Huberman Lab - How to Understand Emotions | Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett
Episode Date: October 16, 2023In this episode, my guest is Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett, Ph.D., a Distinguished Professor of Psychology at Northeastern University who is a world expert in the science of emotions. She explains what emo...tions are and how the brain represents and integrates signals from our body and the environment around us to create our unique emotional states. We discuss the relationship between emotions and language, how our specificity of language impacts our emotional processing, the role of facial expressions in emotions, and how emotions relate to sleep, movement, nutrition and the building and reinforcement of social bonds. We also discuss actionable tools for how to regulate feelings of uncertainty and tools to better understand the emotional states of others. This episode ought to be of interest to anyone curious about the neuroscience and psychology underlying emotions and for those who seek to better understand themselves and relate to others and the world in richer, more adaptive ways. For show notes, including referenced articles and additional resources, please visit hubermanlab.com. Use Ask Huberman Lab, our new AI-powered platform, for a summary, clips, and insights from this episode. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/hubermanlab Waking Up: https://wakingup.com/huberman Momentous: https://livemomentous.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Dr. Lisa Feldman Barrett (00:03:18) Sponsors: LMNT & Waking Up (00:05:46) Core Components of Emotions (00:10:42) Facial Movement & Interpretation, Emotion (00:19:33) Facial Expressions & Emotion, Individualization (00:31:03) Emotion Categories, Culture & Child Development (00:37:10) Sponsor: AG1 (00:37:50) Legal System, ‘Universal’ Emotions & Caution (00:41:07) Language Descriptions, Differences & Emotion (00:48:18) Questions & Assumptions; Language, Emotions & Nervous System (00:53:40) Brain, Uncertainty & Categories (01:03:57) Brain & Summaries; Emotions as “Multimodal Summaries” (01:14:45) Emotional Granularity, Library Analogy (01:19:40) Brain & Compression, Planning (01:29:04) Labels & Generalization (01:34:29) Movement, Sensation, Prediction & Learning (01:42:44) Feelings of Discomfort & Action (01:50:32) Tool: Feelings of Uncertainty, Emotion, “Affect” (02:01:18) Tool: Experience Dimensions & Attention; Individualization (02:08:36) Affect, Allostasis & Body Budget Analogy (02:15:41) Depression, “Emotional Flu” (02:20:20) Tool: Positively Shift Affect; Alcohol & Drugs; SSRIs (02:27:40) Relationships: Savings or Taxes, Kindness (02:36:50) Zero-Cost Support, Spotify & Apple Reviews, Sponsors, YouTube Feedback, Momentous, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast, where we discuss science and science-based tools for everyday life.
I'm Andrew Huberman, and I'm a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine.
My guest today is Dr. Lisa Feldman-Berett.
Dr. Lisa Feldman-Barritt is a distinguished professor of psychology at Northeastern University.
She also holds appointments at Harvard Medical School and Massachusetts General Hospital,
where she is the chief scientific officer of the center of law, brain, and behavior.
Dr. Barrett is considered one of the top world experts in the study of emotions.
And her laboratory has studied emotions using approaches both from the fields of psychology and neuroscience.
Indeed, today you will learn about the neural circuits and the psychological underpinnings of what we call emotions.
You will learn what emotions truly are and how to interpret different emotional states.
You will also learn how emotions relate to things like motivation, consciousness, and affect.
Affect is a term that refers to a more general state of brain and body that increases or decreases
the probability that you will experience certain emotions. During today's discussion, Dr. Feldman-Barratt
also teaches us how to regulate our emotions effectively, as well as how to better interpret the
emotional states of others. You will also learn about the powerful relationship that exists
between our emotional states and the movement of our body. In fact, much of today's discussion
is both practical and will be highly informative
in terms of the mechanisms underlying emotions
and it is likely to also be surprising to you
in a number of ways.
It certainly was surprising to me.
I've been a close follower of Dr. Feldman-Barratt's work
over many years now
and have always found it to be tremendously informative.
And when I say her work,
I mean both her academic published papers
as well as her public lectures that she's given
and her two fabulous books on emotions in the brain.
The first one entitled,
How Emotions Are Made,
and the second book,
which includes information about emotions,
but extends beyond that entitled
Seven and Half Lessons about the Brain.
As you'll see from today's discussion,
Dr. Feldman-Barratt is not only extremely informed
about the neuroscience and psychology of emotion,
she's also fabulously good at teaching us
that information in clear terms and in actionable ways.
You'll also notice several times
she pushes back on my questions,
in some cases even telling me that my questions are ill-posed.
And I have to tell you that I was absolutely delighted
that she did that because you'll see that every time she did that,
it was with the clear purpose of putting more specificity on the question
and thereby more specificity and clarity on the answer,
which of course she delivers.
By the end of today's discussion,
you will have both a broad and a deep understanding of what emotions are
and their origins in our brain and body.
You will also have many practical tools
with which to better understand and navigate emotional states.
And moreover, you will have many practical tools
in order to increase your levels of motivation
and better understand your various states of consciousness.
Before we begin, I'd like to emphasize that this podcast
is separate from my teaching and research roles at Stanford.
It is, however, part of my desire and effort
to bring zero cost to consumer information
about science and science-related tools to the general public.
In keeping with that theme,
I'd like to thank the sponsors of today's podcast.
And now for my discussion with Dr. Lisa Feldman-Berrett.
Dr. Lisa Feldman-Berett.
Welcome.
It's my pleasure to be here.
I've wanted to talk to you for a very long time.
I'd like to talk about emotions.
I think everyone has a sense somehow of what an emotion is,
feeling happy, feeling sad, feeling excited,
feeling curious, perhaps, is even emotion.
I don't know.
You'll tell us.
What are the core components?
What are those sort of macro-nutrients of a, of an,
emotion because I know there's a debate about whether or not we should be talking about emotions
versus states, but what is an emotion? We all are familiar with what one feels like to us,
but from a scientific perspective, how do you define an emotion? Well, this is a scientist's
debate about this. Nobody in the last 150 years has ever been able to agree on what an emotion is.
And I think from my perspective, the interesting but tricky bit is that anytime you want to
talk about what the basic building blocks are of emotion, none of those basic building blocks
are specific to emotion.
So, for example, there are a group of scientists who will tell you, well, an emotion is a coordinated
response where you have a change in some physical state, a change in the brain, a change in
the physical state, which leads you to make a particular facial expression. So you've got
physiological changes in the body, changes in the brain, changes in the face or in motor movements.
Okay, but that describes basically every moment of your life. Your face is always moving in some way.
If it wasn't, you would look like an avatar, basically. So we're constantly engaged in
movements and those movements have to be coordinated with the physiological changes in the body
because whether we're whether we're in a state that we would conventionally call emotion or not
because the physiology is supporting those it's supporting the you know the glucose and the
oxygen and all the things that you need to make movements of your body and of course
all these movements are being coordinated by your brain so of course there's a coordinated
set of features, that doesn't really describe how emotions are distinct from any other experience
that you have. But the claim was for a really long time that there would be diagnostic patterns.
So when something triggered fear, you would have an increase in heart rate and you would have
a propensity to run away or to freeze or not just to fall asleep, although that is something
animals do when they are faced with a predator. But that's not part of the Western stereotype
for fear. So that wasn't what scientists were looking for. And also that you would make a particular
facial expression, which was presumed to be the universal expression of fear, where you widen
your eyes and you gasp, like, that facial set of facial movements in other cultures,
like in Melanesian culture, for example, is a symbol of threat, where you are threatening
someone, you are threatening them with aggression, basically, is a war face. But in Western cultures,
that's the face that Western scientists believed was the, you know, the distinctive, part of that
distinctive pattern for fear. And so the way that scientists defined emotion for a long time was these
kind of states where you'd see this diagnostic ensemble of signals. And that would mean that
anytime someone showed one of those signals, they may move their face in a particular way or their
heart increased at a particular time, you'd be able to diagnose them as being in a state of fear,
as opposed to a state of anger or sadness or whatever.
The empirical evidence just doesn't bear that out.
And so it was kind of a mystery.
The mystery is, how is it that you feel angry or sad or happy
or, you know, full of gratitude or awe?
How is it that you experience these moments,
but scientists can't find a single set of physical markers that correspond with each state distinctively, right,
in a way that you could tell them apart.
That was a really big puzzle for a really long time.
I have to ask you about this perhaps myth, perhaps truth, about facial expressions and emotions.
because as you were explaining the core components of emotions, I had to think back to the
classic textbook images of the different faces associated with fear, with delight, with confusion,
and on and on.
We will get to that and your opinions on that, scientifically informed opinions, of course,
but there is a bit of a myth that the emotion system and the facial expression system
run in both directions. For instance, people will say, if you smile, it's harder to feel sad or anxious.
I can't say that's been my experience, but I very well could be wrong. So we know that when people's
emotional states change, their facial expressions often will change. If you see someone crying
on the street versus somebody smiling really big. We can make some assumptions about what might be
going on internally for them. But put simply, is it true that changing one's facial expression
can direct shifts in the brain and body, perhaps, that change our emotional states?
If you'll permit me, what I would say is that your question is ill-posed. So first of all,
it presumes that there's an emotion system
and that there's a facial expression system.
Now, clearly there's a system for moving facial muscles, okay?
But a movement is not the same as an expression.
A movement is a movement.
An expression is an interpretation of the meaning of a movement.
Not all movements of the face are expressions.
And this is a, you know, a problem.
It's a problem in science.
It's often the case, I think, in my experience, in the science of emotion, but elsewhere too,
that scientists in their efforts to make their work meaningful to people will try to interpret their findings in ways that the average person would find interesting,
or the way that a physician would find interesting, or a teacher.
or what have you, to be able to use this information.
But then they forget that they're actually making an interpretation
and they start to refer to their observations
with the labels of interpretation.
So facial movements are facial movements.
People move their faces and those movements have meaning,
but they're not always to express an internal state.
In fact, one might think that they're very rarely
to express an internal state.
So I don't know that there's a facial expression system either.
So there's certainly, like I said, there's circuitry for moving a face,
but what those movements mean is highly variable.
And so that would be my second point where I would say,
when you see someone crying on the street,
you are not looking only at their face.
You might be aware that you're focusing,
on their face. That might be the part of the entire sensory ensemble that you are focusing your
attention on. But your brain is taking in an entire ensemble of signals. As you know, it's taking in
not just the movements of the face, the tears, or whatever. It's taking in all of the entire
sensory array, the sounds, the smells, what's going on inside your own body. Your brain is
being bombarded with signals from all of those sources.
And when it's making meaning out of any signal,
it's doing it in an ensemble of signals.
So research shows that babies' cries aren't acoustically specific
to when they're tired or hungry or, right?
I can show you a video without context
and show you someone crying.
And you might make a judgment,
you might make the stereotypic judgment
in the West, oh, that person is sad. And then we pan out and really, you know, it's a little girl
whose dad just came home from Iraq or something, right? So brains are always interpreting faces
in context. They're making guesses. This is something that I've talked about quite a bit that we don't
read movements in people. We don't read emotions in facial expressions. We make inferences about the
emotional meaning of facial movements. And we do it in an ensemble of other signals that,
the context, if you will.
And that's really what's happening.
So do I think that there is feedback from the face to the brain?
Sure.
I mean, there's feedback from every muscle,
but there's this constant conversation between the brain and the body.
The brain is sending motor commands.
The body has sensory surface.
which are sending signals back to the brain.
So if the face is influencing the brain,
it's doing so in a way that's not special.
It's doing it in a way that works for all other parts of your body too.
And I guess what I would say is kind of a long-winded answer,
but over time your brain has learned
that certain patterns of signal,
over time, recur.
And so if you're smiling,
if your brain is telling your facial muscles
to move in a particular way that looks like smiling,
it's happening in a larger ensemble of signals
and then the brain is predicting what's going to happen next
because it's learned over time what happens next.
So, probabilistically so.
If you think about that as cause,
then sure.
But it's not this simplistic kind of idea that an emotion is triggered.
It causes facial muscles to move in a particular way.
And therefore, if you just pose your face in that particular arrangement,
that will somehow feed back to the emotion system and change that system.
Because there is no emotion system in your,
brain and the causation just isn't that, it's not that simplistically mechanistic.
That makes sense to me. I frankly never bought the idea that just smiling would make me feel
happy, especially if my internal state was not one of happiness, like fighting the internal
state. Also, in the early 2000s, I think it was, there was a lot of discussion about how positioning
the body in certain ways, you know, taking up more space would allow people to feel more powerful.
And some of these studies and argued that there were even hormonal shifts associated with
taking up more space that were associated with feelings of empowerment. And then when shrinking
of oneself was associated with elevated cortisol states, and as I say all this, I want to be clear
that I do not take a simplistic view of the nervous system or endocrine system. And I don't think
you that you were implying that either. I just want to make sure that anyone listening
and watching isn't thinking that, for instance, that cortisol is bad. Cortisol is wonderful
and essential. You just need it regulated properly. Or that the idea that the body and emotional
states are inextricably linked makes a ton of sense to me. But the idea that you could just, you
know, grab onto one of the nodes in the, I don't have to be careful not say emotion system,
like position of the body, like being hunched over makes you depressed? No, that never made sense
to me. Taking up more space makes you feel more powerful. It can't be that way. And yet we were
told for about a decade, especially through popular press, that this stuff was true. And so what I love
about your work is that it includes a neuroanatomical, a psychological, a network perspective, that
that there isn't one seat of emotions and so on.
