IMO with Michelle Obama and Craig Robinson - Try Not to Laugh with Ayo Edebiri and Don Cheadle

Episode Date: May 20, 2026

Today’s episode of IMO features two very talented (and funny) costars: Ayo Edebiri and Don Cheadle! The two star in the Broadway revival of Proof, co-produced by Higher Ground. They discuss... what it’s like starring on Broadway for the first time, their childhood experiences on the stage, and the friendship they’ve developed through the show. Plus, a surprise appearance from a bug sends the whole group reeling…Have a question you want answered? Write to us at imopod.com.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Your parents were pretty on board with you. Were you always kind of the quirky kid? Well, obviously in my memories, I'm like deeply normal. And then my cousins are always like, oh, you're so funny and weird. And I'm like, okay, well, how funny. This episode of IMO is brought to you by Progressive Insurance. Well, everybody, welcome to IMO in New York. It's a special episode because I'm by myself.
Starting point is 00:00:34 My big brother Craig. Yeah, I was wondering where Craig was. I guess. You know, traveling everything. It's not. He's a busy guy. He's a busy guy. But I'm here and we're in New York because I just saw an amazing production of proof on Broadway.
Starting point is 00:00:53 And we're going to talk about that here today with the two couple of special people here who are the reasons why this play is so amazing, Don and I. It's good to have you here. Thank you. For those of you who don't know higher ground, Barack and I, we are also co-producing this amazing production, and we are just thrilled to be a part of it because this version of the play is exactly the kind of stuff that Barack and I want to be involved with,
Starting point is 00:01:25 telling stories that are reimagined in ways that have an impact. So we are thrilled. but I have to formally introduce you all to the IMO audience. So I'm just going to read your quick bios just in case you don't know who you are. Oh, appreciate it. Okay. But we have Don Cito, the one and only, is one of Hollywood's most versatile and enduring talents. I like that.
Starting point is 00:01:50 This is my friend, so I know you're a little embarrassed. Perhaps best known for his performances in the film's Devil in a Blue Dress, which I just rewatched a couple of days ago. Gosh, I also just realized a couple of days ago. It's a really good. It's so good. You just turned into another dude. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:02:11 I guess that's your job. Yes, mouse, yeah. Yeah, mouse. But also boogie nights, traffic, and hotel Rwanda that earned you an Academy Award nomination. Don is an actor, producer, an activist whose work on and off-screen reflects a deep commitment to storytelling. that matters. Thank you. And Io, my little friend here,
Starting point is 00:02:39 is one of the most exciting young talents in Hollywood. Let's go. I know, whose groundbreaking role as Sydney and FX's acclaimed series, The Bear, earned her an Emmy, a Golden Globe, and virtually every other major television award in a single suite. Damn girl. She is an actress, writer, director. and comedian whose meteor grise has made her one of the most sought after voices of her generation.
Starting point is 00:03:09 How about that? Yeah, what do we do with that? What do you do with that? What do I do at that? I don't know. Just try to make it to what day the week is it? We don't know. We already decided that we don't know. We don't know.
Starting point is 00:03:21 I've been calling it one day, but you guys didn't vibe that too much. No, it's just a... We missed it, whatever you mean by that. No, I get it. I'm not... Clear, but there's something there. I think if it was written... It feels like a New Yorker comic joke.
Starting point is 00:03:34 Yeah. It feels like that sort of I. Because it would be a Monday, but then with the end off and then one day. Already visualizing it? I'm laughing. Okay. I'm a smile on my face. YouTube.
Starting point is 00:03:44 I'm feeling lighter. I clearly connected already. What did you know each other before proof? No. Because you ever like you really have known each other forever. No. Which works really well for this play. No, we did not.
Starting point is 00:04:00 I mean, we'd met. you know, but we hadn't spent any real time with each other. And for me, because it predates me, you were talking about this play with Tommy and with Mike, you know, before I was on board. Tommy Kale, Tommy Kail, director, Mike Bosner, producer, lead producer. Yeah. And by the time I came into it and knew I.O. was going to be playing Catherine. I was so excited about it. And when we first met, you know, not to be trite, but it just felt like.
Starting point is 00:04:30 like what you're saying. It did feel like we'd known each other a long time. And I felt instantly paternal. I felt, you know, my daughter's very close to her age. And I just, yeah, yeah. So it's just right off the bat. And then once we started working and realized that we worked in a similar way and that we had similar ideas about the approach to the material
Starting point is 00:04:52 and it just all kicked off and kept going. Did you have someone in mind? Were you thinking of Don as you? you were thinking about this reimagined version of the play? I think, well, Don's name, I'm not, I mean, I think it was the first one that we came up with. I think also sometimes, I don't know, maybe this is just me, but I always do sort of like exercises of like, oh, who could be my parents, you know, who'd be like the dream person. And I think a part of it is, you know, obviously vibe and all those things, but just people who you really admire and whose work you really,
Starting point is 00:05:29 love and yeah Don's sort of like always been on my eternal list and it was like the first name that both Tommy and I had said we were like okay let's go away and come up with names and then it was like well I mean but I wasn't sure as I think I do often with people that I revere I was like I don't even know if he'd be interested in this if he knows who either of us is
Starting point is 00:05:52 I don't know and the fact that he said yes was just a dream but then again you know meeting I think sometimes it can be really hard to meet your heroes. And, you know, I think we've all had experiences where you walk away and you're like, okay, well, that's, that happened. That's information that I have now. And I mean, you know, I'm your friend, but like there is just such a graciousness, but also, and I'm really averting eye contact. I get it. I get it.
Starting point is 00:06:22 Look at him in the eye. I think. When, for me, it's always really heartening. I love my job. I would like to do it for as long as possible. And when I meet people who I really admire and revere, and I see that to them, they are still on the first day. Like, they are still so in communication with their inner child
Starting point is 00:06:47 and with their curiosity and with their drive. Are you calling down a big baby? Huge. Wow. Nice extract. You got there very definitely. Just really childish. and sort of anyone who's a good child.
Starting point is 00:07:02 No, but just, you know, like there's still a curiosity and a hunger and like, I don't know. It's, there's no, not that there's, it's like not a dissatisfaction, but you know what I mean? It's like you're just not content. He's never content. Yeah. Always questioning. Exactly. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:07:22 And that's a very, that's a very similar journey that I think we're both on. Well, let's, let's give our listeners. our audience, a sense of what proof is about. Because it's a revival. It opened in 2000. Playwright is David Alburn. Tony winner, Pulitzer Prize winning play. And not everybody is familiar with proof.
