If I Were You - 273: Shallow Boyfriend (Live in Denver!)

Episode Date: May 8, 2017

In this episode we discuss good friends, bad people, and ugly voices -- live at Comedy Works in Denver, CO!See omny.fm/listener for privacy information.

This is a headgum podcast. This was a fun one, our live show in Denver. I had a great time in Denver. Missed it already. The show was a blast. They provided us with some high quality audio recording of the show. Killing it, Denver. Thank you.

And they even gave us a video of the show, so we're going to try to get that online within a couple days if I plan this correctly. Might even be on our YouTube channel. YouTube.com slash if I were you. If I were you, show. But for now, enjoy this, our live recording at the Comedy Works in Denver. Deuces. Yes, dude!

Hey, give this guy a round of applause. Stand up! Stand up! They're not going to do it. They're not going to do it. No standing-o for standing-o. What are the odds your name starts with the letter O? Fuck.

You know what? I'm still going to bet it. What is your name? He could say bad and they still... Yeah. But the odds are bad. Yeah. That's true.

Maybe it's like Oliver, but with an A U at the start. Start. Top. Front. All of a... Um... Nachos. I love it, man.

Nothing like some nachos and some pot... Oh, no, I couldn't. Sure you can. Actually, fuck it. I'm lactose intolerant. But tonight... Yeah. We're only in Denver once.

We're in Denver once. We're in the cheese, man. Holy shishkabaz. Yes, he's the cheese. I forgot about that one. Very good. You guys are good. You listen to the podcast more than we do, which is saying a lot.

We appreciate it. Did anybody drive here from a long way? Is it a way? From Boulder? From Boulder? From Boulder? From Boulder? From Boulder!

You took a bus? You took a bus. You took a bus. Did you get a handjob on the bus? You got three handjobs on a bus. Three handjobs in 43 minutes on the bus. Wow. Same woman.

All self-administered. You what? Yeah. But you go left, right, left. It's like a different person each time except two from the left. Yeah. Half of them were from you? Yeah.

Half of them were from you? Yeah. How could three... How could half of three? So you doubled up with somebody? It was the driver. I knew it. Good man.

Did anybody drive a bus? I was the other guy. Anybody drive a bus here? Didn't think so. What a way to lose the audience real quick, right? Long shot. Well, the important thing is we're all here now. So thank you again for coming.

Has anybody been to one of our live shows before and one of our live podcasts before? Yeah. Clapper? Not too many. Where did the clapper see us? LA. Chicago?

LA? Austin? Austin? Does anybody else know a city? It could just... Dover? Dover, yeah. Is Dover's soul from Delaware?

Huh? Huh? What are you fucking talking about fish for? Sorry about that, guys. Sure. But that's so exciting because we've never been here before. We've never been to Colorado. We've never done a live show or a live podcast.

Yeah. First ever. First ever. Very excited to be part of history. It's very... Oh, that's really grandiose, man. We're excited to be a part of history. What's the most important thing that happened in Denver?

Like, you could probably count it on one and a half hand job fingers. That's like... What happened? Gold rush. No, that was a California thing, but... No, I know there was 64. That's when the gold rush was here?

No, amendment 64. Amendment 64. You know what I take it back? Oh, that's pretty good. So we're number three. Not bad. That's actually not bad. That's actually really good.

Actually permission to vape? Denied. Okay. Completely and utterly fair. They took their phones away. I shouldn't be able to... You could just smoke weed. That's it.

Completely legal. It takes cigarettes. Everything's fine. I called 9-1-1 on a pothead earlier. A gonjiment. Yeah, I remember that. He had dreadlocks. He was a dreadlocked rock star.

You find it to be a gateway drug. Is that correct? Pretty soon he's going to be fucking a turtle. I don't know what's next. Well, that's not a drug. That's just a... Well, it gets you high. It doesn't.

It gets you by. Yeah. Very good. Thank you. All right. Has anybody never heard our podcast at all before? It's okay to clap. Yeah.

People dragged here by friends. I like that. I like that. So more about fucking a turtle. You want to get between the head and the shell. There's this... Why? Ucus membrane that separates the two.

Oh. That's... I mean, that's murdering a turtle. Oh yeah, it doesn't survive. But it's just a... I was envisioning something that was measureful for the turtle as well. Oh.

Like you guys would simultaneously climb... Climb down some. Yeah. No. That's interesting. So this... For those of you who have never heard it before, this podcast is How to Fuck Different Animals.

Moving alphabetically along, vermin... vermin. T-U-V-U. Huh? Is there a U animal? There has to be another one with T. But after T, you are?

Oh yeah, probably not. Which brings us to U. U animal. Unicorns aren't real, but thank you. Oh yeah, urchin. I heard urchin. Sea urchin. The urchin fucks you, brother.