So if we could go a little bit further into the facial expression piece for a moment.
Sure.
I was taught in my psychology and neuroscience textbooks because it was right there in front of me
that there were some core categories of facial expression that were universal across cultures
that conveyed something about the internal state of the person,
that the downward lips in the corner and maybe even a furrowing of the brow was
associated with negative valent states, like sadness, perhaps even depression, that the opposite
of upward turn corners of the mouth and widening of the eyes was delight and excitement.
Some of that feels pretty true to my experience, but how do you and other serious scientists
of emotions view that somewhat classic literature now?
Yeah, so I'll just say that my journey,
here, my scientific journey, was not one of attempting to overturn a century's worth of, are we
allowed to swear?
Bullshit, basically.
I mean, it's just, it's like, it's stereotyped.
It's basically Western stereotypes enshrined as scientific fact.
And that sounds like a pretty harsh thing to say, but I think I pretty much stand by that at this
point. But for me, when I was a graduate student, when I was an undergraduate in psychology
and in physiology and in anthropology, you know, I also had read that Darwin said that there were
these distinctive facial expressions that were coordinated with specific emotional states,
the specific states of the nervous system. This was Darwin's view. And I assumed it was
correct until I started to try to use that information in the lab and everything fell apart.
So when you show someone in a laboratory like a student or somebody from the community,
a disembodied face where the person's eyes are widened in the face and they're gasping
like a stereotypic fear expression.
Most of the time they don't know what it is.
And so I would try to use these faces as stimuli and experiments,
and they weren't working the way that they were supposed to work.
And there were really going all the way back to the beginning of psychology.
There were always debates about whether or not this was actually accurate.
And there's a really interesting story about how Darwin came to this idea.
which I can tell you about, but it's not because he cared about emotion.
And he was basically taking his own very Western views about emotion
to make some claims about evolution, actually.
So I have more to say about that and about why it's a problem to take anything that anybody said,
even Darwin from, you know, 150 or so years ago,
or whatever it is, and treat it like it's a modern text.
He was writing at a particular time for a particular purpose,
and that doesn't necessarily mean that whatever he wrote is true.
But I'll just tell you what the evidence says,
that there has been in psychology a debate,
really vicious debate, actually, for probably 50 years
about the nature of facial expressions
and whether they're universal and whether there's this one-to-one correspondence between a particular
face and like a facial configuration and a particular emotional state, smiling and happiness,
scowling in anger, wrinkling your nose and disgust.
And so in 2016, I think, the Association for Psychological Science tasked me and some other senior scientists
with attempting to write a white paper, a consensus paper, on what the literature actually shows.
So what does the research actually show?
If you read all the research, you know, can you find a pattern there?
Does it actually reveal anything about whether or not facial expressions are universal,
particularly for emotion?
And the way they do this, they have a journal for this purpose,
for taking a widely held belief that is highly debated and bringing together
a panel of experts who disagree with each other at the outset, and they have to work together
to see if they can come to consensus over the data. And this is something that, you know,
people have tried in the past. And I mean, they're really vicious. People have been vicious
with each other over this question. So when we brought together a group of people, so several
people refuse to serve. Senior scientists
refuse to serve on this panel.
Out of fear of losing
their funding or something.
You know, that's a whole other conversation
about why
certain scientists would
not want to engage
with people who disagree with them.
That's an interesting conversation to have,
but I don't think
it's as simple actually as just
their careerist or they care
about their money or their money
or funding or whatever.
That would be an easy answer,
but I don't actually think that's what's going on.
But that's another sort of...
But anyway, so there were five of us who got together,
all senior scientists, all from different fields.
Some of us hadn't met each other before.
We all knew of each other, of course.
And we met over Zoom for two and a half years.
This is pre-COVID because people were all over the world, right?
And we read over a thousand papers.
So I was the only one in the...
this group of the five of us who my starting hypothesis was that facial movements are meaningful,
but there's no one-to-one correspondence between a particular facial configuration like a scowl
and anger. Not just that it would vary across cultures, but that it varies for you across
situations. I mean, do you scowl every time you're angry? I don't scowl every time I'm angry.
In fact, and I also scowl at times when I'm not angry. So, and there are scientific reasons to think
that the collection of facial expressions that people make when they're angry or when they're
sad or whatever would be highly variable. So that was my starting position. And then there were
varying four guys. So there was, I just refer them as the guys because it was me and four guys.
And the guys, they all, to some extent, thought that facial expressions were universal,
but they had differing reasons and for hypothesizing that.
And they also had different commitments, degrees of commitment to that position.
But we right off the bat sort of agreed that it didn't matter who was right.
That was just not relevant.
The only thing that mattered was that we could come to the consensus
over the data. And if we couldn't, we had to really pinpoint why. So what would be the critical
experiments that would have to be done in order for us to come to consensus over the data? And we also
agreed that we had all kinds of contingency set up. So, you know, you've got five senior people
who are all running big labs and they're investing, you know, upwards of three years working on a
paper. So if we can't come to consensus, what are we going to do? Are we going to do? Are we going to
to write one paper and sort of write about the process, or are we going to write separate papers?
Or, you know, but we had all these contingencies laid out. But the key here, I think, is that
we agreed that we were not going to be adversarial about it because it didn't matter who was right.
And in fact, if somebody had to admit they were wrong and someone was going to have to admit
they were wrong. I mean, it turns out all of us were wrong about something, but we were going to
be, like, supportive of each other. And really,
encourage each other. Because, you know, being wrong is no one likes to be wrong, but for scientists
to admit they're wrong is hard. And it's something that we should encourage each other to do,
I think, more and more publicly. And I think the people who do that are really brave. And so that
was my position and they all agreed. And the long story short here is that two and a half years,
a thousand papers later, we all very reasonably came to consensus that there was no evidence.
for facial expressions of emotion being universal.
And that instead, what there's clear evidence of is that facial expressions,
the way that people move their faces in moments of expression is highly variable,
meaning sometimes in anger you scowl, meta-analysis,
so statistical summaries of many, many, many studies,
even in the West, show that people scowl about 35% of the time when they're angry,
which is more than chance.
So it gets you a good publication in the proceedings of the National Academy.
But that means 65% of the time people are moving their faces in other meaningful ways.
That's not scowling.
So if you actually used a scowl or even, you know, a scowl in blood pressure or, you
just maybe not one signal, but so like a couple signals. But you would be wrong more than half the time.
You would miss more than half the cases. And even more importantly, I think, that's the reliability
question. So there's low reliability for the correspondence between a scowl and anger. It's above chance.
So scowling is one expression of anger, but it's certainly not the dominant one. And there is no dominant one.
It's just highly variable depending on the situation that you're in.
So sometimes when I'm angry, I sit quietly and plot the demise of my enemy.
You know, sometimes I smile in anger.
Sometimes I cry in anger.
It really depends on the situation.
But more importantly, half of the scowls that people make are not related to anger.
That means that the specificity is, again, higher than chance.
but not that much higher than chance.
So if you see someone scowling,
the chances are that they might not be angry.
They might be concentrating really hard
or they might have gas.
I mean, there are a lot of reasons
why people make a scowl.
And we found this for every emotion category
that had ever been studied,
and I want you to notice what I just did there.
I'm no longer referring to an emotion
as if it's an entity or a thing.
So anger isn't one thing.
it's a category of things, a grouping of things.
And if I'm not mistaken, it includes verbs, right?
Like anger as a set of verb actions in the brain and body.
Yes.
It's a process.
It's not an event.
Exactly.
It's not a noun.
It's a verb.
And it's a process.
But the point is that it's a highly variable grouping of instances.
If you're, if you are talking about all instances of anger, all instances of
anger that you have ever experienced or witnessed is a highly variable grouping of instances
that vary.
That doesn't mean they're random, but what the body does in anger depends on what the physical
movements will be in anger.
And that depends on the situation that you're in and what your goal is.
And there are ways to talk about that in neuroscience terms, which are a little more precise.
But the important thing to understand here, I think, is that we're only talking about
talking about Western cultures now. The minute that you go outside of the West or even to the
east, I mean, so, you know, there are other cultures, you know, that have been studied like
China and cultures in China, in Japan, in Korea, they all have access to knowledge about Western
cultural practices and norms. So what happens when you go, you know, to remote cultures, which
have much less access.
So it's not like they have no access
because we live in a globalized world.
So even hunter gatherers in Tanzania,
the Hadsda,
have access to Western practices and norms,
but much less, much less.
And we did do that.
And all bets are off there.
I mean, most of the time,
they don't even understand
or experience facial movements
as having anything to do with emotion.
So if they saw an emoji,
of a smiley face?
Would they just assume it was a couple?
They might think it's a face.
Because as we both know, there's some fairly hardwired brain circuitry for the two eyes
and a line beneath it and something in the middle that pseudo-nows.
That organization of just spatial features cues up face for most primates, including us.
Although, it's really interesting that you say that because, yes, of course, that's true,
but it's not there at birth.
What's there at birth is a preference for that configuration.
right so it's it's like there's some and we could talk about why that's there it's actually very
controversial but but what babies what newborns orient to they orient to that or they orient to that
configuration but it doesn't have to be a face and then very quickly they start learning faces
because they're exposed to faith they're I mean really the first three months of life is almost
like a massive continuous tutorial on what faces are because they're you know being fed and
And everyone's in your face.
So I saw a baby last night and you see the baby.
I have an unbelievably cute baby.
They have big cheeks and you want.
And there's this desire to see the baby smile, right?
So you do the things that.
And if the baby shows some sort of facial expression that makes it seem like it's a little bit like resistant, what you're doing, you stop doing it.
You change up your strategy.
And then when baby cracks a smile, like now I'm going to assume that the baby may or may not have been happy inside that little baby head.
But when they do, there's a reciprocity, then we smile.
And so there's a template that's very robust.
Right.
But I want you to notice, though, that – so first of all, I'm not saying that recognizing
a face as a face is not hardwired.
It is, but it's hardwired by – not by genes alone, right?
And in fact, there's a really wonderful book called Not By Genes Alone.
Basically, there's cultural inheritance.
We have the kind of nature that requires nurture.
We have the kind of genes that require early learning.
We need wiring instructions from the world to get the rest of the information that we need to be competent,
culturally competent in our lives.
And that starts at birth.
It probably starts before birth even.
But in the third trimester, there's some evidence of learning, fetal learning, even in the third trimester.
So the point is not that people aren't hardwired for viewing faces.
or recognizing faces, just where does that hard wiring come from?
It's not by genes alone.
Genes aren't the blueprint.
The brain is expecting certain inputs from the world, and it needs that because infant brains
are wiring themselves to their world.
And part of that world is people making faces and smiling.
And those people happen to also be the ones who are maintaining that baby's nervous system.
I mean, there is reward learning, right, or reinforcement learning right off the bat,
because these are the people who keep you comfortable.
They are the ones who feed you.
They're the ones who help you get to sleep and so on and so forth.
And so you're going to be very, very sensitive to changes in the contingencies of their behavior.
Your brain, as a pattern learner, is just going to learn those patterns.
If we know that smiling is a cue for happiness, it's because we've learned it.
And that doesn't mean that that learning isn't hardwired.
It just means that information got into your brain.
by cultural inheritance, which is a part of evolutionary theory in the extended evolutionary synthesis,
not in the original, you know, not in the original formulation that some people still kind of
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So it's far more nuanced than it was presented to me in those textbooks.
And it sounds like it was outright wrong on many dimensions.
Well, can I just mention one thing, though?
Please.
This is really serious stuff.
Like, sometimes people think, well, you know, what's the big deal?
This is such a big deal.
I'll tell you why it's a big deal.
Because in our culture, people believe that they can read mental states of other
people by their face.
And they believe it so much that it's enshrined in the legal system.
And there are people who lose their lives because juries believe that they can read remorse
or the lack of it.
And in fact, there was just a case, you know, last year, I believe, where, you know,
the Innocence Project got a case.
involved because there was a woman who was on death row. And what put her on death row was a police
officer's claim that he could read her emotions by the comportment of her face and her body.
And, you know, it was possible to get a stay of execution so that she could be retried and, you know,
so I'm not saying she was guilty or not guilty. I'm just saying,
what put her on death row was evidence that would not be admissible in a scientific way now.
And there are lots of cases where judgments are made that end up impacting people's lives in pretty serious ways.
So this is a really serious thing.
And it's puzzling to me why it's so.
it's got such traction, this idea that there are these universal expressions that we can use to read
each other, you know, it's just not true. I mean, the science just, it's so overwhelmingly,
I feel like, you know, scientists, I don't like to use the T word, you know, the F word, fact,
you know, it's a scary word, T word, truth. But I think in this case, I feel like I can really,
at least with a little T, I can use it. You,
probably have particular facial movements that you make on a regular basis that are tells for you.
I know I do. You know, my husband can look at my actions and he can make really decent guesses
about what's going on for me upstairs, right? But that's because he's known me for 30 years,
actually 30 years today. I should just say that we met each other 30 years ago today.
But he's, you know, brains are pattern learners. So I'm not saying that everything is random and
like there's no, it's all noise. I'm saying that there just aren't these
universal templates.
It's not like that.
And we really have to stop assuming that that there are.
