 100%,
because some of my story, some of my conditions,
some of the waves, the structures,
even how to structure a company.
You have to structure differently
if you're a European company versus an American company.
So you have to go back to sort of first principles
and kind of find this sort of principled answer
to anything and what works for you.
And so I've had to kind of self-motivate myself
for most of my life.
And only, I would say, in the last,
maybe five years, I've come to realize that, you know, in a way, I'm maybe a better coach
than I am a player. And so I've kind of understood more and more that actually that sort of
drive, that intensity is actually something that can be taught. It's not entirely innate. And it's
about almost letting people know that that's okay. And so much of that comes from those types
of conversations is about almost reflecting back.
It's not about sort of me projecting onto other people what I think they should do,
but in listening to Dara, it was just so obvious to me when he kind of explained
because, you know, the conversation started with us talking about Uber and I said,
I recommended you to the job.
And he said, oh, really, yeah, I just didn't take the call even.
And I was like, well, why not?
And he was like, well, I'm really happy about this thing.
and I was like listening
and I actually just let him keep talking
and the more he spoke
the more obvious it became
he was content
he lived in he was running on the
downshifted down to the easy gear
life was good
it was really easy
but there was an element of him
and you could hear in his voice
where he's sort of like
okay well you know
you've always been running on a higher gear
do you want to you know gear up
even more to an extreme level
why aren't you going to go for greatness?
Why aren't you going to test yourself?
Because if you succeed, this could be huge.
And you really don't get many of these chances in your life.
And so much of the conversation was really around that.
But with another person, I might have given a totally different piece of advice.
So I don't think it's a universal truth.
But I do think the universal truth is that happiness trails impact.
But impact is something that's highly unique.
It could be something innate in you.
It could be having impact on other people.
It could be, you know, having impact by being a great father around your kids.
I don't pretend to know that I think that there's one game to play or one universal truth to life.
I certainly believe from entrepreneurial types that probably more to myself, more like myself,
that, you know, this is sort of one of those sort of key things, is really consider impact.
One of the things I admire most about Daniel Eck is his relentless dedication to improving his craft and to improving his product.
It's a mission that he's still on nearly two decades later.
It'd be impossible to argue that Spotify isn't one of the most well-crafted products ever created.
And Daniel and his team's dedication to constantly improving their product reminds me a lot of my friend Kareem, who's the co-founder and CTO of Ramp.
Kareem is one of the greatest technical minds working in finance.
I spend a lot of time talking to Kareem and every single conversation centers around his
obsession with crafting a high-quality product and using the latest technology to constantly
create better experiences for his customers.
Kareem and Daniel both believe that nothing is ever good enough and that everything can
always be improved.
Kareem is running one of the most talented technical teams in finance and they use rapid,
relentless iteration to make their product better every day.
So far this year, Ramp has shipped over 300 new features.
Ramp is completely committed to using AI to make a better experience for their customers.
and automate as much of your business's finances as possible.
In fact, Kareem just wrote this.
AI is all I think about these days.
It is our duty to be first movers and push limits
so we can make the greatest possible product experience for our customers.
Ramp uses a combination of craftsmanship and rapid iteration
to invent new products for their customers.
Many of the fastest growing and most innovative companies in the world
are running their business on Ramp.
Make sure you go to Ramp.com to learn how they can help your business save time
and money. Let AI chase your receipts and close your books so you can use your time and energy
building great things for your customers because at the end of the day, that is what this is all
about, building a product or service that makes someone else's life better. That is what I'm trying
to do. That is what Daniel Eck has dedicated his life to doing and that is what Ramp has done
too. Get started today by going to ramp.com. You mentioned you thought some people don't go
for impact because they're content. When was the last time? Like, you're definitely. You're definitely
not content now, right? So I've gotten to know you once. We've talked for hours and hours and
hours, and this is why I wanted you to be the first person I had this conversation with.
And I was curious if you could say that. I was like, no, no, I know you have this like inner
burning desire and fire inside of you, which is, to me, your outside is like you're very calm,
you're very articulate and you're very polite, but you have that like, the same thing I've
reading these books all the time. It's just like this person had a burning desire to achieve mission
success is the way. Yeah. Is the way I think about it. Yeah. Were you content after you sold
your first company. You were like 22, 23.
Well, content is the right word.
I wasn't happy. So I was content
for a moment of time. I was 22.
I never had
much success with women
because I was a computer geek.
And back then, computers was not the coolest
thing in the world.
And, you know, so I
was like, okay, well, now I've got all this
money. This was my
worldview. I can go out in nightclubs
and I'm going to be the cool guy.
And I had fun for a while.
I'll tell you that.
But it also was incredibly hollowing because, you know, I realized that these girls weren't with me because of me.
They were with me because, you know, I had status.
And I was able to use money to buy status and be a cool guy for a small moment of time.
And so that taught me a lot, right?
And actually, you know, I kind of walked away for over a year, not doing it.
anything at all. And just sort of deeply reflecting on life, what I wanted to do. Because for me,
you know, I had a magic number, which was 10 million. If I got that number, I would retire.
That was the goal. And I was thinking to myself... How old were you when you came up with that
number? Probably 15. You know, someone gave me like this book, Rich Dad, Poor Dad, I think.
I read it. I think everybody gets at the same age. Yeah. I read it. It was like really
seminal for me. So I kind of made that number. I figured to myself, I ever worked really hard.
I could get there when I was 40. I was 22 when I got there. And so that wasn't really part of the
plan, right? And so I kind of like, okay, well, what's next? What am I going to do? Because I didn't
have to work for money. Were you depressed? When you don't have your company anymore, you sold it,
you have the number you thought you was going to take you to, you know, till four decades to
reach. You reach it now. You're going to the clubs. You're realizing these people aren't
my friends. They don't care about me at all. Yeah. I'm, there's no impact I'm making on the
world. I'm just consuming. I'm not producing anything. This is something I talk about all the
time. Like, I think sometimes we have a sick culture where like people, especially on social media,
they glorify like consumption. It's like, I don't care. I don't care what you consume. I care
where you produce. You should be proud, not that you have money to buy an expensive thing.
What did you make? Because the way I think about this all the time, which is always fascinating,
how many times this comes up in the biographies
for hundreds of years.
People constantly think,
oh, we've reached the end,
there's no more opportunity.
And every single time,
humans keep saying it's like,
we can't,
this is going to be the last company,
this is going to be the last technological shift,
it's going to be the last invention.
And the best description of a business
I've ever heard came from Richard Branson.
And he said,
all of businesses is an idea
that makes somebody else's life better.
And if you look at it like that,
it's like, then you have infinite possibilities
and opportunities all the time
because there's an infinite small and large ways
to make other people's lives better.
100%.
You weren't at that.
that time making anybody else's life better you were just kind of consuming like would you
consider yourself depressed what would you consider yourself yeah it's probably the most depressed i've
been in my life to be honest because you know i i i knew from a very young age uh what i wanted to do
and it was unlike most other people that i grew up with uh i just knew i wanted to build things
um you were doing that when you're like 14 right yeah but it started like even earlier than that
i just didn't know it was called a company i had no idea what finances were or vc or any of these
things but I was just building things and I knew I loved computers and I knew I wanted to do that
and I knew I would make a living doing that somehow. This is another thing that like drives me
insane because I hear like other people's like advice to entrepreneurs which I hate. I think it's
like terrible like we shouldn't have an entrepreneur ecosystem especially because most of the
media that entrepreneurs are consuming our issue from investors and you have wildly different
incentive structure and everything else and it just conflicts with a lot of stuff that's in the
biographies and I'll just go with those guys or anybody else right and they're always just like
yeah, you know, my belief is something that I repeat on this maximum, that belief comes
before ability.
It's in these stories every single time.
You have somebody, like I just reread the biography, the autobiography of the founder of Sony.
Akio at the time was, we're going to start this company in 1946.
Yeah.
In Tokyo, that's occupied by the Americans, that is completely, has been firebombed.
Yep.
Right?
He's passing, he's going to work, and he's passing just burnt out rubble, millions of homes of
Japanese. More than half the population has left the city. They start what turns out to be Sony,
which is the one of the most successful and influential companies of all time in a burned-out
department store. One of my favorite anecdotes in the book is they need to have umbrellas on their
desks because when it rains, it comes through the roof. And yet in his book, he says,
I don't have a problem saying, even then I knew I had potential and I could be great and I could
do great things. He had the belief before the ability.
You said, I don't even know it was called entrepreneurship.
And I'm starting to build things.
And this is the question I have for you.
When did you know you were good?
I don't know that I'm good.
I know I'm different.
And the – but I have this sort of insane belief that I can get good if I try hard enough.
And I still feel that way, by the way, because the comparative sets has –
changed, right? Like, you know, it was from everyone in my school, maybe in the early days, to
everyone in Stockholm, somewhat later to everyone in Europe at some point. And now it's like
the most brilliant entrepreneurs of our time that I'm constantly comparing myself to. And
obviously, I don't believe that I'm as good as them. But I believe I am slightly different
than them in some ways. And I believe that if I'm, I believe that if I'm a lot of them, I'm just
If I work really, really hard on something, I can make something really great.
And that's the sort of bar that I keep for myself.
And for me, it really stems also from sort of this notion back to what you were talking about,
about sort of the realization that through computers, right, Steve Jobs has the saying,
it's the bicycle of our mind, which was really how I felt about computers, like growing up.
It's just this magic tool that allows me to solve so many other things and create things.
That's how I feel about podcasts.
Yeah.
And so, you know, I knew I wanted to do that.
And I also knew that, you know, my co-founder Martin, he has this thing.
He keeps saying the value of a company is the sum of all problems solved.
And so what I keep doing is essentially I've got this toolbox called a computer.
And I got all these problems around the world.
Which problems am I passionate about solving?
And which problems can I spend the next decade of my life fixing?
Because if I'm not interested enough in it to spend a decade fixing, it's probably not worth pursuing.
This is like something I'm super passionate about because, you know, if you really think about, like, they don't write biographies about people that like start, scale, sell a company and do it for like five years.
I'm not interested in that.
I'm not interested in your startup.
I'm interested in your last company.
interested in something you're going to do for the rest of your life.
Yeah. And this is what I draw inspiration off of. It's just like going back to what you said earlier about impact and contentment and how like you're willing to go into an area where it's like, you know it's difficult.
I love what Jeff Bezos said on this. He's just like he was, he tells the people, he used to tell people in Amazon the very beginning. He's like, we're trying to build something that we can be proud of, something that we can tell our grandkids about.
Anything that you're going to be proud to tell your grandkids about is not going to be easy. Right.
So we're going into this with, you know, he gave himself like a 30% chance of success.
Yeah.
I think it became Spotify, you know, you're guys like, hey, we're going to, I might have to get a job after this, but I have to do this.
Yeah.
Like, it is inside of me.
Yeah.
There's a bunch of people that say the reason they joined Spotify in the early days is because Daniel would teach us and tell us that he's building for the long term.
Yeah.
So there had to be acquisition offers early on.
Sure.
And did you ever consider them?
Like, well, I consider them, but not for money.
I consider them because I already had the money that I thought I needed in my life, right?
And that was an incredibly powerful position to be in.
It was freeing me of a lot of constraints.
And for me, it was more, you know, as we got an approach,
it was always about can this thing further our mission?
And if I truly believed that there would have been a company that could further our mission
and cared about what we cared about as much as we did, I probably would have sold.
But I never found that.
And because I didn't find that, we just kept going.
And it wasn't obvious to me that this would be like something I would do for 20 years.
I'll tell you that.
But what I did know is that, you know, I came from doing lots of projects beforehand.