Starting point is 00:07:48 Can you guys talk about premise and why this reimagined version is so powerful? Well, the play, according to David, Or like to quote David, when he describes it, because often people ask, you know, what is it about? And he says at its core, it's a family drama. And at the center of it is Catherine, who I play, who is 25. And maybe I'll try to do a spoiler-free version. But it explores the relationships between herself and her father, who was a genius but trouble. bold mathematician and professor, her sister, who they all live in Chicago, who now lives in New York
Starting point is 00:08:39 and comes back home and one of her father's protegees, a student named Hal. And yeah, it goes through time. It goes through their relationships. And one of the questions at the center of it is, I don't know, there's a lot of different questions, but legacy and. Yeah. There's truth. Yeah, those are big themes in it. I don't know. Madness. Yeah. Genius. You know, where is, where is the line? Yeah. How do we straddle it? How does it look like? What does it look like? What does sisterhood? Sisterhood look like in a huge way. Trust. Responsibility. Trust. It's a big play. It's a big play. And the original play was, it was written for a white cast, a white
Starting point is 00:09:29 family. And Tommy Kale and Mike decided, and was it intentional to revive it with a black family? Did you all have those discussions? I think Tommy, you know, wanted to, I think Tommy and David had entered a conversation and with Mike at some point and they decided that they wanted Catherine to be I.O. So once they decided that, they sort of dictated who the family would be in some ways. Both Kara and Jin, Kara Young and Jen Ha, who are also in the play with us. Kara plays your sister, my sister. Love Kara.
Starting point is 00:10:10 For those of you who love Broadway, she was in purpose amazing in that. She is a living legend. It is really cool to be, I don't know, to work with her and know her and love her and just be like, I'm watching. I know what I'm watching. It's very cool. And then Jen Ha plays Hal who's amazing actor as well
Starting point is 00:10:33 But there, I call them our Broadway doulas Because they're a little bit more versed And both of them were like It feels almost like working on a new play The way that we have been rehearsing And workshopping with each other Which is really exciting It's a bit different from film and TV
Starting point is 00:10:54 Because with this, with theater, it's all about the process That's kind of all you have. You have all this rehearsal time. You're so funny. I was looking at it. Did you see? You too. Well, let's talk more about the process.
Starting point is 00:11:09 It's like, dad, don't do that. Ew. When you were you drink a bug, I had to get it. Did you see it, though? From the side, that was amazing. I mean, that's a specialty of IMO. We try to. You try to give in my protein.
Starting point is 00:11:23 Exactly. I'm sure another one will get in there somehow. But let's talk a bit about the fact that for both of you, this is your brought- I'm not scared of a bug. Do you want new water? No, I'm cool. You know, don't like that. Do you know any bugs we eat a year?
Starting point is 00:11:39 He's one with the earth. That's right. He understands that every. I don't know actually how many bugs we eat a year and I have no interest in it. You know, I'm sure. I know when you. It's probably, it's just no telling. Well, it's the average of people like Don who are eating probably a thousand bucks a year.
Starting point is 00:11:53 Probably eating more bugs than most. And me who's eating nuts. Who's taking the bug out of their water? That's right. But we digress. We digress. We digress. We digress.
Starting point is 00:12:02 We digress. We're back. But we don't know because I.O. and I, we do not try bugs. No, we don't. Yeah. We'll get that info flying in anyway. That's good. That's good.
Starting point is 00:12:10 But anyway, this is both of your debut on Broadway. So why now? Especially Don, for you, old man. Cool. Cool. I'll take that. Yeah, that one was for you, the old man. Yeah, I figured that out.
Starting point is 00:12:24 Okay. Yeah. Yeah. This is the love I get from the Obama's on the regular. You should be so lucky. Yeah, I feel very blessed. For me, it was, again, timing. It was the right auspices.
Starting point is 00:12:40 It was, you know, getting to work with I.O. Having the opportunity to work with Tommy, obviously, very experienced and really good director. And it's just somehow worked out. I'd been playing around with the idea for, a couple years and trying to work on a couple different things and developing things and just the time never really presented itself to have that much unencumbered time to carve out to do it. But this had all the reasons to say yes for me.
Starting point is 00:13:13 And you guys are both theater nerds deep down. You in particular, Don, you came out of theater. That was your first love. Can you talk a bit about that journey? I mean, I was doing plays in Iowa was too in elementary school and, you know, all throughout high school. And then I graduated and went to California Institute of the Arts and studied theater there and did that, you know, for four years. And did a zillion plays there. And then when I graduated, I, you know, I did regional theater at the Guthrie and at the Goodman and the public and mixed blood and the Twin Cities.
Starting point is 00:13:49 And I've just was something I always kept up. And yet, in 25 years ago, as you mentioned, that he's. top dog underdog when this play opened. Proof actually opened on Broadway and Bridget, my wife, was telling me about it. So it's been something that that was the last time I've been on stage. But I always knew it was an offing somewhere and just everything had to come together and it kind of did.
Starting point is 00:14:15 I mean, it's funny because I met Kara on the set of I Love Boosters, which comes out next month. And she didn't know who she was talking to. because I have all these prosthetics on for this thing. And I said, oh, I'm Don Chutele. She's like, what? What? Excuse me.
Starting point is 00:14:31 Yeah. But I was talking about, oh, I've got this play reading coming up. You know, I've got this reading offer to do proof. And I owe a Debrie's going to be doing it. I'm really excited about it. And it's weird how things come together. And I don't know if I'm going to do it, but I'm going to do the reading and the timing. And we're just talking about all this kismet stuff.
Starting point is 00:14:49 And her phone dings. And she looks at it. And she looks at me and turns the phone to me. And it said, you have a. offer to read proof. Oh, my God. We're like, oh, well, I guess we're supposed to do this. Yeah, yeah.
Starting point is 00:15:01 Stephen Spielberg told me that who gets cast is who's supposed to be cast, which is why he never worries about whether somebody can do it or not. Because it's like it happens when it happens. The right person does it at the right time. Because scheduling and getting this stuff right is a big part of who does what win in this business. 100%. Yeah, yeah. This episode is brought to you by Progressive Insurance,
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Starting point is 00:17:35 I think with kids, you let them start practicing with the small decisions, right? You can't raise kids to not ever make decisions and think they'll be ready for the big decisions. So what our mom and dad, I think, did a good job with is that they gave us responsibility. early on and let us choose, you know, setting your own alarm clock and getting yourself up, making the decision about what you were going to wear every day, deciding how you were going to pace how to do your homework and, you know, what you valued. You know, I think our parents forced us to make small decisions first so that we grew into the bigger decisions. Oh, exactly. Fortunately, there are resources available for all those first-time homebuyers out there right now.
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Starting point is 00:20:02 Eben's down dog day. And I got cleared to do this. And then the just, again, schedules and a lot of math. That's like a pretty big cast. So it ended up pushing our filming. And yeah, I filmed like up until two days before. And I got to wrap. And then I had to wait until the end of that day.