So does the unicorn. Oh, good man. Good man. No, this is actually an advice show, an advice podcast. We get emails from people all around the world. They're asking us for guidance. That makes sense.

We're smart looking. And then, what we do is answer as many questions as possible. Oftentimes, Jake and I are just by ourselves. It's lonely out there in Los Angeles, but sometimes we get to hang out with 300 of our closest, newest friends in Denver. Denver!

Denver! So if you guys don't mind, we're going to sit down and answer some questions for you. Is that all right? Yeah! Tight. Oh yeah, this is nice. This is nice.

How do you do that? So you unscrew it and it lowers. And then you re-screw it. Just remember to re-screw. Probably at a height that's a little more comfortable for your neck, buddy. This is... I want to...

This is like my texting position. Yeah. You're... I understand why your shoulders are hunched, but why are the legs so tightly together? In case I, like, see anything hot on my phone. Yeah. This is like...

So what's a cool way to sit? I'll be like... Or whatever. Yeah. That's pretty nice. Really? Yeah. I can actually have a cigar.

Well, you can't smoke in here. No. Or a joint, that's right. Yeah. That's, I guess, legal to have, but not to smoke in here, right? Fucking... Very cool Colorado.

Bunch of squares. If I had it my way, you could smoke pot in a fucking hospital. I'm serious. A freaking children's cancer center. Jesus. Just bomb-ripping. Why would you want to go there to smoke?

Listen, we have more important issues to get to. Okay. Uh, I'll take out my phone. Yeah, go ahead. I'm going to pour you a small glass of whiskey. This is a 21 and over show. We don't have very many 21 and over shows, so we can go blue.

We talked about skull fucking eternal. What's next? And getting butt-efed by a unicorn, or at least that's where my mind went. Mine too. Uh, all right, cool. So, on my phone, the reason I'm lucky, I'm not just being rude,

although let me check Twitter for a second. Oh, interesting. Wow. The wizard's won. Can you believe that? Awesome. You won. I have in my phone some real emails from real people.

All we need are some fake names to preserve their anonymity. Crandis! Yeah! I heard Crandis, and I gotta, I gotta respect Crandis' hustle. Crandis was in the Portland, the Austin, the L.A. show. He's been everywhere. Or she?

Or she. Yeah. Do you think it's a she? I don't know. She's a pansexual beast. Yeah. Crandis, it's a them, there, thus type of thing. Those are Crandis' pronouns.

It's a zur, and this one is a male. Great, by the by, cheers. Cheers to you. All right, ready? Oh, all right. I'll do it. Do you guys get drinks, too? Is that this kind of place?

That's what's up, everybody. It's gotta be Thursday somewhere, you know what I mean? Hey, what's shoey? What? Oh, do a shoey. Fuck no, man. I already ruined one pair of shoes with a shoey. What's the Denver equivalent of a shoey?

Rocky Mountain Oysters? So drinking it out of a bowl testable? He says it's just weed. You smoke weed out of your shoe. So you pack it in the heel, and you smoke out of the toe. Dab. Dab. That's a good call.

That was really cool. And I'll do that literally any time you say dab. Dab. All right, don't abuse it, though. Dab you very much. It's a compulsion. All right. There you go.

Coran just writes, for the past year, I have been having a lot of trouble finding a girl to get close with. I fell into sort of a slump, I guess you could say. A few weeks ago, a friend of mine was throwing a party for his girlfriend and insisted I come. About halfway through the party, my friend starts making mean comments about one of his girlfriend's friends. It's true, she wasn't attractive. A real smog show, in fact. But there was no need to point it out. Anyway, party winds down, and I find myself alone with this girl.

My instincts kicked in, and I was determined to bust my slump. Despite her smog show stay, this girl was a surprisingly good bang. We exchanged numbers, and have been hanging out five nights a week ever since. She's actually really cool. I get along with her better than any other girl before her. There's just one problem. I didn't write this. There's just one problem.

I can't be seen with her in public. Even though I'm starting to fall for this girl, I'm very worried my friends will make fun of me. Still, I don't want to stop hanging out with her, because she really gets me. So, what should I do? Love, Crandis. Crandis. She doesn't really get him, because she doesn't know that he's a creep, right? She totally understands that I don't want to be seen with her.

You can see the cracks of this bro trying to come out. I don't know what I'm feeling for this. I'll go, but I can't be seen with her, right? Or cannot, because I think I love her. It's sentimental Kanye. He did go from slump, he busted out of his slump and went on a fucking streak. That's cool. Respect.

I think it's cool to be hanging out with somebody that's deemed conventionally unattractive, because it makes you a good person. You don't care about that. Thus, you're not shallow. I think if you're thinking about it this hard, you do go back to being a bad person. Yeah. It's like a pool with two deep ends. So, we want it to scoot from one to the other, and stop drowning, drowning, drowning.