And so sort of, you know, we talked about the one company I did sell, but that was like my fourth or fifth one.
So I'd been doing a bunch of other things.
and I was doing many things in parallel.
Which you still do today?
Well, I started doing again, which is a very different thing.
And I still think the jurors out, by the way, on whether that's a good idea or bad idea.
Explain.
Well, you know, again, I do believe that focusing all your time and effort on this one thing
and obsess about it and almost to the point where you're not even aware of the rest of the world
that goes on is what creates greatness.
And I know you can relate to this,
but that's how Spotify came to be.
I literally couldn't care about anything else
for at the very least the first 15 years.
Only now am I foolish enough to believe that actually,
you know what, I might be able to do multiple things
at the same time again,
which was sort of my spirit in my 20s.
Is that connected to what you were saying earlier
that you might be a better,
you think you might be a better coached employer?
Yeah. I certainly think so.
And because my leadership style is so different than many of these sort of entrepreneurs that most of us sort of look up to inhale, whether it's the Steve Jobsist or Elon Musk's, etc.
I just don't feel like there's a vague resemblance with them, but it's just not me.
It's like I'm a very different archetype of entrepreneur.
All right. We were texting back and forth about this. So we should just talk about this now, so we don't forget. We were talking about, like, maybe we should talk about, like, the archetypes, different archetypes of entrepreneurs, because, like, there could be, you know, there could be somebody like a young, there's undoubtedly a young Danielaak out there, right? We just know that that's going to happen. There's just great thing. I'm slightly obsessed with Michael Jordan. He's the lock screen on my phone. He's my contact card. So when people, like, they start texting me, it's like Michael Jordan with his eyes like this, like, I'm kind of setting the tone.
he said this great thing because, you know, at the end of his career is the rise of Kobe Bryant.
Yeah.
And everybody's at, towards the end of his career, they were like obsessed.
Like, oh, Tracy McGrady is going to be the next Michael Jordan.
And this guy's going to be the next Michael Jordan.
This guy's next Michael Jordan.
And he's like, first, he's like, you don't have to worry about finding the next Michael Jordan.
He goes, first of all, you didn't find me.
I just happen to come along.
Yeah.
And that will happen again.
You don't have to find the next person.
They will come along.
And I always say they will reveal themselves.
Yep.
So I do think this is fascinating.
And no one else talks about this.
Again, the weird thing about talking to you, and I don't mean that a pejorative, it's like, you just say stuff that no one else says.
And then I'm like, why isn't, why don't more people understand, like, know about Daniel's very unique ideas?
Like, no one's concerned about the archetypes.
I was like, oh, you just have to be like Steve Jobs.
You just have to be like Elon.
Yeah.
And your point is like, no, there's like multiple different archetypes.
Obviously, like, I've studied this maybe more than anybody else in the world.
That's very clear that there are.
Yeah.
And yet they're all kind of like narrowly focused on this is the one path.
And me and you went over this back and forth before.
It's just like, it's so ridiculous to say, like, there is, this is the way founders should run their company.
Because you said it back in 2021 in that series and Spotify, we've had conversations like this.
This is something I always say.
It's like, it's tied to the personality of founder.
100%.
The advice is fucking useless unless it's tied to who you are as a person.
100%.
Spotify is a reflection of you.
Now, I do want to talk also about this other great idea that you gave me and that now I heard Jeff Bezos echo recently about the fact that
There's similarities between, like, the way your child develops and the way company develops, that was very fascinating.
Yeah.
But where are you, like, explain why you would even want to broach the subject of, like, talking more about the different founder archetypes.
Well, I think, you know, again, as a young entrepreneur myself, I went through the book, like so many of us, by becoming enamored by an entrepreneur and looking up to them.
in many cases because they had traits that I didn't have.
And so we read all these stories, whether it's biographies or articles about how they
manage their company and how they live their lives and the routines that they have.
And certainly in my case, like, you know, I certainly tried to mimic Steve Jobs.
I certainly tried to mimic bases and gates and all of the great ones, you know, the very charismatic
ones like Howard Schultz of Starbucks and you know I've I've learned from all of them and in a way
I've tried to imitate them right because I've thought that they were so great at what they do
but every single time I've walked away being disillusioned because I realized obviously that
it didn't work for me and so this the sort of idea of this archetype is like I bet you
that there's plenty of entrepreneurs out there that I read about currently, whether it's
Mark Zuckerberg or Jensen or any of these things, and they're like, that's not me. So I guess I'm not
as good as them. And I can't do what they're doing. So clearly, I don't have it in me. I think
you were spot on when you said it's like the hardest single thing, really for a founder and
entrepreneur in a much different way, I think, than a normal person, but I think every normal
person goes through this is finding yourself. That's literally what I just wrote down.
So I don't want, again, there's more of a conversation in an interview because I'm a terrible
interviewer and I love to talk. Yeah, sure. I do a monologue show for God's sake. But I had this
theory too because it's obvious in the books. There's this like myth. It's like of like the genius
young entrepreneur. And if you go and read all their biographies, they weren't like laying about
doing nothing when they were younger.
But I, it's very clear, if you look at all of them, Steve Jobs, Enzo Ferrari, Akia Marita,
Sam Walton, Estée Lauder, Coco Chanel, Edwin Land.
They do their best work when they're much older.
And so I thought a lot about them.
Like, dang, this is like a reoccurring thing over and over again.
Some cases they're in their 40s, 50 years old, and they're at the top of their game.
And then, you know, I was wondering, like, what is this?
Okay, well, obviously, like, it is some skill sets so you can, like, practice more.
You have more experience, so then you can make better decisions.
You have a better network.
You have resources.
You have all that.
But one thing that I believe that I cannot prove, but I believe with every bone in my body, it's like because you know, they knew themselves much more.
Like, think about the way you know yourself in your early 40s than you did when you were 23.
Oh, yeah.
It's like we thought when we were 23, you don't know anything.
No.
Even the most brilliant 23-year-old does not know themselves.
You need, that comes through time and experience.
Yeah.
And it's like, no, no.
This is something I learned from Michael Dell's auto buyer.
which was excellent.
I used to say it's like they build a company
it's authentic to them.
Yeah, 100%.
He also, the way he says
is they build a company
that's natural to them.
Right.
And you can't build a company
that's natural to you
if you don't know who you are.
100%.
And so I have this belief
that's like,
and I think like your
accomplishments are freaking crazy
and I know you like to downplay them
and it's just because you're very polite
and everything else.
I was watching this funny interview with you
and they mentioned something like,
you're the most successful person
to ever come out of Scandinavia.
And your face,
your words were very polite.
But your face, it's like somebody poked.
You're like, oh, I don't want to be like described though.
But your response is like, I know that face.
I know exactly what he said.
But this idea that you are the sum of like your accumulated experiences, right?
That is one form of education.
But the form of education is like, I know I went to your house.
I rummaged through your library, maybe kind of rudely.
But I loved how you're obsessed with history and philosophy too.
Yeah.
And I was like, oh, this is a person that's, he's curious about the external world.
but he also wants to know like who he is what's important to him and then building a business and like an apparatus around that so i just wanted to get that out because you you mentioned something like i don't think i should probably talk about more frequently but something i definitely believe it's like you're going to get better at entrepreneurship when you get better knowing who you are and what you actually want to do 100 percent um and and uh as you say it's like um you know i i think the the game i'm playing now is just being the best version of myself
And the best version of myself is one that will have even more impact than the one that had before because it will be even more true to who I am.
So what is your archetype?
I mean, do you even know?
No, I don't know, which is why I was asking you, because I figured who's the person in the world that probably has a better idea of all the different archetypes.
because I can still learn how to, like, you know, do the game better, if that makes sense.
I would say there's a very interesting idea and that I've noticed, you know, obviously, like, there's this maxim I say we're never again that all of history of greatest entrepreneurs, study of history of great entrepreneurs.
And if you make a podcast on that, you get to meet the living versions of that now.
And what I'm struck by, and I'm like this myself, I have all kinds of blind spots, which you like picked away the first time we had dinner and you're just like, you're just like, you're just like, you're just.
doing this wrong and you were very polite but just like you're lying to yourself you're not like
you know you're you're obsessed with this and you're like fighting with a hand behind time I had it
back but I'm so amazed it's exactly what you said it's like it's almost like they need a mirror so
there's another great idea that I've seen a few times uh one of the truly novel idea it's this
idea of hiring a paid critic so Sony is making you know audio equipment it's like in the 50s
this is like and they're very primitive devices and what they realize was the they they
They hired a young vocal arts student,
and I don't know how to pronounce this name,
Neria Oga, or something like that.
And the reason they did that is because he was a fan
of early Sony products, but he also had very
fine, refined taste and everything else.
And so he would just light them up about,
he's like, I'm a big fan of Sony,
but your products aren't good enough.
You have all these deficiencies.
And Akiel, being the genius city was,
he goes, we hired him as a paid critic.
His job was to attack the deficiencies in our product
because we don't even see them.
Yeah.
And the paid critic, his point was that, hey, if you're a ballet dancer, you have a mirror, right?
Your mirror tells you what you're doing, right, what you can fix, like, what you need to do.
He's like, I'm your oral mirror.
Yep.
And then fast forward to when the book is published in, like, 1986, that paid critic is now the president of Sony.
And I feel exactly, I'm this way.
It's like, we need a mirror.
Yeah.
And I think what's what I'm curious about with you is like, I remember I just had dinner with Mike Ovitz and, you know, he's, I think his autobiography is one of the best entrepreneur autobiography's ever written because he tells you about the bad shit, the fact that he was didn't like who he was.
He was depressed.
He was doing this, making bad decisions based on the opinions of other people, which entrepreneurs cannot do.
And I was struck by like the fact that he didn't know himself at, you know, 25 or 20, I think he was 27.
when he started CA.
Sure as hell knows himself as like almost I'm an 80-year-old man.
But I asked him about, you know, he's had some people I know have been friends with him
for 25 years.
And I was just like, why, what do you think has enabled you to maintain that relationship?
And he said, he tells me the truth.
Yeah.
And he's like, you get into my position where, you know, he's famous, he's wealthy.
Most of the people that he interacts with are on his staff.
Yeah.
and he's like you it's very dangerous and he said he's like there's not many people in my life
that tell me the truth yeah who tells you the truth many people which is the good news uh for me
um you know it starts with my family my mom um you know my mom is the most normal person you would
be she uh she's proud of her my accomplishments uh but in in sort of the standoffish way
she couldn't care anything about the impact of it it is more
like that I've overcome obstacles for myself that she knows matters to me so oftentimes
that's great uh yeah and and so oftentimes like when when i may bring an issue home because she
doesn't really know what's going on in the business world and she doesn't really care she kind of like
gives me this mirror back where most of life actually doesn't revolve around technology or the
business world etc it's like this is the life um so that's a great one
I have a very dear friend, Jack, who very similarly placed that part in my life.
He's the most realest person.
There is my wife, it's another one.
Gustav de Met is another person.
He will tell me the truth even when I don't want to hear it.
And, yeah, I've been incredibly fortunate that, like, many of the people I just talked about
are people that have been around me for 20 years.
My mom, obviously, my entire life.
but many of these people have been around for a very, very long time.
And I think that's, you know, I really believe trust is one of the most under-talked about things, you know, because it's not easy to scale.
And it's incredibly hard.
It's the number one thing why most organizations break down and why you need processes and all the other bureaucracies, ultimately because there's no trust.
If you had 100% trust, you wouldn't need any of this stuff, and you would move much faster.
It's crazy. Munger, again, like, I could literally get emails every week.