Starting point is 00:20:21 So I got one day to pack and go back home and dump all my. stuff and then get all my winter things and then I came out here and then I showed up to rehearse and I was like hello and theater you know look I love theater I love all stage plays musicals you name it there's just something about being in community with people and watching it's powerful steeply deeply powerful people right there doing their thing and I'm kind of biased I do think that actors who have had theater experience and it seems like the line are a lot less blurred now. I mean, before, it's like if you did TV and film, that's what you did.
Starting point is 00:21:01 Theater people did theater people. They did the theater stuff. And now, I don't know if it's me, but it just feels like everybody's doing a little bit of everything. You know, George Clooney just did Broadway to Rajis up there now. I mean, we could go on and on. Can you guys talk about that trend? How does that feel for you guys in the business? from your end because I feel like...
Starting point is 00:21:24 There you're old. You're so old. You've basically been acting since the dawn of time? Dawn of time. Yeah, and so I guess for you... When Jesus wore sandals. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like my career has come into fruition.
Starting point is 00:21:38 Your first role, obviously. Yeah, yeah. Sort of... You were the original Joseph in the Tend of Color Dreamcoat. Yeah. The original Joseph. Yeah. But, like, I think because of my career has kind of been blown up in this way,
Starting point is 00:21:52 after COVID. I think also that is a huge part of it where I'm like, well, everything is soup. Like everything has sort of been a bit strange. And we're like kind of figuring our way back to normal. You built your career in Strange. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. In many ways.
Starting point is 00:22:11 In so many ways, I have come out of the strange. Yeah. But you know, I've always been an early adopter and about whatever. You know, and I was doing a show on. showtime very early. Yes. You know? And so I was like,
Starting point is 00:22:25 oh, what's the streaming thing about? Let's try that. And I've just always been, I go where the material is. Yeah. And, you know, so many writers flocked to TV
Starting point is 00:22:35 because they were now, they were unable to do what they wanted to do in film because films started becoming just about tent pole stuff and I've been in a bunch of them. And, you know, those kinds of... Yeah, I didn't even miss mention
Starting point is 00:22:47 your Marvel Ocean and all the... It's fine. It doesn't seem... Fine, you can do it now. Actually, they had that in the intro and I was like, can you take that out? Oh, you took it out. Yeah, take that out.
Starting point is 00:22:57 Why was like, why didn't we talk about any of this? Because all of her stuff was so heady and lofty and incredible. And I was like, we're going to talk about me in a suit. But I can't. No, what you're right? I cannot with that. But no, no, no hate on the Marvel stuff. Thank you.
Starting point is 00:23:14 Pays the bill allows you to do the theater stuff. Yo. You know? Yeah. Pays for the barn. That's like my dad's like. I wish you didn't know so much about me, Michelle. Moving on, to quote Methuselah.
Starting point is 00:23:33 No, look, I think that theater has never left my blood. It's never not been something I wanted to get back to at some time in some way. And I think, you know, another thing that's playing on this is, unfortunately, the economics, you know, of what it takes to mount a production. And I feel, you know, kind of conflicted sometimes about the people that we need to put in these plays to actually get the budgets for the players. And that-entry coop and all of that. And there's jobbing actors that have been out here, you know, doing it for a long time that are like kind of getting squeezed out often when these kinds of casting opportunities happen. So it cuts both ways for me a little bit. Because I love the opportunity and want to come here and do it.
Starting point is 00:24:24 And I really, a big part of also wanting to do this play was really to, it's Catherine's play. It's IOS play. And I wanted to support her and support that journey. And, you know, I'm the smallest part in it. But I really wanted to come and like. Well, don't tell people that. Pop the kids up. He's in it a lot, y'all.
Starting point is 00:24:42 I'm in a lot. They're just in it a lot more. But I do think that, you know, I understand that rub. but I think that the way audiences think, I mean, we're trying to get people off their phones and into the theater. And I feel like every time it happens also, I don't know. Maybe that's my own sort of naivete or whatever.
Starting point is 00:25:05 But like when it happens, when you experience it, everybody's like so grateful for it. Absolutely. And even to the effect of like the type of work that's made, I feel like often the things that come out of or pierce through cultural conversation are often so strange or feature a cast where you don't really know that many people. Maybe you saw one person whose name you knew, but everybody else you don't know. You know, there's the weird things, there's strange things. But then that doesn't end up being the takeaway from like a structural industry standpoint.
Starting point is 00:25:44 Like the takeaway isn't like, oh, let's do more shows with. known cast. It's like we really like cooking stuff in Chicago. Yeah. It's all in the rear view. Yeah. And so I don't know. But I think you guys lending your talents to theater is helping because it's going to put people in seats.
Starting point is 00:26:04 It's going to, you know, reinvigorate things. I hope so, yeah. You know, at this point, I don't care why people come to the theater. I just want them to come. And if they come because it's like, oh, I know Don and I. Oh, I know. to see them up close.
Starting point is 00:26:19 You guys don't have the schedules and the time to do theater always. So if you can get somebody hooked, then you guys go off. I mean, I like the way some productions are doing it. A production gets established with a star. And then you move other people in it. Yeah. And then people now know that this play on its own without the star power is something that we want to see.
Starting point is 00:26:43 We want our kids to be in those seats. We want, you know, our communities to be. Back to that live kind of. So I think it's a hook. It's an important hook. I don't, you know, I don't think this is a forever hook. I think that the talent on Broadway is unbelievable. Some of the best talent in the business is right here in the city on the street.
Starting point is 00:27:09 I mean, what it takes to show up every day. And I want to talk about that for a bit, like how you, and I want our audience understand what does it take to prepare? I mean, how did you guys approach this, this play, your roles, you know, I'm going to tease Don again. I mean, when I saw you, I went with Barack, Barack, Barack and I had date night's proof. And we were like, heck, Don got a dad bod. It's like, it's like the last time I saw you, you were cut up. I thought, I am. What are you talking about? And I know, you are. That's the thing. That's the power of acting. Because I swear to God, I was like, I expect when I saw you backstage for camera.
Starting point is 00:27:53 No, you didn't know. My point was going when I saw you backstage, I was almost like, oh, great. Okay. It's still in there. I was sitting there thinking, when did he gain all that way? Acting. Acting. So you weren't wearing anything?
Starting point is 00:28:09 You just turned into a dad vibe. Yeah, I just pushed my stomach out and got bullied. You don't you have a dad. Was it the costume? It's true. But anyway, we digress. I don't know. I'm a long ago to digression.
Starting point is 00:28:25 I don't think this is a digression. I think we've now leaned into the theme of this podcast. This is really what it's about. That's why we have you in the cinder. You're in the hutsi. No doubt. But talk about your preparation. I mean, like, physically I started doing vocal training like for the year before.
Starting point is 00:28:45 Because also I found myself losing. my voice during award season. Because you were accepting so many speeches. Just because I don't know how to stop talking. And I was like, I know that I want to do a play. And then I knew that it was going to be this play. And so I really wanted to get ready. And that required just a lot of learning about my instrument.
