Huberman Lab - Raising a Dog & Mastering Calm Assertive Energy | Cesar Millan

Episode Date: July 6, 2026

Cesar Millan is a world-renowned dog behavior expert. We discuss how to adjust your energy and behavior to ensure your dog is calm and happy and always follows your lead. Cesar shares specific tools for: returning home to your dog each day, structuring their walks, and eliminating aggressive behaviors and anxiety. We discuss how to determine if your dog is front, middle, or back of the pack order—a hardwired feature that determines much of their needs and personality. And we explore how human-human interactions are based on balances in energy, too. Both dog owners and non-owners will gain extremely valuable insights and tools from this episode. Read the episode show notes at hubermanlab.com. Pre-order Protocols: https://protocolsbook.com Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Eight Sleep: https://eightsleep.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Cesar Millan (00:03:54) Animal Instincts & Human Energy (00:06:31) Spirit, Sending Energy, Tool: Silence, Calm & Confident (00:16:48) Sponsors: LMNT & Joovv (00:19:30) Walking Dog; Pack Order, Tool: Picking a Puppy (00:26:44) Human & Dog Hierarchy; Greeting Dog, Tool: No Look, No Touch, No Speak (00:35:11) Calm Dog, Structured Walk, Tool: Weighted Backpack (00:44:17) Sponsor: AG1 & Eight Sleep (00:46:57) Exercise, Discipline & Affection (00:50:23) Relationship to Death, Spirituality (00:55:30) Human Energy, Rescue Dogs; Sensing Stress (01:01:36) Animal Intelligence, Cats; Being a Pack Leader (01:07:27) Calm Greeting, Humanizing Animals, Safety & Security, Anxious Dogs (01:12:41) Safety & Horses, Respecting Dogs; Human Selfishness, Pack Leader (01:21:31) Sponsor: Function (01:23:15) Human Leaders; Pack Order, Prioritizing Affection (01:32:17) Picking Human Partners, Good Pack Leaders (01:44:40) Dog & Testing Boundaries, Tool: Calm & Confidence (01:52:34) Cultivating Self-Awareness & Self-Discipline, Life Values (01:58:02) Clearing Mind, Tool: Cold Plunge (02:02:22) Honoring Pet Death, Celebration, Expressing Sadness (02:12:13) Understanding Energy, Dog Training & Hard Work (02:17:25) Dog Breeds & Exercise, Fostering Dogs; Spay & Neuter, Humping (02:23:50) Petting Dogs; Barking & Destructive Behaviors, Tools: Early Walks, Challenges (02:31:31) Spirit & Instincts, Training Humans; Acknowledgements (02:35:50) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Protocols Book, Sponsors, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm not saying that to give affection. I'm just saying give affection to patience and calmness and open mind, right? Because when your dog misbehave, you want them to go back there, go back to your good state of mind, right? You don't want the dog to do fight avoidance. Those are the bad state of mind. The good state of mind is patience can surrender or happy or lucky? Those are good state of mind. Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast, where we discuss science and science-based tools for every day.

life. I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor of neurobiology and ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. My guest today is Caesar Milan, better known as the Dog Whisper and the preeminent dog trainer in the world. Today's episode is truly for everyone, not just dog owners. You're going to learn a lot about human psychology and behavior and it will help you better interact with other humans in every type of relationship. For instance, you will learn a simple tool that allows you to move through the world with a clear, calm state of mind that will allow you to interact with others more effectively, to listen and act with more clarity and intention. And not incidentally, that clear, calm state of mind is also what dogs respond to best and what makes them feel

safe and healthy. Today we talk about the critical importance about understanding dog biology and psychology and the fact that they are pack animals and that we have to remove our human sense about these animals as our pets, and of course they are our pets and they're extremely cute. They are family members, but understand the hardwired aspects of their brain and biology that allow us to be the best leaders for them. I have to warn you, a lot of what you hear today may sound counterintuitive at first, until you understand the biology of dogs and the fact that they respond to people's energy and actions, not words. I know they can listen to commands, they can learn words and commands, but they're responding to the energy and the actions

associated with those commands. Only then can you be the most effective dog owner. And by effective, I mean making your dog as healthy and feeling safe as possible. I should point out that one of the reasons I'm so excited, Caesar came on this podcast, is that I had an amazingly positive experience with his methods. Years ago when I got my first puppy, Costello, who was a bulldog mastiff, I read his book, Be the Pack Leader. And the principles within that book were critical for developing an incredible relationship

with Costello, who lived 11 years. You could bring him into any environment. I would bring it to class. I would bring him into different people's homes. I could take him essentially anywhere. He loved kids. He loved people. And he was extremely well behaved.

Exceedingly lazy, too, but exceedingly well behaved. And I credit that to the methods that I learned from Caesar's book. So if you have a dog or you're considering getting a dog or you want to better understand how to regulate your energy and behavior in all types of interactions with dogs, with cats, and with other humans, today's episode will teach you those extremely valuable tools. And I'm extremely pleased to announce the newest member of the Huberman Lab podcast team, Strummer. He's also a bulldog mastiff mutt.

He's similar to Costello in breed, but I should say not a pure English bulldog. So not a lot of snoring and the other stuff that go along with English bulldogs. I love the English bulldog breed, but when they're mudded with other breeds like this one, they breathe a lot easier. And he's just the sweetest thing. So you'll be seeing and perhaps hearing more from Strummer, I am applying all of season. The Caesar's methods to training strummer, you can see he's a very calm, relaxed dog. He gets two walks a day and a bunch of other things you'll learn about during today's episode that will benefit you if you have or you're thinking about getting a dog.

Before we begin, I'd like to emphasize that this podcast is separate from my teaching and research roles at Stanford. It is, however, part of my desire and effort to bring zero cost to consumer information about science and science-related tools to the general public. In keeping with that theme, today's episode does include sponsors. And now for my discussion with Caesar Milan. Yes, sir. Welcome. I'm a huge fan.

Thank you. Same here. Thank you. Thank you. I'm honored to hear that. I will say your book, be the pack leader. I read the hard copy. To raise my first puppy, we never had a dog in my home growing up.

To raise Costello. Yeah. Bulldog mix, stubborn dog. We went 11 years together, he and I. And that book and your other teachings were. tremendously impactful for my relationship with him. Yeah. But also in my work life, in my entire life, we're going to talk about some of the themes from

that book and beyond today, but I just want to extend my gratitude. Thank you. It's a true honor and pleasure to have you here. That's very kind. Yeah. In modern parlance, they say, you're the man. Yeah, you're the man. The pack leader.

That's right. Many, many people want dogs, have dogs, these concepts of dogs that lead them to think they're a great dog owner. But a lot of dog behavioral issues, emotional issues, we know probably reflects something in the human as well. Not probably. So certainly. Yeah, because there is no knowledge behind instinct. It's all reaction.

So you can never blame an animal for doing the wrong thing. You see it? So you can guarantee for a dog to do the right thing. And so how? Well, that means that human has good energy. And what's good energy? Well, if you understand the power of silence, which is that. that gives you patience, the power of calmness,

which that gives you trust. And calmness is just learning how to breathe, right? The power of confidence, that's knowledge, right? And the power of love, when to give love. Because a lot of times people give love at the wrong time, so you end up nurturing the wrong behavior, right? So that's what happened to my clients. And then the power of joy, that's the celebration, right?

We're going to FIFA right now. We're going to World Cup. Nobody celebrates unless they make a goal. You see what I'm saying? But they have to be patient, calm, confident, Love what they're doing and celebrate afterward. See, they follow that formula. It's the silence, is the calm.

Before anybody is going to go to something so powerful, such as winning, right? Or being in a team or being in a group, the energies of silence, calmness, confidence, love, joy is what makes them become a great team. Because that's what connects your spirit, your instinct, your heart and your mind. And the same way, we have to connect with a dog. It's not just emotional. It's not just intellectual. You know, when people just want to train the dog. What you train is the mind. What you connect is the spirit, the instinct, and the heart. That's what you connect. And that's why I say trust, respect, love. Trust the spirit, respect instinct, love with the heart, create with your mind. For many people, especially in the United States, they're not familiar with feeling energy and exchanging energy with a dog.

Right. I'll give an example of when Costello, my previous bulldog, some probably bulldog Mastiff, who knows what he was. Yeah, whatever he was. He was Costello. But I learned something very important from you. Before he's Costello, he's an animal. That's right. Spirit.

Ah. Spirit, animal, species, breed, name. So the last thing they are is the breed in the name. So when I rehabilitate a dog, what I'm doing is bringing back the happy spirit, bringing back the healthy instinct. and bringing back the rules bound those limitations, mine. Because that's what makes them well behave when they understand rules by the limitations, no matter what breed they are.

So it really doesn't matter if you have a pit bull, or Roddweiler, a German Shepherd, or I'm Mexican and you're white and African-Americans. It really doesn't matter the race of the human. What matter is that person has a happy spirit, a healthy instinct and a well-educated mind, right? So you want to be a good human, right? And you want to be part of the pack of the good humans.

And those humans are good. Right? Those are the humans they help other humans or they create well-behaved dogs because they're following in that path. You know, there are some people who are born to the family. I'm part of the pack where it's better humans, better planet. But I know a lot of people who are not part of that path. So it's that. Yeah, certainly raising and living with Costello taught me a lot about how to sense people's energy. I had an amazing experience with him that I just wanted to share briefly that I realized now is probably the spirit component, but it was something that I tried on the basis of what I read in your book.

So I was walking him, and sometimes he didn't want to walk in a particular direction, you know, so he was always walked at my side and a little bit behind me. I had that going from very early point. I practiced no look, no touch, no speak in the first, you know, minutes of contact are coming home, and we can talk about why that's important. But at one point I decided, based on what you put in your book, to try something that seemed kind of wacky to me at the time where I was just going to, at some point during the walk, we had a great stride, we're having a good time, he's smelling things, but we're moving on. And I decided to just send him, like, approval energy. Like, I'm just going to think it.

And then I, and then feel it. I'm just going to send him some energy. I'm just walking down. I'm just doing this. I did not change where I was looking. I did not change, as far as I know, like the tension on the, the leash, who knows. And he just looks right up at me. And I was like, this is incredible. After a really good day of hiking or work, he used to come to the lab with me or something we were

sitting or I was cooking or something. Every once in a while, I would just, while I'm doing something else, I would just send him like this positive energy. Yeah. And he would look over at me. He was wild. Yeah. And I realized he's sensing things that are beyond my words. In fact, I don't know that he ever really listened to what I said terribly much. He could really feel what I was feeling. He was probably paying attention a lot more of the time than I was aware. But I also had the experience of when he was doing something I didn't like, I could send him disapproval. That's right. And he would stop. It was wild. We were, you know, meters away from each other. And I could send him this energy. Now, to you, this is probably like, yes, of course.

But I think for me and I think for most people that have dogs, we're thinking, about owning a dog, you think this is crazy, right? Yeah. But I swear on my life that I could do this in a variety of circumstances while driving, anything, and he would react according to the energy that I was sending out. As a neuroscientist, I could make up some story. Okay, well, we have, fish have electric sensing. I can make up a story in neurology, neuroscience that would more or less hold together.

But I want to know your impression of what, like, what is this? And then hopefully that will take us into a discussion more about energy exchange between all sorts of beings. Well, you know, silence is very powerful, right? The power of prayer, my mom certainly is always connected. You know, when I cross the border, I fell my mom, you know, I jumped the border. And so jumping the border is a life and death thing, right? And then so you give yourself to God. And then, of course, you know, your mom is always thinking about you. So you feel this energy that is done by the by the prayer or by the silence. You are what you believe. And so if you believe you can connect and you communicate this way

because you're going to be, I mean, the fact that people are not aware of energy, we can feel that the person doesn't feel good. And we don't even know each other. You know, so imagine if we humans are sensitive to that, all animals never stop this way of being, right? The sensitivity of animals, they don't go into the mind. They stay within the instinct because that's how they stay safe and maintain the peace. And so what you did was exactly that.

Don't talk. Don't talk with words. Talk with energy, body language, and intention. You know, how do you become the best doctrine in the world? Because that's all you think about it. That's all you think about it, you know. Even when you go to sleep, even when you're not talking about it.

So you create the law of attraction. You create the law of creation. The most difficult law is the law of maintenance, right? Because it's easy to attract. It's easy to create. What's hard is to maintain, right? And that's why patience is so important or silence is so important. Because this one is infinite.

It's an infinite energy. So if you feel that, imagine how powerful you become. And then just to be right here where you are claiming your space, calm, that gives you another power because that gives the animals their capability to trust and then your intention, right? What is it that you want without words? I just don't want you to pee over there. I just don't want you to go after that dog.

I just want you to stop doing what you're doing. Because think about when cats communicate with a dog, it's a completely different species, but can a cat control a dog? The same way you did. Same. Silence, calm, confident. So that's why a cat can control a Rottweiler and a pit bull, right? Like when people feel, oh, it's a very dangerous breed.

At the moment you think something is dangerous, you give your power away. Right? At the moment you bring silence, calmness, confidence, you regain your power back. And that's the first line of communication before sound. But most people focus on, I want to train my dog.

I want my dog to listen to commands. No, no, no, no. You want your dog to listen to your silence, to your calmness, to what's in your mind without saying a word. That's exactly it right there. That was the relationship with Costello improved in order of magnitude when I understood that, that I could talk to him all day or say whatever.

It had a very little potency compared to how I would show up. And then it also taught me a lot, of course, about how to arrive home, how to walk into it. You know, I bring him to class. I taught a 400 person class. He would walk in. It was very interesting. Everyone, you know, dog. Most professors wouldn't bring their dog to class.

And he knew it was all there, typical Costello. You know, he would just kind of walk to the front of the classroom. He would wait a few minutes, not look at anybody. And then he would decide. He just like glare at all. He could light up a room. But I understood that I wouldn't let him be like too much of a celebrity or else he would start misbehaving.

I had to remind him like, you know, we have a structure and an order. That's correct. And I do think that people would benefit so much from getting in touch with this capacity that they have to sense their own energy. and the energy of other people, regardless of if they have a dog. Well, you know, Americans go to India to be quiet, right? And then to practice not eating, which they call fasting, right? And then to stretch.

That's practically it. It's silence, you know, learn how to breathe. And then stretch gives you a little bit, you know, agility into it. And you learn to control hunger, which in a total country, that's what we learn. Right? We learn to control hunger. We learn to be quiet. We learn to be calm. We learn, you know, whatever we know, we do really good at it. We become really good farmers, really good animal people, right? And family people, you know, God people. And so we have a good structure, good discipline and such a basic, simple stuff. And that's what gives us the apprehend of a walk a dog off leash. When I started walking dogs in America, I didn't know it was. illegal to walk dogs off leash. I was walking 40, 60 dogs at a time, right? And I was doing an off leash because that's all I knew.