Yeah. Or you want to be in the deep end? No, I want him to be... Where do you want this guy to be? Out of the pool. Of course. He can't swim. It's freezing.

I feel like we should make fun of this guy, because he's so flippant about somebody else's appearance, and that's someone that he seemingly is falling in love with. Right. He's a rude man. He's a rude man. He's a rude man. But that's true. I think it's based on ignorance and not meanness.

Like, he's almost like a caveman. Yeah. Do I do this? I do want to give him a little bit of respect for coining Smog Show. I like that a lot. So, I want to... Like, going forward, use that. Like, for instance, this guy has a Smog Show on the inside.

Oh, I see. So, Smog Show is male or female attractive. Yeah, Smog Show is male or female ugly. So, this guy has a Smog Show on the inside. And his girlfriend's a Smog Show on the outside. It's interesting because you don't usually see those two kinds of people pairing up. Yeah. It's almost more rare than a really hot couple.

Wait a second. I'm ugly, but my boyfriend's an asshole. Yeah. You never thought that I would like... I'm so unattractive. You never thought that I'd have a shallow boyfriend, did you? This is actually pretty interesting. I think this is the plot of shallow hell.

This is what it's about. So, what's the advice he needs to... You got to just... Yeah, you got to just be proud of being in love. That's a good question. Does she ever get asked in love? I went from like, you have to be proud to be in love and then somebody says, does she have a good ass? And that is what's really important.

Yeah, I think that she does have a good ass because she was a surprisingly great bang. Yeah. What? She's the girl. Oh, she is the girl. Maybe she has a great ass. So I say, you got to go for it. Embrace her physically and emotionally.

Take her out for a spin on the town. And you could wear a disguise. She could be seen and you don't have to be. What? That's the fucking perfect plan. No. I'm just saying, if he's like, I can't be seen with her and he's like worried about, like he could be in disguise. That's so offensive.

I know, but I'm just giving him a couple extra options. One, be proud, she's got a great ass. Two, you go in disguise. Yeah, that's it. So one, judge a person by the content of her character, her personality. It makes you smile. That's all that's important. Yeah.

And then the other one is like, you could get a mustache and glasses and a little cap. Yeah. And no one will ever know who you are. Okay. So those are two equally good options. Yeah. I think so. Thank you.

Let's give it up for Crandis. He's trying. He's trying. I just want to push him in the right direction. Yeah. But I'm glad that he's considering it is all. Do we have another male name? Gertrude?

Surge dude. Oh, Surge dude. Surge. Yeah, I got you. Surge. Yeah. Surge, man. Let me ask you a question, man.

Oh, actually, why don't we do Gertrude because it's a female name? Whoa. All right. A female that rhymes with Gertrude. Wait, it rhymes with or is Gertrude? Rhymes with Surge dude. Rhymes with Surge dude. Is Gertrude.

Yeah. Gertrude. Yo, Gertrude. Gertrude, let's play Guess Who, man. All right. Gertrude writes, I'm a 21 turning 22-year-old female from Western Canada who needs help with the following shamefully superficial scenario. Whoa.

See, it can go both ways. Yeah, mostly it's the other way, though. Okay. Last week, this guy came up to me in the library and asked me out. He appeared normal enough. He had a nice voice, and I appreciated his boldness, so I gave him my number. He called me. Yes, actually called me a couple days later to make sure I was real and to also inform

me of his opposition to the impersonal nature of texting. Weird but fair, I guess. Despite my growing hesitation, I agreed to drinks the following Monday. Turns out he has a great personality. He's well traveled, very charming, and we share similar values and interests. Overall, the conversation came easy, and I enjoyed the evening, but here's the thing. I'm not attracted to him physically. I know it's what's on the inside that counts.

She wrote that kind of sarcastically, but there are a couple of aspects to his appearance that are keeping me from being smitten, namely one of which is his unibrow. Oh. I try to remain focused on his eyes, but when my gaze inevitably ventures upwards, I can't help but think of a young Frida Kahlo. He also has a gross mouth and is a bad kisser. He kissed him. This is you.

My eyebrows are fucking dope, dude. So my questions are, if I did want to pursue this, what's the best way to suggest for him to pluck? Is it possible for me to teach him how to kiss? Or if I decide I'm really not into it, how do I let this guy down? And more importantly, is being smitten even a thing? I know you two tend to advise people out of sticky situations, but what do you think you can help this girl out of a hairy one?

Oh. Love Gertrude. Gertrude. All right. Gertrude. All right. Yeah. Give it up.