Starting point is 00:29:09 Things that also I think I was in practice with, but not consciously when I was doing stand-up on the regular. And then since doing a lot more TV and film, it's just a muscle you don't have to use. It's not required. I don't have to reach the back of the room when I'm miced, you know? So that was like definitely a part of it. And I think when we knew that it was going to happen, we would talk about the script and sort of read it. I don't know when you like had started actively memorizing.
Starting point is 00:29:43 But I just had tried to get it into my bones as much as much as. possible. And then when I knew, I wanted to start earlier. And then Barron ended up happening. So I would just read it on set if I didn't have like a crazy amount of lines. And I remember Lionel and Will Poulter. I would like pull them a lot. Because Evan also was working on his own stuff for Dog Day.
Starting point is 00:30:06 So we would kind of be in little corners just like reading and then picking up our sides and being like, do we know our actual job for today? Right. Right. And yeah. And there's things where it's like. Catherine has these long passages of things where that is like memorized or things that are. So that was the first stuff that I tried to tackle, the stuff where I'm like, well, this is language that's like in her bones. So it should be the first stuff that's in mine. And then.
Starting point is 00:30:34 When you say it was memorized, are there parts of the play that are more improvised? When I recite something that she. Oh, got it. Got it. But like I'm Catherine. Yes, that's right. So weird. It's a trip.
Starting point is 00:30:47 Yeah. It's like, what do you mean from memory? But it's her memory. Yeah. It's her memory. So I was like, well, that has to be something that's... Right. And then that may you think are like...
Starting point is 00:30:58 What are things that I know? Yeah. Sorry, like long-winds. No, no. I mean, it's powerful. And because I'm thinking about these conversations with young people listening and young people that are interested in this kind of stuff because you guys all talk to... We all have our...
Starting point is 00:31:14 theater experience when we were young. I mean, I was in the operetta workshop. I mean, there's always, you know, I had an aunt that ran the community theater. I mean, we all have that piece of, well, I used to like improv when I was a little kid. What? Yeah, yeah, I did. And, you know, it's like theater training prepares you for a lot more than acting. A thousand And I think it plays a role in my comfort level. Public speaking. In public speaking, in the way I interact with people. You know, to just adapt.
Starting point is 00:31:45 It's storytelling. I mean, really what you get adept at or what you hopefully, you know, one of the biggest muscles you're flexing is just being a storyteller. And there's not any business that you can even name that doesn't have as one of its components. What's the story that I'm telling about this job? What's the story that we're talking about this business? What's the story that this industry has? So it is applicable to so many different things.
Starting point is 00:32:10 And it teaches you how to play well with others. And it teaches you that you're not the center of the universe. And you need to be, you know, malleable. And there's give and take. And the strongest thing that you can be, I think, as a performer, as a listener. And, you know, be able to reflect back what you hear and be in conversation. And I think that's all of those skills are. are very important to just manage life.
Starting point is 00:32:39 Yeah. I think also when I first, like, realized that maybe this is something that I wanted to do, a big fear that I had because both of my parents are not in the industry. And we, similarly, it's like I have a God mom who went to the first Black AME church and we do a Christmas program and she was in church basement. An opera singer. Very much was writing church plays, you know, that sort of thing. but that was pretty much our purview of the whole thing.
Starting point is 00:33:10 It didn't go much further than that. I didn't even think I realized writing was a job you could have. I thought that there were actors and directors. Like, I didn't realize that people wrote the scripts that were different from the people who said them and the guy, you know, and like Spike Lee. I didn't really know that. And I think I sometimes can forget because I'm like, I get sick of the sound of my own voice.
Starting point is 00:33:35 that it can be helpful to hear those more granular parts of things and the more like practical, tactical parts of things. And that is what I think I was able to latch on to when I was also like convincing my parents that I would be okay and that I could survive and that actually there's unions. Right, right.
Starting point is 00:33:55 And the unions have health insurance. Right, right. Because that's what parents would go. How are you going to get health insurance? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I don't think you're going back here.
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Starting point is 00:38:53 And then my cousins are always like, oh, you were so funny and weird. And I'm like, okay, well, how funny? Funny, ha. Why so? What's so? What a joke to you? Also, when I went back to my high school, did I tell you this? I went back and a bunch of my teachers came and said, hey,
Starting point is 00:39:10 and everybody was acting is so weird. But they were all like, this is crazy, huh? Like, this is really weird. Like, we never saw this for you. Not really. We thought you were going to live in the alley. Well, but yeah, I was a freak and I, but I guess I was surrounded by other, like,
Starting point is 00:39:29 all my friends, we were just all weirdos. And my friend Schley came actually, and we just were remembering all these, like, insane things. But we were supporting each other in that. And I felt like our parents were really supportive of that. Because, you know, we were well behaved and we made sure the grades were right. And so then, yeah, if you want to, like, learn how to play oboe or do improv or Schley is really obsessed with Michael Jackson at the time. And so it was like, okay, if you want to make videos where she's Michael Jackson using, like, your dad's camcorder and you're figuring out how to edit or whatever, like, fine.
Starting point is 00:40:08 And so, yeah, when I told my parents that I didn't want to study education anymore and that I wanted to pursue this, I remember I took them to an eye hop and I was like, I was like, this is going to be the worst problem in my life. Have some more short stack on me, you know. And my dad looked at me. Please, keep them coming. Keep them coming. Keep from coming. And my dad looked at me and he said, Honey, you know we were there when we raised you, right? We saw this.
Starting point is 00:40:37 We've seen you. And I was like, right, like, those are the people. Yeah. Who was I, I wasn't taking the Fung Wah bus unsupervised at 10. It was my mom was taking me because she knew I had this passion. And they were taking me to see the urban nutcracker and to see wicked when it came to Boston on tour. And, you know, my dad was always showing me amazing movies. And I found out actually when I.
Starting point is 00:41:00 graduated, which is like funny thinking about the show and the legacies that we know and we don't know, my dad wanted to study film. He went to Emerson and then his dad found out, because this was like analog days. So, you know, he basically was like, yeah, yeah, everything's fine in America. And then a cousin called my grandfather and was like, he's not studying to be a lawyer. He's going to film school. And my grandfather came down and was like, cool, you can graduate. And then you have to like apply to law school. after. Because your parents are immigrants, both of them.