You see it? And so that energy of silence, calmness, confidence, is what now that I understand what I did is what led me to this event, you know, for people to see me from Englandlywood to South Central. It's a Mexican guy that walks a pack of dogs from England with the South Central off leash. That's when the LA Times came and did a piece of me

because they couldn't understand, you know, this concept of walking a dog off leash. This dog shaman or something. And a dog here in the land of the free, right? Because, you know, dogs in America have rights, but that doesn't mean they can walk off leash. You see, the dog has to be on a leash. And humans have to learn to transmit that energy

through the leash because there's a lot of dogs that react on the leash. When the dog should be the most well-behaved, then a dog is off the leash. you see it but the leash in the animal world is trust respect love the the leash in the animal world is that human understanding you know silence calmness confidence love joy and that's pack leader direction protection right that's the only way you can say i'm a pack leader right because you are that energy i'd like to take a quick break and acknowledge one of our sponsors element

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slash Huberman. Again, that's J-O-O-V-V-com slash Huberman. I'm in a dilemma whether to go down the concepts of what is happening in third world countries, not just today, but always in terms of how people sense energy and use energy versus what we do here. But I think I'm also keen on the fact that many people listening don't know how to walk their dog. I'll ask a very simple question first. should the dog always be next to you or behind you? Is there ever an instance where the dog should walk out in front of you? And as I say this, we both realize many people walk with their dog in front of them. So could you tell us about the concept of where the dog is relative to us?

But think about it. Look at it this way. So people can adapt the concept quicker. Because if you learn how to walk a dog, it would eliminate 90% of the problems. The other 10% would be rules, boundaries, right? That's it. So when a dog is a pup, he follows his parents, right? And then he plays, then he explore.

But the first activity he learns is to follow, follow, play, explore. So play and explore becomes like a reward activities. That's the Jackie cheese time, right? And so the follow is the one they learn, you know, the rules, boundaries, limitations. They learn to stay focused and not get distracted. So naturally, dogs, they need to learn to follow. When they go in front of you, they are in the mind of a play or explore. But at the same time, if you do this every day, the dog learned that he has to lead you to places.

Is that stressful for the dog? If a dog is middle of the pack and back of the pack, yes. If a dog is front of the pack, no. You see it? And so it's very important. In order for people to have a front-of-the-pack dog, they need a lot of knowledge. And so most dogs are perfect, middles or back. The back should be the easiest one.

But when people don't do the right thing with the back, he becomes fearful. The middle of the pack should be the one for the families because they're naturally happy or lucky. But if you do too much excitement, they become hyper. You see it? And this is a crossbreeds. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Doesn't matter if it's a bulldog or a, you know, a dachshund.

And every litter is front of the pack, of the pack, back of the pack. But it's more back of the pack's being born, like followers, then it's only one per litter, a litter of the pack. So that's what they call in the, in the breeder world, a pick of the litter. See it? So in a litter of German cheper, it's only one. It can be a police officer. The other one is pet quality, or they call them the run of the litter. Back of the pack, sensitive, middle of the pack, happy or lucky, is the HR of the family, of the pack, right? And then the front of the pack is the one that gives direction protection. Ideally for a family or for a typical domestic situation, I'm thinking of the United States,

but elsewhere, because this is going everywhere, and this episode will go everywhere, middle or back of the pack? Middle. Yeah. A family who has never raised a dog together? Yeah, middle. How can you assess the litter when you see them so that you pick a middle of the pack dog if that's what's appropriate?

Sounds like that's the goal. The front is going to be very easy to assess because he's going to be the biggest one. It's going to be the one is moving the sisters in the. the brothers away from the mom, right? He's already going to practice dominance. And then the middle is the second to get to the mother. And the back of the pack, they're always wait. You see, they're more shy.

Naturally, they're just sensitive. What if you don't have access to the interaction with the mother? Having gone to pick up puppies a few times, sometimes you just see the puppies, the mom's in another room. Should you ask to watch the interaction? And if you can't, how can you assess if you're just looking at the move? Well, normally if you're in a situation, the breeder knows, because that's what they put ribbons, you know, color ribbons. So they know, okay, this is middle, this is their back.

Even though they don't call them that way, they just call them round of the litter, you know, pet quality of front of the pack. The front of the pack is just the obvious one, right? And so just go inside, you know, where the puppies are and there's no mother and nothing, just stay quiet. And every time you present something new, you're going to see the more confident coming to and the more happy-go-laki coming to. In the back of the pack, it doesn't get close. Anything new. It just can be a pillow. And that's the first time they experienced a pillow

in the front of the pack will go. And then the middle of the pack will go and play. It's hardwired. It's there. That's why you can guarantee good behavior. Right? Because now you're okay, I want a middle of the pack, I want a middle of the pack golden retriever.

I want a middle of the pack pit bull. You can have it. You see, because that's going to guarantee you exactly what you want. It's going to be easier for you. to tell them what to do because it was born naturally a follower versus if you get a front of the pack, whatever breed, chihuahua, I don't care what it is.

They're born, you know, with the disposition of giving direction, protection. So wherever human wants to, you know, live with them, needs to have more knowledge, right? So that's me running a pack of dogs and having different animals. The animals know that I have a big energy. They don't know I have 43 acres. They just know I have a land. And that you're in charge of it. Yeah, and all the ups and downs that I went through,

and I have been the wars that I go through, right, the divorces and all of that stuff. And I went through and I find my silence, my confidence, my confidence, my love, my job, right back. They know my energy is big, right? So that, I can have a front of the pack, but I don't have one. I have middles and back.

Even you. Even me. Yeah, because it will require so much. I will need to find him a job You see what I'm saying? Like a border patrol, something like that. Looking for the bad guys. Like, that would be a job.

It's just one officer and one dog. He doesn't need the pack. Fascinating. I'm sure, like many people listening, I'm trying to figure out was Costello front of the pack? I think he was, he was an enormous dog, even within his litter. And when I went to go pick him up, I had met him as a three-week old puppy. He was the one budding all the other ones out. eating from their food bowls.

He was... They claimed. Yeah, he didn't Yelp, didn't yap at all. He just ate everything, took everything, peed where he wanted, he did everything. So it was a difficult thing raising him. This new one, Strummer, who's four and a half months, he's definitely middle, maybe even back of the pack.

But he was second out when he was born. And they said, oh, you know, he's going to be the pick of the litter. They said it, but he definitely not. You know, quickly it was clear that he kind of kept a little bit... distance. He is very sensitive. Okay, that's good. Much sweeter. Yeah, sensitive. Yeah, much more playful. And that's the bar that I have to work with because they enchant us, you know, like I noticed with Strummer, he can, he is figured out, you know, that if he gets into play mode, it lights me up. And then I have to remember to stay in my, in my place, my proper place. Yeah, yeah. Because I'm

trying to teach him here, this is the order of things. It's very important because I want to be able to bring him anywhere. Leave him in a room alone with little kids and trust completely that he's not going to accidentally do something. For people that want to learn to sense their own energy, use their energy field, should they also be asking if they are front, middle, or back of pack? The human, yeah. In the human world, this is a little bit of a sensitive topic, right? Because every guy wants to say, yeah, I'm going to alpha, not a big. Everyone thinks that way. I like to think in different circumstances, people can move up or down the hierarchy. I mean, I work with a lot of scientists. And I can tell you in many environments that they don't come across

as alphas, but you put them in a laboratory or a lecture environment, and I mean, they own their space because that's their expertise. So it can move around. But can you explain what it is to observe oneself, really think honestly about oneself and where one really lies in this, let's call it what it is. Yeah. It's a hierarchy, but that makes it sound like one is better. It just is what it is. You're either front, middle, or back a pack human. That's their special magic, right? Being back of the pack means the master calm surrender. So we have to learn to master calm surrender. That's our more sensitive state of mind, right?

So when I'm assessing and evaluating a dog, I go into my calm surrender stay. So I go in the back of the back. Right? When it's time for me to give direction and protection, I go to the front of the pack. When I achieve whatever I need to achieve, I go into the middle of the pack. You see it? So the human can take advantage of this position. position of this state of mind, right?

The dog, the back of the pack dog, is going to tell you, listen, I'm here to master calm surrender. It doesn't mean I don't do happy or lucky, but he can never do calm, confident. Back-a-pack can't do front-to-pack. Never, never, never. And are we talking humans and dogs now, if we're really transparent? Well, it's just to have that fine line between what the human can do, right,

versus what the dog can't. Right? So it's important to understand, you know, that a dog is born with a position, right? And the human can go from whatever position he was born to different positions, right? Because it's a lot of, like you say, it's a lot of scientists people who are very brilliant on this side. But when it comes to a dog, a dog takes over. Oh, yeah. Or even just at a coffee shop, you know, they sort of, they become a smaller version of themselves. Not because they're weak, it's just it's not their domain of expertise and they feel weak in that environment. Correct. Or they turn on. one energy more than the other one. And so a lot of these people turn on more the affection energy, right? And affection or love energy in the animal world is not a strong energy.

Yeah, tell me more about that because I practiced on your recommendation, no look and no touch and speak when I got home. Most difficult thing for people to do, I think. You know, they get home and the dog's like, super happy, see them, tail is wagged, and they're excited. And I'm like, I'm going to ignore my dog. This feels like abuse, right? You know, but I come in, do my thing. And then after some period of time, I'd be like, hey.

And what I realized is every time after that, I'd come home and he was calm. He was excited to see me, but he was calm, never jumping up and touching me, never jumping up and touching anyone else. But if someone came over and they were super excited, he almost would confuse him. Like, this is not how people enter the space. Most people, I think, have a very hard time not greeting their dog with men and women squealing. That's right. My baby. It's good.

And it makes the dogs anxious. It causes problems in the relationship. Yeah, right? Absolutely. But I think most people don't realize that. Well, that's exactly you said it. You know, I don't want to ignore my dog. And I don't want to, like, tell my dog that I don't love him, you know, because then the

interpretation, the dog missed me. But, you know, every time you leave an animal behind walls, the animal is going to go excited or anxious, right? So not always what you're greeting is a happy dog. Most of the time, what you're greeting is an excited, anxious dog that is confused. right? So it's very important. You know, when people see dogs, we need another dog, there is no excitement.

That is respect, you know, and they wait until the front of the pack allows them to come in. They can't just come in into their intimate space. So it's a ritual. So it's three rituals that are very important for people to master with no touch, no talk, no eye contact. One is the meeting. Every time you meet a dog, always remind them about safe, peace,

nose, eyes, ears, trust, respect. And then as the walk, the dog right next to you, follow you, quiet. And then when you feed. So those three activities are very meaningful to dogs. But all starts with the meeting, with the greeting. So every time you reunite, you have to remind your dog that you are a source of saves and peace, of trust, respect, of nose, eyes, ears. You have to tell them that.

Dissect nose, eyes, ears for us. Because I think most people, because we're humans, especially in U.S. and, you know, in northern Europe or wherever. England. It's speaking. Yeah. People are just speaking constantly. Like, hi, hi, hi. You know, this is not the best way

to communicate with a dog, who you are and what you're about and what the trust relationship. Well, it creates excitement, right? It creates a dog that learn to greet people with excitement. So if you greet your dog with excitement, you are the source to other humans.

So he's going to greet all the humans excited. He's going to jump on people. Not everybody wants a dog that doesn't belong to them. to jump on them. So, but because, you know, let's say you do that, your dog has learned to welcome humans excited. You see it?

So when a dog is born, he borns with the nose open. 15 days later, they open the eyes. 21 days later, they open the ears. This is scientifically, right? This is in all the encyclopedias. So that means the dog met his parents through the nose, then the eyes, then the ears. You see it.

But when people wants to do ears, eyes, nose, they want to create a human. They want the dog to understand the way you and I understand. Hey, Andrew, how you do it? But we can control that excitement, right? We should. Some people can. So it's a different ritual for us.

We believe in parties. We believe in parades. For a horse to go to New York is a very excited place. It takes conditioning because no horse will ever volunteer going to New York. see, it has to be conditioned, right? Because you're bringing him to a very excited environment with his instincts, say, flight. Recently, there have been these problems.

Sorry to cut you. I don't know if you saw a couple of the carriages in Central Park took off. Someone was killed recently. There's a whole debate going on now whether or not this is good or bad for these horses. But it's just clear, regardless of where one sits on the debate, that you can't take the instinct out of the animal.

There are triggers that will send them over an edge. Oh, you have to make sure that you, you know, You keep eye on how is the spirit of the horse, is the instinct of the horse healthy, you know, is the spirit happy? You know, because when they just go into the habit of working, working, working, working, even a police dog can crash. You see what I mean?

Even a police dog can bite a police officer because it's overworked. I have a few friends from the Special Operations community. They work with these dogs that jump out of planes, parachute. The Belgian Malo. Yeah, the Malinwas. And several of those guys have. told me that with those dogs, you cannot ever, ever let up your guard as the leader. In fact, a few guys who got a little soft with them, just a tiny bit.

Like one anecdote was they decided to invite the dog in to watch a movie with them one night when they're on deployment or maybe they were training, I don't know. And he let the dog get a little too close to him during the movie. The next day he got bit. And it's like they're constantly trying to move up the hierarchy. He's like, it sucks because you fall in love with these animals, but you have to constantly keep the relationship in its proper place or they'll not turn on you, but they'll try and take your position.

They don't try. That's the thing with animals. They don't try. They just do, right? There is no knowledge behind instinct. It's all reaction. So at the moment your energy goes down, bam. Amazing. At the moment, they keep an eye on your energy, you know. But at the same time, you know, this kind of dogs are always in a high level of excitement. They keep them that way.

Yeah, they're vigilant. They're keeping like that. They don't know what to turn it off. So to create a great home family dog, or even if somebody lives alone, it's no look, no touch, no speak in the first couple of minutes of contact. Yeah. And so the dog becomes peaceful and calm and open mind.

So surrender means the mind is open, right? So once the mind opens up, you can teach whatever you want, such as waiting, such as being calm. What if somebody has an anxious dog right now? They haven't been doing this. And the dog is pawing at them. and running around, should the person just stay completely in that calm space, moving about and ignoring them, touching them, or should they be physically, like, you know, get off me type

thing? Well, this also has to do with how much exercise, physically exercises dog has received, right? How long is his walk? Because most people walk 20, 30 minutes. That's not enough. And the dog end up in the house for 23 and a half hours. In my opinion, it's borders on abuse. It's really incredibly hard on an animal that has that much energy.