Well, I'm so glad that you're getting that message out there.
And I'm very thankful that you highlighted the seriousness of this, these myths that have
propagated.
And that's a perfect segue into what I was already going to ask, which is it's based on
something that I think is in very much agreement with what you're saying.
previous guest on this podcast. I think it was our first guest episode, Dr. Carl Dice Roth,
colleague of mine at Stanford, incredible bioengineer, really, you know, 0.01% in his, you know,
category of science as well as a practicing psychiatrist said something, which really stuck with me
over the years, which I once heard him say, you know, we don't really know how other people feel
at all. In fact, most of the time, we don't even know how we feel. And,
That prompted the question for me about how good or poor are we at gauging our own emotional
states and in particular at labeling them both to others and for ourselves.
And so here's the direct question.
Is language sufficient to capture this incredibly complex thing that we're calling emotions?
So for instance, the other day I was in New York with my sister.
Then she left.
I went out for a bit.
I was having a pretty good day, and then I returned to the place where I was staying,
and I was hit with this feeling of intense loneliness.
And I don't know why.
And then I had a bunch of ideas about how that related to growing up and I was going to see friends the next day, and I'm an adult.
And so I could use some top-down regulation and say, oh, you know, maybe I'm a little tired
or I didn't because I hadn't slept as well the night before.
I've been pretty rested recently.
And then I actually wrote in my journal, I said, you know, maybe most of feeling good is being
pretty well rested and not in any physical pain.
that's a big part of feeling good is the absence of fatigue and the absence of physical pain.
And then I thought, wow, that's just so basic.
It's like two building blocks.
It's clearly insufficient.
But then I couldn't think of a word to adequately describe the emotion that came about an hour
later when I was feeling a little bit better, but not completely better.
So was I lonely?
Not really.
Not anymore.
Was I sad?
Not really.
But, you know, as I had headed out into the city, I was thinking, I don't really have a word.
for how I feel. I'm sort of okay, not great, not low. And so I think that we have emotional labels.
I certainly do for peaks, you know, these peak emotional states super happy. I loved at the time with my
sister. We do this every year. This was a particularly good year for us to do this and it went really well.
We were texting back and forth how great it was. I certainly know what it feels like to be really down
in the pits. I've got language for that. But then there's this huge range in between. And so I guess the
simple question is, should we even trust language as a way to understand how we're feeling?
Or are there additional, if not better, signals that we should perhaps learn to elaborate
our understanding of emotions with?
So I'm going to give you a simple answer, and then I'm going to give you a more complicated
answer.
So the simple answer is no, language is not sufficient, period.
I think the way that you have, well, I should say one language is not sufficient.
So English is not sufficient and probably French on its own is not sufficient and probably Swahili on its own is not sufficient.
Although it's very interesting that the states that we mark with words in each culture, some of them overlap, but a lot of them don't.
And it's very, very useful to have labels of emotion concepts from other cultures that
capture configurations over a state that we don't really mark.
We don't mark those and sort of distinctively pull them out as different from other states.
I'd love to know what some of those are.
Oh, I should have brought them with me.
I mean, there are some like, there's a German word, which I can't remember the name of the word,
but it's like the experience of someone having a face that deserves a punch.
I'm sure someone will tell us in the comments.
Someone who knows German or spend time there,
please put that word in the comments, but don't punch anybody.
Another one that's my favorite is Ligut,
which is it's a Polynesian head hunting emotion word.
And it means exuberant aggression,
in a group like soccer or headhunting, right?
Where you're basically, or I should say also in the military.
So when I was listening to NPR one day a couple of years ago,
it must have been more than that because it's in my book,
so it was probably more than seven years ago,
I was listening to these guys talk,
these former military personnel talk about being deployed
in a war where they're with their buddies
and they're basically hunting the enemy
and they feel exuberant.
Like they're, you know,
and it's not that they're happy,
but it's pleasant and it's very intense,
very high arousal, you know.
And in the moment, it seemed right.
And then they come back, you know,
and they ask themselves like they come back
And so they're now, you know, their deployments ended.
Now they're back home.
And they're like, are my a psychopath?
Like, I enjoy killing people.
What is this about?
And I was thinking, no, no, you just experienced Ligut.
And if you had a word for it, you would understand that it's a groupy feeling where you're all in it together.
And it's really intense.
And, you know, they were experiencing the intensity of having their life on the line and being responsible for their brothers, you know, and sisters.
in their troop.
So what they would realize is it's perfectly within the range of normal human variation.
It's just that in English we don't have a word for it, really.
But there are words that are concepts in other languages, right?
Or the other one that I like is called Giggle, which is where when you see a baby who's really cute
and you just want to like, oh.
I had that experience yesterday evening.
You know, and it's just squeam!
That kid was so cute.
There's cheeks.
they're just like jumping at you.
Yeah, you just like, oh, I want to bite you.
And the parents are delightful people too.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
And they was just facing out because they had one of those outward facing baby things.
Yeah.
And it's just sort of like, yeah.
Yeah.
And I think that's called.
Giggle.
Giggle.
Oh, Kegel.
Oh, Kegel is from the other episode that we did on pelvic health.
Yeah.
Well, it also has to do with babies, but yeah, in a different way.
Or there's one in Japan.
I think there's a Japanese word for the despair that you feel when you got a bad haircut.
Really?
Yeah.
Yeah.
Because it's, I mean, it's really is a different kind of feeling.
then, you know, because you've got to like wait for it to grow, you know, whatever. Anyways,
the point being that words for us mark particular states, and they're not always the states
that other people and other cultures care about. But there's a, but even, again, the phrasing of your
question I just want to come back to and I'm not trying to pick at you.
Feel free. What I love is that what you said before when you said my question was ill-posed
in your, in the answer that followed, it made it very clear, why.
I learned something about how the not emotion system, but the things plural that create emotions work.
So feel free.
I grew up in the same culture that you did.
I'm not Canadian by birth, but in the academic culture, you know, I mean, the stuff that we take online, by the way, folks, is nothing compared to the kind of hazing that I experienced growing up in academic culture as it was done then.
I don't know if it's still that way now.
So feel free.
I'm tougher than I look.
Well, no, but I think my point is that I'm trying to get at here is that when we ask questions,
any of us, me too, anybody asks a question, there are certain assumptions that we're making
in order to allow us to pose the question.
And sometimes what I'm taking issue with is not the question itself, but it's the assumptions
behind the question, right?
And this is a very classic thing in philosophy of science, which I know I just said the P word
philosophy, which scientists, you know, usually they roll their eyes back in their head and the
fall over when you talk about that. But I think it's really important. So, you know,
can language, is language sufficient to label or to gauge emotional states? Kind of sounds like,
and this is the assumption that people make, that there's a state in here called an emotion,
and now I have to label it, and I have to identify it. That is not how it works. Like, that is not
what your brain is doing at all. And,
in order to explain what I think is happening and my best available guess, you know, like based on what I
understand, it's like not even remotely, that is just not a meaningful question at all. I do think words are
important. I just don't think that they have to be insufficient by virtue of what the brain is actually
doing. And the way that I come out this is just really different from a lot of my colleagues. So really for
a hundred years at least. I hate when people say things like that, like for a hundred years.
But it really is like for a hundred years at least what psychologists and neuroscientists do,
or did and are still doing, is they start with a folk experience, a folk category,
a common sense experience, I feel angry, I'm making a decision, having a memory, I'm remembering
something. They start with their experience and then they go looking for the physical basis
of that experience in the brain.
or in the body.
I think that's really problematic
because not everybody in the world
actually uses those categories
or has those experiences.
A lot of that has to do with the scientific publication process.
For sure.
One of the most important statements I ever heard
is from the late Ted Jones,
one of the greatest neuroanatomists
of probably the last 500 years,
which was the following.
He said,
a drug is a substance
that when injected into an animal,
Mueller a person produces a scientific paper.
And in many ways, yeah, you kind of catch you, it gets you square in the face.
Can you go, oh, right?
Yeah.
I mean, basically, every drug disrupts, if taken an hour or two before sleep, changes the
amount of REM sleep that you get.
So I could imagine that almost any perturbation of the language system, the body, the
facial movement system could give you a quote unquote effect that you could write
a paper about. But that doesn't mean it has any semblance whatsoever to what's happening in the
world when we or other people experience emotions. And here's the, you know, there's so much in
what you said that I just want to, it's very, it's very exciting to talk to you. So the first thing
I'll say is that, you know, we often will identify, we, we as in the people, but also scientists,
identify biological signals by what we believe them to mean psychologically. So serotonin is a
happiness chemical. No, serotonin evolved as a metabolic regulator. It is a metabolic regulator.
And whatever it's doing, it's allowing an animal to spend resources when the animal,
the animal's brain isn't sure there's a reward at the end of that, right? So you were saying before,
you know, the absence of fatigue, the absence of discomfort, that's a pleasant feeling, right?
Well, yeah. So maybe serotonin has something to do with pleasantness because it has something to do
with energetics, right? Cortisol. Cortisol is not a stress hormone. It's not a stress hormone.
I mean, it's a hormone that is secreted more when the brain believes that there is,
a big metabolic outlay that's required. That's what stress is, basically. It's the brain believes
there's a big metabolic outlay that's about to be required. And it matters. These kind of like
little semantic tweaks, like they matter a lot because of how we do research. So I would say,
I don't start with the categories that derive from English in my own experience. I start with
the nervous system. I try to learn what is the best available evidence for how that nervous system
evolved, how it developed, how it's structured, right? Anatomy to me is very important. Some of my
best hypotheses come from just learning the anatomy and realizing, oh, no, there's a connection
there. That's direct. That should mean, that should mean something, you know. I mean, I could give you
lots of examples of where we've made discoveries solely because we noticed a set of anatomical
connections and we're really curious about what they might be involved with. But if you start
with that premise, then you think about the brain and I think about the brain a really different
way, right? So I don't think about the brain as a stimulus-driven organ. I think about it more like
this, that the brain is, first of all, the brain is not running a model or making inferences about
the world. All the brain knows are signals from the sensory surfaces of its body. So your brain is
modeling your retina and it's modeling your cochlea and it's modeling the sensory surfaces of
the skin. And sure, signals, you know, hit those surfaces and those surfaces transduce those
signals and send them up to the brain. But the brain only knows the body. And anything it knows
about the world, it knows about the world through the body, through the sensory surfaces of the
body. So that's the first, for me, really big, important point. The second important point is that
I think about the brain as being trapped in a dark silent box called your skull, you know,
and it's so weird saying these things to you. You're so much, you know, you're like,
you're this really esteemed like neuroscientist, and here I am explaining to you how I think
the brain wears. It's just very, you know. What's important for our audience, but it's also
important for me, even though, yes, I know, I know these facts, but it's, I believe, it's always
informative to go back to the fundamentals.
Sure.
Because we forget, you know, actually I would say that someone once described, I'll call him
the great, because he's a great visual neuroscientist, visual neuroscientist, Tony Moffschon,
who founded the Department of Neural Science at NYU once said, you know, a real intellectual
is somebody that can appreciate and work with a topic at multiple levels of granularity.
For sure.
For sure.
Right.
It's not about, and oftentimes the more expertise is associated with more focus on detail.
So I love returning to the core basics.
So I think it's wonderful.
Please, please continue.
So I think about the brain is being trapped in this box.
And it's receiving signals continuously from the sensory surfaces of the body.
But those signals are the outcomes of some set of changes.
And the brain doesn't know what the changes are.
It doesn't know the causes of those signals.
It just knows the outcomes.
It knows the signals.
That's what it's receiving.
And so it has to guess at what the causes of those signals are in order to stay alive.
And so that's in philosophy called an inverse problem.
So the brain just has a massive continuous inverse problem that it has to deal with all the time.
Like it doesn't have access to all the information.
No.
It's just a guessing machine.
It's a guessing machine.
So for example, you know, if you hear a loud bang, what is that loud bang?
Could be a car door slamming.
It could be thunder.
It could be a car backfiring.
It could be a gunshot.
The brain doesn't know.
It has to guess.
And it's not making a guess like an intellectual guess.
The guess is a motor plan.
It's a plan for changing the internal state of the body
in order to support skeletal motor movements.
Do I need to run?
Do I need to shut the window?
Do I need to get an umbrella?
Do I need to hold my breath because the car is backfired?
You know, what do I need to do?
So where does that plan come from?
Well, it comes from past experience.
The experience that's been wired into the brain.
But I think that the evidence suggests that what the brain is doing is basically
reinstating bits and pieces of past experience.
So remembering, although we don't experience ourselves as remembering, but basically it's re-implementing
ensembles of signals from the past that are similar to the present in some way.
Now, a bunch of things which are similar to each other in psychology is a category.
So what the brain is doing is it's constructing a category.
And in fact, we think about the brain as a continuous category.
constructor. It's constructing a category of possible futures, possible outcomes, possible motor plans,
and how does it know which is the right one? Because it's not just picking one. There's going to be
some sample that it's re-implementing, but how does it know which one, which is the right one? Because
there can only be one. Well, I feel like in the example of a loud noise, what I immediately thought of
as you were describing that is that my system would become aware of it. I would become aware of it.
But then it's a question of, is there another loud noise? How closely are those loud noises spaced?