They're like, why do you mention Charlie Munger on every episode?
I'm like, because he's the wisest person I've ever come across.
What do you want me to do?
Like, I'm sorry, he has so many good ideas.
But he said something again, and he's another person where he, like, points things out that once he says it, it's obvious, but no one else does it.
And he goes, trust is one of the greatest economic forces in the world.
And he talked about that, like, your job, when I actually got to have dinner with them,
he's like, your job is to build a seamless web of deserve trust with great people.
100%.
And he's like, that's not any, he was telling stories.
He's like, everybody knows that, you know, I met Buffet when he was 28 and I was 35.
They didn't understand there's all these other guys around us.
And we built friendships and did deals forever.
Most of them had passed away by the time I met him.
But that idea, it's like trust is one of the greatest economic forces in the world.
It truly, yes.
And if you think about it, why is that so really?
rare is it's because it doesn't scale right so trust is the then this notion that you'll keep
doing actions that will ladder up over time it really compounds but um you're going to add maybe
one percent of trust for each positive interaction you're going to do but it takes one interaction
that's bad to ruin all of it the moment where you where you even start doubting whether you can
trust someone or not you have no trust so the the point being is it's it's like
absolute trust. If you really think about it, there's this sort of final gradient. Most people define
it as this binary thing, but it really isn't. It's really kind of like, you know, what most people
will say is either I trust somewhere or don't. But even, let's say you do trust someone,
there's degrees of trusting someone. How many people do you trust with your life? How many people
do you trust with your bank account, just handing it over? Are you a trusting person, though?
To a certain degree. I think that's one of like, from what? From what?
People that know me.
So I actually had breakfast with a good friend of mine.
And, you know, he's slightly older, but he tells me truth.
And he is very nice, but he'll point out the problems that, like, are going to stop me from going to where I want to go.
And one of his points, because I would answer, like, if I asked that question myself, it's like, I don't trust anybody.
Yeah.
I think I'm getting a little better with that.
But I am concerned that, like, I'm going to be one of my own worst enemies because of this, like, I can't let go.
Yeah, but look, I mean, you talked about.
yourself you it started in your childhood um like in my case i grew up without a father uh for sure but i have
the most loving mother um she gave me everything and to have that start in my life i've always felt that
whatever i do whatever the failure is she will always love me and to have that in your back pocket
i think it means you automatically come from a different vantage point than what i believe you had
in your childhood right and and and and then my approach to life is just like okay well um you know by again
i'm not saying i have absolute trust in every person um but i choose to believe that uh trusting people
makes for a much more fun rich and rewarding life than one that doesn't and i believe that
i think i think you're definitely right about that yeah and and and i believe that a life
it's more fun doing the journey with other people around than doing it in single-player mode.
And that doesn't mean that I'm not also a person that likes my own spare time, my own comfort,
my own solitude. I have that part, and that's the duality, my personality. But I really do believe,
and it will go back to philosophy, but the more I give away, the more I get back. And so I just keep
focus on doing that.
And for me, the ultimate impact at this point, why I said, you know, I like to be
the best coach there ever was, the best entrepreneur coach, maybe that's my archetype.
But then a player, because I've come to see that these people that I've done Spotify with
for the past 15 years, as an example, seeing their success, seeing their success, seeing their
impact seeing their growth is the thing that give me the most amount of pride at this point it really
isn't anything else like you know financially i couldn't care um not that important it's great to have
a lot of money to have um as a currency to then have more impact it's more ships on the table to do new
more cool interesting stuff but um but the real thing um for me will be the friendships that i built um you know
the trust that other people placed in me to allow me to help them on this journey, help me on
my journey, and us doing it together. And I've just seen it so many times. I've been burned by it,
for sure, sometimes when people have broken that trust that I put in them. But I will honestly say
that's been like one or two percent negative experience relative to all the positive things that
come out of. The sad part of this, I can't think of anyone.
way it's like betrayed me in like two decades yeah so it's like i'm just making up this problem this
imaginary problem that may be used to exist but certainly isn't it is they exist now and this is where
i think it's it's really like uh helpful to again i don't need a bunch you know i don't i don't believe
there's a great um quote from the founder of red bull who i came slightly obsessed with um and i'm
really proud of the episode i made on him because like we had to literally translate there was no biographies
in english and that we had translated a biography from german um and his point was just like i don't need
50 friends. Like, I believe in much, like, fewer and better and deeper. And as long as you
make those, like, choices correctly, you know, again, like, I can't think of a single person
I feel is in my life that doesn't want the best for me. Yeah. And yet I still have this,
like, oh, like, I'll just do it all myself. Yeah. Very related to this. Another thing that, like,
you said that really surprised me is, is like when people ask me, they're like, obviously
know who Daniel is. I use Spotify. I know everything going.
on but like why do you talk about it so much and i like mentioned you on the podcast and like
i was like oh because i've learned a lot from you you're very very careful what you want in life
like and i get to meet pretty crazy people and most of times like it's they're great but then
you see like there's like a lot of negativity to them one there's a shocking amount to have very
few if no friends yeah which is scary to me and then they kind of like
interact with you as if like you're like a asset and once I suck that asset like get everything
out of the asset then like you will be disposed and I feel the same people to do that have almost
no intellectual humility right where I always say it's like every single person I read about is
smarter and more productive than I am the way I look at this the world in general is very much
in the same way like Thomas Edison has this great quote he's like we know what we don't know
one one thousandth of percent of anything yeah and that's the way I feel it's because
every day I learned something new I'm like yeah I'm gonna be I was so stupid back then yeah
you have in extreme levels of intellectual humility I don't even know if many people
know this but like you would like go in shadow and spend time I don't know if you
have a term for this you just like call up somebody that's running a company and
say what I'm gonna come and sit on every single one of your meetings yeah pretty
much like that that that's how it goes um and and look it comes back to this i mean i i don't believe
that i know um much let me let me just set the table for this for quick the way you put it to me
like i'll go get them their coffee yep i don't care yep i'm there to learn from them yep
if i need their coffee i'll go get their coffee yep do you understand that's insane like i think
that's the right like mindset yeah but i don't think anybody would believe somebody running you know
a hundred billion dollar company and it's done the things that you've done like yeah no i'm fine like
i'll shout this guy and like i'll do whatever i need to do yeah well i mean look um i i just realized
it sort of started from this thing right where um you and i have both read all the books and actually
many of the entrepreneurs have read um not as many books about as as you have around all the greatest
entrepreneurs but they've read the big ones yeah certainly of their time the basis is the the
the Steve Jobs, the Elon Musk's biographies and all that kind of stuff.
But there's a certain thing around reading it and internalizing it
and seeing the culture up front.
And what I realized was building Spotify, obviously it's the biggest company I've ever built.
So I'm learning on the job.
And I don't know what I don't know because I've never really worked at a company, right?
And it's in a way what I realized as we hired people from these other companies is that
There were all these things that they were doing that they kept telling us about,
and I didn't really understand, like, how it worked.
So I'll mention, like, one, for instance, I do really well in these, like, one-on-one
situations.
I might even do well in, like, three or four-person groups and maybe six, but ten-person group.
Like, I don't have the personality where I command the room.
It just doesn't work.
And then you have someone like a Mark Zuckerberg, who literally has this thing called,
a large group where he has 20 to 25 people that he runs every week.
And for me, it sounded absolutely awful.
Like, how did he get anything done in that meeting?
And so, lo and behold, I asked him, hey, can I come and learn from you?
And he was incredibly gracious.
And we've obviously been friends for a long time.
And he said, sure.
And so I spent the better part of what I believe the first time was like a week.
literally in pretty much all of his meetings from start to finish.
And the big question, obviously, for me, is like, okay, well, what does he get out of it?
And can I make myself useful while doing it?
So hence, I took meaning notes, you know, if I could get him coffee, I would.
You know, it was literally these types of things.
But at the end of it, the most interesting thing was obviously trying to distill
down what surprised me about the culture.
It wasn't really around like meta and what was then Facebook is a world class company.
It wasn't like, you know, I miraculously thought I could do a lot of things different or better.
But there were things that surprised me around how he managed to company.
And seeing that and hearing that from another founder, hopefully one that he respects too, may sort of lead to insights and breakthroughs.
And during that week, it's not just that I follow people around.
I actually meet with their entire executive team and interview them too.
So sit down and try to learn from them to really, truly internalize the culture and try to understand it.
And so all of the sudden, you do realize, for instance, how you can make a large group team meeting work.
And there were lots of other things, which I shamelessly copied from, for instance, that experience.
And it just turned out for me to be an amazing way to learn by seeing the culture up front that enables the certain practices to work.
It almost comes back to kind of this two things we talked about already, which is this mirror of reflecting it back.
And then the sort of second notion, I think, which is it's got to be true to you.
so um you know there are many things where you can copy a specific way for instance
Elon does things but if it's not truly innate to you and your personality i promise you
it will not have the same impact as when Elon I think you're dead right about this
the thing the way i would think about like your archetype is i think you nailed it with like
coach and then uh you'll hear people inside spotify say it's like very
you have a very collaborative, like, management style where I don't think anybody is going to
describe Steve Jobs as collaborative.
Now, he was able to collaborate, but at the end, like, he was, it was kind of like,
I'm making all the decisions.
There's actually, actually interesting story.
I'm curious how you think about this.
Like, how do you balance, like, the decisions you make, specifically on, like, product, right,
with, like, your own personal taste and intuition versus, like, being metrics driven?
there's this hilarious story
it's in two different books
one's in this book
called Creative Selection
which is excellent
I've read three times
it's about this guy
from this guy
named Ken Kens Koseanda
who was a programmer
and he demoed to Steve
many many times
and like when they were
building their best products
right
and then there's another one
story in Johnny Ives
biography
and they talked to
they were comparing
and contrasting
the way like Google
would make products
versus how Apple did
when Steve John was in charge
and you know
the guy's like hey
you know at Google
we have to decide
between, like, blue and light blue, and we were on, like, 200 tests of, like, all the different
shades in between that.
Yep.
And Johnny's, like, we would never, ever do that.
Yep.
Do you remember, you were old enough to remember this?
They create the, the, the, the, the, IMac, but, like, the big, fat bubble one.
Yep.
You know, probably, like, late 90s?
And it was the first time there was going to be all these, like, crazy colors and everything
else.
And Johnny tells the story, it's, like, you know how we chose the colors?
He's, like, me and Steve went to the design, like, where the Apple Design Center, and we talked
about it.
And 30 minutes later, the colors you saw, we shipped.
Yep, yep, yep, that was it.
Yep, yep.
Where are you on, like, that spectrum?
Yeah, I think the most important thing that you described is it's a spectrum.
It's not 100%, you know, one way or the other way.
Because, again, sort of like, I remember early on, you know, people talking about that sort of dichotomy of how Google does thing and how Apple does thing.
And many founders then tended to gravitate when Apple was at the same.
It's sort of peak Steve Jobs to, no, I run the product review.
It's only my opinion that matters and is my taste.
And I've got this articulation, all these things.
And lo and behold, like some terrible decisions ended up coming out of this, et cetera.
And I think where people sort of break down on almost all issues is they take it literally.