But this is the same people that say I love my dog. And my first question is, how long do you walk them? What is your recommendation? I realize it varies by breed and by age. Yeah, and by level of energy. So some are couch potatoes, low-level energy, some middle and some high, right? And so it depends on the energy of the dog. So not because the dog is the back of the pack,

doesn't mean they don't have high-level energy, okay? Because the sled dogs, there is a lot of guys that go on the back. It's only one in the front, if you notice, right? And even in the back of the pack dogs, because they create a pack from middle back, right? And that's what they stay in that mode. And so even the back of the pack, they have to have the same level of stamina as they want in the front. So now because it's the back of the pack is couch potato. You know, so then you have to understand the levels of energy that they're born with low, medium, high.

Yeah, so a lot of times people say, oh, bulldogs are couch potatoes. because you can have a bulldog that is absolutely athletic, absolutely athletic. It has that stamina to go. And, you know, obviously, you have to help them with the breeding part because they just go into, you know, no limits. So you have to help them, you know, cool down. Strummer has a lot of energy compared to Costello.

So two minimum 30-minute walks per day as much as a couple hours twice a day. With a backpack on, right? Obviously, the dog is a little older because, you know, the backpack adds that extra half hour because now the dog is carrying something. So a weighted backpack? Yes. And how should one assess, like, percentage of body weight of the dog?

At the beginning, you can just put a backpack because they're psychologically, you know, they don't want to wear anything, you know, nothing that we put on them, they want to wear it. You know, a leash, a collar, a muzzle, a boots. Doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. So psychologically, that drains them, right?

Because they got to get used to it. So you walk into the dog comes, surrender to it, and then you take it off. And then the mind will become very drained. Once the dog gets used to it, and then you start putting weight. You can start with five pounds. Remember, every time you add something, you challenge the mind. And the goal is simply for the mind to surrender.

You see it? And then the body, the body is going to become calm because it's wasting energy. So your job literally every day with a dog is to empty the tank. Empty the tank, you know, because a tired dog is never going to give you problems. Ever. True. Ever. How? He doesn't have the energy to give you problems, right? And then on top of that, you create rules, bounds, limitations such as just put food right here, but you can't touch it. So the mind has to be disciplined not to touch it. Then the mind has to learn instead of doing this to do this. And that requires self-discipline. If you tell the dog, don't touch it or don't touch the human, don't touch the food, don't touch the cat, they go into a calm surrender state and they wait. Yeah, the first thing that I taught Strummer,

was to suppress action, just as a general theme. He learned it right away. At eight weeks, it took about a day, maybe even half a day, because I had learned the hard way with Costello. It was much more stubborn. I could set food down. Yep. As an eight-week-old puppy, because we went through the training process,

he's not touching it until he looks at me. I can walk around the room. I can do whatever I want. He's tracking. And then when I say, okay, then he's going to eat. I will just mention there's an inhibition from the forebrain down to the brain regions that control impulses. And this is what we call it top-down inhibition, which is nerd neuroscience speak for what you're describing practically. And I feel like it carries over to other circumstances more easily.

But I can put food in front of them now and leave the room. I don't do this for extended periods, but I come back, he's not going to touch it. Yep. And then he starts to eat. Now it's a little bit more difficult with things that, like trying to teach him to not be mouthy on. So I have a rule. No,

no skin in dog's mouth. It's just like, it's all or none. Make it simple. Because when, it's really cute when they're a puppy. There's teeth are a little sharp. And then you can kind of,

but I just have a, it's a thick black line. Right. And my girlfriend knows this too. Like, she's like, no, but he wants to play.

It's like, no skin goes in his mouth. Then he, because that's a simple rule. Yep. And if he does, happens to, you know,

go for skin, I'll do the little Yelp thing. Mm. He understands. right away. So if people hear this, they're going to be like, this is terrible, right? You're putting food in front of them and he wants to eat and you're not letting him. But could you elaborate why this is so important to the dog's happiness and well-being? Because I believe it is, and I could see that in Costello. I see it in Strummer. There's a trust, there's a calmness.

There's an availability to go more places. But many people, they just, like, he's hungry, she's hungry. They missed me, you know? They didn't know what they were doing. Or they feel guilty. because they didn't walk the dog. Guilt plays a big role in raising dogs. Well, then let's stay on the walk for a moment. What is so critical about the structured walk? I've been doing two hours a day or so of structured walk since he was little. And people say that's too much for a puppy.

I feel like he's been great with two, one-hour walks. It's because they forget instincts, right? They forget instinct that the dog is instinctually, is going to follow his parents to find food and water, right? Yes. They do it after two months of age because otherwise they will stay within the den. Right. But from two to four, they follow.

You know, they follow and somebody's always taking care. You can see it in the African wild dogs. There is always somebody that supervises the litter. But they allow them to follow, right? And then they go to a certain stance because they're growing. But as soon as a dog gets into six, eight months of age, that guy wants to walk more than 30 minutes. Guarantee.

He doesn't want to stay in one place too long. So all these people with their dogs home all day, or some people will say, well, the dog has the yard, running around the yard. It's not the same, right, being able to run around a yard. With the yard, it becomes like the zoo, right? It's an animal in the zoo with a yard. But that's not natural. That's just practical for the human, right?

And the human feels like, okay, I have a backyard. That's what the dog does exercise. But the dog is going in circles. So exercise for a bird is going for a fish. You know, a bird have to fly, a fish have to swim, and a dog has to walk. It's just the nature of each species, right? So the walk is the most important activity in my eyes, right? Look at the homeless people with their dogs.

Why they can walk a dog off leash? You were the first person I ever heard say that homeless people are the best dog owners. And the humans who are blind, the human who are blind dog is right next to them. A homeless people dog in the back, right? So what are they doing right? Well, the dog is following them, right? They're in a follower state. And so the dog that leads with the blind is not allowed to get distracted

because his purpose is to guide the blind. And the dog that leads with the homeless, he's not allowed to go in front. Consciously or unconsciously, the dog stays in the back. Nine out of ten homeless people have a pit bull and the dog is well behaved. Off leash. I see a lot of them in my neighborhood. This is Los Angeles. It's incredible.

Incredible, right? But in Mexico, every single dog in a thorough country, every single dog is off leash. leash. So that's, in America, the American dream for a lot of people is to have a dog walk off leash because people pay a trainer to train the dog to be off leash with this is the nature of a you see it. It doesn't make any sense, you know, once you hear it. You just have to help them by practicing the ritual of no touch, not touch, no eye contact. Let the dog be calm, surrender in front of you. Make sure they're in the walk. He's also in the same state of mind. And before you feed him, do this for at least three weeks, right?

So you get into this habit, right? That when you greet, when you walk, and when you feed. So then this dog is going to have this beautiful, silence, calm, surrender. And this is the dog you bring into dog parks or dog beaches. And then your job is to make sure that the dog that your dog is going to play with has the same energy as your dog. You have to be selective, just like with kids, right? I don't bring my dog to dog parks.

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And for many people, you know, they're going to hear that. I mean, it's reflexive for you now, of course. This is your domain, but they're going to be like this, but they don't want to walk first thing in the morning. I want to cuddle with my dog first thing in the morning. I mean, my household now, I had to be really clear. Like, if we don't follow this, we're damaging the opportunities for Strummer. We're actually hurting his psychological well-being.

Yeah. And the only hard part with him is he doesn't necessarily like to wake up early, but sometimes have to walk him early. So it takes a little bit of extra encouragement. The day always starts with a walk, then discipline training, and then food. Yeah. And then some affection. But it's not hours of like cuddling on the couch, right?

I mean, I love him. I would love to pick him up and treat him like a little baby much more often than I do. Right. But I just see the incredible results that come from this exercise discipline and then affection. But just living a natural life as love. Right. We want them to live as natural as possible. And so that's love in my eyes, like exercise, discipline.

Discipline is not punishment because that's a word. than in the animal, the dog people, when they hear the word discipline on the dog, they put it as punishment. Yeah, they're thinking of a teacher hitting them. Yeah, like you're punishing the dog. And no, you're just making sure the dog follows the rules by limitations. The dog follows a structure, you know, and that's what we call discipline, right?

And that's how we achieve becoming well-behaved or achieving success because we had to be disciplined, right? And so a lot of times what I end up helping people is understanding the word. So the word doesn't block, the word doesn't block them from doing the right thing, right? Which is your job as a pet parent, because now it's the title pet parent, right, is direction protection than love. Yeah, but most dog people want to do affection, affection, affection, and when it should be exercise, disability and affection, body, my heart. I think the walking part is so key, obviously. And I'll just say it.

Tell me if you agree or disagree if you want. But I think most people are just lazy. They don't want to walk. And if they walk, they don't want to do it without talking on their phone or looking at their phone. And the dog can sense if your energy is on the walk or the energy is someplace else. Or you connect it or you're in a flexile leash with a harness on and you're in the phone, which is the worst. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. So it's the moment where you are connected to Mother Nature and through the dog, right? And people now, you know, they see God is dog backwards. All right. So you're connected to spirit and you're connected to Earth. But you can be connected to technology. And the phone is the same thing. The phone is for connection, communication, relationship.

So does the dog. Connection, communication relationship to God, to Earth, to you. And so then you create that triangle and then the dog is inside that bubble. You know, oh, this human is really respected. respecting God, this human is really respecting Earth. This human is really respecting the moment. So you create this vibe, right? And the dog is in a follower state,

so he's going to imitate the energy that you're in. Right? And so what is prayer, an imitation of everybody doing the same energy. It's so fascinating that your relationship to dogs has opened up this understanding of human behavior, but not just how we behave. but how we relate to the entire world,

like the energetics. It keeps coming up in our discussion. I feel I have other practical questions, but I want to touch on something that you mentioned before we started recording, which is that in a third world country, people are aware of death very early on. And so the connection to the spiritual comes first

and all the rest follows. The complete inversion of somebody like me, who was born in Northern California, it's like Silicon Valley, and call it that then. And you learn everything through the logical structures and science and my dad's a scientist. And even if one loves poetry and music

and things like that, which I do, the order is sort of like bricks on the ground first. But there's no concept of death actually until your grandparent dies or animal dies or something. Tell me about this relationship to death and how it structures the psyche and the energy of people in third world countries, because it's It's a direct outgrowth of everything we're talking about.

Because I think it's going to be extremely useful to people regardless of where they live in the world. I think that's the first step, you know, to learn not to be afraid of death, right? That's the first step because in America they don't want nothing to die, but it's just what it is, right, per life and death. So it's just, that's when in the Mexican culture, we have the El Dio Los Muerto, the Day of the Death. So we learn to be okay with it. We learn to accept it because, you know, in Mexico or a thorough country, death is everywhere. You can see it everywhere, you know. I'm from the north of Mexico, Senaloa, and you see people with the chopheads and hang up.

And, you know, you go to school and people are dead. So what do you end up doing in this moment? Well, you end up believing that God will protect you. That's your spirituality, right? And just like what, I don't want a person to break into my. my house, you get a dog, right? And so that the mother nature to protect you. So for us, when we grew up that way, seeing death everywhere, we learn to surrender to this higher power, right? And we are what you believe, you know. So it's really good, you know, and our experience

to be able to surrender to death, but at the same time, we also surrender that somebody's going to give us direction, protection, love. The same thing is the PAC leader, right? And we, We just surrender to that, right? As well we surrender to Earth, given us food, and taking care of Earth. Because it's a combination of spirituality and instincts in a third world country. So it's almost like people in third world countries place, sort of, they see the reality of death early. And they place themselves in a sort of hierarchy.

They look upward, oftentimes, not always, but oftentimes these are religious people, right? My father's from Argentina and is a Catholic country. Yeah. Latinos for, by design, we are taught to spirit first. And then second is Mother Nature, right? Yeah, it's number, you know, now it's like an order. And then you have to go to work, right? So job is number three.

And then you have to love the family. And then love is at the end, right? But it's God first, earth second, which, and then it's family or work. Well, here in the United States, we're raised very differently. Yeah, sell first. And it's also this idea that stuff is the portal to happiness. That's right. Having Lays phone, having access to all the apps.

Shoes, a lot of shoes. Shoes, bags. I grew up with one pair of shoes. You know, one pair of shoes. And so we grew up with very, nothing. But then, so how do we stay happy? Right. How do we stay happy?

So it becomes like a belief system, right? Right. And so that belief system, it has helped a lot of people that I know to stay happy. It's just happy people with nothing, which is the key, right? You first have to be, learn to be happy, healthy, loving, smart with nothing. Then when you have something, and then you're already happy, healthy, loving, smart. Right? It just adds into your accomplishments. But animals don't understand money, fame, power.

Animals understand natural, simple, profound. So that's the part that I grew up in. Natural is your instinct. Simple as to love, profound as your spirit. Natural, simple, profound. So even if you're not smart, right, you can still be natural, simple, profound, and have an amazing relationship with animals.

Incredible. Right. Even if you're not, you don't know how to read, you don't know how to, right? You don't know where Europe is. But you can still have an amazing relationship with God and with Mother Nature and with your family. Right.

Therefore, if you're good to those three, you're good to you. I used to joke because I'd bring Costello to my lab with me. A lab of about 15 people. I'd walk in with him and he'd go around. He, like, walking into the lab, he'd see all the students and people working. He used to bring his toy around each of them sitting at their desk or trying to get them to play. You know, he was part of the lab.

And people really, I like to think they loved them. They told me anyway. But I used to look at him sometimes and I think, he doesn't care that I'm the professor. He doesn't care. That's the best part about this relationship. He doesn't care. He doesn't care, even if we go home at night. Sometimes I would sleep in the lab back then.

He doesn't care. He just wants us to be together. He wants his walks. He likes to be on things. And I just realized he just kind of wants to be around the joy of family, a laboratory. He just wants to be part of this. And it really helped me to just remove the concept that he even knew what roles were or jobs were. It was just this place we went.

I think dogs are a wonderful way to look at the world differently and realize both how different we are as a species, but also all these things that we've created. These are just human creations. And they're important. Jobs are important, obviously. But to not project that onto him, but also is very useful to not project that onto people in the world.

I'm not going to point at any specific colleagues, but I knew people who are very prominent in their field. And the way they go into the world was almost like disappointed because people weren't feeding them the adoration that they felt they deserved. But no one cares, right? Because they're in their own experience.

And I just mentioned this because, yeah, in your book and these teachings that we've been talking about today, they taught me a lot about, like, human energetics. We're not dogs, so we can't just transfer that in. But it taught me that, like, most of the time when we think we're operating from a place of, like, knowledge and roles and all this stuff, there's something that's been constructed by humans like a uniform to show, oh, this person's. in charge. They have all the stuff that reveals their accomplishments, the degrees on the wall. You take that stuff away and it's a very different kind of interaction. Like who's this person?

Like what are they about? Like what moves them forward or back? Are they a good person or a bad person? Are they scared? I think it's very helpful if people learn to tap into this a little bit. You know, when I go to people's home, the human tells you the story and the dog tells you the truth. just by you're looking at it. That's here. The dog immediately tells this is the energy we feel, this is the philosophy we practice, and this is the actions we do.