Starting point is 00:41:33 Yes, both of them. My mom's from Barbados and my dad is from Nigeria. Yeah. So they were definitely, don't play. No. We sent you here to be a doctor. Responsibilities also. You know, they have siblings and they, you know, they had things to do and people
Starting point is 00:41:48 that help and secure things for. And I think, yeah, it was a cool thing, though, where I was like, oh, my dad isn't continuing that cycle. And he wants me to do well. you know, make sure that everything is okay. But he also knows that like there's no point in, I don't know, this life if... If you don't follow your passions. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:42:11 You know, my father actually, I've said this before, he was the... My dad worked as a stationary farm and blue-collar worker. But my dad was a really gifted artist. I mean, he sculpted, painted, got a scholarship to the Art Institute. We grew up in Chicago. but he didn't pursue those dreams because, you know, he had to raise a family. He had a, you know, so it's to understand that there was a generation
Starting point is 00:42:40 of parents and grandparents who couldn't do this. It wasn't even, it was there in their bones. Yeah. That reminds me I was going to say my mom was also a frustrated artist, I think, you know, and it was, I had a very, luckily, a very similar, you know, sort of perspective from my point. parents who, you know, my parents drove me to Cal Arts and drove me home. And there was never any question about what I wanted to do. They were like, oh, are you going to pursue music or are you
Starting point is 00:43:07 going to pursue acting? Those are the two things that you've been passionate about and really want to do. Similarly, you know, you got to do your schoolwork and get your grades and do all that stuff. But they were like, there was no question I was going to college. That wasn't, but they were just like, you can pursue anything you want in college. You're going to college. Yeah. But whatever you study, just really study it and be serious about it. I can remember, you know, when I first started and it was hard and struggling and would be between jobs and calling my mom and saying, I don't know if I made the right choice. And she said, you've been talking about doing this since you were 10 years old. Don't stop now. See, that's just a beautiful thing, you know, to have parents who are rooting you on when it's time to tough. We have a, we have kids that are going to do non-traditional things. You know, I have a kid that's interested in the business. And there's many a call where, you know, because the business is crazy. And the thing that I, and there are times when she wonders whether in these times when there's so much going on, should she be writing?
Starting point is 00:44:13 And the thing I tell her is like, there are going to be a lot of people who don't make it through these tough periods. They're just not situated. And especially when it comes to black voices, black writers. Black directors. Those of you who can stick in there and be there, we need them. We need you. We're going to need storytellers and people with different perspectives, you know. So, I mean, probably your parents were ahead of the curve, both of you guys,
Starting point is 00:44:46 and thinking that through and understanding the power, having real, clear, decent people with good minds of color in this business. And thank God they did. I think that's also why it's important that the proof has been reimagined for a black family. First of all, so many of us are, you know, there's some people out there who don't want to believe that they're black families that are professors and clinical psychiatrists and who are artists and, you know, who are geniuses. And I think it's powerful to have this family not talk about the truth of their reality, but just living in it. You know, it's like we exist in so many different forms with so many different other challenges other than poverty or crime or whatever. Exactly.
Starting point is 00:45:37 Can you guys talk a bit about that? You know, going back to the David Auburn of it all and, you know, the early conversations that you had with Tommy about it. There was, there's a clear understanding that these themes, a lot of these themes are universal. But they do look different for different people. Absolutely. And, you know, what does legacy mean and what we get to leave behind? And, you know, often it does, it is about something financial. And in this play, it does center around the house.
Starting point is 00:46:12 And, you know, who has ownership of that? Yeah. Who has ownership of dad's work? You know, what do we do with dad's work? What does it mean, you know, to, to honor that? or to exploit it. So I think that a lot of these themes work. But when we are talking about things like mental health,
Starting point is 00:46:37 something that has traditionally not so much anymore, but I think it has for a long time been like, we just don't talk about that, you know. That's just Uncle Ben. Especially in the black community. He just has that. There's nothing wrong with you, boy. Yeah, you're fine.
Starting point is 00:46:52 I know he's in the basement. Yeah, that's fine. You know. Now, don't be there at 4 o'clock. He's just a little funny. He does something weird at 4 o'clock. Just put the TV tray and shut the door. He's fine.
Starting point is 00:47:04 And don't look at Men night. Don't look Uncle Ben in the eye. I don't have an Uncle Ben just for the record. But the Uncle Ben I'm imagining is bananas. But yeah, so I think that for a black family, like I said, the things that we brought up to David as far as we have to use, we have to figure out the word that we have to figure out the word that we're using when the police come because this Catherine may not get to be abusive.
Starting point is 00:47:32 Yeah. To the police and us have another scene in the play. Yeah. You know, so. So it's like, what are the word choices? What happened? Yeah, what did she actually do? Yeah.
Starting point is 00:47:44 And what's also happening underneath it. Right. What's happening is these two sisters are missing each other. So how do we make, you know, maintain that? Yeah. While also still allowing the play to be what it is. And we're not detouring off into a play about that. That's right.
Starting point is 00:48:05 But we also can't act like that's not something. Yeah. That also means something in Chicago. That's right. In the 90s. Absolutely. Like, so yeah, that's been cool. I think to what you're saying also about,
Starting point is 00:48:21 this story and the now, it's so funny. It's like I didn't really consciously think about it until we started doing press. And I was thinking about that. And I'm like, what is that? That being the race aspect or you said? I guess. And I was like, oh, it's because I'm a black woman all the time. I'm not thinking about why this is timely.
Starting point is 00:48:47 I'm timeless. We are timeless. We exist. We've always existed. And we will continue to exist and persist. And so it's like, I don't know, I'm thinking about it always and everything I do. And also at the same time, I'm not. thinking about it, you're just living. Because I have to live my life. Because it's like, yeah, we are absolutely all political bodies. Like, right, sure. At the same time, I'm still, you know, I'm a human being.
Starting point is 00:49:14 And David, in his writing of this, I mean, it's like one of my favorite things. And I think it's really hard to do as a writer. And he does so brilliantly. Every character is right. And every character is wrong in the same scene. Yeah, what was she trying to get? This is the beauty of theater. I mean,
Starting point is 00:49:32 Yeah, you can do this in a movie, you know, but there is just something different about real people on stage in the audience. Can you talk about that? Because that's one thing we've never had, we've never experienced is like what's it like sitting there? Because sometimes it's very noisy in a good way because people are like murmuring. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But that is exactly what was going on and what I found. I think I was saying this to you guys is that there was just a lot of guttural, oh. I mean, people were feeling it because I think all, you know, there's so many themes and so many people who were seeing themselves or somebody they knew at some level, you know, that I don't, it didn't, it was, it felt like it was unexpected to the audience to get hit with some of this stuff.
Starting point is 00:50:31 in and I'm like, I'm sure you as well, not funny, ha ha, but like, they'll be like, hey, why didn't you warn me about like X specific thing? Yeah, right, right. I'm like, oh, like, my bad. I'm like, why didn't you tell me it was two sisters? And I'm like, I was, my fault. Right, yeah. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:50:49 Yeah. To that, like, that micro or as macro as, like you're saying, mental health or, you know, an ailing parent or. Yeah, a lot of them come back. People going like, wow, I just went through this or I had to deal with this. And if that had been an all black audience, they would have been talking about you all. They'd be like, well, I don't, who do you think you are? No, we definitely had some of that.
