Huberman Lab - Essentials: The Science of Love, Desire & Attachment
Episode Date: February 12, 2026In this Huberman Lab Essentials episode, I explore the psychology and biology of desire, love and attachment. I explain how childhood attachment styles can shape adult romantic relationships and how... the brain and body systems influence emotional bonds. I also discuss supplements that may support a healthy libido and practical, science-based tools for understanding your relationship patterns and building stronger relationships. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Desire, Love & Attachment (00:00:23) 4 Attachment Styles, Child & Parent (00:04:11) Attachment & Autonomic Arousal, Seesaw Analogy (00:07:26) Sponsor: Eight Sleep (00:08:44) Tool: Self-Awareness of Attachment Style, Autonomic State & Relationship (00:09:51) Brain & Neural Circuits for Desire, Love & Attachment (00:11:19) Empathy, Autonomic Matching (00:13:09) Positive Delusions, Relationship Breakdown & Failure (00:16:00) Sponsor: Function (00:17:39) Universality of Love, Autonomic Coordination (00:21:38) Self-Expansion & Relationships, Shaping Self-Perception (00:27:54) Sponsor: AG1 (00:28:44) Testosterone, Estrogen, Dopamine & Libido (00:31:52) Supplements to Increase Libido: Maca Root, Tongkat Ali (Longjack), Tribulus (00:38:55) Recap Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Welcome to Huberman Lab Essentials,
where we revisit past episodes
for the most potent and actionable science-based tools
for mental health, physical health, and performance.
I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor
of neurobiology and ophthalmology
at Stanford School of Medicine.
Today we are going to talk about the psychology
and the biology of desire, love, and attachment.
One of the most robust findings in the field of psychology
is this notion of attachment styles,
And this was something that was discovered
through a beautiful set of studies that were done
by Mary Ainsworth in the 1980s,
in which she developed a laboratory condition
called the Strange Situation Task.
The Strange Situation Task involves a parent,
typically a mother in the studies that were done,
but a parent or other caregiver,
bringing their child, their actual child,
into a laboratory,
and there's a room with a stranger.
And the mother enters the room with the child,
and,
There's some toys in the room,
and typically the mother and the stranger will talk.
Obviously, the stranger is part of the experiment
is not just some random person off the street.
And the child is allowed to move about the room,
they can play with toys or not.
But then at some point, the mother leaves,
and then at some point later,
designated by the experimenter, the mother comes back.
And what is measured in these studies
is both how the child, the toddler,
reacts to the mother leaving,
and how the child reacts to the mother returning
at the end of the experiment.
So there are a lot of variations of this,
but the basic findings are that toddlers, children,
fall into four different categories of attachment style.
The first style is the so-called secure attachment style.
The secure attachment style is one in which
the child will engage with the stranger,
with the experimenter,
while the parent is present in the room,
but that when the parent or other caregiver leaves,
the child does get visibly upset.
However, when the caregiver,
meaning the mother or father or other caregiver returns,
the child visibly expresses happiness
that the caregiver has returned.
And the interpretation of this is that the secure child
feels confident that the caregiver is available
and will be responsive to their needs
and their communications.
These children are also very good at exploring novel environments
after the parent is gone and while the parent is there.
The second category is a so-called anxious avoidant
or insecurely attached.
They do not exhibit distress on separation
and they generally tend to have some tendency
to approach the caregiver when they return,
but there doesn't seem to be a general expression of joy.
The third category is the so-called anxious ambivalent
slash resistant insecure category.
The anxious, ambivalent, resistant insecure,
toddlers really, show distress
even before separation from their mother or other caregiver.
And they tend to be very clingy and difficult to comfort
when the caregiver returns.
And the third category of attachment style
is the so-called disorganized or disoriented
or D for the letter D babies.
It seems like these children just don't really know
how to react to a separation.
and they just start to manifest behaviors
and emotional tones that aren't observed in other situations.