So much like Crandis, Gertrude has a stumbling block towards being in love. I mean, it's really nice how much he's trying to forgive him, too. He's like, the one attractive quality that he has is that he's so ugly that she admires his boldness in talking to her. Yeah. I'm impressed that you don't just hide under a bridge most of the time. It's also so... Good on you.

I've never heard of somebody being attracted to a nice voice. I never thought about that. Have you ever thought of someone having a nice voice? I think that's because you have a really Jewish, nasally voice. Oh, is that a Jewish voice? Yeah. But I have this sort of silky, sexy voice. Like, nobody's ever attracted to my voice.

No one's ever like, talk dirty to me. Yeah. Like, oh, I'm deep inside of you. Oh, you like that. And it's all... Can I talk you off? Maybe if you sit on my throat, there's enough vibration for me to get you off. E off.

You're an ass. I'm so sorry. You're a donkey. It was just a... Oh, shit. Wow. I have been joking on a peanut for 21 years. You're a fucking farm animal, man.

I gravely apologize. Is that a thing? Are ladies attracted to a guy's voice? Yeah. Are guys ever attracted to a woman's voice? Uh-oh. Uh-oh. Good Lord.

And this is what's wrong with the world. All right, but back to this kind of superficial girl. This guy's great, great values, awesome personality, great boldness. He's well-traveled, but he has a square inch of hair right above his nose. So should she break up with him forever? I think... No, you can... I think you can get rid of...

If it's only this, this is... That's a bridge that can be torn down. Is there... Is there a mic off? Huh? I think they turned it off on purpose when I was saying, can I talk you off in a really, really loud and noxious voice? And that's fair, Mr. Soundman.

Uh, so... Okay. So what you're saying is, this girl can and should change and shave this man. I think she should shave the man. Yeah. Or wax the man. I think you like... Yeah, you mention it.

Right? You mention it? You know, if this was the other way around, I'd be like, you know what, this girl has the right to live her life in the same way she desires. You shouldn't tell her to do anything. Don't change her. Love it or leave it. Right.

That's the woke podcast that we do. But since it's the other way around, I think she should tell him to shave. There's been fucking generations and generations. Yeah. Yeah. Fucking hold him down and shave him. I've been changed a lot for and by ladies. Yeah.

They know best. Girls tell me to grow and shave my beard all the time and I do that. It's like when you say, dad, I listen. Girl! Girl! You gotta give the people what they want. Shave the guy. Teach him how to be a better kisser.

I think you don't even have to... Don't say you're a bad kisser, let me teach you. Just like, it's gonna be fine. You'll be good at that. Yes, it is true, motherfucker. Are you... Wait, tell me why you think that. Bad kissers never improve.

Bad kissers never improve. You're a bad teacher. Also, bad students never improve. Two detention with you, mister. And only losers practice. You better be good the first time. Or you'll be bad forever. Forever.

Forever. Forever. And I know because no one kisses like this. Wow. That was awesome. We should make out sometime. I think kissing can be improved. And deproved.

Yeah, I just think you don't have to like have a conversation about it. Well, I heard it. I think that you can just like ease him towards kissing better. You know, that's gonna be fine. I've been with plenty of bad kissers that you just silently coach. In a bad kissing pie chart, what do you think is the biggest segment? Too much tongue. Too much tongue.

Not enough teeth. Rrrrrrrrrrr. This is you pulling away from a kiss on a first date. Why, if you filled out this survey, I could improve. Would you mind rating me? And subscribe. Rrrrrrrrr. I can speed it up or slow it down.

Speed it up. Most people want that. So, I do speed it up. I go like this. Oh, no tongue. Yeah, I'm like a little chipmunk eating an acorn. Interesting. And where are, what are you doing with your hands when you're kissing like that?

And your fingers, moving so rapidly. and are your feet standing on the ground? Oh, no. I am hovering inches above the ground. It's safe. You're magic. I'm a hummingbird man. I'm hummingbird from the neck down and squirrel

from the neck up. I can see that. I'm a little squirrel boy. I'm a motherfucking squirrel boy. It's a star boy. I didn't like it. Parody. I know.

It's a satire, actually. I'm holding a mirror to society. No, you're not. What else is there? Too much tongue, too much teeth. What else is bad about this? When you just sort of like dead fish a tongue, just like tongue in the mouth and don't move it around.

How about that look? That's like, well, here, lean in. Oh, no. I say, well, let's consider a group of... It's hard to say. That's awesome, dude. Uh... I should really tell Jeff that that draws a plus.

Let's not. All right. I'd hate for him to go to his head. I don't want him to ask for a raise. Shave him is the answer. I think you could... Or wax him or pluck him. But I think you can do that.

I think you're waiting your rights to... You gotta wax him to ask. You gotta pluck him. You gotta dab him. Skip it. Yeah. Dab it. Bop it.