Immediately, the dog always, he's the most honest member of your house. They don't know how to lie. See it? They don't know, they don't know how to do what we humans do. They don't just don't, right? So I listen to the human because I need to understand, okay, where is this human stuck?

Right. And then through that conversation, okay, what about it? If we think of, think of spirit. Think about silence. Do you like silence? Okay, silence is part of the spiritual world.

And what about calmness? Calmness? I think I'm calm. Okay, let's breathe. And then I change the instinctual world just by just breathing, right? And then I start giving the information so the intellectual world is more simple.

It's more clear with the nose, eyes, ears, rules by the limitations. I'm just giving this simple information, right? So your mind knows how to execute. right and then when do I love hold on just just wait wait and and then when the dog goes now that's when you love because I want to teach people to love silence to love calmness to love an open open mind because people have learned to love an excited dog an incher's dog a dog that was a victim right so if you rescue a dog and then the dog was in a bad situation that person

goes and rescue a dog because he feels bad and then that same person started telling everybody in the what happened to that dog. So now the whole entire family feels bad for the dog. So when they describe the dog, they describe the past. So they learn to love the past because they feel sorry for this dog. So the dog now is fearful, controlling the house, doesn't listen to the humans.

At the moment I grab the same dog and I bring him to the ranch and I give him silence, calmness and be part of the pack, that dogs changes. They live in the moment. So really what happened to the past, to a dog, a month ago, a year ago, is irrelevant. is irrelevant. It's irrelevant. What's relevant is how do you treat him now? Right. And the only thing they need to become good is safe, peace environment. A trust, respect, human with exercise discipline

or exercise mental stimulation activities. Then the love comes at the end. Safe peace, love. Trust, respect, love, exercise, discipline, affection. See, love is number three. It's a reward. Right? It's a reward. How do you stay happy? Well, and then you are grateful. How do you stay healthy? You learn how to breathe and do do exercise. How do you stay smart? Well, you learn, you achieve and you give it away. Or you learn to turn your mind off. And then, so when do I practice love? Well, practice love once you master your spirit, your instinct and your mind, then love that thing about you. Right? Love those three things about you. Your silence, your faith, your calmness, your trust to you. And then your confidence, your mind. Love that.

Can dogs smell stress? Yeah, feel stress. It smells. But remember, it's the feeling of the energy that you have inside, your electricity, right? You're not functioning normal. Then that same energy is going to create a chemistry, right? Then you're going to sweat.

And, I mean, it's just going to go into the nose-eyers. But first, it's without the nose-eyers, just the animal in them is going to sense. When an earthquake is about to come, they sense away before it trembles. You see it? So that energy of Mother Nature is shifting at a such low level of sensitivity

then we see, then we hear things. Humans are so obsessed with dog, quote unquote, intelligence that looks like our intelligence. Like if I see another video of like how many words a dog can learn or, you know, dogs doing tricks or walking on their hind legs, none of that impresses me. I also like cephalopods, octopuses.

I have a couple of them. actually, and I'm fascinated by them. And people think they're extremely intelligent. And they may be, but I'm interested in their intelligence. You can find a video of a guy who taught an octopus to play a piano. But if you look at the training process, it was just shaping, right? Repetition. Or this and reward that.

That video, I'll go on record saying, totally unimpressive to me. It tells you far more about the trainer's willingness to painstakingly shape an animal. than it does about octopuses at all. I mean, I'm not saying an ant or a plant could have learned to play the piano, but what he did could be done with a horse if it just had big keys. So there's nothing interesting about this,

but humans, we seem obsessed with transferring our, let's keep it to first world because that seems aligned here, our first world understanding of what intelligence and knowledge is and skill is and putting that onto other species. and it's crazy.

It's crazy. It doesn't reveal anything except our own short-sightedness and stubbornness about being unwilling to think about these other ways of communication and moving through the world.

Is that self-oriented first versus pack-oriented? You know, what is what the pack needs versus what is what you want? Right? So that is more like when the human just wants a baby, for example, and they get a dog.

Humanizing a dog is a good for the dog, no, right? It's not good. It's good for the human. You know, it's good for the human fantasy and fulfillment, emotional fulfillment or whatever thing they have in their mind. But is it good for the dog to be a human?

Why would he wants to be a human? Why don't try to do the same thing with a cat? Because what they say is, it's a cat. So you can't humanize a cat. You see what I'm saying? So the cat sends the human a hell, right? Yeah, because the cat only comes whenever he wants to come.

So you can influence anybody. who doesn't want to be with you. Right? The dog, you have to teach them to live without you. Right? He has to learn to keep you distant because he's a pack-oriented. So you can influence a dog much quicker

than you influence a cat. Right? You can't influence anybody who doesn't want to follow you. How do you feel about cats? I love cats. I love all animals. You know, I was going to invite you to the wrench

because we have all the species and we can assess and evaluate your dog better, right, with the chickens and the dogs and the different species so we can see the prey drive. you know, and you can, you, you are going to be able to see, do you have a dog with prey drive and how do we block it, right? Or you have a dog with play drive and you just leave it open.

Oh, I'd love to bring Strummer out there. Yeah, yeah, it's a good place because your dog gets to interact, not just with dogs, but with other species that trigger that prey drive. Very, very important. Because what makes your dog social is that he learns to accept others. See, I don't want a dog that has a, a protective drive. I'm not interested in that, right?

I just want a dog that accepts everybody. Yeah, and that's a dog that is going to give you zero lawsuits, zero liability, right? Because he accepts everybody. Oh, yeah, I know people in California in particular whose dogs charged other people lawsuits. Yeah. Like, even if they didn't bite, it's, that's a whole thing. And it can be a las abso. It can be a dog that was not meant for protection.

But because it doesn't have rules, by the limitations, he doesn't walk in, you know, every day, the dog is bored, confused, or frustrated, and then he releases that because he's a predator, dog by nature is a predator, they're going to move forward to release energy. You see it? But you want them to move forward with the right state of mind, right? Or when you tell the dog to move forward, right? That's just discipline. But people don't have that kind of understanding, and the dog end up doing whatever they

want, so the dog end up, you know, putting people in a lawsuit, which another another a place where the dog doesn't know, you get in zoo about it. So he's not going to, oh my God, we're going to lose money. You know, the dog is not going to understand that concept. As humans, we project so much onto other species, other people. And in the backdrop of everything we're talking about, I'm hoping that people are seeing the ways in which they can show up into circumstances with more calmness, especially if it's not reflexive.

You know, before every episode, I pray. I do. I ask for certain things. I try and to open up certain things so that I realize not all of this is under our control. That's my belief. And to try and invite certain things in. So it's not reflexive. I do it as a, you call it a discipline.

I'm happy to do it. But I think people assume that you're either calm or you're an anxious person. People assume that their dog is either calm or anxious. This is a terrible misconception. I think we can become calmer regardless of where we are in our natural levels of anxiety. But animals do not. We'll never choose anxiety or be a living in inches life.

We're the only species that follow unstable leaders, right? So to be the pack leader in the animal world, you have to be the most patient, the most calm, the most confident, the most loving, the more joyful. Everything has to be at 100%. Then you can be a pack leader, right? And your job is to resolve problems. That's practically it.

So the least thing you can do is to bring problems, anxiety, fear, insecurities, all of that stuff is something that you bring back home. You don't want that. So before people hit the door coming home, they should do a check-in with self. Just do a little prayer, too. God, just let me be silence, calm, confident, love and joy to my dog. That's it. I want to practice. No, don't you not talk.

No, I contact. And just help my dog to come. calm down and then I'm going to give him affection. I'm not saying that to give affection. I'm just saying give affection to patience and calmness and open mind, right? Because when you, when your dog misbehave, you want them to go back there. Go back to your good state of mind, right? You don't want the dog to do fight flight avoidance. Those are the bad state of mind. The good state of mind is patience calm surrender or happy or lucky? Those are good state of mind. I think here I'm projecting a lot and assuming a lot, but I think a lot of people deep down,

I think they probably like that their dog is so quote unquote happy to see them at the end of the day. Excite. Because I think many people feel devoid of real love and connection and the idea that they're fur baby. I really don't like this term. They're not babies. Yes, they have fur. But like, I think out of respect for animals, we have to remember that they're animals first. When I first heard you say, like, they're, you know, their spirit, animal, you know, species, and then breed and then the name.

It was so helpful for me because I don't want to get into it here because it's not directly relevant. But in science, I've worked with humans, worked with animals. And, you know, I stopped working with animals because it was really hard on my soul. Yeah. I understand biomedical research. I understand when it's a whole other discussion. But even just the way that people would start to talk about animals. Like, we work on them, not with them.

And this is a complicated issue we could get into some time. But I started to realize that we start using words to either dehumanize or humanize animals. And both are terrible. So when I heard you give this description of, you know, spirit, animal, et cetera, he's saying don't humanize these animals because it makes them feel unsafe. Yeah. Or confused. Or confused.

Yeah. And years later, I realized. again, with all due respect to biomedical research and the need to make discoveries, I do think there's too much animal research that's unnecessary, these kinds of things. Some is essential, but, et cetera. But I realize there we're dehumanizing animals. And I thought, oh, my goodness, because I had this incredible contradiction in my mind. It was a real soul dilemma.

Like, I love Costello. I, it was like he was a family member. And I was willing to do all this work on myself. and with him. But in my profession, I was observing things where I thought, this is not okay. And I stopped. I'm going to work with humans. Even saying I work on humans, you hear scientists say, it's terrible, terrible. And I think words matter to humans because they shape how we behave. It's correct. And so I'm noticing a theme throughout today where you have words and simple ways for people to remember. No look, no touch, no speak, right? Exercise, discipline, then affection, et cetera. That's telling people stuff in people

language. But the level that you're really interested in and you're trying to convey is the animal experience and then the spiritual experience. I'm not trying to psychoanalyze you here, but this is the structure that I hear emerging. I think will be very useful to people because we're going high level, low level all the time. So if people could start to think about themselves in this way and think about their animals. Why not? I think a lot of people are going to say, oh, no, I come home and I want to be loved by my fur babies and I want them to, and I miss you, and I want to do FaceTime with you.

And like, you know, and I think people genuinely, however, want their animal to feel safe. They want their animal to feel secure. Number one. And when I think about real love, it's about safety and security first. So for someone that has, like the other day I was in the hospital visiting a friend and the woman behind the counter we were talking. She said, I have two Frenchies. I said, well, you work long shifts. She goes, yeah, they're home alone.

I come home. They're pooping and peeing. I feel so guilty. That's right. And my first thought was, you shouldn't own those dogs. But she's in love with the dogs. I thought, well, okay, so I passed along a little bit of what I learned. And she just said flat out, I can't do it.

I can't do it. There's no way I could come home and they're going crazy and I'm an excited. to see me that I couldn't just pick them up and they just hold them. But it's making them anxious. She's nurturing. Yeah. The same nerves that is helping humans to be healthy. She's helping her dogs to be unhealthy.

It's so contrary. That's exactly what you were going through, you know, working with humans versus working on humans, right? So she's helping other species, right? But the species that she's in love with, she is not. But that's because the story she is accepting in her head. She's agreeing with that, right? I have so much guilt that I can't stop it, right?

Because that's what she's trying to do to numb her guilt. When I was growing up, most people didn't have dogs in our neighborhood. Suburban neighborhood, there are a few dogs. Now everyone's got a dog. It's like having a phone. Everyone's got a dog. This doesn't seem like a good thing. It's a great thing for me because I love to teach people, you know, about energy, philosophy, and actions.

I want people to have a trust, respect, love. the most incredible relationship with a dog. A dog really makes you a good human if you do things right. And then once you practice that, you can just give it to other humans because it makes it tangible. Is energy really work?

Yeah. What about if I have a good philosophy? That really works. Yeah, it works. What about if my actions are good? That really works, yes. Now you combine the three and watch what your dog does, right?

And then you go and do the same thing with other humans. Right? So you create this beautiful, trust, respect, love with humans. connection, communication relationship, you go and create safe peace and love environments. Horse people are really good about safety, right?

So the priority in the horse world is not love. The priority is saved. So a horse person is gonna teach a child, don't scream, no touch, no eye contact, right? So the kid will learn that with a horse, you have to be quiet, calm, and wait into the horse give you the signal. And the same person will go and teach the kid

with dogs ask if you can pet them. Right? But because in the horse world, safety is number one. How do you keep a horse calm and you wait? And then the horse come. How do they walk a horse? The horse is right next to the human, never in front. Right? So people can, people, you can see a little kid walking a horse. You see it? And the horse is behind the kid, not in front of the kid. But first is the meeting. And then the third thing is feeding.

the horse. If the horse is too excited, don't put the hay yet. When the horse comes down, then the hay goes down. The meaning, the walk, and the feeding. Incredible. And they're big, so we have this natural respect for them that people don't necessarily have for a dog, but a dog obviously can bite, you know. But why not have that respect for someone that we say, you know, a dog is a man best friend? Yeah, the dog has the best titles of all the animals on earth, right? The dog. But when it comes to the actions, We don't honor the dog because we want the dog to be a human. We don't respect the dog because we want the dog to be a human.

When you honor and respect somebody, you honor who they are. You respect who they are. You learn about how they are, and that's what you love. See it? You love who they are. You don't love what you think. You love who they are. And you don't try and project that there's somebody else.

I think some people making assumptions here, but some people will hear some of what we're talking about today, and they'll say, oh, well, that's how I should become the PAC leader. With people, I should never let anyone walk through a door before me or something. But the point you're trying to make is that human to human is different than animal to human. You don't just transfer the same thing. Some things transfer, but other things don't. I've worked with non-human primates before.

It's interesting. A lot of people go to the zoo. I'm not a big fan of putting large carnivores and primates in zoos. I'm not. I want to be clear. I don't, you know, I have issues with that. But people will smile at the monkey or they'll go like, you know, e, e, e, e, e, e, e.

For a macaque monkey, bearing teeth is aggression. So a friend of mine, she's an animal behaviorist. And she said, oh, no, if you want to do an affiliate behavior with a monkey, you lip smack, which sounds kind of cute and funny. And people go, oh, but you could tell somebody that a hundred times. and they'll still go, it's like we want to project our own understanding of what we think is going on.

And even in the presence of knowledge, your dog is going to feel more safe and secure and happy if you come in, no look, no touch, no speak. There's something about the human brain where we just want to project, no, but I want my experience. And it's an incredibly selfish thing. It was really the realization for me that's very selfish of me to come home

and want a certain kind of interaction with my pet, Costello, but to put the interaction in the terms that work for me. And I said, you know, this is the first time I owned a dog. Everyone in my life for the longest time, they're like, you're never, I was talking about it since I was a kid. You're never going to get a dog. I waited until I had the finances, until I had a home. I waited.