Now, what's interesting about this
from the perspective of desire, love, and attachment
is that the categorizations of children
into one of these four different categories as toddlers
is strongly predictive of their attachment style
in romantic partnerships later in life,
which is to me both amazing and surprising
and surprising and not surprising all at the same time.
The good news is that these templates can shift over time.
And one of the more powerful ways
to shift those templates over time
is purely by the knowledge that they exist
and the understanding that those templates are malleable.
So I mentioned that the neural circuits
for child parent or child caregiver attachment
are repurposed for romantic attachment later in life.
But what are these neural circuits?
What do they do?
I mean,
It's so attractive, if you will, to think about a brain area that controls love or a brain area that controls desire or a brain area that controls attachment, but it simply doesn't work that way.
Instead, there are multiple brain areas that through their coordinated action create a sort of a song that we call desire or a song that we call love or a song that we call attachment, not a literal song.
But rather, different brain areas being active in different sequences and with different intensities can make us feel as it.
if we are in the mode that we call desire,
in the mode of love, or in the mode of attachment.
But beneath all of that is this element of autonomic arousal.
So the way to think about the autonomic nervous system
is it's kind of a seesaw.
We can be alert and calm or we can be very, very alert,
we can be in a state of panic,
we can be fast asleep so we can be extremely calm
or we can just be kind of sleepy, semi-calm,
but still also alert.
So think about it like a seesaw,
And that seesaw has a hinge.
And that hinge defines how tight or loose that seesaw is,
how readily it can tilt back and forth.
Our autonomic tone is how tight that hinge is.
And there are biological mechanisms to explain this,
but here I just wanna stay with the analogy
of the seesaw for now.
The interactions between child and caregiver early in life
take the child and the caregiver
from one end of the seesaw to the other,
from being very alert in a state of play, for instance,
to being nursed and being very soothed until we go to sleep.
And of course, we each have a seesaw,
the parent and the child has a seesaw,
and they're interacting.
What do I mean by that?
Well, there are beautiful studies and beautiful,
not in the sense that they focused on a pleasant topic,
but beautiful because they were done so beautifully well,
that looked at, for instance,
the response of mothers and their physiologies,
and the response of children and their physiologies,
during the bombing of cities during World War II.
So an unpleasant situation,
but what was revealed during the course of these studies
was that if the mothers were very stressed
during an onslaught of bombing of the city,
the children's physiologies tended to be stressed also
and persisted in being stressed
long after that stressful episode was done.
They actually followed that these children
well out for many decades afterwards.
Conversely, if the parent, and in this case again, it was mothers that were explored in
these studies, had turned this whole business of going into the bomb shelters into somewhat
of a game, taking it seriously, but essentially telling the children, okay, it's time to go,
but not expressing much stress or distress.
The children also didn't develop much stress or distress or trauma.
Now, there were exceptions to this, of course, but in general, that was the rule that the
autonomic nervous systems of children tend to mimic the autonomic nervous.
systems of the primary caregiver.
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So if I were to offer a set of tools around these topics of desire, love, and attachment,
I would say, first of all, you might want to think about whether or not you fall into the secure and secure,
or other attachment styles.
Second, I think it is vitally important for all of us,
but certainly for people that are in relationships
or seeking relationships,
to be able to at least have some recognition
of where our autonomic nervous system tends to reside,
both in terms of when we are with somebody
and when they leave.
When we are apart for long periods of time,
can we calm ourselves, can we self-soothe?
Or are we very much dependent
on the presence of another
in order to feel soothed.
Now, I absolutely want to emphasize
that there is nothing wrong.
In fact, there's everything right
with feeling great in the presence of somebody else.
That is actually a hallmark of strong and quality attachments.
A key element of healthy interdependence
is that, yes, our autonomic nervous system
is adjusted by the presence of another,
but that also that we can adjust our own autonomic nervous system
even in the absence of that person.
So if the autonomic nervous system is,
one key component of desire, love, and attachment.
What are the other two?
Not surprisingly, the dopamine system in the brain
is associated with desire, love, and attachment
and mainly with desire, although to some extent love.