Is it getting louder or less loud? And then so a bunch of categories, it's like a bookshelf
with an infinite number of books, but then with the second loud noise, now it's just, you know,
one wing of the library. And then with the next thing that happens and the context, it starts narrowing
and then pretty soon you get presented with the book that says, you know, the roof is about to cave in.
For sure. And I think your analogy there is pointing out two things. One is that really why the, what the brain is attempting to do is to reduce uncertainty.
Because uncertainty is super expensive. Now, sometimes we like deliberately, you know, cultivate uncertainty, right?
Like we do not, you know, we deliberately try to learn things we don't, you know, that we don't know,
we, you know, put ourselves in novel situations, you know, we seek novelty and because it's fun
and interesting and whatever, sure.
But imagine every single waking moment of your life was like that where you didn't know,
you couldn't narrow things down from the library to the wing to the bookshelf to the, you know,
to the particular shelf on that bookshelf to the, you know, to the, you know, to the, the, the,
Yeah, it would be.
Terrify.
Yeah, it would be.
That's the label I would give it.
It would be terrifying.
Right.
Because I couldn't plan anything or do anything because all possibilities are open.
Right.
And it's just actually metabolically unsustainable.
And, you know, there are some brains that are wired in a way that they don't predict very well.
They don't create these categories very well.
And so they're dealing with really unbelievable amounts of uncertainty.
So that's one thing I, is that part of what's the goal here, if you could say there's a goal, is to reduce uncertainty.
And I'm going to get to why this has anything to do with emotion in a minute, but I just need to set up the ground rules or the assumptions, you know, of what I'm, what I'm working with here.
So the other thing, though, that you pointed out, which I think is really important, is that the, none of this is static.
It's all evolving over time, right? The signals are evolving over time.
over time. So both the signals that are constantly hitting the sensory surfaces of the body and
making their way to the brain, but also the intrinsic signals in the brain, it's all changing over time.
So when we talk about context, that's important, how is the brain making a decision about similarity?
Like, what are the features that are similar? It's not just at a single snapshot in time. It's always
happening dynamically over time, right? And most of the time, though,
you don't ask you don't wait to hear a second sound you don't you're not deliberately attempting
to figure out what the sound is your brain is just sorting it out right and it's sorting it out
by narrowing down the possibilities and there are some selection mechanisms in the brain that
help it guess better but also the signals coming from the world are also helping to
select which possibility is the right one.
There's this scene that comes to mind from that movie.
I think it was saving Private Ryan where the guys that are about to hit the ground on D-Day are flinching with every crack of gunfire.
Like they're just everything's a stimulus to move and to end.
And then some of the more seasoned soldiers are literally having bullets whizzing by.
their head and people are dropping dead all around them and they're moving forward steely-eyed and stable
and upright and in part we look at that and say okay they're courageous their season maybe they're
desensitized in certain ways but actually it fits much better with the idea based on what you're saying
it fits much better with the idea that they have intimate knowledge both conscious and unconscious
knowledge that something right next to them is a threat, but not a threat worth responding to.
Right, exactly.
But if it were headed straight for them, they would quite understand.
What I would say is that it's not, you know, I keep referring to things as signals.
And really, I'm just, that's like my generic word for a quantity of energy of some sort,
you know, but your brain, my brain, every brain is constantly making signal noise,
distinct, you know, like distinctions.
Do I need to care about this?
Do I not need to care about this, right?
And we have ways of learning, and we also have ways of queuing each other.
So, you know, humans use eye gaze to cue each other about what is signal and what is noise, right?
So if you and I are sitting, let's say we were at a coffee shop and we were in a part of town that I had never been to before.
And we were sitting having coffee and, you know, a loud siren went by.
If you turned and looked, I'd probably turn and look because you just queued me that that was something I needed.
care about. If you ignored it, I'd probably ignore it because you just cued me that I didn't need
to worry about it. I didn't need to care. And we're constantly doing that with each other. And we also
do it with little babies and with kids. And that's how we teach children. This is signal. This is
noise. This. You need to worry about this. You can ignore. And so, yeah, your description is perfect.
So what does this have to do, any of this have to do with emotion? In order to answer that part of the
question, I want to say, so, okay, you've got these signals. The brain is like, has these
electrical signals going on. We'll just ignore the hormonal signals for the moment because that's
complicated, you know, one is complicated. So it's got all these electrical signals going on.
It's when it's remembering something, it's just basically reinstating a pattern of signals.
And it's got these signals coming in from the sensory surfaces. Okay, so what's, so what is the brain doing?
It's a signal processor. So what is it? I don't mean a computer.
I mean, a signal processor in the engineering sense. So what's it, what is it doing? Without getting
into all the dynamics of prediction and, you know, whatever, what the brain is doing is it's,
it's assembling a set of features. Some of the features that it's assembling are very close
in detail to the sensory surfaces of the body. So in primary visual cortex, there's a retinotopic map.
the details there are very, very low level, like a line, an edge, you know, same thing in primary
auditory cortex, right? It's tonotopic, so there are tones. But it's very, very, very low level
details. And we might, there are many, many, many, many of these little features. So we would say
there's a, it's a high dimensional array, lots and lots and lots and lots of features. And then,
and let's just talk about one structure, just the cerebral cortex. Let's not worry about,
But what I'm about to say is basically true of really the rest of the brain as well.
If you take the cortex off the surface, the cortical sheet, off that wavy, you know,
cortical sheet, dig it off the rest of the brain, the subcortical parts, and you stretch it out
like a napkin, you can see there's a compression gradient there in the architecture of the neurons.
So at the primary sensory areas, there are these tiny little pyramidal neurons that are
representing these very low-level features. And they feed into bigger neurons, which feed into
bigger neurons, which feed into bigger neurons. So what's happening is you've got this very detailed
array being compressed in its dimensionality until you get to the middle of the brain at the front,
where there are many fewer neurons, but they're bigger and they have many more connections.
So it's a dimensionality reduction that's happening. So just to make sure I understand
correctly and that the audience understands. The physical world, obviously, is transformed by our
sensory apparatus, the retina, the cochlea, the sensing neurons in our skin. It's physical things,
mechanical pressure, light, photon, sound waves. Okay. That's translated into neural code,
which is chemical and electrical. And those sensory inputs are fairly vast, and high dimension
high dimensionality. So lots of different orientations of lines. Even, you know, even though it
originates with just three cone photopigments, lots of opportunity for encoding different shades
of color, contrasts, okay, and all of that. And so you have lots of little neurons to represent
all the possibilities of the physical world that are occurring. But as that information is passed
further up along, you have to be careful with the use of hierarchies because that's controversial nowadays,
not for political reasons, but for accuracy reasons.
As that information is passed along, there's more convergence onto a smaller number of larger neurons.
So these are neurons that have access to a lot of information but in coarser form.
Right. So they're low, you know, it's like compressing an MP3, like how an MP3 compresses
information, for example. So the cortex is representing features. So, and I represent, I'm just using
that in a generic way because that's also controversial about exactly how is the brain. Okay, but yeah.
But it works. But for now, I'm using it just in a generic way. So you go from lines and edges to
a shape, like a round shape to a face to, right? So you're basically you're, you're, you're,
you're going, what's happening is there are summaries of summaries of summaries of summaries.
I love that. I hope everyone hears that because I've been in this.
field of neuroscience a long time. As you move along the neuroaxis from the sensory epithelium,
now it sounds very nomenclature-ish, but from the surface of the skin inward, you're getting
summaries. Yeah. You send more and more summaries. I think that's so important. That's like
a gazillion dollar statement for understanding of the nervous system. So, but at each of those
points correspond to some mental feature, like a line or an edge,
or a circle or a square or a face or right but but now then you when you when you're in the midline at the
front what are those features well those features are things like they're they're multimodal
summaries meaning they're summaries of the sights and sounds and smells and right but they and they
are lower dimensional meaning they're they're coarser so there are things like threat reward pleasure
I mean, really abstract.
That's what abstract means.
It doesn't mean that those representations have no sensory or motor meaning.
It means that threat, for example, a summary can have many different patterns associated with it.
And the brain is treating them all as equivalent.
This, to me, again, feels so, so important for people to understand because,
as I'm hearing this and this word summaries is just ringing in my mind, it's so important
because one of the core components of my experience of my emotions, because that's all I can
really say, for sure, my subjective interpretation and labeling of my own emotions is that
they are pretty broad bins.
They are pretty broad bins.
And so that's where I was exactly where I was going.
So what about the word anger?
Where is that represented?
Well, that's one of these multimodal abstractions.
In fact, anger is just a couple of phonemes.
It's a couple of sounds.
But those sounds, the sound of anger corresponds
over thousands of instances that you've learned in your life
to very different patterns of sensory motor features.
That's right, because,
what's going on in your body during anger can vary.
The way you move your face in anger can vary, depending on the situation.
What you see someone else doing in anger can vary.
So the word anger or any word is actually just a multimodal summary of many, many, many,
instances which are in their sensory and motor features,
sensory and motor meaning very different.
And it seems to me are highly constrained by developmental and cultural experience.
Absolutely.
Because just today I learned that there's a word in Japan for the feeling that one has
of having gotten a haircut they don't like.
There's a word in Germany that pertains to the feeling of wanting to punch someone
specifically because of the look on their face.
Well, really it's more like you, like you, to you,
it feels like they're asking to be punched in the face.
So you added yet more dimensionality to it.
So upon learning just those things just today,
there is additional dimensionality brought in such that
if I were to ever want to punch somebody in the face
simply because of the look on their face,
that I wouldn't necessarily label that as anger alone.
It now has another dimension to it.
And so I think I'm finally,
I think I'm finally starting to,
understand how the developmental and the cultural influences, plus the fact that language is a
pretty crude descriptor for this neural process that you're describing.
Oh, it's absolutely, absolutely.
But before you use the word granularity, and so I'm going to use that word too.
In fact, I've coined that phrase, emotional granularity.
This is an aside, you know, I coined that phrase almost 30 years ago, and now people study
it like it's a phenomenon, which is cool in a sense. But also I kind of want to keep reminding
them, like, that's a word that refers to a process. It's not a thing. It's a process. But the process
is, so when the brain is a category constructor, how fine-grained are the categories? How
precise are the categories? Right. Like, if you're using, if your feature of equivalence
that your brain is using is threat, you're in really big.
trouble because there are like a gazillion different sensory motor patterns that could go with
threat. So your category is going to be massive. So how does the brain figure out which of those
massive number of options is the one to use in this instance? If, on the other hand,
you don't just want to use sensory motor patterns as the features of equivalence or the features that
you're using to say this instance right now is similar to these past instances. If I had to search
like right now, what is similar to right now? It would be me sitting across the table from somebody
who has a beard and is dressed in black. And, you know, there are a lot of details there that
probably don't matter. Right. So you'd be searching for a specific match from the past. That's not
very efficient either. So you need something in the middle. And that is to say, you're going to say,
you need to have, your brain has to be able to make categories that are more fine-grained,
but not super-fined.
But they have to be more fine-grained than just threat.
You want to keep, in the library analogy that I made earlier,
you want to keep the rest of the library accessible at some level.
Yeah.
So you're not just staring at that one book.
But if you use the category bad, this feels bad,
then your brain is basically going to,
be partially constructing an entire wing full of books, like an entire wing full of options.
If you use the word angry, then maybe it's a bookcase. It's constructing a bookcase full of options
and a category that's the size of a bookcase. And if you were using the word frustrated,
then maybe it's a shelf. The brain can learn to construct categories at different scales of
generalizability. So if I'm in an instance and my brain is making a guess, is it drawing from
past instances that were associated with the word anger? We're associated with the word fear.
Maybe it's some combination. The words are just features. They're just sounds. There are also all
sorts of other features. Like what was my heart doing? What kind of motor actions did I make?
What did I see next? So the point being, what I'm trying to
bring here is that it's not like your brain creates an emotional state and then labels it.
What your brain is doing is creating a category of possible futures of what's going to do next.
And that state is largely determined by what the brain is remembering and how it's drawing from that
huge population, that huge library of options, which books is it sampling?
I love this so much because it explains so much that frankly has been perplexing to me
and also somewhat troubling to me.
Like, for instance, we hear about emotional intelligence, you know, and sometimes I wonder
whether or not true emotional intelligence would be what you just described, the understanding
of how this process works so that you can work with it.
And I definitely want to talk about how one can work with this knowledge because I think it's
incredibly powerful in its explanatory power, but also its actionable power.
The other thing is that it's clear to me, just based on my experience today, of hearing these
words from other cultures that relate to different emotional states, that the system, unlike a lot of
systems in the brain, I like to think, is fairly plastic.
Like the moment that you know that there are additional dimensions to sadness,
anger, et cetera. There's something comforting about that. What's really unsettling is the idea that we
have such broad bins that we would define, you know, a near infinite number of situations as
just fear. That would suck. That's not a good existence. And yet, I have to ask whether or not you
think that as a species, not as a culture, but in our entire species, whether or not we are taking
the exact opposite approach that we're sort of moving into the emojiization. Is that a word?
I'll make it a word. And people can assault me in the comments. The emojiization of this very
rich and complex system. We're starting to get into this mode of like, I'm going to post an angry
face and therefore like, this is a bad, I'm angry at you. This is a bad interaction.
We're going to, it's potentially combative. Or, and you know, maybe Twitter X or Instagram or
other social media sites are kind of the epitome of this.
where you reduce this high dimensional space.