I don't believe for a second that Apple was 100% in the camp where Steve Jobs just had universally the answer to
everything he didn't listen to anyone else's opinions he didn't try things out sometimes maybe
trying it out by testing his ideas on multiple people inside and outside um you know etc but of course
he did that right and i i know one of the ways he did it which was brilliant and that don't get
talked about he actually called up journalists sometimes and tested ideas on them and and like
we might do this kind of thing and then here the journalists react to it and it's like okay
that was a bad idea and then go back they described this as like so
how dolphins like they like throw things out and they it might be a crazy idea and then it reflects back to them and they use as like a form of education but the hilarious one is they couldn't figure out what they were going to call what turns into the iMac he was obsessed with the Kiomarina and sony he goes i have the name for this computer it's going to be the mac man because of the lock man and people around and we're like no please don't do that can't be that and you're like this is a terrible and they kept meeting after meeting he's like steep this theme sucks yeah and they they give him a bunch of list and then the first time he hears iMac he's like don't like it at
Yeah.
And then they're like,
we really like it.
So like we'll put it in the next group.
And then like we'll put like the third one down.
Yeah.
And then he goes, now I don't hate it.
Yeah.
And then one day he's walking the hall.
He's like, I came up with the name, but it's my back.
Yeah.
And of course, yep.
That's the way.
That's the way, right?
And so I feel like that's truly the case.
I think the, the realization is you tend to over gravitate to one or the other.
And certainly in Spotify's case, we did the same.
Like we were early on very much so.
I mean, the first user interface was pretty much designed by myself and this guy called Rasmus.
So much of that you could describe was my taste.
But sooner or later, what ends up happening is you get into a space where you don't even know anymore
because your current feedback loop of where the world is and the customer you're designing for starts becoming a little bit different.
And then you need to get to a point where you start incorporating some feedback mechanism.
so like for me taste is is sort of judgment plus curiosity and the more you can sort of like extend
the curiosity branch that improves your judgment which then builds your taste and and so it's really a
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are there any product updates
that get pushed live
that you didn't like
oh plenty
and this may be a little bit unique
but you know coming back to it
so you know I
I ended up
having you know
So the typical thing is that the founder needs to be the product person, right?
By the way, it's 100% true.
I totally believe that.
I think it's the most important thing in the zero to one stage.
But what a lot of people don't talk about is the fact that there isn't one stage of this journey.
It's like you're oscillating between zero to one, one to 100, and then, you know, the last stage was more like optimization stage.
And you have to like constantly do that.
And you're going to need different skills at different places.
And this is why, by the way, I believe it's so important for entrepreneurs to realize when to apply what tools in this journey.
So what happened with Spotify is sort of against all the common wisdom and wealth, which is I don't really run product anymore.
Because what happened was I got this guy called Gustav that you now met, and he runs product.
And he's actually way better than me at doing it.
And so speaking about sort of being truthful, what ended up happening,
many years ago was I was running these product meetings.
He was sort of running it, but I wanted to run it.
So I kind of interjected myself over him, but I didn't have the time to like really spend all this time.
So he was sort of like running it for me, but I still insisted on having product reviews.
And sort of talking again about the importance of having people who give you candid feedback, he took me aside after one of these
product sessions and he's like you know you're not really that good in doing these things and you're
not really that helpful so most of the time me and the team were kind of like looking and we're trying to
basically you know appease you in the meeting but you're not really adding as much value as you think
and and not surprisingly my my first instinct was to be really pissed off I sort of went home I was like
man I'm going to have to fire this guy it's like horrible like how could he say that this but I also
realized that that was an emotional response. So again, I wasn't fully convinced that this was
true, but I sort of went back and said, okay, well, you know what, I'm going to give you three
months where I don't do the product reviews. And then we evaluate how this worked. And lobehold,
he actually did a great job. And so the product team was much happier. You know, he was making
more of the decisions without me. I wasn't meddling in. There wasn't two different people
deciding what worked, but it was really him.
And ever since that moment, you know, I don't really run product anymore in the tradition.
I'm involved in the product, and he solicits feedback from me all the time, but I don't run the product meetings.
And I say that because what happened for me was a real setback, not just in sort of that moment, but it also sort of like, oh, wait a minute.
So what am I really, you know, what's my value at then in this company?
And it took me a while, and I realized that all of a sudden, hmm, actually, you know what, that won't be it, but maybe I can add value in this place.
And I sort of oscillated to this different place in the company, which was much closer to understanding the creator and spending more time with the content people, et cetera.
And so my product feedback ended up being, you know, and this is the dynamic that's quite unique to Spotify in that we have these two stakeholders.
We have consumers on the one end, and we have craters.
And so I just made it my effort to understand and know the crater way better than anyone else in the company.
And so my product feedback to them comes from that lens.
And that became value add because, again, that's a very different thing.
That's an outward facing thing.
You actually have to sit down and meet with craters.
It is so much more about innately understanding their needs and talking to them and understanding not just how they use the product,
about their business.
What problems are they facing?
That's not just sort of how they leverage the product,
but actually holistically around them.
And so that was just one of those things.
And then subsequently, what ended up happening is I got this guy
called Alex, and he's now doing that part better than me too.
And so I was like, okay, well, now I need to find a different way to add value.
And now it turns out that my value add is the sort of in-between between the two,
where, you know, business or craters meets consumers and where, you know, there's maybe a third
stakeholder we have to consider in all of this. And so my whole sort of experience in all of this
has really been around kind of figuring out who I am and what I'm innately good at. And this has
been a learning journey for 20 years. What you're just describing right now, this unfolded over how many
years? I would say the first 10 years was the zero to one journey. And the last 10 has been
that journey where we're not zero to one anymore as a company holistically. But there are elements
of the company where we're zero to one where I'm absolutely 100% involved. I think this is a good
like opportunity to talk about another one of your very unique ideas that I also, um, I,
There was just excellent.
I just did this episode on Jeff Bezos because he doesn't give them any interviews.
And so I would take transcript of his interviews and you treat it like a book and just go through it.
And he said something like from day one, he knew like he wanted to build a company that could outlast him.
Yeah.
Right.
He still loves it.
He'll love it forever.
And it was very reminiscent of like what we're trying to do as parents where it's like you're shaping your kid, but you're only successful if they can survive without you.
Yeah.
And when I heard him say that, it was a few months after you had beautifully like articulated this idea.
It's just like, well, I think there's a lot of, you're going to say it better than I did, but essentially, like, there is a very, rather clear analogy between the way your child when they're first born is essentially like a product of you.
They're going to mimic their parents, their environment that they're in.
But as they grow older and older, I just went through this and I have a 13-year-old, you know, when she was much smaller, she's much like me and her mom.
Yeah.
Right. And then now she's like, she's got traits that I don't even have.
And her own decisions and, like, doing things maybe I would do or I would not do.
And you're like, it's kind of the same for the company.
And you had this idea where, like, I think at the time, Spotify was 19 years old, or it's 19 or 20 years old.
And it's just like, well, you know, year one or two, it is me.
It's like the same way you have a two-year-old.
And you know who knows this.
But now there's characteristics that emerge from within the company that are separate from the founder.
Yep, yep.
That's like a fascinating insight.
Yeah.
I mean, look, there's clearly.
kind of like three distinct stages of parenthood, right? And the first one is you're literally
the person that keeps them alive, right? And you're 100% there. And every, you pretty much make
every decision for them because they can't make it themselves. And then gradually, the next
stage is you're there. You're quite involved. You probably step in when they're doing something
which would be terrible and would create bad long-term consequences. And then like the last stage,
You're not even, you can't even do that.
So the job is much more subtly to just be there when they need you.
And I'm somewhat simplifying it, but I think that with everything, don't take it literally,
but sort of the core of the gist of the idea is certainly a larger company becomes more and more,
and an older company becomes more and more and that.
And so much of what I do today is literally that.
I try to be there for people when they need me in various fields, which happens, but it's not as often as every day all the time.
And what I deeply care about today, and I do spend a lot of my time on, is this notion around this first seed of a new idea.
and protecting that idea and um i think it's it's probably the most under reported talked about
um a way is how do you do that like how do you consistently find lighting in a bottle like you know
and it's also theoretical um at the point of any strategy book talking about how you do it or
even when you go behind um i was um the other day i was with
the guy Hamilton
Hamler who wrote
Seven Powers book
which is an amazing book
on strategy by the way
but one of the most interesting
ideas
that I learned
after sort of again
overfitting the concepts in the book
and sort of teaching people about it is
you can only tell that you have
power when it's there
it doesn't tell you how to get there
this is the criticism
of like founders in the podcast and the books are like but he's not telling me what to do it's like
yeah this is not a podcast for people that want to be told what to do yeah it's here's how this guy
or this woman thought about their company this is what they experienced you pull out these ideas
i love how you say don't you kept saying don't take it literally i've told you this before like
i drive people crazy because i turn i tend to turn everything in an abstraction so like when i hear
you i've sent this message to you were like you kind of remind me of james j hill which just might
be the only person that's ever texted you this.
And James J. Hill was the most successful railroad baron of all time.
And I just thought the way, you just said, the way he built, he essentially was laying railroad tracks, right?
And he was, the goal of the company was, obviously, we're going to have goods and people on the tracks.
Right.
But this alone is, how do I make what I'm doing more valuable?
And he's the only railroad founder ever in American history to not go bankrupt.
They all went bankrupt.
It's crazy.
What he realizes is, like, he has.
has to spend just as much, if not more time, developing and nurturing the communities that are
springing up around it. And if he builds these communities around it and that makes his railroad
more valuable. But I love this criticism because it's like, oh, you got to find a different
show or you got to find a different thing. Because like entrepreneurs don't want to be told
what to do. I've never met an entrepreneur. It's like, give me a list. It's a, it's a profession for
people that don't take direction very well. Exactly. It's hilarious about this. I want to, I think
this is tied to something also that is very fascinating with you is you have a high and most people
again like the i think the more control you have over your life the more success you have people make
the mistake of like eliminating any any people telling you truth any inconvenience they become like
really brittle you have an insane high tolerance for crazy people okay um somebody told me somebody
works closely with you that you judge people on their best idea not their worst and i just
finish rereading Jim Simons, founder of Renaissance Technologies, really, creator of a magic money
machine is really, we think about the guy. And they said something very similar. They're like,
it doesn't matter. He's like, if there's a single good idea in your pile of horse manure,
like he'll find it. Like, he will go through. All he cares about is the very best ideas.
He will, willing to go through 99 shitty ideas to get the very best because he understands how
powerful those are. Can you explain, like,
how you develop this tolerance.
Because most people, like,
especially as companies age too,
you know,
you're built,
usually you have a lot of variance
in the beginning.
Yeah.
And then they get more successful
and they kind of,
they make the corporations
make the mistake of like,
no,
we need all the edges.
We need the high and the low
out of there.
Yeah.
You embrace that.
The way you put it to me,
when we were talking about this
is like high temperature people.
Yeah.
And for like,
in like training AI.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
I actually think LLMs
and,
and the latest advancement in AI kind of have created an excellent framing on this
and to talk about this sort of high temperature notion.
So in LLMs, you can basically tune up the temperature.
And if you tune up to temperature, you know, it basically start hallucinating.
So, you know, the bad thing with the hallucination, of course, is you have no idea what's true or not.
But there is spurs of vocational brilliance that comes out of there.
And the truly new ideas that come out of there.
So the criticism of the current generation LLMs is they're not very creative.
And that's ultimately because we've kind of turned down the temperature on them
and we've saved to train them to the point where we keep them within the guardrails.
So there is a way when you train these things to be highly creative, but batch it crazy.
And that's just turning up the temperature.
And I believe that one of the – and this is, by the way, something that –
I intend to focus a lot more on in the next decade.
You know, I'm very reflective at the moment because I am in my 19th year.
And I think it's interesting you sort of talked about big companies because I used to think,
before I sort of ran a big company myself, I just used to think they're bad, period.
