Huberman Lab - The Science of Gratitude & How to Build a Gratitude Practice
Episode Date: November 22, 2021In this episode, I discuss the science of gratitude, which has been shown in peer-reviewed studies to have tremendous positive effects on mental and physical health. I explain, however, that most comm...only used gratitude practices are ineffective (such as gratitude lists). The key elements of highly effective gratitude practices are described, including the essential need for story (narrative), receiving or perceiving gratitude rather than giving it, and the role that theory of mind plays in this context. I also discuss why we can't simply make up feelings of gratitude and how reluctance undermines the process. I also explain the neural circuit mechanisms that underlie the reductions in fear and increases in motivation and lowering of inflammatory chemicals that effective narrative-based gratitude can trigger. Throughout the episode, I use the science of gratitude to design a brief but highly effective protocol. For the full show notes, visit hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1 (Athletic Greens): https://athleticgreens.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Supplements from Momentous https://www.livemomentous.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Introduction: Gratitude Science & Surprises (00:01:50) Controlling Heart Rate with Story (00:04:48) Sponsors: AG1, LMNT (00:09:11) Major, Long-Lasting Benefits of Gratitude Practice (00:12:20) Prosocial vs. Defensive Thinking, Behaviors, & Neural Circuits (00:17:50) Why We All Need an Effective Gratitude Practice (00:21:22) Neurochemistry & Neural Circuits of Gratitude (00:25:10) Prefrontal Cortex Set Context (00:30:10) Ineffective Gratitude Practices; Autonomic Variables (00:34:55) Key Features of Effective Gratitude Practices: Receiving Thanks & Story (00:42:30) Theory of Mind Is Key (00:45:50) Building Effective Gratitude Practices: Adopting Narratives, Duration (00:52:28) Narratives That Shift Brain-Body Circuits (00:56:150 You Can’t Lie About Liking Something; Reluctance In Giving (00:59:55) How Gratitude Changes Your Brain: Reduces Anxiety, Increases Motivation (01:03:00) 5 Minutes (Is More Than Enough), 3X Weekly, Timing Each Day (01:05:44) Empathy & Anterior Cingulate Cortex (01:07:35) Reducing Inflammation & Fear with Gratitude (01:10:56) Serotonin, Kanna/Zembrin (01:16:00) Neuroplasticity, Pharmacology, Brain Machine Interfaces (01:18:50) The Best Gratitude Practices: & How To, My Protocol (01:24:25) Subscribe & Feedback, Supporting Sponsors, Supplements Title Card Photo Credit: Mike Blabac Disclaimer
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Welcome to the Huberman Lab podcast where we discuss science and science-based tools for everyday life.
I'm Andrew Huberman and I'm a professor of neurobiology and
Ophthalmology at Stanford School of Medicine. Today we are talking all about the science of gratitude.
In part, we're doing this because of the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, which of course is all about giving thanks gratitude,
but also because there's now
a wealth of data showing that having an effective gratitude practice can impact a huge number
of health variables, both mental health and physical health in positive ways, things like
cardiovascular health, things like relationships, things like mental health, things like physical
and cognitive performance, and these are not small effects. These are very large positive effects.
However, in researching this episode, I was completely surprised as to what constitutes
an effective gratitude practice.
I, I think like many of you, would have thought that an effective gratitude practice simply
involves writing down a few things or many things that we're grateful for, we're thinking about those, or really
making an effort to some matisize or feel some of the elements of gratitude while writing
out that list or thinking about that list.
It turns out that an effective gratitude practice doesn't resemble that at all.
The neuroimaging data, the physiological data, looking at things like inflammatory markers,
other studies purely looking at the psychology
and the long and short-term effects of an effective gratitude practice
point to a completely different approach to using gratitude
to positively impact health metrics.
Fortunately, these are things that we can all do very easily.
Some of them are actually fun.
You can do them in a variety of context.
So today we're going to talk about the science of effective gratitude practices, and we're
going to describe what those are and how you can incorporate them into your life.
Before we dive into today's topic, I just want to highlight a particularly interesting
set of findings from the literature.
This is a study that came out in the journal Cell Report, Cell Press Journal, excellent journal.
It's very relevant to today's topic.
In fact, we're going to spend more time with this paper a little bit later in the episode. The study involved having subjects listen to a story.
The subjects are all listening to the same story, but those subjects are not listening to it
together. They're not rounded up in a circle or all in a room. They're in separate rooms or
entirely separate locations on the planet, or they are actually brought into the laboratory on separate days.
What this study found is that different subjects listening to the same story undergo the same variation in heart rate.
In other words, the gaps between their heart beats start to resemble one another in response to the same story. Now this is very
interesting. This is a coordination of the physiology of the body in response to a narrative, a story
in different people. And yet when they line up the heart rates of these different people who
listen to the story at completely different times, they find that those heart rates map onto one
another almost identically. It's really remarkable.
We're going to talk about what this means in terms of coordination of neural circuits
in the brain and neural circuits in the body and the organs such as the heart, but also
the lungs and other organs in the body.
What this means for changing one's overall state.
A key thing that's going to come up today again and again is the distinction between traits
which are pervasive aspects of who we are and how we tend to react to different types of
circumstances and states, which are more transient. They tend to, you know, you can invoke a state
in somebody, a state of fear or a state of relaxation. But what this study really starts to point
to is that there are specific approaches that any of us can take in order to really rewire our nervous system such that we are calmer,
if we want to be calmer, in certain circumstances, that we are more responsive in certain circumstances
if that's our goal. So we'll return to how one would go about doing that. I think these results
are just beautiful in the sense that they really show that our brain and our body are highly
coordinated because people are listening to the story and the heart rate is changing
in response to the story.
But that there is a what we call a stereotopy, a sort of stereotype response to a given
story.
In my mind, there was no reason why the results had to be this way.
You know, two people listen to the same story.
Why should their heart rates be almost identical to the same story? Very very interesting and points to the power of narrative and story
Coordinating our physiology and this is something powerful that we can leverage. Before we begin
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Let's talk about gratitude.
And to begin, I'd like to emphasize the various aspects of mental and physical health that have been shown to benefit from a regular gratitude practice.
There are studies showing that performing a gratitude practice twice or three times, or even just
once a week can lead to a pervasive, a long-lasting impact on subjective well-being.
People report feeling happier, more meaning, joy, even awe for their
life experience, simply in response to adding a gratitude practice. The key thing is it has to
be the right gratitude practice, and we're going to talk about what the right gratitude practice
looks like in just a little bit. But there are additional benefits of a gratitude practice.
There are studies showing that a regular gratitude practice can provide resilience to trauma
in two ways.
It can provide a reframing and resilience to prior traumatic experiences, so buffering
people against the negative physiological effects and psychological effects of earlier
trauma, but also inoculating them in many ways to any traumas that might arrive later in
life. So that's a powerful thing.
And today, what we will talk about, how that's actually accomplished,
is actually accomplished by shifting the way that the fear and defense networks in the brain actually function.
We'll get right down into the details of that.
The other thing that a gratitude practice does is it's been shown to benefit social relationships,
but not just for the relationship in which you
express gratitude, right? So on the face of it, you might think, okay, if I express gratitude for
somebody over and over and over and over and over, then I'm going to feel better about that person.
And indeed, that is one effect of a gratitude practice that's called a pro-social or intersocial
gratitude practice. But there are now several studies, recent studies, in good journals, pointing
to the fact that a regular gratitude practice can also enhance one's social relationships
across the board in the workplace, at school, with family, in romantic relationships, and
even one's relationship to themselves, which is really what the subjective feelings of
well-being are.
So, it's clear to me that an effective gratitude practice has an outsized effect on many, many
aspects of mental and physical health.
And for those of you that are coming to this conversation, thinking gratitude practice,
oh, that's kind of wishy-washy or woo, it's going to involve putting your hand on your
heart and feeling into all the amazing things that you happen to have, even when things
are really terrible.
That's not where we're going at all.