You keep the sensory stimulation very high.
It's movie after movie after movie
and color and sound
and people doing crazy parkour stuff
and bears eating giraffes or whatever it is.
It's probably not bears eating giraffes.
You know what I mean,
and you can see stuff that's sexual and violent
and political and emotional and sweet,
and then the cats are kissing the monkey
and you're like, or the monkey's kissing the cat.
So it's high dimensionality in terms of sensory space.
But then what do we call it?
We're like, oh, this is an emoji.
You assign an emoji.
You're hearting something.
You're giving a thumbs up or a thumbs down.
So I almost feel like we're trying to, we're regressing to a state where we're kind of like an infant trying to figure out like what the hell is going on.
And we're saying, you know what?
You get like six categories of response when in reality we should probably be expanding the number of different responses that we can have in order to accurately match the way that our nervous system actually works.
Yes, exactly.
There are many different things we could talk about with respect to the summary that you just gave,
which I think is completely accurate.
So what I would say is that if you look through even just the last, I don't know, 100 or so years,
like the 19th, you know, 19th, 20th centuries, maybe you can see that the complexity of the,
of people's responses expands and contracts, right?
So, for example, this is something that I've written really speculatively about.
But one of the things that I found really interesting is that, you know, authoritarianism.
Authoritarian thinking is the reduction of complexity to some things that are really, really simple.
Like you're getting rid of all the complexity to, you know, basically these very, very coarse, low dimensional judgments.
And things become black and white.
It's the avoidance of complexity so that there can be simple, single answers to things.
And it happens in human culture at times.
And then there's an expansion of complexity at times, too.
So what predicts that?
Like, what is it in the human nervous system or our collective human nervous?
you know, like we're just a bunch of brains attached to bodies interacting with other brains
and bodies, right? So like, what is it that causes these ripples of? And I have some thoughts
about that that are really, really, really speculative. But I think the other thing that's really
important is that we've talked about, so we'll go back to our cortical sheet that we've,
and by the way, this is just one compression gradient in the brain. There are others too, right? There are at
least four others that I can think of. So this is just one. But all compression gradients work the
same way, which is that now we've talked about going from the low-level details, compressing to
these multimodal summaries, these really like simple features that are, right? But that compression
is what engineers would call lossy, meaning you lose the information. You lose the information.
So when you go from lines and edges to a face, those neurons, they just know the face.
They don't have, they lose what they've thrown away, the details they've thrown away,
those details are gone for those neurons that are representing a face.
They don't have access to it.
They don't have access to it.
So we said, well, the brain is making a guess.
It's making a guess about what this big, very, very high dimensional, you know, soup of signals in the world and in the body.
like, what do they mean, right?
When the brain makes a guess,
it starts with the compressed low-dimensional signals.
It starts with the features like anger or, like, threat,
or it starts with these summaries,
and then it has to infer or guess at every synapse,
there's a guess that's being made
about what the details are at the next level,
Because what's happening is the guess is basically the brain going from these really general things
to these very specific sensory motor patterns.
It happens along the cortical sheet.
It happens also down the neuraxis, down the nerve, you know, from the cortex to the midbrain to the brain stem to the spinal cord.
You have to go from a representation of, you know, run to the actual physical movements of muscles,
spindles and, you know, angles of joints and things like that.
So what you're doing is you're going in the other direction.
You're adding detail.
You're particularizing.
And the brain is guessing.
It's guessing, well, if it's using anger as the general feature, well, which instance of anger is
it?
And what are the specifics that are going to happen?
And what are the, and forgive me, and what are the adaptive?
steps that I might take or not take. Because I'm quoting a lot today, so forgive me, but in the
words of the great Sherrington, Nobel Prize winning physiologist, the final common pathway is
movement. And movement is nuanced, right? Humans, I suppose, have among the greatest
variety of different speeds and types of movement. I think about parkour or gymnastics. Think about
then what like a cheetah can do. Cheetah is impressive. A gymnast is truly impressive in terms of the
range of movements and speeds, et cetera. In any event, the ultimate choice of the nervous system
has to make is whether or not to move which direction, how fast, or stay still, move forward,
move back. And I just, I'll just add, because I'm hoping that you'll expand on this,
it's been said before that ultimately the nervous system is trying to make decisions about
yum, yuck, or me? Like, am I going to move towards something? Am I going to move away from it,
or am I just going to stay put?
Well, that's only, that's a very, I would say that those are very low dimensional features.
So those are those compressed features.
But that's not the only thing the brain has to decide.
That's just a misnomer.
Well, I can get out of this little pickle that I just put myself in by saying that I didn't say that.
Now I won't quote who did because he's a very famous neuroscientist.
But he tried to reduce it all.
He's at Caltech.
He's not somebody who studies emotion.
He studies the visual system.
But he said that, you know, that there's a, that the, the, the,
neural circuits, maybe it's because these studies mice, are essentially binned into yum, yuck,
and meh outputs. And I've always liked it on the one hand because threes work and it's simple,
but rarely is the way that we describe things the way it actually works. So we would, you know,
in studying humans, we would say, well, that's affect. Affect, that's mood. Or, you know,
it's just like, is it, is it, should I move towards it? Is it pleasant? Should I move away from it?
Is it unpleasant? Or, you know, is it irrelevant, basically? I don't care. Okay, think
about when you're feeling horrible? You just feel, you just feel, you just feel, you feel bad.
What do you do? You don't know what? You don't know because you don't have a plan of action.
And that's ultimately, that is what those, those compressed like summary features, those very low
coarse features, they have to be decompressed into details. Otherwise, you don't know what to do.
So ultimately, what the brain is doing is it sampling from the past,
based on similarity to the present to plan an action.
And when I say action, I don't just mean skeletal motor action, like moving a limb.
The first actions that are planned are the actions of coordinating the heart and the lungs
and, you know, all of the internal actions that are required to support the motor,
the skeletal motor movement.
So your brain is making, is categorizing and it's making, it's creating a categorizing.
and there are options there. Those options, the motor plans begin with, should the heart beat faster,
should it be slower, does blood pressure need to go up? Should the, you know, should the blood vessels
constrict or should they dilate? Should the breathing be deeper or more shallow? I mean, those are the
first plans that get made, and then milliseconds later, there are the skeletal motor plans. And then
your experience of the world derives from those motor plants, those visceral motor, that is the plans for the
viscera, for the internal organs, and the skeletal motor, so I'm just going to refer to them as motor.
Those motor plans actually give rise to your experience of the world.
There's not some state that exists as an emotional state, which then you apply a label to.
The label is just a set of features that are useful.
for generalizing from the past to the present. And the bin size or the, you know, of what a word
refers to, can change. It can change. It's different for different people and it can change in your
lifetime. And you can add new bins. That is, you can, so for example, there's a, there's a concept
Gisken look, which I probably just butchered. So if you speak Turkish, I'm sorry. But it's like,
it has features of it of like loss and like people blocking your goals.
So we would say it's anger and sadness together.
That's just good look.
When you lose something and you're pissed off about it.
But that's a category on its own, right?
It's just a different way of parsing that really detailed soup.
And the more words you know, the more words are just useful
for pointing to a set of features that are similar to each other.
So what I mean by that is, if I say to you, Andrew, I had pizza last night for dinner.
Pizza, two sounds, two syllables.
Those two syllables, they stand in for like 50 different sensory and motor features.
Because I don't have to say to you, I had a food, I didn't have pizza last night, but let's say I did.
I had a food that was round and flat and had sauce and also cheese and it had
mozzarella cheese and also a little parmesan cheese and it had mushrooms on it and a little bit
of olive and, you know, that's like really, really detailed and complicated.
But instead, I can just say, I had pizza, two features, two sounds, two syllables, phonemes.
And with those two phonemes, I have just communicated to you.
in your brain. My brain had 50 features. It was representing of details. And now I have just
communicated those to you or some number of them with two sounds, very efficient. Now, of course,
you might think that I was from Chicago and had deep dish pizza. And I'll just resist. I don't
want to like offend anybody from Chicago. It's not pizza. That's not real pizza. That's not real pizza.
Right? So you could then ask me, oh, was it, but you're from Chicago, is that deep dish pizza? And then I would say, no, no, I'm actually from Toronto, which is just like New York. And so no, it was thin crust pizza, which is really the only kind of pizza there is. Just saying. But, you know, but my point is that words are just stand in for, they're just low, these like low dimensional features, these sort of gross features that stand in for many, many, many.
many, many, many little detailed features.
And that's how we communicate with each other.
And we are constrained by, you know, what we know and our, so, and what we can say and
the extent of our vocabulary.
And I'll just say that little babies, three months old, they don't speak yet and they don't
understand language, but they can use words to learn abstract categories.
So abstract just means that the word refers to many different patterns of sensory
motor features. So the word is, or the category, the things that make the instances similar
are a function or a goal, not like the sensory motor feature. So you say to a baby very explicitly,
like because if we're talking about three, four month old babies, right? Babies can also do this
implicitly too. But in experiments, you say to a baby, look, sweetie, this is a bling.
And you put the bling down and it makes a beeping noise.
And then you say, now this looks different, feels different, right?
Smells different.
Look, sweetie.
This is a bling.
It beeps.
Now you take something else, which also is different.
And you say, look, sweetie, this is a bling.
Now the baby expects this to beep.
By the way, folks, just listening, Lisa just gave three examples first with a pen, then a coffee mug, and then her very own watch, three very distinct objects, but all of which make, that are told, the baby is told, make a bling sound. And they will bin those three visually distinct objects, functionally distinct objects into one single bin.
Because they make a, because they are sharing a function, which is to beat.
I think this is so important.
And if I may, I want to ask whether or not we can take this incredible understanding of emotions,
because that's really what we're talking about.
Well, we're really talking about how the brain, my version of how the brain works
and how emotions emerge out of this system, basically.
And absolutely, you described it far better than I could.
and and anchor that to this concept of movement,
that the movement is the final common path,
with the understanding that the movement system and forgive me,
but that we have systems in the brain and body
that allow us to move, that's for sure, systems, plural,
that they run in both directions.
In other words, how we feel, what we feel,
our emotions has some bearing on the movements
that are more or less likely for us in a given context.
and our movements clearly can also influence the way that we feel internally.
Well, I mean, so if we just look at how things are happening, here's what the anatomy tells us,
that when the brain makes a guess, that guess starts as a motor plan, starts as a visceral motor plan
and a skeletal motor plan.
So heart rate changes, breathing changes, blood pressure changes, and potentially skeletal muscle movement.
Right.
And literal copies, literal copies, efferent copies of those signals are sent to, they propagate
to the sensory areas telling the brain, telling those neurons.
This is the last time we made this, in this context, when this other stuff just happened,
like this temporal context, right?
And we made these movements, here's what we saw next, here's what we felt next,
Here's what we smelled next.
So.
Yeah, I think of this,
the image that pops to my mind,
and we should explain to people
what eference copy is.
In neuroscience and neuro anatomy,
the connection to a structure
is called an aferent with an A
and the connections out from a structure
are called the eference.
But the way I was thinking...
It doesn't even matter.
It's just basically the point here
is that in our experience,
in the way, the brain,
your brain conjures an experience, okay?
And that experience is that you feel something first
you see something, you feel something, you act.
That's not what's happening.
What's happening is your brain is preparing the action first
and the feeling and your experience comes from that action preparation.
So it's a copy.
It's like literally you have axons that are sending motor signals down the brain stem
to the spinal cord and literal copies of those axons.
Like those axons have branches that collect.
lateral branches that just send axons other places. The same signal that is being sent to your spinal
cord to move stuff in your body, that same signal is being sent to other neurons in the brain
as predictions of the sensations that are going to happen in a second from now, a moment from now,
probably faster than a second, but in a couple milliseconds, if you move. And so yes,
It is the case that what you feel is linked to what you do and what you do is linked to what you feel,
but not in this simple mechanistic way that neuroscientists and psychologists have been using forever.
It's not like you are, you're probed by a stimulus.
You see something, you hear something, and then you process it and evaluate it and then you react to it.
No, that's not what's happening.
What's actually happening under the hood is that based on how things are right now, your brain makes a guess or some guesses.
And those guesses start as motor plans.
And the consequence of those motor plans are predicted sensations.
And then, of course, sensory signals are coming from the sensory surfaces.
And here's to me the really the most mind-boggling thing about this whole explanation.
if your sensory neurons in your sensory areas are already, so they're firing, the action
potentials, the spiking has changed based on these prepared motor movements.
So these are sensory predictions.
And, you know, when I give talks and on my website, I have some cool examples of how this
works.
You can experience it yourself.
You, you know, start to experience, you know, you hear things that aren't there.
You feel vibrations in your chest that aren't there because your brain is predicting.
It's predicting these sensations.
So let's say the sensations come, the sensory signals, I should say.
So the sensory signals from the sensory surfaces of the body make it to the brain.
If your neurons are already firing in a way to anticipate those signals, those signals just confirm the firing.
And then they're done.
They don't make it any further into the brain.
So when you're predicting well, your experience is constructed completely by your brain.
The signals from the sensory surfaces are there just to confirm or to change the signals.
So if there's things you didn't anticipate, then those errors of prediction,
those are the signals that are propagated and become compressed and stuff.
And we have a special name for that in science.
We call it learning.
You know, Andy Clark is a philosopher who writes a lot about prediction, predicting brain and so on.