Dopamine is a neurochemical sometimes associated with reward,
but as some of you have heard me say before,
it is mainly a molecule of motivation, craving, and pursuit.
And that motivation, craving, and pursuit
that relates to dopamine is not,
unique to attachment or love or sex or mating, et cetera.
It is a universal generic currency in the brain
for pursuing something.
I wanna just discuss the two neural circuits
that use dopamine, that use serotonin and oxytocin
and that collaborate with the autonomic nervous system
to drive what we call desire love and attachment.
And the three circuits are autonomic nervous system.
We talked about that one.
Then there's the nervous system.
nervous system components are the neural circuits
for empathy, for being able to see and respond to
and indeed match the emotional tone
or the autonomic tone of another.
And then there's the third category,
and this might surprise some of you,
it certainly surprised me,
but the data point to the fact
that the third neural circuit that's very important
for establishing bonds is one associated with positive delusions.
So given that the neural circuits for empathy
are absolutely crucial for,
we're falling in love and maintaining stable attachments.
I'd like to talk about those neural circuits
and what they are.
Now often when we hear empathy, we think,
oh, empathy is really about listening to
and really understanding what somebody else is feeling,
maybe even feeling what they're feeling.
And indeed, that's the case,
but what do we mean by that, right?
What is it to feel what another feels?
Well, what it means is that their seesaw
is driving your seesaw.
or your seesaw is somehow driving their seesaw.
That's a form of empathic matching.
And there are indeed neural circuits for that.
The neural circuits for empathy,
again, there are many,
but mainly two structures that you should know about,
the prefrontal cortex,
which is how we perceive things outside of us
and make decisions on the basis of those perceptions,
how we organize those decisions.
And an area of the brain called the insula,
I-N-S-U-L-A.
The insula is a really interesting brain area
that allows us
to interocept to pay attention to what's going on inside our body
and to split some of our attention to exterocept.
And the insula is essentially splitting one's attention
between how we feel ourselves,
how our body feels, what we're thinking,
with the thinking and the body's bodily sensations of the other.
Okay, so we have the autonomic nervous system
and then we have this thing that we're calling empathy,
which is really about autonomic matching.
And again, the insularly,
Insula and the prefrontal cortex are neural circuits
that are crucial for autonomic matching
because they allow us to say what's out there
and do I wanna match to it or not, okay?
And then the third category is the neural circuit
associated with self-delusion.
What do we mean by positive delusion?
Positive delusion is belief that only this person
can make me feel this way.
Now positive dilution is critical.
If you look at the stability of relationships,
over time. What you find is that there are some key features of interactions between individuals
that predict that a relationship will last. And those are many, but mainly fall under this category
of positive delusions. I'll return to those and what those exactly look like. But there are also
just a handful of things that predict that a relationship will fail over time. This is largely
the work of the Gottman's. It's actually a husband and wife team up at the University
of Washington in Seattle.
And they've identified what are called
the four horsemen of relationships.
Those four behaviors,
what they call the four horsemen of the apocalypse
for relationships,
or one, criticism, two, defensiveness,
three stonewalling and four contempt,
with contempt being the most powerful predictor
of breaking up.
Criticism, of course, does not mean
that there's no,
place for criticism in stable relationships. Of course, there is. It has to do with how frequent
and how intensely that criticism is voiced. Defensiveness, of course, is defensiveness. We know as
the sort of lack of ability to hear another or to adopt their stance. So lack of empathy, I think,
is one way to interpret defensiveness. Stonewalling, which is actually another form of lack of
empathy. It's a turning off of this neural circuit that's so critical for desire, love, and
attachment. The stonewalling essentially means the emotional response or the request of another
is completely cut off and then contempt. And contempt has actually been referred to as the
sulfuric acid of relationship. I didn't say that, but Gottman and colleagues have that it is
such a powerful predictor of divorce and breakups in the future. Contempt, of course, by definition,
is the feeling that a person or thing
is beneath consideration,
worthlessness, or deserving scorn.