I'm very proud of the fact that I waited. I desperately wanted an animal for so long since I was a little kid. I had fish and things like that. But I wanted a dog. I knew at the time when I got a dog. him that it was the right time. Yeah. But I had to be very careful because I wanted it to go so well that I found myself projecting.

What if he doesn't attach? And there was all this stuff. And then I read your book and I realized, if I want this to go really well, I have to get out of my understanding of what I need on my terms and start thinking about what he needs and I need in his language. And it was like this light bulb went off. I'm just, you know, this is really a statement of gratitude that hopefully will be informative for people because we, the human brain just is like, no, I want to be loved. And so I'm going to do this thing that's actually harming the thing that I say is my fur baby. Like, no one would ever hurt their fur babies, but they're doing it by projecting human stuff.

Anyway, I'm telling you what you already know, but it's just something I really want to underscore because people hear affection last. Like this is just a, you know, guys being like, I'm alpha. No, it's the complete opposite. It's about respecting the animal. Yeah. It's about safe peace, trust, respect. Once you have those two pillars, then you bring the love.

Because that's what you want to love. You want to love the trust and respect. Not because you love people, you trust them. Not because you love people, you respect them. So love is his own energy, his own identity. But you want to love trust. You want to love respect. That's what you want to love.

You want to love a place that you feel safe and peace. That's what you want to love. That's the land part. land part, right? And then the relation tries respect. Then, you know, the way you experience the world, body, mind, heart. Right. So at least those three things. Just do it that way, you know, just put love at the end. It won't hurt you. It will only make you wiser, right? It will only make you more patient, more, more, more, more calm. And you will see the outcome. The reason why I said, no touch, no talk, no eye contact is because if you want to touch

a back of the pack dog, he's going to run away. If you give eye contact to a front of the pack dog is exactly what the monkeys is it means it means fight when you're looking at somebody I want to touch him right and then when you talk to a to a middle of the pack you're going to get him very excited so if you practice no touch not touch no eye contact to any position of the pack what you're going to allow is no eyes ears to come to you you see it so you're going to create a law of attraction the dog is going to come to your smell and then he's going to assess and evaluate can I trust can I respect do I feel safe You're a peaceful human.

That's what you want them to know about you. That you can be trusted, that you can be respected, that you can be a safe source, a peaceful source. Then once the dog, you, okay, yeah, you have that. Then the dog is going to sit right next to you. It's going to do this or it's just going to relax. As soon as he gives you that, that's when you give love. So it's nothing wrong if you wait a little bit, right?

There's nothing wrong. You're just following the steps. You are the one who's being disciplined. You see it, to be a good leader, you have to be a good follower. So you have to understand the power of calm surrender. You have to understand the power of patience. If you don't understand that, you're going to be a terrible leader. So I'm not telling people be a pack leader just because you're the doggone.

No, no, no. I'm telling what it requires to be a pack leader. The highest level of patience, the highest level of confidence, highest level of confidence. And then knowing when to give love and know when to celebrate. Love, joy, it's a celebration energy. This one is direction protection. What do we want of our PAC leaders, like politicians? We want to have an America that feels safe peace.

We want to have a Mexico that feels safe peace. We want to have Argentina that feels safe peace. We want to have a Colombia that feels safe peace. We want to have a Venezuela that feel safe peace. Otherwise, we can feel the love. We want to have somebody that we trust and respect so we can love them. Right? That's what we want.

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seem to get there by projecting the most confidence that nothing can phase them. That seems to be the competition. on both sides of the political line. It's like who is more certain of the statement they're making? Correct. This is like, and this is like,

just seems to be the thing we select for, not the traits you're describing. Yeah, my theory is as to why that's so, but I think we can all look around and see how that's going. I just got back from. We can learn a lot from animals, right? I think all leaders should show us, you know,

themselves with a pack of dogs so we can assess and evaluate their energy well. You know, because they say the philosophy we want to hear, right? They always talk great about, the intellectual part people want to hear. But then the energy and then the actions, that's what we end up seeing at the end, right?

Look at Mexico, right? We always, oh, a woman president. Mexico is going to be well-taking care. Same. No safe, no peace. No trust, no respect. It's the same. It's a continuation of the same philosophy.

But they're all saying great things. You see what I mean? I don't like the dogs. I say, you know, listen, I'm going to bring you back your silence, your calmness, you surrender. That's my contribution to you because your humans made you a fight flight avoidance.

And boom, I don't say nothing to the dog. I just feel it and I do it. I skip the saying because they don't care about what I say. They care about what I feel and what I do. The human cares about what you say. So you can just brainwatch the human all you want, lie to the human,

and the human will vote. We're the only species that fall unstable leaders. There is no species that will vote for somebody that has unstable energy to begin with. I don't care less what they're saying. I watched that series on Netflix Chimp Empire. It's fascinating.

You know, it's very hierarchical troops. And the alpha occasionally will feel like he's losing some control over his troop. And he'll go on these displays where he starts breaking trees and beating his chest. And they look a lot more like humans. Humans look a lot more like them. But I saw an interview with Jane Goodall. You've probably seen this where they said, you know, what is your favorite thing about them? And she says, no, dogs are my favorite species.

You can really trust them. All right. The chimps are like humans. They're way too much like us. They lie. They cheat. I mean, if you watch Chimp Empire, brace yourself for, you know, when they decide they're going to ostracize a member of their group. That's right.

It's, they make them suffer an extended punishment. It's brutal. And that's the primate brain. Sadly, humans were supposed to move beyond that. That's our role. I'm making the assumption that some people either have a dog or they're thinking about getting one. Correct. Preparing oneself for every interaction sounds like the thing to do until it becomes reflexive.

It also, it's a lot of work. Like you describe a brief prayer at the door, setting intention. I think that's awesome. Yeah, good habit. waking up in the morning, I will say hello to Strummer. I take care of myself first, move about. If he has to use the bathroom or something, I'd let him out right away. But he waits and then he gets up and we do our thing.

But the temptation to walk over there and just he's, you know, he's sleepy. He's a bulldog. He's calm and should just grow. Like, because I love him. My heart fills when I, you know, walk in the room with him. Yeah. I think this is the thing that a lot of people are challenged with. But they're like, so, for.

For me, temporarily breaking down my notion of cuteness was very important. He doesn't understand cute. Right. He has no concept of cute. He only understands what he understands. I'm the one projecting, but he's like, I want to cuddle him and I want to play with him. I confess this is easier for me to do now that I've done it with one dog before. It's much harder my girlfriend to do.

She's like, she gets pulled in. We joke. You caved to love. We joke. It's like we caved to our own feelings of love. but it can damage the safety and the general pack order. And then people think, oh, pack order sounds like not love. Could you elaborate a little bit on why it's so important to stay in the frame of,

we're really asking humans to think more like dogs, but to behave in a way that is somewhere in between? 80% of my clients are women. 80%. When I go to, you know, their home because I like to assess and evaluate the dynamics inside the house, the dog is in the front, wife is number two, kids are number three,

husband is in the back, back of the pack. This is in the United States. Yeah, yeah, yeah, the United States. So why the dog is in the front? She puts him there. Why? Because she only practiced affection.

And why the husband is in the back? Because she practiced rules, boundaries, limitations with him. You see it? So look, look, so she is capable to practice leadership but she practiced with the wrong member in the house. The dog needs the leadership, right?

Because why did they call me? Because now the dogs can walk them. You know, the friends' kids can come to the house. The dog steals food, right? Or the dog barks at the neighbors. Right? They don't have the ideal life that they chose or they thought they were going to have

by having this labradoodle. it should be the easiest one, right? Because those two breeds are practically, you know, the epitome of, like, most dustled breed. I know. Right. I tell the Labradoodle people, like, try raising a bulldog mastiff from eight weeks on.

You'll learn a lot about yourself. It's a different strength. Yeah. Right. So this breed should be easier because it's designed to be easier. But because they only practice affection first, or only affection, the dog end up going in front of the pack.

So this is what happens when people wants to practice affection first or when they prioritize affection to the dog. But to the rest of the pack, it's very clear for me that she practiced rules by the limitations to the husband. He has to do whatever she said,

but the dog doesn't do whatever she says. So that we have to change. You know, we have to help people to understand And it's not that love is bad. It's just, why are you giving love too? I'm so happy you're raising this. I think some people will say, well, she has to treat the husband basically like a child because he's playing video games.

I'm making the assumption here that we don't know what the dynamics are between the husband and the wife. And I have a lot of married couple friends where it seems very balanced. I don't know what happens when I'm not there, obviously. But I know somewhere, yes, indeed, like there's some infantilization of the male. But he does that to himself too. Okay. He's behaving like a kid.

Right. Or I also have seen very balanced and I've seen where it's a bit more of kind of the structure I grew up in, at least for the early part of my life. Maybe it's because my father's from South America, but until my parents split, it was like my dad was the dad and then it was my mom and then, you know, and then there was the kids. And sadly, we didn't have a dog. Right. But things are very different nowadays.

Yeah. Right. And so I'm trying to remove any assumptions that the dynamic between the husband and wife are that way solely because. of one or the other, it's, there's an agreement there. It's correct. There's always an agreement. Yeah.

The agreement is that he surrender. Yeah, that's the agreement. At one point, you don't want fight flight avoidance, so the guy end up surrendering. But the dog didn't. The dog took over. And you also don't want so domineering that she's in flight, flight surrender either. Correct. We don't want that.

That exists too, and that's bad also. Yeah, my relationship now with a woman is I have a good instinctual relationship, right? because my masculine energy is the one who gives direction protection. When before, I used to follow this concept of happy wife, happy life. How can I make her happy? She has to make herself happy. So I end up surrendering to everything she wanted. And so this concept of happy wife, happy life didn't work for me.

And so I just went back into, okay, I'm just going to be confident and attract a woman that wants to be calm surrender to this area, which is the instinctual area. Spiritually, we're the same, emotionally we're the same. Financially, you know, we're the same. But instinctually, that's the part that I couldn't just not be masculine, right? Or come confident. I just couldn't.

And that's, it works beautiful now. Oh, it sounds like you've hit. Hit the bullseye there. Actually, since we're talking about human relationships, I have a friend. He has a very happy, very successful marriage in the real sense that you walk into their home. They have a couple of kids.

One of them has some special needs, but that they're managing that well. The home is very balanced. They seem very, very happy. And he was giving advice to some other guys. And he said, among the women that would be, like partners, good partners for you. You have to make a decision about how much you want somebody who's going to give you

instructions versus leave you alone versus wants, you know, some direction. It's a very edgy thing to say, you know, at the time now you can have these kinds of conversations. Yeah. Yeah. And it was very interesting. There were three other guys at the table, none of whom are married, including me. And we each had different answers to that question.

One said, yeah, I want somebody that I can like really be in like kind of wants to be led. Right. Not subservient, you know, obviously respect and kindness. But the other one, he said, I want someone who's like really going to like keep me in line. I was like, I was very shocked. I was like, this is incredible. But he was being, he was being honest. He wanted someone who was basically going to like keep him out of his childlike nature.

Okay. When the childlike nature wasn't going to help keep the structure of the home. I think it's a very important thing. this notion of we don't have good words for this to keep us off of the barbed wire. Like we hear dominance, hierarchy, and it sounds like control. It sounds like subservience. It gets into notions of like all sorts of things. But this is a fundamental aspect of the human spirit.

That's instinctual part. Like I said, we can both love God at the same level. We can love love at the same level and we can all develop our intelligence at the same level. But when it comes to instincts, that's the only area in my life that I know that my calm confidence is going to lead my pack, right? Because that's what I do with dogs.

That's practically it. I walk a pack of dogs, so they all got to go into a calm surrender state. And so in my house, I wanted the same thing because I want her to feel safe peace. I want her to trust respect. I want her to love that about me. But I have to be that man

that has a high level of things. patient, high level of calmness, high level of confidence, high level of love. I need to earn that position. I don't just want it. I earned it. But I need to have a woman that understands, you know, that that's what I'm looking for. Right. Yeah.

Instinctually, not in the mind, not in the heart. It's temporary. No, no, no. This is permanently, you know, your instincts. And I will provide safe peace. I will be a peaceful man, a safe man to be with, a trustworthy man. a respectful man, a loving man, right, smart man. I will always work on having good energy

and only follow good philosophy and only doing good actions because I want that position. Did you take some time before your current relationship after your divorce to sort of feel into this and think about how you were going to be that? Or is this something that you decided to evolve in the... I realized that I was picking the wrong woman.

Right. I was, I couldn't understand why I can pick a dog and making the perfect dog. I can pick a perfect dog for you. Like I can go pick. I couldn't pick up the perfect woman for me. I just want the one for me, right? What I think is perfect for me. And so I had a trouble because I had the wrong philosophy inside my head, you know, what a man should do or what a woman should do. It was the wrong philosophy, period. Once I changed the philosophy, and then I went, okay, I just, I need to find a woman with this spirit, with this instinct, with this heart, and with this mind. So I was more, like, clear, right? Okay, now I know what I'm looking for. Right.

And she's a back leader, but not in the house. She's a pack leader. She has three restaurants. She has a lot of money, right? But she earned it. She did it on her own, right? And that was it. She came, said, I just want to give you my calm surrender.

I said, that's all I want from a woman, you know, to have a beautiful relationship. So she knew that she wanted to be in the role that she currently is. Yeah. Also. Like there was a knowledge of self going into it. Yeah, because when she's, you know, she's doing her business, she has to be a pack leader. They get tired of being pack leaders, right? They just just get tired of like, I don't want to, you know, give direction and protect.

section 24-7s, even at home. So at home, she just wanted somebody to give her safe peace, trust, respect, come, surrender. She needed to connect to her instincts, right? It was important because, you know, she connects to God, so she's come surrender to God, right? So she's come surrender to the business. But she needed to be come surrender to a man. But it has to be the right man. So I was the right man at that time, right?

Because I earned the position. You know, I didn't just, machismo is you're not earning the position. You're just a man and da-da-da. No, no, no. When you're a good pack leader, you earn the position. You know who you are. You value who you are, and that's what you love. Self-knowledge, self-value, self-love.

So I did my rehabilitation for me because, you know, even though my grandparent and my father taught me well about animals, they didn't tell me well about women. They said, you make money and you get whatever you want. That was it. Yeah, that's an incomplete. How do I assess and evaluate this, that's the right woman? How do I do I make sure I do good connection, communication relationship?

Everything I teach with a dog, how can I achieve it with my same species? Right? But I didn't receive information. I was just given a project. And I accomplished it. I became money, fame, power, and I just went and grabbed whatever was available. Well, I can certainly say might, well, just be direct. Yeah, please.