And I've sort of revised my view and now I think they're really good at doing what they're
already doing and doing it better.
so back to our point like a large-scale corporation what they do is they just get better and better and better at doing what they already do and the way to do that is obviously minimize mistakes so you know that also means minimize billions minimize waste minimize all these other things so naturally what you end up having is more and more capitalism public markets all these things drives you towards one thing optimize what you're doing
to the point where it's the most efficient thing
that it can possibly be.
But that is not
conducive to how you get the best ideas.
And what I'm greatly
satisfied and happy with
and I've been fortunate enough
as I don't anymore run Spotify
as much day to day as I used to.
I'm still very involved,
but I'm not involved in all the team meetings
and doing all the things that I used to do,
I was like 90% internally focused on just getting the machine to run,
is that I've been more and more able,
not just to have a free time to think,
but I've been more able to meet more people.
And part of the beauty of that is that it brought me back to music again,
and it brought me back to the creative process of music again.
And it is something remarkable in a studio
where you have a bunch of people
just throwing ideas at each other.
And musicians actually in many ways
know more about the entrepreneurial process
than most people give them credit.
I think it's the same thing.
Filmmakers, like athletes.
100% of the same thing.
Yeah.
100%.
And so this point then is that
what I truly believe
the very best musicians do
and the most creative people do
is they are not afraid of throwing out ideas, even terrible ones.
And it's in even the most terrible one, there may be a nugget.
You and I, we talked about this over breakfast where, you know, there was a person who sort
of gave some bad advice to you.
But sometimes even, you know, the insight behind the advice, sort of the question behind the
question can lead to some really interesting things. And so what I've come to do realize is most
people want conformity. And they value sort of a reliable consistency of, you know, giving X amount
of impact per seconds or minute or, you know, truthfulness, you know, over X percent. They have
some sort of heuristics for what is valuable person from a business context or whatever
sort of context you're judging it on, but certainly in a business concept, it's conformity.
You want to sort of put people in about it. This person is good, and they're always good.
But, you know, what I'm more interested in these days is I'm interested in this idea I've never
heard about before. And I find it with, you know, some people, you know, that even in an hours-long
conversation with the best people in the world where I've learned the most, it may be 55 minutes
of that conversation that honestly was, you know, completely worthless, not that interesting
for me. But then there's a spur of the moment, two, three minutes of brilliance, which I never
heard before, which will deeply and profoundly impact my life. Those are my people. That's what I'm
interested in. And I've come to learn that most people don't like to be around those people,
but I love it. And I think it's, you know, such a rewarding and interesting thing. And I've,
I'm looking forward to spending more time with those people in the coming decade. And it's
sort of one of those things that I've sort of want to do more of and learn more from.
I think this is related.
One of your oldest friends texts me the other day.
And it was a screenshot of this episode I did with Chung-Juyang, who's the founder of Hyundai.
And it's probably the most, I think it is the most inspiring autobiography I read
because the guy writes the book when he's like 90.
And he grows up, the son of a poor farmer.
You know, they had to eat tree bark to survive.
He dies.
The richest person in South Korea, builds this huge conglomerate.
I thought I was going to read a book about a guy making cars.
I didn't realize that was like nothing.
Like he was building, did all the construction, built some of the biggest ships in the world.
like he was just his nickname was the bulldozer and the reason he sent me the screenshot and it was
specific part of the podcast he's like this is just like daniel and one thing that chung would
talk about is as the the more you progress in your career the bigger the company gets the more like
rigid it gets yeah they go from like default optimistic default risk taking to any new new idea
no no no no yeah like no we're not doing that it's too risky like i can't build a car like
we're a tiny little you know island and he goes daniel that gives me
me the same exact advice, where he will say something, I will say no. And he goes, but did you
even try? Yeah. And I go, and then he goes, it's related to his ability, if you actually analyze
his willingness to go into all these different industries where he doesn't know anything about
the industry. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And I think that sort of comes back to, to the George
Bernard Shaw quote, right, the unreasonable man. Let me read the full quote, because,
because it's an excellent quote, too.
The reasonable man adapts himself to the world.
The unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.
Therefore, all progress depends on the unreasonable man.
I haven't painted on my wall at home.
Yeah.
And I'm just reminded of that.
Because I think the reality is it is really, really tough to not conform, to not be part of a group.
And it's so easy.
and there's so many temptations in life that draws us back to that conformity, right?
Money is another one.
When you make a lot of money, you tend to make life more comfortable.
So you tend to spend more time golfing.
You spend time doing all these other things.
But the reality is you become distracted and you're not going to be on your eight game anymore.
And so the hard thing then is to keep going and keep improving and keep doing these things.
but you're going to have to sacrifice a lot in doing so.
You're going to sacrifice people's birthdays, social commitments.
You're not going to show up, you know, for a lot of things.
You told me a funny story one time about how committed you are to your work
and your friends know this about you that sometimes you'll be in a middle of a dinner
and then like an idea comes to mind or something you need to pursue
and they just know, oh, he's gone and he's not coming back to that.
Yeah, yeah.
I'm not I'm not that is an unreasonable yeah you know people like oh I can't do that social etiquette
like I even sometimes I find myself to do this because we're both introverts we've talked about this
before but like um I kept getting invited to group dinners and I just felt like oh this is like a
prestigious group dinner this person's really successful people would love this opportunity and so
at the beginning when I first started doing this I started going I'm like this sucks I don't
I remember one time it would they like it was in a private room and they shut the doors and
within like five minutes I knew I was like I got to get out of here I was like don't worry I'm
I'm going to pretend to go to the bathroom and just, you know, never go back.
And I was like, so I stand there.
I go, oh, where's the restroom?
Like, it's right in the room like, oh, no.
And what I did, which I wouldn't do today, is I sat down and I wasted an hour and
half of my time instead of just being the unreasonable man.
Yeah.
Like, I'm now going to say, like, what would Daniel act do?
He would get our avoid the dinner in the first place.
Yeah.
Yeah, I would say, you know, I'm not proud of sneaking out sometimes on that.
But look, I mean, at the end of the day, I think that,
that's less about sort of being protecting my time and more sort of about protecting
unique and novel ideas and how rare they are and and by the way we'll hopefully get into that
but I I think less about sort of a lot of entrepreneurs seem to be obsessed about time I'm really
not I'm I'm I'm more obsessed about energy management where yeah let's get into it now what do you
mean well i mean you you you constantly hear this thing about all these uh you know you're supposed
to wake up at 4 a m in the morning you're supposed to do all these things etc it's like first
and foremost there's no rule like um i know a lot of successful people as i'm sure you do too it's
like some of them wake up at noon some of them wake up at 4 a m it's like you can do a lot of
different the obsession with morning rituals is stupid yeah but the other thing is about sort of
You're supposed to pack every, like, you're supposed to have meetings every 15 minutes,
and, like, if 15-minute increments is better than the 30-minute increments, so on and so forth.
Look, it might work for you.
And for some people, it might be, like, the absolute best thing.
I've become more obsessed about sort of managing my energy.
Because, like, if you have time, but you have no energy, you're not going to accomplish anything anyway.
So how do you manage your energy, then?
Well, it's about finding out.
what gives you energy, right, to begin with, and what drains energy.
And it's about finding out which time during the day you're most productive.
And it's, again, innately about understanding yourself.
And what the whole world tries to do is get you to conform to their schedule.
Oh, we have an 8 a.m. morning meeting because that's when you get into the office
or you're supposed to do this and that and all these other things, again, in a big corporation.
and it's about conformity to like the average or to an okay standard instead of going for excellence
and what truly truly is unique and I think the truly truly unique thing is you've got to just figure out what works for you
and you've got to do more of that and that's more about energy management I believe and it's so much more about like
even before this thing I think both you and I went and worked out right you know that gives me energy
yeah it's what's going to sustain the rest of my day
to not do workouts at all because I thought I don't have time. There's no productivity. I used to go for
the worst productivity thing I did was I was at one point doing these 15-minute naps. I don't know
if you've heard about this exercise. No. It's a really bad idea, by the way. So don't try this.
But I sort of learned that you can, like, Daisy Shane sleep together by doing like these 50 minutes.
Oh, it's like polyphacic. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So the basic gist is you're supposed to be able
to last, like, on four hours of sleep.
And I was like, oh, this is great.
So I did that.
And actually, the interesting side part is it worked for about three weeks.
And then I missed one of these 15-minute increments.
And holy shit, I was, like, completely suicidal for, like, weeks afterwards.
It was, like, not a great thing at all.
But the point being is, you know, it's about sort of finding that energy management for yourself.
I think certainly there's common wisdom.
around sort of what an average good sleep should look like, et cetera.
But the reality is there are some people that will work on six hours of sleep
and they'll do just fine and may even be more productive that way.
I wish I was like that.
Like if I can have a superpower, I always say like, I like the first thing,
I don't want to fly like Superman.
If I can't do that, I just want sustained high energy levels 24-7.
Because I need a ton of sleep, and I felt bad about this
because the same exact reason you're describing.
It's like, no, you've got to get a 430 or you've got to sleep less or sleep.
faster, or no Tristanegger would say, you got to sleep faster. And then I'm reading James,
that's James Dyson's first autobiography. And you know, like I made one of the most successful
companies of all time. He's still doing it at 76 years old. And he goes, I need a hell
of a lot of sleep, 10 hours a night or my entire next day is ruined. I'm like, wait a minute,
this guy built, he's a single shareholder of a multi, multi, multi, multi billion dollar company,
built some of the best products in the world. And he's sleeping 10 hours a day. There are no,
you just said, there are no rules. No, it really isn't. And,
And so, I mean, look, you're just going to find that thing, right?
But when you realize that, so if you start with that as the basic thing, like all the things you and I have been talking about for this time now, you know, the reality is it's like it's about knowing yourself, which is really hard, and you get to know more.
And it's about building a system that works for you.
What's giving, I know hanging out with crazy people gives you energy.
Yeah, right?
You know, there's actually something.
So I text a mutual friend of ours, Patrick Boshanasi, and I was like, I'm talking to Daniel.
And Patrick, I think, asked the best questions in the world.
And so obviously I need to, like, use, like, phone a friend for...
That one lifeline.
Yeah, exactly.
And he's a good mirror, too, because, like, he's almost like a therapy session.
Like, he'll be very quiet, doesn't like tension on himself.
And yet he'll, like, hit you with a question.
Like, I didn't even think about that.
Yeah.
And he has this great way to describe you.
Because my guess is that, like, I...
Not even guess.
I'm pretty, I think you're obsessive, like, learning and understanding the world around you.
And, like, that drives, like, a huge part of what you're doing in this exploration.
And you can build companies around the stuff you're interested in.
And that's kind of like this compounding learning machine.
Yep.
But he goes, out of everyone I know, Daniel has the ability to apply what he learns the fastest at the highest level.
And this was actually related to a conversation that we had at your house, which is fascinating.
Because, again, I know you don't like public adulation.
I'm still going to do it because I think it's fascinating.
where it's like everybody focuses on Spotify,
which is a marvelous achievement
that very few people on the planet
are capable of, have been able to experience.
And yet they like also,
because it's not really talked about,
it's like all this other success
that you're having outside of this too
because you have this like,
you're very curious about things.
And now you have a network
and knowledge and resources
that you can actually impact
and try to make the world a better place.
And you're not going after easy shit by any means,
which I also admire about you.
It goes back to the impact over happiness thing.
Yeah.
And so we're talking about this.
And I'm like, were you, because usually true interests are revealed early.
So if we go and look at your life story, just like, people are like, oh, what hobbies do you have?
I'm like, I like, I like to read.
Yeah.
And like, what else?
I'm like, I like to read.