Runs counter to all of the neural circuits,
all three of the neural circuits
that we talked about before.
It certainly is the antithesis of empathy.
It is anything but a positive delusion.
It's really looking at the other individual,
either accurately or inaccurately,
as somebody that you kind of despise.
And then it is an absolute inversion
of the autonomic seesaw matching
that I was talking about before.
It's a dissociating of your seesaw from their seesaw.
They're very excited about something.
You're unexcited by it.
And therefore, it's not surprising that it is so strongly predictive of breakups
and in the case of married couples of divorce.
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I want to now talk about an article that came out
a little over 10 years ago that talked about the universality
of love and the ability to fall in love.
An article was published in the New York Times in 2015
that related to some psychological studies that were done
as well as some clinical work,
as well as some what I would call pop psychology
or things that fall outside the domains of academic science.
And the whole basis
of this article was 36 questions that lead to love.
And it involved a listing out indeed of 36 questions
divided into set one, set two and set three
that progress from somewhat ordinary questions
about life experience and self report
to more, let's call them deep questions
about people's values and things that are emotionally close to them.
And I'll just give an example of a few of these.
Some of the questions in set number one,
where, for instance, what would constitute
a perfect day for you?
For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
Kind of standard questionnaire stuff.
In set two, what is your most treasured memory?
Was your most terrible memory?
So these are, as you can tell,
are drilling a little bit deeper into one's
personal experience and emotional system.
And then set three, questions 25 through 36.
Are things, you know,
what is a very embarrassing moment in your life?
When did you last cry?
in front of another person and by yourself?
What is something that's too serious to be joked about?
So it's going deeper into one's emotional system.
Now, the reason this article got so much traction
and the reason I'm bringing it up today
is that there was a statement that was made
in and around this article that if two people went on a date
or simply sat down and asked each other these questions,
that by the end of that exchange,
where one person asked,
asks 36 questions and the other person answers all 36
and then the other person asks all 36
and the other person answers all 36
that they would fall in love, right?
Which seems like kind of a ridiculous thing.
And yet it is the case that people who go through this exercise
report feeling as if they know the other person quite well
and feeling certain levels of attachment
or even love and desire for the other person
that they would not have pretty,
predicted had they not gone through that process.
So what's going on in this exchange of questions
and answers of a progressively more emotional
and deep level?
We know based on recent studies,
and I've covered this before on this podcast,
but I'll mention again that when individuals
listen to the same narrative,
their heart rates tend to synchronize
or at least follow a very similar pattern,
even if they're not in the same room listening to a given narrative.
So I'm not all that surprise that people find,
that they fall in love, in quotes,
after answering these questions to one another.
Because essentially the way these questions are laid out
is they establish a narrative.
They establish a very personal narrative
and the other person is listening very closely.
So I don't wanna seem overly reductionist.
I'll never propose that all of our sensation, perception,
action and experience in life boils down to us just being bags
of chemicals and the action of those chemicals
or any aspect of our nervous system.
And yet,
in looking across the psychological literature
of development of attachment,
in the psychological literature of adult and romantic attachment
and what makes and breaks those attachments,
it's very clear to me.
And I think courses through the literature
at multiple levels that autonomic coordination
is a hallmark feature of desire,
a hallmark feature of what we call love,
and a hallmark feature of what we call attachment.
You hear a lot of what we call attachment.
You hear a lot of,
out there that, you know, in order to form a really strong relationship, you have to have a good
relationship with yourself or you have to love yourself or you often hear, for instance, that,
you know, it's exactly when you're not looking for a relationship that you're going to find
what you hear this stuff, right? But none of that is really grounded in any studies. There's a particular
study that I found, this was published in frontiers in psychology, but it's a experimental
study that involves neuroimaging.
The title of this study is manipulation of self-expansion
alters responses to attractive alternative partners.
And I love the design of this study.
What they did in this study is they took couples
and they evaluated members of that relationship
for what's called self-expansion.