And he talks about normal everyday experience as being a controlled hallucination.
That's true.
Yeah.
I subscribe to that.
It's fairly adaptive in most circumstances, controlled hallucination.
But it has its limitations.
And it, I mean, what you were talking about, if I could be somewhat of a summary neuron, you can tell me if my summary is too coarse, is that first of all, that neural systems and the brain, let's just call it the nervous system because we're talking about brain and body are incredibly dynamic.
There's a bunch of inputs.
Those inputs are incredibly elaborate.
They get summarized.
The summary prepares the body for a certain action.
That's a motor commands, a premotor commands.
And then some action may or may not be taken.
but already, as soon as an action is taken or not taken, the whole state of the neural system
is different.
It's changed as a consequence of what just happened.
Now, of course, when people hear that and when I hear that, indeed, I feel like, wow,
it's a tough system to study because these are dynamical neural systems.
And we have the technology to put people in functional scanners and look at what lights up,
so to speak.
We have the capacity to ask people how they feel based on quality.
questionnaires, but you can imagine that's incredibly crude. So then you give them Lycert scales of,
you know, rate from 1 to 10, how happy or sad you are. And so you're adding some,
some depth and dimensionality to it, but it's incredibly crude. It's nothing like real experience.
And if somebody's more verbal, less verbal, maybe they somaticize more or less. I mean,
the example comes to mind that, you know, occasionally you learn from social media, which often I
learn from social media. And someone once said, I don't think in thoughts. I think in
feels and I thought okay great you're probably also from northern california and i said wait
andrew stop being so judgmental what do you mean and i asked and they said i experience emotions in
their mind first as a as a bodily state then the label comes much later that's not how it works for me
it feels fairly more integrated brain and body for me but other people started chiming in no i think
of emotion i experience emotions clearly as a verbal label it's all in the
They are head. And so you start to realize that we might all be encoding the world slightly
differently or very differently. And it's changing in time. So then the question becomes,
you know, what are the anchor points in terms of our understanding of emotions that we can work
with? And the following questions come to mind. Neither you nor I are clinicians as far as I know.
I'm certainly not. I was actually trained as a clinician. Oh, there you go. I'm wrong again.
But I haven't, no, no, no, but I mean, I haven't practiced in, like, really gazillions of years.
Okay. Well, you're more than qualified to answer the question I'm about to ask, which is, to me, there is a great conflict of information in the psychology, psychiatry, and let's just call it wellness and mental health space, which is when we are feeling lousy, like, not good, let's put valence on it, just lousy. I don't want, in the state that we're having an emotion that we don't want to have.
have. There's an entire category of information that says you need to feel your feelings.
You need to feel your feelings. You need to acknowledge that they're there. You need to go into
the feeling, maybe even full catharsis. You need to amplify the feelings until they, quote, unquote,
leave your body. After all, Steve Jobs was into scream therapy and he helped him expunge his anger.
Who knows? You get these examples. He's probably the worst example because it seemed like he was angry a lot
from what I hear. But then there's another category of thought, which is, no, you need to use your
ability to top down control, inhibition of the cortex on lower structures. Again, I'm deliberately
using crude language here to say, wait, you know, this is an emotion. Emotions pass. This is not
real. This is just a limited set of high dimensionality stuff that's been summarized. And you know what?
Like, I don't need to feel this way. I can make myself feel.
differently. Maybe I'll go for a run. In fact, I always feel better after I go for a run. So even this
question as simple as should we feel our feelings or should we not feel our feelings? And of course,
you would hope that this would be answered appropriately such that people don't go harm other people
or themselves. But assuming that they're not going to harm other people with themselves verbally
or physically, then you really get yourself into a bit of a pickle. Like we don't understand
what to do with emotions, ours or other people's, because clearly we don't understand emotions
per se.
So I would say I'm going to answer your question, and then I want to also pick it the word,
I want to pick it an assumption because it's come up actually a couple of times and there's
something super important in your descriptions that I just want to pull out for the listeners
because this thing is really important.
And you're doing it very naturally, but I think some people, it would be, it just bears commenting on.
So let me just deal with the question of should we feel our feelings or use our words.
You know, we say to little kids, use your words.
Like, don't throw a tantrum, right?
But then there was also this other feeling, well, oh, just feel.
It's important to feel and you don't want to get it, have it be pent up.
Or use your body and like hit a pillow.
Yeah.
I mean, there's scream therapy, bite the pillow, scream the pillow, tear the pillow.
And there's, you can pay $5,000 for a week of doing this.
Yeah.
And they'll tell you you're going to feel better at the end.
So the answer there is it's the wrong question.
Like flexibility is important for everything always, right?
So first of all, you don't have emotions in your body.
Your body doesn't keep the score, you know?
Yeah, great book title because it's super catchy.
But with all due respect to, I think, the important work of Vandercoq,
I think it oversimplified and,
led people to believe that their back pain was trauma and that all trauma is somaticized.
And it's not.
No, it's not.
But I would go further and say, like, first of all, your body does keep the score.
Your brain keeps the score.
Your body is the scorecard.
That's super important.
And he has done really important work.
But his explanations for why things work is scientifically incorrect.
It just is.
because we don't feel things in our bodies.
Everything we feel, we feel in our brains.
We don't see in our eyes.
We see in our brains.
Of course, we need our eyes, but we don't see in our eyes.
Just like if you, you know, pinch your hand, you know, take skin and pinch between, you know, two fingers.
The skin, you don't feel that actually in your hand.
You feel it in your brain.
That's the magic of the brain, in a sense.
So what I would say is it depends on the situation and what your goal is.
Sometimes it is useful to use your words and sometimes it is useful to go for a run.
It just depends on what your goal is.
Well, both those cases that you gave, both those examples, excuse me, it's a way of shifting off the emotion.
I guess what I'm asking is...
Well, sometimes you don't want to shift off the emotion.
Sometimes the wisest thing to do is live in the emotion.
That is, you know, sometimes discomfort,
sometimes when something feels bad,
it doesn't mean something is wrong.
It just might mean that you're doing something hard.
Well, earlier I wrote when you were talking about the broad categorization of emotions,
I wrote down, you know, simple is good when it feels good.
Like, I just feel really great.
But then when things feel lousy, that's where nuance could be beneficial.
Absolutely, because emotions are recipes for action. When you go from feeling bad to feeling
angry or sad, it's a recipe for action. And I would also say, and this is an analogy,
but I sort of, I stand by it. You know, when I was, I had major back surgery a couple
years ago, and I know something about chronic pain. It's not my area of study, but I know something
about it because I've reanalyzed some data sets, and I've read a lot. So I'm not an expert, but,
you know, I have ideas. And I thought to myself, well, I just, I don't want to end up with chronic back
pain. So what I did was I made sure after I got through the first couple of weeks where I really needed
oxycodone so that I could walk. You know, I was up and walking the same day I had surgery,
if you could call it walking.
It was sort of a euphemism for like hobbling around with a walker.
But I made sure that I felt the pain.
That is, I dosed myself with discomfort quite deliberately because I wanted to make sure that
I'm sorry for using, you know, Cartesian language.
I don't know how else to say this.
I wanted my brain to be taking in the prediction error.
I wanted my brain to feel the, I wanted to focus attention on the changing, you know, the changing
discomfort over time because it meant that my body was healing as the discomfort got less,
but my brain would never feel that discomfort changing if I took painkillers.
and because the prediction error, the things that the brain doesn't predict are teaching signals.
And I think it's true also in your life.
Like sometimes you want to feel it because you want to feel the discomfort because it's
instructive about something and sometimes it's not.
And maybe that's not really an answer, but the only way that you can figure that out
for yourself is to do it sometimes.
If you're always getting rid of discomfort, you never know when it's useful.
and it is useful sometimes. But now I want to get to this point that I was making before.
Like we are talking about feeling and emotion interchangeable, like they're interchangeable.
And they're not, right? So here's how I would say it. Your brain is always regulating your body,
24-7. And your body is always sending sensory signals back to the brain about the sensory state of the body.
and our nervous systems aren't wired for us to experience those sensory changes that are happening
in the body in any degree of detail.
We're just not.
And it's a good thing.
Like right now, as we talk here, our hearts are beating and our, you know, pancreas is squishing
stuff out, you know, liver is, you know, filtering and, like, you know, you know,
know, oxygen concentrations are changing, like, oh, there's a whole drama going on inside each of us
and our listeners. And we're largely, we're not aware. And I hope our listeners aren't aware,
because if they were, they would not be listening to anything we were saying. They'd be completely,
you know, enraptured or in discomfort at what's going on inside them.
Instead, the brain creates a low-dimensional summary, this gross kind of like barometer,
which is feeling, affective feeling, we call it, or you could call it mood, but scientists call it
affect with an A, feeling pleasant, feeling unpleasant, feeling worked up, feeling calm, feeling comfortable,
feeling uncomfortable. It's kind of a general barometer of the state of the body,
and it's not emotion. Those feelings, those features of feeling are features of consciousness
because your brain is always regulating your body. Your body's always sending signals back to the brain,
the brain is always representing them in this low-dimensional way.
Whether you're paying attention or not,
like whether the brain is focusing,
it's, you know, applying attention to those neurons or not,
those signals are there.
And even when we're not emotional, you know, like if you're driving on the highway
and somebody cuts you off and you think,
what an asshole, the assholes of that person,
that intensity of that negative affect,
is you experience it as a problem,
property of that person. But really, it's coming from you. It's, it's not a property of that person.
It's, that's a feature of your experience in that moment. And affect is always there. Sometimes it's
in the foreground, sometimes it's in the background, sometimes it's in the background, but it's
always there. And it's a summary of physical things, which is why it helps to, if you take ibuprofen
or Tylenol, it will reduce, I mean, studies show it reduces negative feelings.
if you go for a run, if you go for a walk, if you shift your attention to the outside world,
then the features of experience that are derived from the inside world diminish.
That's why going for a run helps or going for a walk helps or, you know, getting sleep helps, right?
These are all things where you're changing the state of your body,
and so the sensory state of your body is changing, and so your affect changes.
But emotions are the story that the brain tells about what caused the sensory signals that affect derives from.
So what caused those changes?
What do I need to do about those changes?
That's like it's a much bigger event than just these features of experience, which are all features of consciousness, which are always there.
They're always there.
And in fact, in our culture, we.
we we pathologize people when they just experience their bodies as physical sensations and not as emotions.
Like we say, oh, that person is somatizing or somatizing.
They're not, they should, they're really, they're, they should be experiencing an emotion,
but really they're, you know, just experiencing a stomach ache, and that's bad.
But that's actually a judgment call that is probably sometimes wrong.
Sometimes it's probably better to experience a stomach.
Sometimes it's more productive.
Part of being emotionally intelligent is knowing when not to construct an emotion.
You know, like right before the COVID pandemic was announced officially, I was in New Zealand,
giving talks.
And my daughter, who was in college at that time, was flying literally, like, I think less than a week before the pandemic.
was announced, she got on a plane and she flew to New Zealand to meet me because it was
spring break and I always would bring her with me on spring break. And in that, and I remember really
vividly, I was in New Zealand. There was only one case, one case of COVID in New Zealand at that
point. And I got on the phone to my husband and I said, I'm experiencing a very high level of
arousal and it's very, very unpleasant.
Now, my husband knows me very well, and he said, yeah, there's a lot of uncertainty.
And I said, I know.
Now, he didn't say to me, well, you're anxious and you just don't really know it.
Because I wasn't anxious.
I was feeling uncertain.
And as you know, or maybe people know, that when there's a lot of uncertainty, there's also a lot of arousal,
because the brain is attempting to learn.
and the neuromodulators that are important for learning new things happen to also cause
a subjective sense of arousal.
And they actually also modulate your autonomic nervous system so your heart can beat faster
or whatever.
And our go-to explanation for what that is is to experience that arousal as anxiety.
But I was uncertain.
And remember that how your brain, the story it's telling itself, the category it's making,
is a plan for action.
Well, what do you do in anxiety and fear?
You freeze or you run away.
What do you do in uncertainty?
You forage for information.
You tolerate the discomfort and you forage for information, which is what I was doing when I called and said, what should we do?
Should I meet her at the airport and turn around and come back or should we have a vacation?
Like, I don't really know.
And, you know, what I ended up doing was foraging for information for another couple days and then made a split second decision.
in the air when we were flying from one island to the other room.
I just rerouted us and we went home.
And then the borders closed like two days later.
But my point is that this is not just, you know,
psychological mumbo-jumbo.
You can train yourself to experience your heart pounding in your chest as determination.
When my daughter, this is all in how emotions are made these examples, but they're true.
I mean, my daughter, this book I wrote a couple of years ago, when my daughter was 12 years old,
she was testing for a black belt and karate, she was five feet tall, not even,
and she was testing against these, like, massively large adolescent boys, okay, who were like a foot taller than her.
And her sensei, who was a 10th-degree black belt, didn't say to her,
Don't be afraid.
He said, get your butterflies flying in formation.
And I was like enraptured.
I was like, oh, my God, this guy is totally brilliant.
That is the best, you know, meaning to give to arousal that changes the meaning of it.
What you do when you create an emotion is you're giving meaning to those affective feelings.
and you have more control than you might think in how you do that.
You can do it by changing the physical state that gives rise to those feelings,
but you can also change it by learning more how to make more categories
and how to make them more fluidly so that you do something different.