Jump it. Shave it. Dab it. Dab it. And the very best thing of all... Let's skip it. It's a different toy. Yep.

Definitely. So dab it. Dab it. Uh, why don't we answer some non-superficial questions? Let's get fucking real for once, Denver. Um... Can we get another guy's name? Tampon.

Tampon. Tampon. Tampon. Tampon. So... We moved away. We came here to yell Tampon, or if that was just... That came to your head just now.

He thinks he's out of fantasy. Oh, you said it. It was your idea. It was your idea to say Tampon? No. No? All right. Cool.

Yeah. Totally. Tampon. You're right. Go ahead. Dab you very much. Dab you. Uh...

Okay. So many people are eating nachos right now. I can't hear anything except for the crunch. It's making me need to pull out my fucking beard. Sorry. My mom was killed at a Tostitos factor. And even, like, just a fucking hint of lime gets me... She drowned in a scoop.

You can imagine. A scoop the size of a jacuzzi. Yeah. Just scoopy. Nice. Thank you. Ahoy, boys. I need Jake's wisdom regarding sex.

Yes! I'm an 18-year-old gymnast who has recently been accepted to go to a Canadian national championship, but I suck at gymnastics. So I'm mostly there to lose my virginity. After the competition, after the competition, there's a dance that involves booze. So I intend to do a lot of dancing, drinking, grinding, making out the whole shebang. I'd also like to take a special lady back to my hotel room, but there are a few complications. One, I could dance and chat fine, but I don't know how to ask a girl back to my room.

Two, I'll have a roommate and need to know how to keep him out. Three, guys and girls aren't allowed in each other's rooms, so I would have to sneaker in somehow without the coaches seeing. Solutions to these problems and a solid plan would be greatly appreciated. Help me seize some hot Quebecois cheese. Love tampons. Okay. Is it clear to anybody else that tampons are not going to lose his virginity on the trip?

I mean, he's trying to figure out all these little hurdles. The biggest one is that nobody's going to want to fuck him. Yeah, he's like trying to figure out how to rob a bank. He's like, my questions are, what should I invest my winnings in? What should I do with a bag of cash that I escaped from the bank? How do I make sure my friends don't judge me for this heist? Yeah. Excuse me?

What? Never mind. Oh wait, your microphone went off again. Oh, all right. You're fucking with me, I love it. So... Oh, jiggle it. Tell me one more time, it's a boy that's a gymnast, correct?

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And that's fine. That is fine. They're small and strong. Oh, here comes one now. Backflip, backflip, backflip kicks you. Oh! 10!

Oh yeah, he does like the gymnastics. So I guess in gymnastics terms, he wants to know how to stick the landing. Oh! Very good, very good. But yeah, he's trying to, but he hasn't even choreographed the floor routine yet. Oh, it's not. I guess let's just go question by question. Let's see if we can provide some insight.

Sure. I don't know how to ask a girl back to my room. I think if things are going great, you don't really have to like, you don't have to like walk up and be like, Hi, my name's Tampon and I'd like you to come back to my room. We've got a couple of hiccups, you're not allowed there and I have a roommate, but we'll figure that shit out. If you're like dancing, grinding, making out,

you could sort of just be like, should we go back to my room? That's like, that part's going to be easy if you're there. Don't worry, you won't be there. Next question. I'll have a roommate and need to know how to keep him out. Nice, dude. You go, you tell the roommate beforehand like, Hey, I'm going to try to get laid.

If you come back and there's like a little rubber band on the door, you just like chill for a little bit and I'll let you back in afterward. Again, this will not be a problem. It's not going to happen. You tell your roommate, 99% sure you will be able to sleep here tonight, but just in case, I don't even have a fucking rubber band. Let alone a rubber. Nice, dude.

Be safe, everybody. Number three. Girls and guys aren't allowed in each other's room, so I would have to sneak her in somehow without the coaches seeing. That's cool. I think that the coaches on these trips sort of turn a little bit of a blind eye because there's like a lot of people hooking up and fucking and stuff. Again, not you.

So just sort of like follow everybody else's lead if it gets there, but it won't. Anything else? Solutions to these problems and a solid plan would be great. He needs the solution, sure, but he also in addition, a solid plan. He barely know anything about the fucking event. I can't give him a lay of the land.

I don't know where the dancing is. It's after the competition. Is it in a hotel ballroom or is it in a club? It's in a club. Did he add a PS to the email? Yep, PS is in a club. Actually just a PS club. Which I didn't get until you asked.

We're wishing you the best tampon. Our fingers crossed for you. Godspeed, prove me wrong, please. Yeah, give it to me. Jake is switching microphones. That's what's up, wireless dude. Love that. Actually we're about half an hour ish or so in,

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All right. That was fun. We talked about your toe a lot. Yeah, it was mostly my turf toe injury that I got in Hawaii. It's now 3 a.m. in Denver. You went on, you waxed philosophical about the toe for, yeah, six and a half hours. Wow. Mostly slam poetry. But everybody's still here and we appreciate that.