And equally important is to understand that the neurochemical, the anti-inflammatory, and
the neural circuit mechanisms that gratitude can invoke are equally on par with some of
the effects of pharmacology of things like high-intensity interval training and exercise.
And other things that we think of as kind of more potent forms of self-intervention.
So if you are of the mindset that a gratitude practice is kind of weak-sauce, buckle up
because the data actually point to the fact that a gratitude practice is a very, very potent
way in which you can steer your mental and physical health in positive directions and
that those effects are very long lasting.
Before we dive into the tools and mechanisms and scientific studies around gratitude, I'd
like to just set the framework for the discussion.
Gratitude is what we call a pro-social behavior or a pro-social mindset.
You can be grateful for something without involving anybody else.
The social part isn't meant to convey anything about interpersonal relations, although
it can.
And today we're going to talk a lot about how interpersonal relations can be incorporated
into a gratitude practice in really powerful ways.
But pro-social behaviors are basically any behavior or mode of thinking that allow us to be
more effective in interactions with other people, including ourselves.
Now, pro-social is not just a name that we give these different tools and practices and mindsets.
They're actually neural circuits in the brain that are specifically wired for pro-social thoughts and behaviors.
And these are distinctly different from the circuits in the brain that are involved in defensive behaviors.
So, without getting into too much detail just yet, we will later, we have circuits in the
brain that are what we call a petitive.
They are designed to bring us closer to things and to bring us into closer relation to the
details of that sensory experience.
Now, that could be a delicious food that you're eating.
It could be interacting with a loved one.
It could be interacting with a friend or anyone
that you happen to like, it could even be
in your relation to yourself.
These circuits that we're calling prosocial circuits,
light up in the brain, if neuroimaging,
meaning the neurons are firing more actively,
more electrically, robustly,
sort of like turning up the volume
on these neural circuits in the brain.
And the neural circuits in the brain
that are associated with aversive or defensive behaviors,
things like backing up, things like covering up
the vital organs of the body, things like a quaking
of the voice, all of the things that are associated
with defensive behaviors are actually antagonized,
meaning they are reduced when the prosocial circuits
are more active.
So the framework here that I'd like to set
is that we have this kind of seesaw of neural
circuits in the brain, one set that are prosocial and are designed to bring us closer to others,
including ourselves, closer to certain sensory experiences, right, because a lot of prosocial
behaviors can also be geared towards things like pets or food or anything that we find
we want to be closer to and want more of, whereas the
defensive circuits involve areas of the brain, yes, such as areas that are involved in fear,
but also areas of the brain and body that are literally associated with freezing or with
backing up.
So, the way to think about gratitude is that it falls under this category of pro-social
behaviors, which are designed to bring us closer to different types of things
and to enhance the level of detail that we extract from those experiences.
Now the existence of these two neural circuits that I've placed on this sort of metaphorical
seesaw, if you will, runs counter to a lot of the messaging or the ideas that were put forth in the last century
about the psychology of happiness and gratitude versus the psychology of depression and struggle
and concern about the future.
Now, I'd like to read a quote from the great, and we really should call him the great
Sigmund Freud, because despite having certain traits
that people criticize him of, Freud was indeed genius
about many aspects of psychology.
But I just want to read you Freud's stance on happiness,
and this invokes elements of gratitude as well,
and then you can gauge for yourself.
Quote, our possibilities of happiness are already restricted by our Constitution.
So, he's saying that we're basically wired to not have happiness easily.
Unhappiness is much less difficult to experience.
We are threatened with suffering from three directions, one from our own body, which is
doomed to decay and disillusion, and which cannot even do without pain and anxiety as warning signals.
Two, from the external world, which may rage against us with overwhelming and merciless
forces of destruction, and three, and finally, from our relations with others, the suffering
of which from this last source is perhaps more painful to us than any other.
That's Sigmund Freud.
And not all of his writings were that pessimistic, if you will.
What Freud is referring to there are those defensive circuits. And of course, he talked about
psychological defensives. And in full disclosure, I am a huge fan of much of the psychological literature
and psychoanalysis of Sigmund Freud and his descendants, Jung and others.
I think there are strong elements of truth there,
but it gives you a sense of the kind of mindset
of psychology early in the last century.
And then of course was the emergence
of the positive psychology movement,
which was really about invoking the understanding
and eventually the elucidation of the neural circuits
for things like happiness and awe and affiliation and things that we are calling
pro-social circuits. So the field of psychology has a darkened light, if you will, and the field of neuroscience has a darkened light.
You have these what we call parallel pathways in the brain, and we have parallel pathways in the mind that set us up for feeling good about things or for
feeling less good about things.
I think what's really salient from the quote from Freud is that what he's saying is our
default is to be concerned about the future to be wrapped in our defenses.
And to some extent, that's true.
And the reason we can say that's true is because most of us need a gratitude practice.
We need to do certain things in order to feel good
and to feel happy.
We actually have to put work into it.
It is quite possible that there's an asymmetry
in the way that these prosocial versus defensive circuits
are set up such that because defensive circuits
are designed to keep us safe, psychologically
and physically safe, that they have more robustness, or they
can actually drive our behavior more easily.
I'll give you an analogy in the system that I'm most familiar with as a neuroscientist,
which is the visual system.
In the visual system, we have parallel pathways.
We have neurons in our eye that respond when things in our environment get brighter.
Literally, when the lights go up, these neurons start firing like crazy.
And we have neurons in our eye that respond
when things get darker, when things start dimming
or go from white to black.
The circuits for detecting darkening
are much more robust and much more numerous
than are the circuits for brightness.
And that is probably related, probably,
to the fact that dark objects or experiencing
looming, meaning incoming objects and being able to perceive them is something that's
vital to our survival.
Whereas being able to perceive the brightening of things might be important to survival in
certain contexts.
You know, car lights coming at you at night or something of that sort, but not as often
in a kind of evolutionary or ethylogical context as the darkening of things. So I think Freud's quote
and the field of psychology now point to the fact that indeed we have the capacity for happiness
and we have the capacity for great worry and concern and depression and unhappiness.
And the neural circuit literature also supports that.
The key thing for today's discussion is that gratitude
turns out to be one of the most potent wedges
by which we can insert our thinking
and as you also see the physiology of our body
between these two circuits and give a little more levity,
if you will, to the side of the seesaw
that's associated
with positive pro-social feelings.
And if you keep imagining this seesaw imagery,
what's really beautiful about gratitude practices
is that if they're performed repeatedly
and not even that often, but repeatedly,
then one can actually shift their neural circuits
such that the seesaw that I'm
calling pro-social versus defensive behaviors can actually start to tilt and the
little hinge if you will on the seesaw in the middle can be adjusted in a little
tighter when the side for gratitude and for well-being and for feelings of
happiness is a little bit higher. What this means is that whether or not Freud
was right or wrong, whether or not the neuroscientists in one camp or another right or wrong, we now know with certainty that a regular gratitude practice can shift the prosocial circuit so that they dominate our physiology and our mindset in ways that can enhance many, many aspects of our physical and mental health by default. So we don't always have to constantly be in practice trying to be happy.
So the succinct way of saying all this is, yes, indeed, we might be wired or in such
that we have a greater propensity for unhappiness than happiness, but gratitude practices provided
they are the effective ones and they are performed regularly, can shift those
circuits such that we are happier on average even when we are not performing those practices.
Now I'd like to talk about some of the neurochemistry and neural circuits associated with gratitude
and prosocial behaviors.
Numerous times on this podcast I've talked about so-called neuromodulators, those of you
that might have forgotten or have never heard of neuromodulators before, neuromodulators are chemicals that are released
in the brain and body that change the activity of other neural circuits.
They make certain brain areas more likely to be active and other brain areas less likely
to be active.
These neuromodulators have names like dopamine, serotonin, acetylcholine, epinephrine, and
so on.
The main neuromodulator is associated with gratitude and pro-social behaviors, tends to be serotonin.