And it's not that things will necessarily feel any more unpleasant or any less or any more
pleasant, it's that the feeling becomes a source of wisdom. It's a cue to do something different.
This is a case where I absolutely believe that knowledge about how emotions and affect and states of the
brain and body work, which is what you're beautifully describing for people today, is extremely
useful in and of itself. And I think, and I, it's a, frankly, it's a, it's a refreshing and welcome
departure from a lot of the conversations that we normally have on this podcast where, you know,
we talk a lot about protocols. We talk about tools, things that people can do, ways they can
implement the knowledge. And here, this is certainly one of those cases as well, but it's a
beautiful one and a very important one where the knowledge,
itself, just the knowledge of additional words for different states. I love the example of putting
butterflies into formation because it inherent to that is that you're not trying to get rid of the
butterflies, quite the opposite. You're deploying them in certain ways. And there's an action step
and a psychological step there, of course, that's required, but that it isn't, you know,
view morning sunlight for an average of 10 minutes to set your circadian rhythm, which is something
that I say over and over again, I'll go into the grave saying that. They'll probably put a window over
my grave so sunlight can get in at this point, which would be fine with me. But in any case,
knowledge is power, something that we hear, but it's not always true. Often it's knowledge is power,
but you need to do X, Y, and Z in a certain order. But here, what you've provided and you're
continuing to provide is knowledge that people can use that real estate within their brain. I'm
deliberately not giving it a name, because it's distributed real estate that allows them to
take an unpleasant feeling and work with it, that it has more dimensionality than we probably
realize. That's becoming clear to me that rarely, if ever, is there less dimensionality.
You can always give it more dimensionality by just shifting your attention. And you can
practice this really. So, you know, like there's a story that I tell about when I, the brief moment
when I tried to learn how to paint, you know?
And so there's an object like a cup.
And you have this three-dimensional object
and you want to render it on a two-dimensional canvas.
So you could just try to draw the cup.
And then what you get is a pretty shitty-looking, you know, cup.
But what a realist painter will teach you to do
is to take the cup and to break it apart into pieces of light.
And then what you try to paint are the pieces of light.
transferring, your first what you're doing is you're taking this very low dimensional
coarse object called a cup and you're breaking it into tiny little pieces of light.
Which is what the visual system does.
Which is what the visual system does.
And so what you're doing is you're categorizing it differently in order to emphasize
the features that are more high dimensional that are in there, right?
They're in there, in the brain.
But you can, but what you're doing essentially is you're having the brain, your brain, your
brain is applying attention to basically focus more on those details. And then you transfer the
details on to the two-dimensional canvas. And what you get is a pretty decent looking three-dimensional
cup on a two-dimensional canvas, unless you're me. And then it still looks shitty.
And so maybe I'll take it up again sometime in the future. But my point is that you can do that
with your own sensory condition of your body, in emotion, you can deliberately focus on what your
heart is doing to the best of your ability that you can sense it, right? Or you can deliberately
focus on your breathing, or you could deliberately focus on what your muscles or how tense they feel.
You can change the dimensionality of your experience by the shifting of your attention.
Love it. And forgive me for giving another example, but I think it's one that will resonate with both of us
and hopefully with our listeners as well,
which is the great Oliver Sacks, neurologist and author,
talked about and wrote about,
you know, he'd work with these patients
that were either had Locked in syndrome
or severe autism or severe Tourette's or Parkinson's.
And, you know, most people would, even clinicians
who specialize in those areas would look at those people
and say that they're living in a diminished world.
It's, they lack capacities that other people have.
And it's all about the absence of certain abilities.
And then what he did eventually was incredible.
He loved animals.
So he would spend time thinking about what it would be like, for instance, to be a bat,
hanging in the corner of a room and experienced the room not through vision,
but mainly through echolocation.
And he would spend a lot of time thinking about that.
He also did a lot of drugs at one point in his career and stopped
because they were very destructive drugs, not just psychedelics, but also methamphetamine.
So yes, he has that.
But he eventually changed his practice to trying to experience human emotion, but first think about
animal sensory experience.
And he would do that for lots of different types of animals, octopuses and bats and all these
different things.
And then it allowed him, in his words, it allowed him to then interact with patients
in a way where he could feel, maybe even empathize a little bit with how they could.
they experienced life.
And then he would write books about it in a way, and here I'm borrowing someone else's
words, that storied these people into almost greater, larger-than-life characters.
And now, of course, he wasn't trying to detract from their suffering, but he was trying
to give people an understanding of what that suffering was like through their actual experience.
And he did, in my opinion and the opinion of many other people a masterful job in doing that.
But it came through much in the same way that, you know,
our teacher said, you know, pay attention to the way the changes in light across the object
as opposed to trying to draw the object themselves.
So the takeaway here that I think we're arriving at is that you've provided is that
if we take a, if we add dimensionality to our description of or experience of the sensory
inputs and there's a ton of it to reach to.
And we maybe even come up with some new internal labels or language-based labels that we can experience the world in much richer and much more adaptive ways.
Absolutely.
And I love your stories.
And I love this story in particular about Oliver Sacks because it resonates with my experience when I was reading Ed Yong's new book.
Oh.
At first he wrote, we contain multitudes, which I think won a Pulitzer.
and then what is the recent one?
Right, with the animals.
An immense world.
And what I was thinking was, you know, it's a, first of all, it's a masterful,
masterful, masterful book.
I wish I had written that book.
I wrote him a fan letter.
I was like, this is such an amazing book.
It's an amazing book.
But because he helps you experience, so what I want to say is this, that there are all
these animals that have different sensory surfaces than we do, and they can detect signals in the
world that are, that are not relevant to us because we don't have sensory surfaces for them.
And it reminds you, first of all, that what you experience as reality is really not in the world
alone, and it's not in your head alone. It is in the transaction between the two. You know,
the neurons in your brain, in your nervous system are also part of the reality.
And so reality is the transaction.
Reality are the features that are the transaction between signals in the world and signals in your brain.
And the parts of the world that some other animals experience that we will never experience,
they're not really part of our reality because they don't interact with any of the, anything that we have.
But for those animals, it's part of their niche.
It's part of their, you know, niche is just the word for the parts of the world that matter to you, basically.
And I was thinking that if people read this book and, you know, maybe it will help them have empathy for other people who don't have minds like theirs and who don't experience the world in the way that they do.
Your description of what Oliver Sacks, his actions were and his goals, it did occur to me that this book by Ed Yong would be a great tool for helping people to be.
understand that the way that they experience the world, it might be different than how other people
experience the world. And even a little bit of a window on that, it would be a good thing.
So I'd like to ask you more about this word affect. And then I'd like to discuss how things
that we do or don't do might be useful for putting us in broad categories of affect so that we
might experience a particular arrays of emotions. So this is my attempt to understand affect
in an effort to think about some actionable items. Absolutely. I love the word affect the way you
described it. We're setting up a potential or a series of potentialities for different emotions to
occur. I make it a point to get sunlight in my eyes in the morning to try and wake up my brain and body
because indeed it does that.
Broadly speaking, I make an effort to get good sleep at night because that makes everything
better.
Absolutely.
And when I'm not sleeping well or enough, it makes everything worse.
This is non-clinical, non-nuanced language.
But I think most people when they hear affect and they think about the examples I just gave,
kind of understand like, yeah, like when a kid is tired, a young kid, they get cranky.
when we're sleep deprived, we get cranky. Indeed, there are times when I'm sleep deprived and
little things great on me. Like a splinter just feels super annoying and maybe even painful,
but when I'm well rested, things are going better. It's not that bad. So tell us more about
affect because I think it's a really important anchor point for us to understand emotions in
ourselves and other people. Neuroscientists think about
the sensory systems for touch and pro preception, which we call somatis sensation, as being in the
service of skeletal motor movements. Really our sense of touch and even vision actually also works
this way. And actually audition does too. These senses actually serve the brain's ability to
control the movements of the body. And the same thing is true.
for regulating the systems of the body.
So brains, one of their fundamental jobs,
are to coordinate and regulate the systems inside your body,
your heart, your lungs, your gut, you know, all the moving parts.
And the information, the sensory signals that those organs and tissues and so on
send back to the brain, as I said before, those sensory signals are important to the brain's
ability to regulate the body, but we don't feel them directly. We usually experience them as
affective feelings, these very simple, physical sorts of feelings. And then we elaborate them in
various ways. They really, when they get very intense, those are the moments when the brain
creates a motion out of them. So the brain's regulation of the body, the predictive regulation
of the body is the technical term is allostasis. But when I'm explaining this to the public,
I use a metaphor. And, you know, all metaphors are wrong, but some metaphors are less wrong and
useful. So the metaphor that I use is your brain is running a budget for your body.
And it's not budgeting money.
It's budgeting glucose and salt and oxygen and water
and all the nutrients that you need to stay alive and well.
And so you can think about withdrawals from that budget,
like burning glucose or using up oxygen.
You can think about deposits like sleeping and eating.
You can think about savings.
So when you're with a friend who you trust,
And everything you do actually is just slightly less metabolically expensive, right?
And you can also think about taxes.
Like if you are stressed, socially stressed within two hours of eating a meal, that same meal will cost you in the equivalent of 104 more calories in the inefficiency that you will metabolize it because of that stress.
Meaning you'll burn more energy.
You'll be more inefficient in metabolizing the food.
So it's as if you had eaten 104 more calories.
Oh, so I had it exactly backwards.
And so over the course of a year, that's 11 pounds.
So when we say that people are taxing on us?
Yeah, like it's literally true.
Their language works.
Yeah, their language works.
So the way I describe it is that you can think about affect as a quick and dirty summary of the state of your body.
budget. If things are going reasonably well, then you'll feel okay. You might even feel pleasant.
If you're running a deficit in your body budget, then you're going to feel fatigued or distressed.
And that doesn't mean something is necessarily wrong. Like, for example, when you exercise,
you get to a certain point where you've reached your ventilatory load. Usually it's like, you
you know, 20 minutes in or 10 minutes in or whatever, depending on how hard you're working,
and you start to feel unpleasant and fatigued.
But that doesn't mean that something's wrong.
That just means that you're working really hard and you have to push through it.
And then, you know, when you drink water and you know you eat afterwards and replenish,
and then you're fine, right?
In fact, you're better.
It's a way of building a better, stronger, future you.
So affect is basically, you know, when things, when you're feeling really worked up,
it probably means that something's uncertain somewhere.
So I just think about these as like quick and dirty ways of thinking about your,
what your affect means.
And then oftentimes, as we've said before,
emotion regulation that is controlling emotion really actually is not so much about
changing the meaning of affect.
It's changing the affect.
And so it's useful to understand
that affect is tied to the state of your body, or actually what it's tied to is your brain's beliefs
about the state of your body. Your brain is modeling the state of the body, and that's interception.
That's the technical word. Interoception is not your awareness of your body. It's your brain's
modeling of your body, what your brain believes to be true about the metabolic state of your
body. And that's how I think about affect. That's how I think about my own affect. And my daughter,
actually, who, you know, was depressed for, so I should say depression is like a bankrupt body budget.
Like, you just can't move. You feel so fatigued that you can't move and you're very distressed.
It's like bankruptcy. And actually, if you, I mean, depression is a metabolic illness.
And if you look at the symptoms of depression, they really are about metabolic, um,
having metabolic deficits, basically.
And it's interesting that one of the hallmark features of depression,
subjectively speaking, is lack of positive anticipation about the future,
which makes perfect sense from the perspective of a depleted,
grand body budget.
Yes, exactly.
And you're basically think about the fact that prediction error, right?
So if you're feeling unpleasant, you're not going to be anticipating pleasant things.
And even if those things that are in the world could give you pleasure,
you won't notice them because learning from prediction error, things that you didn't predict, is expensive.
And if you don't have the resources, you're not going to, right?
So it's, but anyways, my daughter came up with this, after we had this very interesting thing that happened to us on another trip.
We were in Sweden because I was giving a keynote at the Karolinska Institute.
And we went, I took her to Sweden.
And this is when she was recovering from depression.
and like, you know, she is just one of the millions of young adults who, you know,
adolescents and young adults who were experiencing depression.
And we got to Sweden and she was very, very jet lagged.
We both were.
It was like one of these like, you know, we had to like, you know, planes, trains and automobile.
It was just, you know, getting there.
And she woke up the next morning and she,
she looked horrible. She felt horrible. It actually seemed to me like she was about to enter another
depressive episode. And I said to her, I basically got her out of bed. I fed her a meal. I gave her
four ibuprofen and I put her back to sleep. And she got up five hours later and she was
absolutely fine. Her mood was fine. Now, I'm not telling you that ibuprofen is an antidepressant
that you should take if you're depressed. But what I'm telling you is that, you know, you said
something, Andrew, that was so interesting. At the beginning, you said, am I fatigued? Does my body,
do I have pain somewhere? Is my body hurt? You know, these are, well, right. When basically what she was
having was, she was fatigued and she was having what I would call, it's called, the technical word is
visceral no seception, which means her stomach hurt, her, you know, everything hurt. And sure,
you know, her muscles probably hurt too, but it was really her innards. Really, she just was distressed.
and the ibuprofen helped her get back to sleep,
and then she slept and she got up,
and she was completely fine.
And then we walked around Stockholm for the rest of the day
talking about this experience,
which for her was like flipping on a light switch.