That's it.
And it's like, I was like that when I was five.
I wasn't like five years old.
What's a good hobby for my future self-development?
It's like, no, I just like reading.
I like books better than people in general.
And so you see that in your early life, like you're starting companies and you don't even know what it was a company.
It's just like trying to do something.
So I was like, oh, you must be like, you must be like, you must.
have been interested in, like, investing forever.
And you're like, no, I've never even thought about it until 2018.
And you said the funniest thing.
You know, how did you learn about it?
He goes, I started a little Patrick's podcast.
And then I'd hear an idea of like, that's a good idea.
I would try that.
Oh, I don't like that idea.
And then you start reading books.
And then you're just literally taught yourself.
You weren't interested at all.
And now you're essentially world class at it in a very short amount of time.
And this is just a face again.
You just did the same face.
But, like, explain.
How, like, you think about this, where it's like, I always say learning is not memorizing information.
Learning is changing your behavior.
And I think if I thought of anybody else I know that personifies that, it's like you.
It's like, I'm not just, like, listening to this podcast for shits and giggles.
Yeah.
I'm not reading this book, even if you find it enjoyable.
Yeah.
Like, I'm looking to, like, apply this.
Yeah.
Well, I think it's back to that, like, sort of these two concepts we talked about.
My whole journey is one of self-mastery.
and finding out how it can become the best version of myself.
And meanwhile, what gives me energy is solving problems.
You know, and as you say, I think this is revealed early.
Like, I loved, I didn't know it was companies,
but I loved, like, sorting out problems for other people.
I've been doing my entire life, whether it's relationship advice,
whether it's all these other things.
And this is why I think these conversations are important to have,
because, like, you are the personality type
that I've read about.
It's just, like, now,
instead of reading about you
when you're 80, you're dead,
you're, like, in the middle of it.
So it's very fascinating to me
because I'm, like,
trying to balance, like,
my understanding of this,
they're reading with, like,
an actual person,
where it's just, like,
most of the people,
they're not like,
I'm starting a company
for somebody's sake.
Right.
Just that what you said.
I like solving problems.
Yeah.
That's it.
That's all.
Like, so if you look at,
like, the video games,
I actually think what kind of video games
are like is a pretty good
revealer of your thing.
too like I wasn't playing any kind of first person shooter games or any of that
some of it but not much most of what I was playing was strategy games you know civilization
business strategy game I played every tycoon game of how to run businesses better in
of course you did you know so those were sort of my favorite games you know growing up and I
love Sim City Sim City was amazing this is what I would say about entrepreneurs is like
It's the best job in the world.
I don't understand the people that give it up.
Like, I hate even saying this because, like, rule number two in the center of family, right, is what I teach my kids is mind your own business.
So it's like, I don't, I think you're very similar.
It's like, I don't have any suggestions on how you should live your life.
Like, if we're friends, we can talk and go back and forth because, like, I just mind my own business.
Yeah.
But sometimes, like, I just, I don't have any other way.
Like, I meet so many entrepreneurs.
And they're like, I sold my company.
I'm like, sorry to hear that.
They're like, what?
I'm like, why would you get out of the game?
And then they sell their company and then you'd go be a VC.
I'm like, oh, my God.
This is the best game in the world.
It's never ending.
It's not like sports where, like, you can get better with time.
You can solve problems.
You can build your own world.
If you think about what we were doing in the computer at SimCity, it's like, oh, like, I'll put a highway there.
That's good.
Like, we're world builders.
You get to control, like, who's around you, what are the rules in the world that happens.
Yeah.
What's the outcome of the people?
people in the world.
Yeah.
And you get to make,
and hopefully you're doing it
for like benevolent
and good reasons
where I do think like
one of my favorite
quotes from our maxims
from the history of entrepreneurship
comes from Henry Ford
where he's like money comes
naturally as a result of service.
Yeah.
And the crazy thing about Henry Ford
is by 1919, he owned 100%
because he bought out his investors
of one of the most valuable companies
in the world and he didn't do it
to start a company.
He had one idea.
I've read 10 books on this guy
and people knew him forever.
He's like one idea.
It's kind of weird
that we're putting together
cars.
They're really expensive.
He was obsessed with machinery and essentially outsourcing human labor to machines, started on the farm.
Yep.
Right.
And he's just like, I want to build a car for the every man.
Yep.
You said something very, in the early days of Spotify.
He's like, I have this goal of, you know, this celestial jukebox or whatever the cases.
And you said at the very, I don't know how I'm going to do it.
He said the same thing.
Yep.
But I learned how to do it?
He's like, oh, well, how can I make a car cheaper?
Sure's hell can't put him by hand.
So we've got to learn how to mass produce something.
We don't know how to do yet.
And that took them, you know, a decade and a half of failure or whatever.
Yeah. And then what happens is he didn't start the company to make money, but he made millions of people's lives better. He changed the geography of the world for God's sake. And as a result, money came naturally as a result of service.
That's 100% how I think about it. And I think this is the beauty of capitalism, right? Because ultimately, at the end, there has to be someone willing to pay for what you're doing. And the reason for them to pay is obviously you're solving a problem for them. And the better you're solving that problem or the bigger the problem is that you're solving for people, the more valuable.
it becomes. What did you say earlier, too? You're like, I forgot how to, you, how you phrased it, but in my mind, when I
interpret it what you said, it's this idea of not being a go-getter, but being a go-giver.
You're saying something like, the more problems you solve, the more comes back to you? Was that the...
Well, so these are two different ideas, but sort of closely related. So it was actually my co-founder
who sort of said, the value of a company is the sum of all problems solved. And if you really
think about it, it is exactly what it is. So, like...
Like, I tell this to the team because when we face very difficult problems, it is great.
Because, again, if we solve these problems, we will create a lot of value.
I keep saying you think like Bezos.
So there's a great line, same thing, where he says, I'm reading his shareholder letters for the fourth time.
And it's like, these are so good and so clear and concise, I should read them every year.
And I was like, I feel like I just read them.
And I looked it up.
I haven't read them since the end of 2022.
to. But there's all these stories in Basil's his early career where people in Amazon would come to him
with a huge problem. They thought maybe they'd get fired. And he got excited. Yeah. Yeah.
Because he's like, oh, great. Like, we had a problem we didn't even know. If we solve this,
our company gets even more valuable. Yeah, exactly. There's this guy named Henry Kaiser,
who was as famous in his day as maybe like an Elon is today. And he built 100 companies.
One of them still exists, Kaiser Permanentente. He built the Hoover Dam. He built the Liberty ships
in World War II. And he has this great maxim that people would come to him and they'd be all
the press and he'd be excited and they're like what the hell's going on here uh henry and he goes
problems are just opportunities and work clothes right there's a great way to think about it's like
if i can solve this problem for other people yeah i make other people's lives better i make the
company more valuable and like and then you also have to feel good about what you're creating into
the world 100 percent but i think it comes from from solving problems and and um and and and so yeah
i mean like i get excited today you sort of asked like about the other stuff that i get
focused on it's i don't focus so much about the solution i focus on the problem i try to find really
interesting problems that um and and figuring out even if there's like a five or ten percent chance
of solving that problem and i know that would be huge for humanity or society if we figure it out
then it's amazing like that gets me fired up and and the intricacies of solving that problem because
it's oftentimes very very complex because it's not like other people don't know this problem
exists. There's probably even a lot of people that would agree that if we could figure it out,
that would be really valuable. But, you know, I find this all the time. And you said it yourself,
it's like sometimes they're really small these problems. Sometimes they're gigantic and sort
of earth-shadowingly difference. It's everything around, you know, life extension to, you know,
just walking into a store and you see things you don't like in the store. Well,
those are problems.
If you could do those things better, you could probably build a business.
And so the biggest thing, however, is that people have this misconception about what innovation is,
and they somehow think that they've got to try to figure out something entirely new.
But the history of the world is we build on other people's ideas.
So an innovation is actually taking two or more things that were already well-known
and putting it together in a new way.
It's really what it is.
And so for me, the most interesting thing, it's like laying a puzzle or anything else is like I get to sit around and because of the meeting so many billion people, I get to listen to problems all around me all the time and I try to distill and figure out, okay, well, this person said this thing, but what if you actually articulate the problem like this instead?
Okay, well, what does that mean?
And what does that unlock?
And that for me is just, it's so much fun.
And I couldn't imagine, you know, not spending every single day doing this.
And, you know, we started this journey by telling my story that I didn't have to work.
And that's why I started Spotify because I loved music and I wanted to figure out a way where consumers got what they wanted and creators were able to get paid by doing what they love to do.
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You said something in the early days of Spotify.
It was very fascinating.
You wanted to build, like, an enduring and impactful company that did something to no one else did, right?
And it's for work also, like, when I'm listening to this series that was created in 2021, how much you guys are talking about AI and how early you were and you understood the impact, which is like, you kind of saw clearly, like, where we're going.
But you said something that I didn't actually understand because the way I think about technologies, like technology is just a better way to do something, right?
And you're like at Spotify, though, like at the very beginning, it's like, I think.
You nailed it.
You're like, the decisions that were made have to do with the DNA of the founder
because we're the only ones there.
But you said, I like technology for technology's sake.
Yeah.
What does that mean?
I like the process of science.
I like the process of discovery.
I like the process of understanding how things work.
You know, I've been wired this way all my life.
I've been pulling apart computers.
I've been trying to understand why a semiconductor works.
where it works, all these things. And I'm intrigued about that. Just this thing about understanding
everything, understanding life, understand where we come from, understanding all these different
things. But I'm equally interested in solving problems. And when you're curious about both of
those two angles, you can end up finding these sort of connection points where those two things
meets where it's obvious that there is something over there that no one's really kind of
applied in this way before and maybe there's not one idea but two ideas over there it's quite
interesting and and I think you have to love technology in order to go to the depth of understanding
what's possible and and because it's often times like the greatest ideas is truly inately
understanding something and truly innately breaking constraints around that
something by understanding of rules and knowing when when you can yeah to break them yeah and so like
what are the greatest entrepreneurs really well the greatest founders are the people that kind of have
this one idea like what they can almost internalize the consumer right like what is someone
willing what what do they need even if they can't articulate themselves and then have this entire
field of amazing brilliant engineers and scientists
and mathematicians and all these groups of people
that are doing various things.
And then sort of figure out the intersection,
and then you actually have to make it viable too,
which is you have to have some sort of business model.
Because if you don't have that,
eventually this thing won't be sustainable.
So, you know, it's sort of the trifect of those three things,
and that makes it even more interesting.
Because now we're talking about, you know,
a really complex equation trying to get these things together with multiple unknowns and
you're trying to configure these things by locking down constraints on one side and then
you're trying another side and the amazing thing about early stage entrepreneurship is you know
we talked about this google example of trying to earn different colors you can't do that early on
that is the amazing thing every decision you make is life or death and that makes sort of the stakes
even higher because you may literally try one thing and then you're
run out of money. And so you've got to make sure that is the right thing. And it's just such a
fascinating process. But it comes back. It's a process of creativity. It's a process of trying
things out. And I'm more and more enamored and more and more in love with this idea that
creativity itself is this really, really powerful thing. Maybe the thing that makes us you
unique as humans relative to everything else that exists in this world and kind of going deeper
and deeper into creativity itself and it doesn't conform and it doesn't scale and it doesn't behave in
any of these other things and then you have this other side which is all about scale which is all
about conforming and sort of navigating that sort of dynamism between these two things and
polarities between these two things is, you know, very few people that I think can do and
it's really, really well classed at doing it. I think most of us, you can't even describe why
you're doing what you're doing at the time. And what I mean by that is like, you hinted on this
earlier. It's like it's so easy to kill new ideas, right? The arrow on the side of, no, we can't
do this. It's amazing to me how many times this comes up in all these biographies or just like
that's the skill you have to learn. And a lot of it is like being
comfortable with the messiness of the creative product process, but it's also
entrepreneurs by definition, impatient, patient.