Do you guys wanna answer some more questions? Maybe you can help us out. If you're listening to this, we're gonna be in Tempe tomorrow, but come on. It's too late. It's way too late. What do you think about holding straws like this? I actually, I disdain it.

I didn't realize that you've been doing it for a long, have you been doing it for a bit? Just like as if it's a joint. Is that how you would hold the joint? Oh, yeah. Oh, yes. We simply must remove the dalemations. Your wrist is so limp.

Why'd you clearly just wanted to kill dogs? That's insane. That was a villain. That was a villain, man. A fucking Ursula. That was a fucking villain. Now we have fucking what? Trump in. That guy's not killing any dogs.

He's not fucking any mermaids. I don't know, man. I don't know if we should be drawing equivalency to Trump and Ursula. Yeah, I guess he's not that fat. Neat, man. Ariel was greedy. What?

She has 20 thingamabobs and she wants more. Who cares? No big deal. I want more. I feel like she's, but she's talking about like wanting more than just her life under the sea, like life above. Under the sea. Under the sea. You guys should see that movie.

It was really good. It's about this fish loser chick who becomes a hot girl that can't talk. So the perfect woman. She's the hottest you can be. You either have gills or you can't fucking speak. With a flat head so you can put a beer on her. Don't applaud.

Don't applaud. Alright, this is the most woke podcast there is. Alright, let's try to answer a few more questions. I mean, we're already here. I love the lights. I want you to see this. What? I don't know.

Can you get a guy, actually point to someone in the back and get a name from them. It's a guy. No, right over there. Alright, give me a boy's name. Oh, you were not ready for this. What was it? A mirror.

A Regis Philbin. I heard Regis Philbin and I do appreciate it, but you take all the time in the world and you come up with a name. We could be here for days. A guy's name, no, you're turning around. It's you, right in the dead center. Right there.

A guy's name. That's pretty good. Toby is a guy's name. Toby. Toby. Give it up for Toby. Alright, let's get a real good one, though. Toby was kidding.

No, no, no, Toby's good. Toby, Toby, Toby. We can't do that. Like the band, Tony, Tony, Tony. Oh wait, Toby or Tony? She just... Tony the Tiger or Toby? Like Toby and McGuire.

Tony the Tiger? Alright, now I actually do want a different name. I thought she was saying Toadney, like Rodney, but Rodney, but Toadney. That's pretty good too. So let's go to Toadney. Toadney writes, My ex-girlfriend just floated the idea

of going to a musical festival with my mom. This seems weird as fuck to me. She texts me periodically and I respond, which is fine. I suppose she still keeps in touch with my mom, which is fine, I guess. But I broke up with her because I don't want her in my life anymore.

Anyway, the idea of her going to a three-day music festival with my mom just goes way too far in my opinion. The ex seems like unaware that this is weird. Should I tell my ex to fuck off with this noise? Should I say that's cool and then ask my mom to say no? Am I being a diva bitch about all this? Maybe Jake can help me out because he's had similar problems with his exes and his mother.

Although this... My mother does nothing wrong. She's a saint, she's a queen, she's a goddess. But yeah, she talks to my exes a little too much sometimes. Although this isn't quite as dastardly as my mom telling my ex that I failed out of college. I don't want to step off my mother. Love Toadney.

A Toadney. I am so curious what festival it is. Are you? I assume every music festival is Coachella. Coachella's happening now. Yeah, so there's an email came last week. This ex is on ex. Nice.

This mom. Rolling face with Mama McGuire. Toadney McGuire. Will you fucking make out with me? Your son won't and I just want your fucking DNA on me. If I throw a kiss your mom and your dad, that's like we're still together. Jesus.

That's the kind of weird fucking realizations you have at music festivals. That's awesome. That's why we fucking go. You're dehydrated in the EDM tent listening to the Chainsmokers talk about fucking Boulder. Yeah, was that place, was that song more popular

here near Boulder? More popular. It was like, it was so insanely popular. You think it could be more popular here in Denver? No. Yeah, equal it sounds. Equal. We'll never know.

And we don't want to. Would you tell your, I don't think you could tell your girlfriend what to do. I think you got to go to your mama. I guess you don't have to be like, if she's like, hey, I'm gonna ask your mom to fucking electric zoo or something. Yeah.

You can be right. We're gonna road trip to Knoxville. Yeah, you don't have to, I'm gonna go to Bonnaroo with your mom. With your mama-roo. It sounds like a fucking threat. If you don't come, I'm gonna bring your mother. Yeah.