You know, how emotions are made, this book that I referred to,
I wrote that book for her.
I wrote that book for her, but also for me
because it was a way of putting down on paper
all the things that I wanted her to know,
and that I thought other people should know about their kids.
you know, and maybe even their kids could read it. But what she did with that was she came up with a new
concept called the emotional flu. And the emotional flu is when you're having a bad body budgeting day.
And you're just like, you didn't get enough sleep maybe or, you know, there's some stress at work or at
school that you can't get rid of otherwise. You know, my husband likes to say, well, you know, other people
opinions of you are just electrical activity in somebody's head, which I love. Like, that's just
another way of categorizing it. It's sort of like taking apart the, taking apart the cup into pieces of
light, right? And so, whatever, there are just these moments where you feel depleted, and you could
use that, I mean, we usually, we often use affect to as a, as a indicator of how the world is.
You know, if I feel bad, something must be bad wrong in the world. But you have to resist that sometimes.
because sometimes there's nothing wrong in the world.
It's just that you didn't get enough sleep or, you know, you need to have a little bit more, you know, protein.
Or maybe you haven't gone for a walk and you're stiff or whatever.
You need to do some stretching.
Are those, sorry to interrupt, but I think people are going to want to anchor to a few of these positive steps that they can take to, I don't want to say replenish, but to shift affect in positive directions, sleep, movement, nutrition.
Yes.
And I've heard you say before that we are essentially immediately.
amino acid foraging machines. So I noticed you said protein. You didn't say you need a bagel. You said
protein. We could go down that rabbit hole. Maybe we do. Maybe we don't. But I want to use this also
just as a quick opportunity to say, as you're saying all this, one can immediately understand
why alcohol and drugs of abuse are both so compelling, right? You're not feeling well.
So you're feeling tired. Take a stimulant that releases dopamine and epinephrine, but you're
taxing your already taxed body budget in a way that then puts you in a more depleted state later
or alcohol. Like, you feel lousy. Alcohol never did this for me, but friends I have who are recovered
alcoholics will tell me that it was like a magic elixir. It made them feel right. That's their language.
But then, of course, there's a price to pay later because then it drops your baseline below where it was
initially. Absolutely. 110%. But I just also want to say that so is seroton. So is seroton.
like so are, so is, so are SSRIs maybe.
And when I say maybe, what I mean by that is,
if you really have a metabolic problem,
like say something's wrong with your mitochondria
or you're recovering from an illness and, you know,
or there's just some metabolic problem in your body,
that metabolic problem is real.
If you start to feel unpleasant, you will, I mean, feel unpleasant.
It will feel your mood will be negative.
If you start taking SRIs, which will leave more serotonin in the synapses of your neurons before it's taken up again, that will juice the system.
You will be able to spend.
You'll be able to move.
You'll feel like you have more energy for a while.
But your nervous system is a complex system.
And so it's going to make adjustments elsewhere to try to deal with that body.
budgeting problem. So exactly what happens when you take drugs of abuse and what happens on the
short term can happen for some people with SSRIs on the longer term, where at first it starts to
work and then it stops working and you start to gain weight and, you know, because your metabolism
is slowing because your brain is attempting to deal with that, with that budgeting problem. So it really
matters what the, you know, what the source is. It could be that your brain believes you have a budgeting
problem, but there really isn't one. It could be that there really is one. These things matter to how
you treat it. One thing to just mention about SSRIs, and I unfortunately, for reasons of confidentiality,
I can't cite the source on this. But let me just say that somebody who's highly informed in the
landscape of pharmaceutical treatments for psychiatric challenges has told me that there's an
emerging theory among psychiatrists, this kind of a collective emerging theory that
one of the reasons why nowadays you hear about so-called treatment-resistant depression,
but you did not hear about so-called treatment-resistant depression prior to the advent of
SSRIs is that there's a growing body of thought in the psychiatric community.
The SSRIs may, over time, as you're pointing out, deplete the very neural systems that subserve
enhanced mood.
So it's different than a drug of abuse that gives you a very acute effect, like methamphetamine
or cocaine or alcohol, but that over time you may actually be pulling the very neural circuits
and neurochemicals that would allow for positive affect deeper and deeper into the trenches,
so to speak.
And so there's a growing number of people who simply don't respond to the drugs any longer
or other treatments.
Right.
So I wasn't trying to say the mechanism is the same.
I was basically saying the theme is the same.
And I'm agreeing with you.
Yeah.
What happens over the short term with drugs of abuse happens over the longer term with
for some people with SSRIs because it hasn't been recognized yet that at the basis, depression
is a metabolic problem. And when you have a metabolic problem, like diabetes or obesity or,
like, or heart disease, it's not that that causes depression, it's that there's a common problem,
which is that somewhere in this very complex system of your metabolism, there's a drag. And it produces
is negative mood. And that's how you experience it. Sometimes it's good not to turn, it's productive,
not to turn that negative affect into an emotion. Sometimes, you know, sometimes a cigar is just a
cigar. Sometimes you just need to deal with the affective problem by dealing with your physical state.
And that's the tricky bit is knowing when is affect telling you something is wrong with the world.
and when is it telling you that there's something wrong with your physical state that you need to tend to?
I think everything, to me, at least, starts with a good night's sleep on a consistent basis.
And every psychiatric challenge and indeed suicide itself seems to be associated with and often preceded by challenges in sleeping, changes in circadian rhythm.
So I think that's why, to me, sleep is the foundation of mental health and physical health.
Yeah, absolutely. And so when I tell people, when they say, well, what can I do? I was like, well, if there's only, if there's only one thing that you could pick, I would say get a good night's sleep on a regular basis. If you could pick two more, I would say eat healthfully. Like stop eating pseudo food. Don't get me wrong. Like I love French fries. I love French fries. They're like, that's like God's most perfect food. I mean, really. But eat healthfully, like eat real food and get exercise. And if you do those three things, I know I sound like a mother.
And so feel free to roll your eyes at me.
But as a neuroscientist, those are the, actually, before you start with all the, you know,
mentalizing Jedi tricks, you could just start with this.
And that would actually take you pretty far.
And that will resonate very well with our audience.
The basics of sleep, exercise, food, sunlight, and social connection are the ones that we just
anchored.
Those five are the ones that we just keep returning to over and over again.
And I think people will say, oh, it's just simple motherly advice.
But I think that those five things, even just the one thing around sleep, there's some work that's required to get that done.
So it's not as simple.
The categories are simple.
But the work that's required to get great sleep as often as one can on a consistent basis if you're raising kids, have a career, live in the world, there's a lot there.
And so that's where I think there's an elaboration of things.
and one needs to learn to be flexible.
Like when you're traveling, how do you do that?
When, you know, friends are visiting, how do you do that?
When weather's off and so on.
The relationship piece is something.
I was just going to say, I'm so glad you mentioned that.
I'm so glad you mentioned that.
Because you've said before, and this was another one of those moments,
I've listened to you, I've listened to as many of your podcasts as I possibly can,
but I think it was the first or the second one with Lex Friedman,
where you said, you know, we are regulating each other's nervous systems.
Now, I will never forget that.
And, you know, I imagine that you married your husband for a number of different reasons.
But when people pair up with romantic partners, with friends, with coworkers, the ideal situation is one in which we are not taxed where maybe even people and just being around them or just knowing that they are in our lives provides a sort of deposit to.
Yeah, it's a savings.
It provides a savings for sure.
And then I think that's a lot of what emotional resonance to put kind of pop language on it is all about who feels good to be around, who doesn't feel good to be around.
I would say the best thing for a human nervous system is another human.
And the worst thing for a human nervous system is also another human.
And so you really want to be around the people who make you the best version of yourself that you could be.
And that doesn't mean that you always get a savings.
Like sometimes you're taking care of that person.
And so you're absorbing some of their burden, right?
And vice versa.
But I would say the research on, you know, social isolation and loneliness and so on
one shows us that, you know, along with research on synchrony and there's just a whole
bunch of research to suggest that we are the caretakers of each other's nervous systems.
And it doesn't matter what your opinion is.
Like it doesn't, you know, it's just, but we just, that's how we evolved as species. And so you get to
decide what kind of a person are you going to be, you know, are you going to be, are you going to be a
savings or are you going to be a tax? And in general, it seems that people who decide that they're going
to be a savings tend to, because people gravitate towards that and want more of that.
Yeah. And hopefully would provide that also. I mean, I think the reciprocity piece here feels really,
really strong. Well, that's a really interesting thing about the synchrony work, right? So there's work
that if you research that if you put people together who don't even know each other, but if they
like each other and they have a sense of trust, even after a couple of minutes, they start to
synchronize their physical signals. Their heart rate starts to synchronize. Their movement starts
to synchronize. Their heart rate probably synchronizes because their breathing starts to synchronize,
right? And it's really interesting to see what you typically see is that who is pacing and who is leading. Like one
person is the leader and then the other person is the pacer. And I got that language from when I learned
hypnosis, by the way. And, but it switches back and forth, like who's the leader. Like in a good,
in a, in a, in a, what would we say good? Like in a, in an interaction that looks productive,
it, it's switching all the time who is, who is pacing and who is leading. It's not that always one
person is, is, is in charge, so to speak, physiologically speaking. We did a series recently on
mental health with Paul Conte, who's a psychiatrist, and the word narcissism came up a few times
because people have a lot of questions about that. And he emphasized that narcissists are not
confident. They operate from a place of a deficit of pleasure. It's never enough. An intense envy,
although that's not how they present and they're often usually not aware of it themselves.
But it's what leads healthy people to feel as if the interactions with those people, narcissists,
often can be very compelling in the moment, but they feel very taxed afterwards and kind of
confused by what happened. And it sounds like it ties back to this lack of synchrony.
On the positive side of things, it's also clear from what you just said that when people regulate
each other's nervous systems in a way where people are making little deposits and providing savings
for each other, or maybe things are just neutral, that those nervous systems are that, those nervous
systems are then in a position to like pay attention to other things too and not just trying to work
out the dynamics.
Oh, for sure.
Oh, and that's very true at work.
So there's research showing that, um, especially in the creativity, you know, sector,
innovation sector of the economy, the best predictor of performance on the job is the extent
to which people feel, I mean, after you account for sleep and, and, you know, watering and
sleeping and feeding, right?
Like the, um, the best predictor is the amount of trouble.
that you have in your team and in your managers. Because if the world is predictable, it could still
be, things could be hard. Even when things are unpredictable, you have people, you know, who have your
back. And so basically what you're doing is you're, they're making, you know, deposits or savings.
They're causing savings in each other's body budgets. So their resources can be spent on the harder
things, which is, you know, failing and, you know, having to pick yourself back up and try again,
which is, you know, partly what you do when you're an innovator. So I think that there's also
research to show that in your personal life, when you do random acts of kindness for people
or when you're kind, in general, you derive also a body budgeting benefit from that.
You know, so for a while I had a friend who we would meet each other for lunch once a month
and, you know, we would take turns paying.
I mean, we could both pay for ourselves, but we got to get a double hit, you know.
He paid for me one month and then I would pay for him one month.
And then, you know, so we get the double hit of, you know, being kind to someone else.
And, you know, and also they got the, you know, benefit of someone being.
kind to them. And I'll just say, I think kindness is a, I don't know that we have so many
conversations about that in our culture right now, but I think kindness is very, very
underrated and should be, you know, like when I'm, when my, when I feel like shit, I bake bread
for my neighbor who's in his 70s, him and his wife. That's what I do when I, you know,
when I'm not feeling good. And, you know, if I, I mean, after I've taken care of.
of the physical, the possible physical causes.
And then I feel great because he's always so, he's always so grateful.
And then I felt like I made his day better.
And then also he helps me in other ways, like with my garden and stuff,
because he's just like a master gardener.
And so I feel like we have this relationship where we help each other.
And I know it sounds really sappy, but.
And even though all the research backs up what I'm saying,
It doesn't quite describe the feeling of when someone is just really happy because you just gave them a little surprise.
And there's just some juice in that, I think.
On some culture out there, there's a word for that.
I'm sure there is.
I'm sure there is.
I'm sure there is.
Well, I have to say, I've thoroughly enjoyed this conversation.
Oh, me too.
I've been looking forward to it for a long time.
And you've provided us with a really broad arc, but also a deep dive into not just how emotions are made, not just about affect.
But as you mentioned earlier, really how the nervous system works.
And I am certain, in fact, that our audience is taking this in and realizing that that knowledge is incredibly powerful, the addition of nuance, both to language into self-reflection states.
as extremely valuable.
Oftentimes when one gets into a conversation
that has some level of reductionism
and you get into nomenclature and things like that,
it can really pull away from the real-life experience of something,
but this is exactly the opposite.
What you've done for us today
is you've provided such a rich array of information
that adds richness and depth to the real-life experience.
And that is really invaluable.
So on behalf of myself and all the listeners
and the people watching this, I want to say thank you for today's discussion. Thank you for the
books you've written, which we provided links to in the show note captions. Thanks for showing up
on social media, despite the challenges that exist there. Sometimes you always handle yourself
so well there, and we will refer people to your excellent social media accounts as well.
And just for all the work that you're doing and that your laboratory and you're now director
of various things and relate to AI and more. And we'll talk about that.
this hopefully in future episodes, but just a really enormous thank you. Thank you.
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