Serotonin is released from a very small collection of neurons in the brainstem called the Raffae,
RAPHE, the Raffae nucleus, and a few other places in the brain.
And the Raffae neurons send these little wires that we call axons out to numerous places
in the brain.
And they tend to increase the activity of particular neural circuits that lend themselves
to more approach to particular types of experiences.
That makes total sense if you think about it.
Have a chemical that under certain circumstances
released in the brain that triggers
the activity of neural circuits that makes the organism
you more likely to stay in an interaction with something
or even lean in and seek a more detailed interaction
with that person-place or thing.
Beautiful work from a cognitive neuropsychologist. His name is Antonio DiMascio. He's a world-class
neuroscientist. It's been in the game a very long time. He has explored the so-called
neural correlates of gratitude. And two main brain areas are activated by these serotonergic
systems. And when people experience something that makes them feel gratitude,
even if it's shallow gratitude or deep, and if it's all the way to deep gratitude,
they see activation of these particular brain circuits, I'll mention in a moment,
and the amount of activation scales with how intensely the person experienced the feeling of gratitude.
And those two areas have particular names, You don't need to know the names,
but for those of you that want to know,
they are the anterior singulate cortex
and the medial prefrontal cortex.
And of course, these brain areas are connected
to a number of other networks in the brain.
In fact, that's how they get you or others
to lean into certain experiences
because when these areas are active,
certain thought processes get invoked.
Those thought processes probably resemble something like, hmm, I'd like to experience
more of this or this feels really good.
And then they literally feed onto your muscles via the neurons, making you happy to stay
stationary if you're experiencing something you like or to move closer to something that
you find attractive to you literally.
So these are powerful circuits.
Of these two brain areas, the one I'd like to focus on the most is the medial prefrontal
cortex.
Many of you have probably heard of the medial prefrontal cortex because this is the area
of the brain that is involved in planning and in deep thinking and evaluation of different types of experiences,
past, present, or future, it seems actually that pretty much every study of a human anything
seems to involve the media prefrontal cortex, or at least one could get that impression just
by looking at scientific abstracts and papers these days.
So I think it's worth us taking a step back and asking what does the media prefrontal cortex
really do?
How could this one piece of neural real estate that we all have behind our forehead?
How could that be involved in so many different things?
The reason it can be involved in so many different things, and the reason it's especially important
for gratitude is that medial prefrontal cortex sets context.
It sets context and it literally defines the meaning of your experience.
Now this is not at all an abstract phenomenon. I'm going to give a very physiological example
of this and then we're going to translate it to gratitude. But I really want everyone
to understand how is it that medial prefrontal cortex sets the context of everything in
your life? Well, it does it the following way.
You have a number of circuits deeper in your brain
that simply create sensations, or they allow you,
I should say, to perceive certain sensations.
Let's use the example of cold exposure,
something that we'd sometimes talk about
in this podcast for other reasons.
If you were to deliberately place yourself into an ice bath, it would be uncomfortable,
even if you're adapted to cold and so forth. The discomfort is non-negotiable. However,
if you are doing it because you want to or because you have knowledge that there are particular health
benefits, the medial prefrontal cortex can then control areas of your deeper brain like the hypothalamus to
Positively impact the neurochemicals that are released into your system. You'll still get a lot of adrenaline by getting into the ice bath
but the fact that you are doing this deliberately and
Your knowledge that you are making the choice that is you that's deciding to put yourself through this discomfort,
has been shown to create a very different and positive effect on things like dopamine,
on things like anti-inflammatory markers in your immune system, etc. compared to if someone pushes you into an ice bath,
or if you are doing it because someone insists that you do it
and you really really don't want to. So there's a very subtle distinction here.
It's just a distinction of motivation and desire or lack of motivation and being forced into something.
And there are a number of other effects of this that have been described in the episode with Robert Sapolsky
that I did earlier this last year. He talked about studying animals,
which has also been shown in humans. If you take a mouse, for instance, and it runs on a running
wheel, which mice really like to do, there are many positive effects on reducing blood pressure,
improvements in neurochemistry, et cetera, in that mouse. However, if there's a mouse in the cage
right next to it that's trapped in the running wheel, and it has to run every time the other mouse runs because the wheels are linked.
Well, then the second mouse that's forced to do the exact same running experiences,
negative shifts in their overall health metrics blood pressure goes up stress hormones go up, etc.
Because it's not actually making the choice.
Medial prefrontal cortex is the knob, or the switch, rather, that can take one experience and allow us to frame it such that it creates positive health effects.
And the exact same experience framed as something we don't want to do or that we are forced
to do can create negative health effects.
Now how exactly the neurons in medial prefrontal cortex do that is rather complicated and, frankly,
not completely understood.
But it's somehow able to adjust the activity of other neural circuits that are purely
reflexive, as we say in neuroscience, like really dumb neural circuits that are just
like switches and place a context onto it.
So, gratitude is a mindset that activates prefrontal cortex.
And in doing so, sets the context of your experience,
such that you can derive tremendous health benefits,
which leads us to the question,
what kind of gratitude practice
is going to accomplish this, right?
Because it is not simply the case that I could take a knife,
don't please don't do this experiment,
and cut my hand, and say, oh, you know, I'm going to enjoy this.
I'm doing this because this is good for me.
And it won't hurt.
Of course, it'll hurt just like the ice bath is cold no matter what.
But I can't lie to myself, right?
If I have some knowledge that cutting myself is bad for me, that's very hard to override.
And so the medial pre-photos cortex
has a tremendous capacity to set context
and it does that beautifully with respect to gratitude.
But you can't simply lie to yourself.
You can't simply say, oh well,
every experience is a learning experience.
Or a terrible thing happens, oh good.
I'm just gonna say good,
and that your body will react
as if it's good for you. That's a myth. And frankly, it's a myth that's fairly pervasive in the
self-help and self-actualization literature. We have the opportunity to reframe and set context
on our experiences, but that requires a very specific set of practices. We can't simply
lie to ourselves, or quote, unquote, fake it until we make it. Neural circuitry is very powerful and very plastic.
It can be modified and it's very context dependent, but it's not stupid.
And when you lie to yourself about whether or not an experience is actually good for you
or not, your brain knows.
So what does an effective gratitude practice look like? Well, let's examine what an ineffective
What a poor gratitude practice looks like because they're in like some really important information
Including the fact that I and I think millions of other people out there are doing it wrong
Most gratitude practices that you see online and that people talk about in various talks and so forth
involve something like writing down or reciting or thinking about
five or ten or three or twenty things that you're especially grateful for and
then really trying to feel into some of those really trying to think deeply about the
into some of those, really trying to think deeply about the emotions, the sensations, the perceptions that are associated with those particular people places and things on your
list.
Most studies actually point to the fact that that style of gratitude practice is not particularly
effective in shifting your neural circuitry, your neural chemistry, or your
somatic circuitry. The circuits in your body, because you literally have organs and neural circuits
that are connected, the circuits of your brain and body toward enhanced activation of prefrontal
cortex, enhanced activation of these pro-social neural networks that we were talking about earlier.
Now, that may come as a surprise to many of you and certainly came as a surprise to me. There is some evidence that if there's a shift
in so-called autonomic arousal during these gratitude practices, these ones that I'm
calling ineffective, that they can be made slightly more effective. So what do I mean
by a shift in autonomic arousal? Well very briefly, we have a aspect to our nervous system, both within our brain and body,
that we call the autonomic nervous system.
It's a little bit of a misnomer because autonomic means automatic, and in fact, we can take
control of the autonomic nervous system.
It has one branch, meaning one set of connections and circuits that are associated with making
us more alert, the so-called sympathetic
nervous system, or I should say sympathetic arm of the autonomic nervous system, but that's really a mouthful. It's really associated with enhanced alertness of any kind for excitement or
fear, and it has nothing to do with sympathy. It's just about enhanced alertness. And then the other
arm of the autonomic nervous system is the so-called parasympathetic arm of the autonomic
nervous system, but that's also a mouthful.