I mean, I think my parents split because of a power struggle about roles and power. And my father's from a Latin country. My mother's not. But irrespective of that. It didn't matter. I used to think that was the reason. Now, fortunately, they both remarried. They've been remarried for a very long time, very happily to have a new partner.

And my sister and I always say, like, they're like with their perfect fit. it just like works because of exactly what you're describing these these dynamics yeah i mean i think i didn't say it but i saw online at some point um someone said you know the way you destroy a country is to get the men and women to hate each other and we see that a lot now um i like to think maybe things are improving a little bit but so much of what we see because of anger at leaders there's frustration with, you know, social dynamics and belief about what people can and can't become. All of this stuff has led to this place of a ton of distrust, but the power structure is all messed up.

Yeah, they fight flight to avoid each other, right? But they say they love each other. And they still, because there's an instinct there, they still desire each other, right? I mean, men and women are still seeking to be together, but you hear the, you know, all the guys are like kids and you hear the, all the women are, you know, they want something that they, you know, can't be achieved in this common thing. And, you know, and, I mean, confusion. Yeah, a lot of confusion.

And, of course, I know some very happy couples where they've worked it out. But the roles in those couples seem very, it's like they're being themselves, and it just works. Yeah. Yeah. I just don't want to think about it.

I just want to feel it, right? I just want my spirit, my instinct, and my heart. And I know what I got to do anyway, around 56. I know what I got to do. But I just don't want to have a five flight avoidance at home. right? I just don't want to have that ever, ever, ever, ever, right? So it's very clear to me,

you know, that what I'm looking for is exactly what everybody looks for in a relationship, human dog, safe, peace, love, trust, respect, love, body, mind, heart, exercise, discipline, affection, follow, play, explore. Everybody wants the same thing. They just do it with a different species. I want to be able to do it with a different species and my own species, you know, and I'm the happiest I ever been. Yeah, yeah. You breathe and exude happiness. I have to say it's real.

It's tangible. It's amazing because I was already happy with my goal in life, right? My dream was to become the best dog train in the world. And I became the dog whisper. So I train humans. I don't train dogs, right? So this dream was bigger than what I thought. But then I couldn't have a good relationship with a woman,

which was fascinating to me at the day. that time, why I have five flight avoidance. Why I don't have come surrender, happy, go lucky, come confident. Why don't? I'm not saying my woman is not calm confident towards me. If I'm wrong, and then, yeah, she can, you know, give direction protection. But if I'm not, there's no need. So that makes me a very consistent man with my role. That's it. I keep my peace. I keep my patience, my calmness, my confidence, my comfort, my love, much every single day of my life. I don't miss one day if I don't feel good.

You see it? I internally, I'm 100. Because with people, it only takes once to be on the receiving end of an outburst to just, there's always that little asterix

going forward. I share with you the deep desire and fortunately I have it now to not have fight or flight at home. Or from a dog either. Or from a dog either, right? That's scary. Exactly. So I'm guessing that the home you grew up and had a fair amount of fight or flight. Otherwise, maybe that would be.

It was very machismo. You know, my parents still married. But that's all, you know, it was, it was this way or that's it. You know, so it was definitely a more like sadness, right? Because my mom was not allowed to do her own self, you know. And so that's obviously not healthy for the dream of a woman. Right. So she has to, you know, have. of just be a mom and stay at home. And it was, it was hard for her, you know. Yeah, but that's, that's all I saw, you know. Yeah, when my dad will discipline, we're disciplined with anger. And when my mom would discipline, were disciplined with guilt, you know.

And that was it, but it worked a little bit. Then I come to America and there's, ah, it's a completely different way of looking at things. You can work on your energy, you can work on your philosophy, you can work on your actions, and then you can become just as good as you are with a dog. Because I have an incredible relationship with dogs, right? And I'm an incredible relationship with God because he definitely allowed me to become what I dream about, right? And I came and did it in a different country.

I have to learn a different language, right? And then I went all over the world. That was God, right? me following the spirit and the instinct. Now I can tell you how I did it. But in the beginning, when I jumped the border, it was all spiritual, it was all instinctual. It was all passion.

It was not the mind doing it. It was just my spirit and my instinct and my heart just following this dream, right, and adapting. I have to learn this, I have to do this. But then at the same time, I saw a lot of great things in America. You know, like you can be you.

Oh, yeah, you can be you. It's great. This is a good philosophy, The stoics, that's a great philosophy, right? And then your actions, okay, and just walk, shoulders up, head high, breathe, walk. And that's your body language, you know, also exudes what you're thinking and what you're feeling. And because I'm with dogs all day, I just keep that energy 24-7. It's beautiful.

The, as a practical tangent, the thing about just shoulders back and walk, and walk. I think it's funny to see when people try this, they're like, like, I'm going to be the back leader. That doesn't work. And I'll tell you, it really doesn't work with a Bulldog Mastiff. No. Can't fake. If you get frustrated with them, they feel it and they pull back. It's wild.

They just can feel it. Like if you're frustrated, let's go. It's like, no, I'll sometimes give a little bit of a stern. I have one little command that I occasionally use. I keep its potency. But if Costello or in this case, Strummer is really being stubborn just for, stubborn sake, I'll do, and that's it. Yes. That's all it takes. But if I do that more than three times on a walk, it loses its

potency. It's just my way of saying like, no. It's just a no. Yeah. But I don't say no. And if I were that, and I'm realizing as I say this, that little is probably more of a reminder to myself as much as it's a reminder to him. It happened to both. Yeah. I'm just kind of trying to create this thing like, no, we're going, I lead this walk. You need this walk. I need this walk. I need this we're doing this walk. And he just, he goes. Now, it's a little bit tougher when my girlfriend walks him,

he tests her more. So can we talk about that when a dog is in a very respectful of one person, obeys the boundaries, but then to other people, they're acting out. How should that be remedies?

If the three of us walk together, for instance, he'll do whatever she wants. With me, he does whatever I decide. Yeah. Okay? But sometimes with her, she'll say he was great.

No, he was really difficult. how does one facilitate that? I think the first thing women have to realize is how much they are in their emotions and how much they think about things. Right? So, you know, the fact that we go into the silence and the calmness

and just we follow through is that's the spirit, the instinct, and the mind. And that's what's walking the dog. But in my experience, women go into the emotional vibration, And then they said, Castello, and they begin to have an intellectual conversation.

So the dog knows that that human is only using half of who they are, which is the heart and the mind, right? And so it's very important for women to remember that spirit is a powerful thing. And say, how are I going to practice silence? And instinct is a powerful thing. How I'm going to practice? Instinct, breath. You're calm inside, right?

And you just want to go from point A to point B. Very simple, very practical. You're not negotiating. You're not looking at anything else. You're not distracted. You're just going for the task. And then the dog just follows that silence, the kindness, and the confidence. It's when the human doesn't use that vibration,

that a dog has an option to get distracted, to do other things, to go away from the routine or from the structure, from whatever you want to do. But at the same time, the same woman can write a horse. And in order to ride a horse, she had to be quiet, confident. Oh, yeah. My first girlfriend was a, she had horses at home. Yeah.

They had a stable below their home. They actually weren't that wealthy, but her dad actually had like not even a junior high school education. He came over from Greece, he became a taxi driver, and he was going to give his daughters this life, and they had this horse. And it was incredible to see her, because she's a very, very quiet person actually, very artistic. Yep. And, but with her horse, and he was a wild.

one, he was gilded late, and so it was a whole thing. And her in the presence of that horse, like she just understood, because he was dangerous. He was actually a dangerous animal. And a totally different side of her came out. And so the first time I realized that I was like, I mean, I was a teenager, right? But I was like, she has this immense power. That's not like the kind of power that we think about. Of course, women have power.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, all this, but it was a completely different landscape. And I was like, whoa. I mean, first of all, I can't do that. Right. I had to learn to be around him. Right. But just the level of calm and confidence to clean a horse.

Like, you know, a horse can kill you. Yeah. Right. But if you walk around going, oh my gosh, this horse can kill me, it does not go well. But exactly. You know, so what we have to remember is the human part before the gender, right? So just go back to your human. Can a man and a woman ride a horse?

Yeah. Why? Because they're using the same energy and the same philosophy. in the same actions. So it's because it's a man or a woman. No, no, it's because they're using the same energy. So it's a human thing, right? Not a gender thing.

Right? So I invite, you know, my female clients to, don't forget, you also have this confident inside of you that your dog needs, right? Craves. And especially in Europe, because most of the time people call me, because the dog is in a fight state, right? So most of my cases are aggression. And so in your case, you have no choice.

you have to lead the pack. And the only way you can lead the pack is with calm confidence. You love the pack with love and joy. So you already know how to do that, right? You have to tap into what people call masculine energy. Right?

So can a woman ride a horse? Yes, she has to be in this energy to do it. You see it? She has to. So they just have to learn to recognize, okay, I'm not changing me. I'm just using everything. everything about me.

Right? It's like a man. Can a man use the feminine side? Yes, you can. Of course, you have it. Right? Is you love joy. And your masculine is your confident.

Silence is for everybody. It's your patience. Right. So silence is before. Calm confidence or love joy. And this is what they call feminine and this is what they call masculine. Right?

So it's however you want to call it, just be the whole human. Use your spirit. Use your instinct. Use your heart. your mind. Trust, respect, love, and then do whatever your mind wants to do. It has nothing to do with women or a man.

But if we divide and we see each other different, no, it's because I'm a woman, I have to be emotional. Yes, you can be emotional at the right time. Just like a man can be emotional at the right time. Nobody's saying not to be loving. What we're saying is how to use this energy for good, where you reward good behavior on humans and good behavior on dogs with the energy of. love, right? If the energy of love can change bad, it would be no bad man in the world, right?

Because moms normally give you love. But love doesn't change the bad energy. It's the confidence that changed the bad energy. The idea that, you know, society is broken, humans are broken. I mean, there are a lot of problems in the world right now. Purpously, by the way. Tell me more. If we get the wrong information, we're going to be no connection, communication, relationships. So how can we become powerful? Right?

Because when we unite and then we become powerful, the PAC unites. But if the PAC is separated, the PAC fights, flight and avoid each other. Right? So purposely,

we get the wrong information. That's why my goal is to give people the right information. If you have low money, middle class, rich, that really doesn't matter. We should all know the same thing about dogs.

We should all know the same thing about God. We should all know the same thing about Earth. All of us. It has nothing to do with what position in the back you are, economically speaking. See it? So what is that world looks like? Well, that word looks like like all humans around the world, regardless of the economical position,

they're all going to have an amazing relationship with dogs. How? Because they all have the same information. That's it. I love that. I mean, I feel like we're drifting further and further away from ourselves as a species. And what I'm hearing is that looking, at our interactions with this other species, dogs, and looking at our practicing our ability

to get outside ourselves and tap into other aspects of ourselves. Like the need for calm confidence when we just want to be loving, that's really about wanting to be loved. Yeah. You know, the person coming home is not, it's not that the dog needs their love. They can hear, oh, you know, actually the dog needs calm confidence. But I translate it as, no, that this person just feels so tired at the end of the day. what they need is something that just adores them.

Yeah. You know, and the whole process of Raisin Costello was one of reading your book, really, this is why you're here. I mean, because I saw and experienced so much value from your teaching, and then realizing that if I really want to get what I want, it means building the relationship means not doing this thing in the moment.

I'm thinking about the whole relationship, safety first. And so it's this kind of, counterintuitive thing of needing to go against self in the moment to create the sort of picture where you get so much more and everybody wins. There is a version of everybody, including the dog's wins. Everybody wins. But it requires a level of self-discipline, awareness, calmness, breathing that I think many people, and certainly in that time I felt like just so much constant pressure to do, do, do, so there's a certain amount of slowing down and self-awareness that's required for everything that you're describing. What is your,

practice for that on a daily basis. I mean, you're a master now, right? You're a virtuoso at this. But for the, I would say, there's unskilled, skilled, master and virtuosity. You're up here. Back in the back of the back, right. But so for somebody that's trying to move from unskilled to skill in the domain of like slowing down, thinking about what the priority in this interaction is getting all that working while life is happening in real time, lots happening. And it's coming through the phone and this and that, schedules. How do you recommend young or old that people start to cultivate this awareness and this. I think the quicker we become aware

what is life about, right? Because we're all going to die. And so what is life about? And life is about life, right? Life is to be happy, to be healthy, to be loving, and to be smart. That's life. And then it's time, how you structure,

how you manage time, right? And then it's memories. That's all you take. Once you realize those three things, I think you're going to be able to focus and experience life the way animals do, right, because they're very grateful of life. They structure time time they're time they're time they're doing good memories, right? Because that's all you take good memories.

And so the quicker we surrender to that concept, the quicker we are going to focus on what's valuable, right? and things that we can definitely practice that this concept of love, right? And so that to me is be grateful of life every day, be thankful of life every day, you know, learn with your mind to learn, to achieve, give it away. It's very important to be at service and make other humans, you know, or animals,

you know, achieve what you just achieve. And of course, you know, the energy of love, to love those three things about it, right? Your spirit, your instinct, and your mind. Learn to love that about you, because that's who you are. So who sees the Milan? Sees of Milan is a spirit.

He's an instinct, he's a heart, and he's a mind. Right? So then, man, I value that so much. And that once I value that, it's easy to love what you value. You see it? It's easy to love what you value. And so once you realize this natural,

simple, profound self, you wanna give it away. I give it away to dogs. And because I do that, I get to rehabilitate dogs, the people unconsciously have confused. See, because dogs in America, you know, dogs in the world country are skinny,

but they don't have psychological problems. Dogs in America are chunky and I get to have a TV show. So dogs in America should be the happiest, healthiest, loving, smartest dog on earth because dogs in America have rights. You understand that concept, but why would a guy from Mexico comes to America and National Geographic gives him a TV show?

Because America created five flight avoidance unconsciously, even though America loves dogs more than any other country I've ever seen in my life. Dogs have birthday parties in America. Dogs have Christmas presents in America. Dogs get merry in America. Dogs get married? That's, you know, taking the humanization to another level. But that just shows you, you know, the creativity of human.

But not because the dog has all this money, fame, and power, the dog is happy. My goal is for people to understand that, you know, happiness and health and having a good heart and having a good creative mind. It shouldn't take too much, right? It's just about being grateful, right? It's just about being thankful. It's about loving those two things. And then make sure that your mind, learn, achieve, gives it away, or learn to turn it off. So don't use your mind to think bad things.

What's your process for turning off your mind? This is a very common challenge for people. I think the easiest way for people to experience because they have to see it, right? You can tell people that, da-da-da-da. But if they don't see it inside, they're never going to understand what you mean. So what I help people with is I put them in the cold plunge, right? And once they go through the five-flight avoidance, they want to see, and they get to the calm surrender. What are you thinking?