Now self-expansion is a metric that involves
one's perception of self as seen through the relationship
to the other.
In other words, that one of the reasons why many people enter relationships is that it makes
us feel good about ourselves and more capable.
And I would see that as a healthy interdependence, not necessarily codependence.
In any event, this study looked at whether or not people have high levels of self-expansion
through the actions or statements of their significant other and how that influences
their perception of people outside the relationship,
meaning how attractive they perceive people
outside the relationship to be
turns out to be strongly influenced
by A, whether or not their self-expansion
is very strongly driven by the other person
that they are involved with,
that they're in the romantic relationship with,
and whether or not that's being expressed to them.
So here's how the study went.
First of all, they rated or categorized individual,
on the basis of the self-expansion metric.
Some people have more of a potential
to experience self-expansion through others, right?
Some of us feel great about ourselves
and we're kind of topped off at the others
don't feel so great about themselves,
but they can feel much better in response to praise,
in particular praise or self-expansion type
behaviors or statements from people that we really care about.
And still other people are a mixture of the two,
the kind of moderate levels of both.
So they rated them on this scale.
And then they had people
people experience self expansion narratives.
They heard their significant others say
really terrific things about them
and about the relationship in particular
that the relationship that they have was exciting,
novel and challenging.
So that was one form of self-expansion.
And they went into some detail as to why
that was the case in their particular relationship.
Or they heard a narrative from us,
from their significant other about
strong feelings of love between the two
that had been experienced,
previously in the relationship.
So in the one case, it sort of directed more towards them,
and in the other case, it's more about the relationship itself.
And then they did brain imaging of one person in the relationship,
while that person assessed the attractiveness of people outside the relationship.
And what they found was that people who were primed for this self-expansion
had lower activation of brain areas associated with assessing others' attractiveness,
then did the people who experienced a lot of self-expansion.
Now, the takeaway from that,
at least the way I read this study,
is if you're with somebody who really benefits from
or experiences a lot of self-expansion,
unless you really want them to pay attention
to the attractiveness of other people,
it stands to reason that they would benefit
from more self-expansion type gestures or statements.
Okay.
Not so much sense.
on the relationship.
We have such a great relationship.
There's so much love, it's so great.
That too, but in the context of this study
and these findings, that the person is really terrific,
that the relationship that they've created together
is really exciting, novel, and challenging,
that there's a narrative around the relationship
that really has a lot to do with the dynamics
between the individuals, in particular,
that the person who really likes self-expansion
is vital to that dynamic, okay?
So it's not looking down at the relationship
as a set of equals.
There is sort of this bias written into this,
of that this person is really essential for the relationship.
I'm not saying this is something that anyone has to do.
I'm not saying this is right or wrong.
This is just what the data say.
But what's remarkable is that in the absence of those statements,
people who have or that rate high on this scale of self-expansion
rate attractive alternative partners as more attractive.
Now, that's interesting to me because it means
that their actual perception of others is changing.
They're still seeing all these attractive.
people, it's just that if they're feeling filled up,
in air quotes, psychologically filled up,
emotionally filled up, autonomically filled,
enhanced in the language that we're using today,
by the self-expansion narrative,
will then the same set of attractive faces
appear less attractive to a given individual.
Now, whether or not this predicts cheating or loyalty,
I certainly can't say, that would be very hard
to assess in neuroimaging,
But I find this study, again,
the title manipulation of self-expansion,
alters responses to attractive alternative partners
to be absolutely fascinating
because again, it points to the fact
that the interactions with our significant others
shapes our autonomic arousal,
shapes our perception of self
and thereby shapes our perception
of other potential partners in the outside world
or shuts us down to the potential
of other people in the outside world.
And so this really does point to the idea
that while it is important to link our autonomic nervous systems
to establish desire, love, and attachment,
that we want to have a stable internal representation
of ourselves, a stable autonomic nervous system
to some degree or another,
so that we can be in stable romantic partnership
with another individual if that's what we're really trying to do.