So let's just say it's the calming aspect of the autonomic nervous system, so it's associated
with decreased heart rate, decreased breathing rate, etc.
So we have these two aspects to our autonomic nervous system, and it has been shown that if people are brought into a state of heightened sympathetic
tone, meaning more alertness, then the intensity of the emotions that they experience in their
gratitude practice is enhanced, and the effectiveness of that gratitude practice can be enhanced.
This is seen nowadays somewhat commonly as having people, for instance, cyclic hyperventilated breathing,
as we call it, in my laboratory. Breathing, that's very intense, the inhale, exhale, inhale,
exhale very deeply for 25 or 30 breaths, then people will sit in a meditative stance, or they'll
focus on their on their notepad and paper, and they'll write out the things that they're grateful
for, and then they'll really try and feel into those things, or they'll think about those things.
And it makes perfect sense as to why enhancing autonomic arousal toward more alertness would
create more robust feelings or more robust impact of these gratitude practices.
Because in that state, you are more alert, and therefore you are able to bring more detail,
more richness
to the perception and the understanding of what those things on your list happen to be.
But, and I should say that there are numerous other approaches to this, you know, sort of
self-help type stuff and self-actualization seminars, people will do things like cold
baths or they'll do chanting or they'll have any number of different experiences, all
of which are mainly geared towards increased
autonomic arousal. There are even practices out there using pharmacology to create increased
autonomic arousal and then drop into gratitude. Across the board, those increase the potency of
the gratitude practice of listing things out on paper or in one's mind or saying them out loud.
on paper or in one's mind or saying them out loud. But somewhat surprisingly, at least to me, that form of just expressing thanks, expressing gratitude is not the most effective way to
shift these pro-social circuits in positive ways for one's physiology and anatomy and psychology.
Turns out that the most potent form of gratitude practice is not a gratitude
practice where you give gratitude or express gratitude, but rather where you receive gratitude,
where you receive thanks. And this, to me, was very surprising. There are a number of studies
about this now. One in particular that I think is interesting is called prefrontal activation
while listening to a letter of gratitude read aloud by a coworker face to face, a near study, NIRS.
I'll explain what all this means.
You now know what the prefrontal activation part is.
This is activation of the prefrontal cortex.
The nearest NIRS study, that's just a technical term.
It's a form of imaging brain activity.
It's non-invasive. So it's a kind of a skull
cap. It looks like a hoodie with a bunch of wires coming out of it basically that can
measure neural activity without having to remove any parts of the skull or put a person
into one of these two black FMIRI machines, which is very invasive. It's also a wonderful
tool because it allows human subjects in the laboratory to move around
and to engage with one another.
So in this particular experiment, what they did is they had co-workers write a letter
of gratitude of thanks to another co-worker, unbeknownst to the other co-worker, and then
they sat down together and then the image brain activity as this letter was being read
and as the letter was being heard received.
And it showed very robust effects on these prefrontal networks that pointed to the fact
that receiving gratitude is actually much more potent in terms of the positive shifts
that it can create than giving gratitude.
So this raises a couple of important points.
First of all, if you are somebody who is prone to right letters of gratitude, ideally,
I think it's requisite that these be genuine letters of gratitude or saying things that
are genuine expressions of gratitude.
This could be by text or in person or my phone.
You have within you a very potent form of shifting somebody else's neurology.
Now that's wonderful and I think there are many people like that out there, but for many
people who want to experience the positive effects of gratitude, it's probably not the
most advantageous approach to just sit around waiting, hoping that someone's going to deliver
all these letters or words of gratitude.
How is it that you can create that sense of receiving gratitude for yourself and thereby
derive the effects of gratitude as outlined in this particular study?
And there we go back to the important work of the great Antonio Dimasio who explored these
neural correlates of gratitude to define the areas of the brain that are associated with
prosocial behaviors like the prefrontal cortex.
And what's really interesting about the work that Dimazio and colleagues did is, first
of all, they used functional magnetic resonance imaging.
So this is a very high-resolution approach to exploring what areas of the brain are active
and it has very high what we call temporal resolution, meaning you can see things in time at very fine scales.
So a lot of mechanistic detail,
it can emerge from these sorts of studies.
What they did was interesting,
rather than have people express gratitude,
they had the subjects go into the scanner,
so their brains are being imaged,
and they watched narratives, stories,
about other people experiencing
positive things in their life. And in this case, these were powerful stories. These were
stories about survivors of genocide. So that's what they're watching. The subjects were
subjects that were not survivors of genocide. So they were watching these videotapes of people that had survived genocide and had people
help them along the way as part of their story of survival, either psychological and or obviously
they survived long enough to make the video so or physical survival. So within these stories,
there was a there was a conveyance of a lot of struggle. These people talked about the horrible situations
they were in, but also small, but highly significant features
of their history that had led to their own feelings
of gratitude.
So for instance, it says, a woman at the,
this is literally from the scientific paper,
somebody had been sick for weeks.
So the woman's describing how she'd been sick for weeks. So the woman's describing how she'd been sick for weeks.
And then another prisoner who was a doctor finds a particular medicine somehow, it doesn't
describe how, and literally saves her life.
Or an ally who was also in a stricken circumstance gave this person a pair of glasses when their
eyesight started to falter.
So these sorts of stories.
Now, just hearing this in the context of nothing but a scientific paper and discussion,
these probably don't aren't that impactful.
What's really important about this study and is really important for all of us to know is that
these stories of other people receiving things that were powerful for them in their life trajectory
is embedded in story.
And the human brain, especially, is so oriented towards story.
We have neural circuits that like to link together past, present, future, have different characters,
protagonist and antagonist.
From the time we're very young until the time we're very old, story is one of the major
ways that we organize information in the brain.
There does seem to be storytelling and story-listening circuits in the brain.
So what's important is not simply that these people survive genocide.
That's obviously important and wonderful, but it's not just that they were helped along
the way.
It's that the description of their help is embedded in a larger story. So the human
subject in this scientific study is watching these powerful stories. And the neural circuits associated
with pro-social behaviors and with gratitude become robustly active when they start to feel some
affiliation with the person telling the story. They start to feel some resonance. We might call
that empathy,
but it doesn't necessarily have to be empathy.
Empathy is a somewhat complicated thing to define
because it involves literally a setting aside
of one's own emotions and really focusing almost entirely
or experiencing almost entirely the emotions of another.
It could be sympathy, it could be empathy.
What we do know is that the stories themselves were able to shift the physiology of the subjects
in this study and activate these, what we're calling gratitude circuitry that involves
the prefrontal cortex.
So if you think about the earlier study that receiving gratitude is the most powerful
way to activate these circuits for gratitude, the subjects in this study in many ways are receiving a sense of gratitude,
but through the narrative of one of these other subjects, which I find fascinating. I would have
thought a great gratitude practice would be sit down and list all the things you're
grateful for. That just seems so logical to me, but it turns out that these neural circuits don't
work that way, that to really activate these circuits for gratitude and the serotonin, and probably the oxytocin
system as well, and the prefrontal networks, one has to powerfully associate with the idea
of receiving help.
The subjects are associating or experiencing empathy or sympathy for somebody else who
received help.
In the other study, we described it a few minutes ago, the person hearing the letter was receiving
gratitude, and that would amplify the activity of these circuits.
And that takes us to a larger theme of what are these pro-social circuits?
And an important concept to emerge from this is one that's most often associated with the
autism literature, frankly, which is this
idea of theory of mind. So just very briefly, theory of mind is the ability to attribute
or to understand the experience of another without actually experiencing the thing that they're
experiencing. Again, it kind of sounds like empathy, but this was actually a term that's
now been demonstrated in the psychology and neuroscience.
That's been linked to some very robust findings associated with brain areas and so forth.
That was looking at autistic kids and non-autistic kids.
The person largely responsible for developing theory of mind is Simon Barron Cohen.
I believe he's either the brother or the cousin.
