IELTS Speaking for Success - 👨‍👩‍👦‍👦 Relatives (S05E22) + Transcript

Episode Date: April 26, 2021

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Hello, love, I'm Maria. And my name is Rory, and we are the host of the AILD Speaking for Success Podcasts. The podcast themes to help you improve your speaking skills as well as your listening skills along the way. We started this podcast to help you out with your English and boost your vocabulary and grammar with our high-level language for a high-I-old score. A band-ninth score. Yeah. Oh, by the way, did you know that we're going to have an offline. event in Moscow.

We are. Yes. Tell us more. Yeah. On the 29th of May in Moscow, we are throwing an offline English party for you. 12 o'clock Moscow time is going to be for three hours. Me, Rory, Vanya, and fun English joy debates.

You're going to have lovely time. Please check our website. So click on the link in the description and sign up because the places for our Offline event are limited, only 20 people. You can also go to Success with IOT slash event to find out more. Rory, Rory, Rory, Rory, Rory, Rory, Red Rory, yellow, Rory. That's my tongue twister of the day.

Red Rory, yellow, Rory. You know, Rory, we are charismatic. We are. We have a lot in common, don't we? Yeah. Maybe we're distant relatives. Oh, let's talk about relatives, shall we? Relatives.

Do you have many relatives? I suppose if we take into consideration all the numerous distant relatives and many cousins once or twice removed, then yeah, it seems like there are almost, there are hundreds of us. How often do you meet your relatives? Probably not often enough these days. The last family gathering was at Christmas and that was online. And it was exhausting since we were spread out all over the place in different time zones. It was really hard for me to organise, actually.

When did you last see your relatives? Um, do you mean face to face? Um, that's, I suppose, oh God, that must have been many wounds ago. Um, no, actually, it was my 30th birthday. Um, so we were all together. My cousins from my mum's side of the family, um, were there and all of, um, well, yeah, all of the cousins and all of the, um, and all of my brothers as well, except for the one that lives in Australia, of course. Um, and then in terms of online, um, and, and then in terms of online, that would be the Christmas gathering that I mentioned. How do you spend time with your relatives? Well, since we're hardly ever altogether, it's usually spent catching up on the latest news and family gossip. My cousin and my uncle are pretty good with family trees and stuff for keeping track of all of that,

so I usually talk to them to stay in the know about everything. Are your relatives or friends more important to you? Well, they probably have equal weight, I'd say. Most of my friends are physically closer to me But my relatives are similar in terms of emotional proximity I try not to distinguish between the two Since it's not like there's some sort of competitive hierarchy Which it isn't and it shouldn't be

Are people in your country usually close with their relatives I would say so Even though families are usually big and intertwined with each other Social media makes it easy to stay in touch It'll possibly it's too easy And maybe we're all a little over-exposed to people's sex eccentricity sometimes. Rory, thank you so much for your answers.

You are my distant relative once removed. Shall we talk about the related grammar? Yeah. So we have an episode about families. So do check it out. Okay? And this one is about relatives because in ILD speaking part one, they can ask you questions about relatives.

By relatives, we mean who exactly, Rory? People who are connected to us, by blood, usually. So they are cousins And a cousin It's either he or she We don't know So I have a cousin You have no idea

Is it a boy or a girl So a cousin Cousins Then what? Outs? Cousins Ants and uncles Uncle

Great aunts Great uncles Grandparents Grandparents Right Grandmothers Grandfathers Then nieces

A niece Yeah That's she Nephew That's a he Nephew Also you've mentioned Cousins

Once or twice removed. Yes. Where do you remove them? What's removed? Once or twice removed in the sense that they're from another generation past, I think, is how it's structured. Hold on a second. Let me just double check that. Anyway, dear listen to, it's a really difficult thing to explain what it means. A cousin once or twice removed, but it's a great word. So if you have cousins or you don't have cousins, it doesn't matter. Just say like, oh yeah, I have many relatives. I have. aunts, uncles, cousins once or twice removed. Basically they are distant cousins that you have no idea who they are, who they live. Are they alive or dead? Well no, no. Well you might know them

well or you might not know them well but if they're once removed it's all to do with the generation. So for example I have my mom's first cousin like they're the same from the same generation but she is my cousin once removed because she's from the previous generation for example. But I just call her my cousin because you don't refer to people like this in real life. This is only for describing things in greater detail. Oh, hello, cousin once removed. Yeah, so it's cool to say that, yeah, I have a couple of cousins once or twice removed. Family gathering.

So when you meet all your relatives, it's a family gathering. Gathering like a meetup. You gather together for Christmas or just for fun? Yeah, family. gatherings. My last family gathering was online, for example, and Rory's relatives are spread all over the place, all over the world. They live in different countries. Do you have any relatives in Russia? I do not have any relatives in Russia yet. Bother. So when did you last see your relatives and you go, oh, many moons ago? Yes, that's another way of seeing a long time ago.