I'm thinking nothing. That's exactly what a clear mind looks like. Right? So through that cold plunge experience, the human gets to understand breath, patience, you know, confidence, and not to think anything because you're doing this with your spirit and your instinct in your heart.

Your mind just have to wait for the three minutes. That's it, without anticipation. So there's just nothing there. And then, of course, the call doesn't let you think. right but the only thing you can do is breathe right wait and so then once they see it okay that is the meaning of not having nothing in your mind right so I make them experience it versus if I just tell them they can't picture it as somebody who's a real believer as you probably know in deliberate cold exposure I mean I think it's it's people it's zero cost I mean you

use a cold shower yeah you know it saves on the water bill so this isn't like having to run out and buy something, what it tells me because the cold plunge immediately, reliably releases adrenaline, which then wakes up the brain as well. Does your instinct. Shuts down the forebrain. It's fascinating that you're saying this because the forebrain is strategy, et cetera, but in the first 20 or 30 seconds of deliberate cold exposure, the prefrontal cortex, which controls all the top-down inhibition of impulse, is it's not shut off.

but it is greatly diminished. You can't strategize well. You're just thinking out, you know. So you're saying people need to get past the point where they're trying to suppress impulse, but they need to experience adrenaline. That's right. Got it.

Yeah, that's right. And then they get to peace. Yeah. Yep. And that's the energy to bring to your interaction with your dog. Yes. And ideally to your spouse and your kids too. Everywhere.

Everywhere. So a human after a coal plunge brings that energy. You don't have to talk. Everybody knows your energy feels really good. All because you went to Mother Nature. Right? That was Mother Nature. Coal.

Right? It's water, coal. That's Mother Nature. Right. So imagine you bring that energy to meeting a dog, to walking with a dog, to feed in a dog. That's it. That's all I want people to experience because everybody wants to,

oh, they want to do that. Right. Or they want to do, I'm not aware of how I feel. I just want to give affection. You see it? So that is good for the human, not necessarily good for everybody else, because that human is spreading that energy. So my goal is for people to spread, you know, silence, calmness, confidence, love, joy.

Because that's exactly how you feel after a cold plunge. Exactly in three minutes. You get into that stage. You have to learn to love, you know, the process of, I'm going to fight flight avoidance. But I'm not going to listen to that part of me. I'm going to listen to my calm surrender. I'm going to listen to my calm confidence. And then once I finish, I'm going to listen to my happy Golaki.

And that's all you want. That's it. Those three state of minds are super powerful. You know, I've thought a lot about deliberate cold exposure, adrenaline, norapinephrine. You get this long arc of dopamine that lasts hours and hours and hours afterwards. And then my critics will say, well, it's just dopamine in the body, not in the brain. Actually, new finding show it's dopamine in your brain and body.

Long arc. Very few things produce this. thing of long-lasting dopamine. Drugs will spike in drugs. Well, good relationship with a dog is long-lasting dopamine. You know, a well-balanced dog is a long-lasting, whatever you want, you know.

I hope you want the four worlds. Your spirit, your instinct, your heart, and your mind, all of them by walking. Just walk with the dog for a long period of a time. Then you do your play, explore. That's the best medicine

any human can get. It's the amount of peace that I still get from my relationship with Costello. I mean, he's passed now, but he's still, you know, leaving his spirit is, I mean, it makes me well up, you know, not enough sadness. It's like I can feel the love of the relationship. Right.

You know, I had to ask and on my list, and I'm going to ask, is this the right time, I believe? So as Costello got to 11 years old, it's pretty old for a bulldog. That's right. He had some sort of spinal stroke. he couldn't walk, he was falling over. I was like distraught, how can I get this fix? And at some point I realized, you know, when people say,

like, they'll let you know. Yes. I had a feeling and then a thought, and it went something like this. I made a contract with him to take care of him. Yeah. And in the contract of being a really good dog owner, but like mostly in the contract of the relationship,

I owed him a peaceful exit. Hey, to go into the vet, so I got someone to the guy. come to the house and do this thing. Most people, they hate the concept of death, especially in family members or a dog. And I think it would have been useful to me to understand the day I got him, that someday this is going to end. Yeah. And I think, like, this thing about honoring death as a real thing is so important because

that last two weeks was a real struggle between me and myself, my desire to just keep it going and I realized I was being selfish. It was about me. And of course, I gave him the best passage I could. And people in my life who knew me and knew my relationship to him, they said, I actually can't believe you did it. I'm surprised you were able to. But the moment I realized, like, this is the final line

in being in the contract of being a really good dog owner. I was like, oh, of course I have to do this. So no one likes this topic. But given where you're from, what is your relationship to the company? concept of death as it relates to dogs. And the question is very specific here. Do people say they know, they'll let you know?

Yeah. The question I want to know is, is it okay to show your dog sadness? Or does it make the dog that's dying more anxious? With my kids, you guys have two kids, and, you know, obviously we have a pack of dogs. They have experienced dogs passing. We always make a celebration. I always bring them to their favorite place. So I definitely bring more the energy of happiness.

And I ask my kids, if you're going to cry or whatever, just do it away from them. Otherwise, you hold them. Right? So I want them to go back. That's why it's so good to think, to believe in God, because they're going back to the source. So they're way better with him. I did my homework right too, also. So I feel really good that I gave the best life for that particular dog, right?

And so when it's time to go, they tell you. They tell you they can, you know, as many, many signs. But at the same time, you know, when it's the day, is everybody happy. Everybody's happy. We're going to dance. We're going to celebrate. We're going to, you know, it's a ritual. You can make a sad ritual or you can make a happy ritual.

You see, it's time for him to depart. It's time to go. So when I die, I want everybody to be happy. I don't want no sadness. I, listen, my life is beyond. on what I thought. Right? So I give that same life to a dog.

Same. I'm very dedicated human. Seven days a week, even if I don't feel good, it doesn't matter. I go and walk that pack. I'm very committed, right? It's all about honor.

It's all about respect. That's my way of showing my heart. And in my mind, I don't have one day that I did wrong by them. So when it's time for them to go, it's time for them to go, but we're going to make happy about it because they're going back to God.

That's how I see it. And, you know, as you're talking about, Spirit never dies. You know, Spirit never dies. And there's an opening for me to help another soul and another soul, because that's why I'm here, right? I'm here on earth. My time can be used wisely to keep helping.

And that's what I find, you know, my inspiration, motivation. That's it. Beautiful. Not what I expected, and I'm so pleasantly surprised. Yeah. Yeah. It challenges me to even say it because he's still so new, but when Strummer dies, the last

out 24 hours of his life will be a celebration with him. Yeah, celebration. All right. Yeah. It's a happy spirit, you know, sing, laugh, dance, you know, just happiness. Because once you start going like this, they don't, they get worried, you know, and then the spirit lingers. You don't want it.

You just want to go, you know, and for them to, you know, and for them to, you know, give you direction, protection. This, you know, I have a big pack on heaven. You definitely have a big pack waiting for you. When I go home, you know, I'm going to have the, you know, how many dogs do you have saved my life? So, yeah, I'm going home. I love it.

You know, Earth is a beautiful home, but it's temporary. Yeah. Well, I believe this too. Yeah, it's temporary. I've talked a bit about my faith. Now it's not the time, but I'm, you know, my audience knows I'm very, very much in agreement. that, you know, this is an amazing phase of us,

but it's not the only phase. And so if people are feeling sad, like, you know, the number of people I know who turn to their dog for emotional support around a loss of a loved one or a breakup or loss of a judge is, the world, whatever. Yeah. What is your stance on that?

It's bad because they're passing that energy the dog doesn't know what happened. But, I mean, obviously, they're going to help you absorb the energy, but after you did that, just take him to the beach so you can let go to the energy. Same thing when you bring a dog to a hospital, right, and the therapy dogs. They go to hospitals, you know, kids with cancer, da-da-da-da-da-da.

Depressed people, blah, blah, blah. That dog absorbs that energy. Okay? Just like you will and absorb people's energy. Your job is to go and let it go. So every time you give bad energy, you know, help people or help dogs to get rid of that energy that is not healthy for them. Yeah. Utilize it, you know, is available.

But again, you can also go and take a co-planch before you hug the dog. And that way you kill that energy. You know, kill bad energy. Just kill it. And only give good energy to your family. Give good energy to your home. It's discipline.

It's easier to go and throw that negative energy that you just grab. It's easier. But then you spread that whole thing everywhere. Oh, man. I saw in so many laboratories where the boss, you know, brilliant scientists. I'm thinking about one in particular.

and they would do this, like, what I would call trickle-down anxiety. They'd be stressing. They'd walk through the lap, stressing out. Graduate school is already hard. Especially in the, if I may, in the sciences. Yeah. Very, very hard. Very competitive.

Postdoc is even more uncertain. Like, you don't get a degree at the end. You're investing five years of your life. You know, and to walk around, the boss, walking around, like, making people anxious. Yeah. Terrible. The other thing that was terrible was walking around making people feel overly confident. People would do that, too.

So everything you're saying, it's like you could, see it in these very hierarchical human relationships. But I think with dogs, we're so, I'm just going to say it. I feel like we are so selfish as a species, like that these animals are here for us and just for us to give me love when I get home, to console me when I'm sad, to give me all the things I want, that I would be blind to the basic needs of that animal. It's really as it's as selfish in my opinion as saying, oh, these are, animals that we work on that just serve our purposes to advance our careers or scientific understanding.

And again, there's a place for that, but we have to be incredibly nuanced about where that's appropriate and where it's inappropriate. It's just a selfishness. The selfish part and the unselfish part. So what I'm saying is don't forget, you know, to be at service before somebody is at service to you. Right. So the spirit instinct, love to be at service. And then the love and the mind loves to be served. So this is your selfish part of it and this is your unselfish part of it. You see it? So you're here to serve God

and you're here to serve earth. All right. So you don't forget that, right? To be at service because they skip it. So once you go directly to the heart and the mind, this is what I want. I want my dog to love me. Okay, fine, you just skip spirit and instinct.

Right? Because a spirit will never bring bad energy to the heart. and instinct will never bring bad energy to the mind. You see? So if you remember that you are four things, and this is what you want to give to your dog, to yourself, to your house, to your family, and then you're going to be focusing on making sure

you snap out of it, whatever, like you do on yourself, to snap out of it, right? And then you go bring, you know, patience, calmness, confidence, love. And then you go hug the dog. So you also have to learn to snap yourself out of it from whatever energy you went and attract. It's like stepping on poop. You got to remove your shoe before you walk into the house.

Otherwise, you bring that scent. So energy is the same way. It's like poop on your feet. Bad energy is the same. You're going to spread it all over the house. Your plants are going to die. Your dogs are going to be like, okay, this energy is not good. And then your family will get it.

So you're going to enter into this dark energy. These days on social media, there's so much I'm realizing about the low-level stuff. Like, you should never hug a dog. You should hug a dog. You should never pick up your dog off the ground. Yeah. It's okay to pick up. Your dog should never be in your bed.

Yeah. Your dog should be in your bed. You see all these contradictions. You see the same thing in the health space. Yeah. Like you should coal punch. You shouldn't co-plunge. You should sauna.

You should. Like, it, and it comes down to a basic fact, which is that it's not about the practice. It's the principle behind it, the spirit behind it, the energy behind it. So I was tempted to ask you, like, is it bad to pick up with a dog? Actually, Strummer loves being held. Right. He's basically happiest, just being carried around. But I know I don't carry around too much.

But it's funny, he just drapes. He's so happy that way. He wishes he could go through the world that way, frankly. It's not about carry or no carry. No. It's about what is your energy? Why are you doing this? Is it for you?

Is it for them? Correct. And if the dog feels, because you know, you can ask a groomer or a vet, they have to carry that dog. But they can't carry a five-flight avoidance. Right. They can only carry a happy-go-lucky one or a calm surrender one. So it's nothing wrong hugging a dog. It's nothing wrong.

It's nothing wrong. It's what state of mind the dog was in? when you did this is more important. Right? Because what about if a dog is in a flight state and you want to carry him? He's going to feel a trap. And then the dog is going to bite

or is going to pee or it's going to scream, right? So you could prevent that just by not focusing on what you wanted to do is the dog that you want to do that in a calm surrender state. Right? Can the dogs stay on the bed? There's nothing wrong, you know,

sharing your house with the dog. It's think about invading versus imbiting. Okay, so when the dog goes on his own, he's invading. When the dog is waiting, then you tell him to come over and you tell him where to go, that's being invited. So that mind is going to become surrendered. The other one is going to get territorial. You know how many times I have rehabilitated dogs who claim people's bed where the husband can't come near the bed because the wife and the dog were already there? I done a rehabilitation where the husband slipped in the living room for three years because

she wanted the dogs to stay in the bed. And when every time the guy came into the bedroom, the dogs were after him. I'm sure everyone is thinking, what did he do wrong? You know, we're living in this time now where there's this projection of like, well, he must have done something wrong. I can also imagine the situation you just described where no one did anything wrong except give the dog too much power. Correct.

That there's actually, let's assume there's no problem between the couple. Correct. She would like the husband in the bed, perhaps.

But the dog is somehow picking up on something. No, no, she said it clearly to me, I just don't want him on the bed. The husband? Uh-huh. Okay, so the dog is basically

taking advantage of the open slot. Well, listen, let's say you guys want to spend 20 minutes on the bed, let me show you how to do it. And so that's what I, I thought the dog is just to wait. Wow.

Right? But she needed to make sure that she agrees with agreement, commitment, follow through. Nothing can happen without agreement. So she needs to be in 100% agreement. Otherwise, the dog will not do it. They really can sense any kind of small fraction of... Your energy goes down, they're going to take over. Your energy goes up, they're going to move away.

Right? Your energy have to be bigger for you to create a follow. If your energy goes down, you follow them. Simple is that. Simple as that. You just have to remember energy, right? And then if you want to lead, this is the animals. You can lead humans lying to them all day long.

But with animals, you can. You have to bring the perfect energy, the right energy, an energy that belongs to all of us, right? Your patient energy, you calm energy, you're confident energy, you love energy. We all have that inside of us, right? God gave us all the same thing. That's up to you.

but do you go from the back of the back to the front of the pack? That's up to you. Right? But you have patience, calmness, confidence, love, joy. Because that's how you're going to deal with life. Right. So with animals, it's a perfect way

to maintain this, you know, within yourself. Right? It's like a gym, going to the gym every day. Right? But it's just the gym. It's Mother Nature, the beach, the streets, whatever. You're just walking around with dogs in a natural, simple, profound way.

And that's it. And then you go to work. So imagine if people develop this beautiful habit, okay, I'm going to do what Caesar says, you know, silence, calmness, confidence, love, joy for 30, 40 minutes, and then I'm going to feel the silence, the confidence, then I go to work. Right? And when I come back, not touch, not talking, no eye contact, sending my dog back in her, and then I can do the greeting.