I can't recall which to the comedian Sasha Barron Cohen, I believe he's either the brother or the cousin, I can't recall which,
to the comedian Sasha Barron Cohen.
Simon Barron Cohen is a professor at Oxford University, or at least he was the last time
I checked.
And the theory of mind test can be done on adults or on children.
And we can sort of do that experiment right now if you like, and you can think about
how you would behave if you were a subject in a theory of mind test.
Theory of mind test involves you or a child
or some other adult sitting down
and watching a video of a child going into a room
or a person going into a room,
opening up a desk or a dresser, a drawer,
for instance, or a desk drawer,
and placing something in it, like a panorotoy,
and then leaving.
And then another person walking into the room and clearly looking
for something in the room and one presumes it's the toy or the pen, depending on the context.
People who have strong theory of mind make the obvious conclusion that the person looking around
for the pen or the toy is confused or they, um, they're perplexed. They don't know where the toy is.
They're looking for the toy. Someone who is fairly far to one side of the autism or Asperger's spectrum
will simply focus on the location of the object, on the location of the pen or the toy.
And this is especially true in children. They will say, well, it's in the second drawer.
It's in the second drawer and they'll say,
well, how does the person who comes into the room feel
and they'll say, well, it's in the drawer?
So they tend to focus on the specific factual elements
of the scenario rather than place their mind
into the mind of the other person,
so-called theory of mind.
Now, that doesn't mean that people with autism
and aspergers don't have empathy, in some cases they can. It sort of depends on where they are in the spectrum and
so forth. But theory of mind has very strong basis in these prefrontal cortex neural
circuits that we were talking about because, as you now know, the prefrontal cortex sets
context on what we see in experience. And the theory of mind task that I just described very briefly
is a pure example of context setting.
It's not about just the factual elements
about the location of the objects.
It's about the context.
Someone is looking for something that someone else put
someplace that makes it such that that object is hidden.
So basically theory of mind is your ability to put yourself into the mindset of another.
And in order to get activation of these gratitude circuits, one needs to put themselves into
the mindset of another or to directly receive gratitude.
So let's just take a moment and start to think about how we are going to build out the ultimate
gratitude practice, meaning the most effective gratitude practice for us to do because of all the many positive effects
that an effective gratitude practice can have if it's the proper one. It's very clear that receiving
gratitude is powerful, but it's also very clear that waiting around to receive that gratitude is an impractical approach. Now there are methods that have been developed by my colleague at Stanford Kelly McGonicle and
others that actually have developed things for the workplace for school for co-workers and students to write out
particular worksheets related to you know what they're thankful for from others and exchange them. And so those are very useful practices.
I don't want to take anything away from the important work that Kelly and others have
done.
But in the absence of having other people to do these practices with, what we know for
sure is that there has to be a real experience of somebody else's experience and that the
best way to do that is story.
So in thinking about how to build out an effective gratitude practice, it's very worthwhile,
I believe, to find someone's narrative that's powerful for you.
In many ways to think about this is it's got to be a story that inspires you because of
the, for lack of a better phrase, the beauty
of the human spirit or the ability of humans to help other humans.
And I find this remarkable because what this really means is that the circuits for gratitude
are such that we can exchange gratitude.
We can actually observe someone else getting help, someone else giving help, and
that observation of our species doing that for one another
allows us to experience the feeling of a
genuine chemical and neural circuit activation lift, if you will.
Very very different than simply writing out the things that you're thankful for, right? And so how would you do this?
Well, people digest story in a number of different ways.
People watch movies, people listen to podcasts, people read books.
There are tremendous number of stories out there.
It's clear that an effective gratitude practice has to be repeated from time to time.
So what I would not suggest is that we build a protocol
in which you're constantly foraging for inspirational stories over and over again, you know, social
media and the internet are replete with those. That's not going to be a very potent protocol
or tool because the most potent protocol or tool for gratitude is going to be one that
you repeat over and over again. Rather, the most effective protocol or tool is going to be either to think into, and you
could write this out if you like, but think into when somebody was thankful for something
that you did, and really start to think about how you felt in receiving that gratitude,
or, and, or, I should say, imagining or thinking about deeply the emotional experience of somebody else
receiving help. Now, what narrative you select is going to be very dependent on you and your
taste. It's going to be very dependent on what resonates with you. But again, I want to emphasize that
the story that you select does not have to have any
semblance to your own life experience.
It's just about what happens to move you.
And so the way that one could do this, and actually I've started this practice for myself
on the basis of the learnings I've had in the last few weeks around preparing for this
episode, is to find a story that's particularly meaningful for you.
And then to just take some short notes, bullet point notes
about maybe list out, for instance,
on a just a small sheet of paper or in your phone,
if that's your preference, just list out, for instance,
you know, what the struggle was, what the help was,
and something about how that impacts you emotionally.
Okay, this is something just for you.
You don't have to share it with anybody.
That kind of shorthand list of bullet point notes serves as your shorthand for getting
into this mode that we're calling gratitude.
And actually, closely mimics a lot of what was done in these various studies.
Because even though the studies I've talked about up until now, we're really focused
on what we call acute imaging studies, where someone watched a story or received
gratitude while the experiment was done, and then that's it, one and done.
There are other studies looking at gratitude in this context over many weeks, up to six
weeks.
And what one observes is that there's so-called neuroplasticity of these circuits.
Neuroplasticity is the brain and nervous system's ability to change in response to experience,
and that these neural circuits start developing a familiarity with the narrative.
So that, for instance, let's say you sit down the first time you've found a story that
you find particularly compelling.
You've written down a few notes about what that story is just to remind you.
And then you read those out and you think into the richness of that experience, that receiving
of gratitude, or if you prefer, you're doing the protocol where you're thinking about when
someone was deeply grateful or was genuinely grateful to you, that you're thinking about
that, the neural circuits become activated more easily with each subsequent repeat of the
practice.
Now this could be done literally for one minute or two minutes or
three minutes. This is not an extensively long practice. And that's another beauty of gratitude
practices is that they have these outsized positive effects on so many aspects of our physiology,
but these are very short practices. They're the kind of thing that you can do walking to your car,
the kind of thing you can just sit down for a minute and set a timer and do, because they are really about changing your state of mind and body.
And if you have an experience of receiving gratitude or a story that's very potent for
you, it becomes a sort of shortcut into the gratitude network, these pro-social networks,
meaning the activation of these circuits becomes almost instantaneous.
And that's very different than a lot of other practices out there.
You know, I'm not aware of any meditation practices, for instance, that you can do only a
few times, and then within, you know, a week or so, you just have to do them for one minute,
you immediately drop into the kind of optimal state that that meditation practice is designed
to create. There are some shorter meditation practices that are very potent and very effective
like that, but gratitude and the circuits associated with it appear to be especially plastic, meaning especially prone to being able
to be triggered, in the good sense of the word triggered, just by simply reminding yourself
of this particular narrative.
Now there's another very clear and positive effect of using this narrative or story-based
approach to a gratitude practice.
And that's what story does for our physiology.
Earlier in the episode, I mentioned this really incredible study in which listening to a story
coordinated the heart rate of different individuals and literally changed the way that their heart
was beating. The title of this study is conscious processing
of narrative stimuli synchronizes heart rate
between individuals.
The first author is Perez.
Again, published in cell reports,
cell press journal, excellent journal.
And it's a really elegant study.
They looked at instantaneous heart rate.
They use electrocardiogram to do that,
which is simply a way to look at heart beats
with very fine precision.
They also looked at the breathing of subjects as they listen to these stories.
Some of you may know that breathing and heart rate are actually linked to one another in
a really interesting way.