Really? Can you really say that? You've got to see many moons ago, yeah. How about many suns ago? No, it's always many moons ago. It's a fixed expression. Oh, that's nice. Yeah, I saw my relatives many moons ago. I last saw my relatives many moons ago. I last saw my relatives many moons ago. And you have the chance to use upward intonation for saying like,

oh, what, you mean face-to-face? Yeah. And you can say face-to-face or online, so you can extend your answer and use more complex grammar structures. For a high school. Except I didn't. My own school. Oh, no, I did.

I say online would have been Christmas, so that's good, isn't it? This is the second part of the third conditional, Rory. Is it? I don't know. Yes, yes, it is. But when we talk about our relatives, we can keep track of them using a family tree. And indeed, the phrasal verb, keep track. Mm-hmm.

Keep track of your family tree, right? And you can stay in the know, which means that you know about things, and you keep your knowledge up to date. Oh, yeah. When you meet your relatives, you usually... catch up on the latest news and you catch up on the latest gossip and gossip is uncountable okay so gossip means when you gossip about people when you talk about people behind their backs for example we together with rory we can gossip about vanya oh like vanya like is he married does he have children so we can just talk about vanya behind his back it means

gossiping. We can have gossip magazines, right? And with relatives, we usually gossip about each other, right? Or we gossip about other people? We usually gossip about other people. You gossip about other people. And you can't say a gossip, because a gossip is a person. For example, I can say, Rory, you are such a gossip. So a person who gossips around. Yeah, so you catch up on the latest news with your relatives and gossip. Family or friends, they have equal weight. Yes, that means you treat them the same way. Yeah.

And some friends are physically closer to us. And some relatives or friends can be... They can be... They are similar in terms of emotional proximity, which just means they're close to me in the way that we're emotionally close. In terms of emotional proximity, some relatives are closer to me.

And the phrase is to be close to your mother, to be close to your parents. But parents are not relatives, right? Parents are your relatives? Relatives? They're related to you. But they're like close relatives, right? Okay.

We can have a hierarchy in our family. Yes, that just means some of them are more important than others. Yeah. We usually stay in touch with our relatives, or we don't stay in touch, we stay out of touch. We lose touch. Oh, we lose touch. Right, you can lose touch.

I lost touch with some of my cousins once we moved. Interwind, intertwined. Intertwined. Intertwined. That just means closely connected in a bit of a messy way. Yeah. So, how can we use it in a sentence, this intertwined bit? My family's lives are intertwined, because we all live so close together.

Yeah. Well, as an example, obviously in my family, that's not true. And the last word that you said was eccentricities. Yes, eccentricities are just a way of talking about, well, actually it's a euphemism for annoying aspects of what people are like. Accentricities. Yeah. Oh, he's eccentric.

You used to use the word eccentric to describe people who are crazy. It wasn't very politically correct. No, but if you say eccentric, it is probably. political correct, no? It's not really. It's like a byword for someone who's not so annoying. People's eccentricities.

Well, it's like a polite way of saying someone's annoying, but it's so obvious what it is you're saying. Yeah. Yeah. So, dear listener, now you know how to talk about distant relatives, and you have a posh word of the day is a cousin once removed.

And actually, we crack jokes about this. Like cousins once removed or an uncle once removed, yeah? Mm-hmm. So give us something. Oh, like, here's some of my cousins once removed. Well, like three million times removed or something. Three million times removed.

Yeah, so when you say that or hear that, it means some person, like, a really distant relative. I really don't understand what the relationship is, but there is one. Yeah. Like, it was my wedding, and I had some cousins 300 times removed. I have no idea they existed. Yep. Thank you very much for listening. We are sending you hugs and kisses.

and now you can talk about your relatives with flair and high-level words for a band nine school. Woo-hoo! Bye. Oh no. No. We had a pun to finish with. What? Let's go.

I hope you found it relatively easy to listen to. Oh. Now you can go. Bye. Bye. Do you have many relatives? I suppose if we take into consideration all the numerous distant relatives and many cousins, and many cousins once or twice removed,

then, yeah, it seems like there are almost, there are hundreds of us. How often do you meet your relatives? Probably not often enough these days. The last family gathering was at Christmas, and that was online. And it was exhausting since we were spread out all over the place in different time zones. It was really hard for me to organise, actually. When did you last see your relatives? Do you mean face-to-face?

I suppose, oh God, that must have been many wounds ago. No, actually it was my 30th birthday. So we were all together. My cousins from my mom's side of the family were there. And all of the cousins and all of my brothers as well, except for the one that lives in Australia, of course. And then in terms of online, that would be the Christmas gathering that I mentioned. How do you spend time with your relatives?

Well, since we're hardly ever altogether, it's usually spent catching up on the latest news and family gossip. My cousin and my uncle are pretty good with family trees and stuff for keeping track of all of that, so I usually talk to them to stay in the know about everything. Are your relatives or friends more important to you? Well, they probably have equal weight, I'd say. Most of my friends are physically closer to me,

but my relatives are similar in terms of emotional proxious. I try not to distinguish between the two, since it's not like there's some sort of competitive hierarchy, which it isn't and it shouldn't be. Are people in your country usually close with their relatives? I would say so. Even though families are usually big and intertwined with each other, social media makes it easy to stay in touch. It'll possibly it's too easy and maybe we're all a little overexposed to people's eccentricity sometimes. Thank you.