Then I go for another walk, right? And then you can do the play and explore. No bad behavior would happen in your house. with that simple formula. I love it. I hope that people start to think about their dog and getting a dog as more of a gym as opposed to,

we're going to get a fur baby. I have to be very careful here. This is truly not about my household, but I have a friend. She's married. They're going through some struggles. They have two kids. And she told me the other day,

they never had a dog. She's going to get two husky puppies. And I said, do me a favor. just get one. In six months, but they want each other. This is not. And the kids are young.

And I know the struggles that they're having. They're both overworked. They're under-resourced. So this is, and they love each other very much, but this is like a really hard situation. Right. And I'm thinking to myself,

I want to be supportive. And I said, do not get a puppy now. And if you do, do not get two puppies. This is like insanity. Like you want to, like it could break your family.

or, and she said, but I promise the kids. Oh, break your heart because you have to get rid of the dogs. So this, she said my, it was a story. It's very interesting. She said, when I was growing up, my parents would make these promises and they wouldn't do it. And I told, and it broke my heart and I told my kids they could each get one. And I said, well, you have no idea the kind of heartbreak that are going to experience when you have to give them both back. Yeah.

Because one is biting the kid or one is, you know, like, and she's like, oh, I wouldn't work out. And I was thinking myself, and you're already under resource. Yeah. I share this because I'm realizing throughout today's conversation, our concept of dogs and what they owe us is completely backwards. She's a very good person. Yeah. I won't state her profession for states of, but she's in a profession of intense service all day long and has. I've known it for more than two decades.

But the concept is these puppies are going to come here and rescue us. Yeah. This is like the feel or fulfill. The dream that I had. Yeah. Right. With prior to, you know, with my parents. More love.

Just more love can't be bad. More love can't be bad. Yeah. And they're huskies, right? And they're huskies. So this is a breed that love to migrate longer than any other breed in the world. Right. So walking is one thing.

Migration is another thing. This is why I got a bulldog. You see? That's why I got a bulldog breed bulldog. I didn't get a purebred bulldog because they have issues. Yeah, they have issues. But, yeah, a dog that needs to migrate. How much walking do they need per day?

How long? And especially a pack. So the bigger the pack, the longer the walk. Oh, no. They both work. You can also let her know, hey, begin with fostering. So that way they get to know themselves as a family. Is everybody in agreement?

Is everybody understand what the rules, boundaries, limitations are? Is everybody understand what the responsibilities are? Can we all see our good habits and our bad habits? You know, do we all follow through? So with a foster dog, you're not adopting it. You're just temporary keeping them in that house. So the dog gets, you know, a home and a family. it doesn't necessarily have to stay in that house.

But the human gets to learn about themselves before they enter into the purchase or the adoption. Right? So to have two puppies, Huskies, you've got to have to purchase them. Right. And so she's going to go and to make a purchase and then eventually you realize we were not ready as a family. In my mind, I was ready.

But in the whole pack, we're not ready. Right? And the puppyhood is from birth to eight months. So in a matter of six months, you have a dog that is this big who's an adolescent now. Right? Now you got to think about spay and neuter. Because if you don't, then you deal with the, you know, the hormones and then they can start fighting with each other.

What's your take on spay and neuter? Well, in America it's necessary because dogs are not going to mate. And so, and they spend a lot of time indoor. So I neutered Costello. Yeah. I put him on testosterone therapy his final two years. Vets that I knew said we would love to be able to do that more, but there are reasons we don't.

With Strummer, I thought, keep him intact. Then people say, oh, but then they're going to mate with all the dogs in the neighborhood. You can also give a dog of asectomy. There's very easy procedure. It's funny we don't do that. I learned that in Australia, it's illegal to not neuter your dog. In Scandinavia, it's illegal to neuter your dog. Yes, right.

What in the world is best? Well, it depends on the place, right? Because in America, without a doubt, since the dogs don't go out as often, they rely on the human. Dogs in our country, they're not neuter. But they're not looking for trouble. They're not, you know, they're made when the female gets in heat. Otherwise, they're busy looking for food and water.

So, you know, as long as you use your energy for survival purposes, you're not going to develop frustration. So what happens, you know, when a... a dog is intact and they don't get to walk enough and they don't get to be challenged enough. And then it all goes into the arouse and the whole day, they're excited. And people go, oh, baby, the thing comes out. Right. And then the dog gets excited.

How many, I don't know if you ever seen it, but I've seen it a lot. Dogs humping their owners or those humping furniture in the house. I mean, Costello tried to hump me once. Yeah. It never happened again. I just made it very clear that was not okay, and I used isolation. I just put him back in a thing.

I left, came back. I sent him the message mentally, energetically. That's never happening again. It was very stern. It has to be clear. Day one. So that happens on day one, but a lot of times people go,

ha, ha, no, no, no. So they more celebrate that, right? And so they end up in a celebration, and it end up funny, but the dog end up becoming more and more aroused about the humans. So now he's mounting, which, as you know, is a sexual and its dominance, you know, behavior towards the human. So in America, definitely a dog needs to be neutered more often.

Plus, we have an overpopulation. Right. You know, millions of dogs die every year because there's an overpopulation problem. And that's taxpayer money who pays for the killing of dogs. So it's important that we regulate. That's the only way you can regulate that. I see these crazy things on Instagram. Someone says, when you pet your dog, it should be slow.

No, when you pet your dog, you should rub. I'm guessing it doesn't matter. It's the energy behind it. Yeah. I mean, you obviously don't want to push against the fur, but somebody was saying, you know, all people are like petting their dog too fast. They don't like that.

Is this just people making stuff up? Look, so if a dog is doing agility and a dog is like excited because he's doing agility, pet him hard, but him fast, because you want him like that. But if you want the dog to be in a restaurant, pet himself. So it's dependent on what you want the mind to feel. You see what I mean? You don't want to pet fast in a restaurant, you know, and slow and agility.

So it's not the action. It's what are you petting? Makes total sense. Makes total sense. I mean, a soft, strong, calm, you know, calm. Restaurant means calm. Agility means call for it. Yeah, not for it, right?

It's like what FIFA is doing right now. everybody's excited. Nobody's like, you see it? With barking, I learned from your book, like if Costel, when he was a puppy,

he could let it out. Yeah. And the temptation is to say, no, but why would you shout back to a dog that's vocalizing? So I would just walk away and then when he was quiet,

I'd come back. There you go. And then pretty soon he realized nobody wants to be around a barking dog and somehow he knew instinctually that if there was a threat or someone, you know, he sends a threat, a bark, he only would bark once. He had this, oh, I mean, he had this like, I mean,

man, he was a beautiful specimen, I have to say. He was just so beautiful. But his barks were like a bass drum. But it was one. And then we just, but he would never just sit there and bark. I think a lot of people, their dog barks and they talk to their dog. So presumably, the dog is barking because that's what gets them some sort of feedback attention. That's right. That's right. Or the dog is also his only way to drain energy. Right?

Like when my dog obsessively bark, how often do you walk? Once a week, twice a week or whatever. So the barking becomes a way of draining energy. Or like destroying your house, you know, a destructive behavior. Why would a dog destroy where he sleep? Well, because he doesn't do much with his body in his mind. So he has to drain that energy. And that's what we call destructive behavior.

But people don't understand that we're not, we're in a way practicing destructive behavior by not doing what we're supposed to be doing, which is walking a dog every single day. At the moment they wake up in the morning, they stretch. The second thing they want to do is walk. Should you wait for your dog to get up? What if you have to go to work? Should you force your dog to wake up and walk? I certainly would. They're daytime animals, so the biology is definitely, as soon as the sun comes out, they should go.

They should go. This is what we do with Strummer, even though. Bulldog. I mean, they'll sleep until 10 a.m., but we have to work, so we take them out. I don't take care of it. It's easier. It's actually better, right? Because it's like, I got to, but then you drain the energy quicker.

Yeah, it's way better because you want them to stay waiting for you in a resting state. So it's five body motions the animals do. They stretch as soon as they wake up, right? Walk, run, rest, sleep. So a lot of times when you don't walk the dog or run the dog and you want the dog to wait for you, he can't go into a resting state. You see it? So it's very important that we follow the five body motions

because every single animal, as soon as they wake up, they stretch. The bird flies, right? And the dog walks and the rest of the animals, the water animals they swim. Right. So there is a formula that they have. So we want them to wait for us. We have to leave them in a resting state.

And that's the meaning of waiting state. That's it. but they can't wait or rest if the body in the mind has not been drained. And another reason why the walk is so important because the walk is the only activity from play and explore that gives them calm surrender. Play and explore gives them an excited energy.

Do you recommend walking them on the same path, novel path, giving them new? In the beginning, yes, the same path is important. They create trust to the environment. But once they know it very well, well, you have to change it. Yeah, and you don't have to change, like, even going on a different direction.

You can just come outside and put food in the floor and tempt the dog to want to smell and correct them. So that creates a challenge. You see it? So you learn to ignore food in the floor. And you see it? So you start creating your own Universal Studios. So your whole house or your whole environment becomes your own dog psychology center where

you're challenging your dog, you know, to not get bored. Because they learn a pattern really fast. and once they learn it, there is no growth. So then the mind gets also frustrated, bored, or confused because there's no growth. I love it. I train Strummer to run on the treadmill for little rewards here and there are intermittent reinforcement.

And he loves it. He runs now, he jumps on, he gets on that thing. It never occurred to me to do this, but I realized that we're in California, it doesn't rain too often. But even when it rains, I want to have something where I can get his energy out. If there's fires again, I don't want to be outside, Anyway, so glad to hear that the treadmill is okay.

You know, the first treadmill I saw, remember the show, the Jetsons? Yeah. With Astro? Jetson. Yeah. Yeah. That was the first dog I ever seen on a treadmill, and I was a kid. Then I come to America and I see a whole bunch of treadmills, you know, and in people's garage, and I say, do you ever put your dog on a treadmill?

And I said, no, can you put a dog on the treadmill? I learned that by watching the Jetsons. Oh, very cool. Then I came and practiced it in America because people just had the treadmill, but they were not using it. Wow. You know, so that's when I started putting dogs on a treadmill. And people were just fascinated. But I say, listen, this is not for you to stay lazy.

Right. This is just for emergencies, okay? And for you to challenge the mind and, you know, and that's it. But it's not so you don't walk. Yeah, I do a walk with him, then bring him back. And then if he still has a lot of energy and I have to go, I get him going fast on an incline. Yep. Get him right to his threshold and then play with it a little bit.

That's right. We're done. Like, we, I've been trying to share this thing with him. Like, we, this is our thing. And now he loves the treadmill. He, we're dying to get on the treadmill. So if people become more like personal trainers, they will challenge the dogs a lot more like a personal trainer.

You see it? So they will be able to, you know, challenge the mind and challenge the body. Challenge the mind, challenge the body. It's a personal trainer, right? But people don't do it. You know, they don't do these other titles, right? I just want to be a dog lover or the mom of this dog or the father of this dog. Yeah, you can also be a coach.

You can also be a religious coach. You know what I mean? A spiritual coach. Intellectual coach. I mean, don't forget that it's four worlds. It's not just the emotional world. And that's the only one you want to practice because that's the easiest one. Right?

To love a dog is so easy, you know, to challenge him, you know, spiritually and instinctually and intellectually, that requires creativity. Yeah. That's a great relationship. Yeah, so awesome. It's good for you. Yeah. Because if the dog is doing great, that means you did great.

So it's a reflection of you, right? The dog is a reflection of you, your energy, your philosophy, your actions. So every time you work out with a dog, you're working out with yourself. It's just in a natural, simple, profound way. That's it, you know, which is about trust, respect, love, safe, peace, love, body, mind, heart. Just simple stuff, right? And that creates the off leash. That is, you know, the ultimate we should all accomplish.

And you shouldn't pay for it, right? I'm not trying to get my, you know, colleagues, the dog trainers, not to get jobs. But it's kind of silly that you hire somebody to teach a dog off leash. You earn that. That's something we have to earn. It's good for us to earn, you know, that trust, that respect, that love. It's good. It's a good exercise.

It's a good workout. That means you use your spirit, your instinct, your heart, and your mind, every single day of life. That's why that dog behaves that way. You see it? They keep you on track just to live a natural, simple, profound life. And when you're having a hard time in life,

that's where you want to go. To your natural, simple, profound. You know, never let this one go. So to have a good relationship with a dog is automatically let you have a good relationship with God. They're together. We're the only one that separates them.

We're the only one that separates everything to create chaos. We make a lot of things up. What I'm hearing today over and over is that if you obey the spirit, you obey the instincts, ours and these animals, dogs in this case. And you put that first, then all the other stuff about, pet not pet, pet, not the pet,

like all the other stuff falls into place. But it's a moment-to-moment thing. It's a daily thing. There isn't a, well, I love my dog. It loves me. That's a story that's partially true. But there's actually, if I'm editorialized a little bit, there's actually a fair amount of abuse of the animal in that situation.

It's very self-servant. There's abuse of the animal. But when we align all those things and we start from spirit, it all kind of falls into place. But we have to be vigilant. And we have to basically train ourselves. This is all about training ourselves. That's why I train humans, rehabilitate dogs. That's my job.

I train humans, rehabilitate dogs. You don't have to have a dog to talk to me. because, you know, learning how to be with a dog is learning how to be in life, period. Right? It's good for you to be a PAC member, a good PAC member at home. You need to know what is your position

and just contribute to the family, right? And bring good energy, good philosophy, good action, even if you're in the back of the pack or the middle of the pack or the front of the pack. It's not only the front of the pack that has to have good energy. It's because he's in that position, he has to be the fittest, right?

Fit is not only physically, but spiritually. instinctually, emotionally, and mentally, you know, with the body to take care of all those four energies. Right. So otherwise, it doesn't matter what position you are in the pack. Bring good energy, good philosophy, good actions. Right. And one way that you can achieve this every single day

is having a great relationship with a dog. It just makes you a good human. Everybody wins that way. It's not about training the dog. It's about training the human to be a good human. Right? And then that human is going to have good everything because that's what his energy and philosophy

and actions are all about. So imagine if the world is led by good humans. Yeah, that's a beautiful image. Yeah. Well, Caesar, I am immensely grateful for you coming here today. Thank you. You are incredibly knowledgeable, incredibly wise. Your energy is tangible from the moment somebody meets you.

It's a real thing. I can say that, having experienced it, in the room. I'm sure people listening are hearing it and feeling it as well. You also have an incredible relationship to the spiritual of animals and humans and a real, what I hear is a wish for humanity and for animals and your relationship to the things that are timeless. The past, the present, what happens next is really incredible. I said it before, I'll say it But again, three different ways for the multi-generational purpose of it. You're the man.

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