The simple way to put it is that when you inhale, your heart rate speeds up a little bit,
and when you exhale, your heart rate slows down. And this is because of the
movement of the diaphragm in your thoracic cavity. And the physicians and medical types call
this respiratory sinus arrhythmia. There's a mechanism there we could get into, but I don't
want to distract us from the main theme here. So just remember when you inhale, your heart
rate speeds up. And when you exhale, your heart rate slows down. They looked at breathing, they looked at heart rates in different individuals and listening to a story produced very consistent
gaps between the heart rates of the people who are listening. Different individuals in the study
who were not located in the same place when they listen to the story, listening to the story in different times,
different days entirely, had very similar heartbeat patterns listening to this story.
What this means for your gratitude practice is that having a story that you can return to
over and over again, even if it's not the entire story, you're just using the shorthand bullet point
of it's not the entire story, you're just using the shorthand bullet point version of your story,
will create a perceptible and real shift in your heartbeat and in your breathing. And actually, that's been demonstrated over and over now that an effective gratitude practice is one that can
rapidly shift not just the activation of these circuits in your brain for pro-social behaviors, but also activation of particular
circuits in your heart and in your lungs and the other organs of your body such that you
can get into a reproducible state of gratitude each time.
So an important component here is that there be some element of story.
Again, you don't have to listen to or read or think about the entire story start to finish
in order to extract these benefits,
and that it be the same story over and over.
And as a consequence, that's going to shift your physiology
into presumably a more relaxed state,
because typically that's the one
that's associated with gratitude.
Although activation of these gratitude circuits
has also been shown to create sense of awe
or sense of joy.
There are a few studies looking at and kind of parsing the difference between gratitude
and joy.
I was able to find a few studies about that.
But in general, the neural circuits that are activated tend to overlap quite a lot with
those that create a sense of gratitude.
So we don't want to split hairs unnecessarily
there. The key thing is that you want to use the same story, even if it's your own experience
or somebody else's, and keep coming back to it over and over again. That makes it a very
potent tool that you can get a tremendous amount of benefit from with even as short as 60
seconds of practice. Earlier I talked about how you can't lie to yourself and say, you know, I'm
so grateful for this thing that I actually hate. And in a moment, I'm going to tell you
about some scientific data that proves the statement I made is true and that you can't
just lie to yourself and derive the benefits of a gratitude practice. The data are also
going to point to the fact that
if you are giving gratitude, not just receiving it, but giving gratitude, that too has to be genuine.
There's a really interesting studies published in scientific reports, which is a nature research
journal. The title of it is Neural Responses to Intention and Benefit Appraisal are critical in
distinguishing gratitude and joy. It's a somewhat complicated study, so I'm just going to hit on some of the high points.
But basically what they did is they used functional magnetic resonance imaging.
So they could look at brain circuitry activation with very high precision.
And they had people receiving money in this, in the context of this experiment.
And they had some knowledge as to whether or not
the money that they were receiving was given to them
wholeheartedly or reluctantly.
And there were a number of different variables in the study
including how much money was given.
So in some cases it was very little.
In other cases it was modest.
In other cases it was a lot more.
And they also varied the extent to which the giver of the money,
that they called the
benefactor, was doing it wholeheartedly or seemed to be doing it somewhat reluctantly.
And they looked at whether or not the sense of gratitude scaled with the amount of money
received and or the intention of the benefactor, whether or not the person giving the money
was doing it wholeheartedly or reluctantly.
And what's remarkable is that while the amount of money given was a strong component in
whether or not somebody felt that they had received gratitude, which makes sense, the
amount of money is some metric of whether or not somebody feels thanked.
The stronger variable, the bigger impact came from whether or not the person giving the
money was giving it with a wholehearted intention and not a reluctant intention.
And of course, there was an interaction where the best circumstance, of course, is where
the person received a lot of money from somebody who wholeheartedly wanted to give them a lot of money.
And they did every derivation of this, but this is important.
This tells us many things that extend way beyond gratitude practices, which is that genuine
thanks are what count.
Okay.
We could probably presume that.
But receiving genuine thanks is also a strong variable in determining whether
or not we experience real gratitude or whether or not it's empty, regardless of the size
of a gift. So this constrains our gratitude practices somewhat, but I think in an interesting
and important way, you can't make this stuff up. You can't tell yourself that an experience was great or that, you know, I got a lot of
money and therefore it justified it.
Even though, you know, I think that they give it to me reluctantly or my boss hates me
but they gave me a raise.
That stuff stings for all the right reasons because there are circuits in our brain and body
that are oriented towards these prosocial interactions.
And in some sense, what we are looking for as a species,
what these circuits want, if you will,
is to receive things from people that are giving them wholeheartedly,
and that tells us that if we are the giver,
that we better be giving wholeheartedly,
or we are undermining the sense of gratitude
that someone is going to receive from us.
So we are gradually building up the ultimate gratitude practice
based on the variety of scientific literature that's out there.
And I know that many people are probably interested
in developing a gratitude practice that has long lasting,
maybe even permanent positive effects
on their neural circuitry.
So with that in mind, I want to turn our attention
to a really interesting study.
It's entitled Effects of Gratitude Meditation on Neural Network Functional Connectivity and
Brain Heart Coupling.
And to make a long story short and a lot simpler than that title, repeated gratitude
practice changes the way that your brain circuits work.
And it also changes the way in which your heart and your brain interact.
You're familiar with the fact that your brain controls your heart because you can be stressed
about something that's perceived with your brain, and then your heart rate will speed
up.
You're probably also familiar with the fact that if your heart rate speeds up for some reason
or no reason, you're probably thinking, well, what's making my heart rate speed up?
That's because the brain and the heart are reciprocally innovative, as we say. They're talking to one another in both directions.
It's a two way highway. This study looked at changes in so-called functional connectivity
within the brain and between the brain and the heart in response to gratitude practices.
And as a control, they used what I think is very interesting, a resentment intervention.
I think resentment is an apt control in quite different than gratitude. To make a long
story short, what they found is that a repeated gratitude practice could change the resting
state functional connectivity in emotion and motivation-related brain regions. If I haven't
mentioned a strong enough incentive
for doing a regular gratitude practice until now, this is definitely the one to pay attention to.
Because what they found was a regular gratitude practice could shift the functional
connectivity of emotion pathways in ways that made anxiety and fear circuits less likely to be active
and circuits for feelings of well-being
but also motivation to be much more active.
I find that remarkable and important because a number of people struggle with issues of motivation,
a lot of people who are highly motivated also have issues with anxiety and fear.
And so this study really points to the fact that it's a two-fer.
If you have a good gratitude practice and you repeat it regularly, you reduce the fear
anxiety circuits, you increase the efficacy of the positive emotion, feel good circuits,
and the circuits associated with motivation and pursuit are actually enhanced as well.
So that's very strong incentive to have a gratitude practice in one that you use regularly.
We'll talk about how regularly in just a moment.
I don't want to go into too many details of the study, although we will put a reference
to it if you like.
It includes a lot of FMRI data, imaging data of different brain areas, many, many tables
and examples of matrices of before and after gratitude, after resentment, et cetera.
You do indeed have circuits in your brain for resentment, whether you like it or not.
We all do. And some people just, there was circuits are more robust than others. But the remarkable thing is one can shift
these circuits in the direction that I think most people would like, which is more sense of well-being and motivation and less
resentment and fear.
Literally. And what's really cool about this study also
is that the interventions are only five minutes long.
It's incredible, five minutes long.
And so as we start to build out our ideal gratitude practice,
we know that it has to have certain features.
First of all, it has to be grounded in a story,
probably a story that you've heard in its entirety at least once.
But then you can have a shorthand version, the so-called bullet points that I talked about
before that allow you to drop into that story or the emotional associations with that story.
So you don't have to listen to the whole story each time.
That story should be one in which you are genuinely being thanked for something and it made
you feel good, or it could be a story about
someone else genuinely expressing thanks, okay, based on the description of the gratitude
practices that we talked about earlier. Your gratitude practice can be very brief, I mean,
it can be as brief as one minute, 60 seconds, or five minutes, which still seems very brief to
me, although in these studies, they were getting these really major effects just from five minutes
of gratitude practice.