Starting point is 00:51:10 I think at one point, this one is there's a, there's a scene where I'm taking things out of a backpack. Yeah. Yep. Yep. This woman I should start. It's also like we have to, sometimes moments will happen and it's like I just find myself like looking or I'm just like, I just need eyes right now. I just need eyes to stay here. And then I can go back and great. And a woman I just heard go, oh, an orange.
Starting point is 00:51:38 And me and she and are just like, we're here, we're here, we're here, we're still in this moment. We're here. You're Catherine. I'm Hal. I'm Catherine. I'm Hal. I'm Catherine. You're Hal.
Starting point is 00:51:49 I'm Catherine. You're Hal. You're here. Great. And I'm like, okay, what does this mean also for the rest of the show? This is quite early on. That an orange appears. And so we're like, what is this going to do?
Starting point is 00:52:00 You just don't know. Somebody told me that they were sitting in front of two black, behind two black women. And when Karen came on for her second scene, they were like, oh, here's she go. Uh-oh. Here's she going. That's why I love us. Yes. I love us.
Starting point is 00:52:21 And the beauty of this reimagined revival is that it's going to bring in new audiences. Yes. And I think that, you know, I mean, that brings life into it. It's a whole other generation. It's a whole another community of people who are going to be introduced to David Alburn and his writing and the complexities of a script and these sets of characters. And that's what you're feeling. Yeah.
Starting point is 00:52:50 And we have a lot of programs that we're supporting and fantastic that the play is supporting to do just that, to broaden access, to get students in at a price point that's not prohibitive because so much of it is prohibitive when you talk about, you know, these plays, they're so out of reach for some of people. The amount of friends that I have, like, that I met in college and
Starting point is 00:53:10 were born and raised in New York and had never seen a Broadway show because there just wasn't access. They can't afford it. And they didn't go to the right school, be it public or private, that had a program that would take them for a day. You know, it's like
Starting point is 00:53:26 kind of mind-boggling. So, yeah, we just both, I think, really had the intention and we're matched in that with our producers into trying to make accessibility a real tactical thing. How do you guys
Starting point is 00:53:42 specifically influence that decision? Skin in the game. Yeah. Yeah. We're giving money back toward it so that we can support it and having people match it and going out and fundraising around it. Yeah. And we were, I mean, I was like in a way that I think
Starting point is 00:54:00 was newer for me, maybe you're a little more vers, but I was like, I'm thinking of the people I know who have money. And I'm figuring out how to write an email or like do a call. And I think also just meeting with our sincerity, like that this is something that we really want because I think we've both been beneficiaries of access. And so some of those programs look like buyout nights that are going to happen, reaching out to different like schools and nonprofits.
Starting point is 00:54:29 And the New York public school system is just, we partnered with the Department of Education. You hear that, y'all? So, you know, we're trying. And still pursuing some organizations for people who are just a barrier, just the price points of barrier, not just students, but just anyone who can get in there. We are big dog lovers here at IMO. Everyone knows how important dogs are to myself and my sister's family. Pets just do so much for us. Companionship, emotional support, even getting us.
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Starting point is 01:00:00 You want to talk a little bit about that? I think we were very lucky. You know, Bridget and I bumped into each other a lot in the early days. We were all trying to get work in L.A. And I graduated when I graduated from CalArts. I graduated with some guys who are my similar types. And we kind of all lived within a block or two of each of. other all together, you know, roommates, you know, three sometimes, three in a place, two in a place,
Starting point is 01:00:26 but we all kind of lived around each other. And when we would have auditions, we would just, everybody would go. Yeah. I'd be like, Bruce, I got an audition, Jeff, I got an audition, and we would bum rush the audition together. And I'd go in and then I'd, you know, be coming out and go, wait, can you see my friend? And they're like, what? Wow. See him? And then he'd go in and go, hey, one more of us. Can you see one more? And they would say to us, like, you know, if he gets the job, you don't get the job. I was like, yeah, but we get the check. Yeah. Yes. We're trying to keep this money in here. So I got to borrow from him. He's got to borrow from this. He's got to pull this bread. So one of us has to get it. So we kind of had that mentality.
Starting point is 01:01:07 And we were very fortunate to have that because it was not that way for most other people out there. It was dog eat dog. It was cutthroat. But something about having that kind of comfort. also made it that when I think we walked in the room, we weren't like the sweaty, desperate, have to get this thing, which is so awkwarding for a lot of, you know, you can, that feels uncomfortable. You want to be around somebody that you're like, I want to be around this person.
Starting point is 01:01:34 So we were able to sort of that community kind of help each other feel that. And then it just kind of spread. All of us were out there trying to do the same thing. And so many of us know each other and knew each other from that time. And, you know, one of my closest friends from that time, his daughter is my goddaughter. And she lives with my kids. They all live together still, you know, in their 30s. And so it's, it was just something that's amazing.
Starting point is 01:01:59 I'm still very close with those guys. And I do think it was a rare and fortunate thing. And I feel very lucky that we had it. That doesn't sound like the business we hear talk about. It is not. It is not. And now anymore, I mean, when people ask you, I'm sure when people ask me, they're like, I want to act, what can I do?
Starting point is 01:02:18 I'm like, when I started, you went in a room and talked to human beings. I mean, when I started, you went in the room and talked to human beings. And then like in the middle of that starting, it changed. So what is it now? You've got a camera in the corner and you're doing self-tapes. Sometimes you don't get the whole script or you get, there were supposed to be all these rules that changed around it. Like you couldn't get six pages the night before to have to memorize and come in. and that kind of, I don't think anyone's obeying that stuff.
Starting point is 01:02:47 No, it isn't. They're still doing it. So you're meant to have like a camera set up and a good mic and a backdrop that works and a quiet place where you can shoot it and you're expected to without benefit of notes, without benefit of any insight from anyone who's created this. Figure out. You're directing yourself or your friends are directing you. Yeah, you're reading with whoever's available.
Starting point is 01:03:08 You are maybe like if you're not borrowing space from a friend, they're, they popped up in L.A. I don't know if they still exist. but it's psychotic, rooms that you would pay for. Oh, yeah. So it's like you're paying to audition. For the right to not get a good. To not get a get, you know, it's a lot. Which is just making it a more exclusive experience.
Starting point is 01:03:27 Absolutely. Absolutely. So the business is changing every day and now with this insane merger that might happen. It's like there's going to be fewer and fewer places to work. Yeah. We don't, we don't, I think we don't know. So when people ask me what they can do to become an actor, I say, do anything else. I say, do anything else.
Starting point is 01:03:45 And if that's going to discourage you, then maybe you shouldn't do it. You know, because it's going to be a slog unless you get super, super lucky or just undeniable. So I say work. Yeah, just work. Read, plays, write, right, right. You know, you don't have to just work when you get a job. You can be working on being a better actor, a better writer on your own all the time. have an iPhone, you can make a movie. You can't. You know, and now there's no barrier to upload it.