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In the Huberman Lab podcast,
I discussed both science and science-based tools
and so I'd be remiss if I didn't actually cover
some of the tools that relate to those deeper biological mechanisms.
Now, the hormones, testosterone, and estrogen,
are almost always the first biological chemicals
and hormones that are mentioned and described
and explored when thinking about desire
and love and attachment too for that matter
since love and attachment stem from desire.
The simple stereotyped version of the hormones,
testosterone and estrogen,
are that testosterone drives libido or increases it,
aka sex drive, and that estrogen somehow blunts it
or is not involved
in libido and sex drive.
And that is simply not the case.
Yes, testosterone and some of its other forms
like the hydrotestosterone are strongly related
to libido and sex drive
and the pursuit and ability to mate.
However, the hormone estrogen is also strongly associated
with libido and mating behavior.
So much so that for people that either chemically
or for some other reason have very low estrogen,
libido can severely suffer.
So it's a coordinated dance of estrogen and testosterone
in both males and females that leads to libido or sex drive.
With that said, there are things that can shift libido
in both men and women in the direction of more desire
or more desire to mate, either to seek mates
or to mate with existing partners.
Now, a common misconception is that
because dopamine is involved in most
motivation and drive, that simply increasing dopamine
through any number of different mechanisms or tools
will increase libido and sex drive.
And that's simply not the case either.
It is true that some level of dopamine
or increase in dopamine is required for increases in libido.
However, because of dopamine's relationship
to the autonomic nervous system,
and because the autonomic nervous system is so,
so intimately involved, no pun intended,
in sexual activity in seeking and actual mating behavior,
as I described earlier, it's actually the case
that if people drive their dopamine system too high,
they will be in states of arousal
that are high enough such that they seek and want sexual activity,
but they can't actually engage the parasympathetic arm
of the autonomic nervous system sufficient
to become physically aroused.
So this is a,
an important point to make because I think
that a lot of people are under the impression
that if they just drive up testosterone,
increase dopamine, and generally get themselves
into high states of autonomic arousal,
that that's gonna increase the libido.
But that's simply not the way the system works.
It's that seesaw and that seesawing back and forth
that is the arc of arousal that we talked about earlier.
Now, there are substances legal over the counter substances
that fall under the categorization of supplements,
that do indeed increase libido and arousal.
I wanna be clear, however,
that these are by no means required.
Many people have healthy libidos or have libidos
that are healthy for their life
and what they need and want.
And as always, in any discussion about supplementation,
you absolutely have to check with your physician.
I don't just say that to protect us.
I say that to protect you.
Your health and well-being is dependent on you
doing certain things and not doing others
and everybody is different.
Nonetheless, there are studies that point to specific substances
that are sold over the counter that at least in the United States
are legal and that have been shown to be statistically
significant in increasing measures of libido.
There are many such substances, but three
that in particular have good peer reviewed research
to support them are Maka, M-A-C-A, which is actually a root.
Tongat Ali, also sometimes
called Long Jack, I didn't name them, forgive me,
and Tribulus, or Tribulus, it's sometimes called.
I'm gonna talk about each of these in sequence.
But on the whole, the studies on Maka are quite convincing
that consumption of two to three grams per day of Maka,
which generally is sold as a powder or a capsule,
typically consumed early in the day
because it can be somewhat of a stimulant,
meaning it can increase alertness
and you wouldn't want it to interfere with sleep
by taking it too late in the day.
But in studies that include both men and women
of durations anywhere from eight to 12 weeks
of athletes and non-athletes
and different variations of maca,
turns out there's black maca, red maca, yellow maca,
there are a bunch of different forms of maca,
but that they can increase subjective reports
of sexual desire
independent of hormone systems, meaning it does not seem, at least based on the existing
literature, that maca increases testosterone or changes estrogen, at least not on the time scales
that these studies were done or with the measures that were performed in these studies.
Another substance that has been shown to increase libido across a range of human populations
is so-called Tongat Ali.