Some of these papers involve people doing some
focusing on their breathing and calming themselves
as they go into the gratitude practice,
but that's within the five minute block.
So if you decide that you're going to do
a gratitude practice that involves first,
you know, I'm doing some calming breathing, exhale, emphasize breathing, for instance, or physiological size, things I've talked about before on this podcast, they can help calm you down
because they have a lot of exhales, which you now know, slows your heart rate down,
and then doing your gratitude practice, that's fine. It's actually not necessary, but a lot of
these studies used that. I think once a narrative has been set, you've heard the story and it has meaning for you
or you have a recollection of a story where you were genuinely thanked, then I think just
60 seconds or maybe 120 seconds should be sufficient.
Then the question becomes how often to repeat this gratitude practice.
That's not exactly clear from the existing literature. I can't point
to any one study that says five times a week or four times a week. So I'm going to throw
out a number, which is three times a week. And then people will ask, well, when should
I do that gratitude practice? And I'll tell you what I tell most everybody about most
every practice with a few exceptions, which is the best time of day to do this practice is when you first wake up in the morning or before you go to sleep
at night or any time of day.
So we've talked about some of the neural circuitry changes associated with a regular gratitude
practice.
And I should mention that there's an additional neural circuitry shift that occurs.
It relates to a structure that I mentioned just briefly earlier,
which is this so-called ACC or anterior singulate cortex.
This is an area of the brain that has several functions, but more and more data are pointing
to the fact that the ACC is actually involved in empathy and is involved in understanding
the emotional states of others in general, even if it doesn't invoke a sense of empathy.
And there are several studies that point to the fact that in humans who have a regular
gratitude practice, the ACC becomes more robustly engaged, even with these very brief gratitude
practices.
We actually have a project in our lab.
This is actually done in animal models with where animals observe other animals experiencing
certain emotional states.
And one of the brain areas that we've identified
as important for this, it's kind of a primordial form
of empathy because we really don't know what these mice
are thinking.
We work on humans in the case where we work on humans.
Of course, we ask them and they tell us
what they think they're thinking.
With the mice, we ask them, but they don't tell us
much of anything interesting.
Instead, we measure a number of physiological signals.
But the important point is that the ACC,
the inter-singulate cortex,
seems to be an important hub
for the generation and execution of empathy
as it relates to feelings and empathic behaviors,
altruistic behaviors of animals helping animals
and humans helping other humans.
We see this in animal models, we see this in humans.
So if you want to be a more empathic person, a gratitude practice is also going to be
very effective for that.
It appears especially using this narrative type approach where you are using someone else's
narrative of receiving gratitude as a way to tap into your own sense of gratitude.
Thus far, we've mainly talked about the effects of gratitude on neural circuit activation
and changes a little bit about some of the changes that are happening in terms of the
body, heart rate, and breathing and so forth.
But we haven't talked a lot yet about the changes in health metrics, in things like inflammation
or reductions in inflammation and immunity and things of that sort.
So with that in mind, I'd like to describe the results of a really interesting recent study
that was published in the journal Brain Behavior and Immunity. This was published
2021. The title of the study is
Exploring neural mechanisms of the health benefits of gratitude in women, a randomized control trial. The first author is
Hazlitt and basically what this paper showed was that women who had a regular gratitude practice
of the sort that we've been talking about up until now showed reductions in amygdala
activity, a brain area associated with threat detection, an intimate part of the fear network
in the brain. So reductions in amygdala activation
and large reductions in the production of something
called TNF alpha, tumor necrosis factor alpha,
and IL-6 interleukin-6.
Now if you happen to have listened to the episode
that I did on activating your immune system
and immune function, you heard about TNF alpha and IL-6.
TNF alpha and IL-6 are inflammatory cytokines.
These are chemicals that exist in your body
and that are released from cells
when there is damage or kind of a systemic stress
when your system is in duress.
And in the short term, they can be beneficial,
they can call in signals for wound healing and repair of cells, et cetera. But you don't want TNF alpha and
IL-6 levels to be too high and you don't want those levels to be up for too long. And so
this study is really nice because they showed significant effects in reducing TNF alpha and
IL-6 in response to a gratitude practice.
And because they also observed reductions in a mix of activation, this area associated
with threat detection and fear, it's likely, and I should emphasize likely, because I don't
know, that the direction of the effect is that there are neural circuit changes, which
in turn shift the degree to which these inflammatory cytokines are released
in the body.
Although, for all I know, it could be the other way to.
It could be that having a gratitude practice shifts something about heart rate and breathing,
which in turn shifts the or lowers the amount of TNF alpha and IL-6 and that in turn reduces
activation of the amygdala.
We don't really know the direction of the effect, excuse me, but if I had to speculate, I would
speculate that it was a shift in neural circuitry that led to a change in the circuits of the effect, excuse me, but if I had to speculate, I would speculate that it was a
shift in neural circuitry that led to a change in the circuits of the body. And another interesting
aspect of this study is that the reductions in amygdala activation and the reductions in TNF alpha
and IL-6 were very rapid. They occurred almost immediately after the gratitude practice was completed.
And even though that study was performed exclusively on female subjects, based on the biology
and circuitry of the amygdala and the biology of TNF alpha and IL-6, performing this inflammatory
role in both men and women, I don't see any reason why the results of that study wouldn't
pertain to both men and women.
So what about the chemistry associated with gratitude?
Are there certain chemicals in our brain or that we could enhance in our brain that would enhance
our gratitude practice? Indeed, there are. And earlier I mentioned the chemical, the neuromodulator,
serotonin, as having a powerful influence on the activation of neural circuits associated with
prosocial behaviors and gratitude, and other sort of feel good behaviors.
To make a long story short,
neuromodulators like dopamine and epinephrine
and nor epinephrine tend to place us into a state
of extra-oception,
meaning a state of observing things
and focusing on things outside the immediate reach
of our body and confines of our skin.
They tend to put us in pursuit or in thinking about things out in the future or out
away from our physical body.
Whereas the neuromodularity or serotonin and some of the associated pathways like oxytocin
and other neurochemicals tend to, I want to emphasize, tend to be associated with states
that are about contentment with what we have within the confines of our body and our immediate experience.
So they're not so much about pursuit, but about gratitude and about appreciation for what we already have.
I'd be remiss if I didn't therefore point out that if one were to shift their chemistry toward having higher levels of serotonin, you would
biologic experience heightened levels of gratitude. And indeed, some people do this. They will take
compounds that increase serotonin. There are a number of compounds out there. As you know, I'm
certainly not suggesting people do that. A couple of the supplement-based legal over-the-counter
approaches to this are things like 5-HTP, which is a precursor to serotonin.
Some people will take 5-HTP to try and enhance their sleep. I'm not a fan of doing that personally.
I've talked about this in the sleep episodes, but the state that we call sleep has a very complex and important architecture as it relates to neurochemicals and by taking
serotonin by supplement or by stimulating serotonin released by supplement with 5HTP or with triptophan, which is a amino acid precursor to
To serotonin one can run into the problem of disrupting the normal architecture of sleep cycles throughout the night
I experience that as if I've taken 5HTP or triptophan
I fall asleep very deeply, but then I wake up three hours later
and I can't fall asleep at all.
And actually, it sometimes even messes up my sleep
the subsequent night.
Some people are not so sensitive to 5HTP and triptophan,
and they actually really like it.
So again, you have to talk to your doctor,
decide what's right for you,
you're responsible for your health, not me,
and you have to determine what works for you,
everyone's slightly individual.
But one could imagine enhancing their amount of serotonin in their brain and body by taking
5HTP or tryptophan before gratitude practice.
That seems a little bit extreme given that the gratitude practice is only about a minute
to five minutes long on a regular basis.
But there may be instances in which you're really trying to amplify these circuitry in the
brain and body that are associated with gratitude.
And therefore, that might be something that you want to explore.
There's a new compound that's out there, a legal over-the-counter compound, at least
it's legal in the United States, I don't know about overseas.