Starting point is 01:04:19 Me and my friends or my cohort, I guess, that I think about, a lot of us did come up generating our own material when I think about Rachel Senate, when I think about Quinto. And like, you know, that we - Issa Rae-O. Yeah, we were, and I mean, we were following them and Donald and people, you know, where it's like, okay, right, yeah, you make sketches and you post them online or you tweet or, you know, you do, funny Instagram posts, you make videos like you do these things. At the same time though, those are also the people with like,
Starting point is 01:04:49 Rachel and I would ride the train and we would swap sets and give each other notes on our sets, you know, and I would go to Quinta and she'd be like, cool, I went to this, you know, I did sets here, here and here, Zach went here, here, here and here.
Starting point is 01:05:01 These rooms are good for this. These rooms are good for that. Like, we were doing work in the real world as well as online. And I think exchanging information with each other, as well, not wanting to gatekeep from each other. Because to what you're saying also, like,
Starting point is 01:05:17 I really was resonating with that. Like, oh, the people that I was friends with and that I connected with and I still feel connected to, I don't think ever felt like that threat of like, I have to be the only one in the room. You know, like I really do believe, and there's more friends that I just will not name drop, but I love really deal with it.
Starting point is 01:05:38 But where it's like, we all knew that there was space for each other, Especially amongst black women. I remember having a conversation and then like in the name drop, but like with ZUA had a job when she was writing and I was still assisting. And she was like, yeah, well, that's like obviously like a trick that they want to play on us to cut each other out. There's space for all of us. And if there isn't, then we make space for each other. There you go.
Starting point is 01:06:02 And I felt like I was like such a little baby writer and I was like, thank God. You know, like there's people like that good. And Janelle James was at that same job and it was the same thing. She was like, yeah, they're not going to, no way. Yeah. You think they're going to get us? No. No, we stay in it.
Starting point is 01:06:17 And that is, I think, a real skill, that endurance, that, you know, fortitude, that you have to learn. And that's pretty invaluable, I think, just as much as talent, sometimes even more. I'm sure you can think of people I can who are, I go, this was the most talented person that I ever knew. This person is great. Can't bust a grape. You know? And when the going gets tough, they back out. Which is not to say that that isn't, you know, valid and that your feelings can get hurt.
Starting point is 01:06:49 These can be hard and long and confusing. And you can, I mean, it's... And careers are, they're highs and lows. There's highs and lows and it's a weird thing also when it's like your passion, and especially if it's connected to creativity, but not just that, But when your passion becomes your vocation, when it becomes capital. You know, it's-dangerous. You can tip your job.
Starting point is 01:07:12 It's really trippy. And so being able to find ways to navigate that, withstand that, have people that you can talk to. Even, I mean, we had a day or hide to you. It was just like, help. Do you remember that? In rehearsal? You were like, oh, yeah, that's it. That's the job.
Starting point is 01:07:31 I'm just still bad. And I was like, oh, okay. That series is going to be something else. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And, you know, I guess I did because I'm yours.
Starting point is 01:07:41 Yeah. You do. Well, having you to the dynamic duo in this play is it's really the magic. But the entire cast is magic. And we are just grateful that you guys made the decision to, you know, dip your toe back into the theater lane. Because it absolutely matters for all of the reasons. that we talked about. Before we close, what's next is the question. What's next for you?
Starting point is 01:08:16 I owe you or, you may have your what next. So let's just for the, the play runs until July 19. Next is May and July 19. Yeah. Okay. And then there are things. There are things that are supposed to happen afterwards. Do you say that?
Starting point is 01:08:36 It's like it could happen. It might not. I say that because some could happen. Some might not. Some are definitely happening. But I don't know that I want to happen with them. Okay. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:08:46 It's so funny. You know, it's like I don't. Yeah. That's real. It's real. Because, you know, the one thing. Well, you've also earned the right. Well, look, I think anyone at any time can say what they want to do with their time.
Starting point is 01:09:01 And what is valuable for them to do with their time. Because it's the one thing, I don't care how much they pay you. you can't buy. You can't get it back. Yeah. And you don't want to be in a situation where you look back and go, wow, I just wasted eight months of my time or six months of my time, you know, especially when I'm a little half dead already, right?
Starting point is 01:09:22 Yeah, you're old. You're almost out of here. You know, yeah. You got to pick and choose wisely. You don't want to mess that up. I forgot. Yeah, you forgot. I forgot.
Starting point is 01:09:30 I'm sorry. I was going to bring you back. I know. He's such a good actor. I know. He was so young. Yeah. Give the guns again.
Starting point is 01:09:38 Yeah. We're fine. We're fine. Yeah. There's, there you go. But yeah, that's, that's, there's definitely, and surprisingly, more than there have ever been. For me, things lined up for years that if I wanted to actually push go on, that I know I would be booked for a long, long time. So I'm trying to be strategic and mindful.
Starting point is 01:10:06 and thoughtful about how I really want to do this. And then there's life, too. That's what I'm saying. We are predisposed as actors, you know, to have that engine of like, I got to eat, I got to eat, eat, eat, eat. It's not going to be here. Oh, I'm unemployed again. Well, if I don't take this job, there's never going to be another job.
Starting point is 01:10:23 You know, it's easy to get in that, you know, hamster wheel mindset. Even though we've done it for so long and you feel like that's, I can't logically support that that's true, but it could be. Yeah. You know, are they going to find out? You're going to realize that, oh, no, I was snowing them this whole time. You're actually a bum. Yeah, you're never getting another job.
Starting point is 01:10:43 So, his old Hollywood pretty is a Cheeto. He's a bum. He's a bum. He's a bum red guy, you know, I don't know what. He's been snowing us for years. Thousands of them. He's old, I tell you. He's old.
Starting point is 01:10:59 He's old. How old is he? Old than the sun, that cheetah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That chomping on a cigar. What? So, talent, my friend. Thank you.
Starting point is 01:11:09 So, yeah, we'll see. We'll see. One of the six jobs that's coming up, or two, I'll probably do. Yeah. But I won't talk about them right now. Okay. Keep a secret.
Starting point is 01:11:17 We'll have you back. Okay, yeah, we'll talk about them back. Yeah. What about you, little missy? What about me? I am excited to finish this play. And then I also have a, well, I'm the opposite, I guess. I have some time free for the first time on the acting side in a really long time.
Starting point is 01:11:35 because bear, as Jamie Leaguers has announced, where will be ending? Bears ever. And that's really cool and scary and exciting. And yeah, and then I'm writing again. And I'm working on a few things. Some have been announced. Some have not.
Starting point is 01:11:52 But I'm not going to do it. Don't. Don't. I won't ruffle you. You're in secret keeping mode. Don't ruffle up. Can you do? Breaking news on IMO.