Yeah.
Like they have this, this, what looks like a paradox where, like, they want shit done now.
I love, Jeff Bezos says about this, step by step ferociously.
Yep.
You know, that's the, I'm willing to plan, you know, to, for take two decades or three
decades to solve the problem that I'm trying to go after.
Maybe in some cases, stuff that he's working on might even outlive his lifetime.
But it doesn't mean I'm like dilly down.
on a day-to-day basis.
I heard you say something one time.
You're like, I promise you, I don't think I'm the smartest.
I don't think I'm the most talented.
If I have one superpower, I just have super, like, I have super patience.
Yeah.
I think NECO is like an example of this.
I met your co-founder on it.
And I got to see this too.
And I was like, oh, like, this is cool.
Like, who made the machines?
It's just like, we did.
Yeah.
And then I didn't know it was like, I don't know if stealth is the right word, but from the idea
to the first time the customer happened.
It was like six years or something or four years.
No, it's, the company's eight years old, and we barely began.
Yeah.
And it's like, okay, that's an insane love.
That's an understanding.
Like, we're tackling one, something that's...
Yeah.
I like what you just said, like innovation and creativity is actually a combination of things
that occurred before that were combining.
Yeah.
Right.
And when you mentioned that, I thought of, like, you know, James Dyson's one of my
entrepreneur heroes, and what I love about one of the hidden things that people don't
know is.
is he wrote a book called The History of Great Inventions.
It's such a, like, it's kind of a bland read.
God bless his heart.
But it's just him going through, like, little Wikipedia pages or, like, his version of Wikipedia pages about, like, what this inventor did, how he did it, and what the result was.
And then you see him take these ideas from like 1700 or whatever.
And I was like, oh, I'll just take like that little piece out here and I can find it with this piece.
And then what's the new technology today that enables me to solve this problem that didn't exist a few years.
ago. So you have this patience, right? You have this desire to solve problem. It's almost
like it sounded like to me and maybe you could disagree with me. Like you're sounding like you see
a giant puzzle that you're trying to figure out. Now you have, like you have more resources
you can be patient. Like you couldn't have done NECO 20 when you were 23. Yeah. Right. But you have
this great quote that I know is important to you. And it says quality is never an accident. It is always
a result of intelligent effort. Yeah. We haven't talked about quality at all, even though like,
Spotify is the high, like if you compare your competitors,
like it's just in a class by itself.
So it's obviously very important to you.
Yeah.
Like we can't, we have to talk about quality.
So like, do you wanna like just pick up
where that quote leaves off?
Well, there's so many strands of quality, right?
It is both sort of the distinction of taste,
whether taste is subjective or objective.
You can go so many ways with this question.
But the way I think about quality,
is
I think
so much of your
early life
certainly in my case
was the formulation
of just trying to go for more
and
the further I've gotten
I've realized
and it's about everything
right
you mass more stuff
you mess
you try to do
more things at the same time
you try to do all of these things
at the same time
time. And the further you go, you realize that it really is about sort of ultimately this very
simplistic trite thing, less is more. And the older again, I feel more and more. We talked
about it with friends. I think most people start out thinking having more friends is better. But I
think more people are happier with fewer but better friends than many friends.
And so I think quality is ultimately this sort of notion around focusing, distilling, getting to the essence.
We can even talk about quality in communication is often trimming things down and saying less things, right?
Why is it, for instance, that when we're talking about very hard things, most people's instant reaction is just to try to,
to add more complexity to the issue instead of just simplifying it.
They're just trying to be courageous and just trying to say the thing right out loud.
The older I get, the more my instinct is towards turning towards that.
And I'm reminded even if we go back to investing, because part of why I sort of liked investing
has nothing to do with money, it started with honestly this fact that all of a sudden I had
more money than I knew what to do with.
And I sort of didn't want to just hand it off to a bank and without understanding anything about it.
But what sort of got me deeper curious about it is I realized that investing is actually more about learning about your temperament than it is about the specific action that you're doing.
Your temperament actually, it's more about being in line with your temperaments than the nod or which game you're picking needs to be suited to you.
your circumstances and how you want to play this than anything else and so again we come back to
philosophy and so one of the concepts is obviously around the munger talks about coming back to
munger reference again is it's diversification right and and he calls it's somewhat simplified
diversification because the common wisdom of course is in theory diversification is the best thing you can do but
But the truly greatest people, financially, if that's the only yardstick you use, typically
do completely the opposite of that, which is they have oftentimes only one assets.
Maybe they'll have two or three, but they certainly don't have more than that.
And they just go for that.
There's a realization you have, right?
Because I read something, you read a line, and you're like, okay, let me filter it out
through how I would say it.
So I do this all the time where, like, I'll take notes on all the books that I read,
and then I'll reread them.
I'll just jot it to tell.
It's like, what's occurring there?
Can I put it into one sentence?
And one thing I stumbled upon about this was that sometimes the Nick Sleep has this great quote
where he's like, the best investors or not investors at all, their entrepreneurs never sold.
And me and you have talked about this, the fact that there's a lot of people that have like sold way too early and they're like lauded.
And he's like, if you just didn't do that, everything else you did, like if you just didn't sell.
So Nick Sleep talks about this is like, and in other books was like, if Sam Walton,
didn't give away the stock in Walmart to his kids before it appreciated.
You know,
you have one of the largest fortunes by a single person ever for their ownership,
the concentration of ownership in Walmart.
And Sam talks about this.
He's like,
I didn't really do investing in anything but Walmart, right?
And it's like he wasn't waking up saying,
I need to diversify more portfolio.
I need to worry about capital allocation.
You're just like,
I believe what I'm doing.
I'm going to keep doing it.
I'm going to throw all my money in there.
And he's just like,
I doing it because I love to do it.
And spending time doing anything else would be an absolute distraction.
And Nick Sleep talks about this because he's,
a capital allocator. He's not building a product, but he's making capital allocation decisions.
Like, do I need to sell the stock, put into another one? I'm weighing my opportunity costs.
And he was haunted almost by this idea, if you look at financial history, it's like,
he talked about a financial firm one day where they're like, okay, we owned IBM in the 1950s.
And I didn't know, I read Michael Dell's autobiography, right? Because IBM was, it's like,
they're the most powerful and wealthiest company in the world, but me and you were born.
okay and michael dell's like do you have to understand like 1987 for me to like yell out to my dad
he's like what do you want to do for a living he's like i want to compete with ibn i'm in i'm a 19 year old
in my dorm room with a thousand dollars like what kind of grandiose ambition do you have i win
the nurse is like why is it so crazy and i started it was the most valuable company in the world
by market cap at the time it's the first company to go over a hundred billion dollars in market
cap right and this little 19 year old kids like no i think i can like have a go have a go with them
But Nick Sleep talks about, he came into this firm and he's reading their, how they talked about their investments.
And like, we made a massive mistake.
We owned IBM in the 1950s and we sold.
And they're having this conversation in the 1970s.
And the leadership of the financial firm is like, how do we avoid not doing this?
That one, they said, if we just held that, it would have, the gain would have been more than all the assets we have in our management.
Like, we can't do this.
That same year, they sold Walmart.
They had Walmart in the 1970s.
Wow. So they made the same mistake. And Buffett, obviously, greatest investor of all time. He met Walt Disney. He went and talked to Walt Disney in like the 60s. And then he, I think that he bought the sock at like 62 cents or something. Right. And he had like a 2x or 4x game. He's like, yeah, why I sold Disney. Yeah. So that's why I was like, oh, the best financial decisions are not financial decisions at all. You're doing it for another reason, which is exactly what you said. It's like all Sam had to do was just keep doing Walmart. This is exactly what he did. I remember, um, you.
I obviously live in Miami
on a friend's boat
in the marina there
and there's like
the boat like bigger
than anything else around there
it's like and you can Google
like who owns it.
It was Sam Walton's brother's daughter.
Right, right.
Yeah, yeah.
It's crazy.
But I think you're on to something important
which is this notion around
just innately focusing
and solving problems
day by day builds quality.
Right.
And so,
So quality for me is less quality for me is focus.
Quality for me is improving day by day.
All of these things build quality.
And quality is rare.
Quality in people is rare.
Quality in ideas is rare.
And we tend to make these things binary.
And we talked about it with people.
Like I'd rather have that person that has one good idea in an entire
hour and the rest is crap than someone who has 10 decent ideas but nothing is amazing so that sort
of differential equation between the 1% versus the rest is so important and it's so important to
understand and I think it's it's we again take it literally and we know about it because we can
explain it in hindsight but we don't know when it's happening so what is that qualitative process
what defines quality as it's happening before you can see it objectively from the outside
those things are interesting and I'm more and more drawn towards that it is for me at least
very much looking at the people in it and looking at how they build judgment over time
the sort of feedback loop they create the curiosity that they have about this and the obsession
they have about trying to achieve the impossible and for me the impossible is something that's
perfect it's never going to exist the whole universe
is this thing where the only thing we've learned,
we keep debating all these things about the universe,
but the only thing we know is it's not static.
It moves.
It cannot by definition be like this one thing.
It's just constantly expanding or contrasting or it's moving.
So perfection just doesn't exist.
But the aspiration towards perfection is a remarkable thing.
I mean, I love Japan for this reason, right?
You find these amazing individuals that literally spend their entire life.
I was in Japan maybe 10 days ago or something.
And I was in one of these temples with a tea master who literally all he's done for the past,
for the past 34 years, is perfecting how to make tea.
That's it.
Nothing else.
And yes, the tea is amazing.
But it's not just that.
It's just seeing that obsession about quality,
seeing that obsession about being not even 1%,
but like 0.1% or 0.1% in something.
And I think feel like you sort of asked about AI and all these things.
And we can talk about art too, but like for me, like that is going to be even rarer.
Like average is going to be possible to do.
Even better than average is going to be possible to do with AI.
But that sort of thing about this guy doing this for 30 years, just becoming the very, very best about what they do, or even what I find incredibly inspiring by you is just the relentlessness every single day towards the long term.
It's like, as you say, it's the paradox about the long-term mindliness, but the obsession on the daily basis and against conventional odds, against all these.
other things, because I would imagine, I don't know, but I would imagine, like, when you started
founders, probably not many people knew who you were, right? Nobody. Nobody, right? And so the,
the competition for your time was, there was none. So you could probably sit for six hours or eight
hours and, et cetera, but today, it's much harder because there's many other things. There's people
like myself and other people, and you're like, oh, wait a minute, maybe this is a good idea to me
this person or there's a you know a business opportunity that shows up and maybe people are asking
maybe you should invest and maybe you're tempted about it even but it's this is the thing that
happens all the time and this is how greatness gets evaporated is you lose focus that's a great
line greatness gets evaporated a lot of the stuff like when I talk on the podcast or everything
I say social media is like reminders to myself because I just read reread past highlights because
like we forget that we forget and so I need a reminder and it just
came across one. It's just like, I have them presented to me in a random order. So it's like,
I never know what I'm going to read that day. And it said, uh, there's Buffett. It's like a difference
between successful people and really successful people is really successful people say no to everything.
Yeah. And this is exactly the constant thing where like, I do have a question for you. Um, one,
going back to that, it's like, I can't even explain why I did what I did because like I had
close to no traction for five and a half years. And now I look back as like, there's no way I
would do that today.