How's that? It sounds like she's like playing a game where it's like, I have to go to Bonnaroo with your mother. And make her cheat on your dad. Jesus, what a weird game of mash you're playing. And we're gonna live in a shack. With shack. And I have nine kids.

Can you tell your ex-girlfriend what to do? You can't tell her what to do, or you can, but she doesn't have to listen. But you could say, you don't have to be like, it's fine. Like go ahead, ask my mom. She can live her life. You can be like, ask her, but that's fucking weird. I'd prefer if you didn't.

You can say these little things. Like you don't have to be like so chill about it. And then to your mommy, what do you say to mommy? I think you gotta- Mama! Don't do Molly! With Molly! Sorry, don't do that voice.

It turns me on a little too much. Really? Yeah, I just like that you- Mama! Yeah, God, it's so hot. You're coming! Yeah. I'm trying to just, I'm overheating.

Gah, gah, gah, goo goo! That's how the Game Boy was born. Someone talked him into existence. You're saying, don't say anything to mom? I think you go to mom rather than the girl. You think you go straight to mom? Yeah. So you say to the girlfriend,

Yeah, ask my mom, that's awesome. She should get out more. She only mostly hangs out with my dad. Yeah. She has a book club this Saturday, but I'll see if she can instead roll face with you while listening to Bell and Sebastian in a fucking field.

Instagram stories of your mom making out. Fucking twerking on stage. A bitchy porn ship paint down her ass crack. She's on BuzzFeed. She's a fucking gif. Nine moms that know how to get it, and one that's a fucking embarrassment to her son. She's a gilf.

Oh. A gif I'd like to film. Film. Film? Good film. Yeah. Good film to film. What do you think?

You think you can say, so you think you say something to the mom? I think you say, mommy, don't you dare. You breastfed me, mommy, and that was enough. Sorry. So you, I don't, you breastfed me, and that was enough for you to do with your life. And now you're good.

You don't get to have fun, mama. You peaked when I was two, mother. No more life for you, mommy. I've already sucked you dry, mother. I sucked a life from you. You mustn't rent a house in India, mother. I don't care if there's a hashtag dope pool, mama. You don't get to go.

Dab. Dab. Did you say dab or dad? It is dad's call. Oh, yeah. Why don't you go to your daddy? Oh, I don't think you need to go over. Oh, daddy.

You'll never guess what mama's doing this weekend. The women are conspiring against us, father. That's right. My ex and your current are canoodling. Down at, I wish I knew more music festivals. What's another one? Austin City Limits. Yeah, Governor's Ball.

Oh, yeah. Lightning in a bottle. Lightning in a bottle is a good one. That's right. Mama's renting an air bed in bed. She says it's a real chill spot. Oh, you could just invite your girlfriend's, ex-girlfriend's dad to Burning Man.

Oh, man. And they're like, I'm going to be out of the fucking desert with your old man for a week. I'd love that. Really? Yeah, he's a dentist and he doesn't get out much. Oh, hey, hey, kiddo. I'm really excited.

Rips off his shirt, nipple rings. Of course. John B. Macklemore style. Yo. Wow. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. S-town. What's up?

Who has time for one more question? Are we at the last one already? All right. We've been here for about an hour, but I like our chances. We have one more lady question. Becky. Becky. That was so fast.

You got the last one. You guys said Toby. Tony. You had girl names ready? Becky, you came with ready? And then it took you five fucking minutes to come up with Tony, which is a girl's name. Toby could have been a girl's name.

The last name is going to be Becky, because I respect your hustle. But I went a first name from way back there. Olivia. Gordita. Oh, Gordita. Gordita Becky. Gordita is her first name.

Her parents are that high all the time. That's right. Oh, I feel like I'm pregnant. Oh, shit, I am. Gordita. She wears the chalupa. Oh, it's cheesy fiesta potato. Yo, Kiero, spend the rest of my life with you.

No. Absolutely no. That's fair. No. Oh. Oh. You're abusing me now. And I love you for it.

Gordita Becky, Gordita Becky writes, my best friend has a habit of cheating on her husband. Not really a habit. This always happened when she's been drinking and is blacked out. Last weekend, she was in town visiting for my birthday and after a lot of partying, her and a couple of my friends came back to my place.

She ended up on top of some guy in my bed and I ended up sleeping in the bathtub to get away from all the moaning. I live in a studio. Good on you. The next day, she woke up embarrassed and guilty and called her husband as she always does and told him that she was blacked out when it happened

and she was taken advantage of like she always does. He's now mad at me saying I should have taken better care of her on my birthday and she's off the hook again. Should I tell her husband what I really saw? He thinks she is an innocent angel that can do no wrong. I do feel guilty for not intervening

but I was drunk too and sick of having to stop her from being her slutty self. Love, Gordita Becky. This husband sounds pretty chill. Yeah. He's like, oh babe, babe, babe, don't worry about it. I know that's not, I'm you. No, I was, I had a beer.