And that's a compound called Kana, K-A-N-N-A.
It's an interesting compound.
It goes by another name as well,
which is, and I'm going to mispronounce this,
and I apologize.
This is Celestium Tortosum.
Please see our timestamps if you want to see the spelling
of that, but I'll just call it Kana by its other name for short.
It's an herb that is traditionally chewed
prior to stressing endeavors
as how it's described on an examin.com.
But I looked at some of the studies on this.
It's kind of interesting.
It very likely increases the amount of serotonin in the body
and pretty potentally.
It is generally taken in dosages of anywhere
from 25 to 50 milligrams.
And it creates a kind of a pro-social gratitude enhancing
where I should say gratitude circuitry, creates a kind of a pro-social gratitude enhancing,
where I should say gratitude circuitry, pro-social neural circuitry enhancing effect
because of the ways that it interacts
with the serotonergic pathways of the brain.
So it also has another name
at sometimes called zembrinzembrin.
R-i-n.
Again, I'm not suggesting that people run out
and take this stuff, it's, but there is an emerging practice
of people using Zembrin, Salishim Tortosium,
also called Kana, K-N-N-A, in order to enhance
the states that are about comfort and pleasure
with what one has in their immediate sphere of experience.
And so one could imagine if it's safe for you and right for you and legal where you live
in enhancing serotonin by taking kana and then doing your gratitude practice, what's the
logic behind that?
Well, you know, oftentimes we hear about supplements and pharmacology for quote unquote increasing
plasticity or opening plasticity.
You know, if I had a dollar for every time someone said, I hear that such and such opens
plasticity.
Well, indeed, there are molecules associated with the thing that we call neuroplasticity,
but neuroplasticity is not an event.
It's a process.
I mean, it has many, many steps.
It occurs during wakefulness.
It's consolidated during, and so forth.
Taking a substance that increases a neurochemical in your brain will likely
provided it's the right substance
and it's the right practice.
Will likely enhance the amplitude
or the intensity of that practice
and make it a more potent form of inducing neuroplasticity,
meaning it will create longer lasting
or more robust brain changes than if one hadn't increased
their chemistry in this way, this way of taking something.
But that doesn't necessarily mean that you couldn't get to the very same place
without it, by simply doing a slightly longer gratitude practice,
or putting a little bit more mental effort into it.
That said, I think
the future of neuroplasticity really resides in not just one approach, not just neurochemistry
and taking substances to increase neuroplasticity, not just behavioral practices to try and increase
neuroplasticity, not just brain machine interfaces or devices to increase neuroplasticity, but
rather the convergence of multiple tools.
So you could imagine enhancing serotonergic transmission, as we say, in the brain using
something like KANA combined with a gratitude practice in the not-too-distant future.
This will probably also be combined with some sort of non-invasive device to stimulate
the prefrontal cortex at the same time.
Please don't do that recreationally.
Those devices are for clinical use only currently. But I think you start to get the idea. So for those of you that are a
little bit more exploratory and you want to go and do some reading on this, I thought you might find
a conna interesting. I certainly did. There are a number of studies that will pop up on PubMed. I
recommend using examin.com as you're jumping off point. There are some decent studies that they
describe and they're so called human effect matrix.
So those are studies done on humans.
And the main effects that have been documented
in the scientific literature are minor
but significant increases in cognition,
executive function, executive function
is something that's also associated with prefrontal cortex
and reductions in anxiety.
And that seems to be a common theme
that we're seeing again and again.
You saw this in the study, the trial where you saw reductions in TNF alpha and reductions in amygdala activation,
which would ostensibly lead to reductions in anxiety. You're seeing increases in activity and
brain networks that are associated with feelings of well-being. So again, back to that kind of push
pull of defensive anxiety and fear like circuitry
in the brain, being antagonistic, as we say, to the circuits that are associated with pro-social
feeling good, receiving good feelings type circuitry and events in life. So as you now know,
there is a lot of science about how gratitude can positively impact neural circuits in the brain,
anti-inflammatory markers in the body, brain heart breathing coordination,
and on and on and on. I'd like to just highlight the key elements of the most effective,
at least to my knowledge, gratitude practice. And when I say the most effective, what I'm doing is
I'm gleaning from the scientific studies I was able to find and combining the various findings of those studies into
what I think is a very practical and what should certainly be a very effective gratitude
practice for all the positive effects that we described.
First of all, that gratitude practice has to be grounded in a narrative, meaning a
story.
You don't have to recite or hear that story every single time you do the gratitude practice,
but you have to know what that story was and what the gratitude practice references back
to.
Second of all, that story can be one of you receiving genuine thanks.
And the key elements there are that you are the one receiving the thanks, the gratitude,
and that it's being
given to you genuinely, wholeheartedly. Or it can be a story of you observing someone
else receiving thanks or expressing thanks. And that has to be a genuine interaction as well,
both between the giver and the receiver. So those are the first three elements.
What I recommend would be after you've established the story that you want to use for your gratitude
practice, that you write down three or four simple bullet points that can serve as salient
reminders of that story for you.
It will serve as kind of a cue for that story without having to listen to or talk out the entire story. I would recommend writing down something about the state that
you or the other person were in before they received the gratitude, the state that you
were in or that the person was in after they received the gratitude, and any other elements
that lend some sort of emotional weight or tone to the
story.
This could be three pages of text, if you like, or it could just be a couple of bullet points.
I don't think it really matters.
The important thing is that it's embedded in your memory and that it's really associated
with this genuine exchange of thanks and the receivl of thanks.
I think those are the key elements.
And then it's very simple.
The entire practice involves reading off
these bullet points as a cue to your nervous system of this sense of gratitude. And then
for about one minute, which is a trivial amount of time, if you really think about it,
or maybe two minutes, or if you're really ambitious up to five minutes of just really feeling
into that genuine experience of having received gratitude
or observed someone else receiving gratitude.
And then in terms of frequency, I think a good rule of thumb would be to do that about three
times a week and the time of day doesn't really matter.
I can't see why there would be any so-called circadian effects of this.
I know some people like to do a gratitude practice before they go to sleep at night.
I don't see any problem with doing this
before you go to sleep at night.
I also don't see any problem with you doing this
on your lunch break or mid-morning
or first thing in the morning.
I can't see any logic for placing it any one time of day
and not another.
So I think the most important thing is that you do it
at least three times a week.
And as mentioned before, it's very, very brief.
So there are very few barriers
to entry for doing this. So if we just take a step back from this protocol and compare it to what's
typically out there in the literature, which is, you know, make a list of all the things you're thankful
for, recite in your mind, all the things you're thankful for, count your blessings. So I think
everybody should be counting their blessings all the time. There's always something to be thankful for. But in terms of a scientifically grounded gratitude
practice that is also scientifically demonstrated
to shift your physiology at the level of your immune system
and your neural circuitry, reducing anxiety,
increasing motivation, all these wonderful things
that so many of us are chasing all the time as goals.
I think
a gratitude practice reveals itself to be an immensely powerful tool for any and all
of us to use.
And that should come as no surprise because these pro-social circuits, these circuits for
gratitude are not a recent phenomenon.
Discussions about gratitude date back hundreds, if not thousands of years.
What we've done today is to take the modern science right up until 2021 and to really distill from that the neuroimaging data, the neurochemistry,
the various aspects of brain body connectivity. Look at the protocols, take various subject groups,
some were done in women, some were done in between two individuals, some were done with brain imaging,
all the various changes on a theme that allow us to point to a simple,
but very effective protocol that certainly we could all use around Thanksgiving.
But Thanksgiving is just but one day throughout the entire year, of course.
I personally have been using a gratitude protocol for the last several years. But that protocol was based on my ignorance really about the scientific literature and was
mainly based on what I had heard out there on the internet, which is that I should list
out or think about or verbally recite the things that I'm grateful for.
The sort of protocol that we arrived at today based on the scientific literature is distinctly
different from that. And as a consequence, I've started to script out a protocol identical to the one I
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