This is an herb.
There's a Malaysian version and an Indonesian version.
My understanding is that the Indonesian variety
of Tonga Ali is the one that is most potent for its effects on libido.
Previously, I've talked about Tonga Ali,
taken in 400 milligram per day capsules as a means
to increase the amount of free, meaning unbound testosterone.
So testosterone has a both bound form and an unbound form.
Very briefly, the bound form is bound to albumin in the blood
or to so-called sex hormone binding globulin.
When it's bound, it can't be biologically active
at many cells.
It is important that some of it be bound
in order to get a sort of time release
and proper distribution of testosterone through the body,
but it is the unbound free testosterone
that can really have its most potent effects.
And there's some evidence that Tonga Ali
can increase the amount of unbound,
so-called free testosterone,
by lowering sex hormone binding globular,
and globulin, although it is almost certain
that it has other routes of mechanism as well.
Nonetheless, there are some reports of Tonga Ali increasing libido.
The question always comes up around discussion of supplements,
do you need to cycle these things?
The only way to determine that is really to do your blood work,
monitor liver enzymes, monitor hormone levels, and so forth.
So I simply can't say whether or not you need to
or you don't need to cycle them.
Typically, Tonga Ali and Makkah are not cyclical.
in any regular kind of way that I'm aware of.
But again, you really need to check with your doctor
if you're going to initiate taking any of these things.
And you certainly should do your best
to monitor your blood work as well as subjective measures
in evaluating whether or not they're working for you,
safe for you and so forth.
The third and final substance slash supplement
that I wanna touch on as it relates to libido
is called Tribulus Terestis.
So that's T-R-I-B-U-L-U-S-T-E-R-E-S-T-E-R-E-S-T-E-E-S-T.
T-R-I-S.
This is a commonly sold over-the-counter supplement
for increasing testosterone for fitness purposes
and so on, whether or not it actually does that
to a meaningful degree isn't clear.
But I'm aware of four peer-reviewed studies
that were focused on both males and females,
ranging anywhere from 18 years old, all the way up to 65.
plus a fairly broad age range where people took anywhere
from 750 milligrams per day divided into three equal doses.
So 750 total per day, divide into three equal doses
of tribulus or placebo for 120 days.
This particular study was focused on females.
And according to the female sexual function index questionnaire,
no significant difference between any of the group.
However, free and bioavailable testosterone increased in the group taking Tribulus terrestis,
total testosterone did not reach statistical significance.
So this is sort of the inverse of what we see with Makha where there do seem to be increases
in testosterone which would predict that there would be increase in libido.
In this case, in this was postmenopausal women, there was no increase in libido, there was an increase
in testosterone.
I mentioned it only because there might be instances in which.
people want to increase their testosterone.
It does seem that tribulous, at least in that population,
is capable of doing that.
Now, there's a separate study that was done,
a double-blind study lasting anywhere from one to six months
that had a clear and significant increase in libido.
Now, this was taking six grams,
so that's six thousand milligrams of tribulus root for 60 days.
And it did seem to increase various aspects
of sexual function.
I think more studies are certainly needed,
But these three substances slash supplements,
Makha, Tonga Ali, in particular,
Indonesian Tonga Ali, and Tribulus,
can indeed create significant increases in sexual desire.
And in some cases, by adjusting
the testosterone and estrogen system,
in some cases, not by adjusting the testosterone
and estrogen system, again,
pointing to the complexity of neurochemicals
and features that adjust things like libido,
aka desire.
So we covered a lot of material today related to desire, love, and attachment.
And yet, I acknowledge that it is not exhaustive of the vast landscape that is the psychology
and biology of desire, love, and attachment.
Nonetheless, I hope that you found the information interesting and hopefully actionable
in some cases toward the relationships of your past, of present, and potentially for
the relationships of your future.
Thank you for joining me for today's.
discussion about desire, love, and attachment. And last, but certainly not least,
thank you for your interest in science.