You did? Who let you have a beer, sweetie? My fucking best friend. Oh! Oh, Olivia, you cunt. You absolute wench. You wench, Olivia. You cheated on me.

You did. I had to think of it. I also had a white wine. You had a what? A white wine. What's white? A white wine. What color was the wine?

Olivia, you hear me. I'm saying a white wine. What do you mean what wine? A what wine? No, a white wine. A what wine? No, a white. When did you have the wine?

I had it last night. When wine? In between fuck sashes. Oh, I could not hear that. Put your friend on the phone. I don't want to talk to you or the guy you cheated on me with. I want to talk to somebody who is there. I'm at my wit's end.

You slept in the bathtub, did you? You're responsible for this mess. Can't really intervene from the tub, can you? I trusted you. Not her. Hmm. Is it cheating if you're drunk? Yeah.

See, that's when I agree. Here's the thing, man. You do a lot of really stupid shit when you're drunk. I'm not excusing it. It is cheating. But I feel like I'm going to just back away from this. Yeah. All the way.

I'm going to slowly stop where I was going. Because the decisions that you make when you're drunk are yours. Because you made the decision to get drunk in the first place. So if you're somebody that cheats on somebody all the time. And then you're like, I'm going to get drunk. You're like sort of saying, but like a little bit lying to yourself that you're going to cheat on somebody. Wouldn't you say? Or what if, you know, if you're like a really observant Jew, you have other people do shit.

Bring everything back to this, by the way. Yeah. So if you're a really observant Jew, you can't do anything on Saturday. So you hire people to turn on light switches for you. Or you set an elevator to go up automatically up and down. So you're not pressing any buttons. What if you hire Scott Free in heaven when God is like, did you? Sorry.

In 1994, did you press a button? No, I hired a Catholic. No, it wasn't me. I swear. Go hit it on the way. Sorry, dude. You have to go to hell. You know my rule.

But Jews don't believe in hell sliding down. What does happen then? You're fine. So if Jews don't believe in hell and you have to do all the shit to get into heaven. What happens if you don't get into heaven? It's still heaven? These are questions I should have asked at Hebrew school. But fuck it.

I'm asking you right now. I believe there is the olamaba, which is the world to come, of course. Of course. Are there Jews here in Colorado? Can you confirm that for me? The only ones here. But there's no Jewish hell. It's not a fear-based paste.

Which brings me to my invention idea. A fear-paste. Yeah, a fear-paste. I put it on your skin and you're scared. You know dream catchers? Yeah. So this is a fear-paste. You swear it on your walls and the nightmares get stuck.

Thoughts? Well, that's sort of what a dream catcher is. Yeah. I don't think you could get the patent on this one. Back to my original plan for this girl who can get away with cheating as long as she doesn't drink. You force other people to make you drink. What?

I'm going to fall asleep with my mouth open. If a funnel should end up in my mouth or ass, I'm not going to stop it. I feel like this isn't the question that they ask. What? You're answering the question as if it's like the girl that wrote in and she's like, how do I get drunk without my own permission so I can cheat on my husband and say that I was drunk and someone else got me drunk? What was the question?

Because I'm pretty sure I said fake nap while somebody sticks a funnel in your ass. And then there was the whole fear-paste thing. Yeah. That was a side track. Okay. Let's go with the fear-paste. Final answer. If you're the friend, what do you do?

Do you level with the husband? I feel like he's in so much, um, what's it called in you? Denial. Yeah. Yeah. He can't get cheated on because his wife is constantly wasted. And when she's wasted, she's now responsible for her actions, somebody else's, and it's not even the guy, it's the friend who let it happen.

Why don't you distance yourself like you did earlier from the entire situation? I still say you sleep in the bathtub. I think, here's what you do. How do you want to fade away from your friend's husband? I guess fine. That sort of work, but here's what I think you should do. I think you should, I think you, you hook up with the girl, the wife, not girlfriend. That's fucking serious cheating.

That's real shit. You hook up with her, right? And then the husband is like, oh, you got her drunk. And then you say, no, I didn't. She, oh, actually you don't even have to hook up with her. Get her, have her drink apple juice or something. So she thinks she's drunk. She acts drunk.

She cheats on it. It's a placebo. It's fucking sugar water. And then, then she cheats on her husband and he's like, you got her drunk. And then you're like, no, she just doesn't like yo dick. For those of you listening at home, Jake just took his dick out and we're back to a standing ovation. More than I deserve. Guys, I think that's our time.

Did you guys have fun tonight? Guys, thank you so much for coming. We appreciate it.