Yeah.
But somehow that person who I now greatly appreciate the love that he, it feels like a
different person.
Yeah.
That I cannot believe.
That is like what I'm most proud of is not like trying to make something that's great,
which I think is a selfish thing for us.
It's like, yes, when you release it to the world, you release Spotify, you do all these
things.
It's an active service to other people, but you're also doing it because like you have to.
It has to come out.
But I just cannot believe that I did that.
And I'm just like, that's the thing I'm most more.
most proud of than anything else, just like, I had to do this. I was willing to, like,
drive Uber if I had to, 10 bar, do literally whatever. I was like, just give me enough time
I'll figure it out. Now, I didn't think it was going to take half a decade to figure out.
You have a ton of stories of Spotify with that. There is no line I feel between like your work
and your life, like they're one and the same. Yeah. The issue that I'm having now and in general
is that I feel a lot of pressure because like I'm trying to change not just my life, but like the trajectory
of like my entire family and I feel very guilty when I don't work to the point where like
you know I just got back from a crazy trip that people would love to go on and like I just felt
guilty for not for like taking time out and off and not working yeah and I feel like this is like
almost like a compulsion like I don't have control over it yeah do you have anything like
that sure um I do feel the same thing of course um but I'm back to sort of time versus energy
management and I don't know about you but I feel like the greatest ideas I've had comes from the
most weird and wonderful places where I expected nothing out of it so quite often when I do take
some time off I come back with like two or three and some entirely new insights that just wouldn't
have come if I just kept grinding at that thing but just changing a scenery being in a different
frame of mind, pausing, giving, you know, it's in the creative process, you know,
the greatest artists talk about, some of the greatest songs literally take five minutes
to write, which is amazing, right?
But some songs are the ones you, like, work on it, you put it in a drawer, and six months
later, totally unbeknownst to you, it clicks.
You're not even working on that thing.
It just sort of like, oh, that's it.
And they go back and they do the song, and it's like the greatest song ever.
Um, there's not one path to greatness. Um, there's many. Um, and I feel like the, that's, that's why I'm so
obsessively focused on energy. So you mean energy is like, you just let that guide you? Yeah. It's like,
hey, if I need a break right now, if I need to go for a walk or if I need to go spend time with my wife and
kids or like, yeah. Is that what you mean? Yeah, 100%. Um, and, and I try to, uh, feel that. I feel like so much of
our life just rips us apart from this thing and tries to get us on a schedule per se and it's not like
I don't have a schedule. Of course, I do have one. But I feel so much of it should be more guided
by trying to understand ourselves more intimately, right? So I don't know if you've heard of
this, but going back to sleep, there's been this kind of thing around more recently, which I was
surprised one of my my 10 year old daughter told me about this is around um that um actually
you know um she she sort of said like we have this idea that of eight hours and and she actually
mentioned instead that um the real notion is that it we kind of did it almost like fasting um like
Ramadan is you know how it's based on the sun sometimes it could be six hours or something
it could be 12 hours so it used to be the sleep was actually in two
periods. So you didn't sleep one consecutive thing. You sort of had a three, four hours sleep,
and then you woke up, and then you had another three, four hours sleep again. And so much of that
was based on light. And, you know, maybe it was driven by other things that were happening in
our life, too. And for Nordic people, what it actually meant, going back as late as the 18th century,
before we started having electric lights and candles and all these things is we actually slept a lot less on the summers and we slept a lot more in the winters guided by lights so we keep thinking it's the static thing but it's actually again driven by the environment around us and so much of this sort of innate knowledge about listening to ourselves understanding our innate personality understanding hunger
Like, I can tell you someone, I've gained in periods of my life, like 40 pounds in my worst negotiations, et cetera.
And one of the problems I have now is that I literally don't know when I'm hungry because I ruined that sort of natural feeling in my body of understanding when I'm hungry and when I'm not hungry.
So, you know, a huge part of losing weight for me over the past few years was just really kind of innately starting to listen.
to my body again and like starting to figure out what satiation means because for me for instance
I don't feel it until 20 minutes after so like if if I didn't like sort of eye what I should eat
I would just keep eating way more than I should and so much of me has just been portion sizing of
like understanding okay well that's probably going to be enough and it doesn't feel like enough
at that moment because I ruined my body but 20 minutes later I understand it and so I'm just trying to
sort of, again, convey this sort of thing about understanding who you are, choosing the game
you're playing, and realizing that life is not one game, but it's a thousand games. And there's
this brilliant quotes by this guy called Kwame Apia, that there's another one of those things.
I just circled it. Perfect timing. No, we're in perfect alignment. Go ahead.
Well, I'm probably going to ruin the exact one, so maybe you can read it. Okay, I'll read it.
It's in life, the challenge is not so much to figure out how best to play
the game. The challenge is to figure out what game you're playing. Yeah. And for me,
realizing that, it's just been eye-opening, right? It's another one that's on my wall.
Because I feel like quite often when I'm talking to people and they're talking and trying
to get life advice, they're not playing their game. They're playing someone else's game.
They're certainly not playing the game they want to be playing. But they some of
think that life is just one game where actually so much is about choosing the right game for you
and so yeah I keep coming back to that like energy management the same thing you got to like
create the environment around you that you want to do you got to choose your game and when you do
and you start understanding that you start becoming superhuman in your ability to get things done
Do you have more or less negative self-talk today than you did 20 years ago?
I'm more comfortable with who I am than I was 20 years ago.
I was still very much, my whole life, I've been a searcher.
I've been, you know, when I was really young in my teens, I went to every possible religious meetup you could be.
I went to everything.
I went to Harry Krishna centers.
I went to, you know, Jewish centers, you know, mosques.
I went everything.
And I try to learn as much as possible because I truly believe not enough people are like,
I've always been surprised why more people aren't interested in where we come from
and what the purposes of life.
For me, those are sort of some of the greatest questions that I, like many others,
have any idea obviously what will happen but I think they're they're really important so I've
always been a searcher and I think that actually sort of like led me to sort of also be a searcher
about myself too and and trying to find sort of who I am but the older I've gotten and the more
and more things I started clicking about myself and the more unapologetic I am about and so your
inner monologue gets less harsh yeah because like you know not only do you
stand out quite a lot as an entrepreneur and my interests were widely different than my social
circuit growing up and all these things. But the second thing is I'm an introvert. So, you know,
that doesn't help. So most people like being around a lot of people and they get energy from
it. I didn't. So that obviously naturally gets you to question yourself. And, you know, against many
others as an entrepreneur, I'm not the most eloquent person. I'm not the smartest. You're pretty
damn eloquent. Well, I
had to work on it. That's still
like the hard thing. I've really, really...
Listen, I've listened to all your
interviews, and I did this
before we were friends, and I, every time
something comes out, I was like, oh, I've got to watch that. You're
not giving yourself enough credit. Like,
you are a very clear communicator.
Thank you. Yeah. But it's
really a work product. I wish
there was more recorded stuff on
myself when I was like
20 and 21 because
not me. I was
I was not great.
I was quite terrible.
And so I've just learned that it's a superpower and something I have to work on is getting my message across to other people to believe what I'm believing and see what I'm seeing in order to get them to want to come and join whatever thing we're trying to will into this world.
I have two more questions that I'm personally curious about.
One is going to be a very weird question.
but the first one is do you feel different okay so like most of the people watching this are listening to this
like so few people are going to be born in the projects in a tiny little we didn't even we'll have to do like
this every year if you're fine with it uh because like the idea that you even like come from this tiny
little island which i was like uh you know uh like got to visit and then you like competing with the
biggest companies in the world and you win it's just doesn't like we we didn't even get there
But, like, you grow up, you have a great mom, you know, you're single family, not a lot of money, but, and then now what I'm curious about is like your lived experience is so, there's so few people alive that can actually empathize with that as, because they also had it.
So I'm very curious. Do you feel different?
And what I mean by it is, like, as you've grown from, you know, a kid in the projects,
even if you had early success to now being, you know, one of the most successful entrepreneurs on the planet,
which I know don't do the face.
But it's undeniable fact.
Like, do you feel different?
I think yes and no.
So I feel different in the same way a 40-year-old would feel different than a 10-year-old would do.
I feel different in, I'm a product of all the experiences of my life, and obviously I've been
incredibly fortunate to, I was counting the other day, I've been to like 130 countries or
something in my life. I've seen so many cultures, so many people, I have friends all over
the world. All of that has shaped me into who I am. I don't feel difference because
innately, many of the things, the drive, the long-termness, the obsession, the, this sort of
willingness on the paradox of winning on the one hand, but then also trying to truly find a
win-win and work with people to try to find a win-win, which is really important to me,
has always been there. And it's always been these things. And like you said, you know,
you kind of look back at yourself a few years back when you started off and saying, wow, how did I do this? And you're amazed at that. I can feel the same way about young Daniel. I can feel myself about the young Daniel that worked every weekend, you know, nonstop 24-7, sacrificed so many things, so many summer or so many other things. You know, I had a blast doing so, but I didn't have a normal upbringing.
just because I was so obsessed about learning,
so obsessed about making it.
And it put me in the position of where I am today.
And I actually feel like I owe that guy to keep pushing myself, right?
Because there's so many things.
There's so many demands of my time.
So many things that tells me to sort of downshift gear into an easier gear
because life would be a lot more comfortable that way.
this is not a comfortable thing no it goes back to impact impact to happiness this is what so i think
i text this to you um but one one of the roles you play and i'm very grateful that you allowed us to
like record this conversation because essentially what i texture is like you seem to have like no
self-imposed ceiling on what you can learn or achieve and that spending time with you then transfers
that belief to other people and so like every single time you know i obviously like i take notes of like
what I learned from the conversation we have after the fact.
And I interpret it.
It's like, obviously not verbatim.
I'm saying, like, what did I just learn from Daniel?
What does it apply to me?
He's like, oh, you have all these, you think you don't, I thought, like, I was ambitious
and I, like, I didn't even realize until you kind of pulled the scales off my eyes.
Like, you have this, like, limiting belief that you have no limits.
There is no limits in life.
And so, like, you're a hell of inspiring.
One other question for you.
I'm obsessed with Game of Thrones to an unhealthy degree.
I've rewatched a series all the time.
I've read all the books.
I read the encyclopedia.
I'll read the family histories because I do think, like, you can learn a lot from human nature in fiction.
And my job and my obsession requires me to 99% of my reading is nonfiction.
And I don't, I want to read more fiction.
And I came across something recently because I'm going through Jeff Bezos shareholders again.
And then I read, like, what was my interpretation of this in the past?
And then I came across something that was fascinating.
There's a story in the prequels, Game of Thrones, where two brothers are fighting in this war,
one of the brothers was pulled into the war that did not want to be there. And he made the
sacrifice because it was for the good of his family. He wound up dying in the war that he didn't
want to fight in the first place. And his brother, still survived, got his remains, buried him,
and then put him in a grave with only one word on his tombstone. And that one word was loyal.
So hopefully, you don't, you're 100 years from now when you do have a tombstone, if there was only going to be
one word on that tombstone what would you want it to be um i i don't think too much anymore i used to
think a lot about how other people saw me or see me um i don't do that anymore um so i would i would
choose more of a self-reflective one and I wish only one thing on my tombstone
future one feels absurd talking about it but would be that he lived that's a great
one that's a great way to end it Daniel I'm thankful for your time thank for your
friendship you're one of the people I most admire and I really appreciate you doing
this well well thank you so much and it's such a huge honor to be your first
in this series. Of course. Thank you so much. What happened any other way. I hope you enjoyed this
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