Starting point is 01:12:02 No, won't do it. But yeah, I'm excited about. that and excited to kind of maybe I just turned 30 now you're old now I'm yeah right
Starting point is 01:12:15 they've kicked me out of young Hollywood so you're not old Hollywood but it's an interesting thing like time I think the just past few years have I really and like friends who are older than me
Starting point is 01:12:31 and not even by that much who would literally I would be like 28 and it would be like 31 They'd be like, be careful, you know, be careful about your time. Be careful about your energy. And I'd be like, I don't believe you. Yeah. It's endless. I have all the energy in the world.
Starting point is 01:12:45 And then it's like, oh my God, there's my body. And it's tired and I do need to rest. And I also do need to like recuperate in order to generate. Like maybe the reserve was a lot deeper because it was just coming from a place of all this expression that it had. Felt like I was able to do for so long. And there's youth. And there's free. Oh my God.
Starting point is 01:13:05 It's like, because you're just young. You got energy. I mean, it's like now when I stand up, I have to stretch like my dog's sunny. Okay. Because you just can't get up and walk right away. So what do we do if I also have to stretch? That means you need to take a break. Great.
Starting point is 01:13:21 Okay. So then maybe I do that. Well, yeah. For sure. Yeah. I need you to leave me in more stretches. Yes. Oh, stretching.
Starting point is 01:13:28 He's limber. Well, yes. He's lumber. We believe in that's my biggest thing. Yeah, and you know. Stretcher. Yeah. Big stretcher. Do you like morning and night, that type of vibe?
Starting point is 01:13:36 Or do you... I need to do more of it, but I at least do it like a 90-minute session once a week. That's amazing. Yeah. Great. So that's good. That's something for me to log and maybe not do for a minute. You don't have... Right, right. You don't have to do it for 90 minutes. No. But this has been making me need to be more physical in a way that's really great. You got to like the eight shows a week thing. It's like you really can't take it for granted.
Starting point is 01:14:00 It's a workout. Yeah. I mean, that's like a whole other podcast. I'm secretly very woo-woo. And the things that we're talking just about like life and the things that I've learned in the past few years, I've become really interested in our bodies as like, yeah, as just like instruments and the things that we are maybe not as connected to in like Western society that like there's, I don't know, that there's other civilizations that have been existing.
Starting point is 01:14:31 For thousands of months. millennia. You know? And my father is a cancer survivor. And when he was sick, he got really into like Eastern medicine. And really, genuinely, that's like he's the same. And now it's like we both are like, so like, what's going on with your acupuncturist? And he's somebody who like, I think that was definitely a jolt for him.
Starting point is 01:14:55 And I had one image of him, you know, of my childhood. And now he's the one who's like going on jogs and doing his little. Peloton and he does yoga and all these amazing things. And I really am like, wow, you were a lighter, happier person than maybe who I grew up with. Partly because I think you're like in communication with your body in a way that you were not because. Because you just didn't do that. Yeah, you didn't do that. That wasn't a part of a presentation.
Starting point is 01:15:26 A man, a black man, an African man. Doing it down to you're joking. Get out of my face with that. What's what talking about? Did you lose something dead under that table? What's under the table? Can I help you find your keys? Did you drop something?
Starting point is 01:15:39 Because you were not. You didn't mean to be on the floor. Black people sometimes don't even like to be on the floor. Why would I get on the floor? Why would I do that? I didn't put these clothes on to get on the floor. That's exactly. I actually really, like the idea of, I've never forget moving to LA and being people
Starting point is 01:15:55 where they're like, are you grounding? And I'm like, am I a 13-year-old, what are you talking about? And they're like, no, take your shoes off and feel the earth. Like, I'm good. Like, I'm on it. I was like, you might as well ask me to eat a bug. Okay, you guys are the callback. That's really.
Starting point is 01:16:10 Well done. Well done. And, um. That means the bug has to stay in now. Yes, you guys, I know that was wrong. He's like, I got a turn of him. Don't worry. I'm so buggy right now.
Starting point is 01:16:19 I'm so full of bugs. I'm so full of bugs. Oh, my God. My God. Well, anyway, you two. It's, it's been a delight. I'm proud of you. As always, love you to death.
Starting point is 01:16:31 loving you so completely. You, this role is, is you. Yeah, you got a little Catherine in you. I remember our first meeting. I was thinking about it. I was thinking about it. I was thinking. You know, I'm sure I was like, because we were like, this young girl, she's got a thing. So we just reached out, it's like, girl, what's she up to?
Starting point is 01:16:52 Nothing. And she came over to the vineyard. And I'm sure you were wondering, okay, I'm here. and she sat down and she was so like... Yeah. And Barack and I were like, yeah, we know that girl. Yes. Yeah, we know a lot.
Starting point is 01:17:11 That quirky, weird, genius, curiosity, fire, all of that, you know. Fearlessness, all of that is what's keeping you going and what is going to fuel you for many, many years to come. so that you were old person like me and Don on the other side of this table. I don't know if I will ever be as unfortunate to get this old. No, you won't. You won't, especially if you keep bringing it up like that. You ain't going to make it past July.
Starting point is 01:17:44 You're going to. I like that. I like that. I like that. Of course, that if that's me, I'm not going to kick you off before I get mine. You guys. That was genuinely also like maybe the most exciting 36 hours of my life. Because that was also the day after I threw a first pitch.
Starting point is 01:18:05 Oh, you had a lot going on. Well, that's great. First pitch. Did we have lunch? Did we feed you? Did we get? It was really good. It was really good.
Starting point is 01:18:14 It was a really beautiful day. Yeah. Yeah. Well, it's good to see you blowing up. You have earned every bit of it. I want to make sure that our audience goes to see proof and on Broadway until July 19. 19. It is an amazing production. And to all the young people who are going to benefit from this accessibility program, you know, we want to hear from you, you know. Young folks who get to see proof, want to hear about those conversations that people are having after the show. Because you can see here, you will go in. You know, if you go with the family, you're all going to be talking for a couple of weeks about it. So. One of my friends came with, actually, he came with his mom and dad the night. The night.
Starting point is 01:18:58 that you guys were there. And he was like, they were already talking about the play at intermission. And then they realized that the Obamas were there. And he was like, and so now it's like connected forever. Forever. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:19:10 Yeah. And you never know. We might be there in any moment in time. Let's go. We might drop by. Beautiful. Because I'm a Broadway. Yeah.
Starting point is 01:19:18 Exactly. So you never know. With no. With no. Of course. You're coming with notes. Yeah. Obviously.
Starting point is 01:19:24 Perfect. It's like for sure. Yeah. For sure. But there are no notes. You guys have done it up. Thank you. Congratulations.
Starting point is 01:19:31 Thanks for being here. Love you guys.

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