I've Had It - Is It Still Mansplaining if You’re in Drag? with Delta Work

Episode Date: June 8, 2023

Jennifer and Pumps sit down with a fellow sh*t talking queen, Delta Work. The three talk about the lack of autonomy other human beings have when they step out into the world. Pumps makes Delta choose between an impossible FMK (spoiler: Mike Pence is probably a freak in the sheets) and Jennifer gives some advice on proper d*ck pic procedure. Thank you to our sponsors: Lume: Control body odor, ANYWHERE with @lumedeodorant and $5 off of your Starter Pack (that's over 40% off) with promo code HADIT at lumedeodorant.com/hadit #lumepod  BetterHelp: Visit better help.com/hadit for 10% off your first month, today! Athletic Greens:  Go to athleticgreens.com/HADIT for a FREE 1-year supply of Vitamin D AND 5 free travel packs with your first purchase. Hint Water: Visit hintwater.com to get $1 a bottle with free shipping, when you order 3 cases. That's 36 bottles for $36 plus free shipping. Just use code HADIT at checkout. Subscribe to our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/IveHadItPodcast  Follow Us: I've Had It Podcast: @Ivehaditpodcast Jennifer Welch: @mizzwelch Angie "Pumps" Sullivan: @pumpspumpspumps Special Guest: Delta Work: @deltaworkCheck out: Fierce Rivalries https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fierce-rivalries/id1679824460 

So we're supposed to start the podcast. We're ready. One, two, three. I feel like I can do better. One, two, three. It's not my day. Real out. It's not my day today.

You peaked. I peaked. I'm going downhill. This is the downhill salon. Yeah, I'm going to have to practice. Of the clap on. I think those dragons. What I've had it This is the downhill. I'm gonna have to practice the clap on I think those dragons Pumps what do you have it with what I've had it with is my daughter? Who I love who is precious

All of that shit right So last night we had to get a graduation party, okay, so I told her before we left. This is a 20 to 30 minuteer We're gonna be in we're gonna be out right. She's like, okay, yeah, great. Pre-negotiated. Pre-negotiated before we left the house. Right, okay. So then as we're driving right and see the valet line, I tell her, we're not gonna valet because the master of all social engagement, my friend, your friend that she knows doesn't valet park because you can get in and out faster. She does the math on it. She does, I mean, she's on it. Right. So we go in, mixing, mixing, mixing rolls on about 30 minutes. Okay. Okay. I go to her, I said it's time.

She's like, okay, okay. Let me give say bye by somebody. I go, no, you, and an Irish exit, you don't say goodbye. You fade to black. And by the time people notice you're gone, not talking to someone else, you're at home in your jammies. And she let, no, mom, I have to, I have to say she comes back. And then she says, Oh, I have to say by it a one more person. I would have left her. I said, that's it. No more. We're not writing together anymore. This is not acceptable. You have completely ruined the Irish goodbye. You should have left her and said, you need to Uber home or get a friend or drive you home. That is an adorious violation. Because here's one thing I've learned with the black tie event I went to with my friend that

can teach the master class on how to go in. Right. Socialize. Not look like an asshole. Look like you're having the time of your life and be at home before anybody even knows what happened to you. Right. What I learned is you have to pre-negotiate. You pre-negotiate. So when she asked me to go to this event with her,

I said, what time do you anticipate leaving this event? The most important thing. She answered, I will have you at home in your PJs before the first valet cars pulled up and she delivered. That's right. So what I learned in that is you have to pre-negotiate. And in your case, if it's with a 20 year old, 1920 year old, you need to pre-negotiate.

Right, because you need to say pre-negotiate. When the timer is up, I'm leaving. If you don't leave with me, you will be left right to find a right home, Uber and or wall. That's exactly right. Okay. We have to talk about something. It's horrible. What? It's horrible. It's a huge problem. It's zooms. I'm so fucking tired of zoom. There's multi layers to this. So let me make my case. Okay. Number one, you receive the zoom invitation via email, right? You click accept. The email just disappears on its own. It doesn't go to saved. It doesn't go to junk. It doesn't go to spam. It doesn't send your inbox, it just fucking disappears.

And then the link is supposed to go to your calendar. Right. Oftentimes I go to my calendar to find the zoom link, much to my surprise. It's not there. Right. And because this is disappearing, this email that I didn't click delete on, I didn't click move, I didn't click report to spam. I wanted it to just be in my email box.

Right. It has just decided to disappear. And whoever thought that was a great fucking idea to just magically delete emails, it's so dumb. It's so dumb. Let us have the copy. Right. So half the time when I get on a Zoom,

I'm already fucking wound up like a cheap clock because I can't find the fucking link. Yes. I hate being late. I'm already fucking right up like a cheap clock because I can't find the fucking link. Yes. I hate being late. I've had it with that. Okay. Now let me move on to the zoom itself. Okay. Recently you and I had to have a meeting. Right. And we requested with this person. We don't need an eight to ten people deep zoom. Right. One person's got. We just need to do it with you. We're cliff note version type of people. Zooms have turned into a grandstanding Circle jerk

Yes of everybody in this awkward digital space and I have fucking had it and then if you've seen that one Instagram Me where a guy like they were on zoom and he thought his camera was muted and he's like getting out his lotion and a tissue shut up. Don't even know yet and his co-workers are like, hey, Brian or whatever his name is, turn off your camera, turn off your camera and he's like muted where he can't hear them. Oh gosh. So he's got like porn popped up? No.

Can they see that? Immediately goes into a full whack job, a full whack. Oh my God. Okay. First of all, why is he whacking off? Whether he's got his camera on or not during a work call, because men are fucking monsters when it comes to masturbation. Pumps. You're old as dirt. If you don't know this by now, I'm not, but I'm not doing it on the screen. We're talking about a man. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm not talking about you. I'm right there with you. I am right there with you. And all the people that are like, turn your camera off, I'd be like,

shh, shh, shh. She's fine. Not because I'm dying. I'm just like, if you're gonna be that thick and bold, I wanna witness it. Yeah. I mean, if you've got the balls to rip your dick out, a Zoom call.

Get the lotion, get the tissue. I'm gonna show it to you when we finish this. You're gonna die. It is, have you seen it Kylie? Yeah. Yeah, I mean, it is. I mean, it's, and here it is. I mean, I think it's happened like two years ago. And now we're talking about it in our podcast. This poor fucking guy who does what every guy does 25 times a day thinks about doing non-stop. He will always be known as the zoom masterbater. I'm'm just gonna tell you, male listeners, you gotta be cautious with your dicks. Dicks, picks, cameras and your penises,

you've got to be cautious. I think when you talk to our sons about this more, cameras and penises need to stay away from each other. I've talked about it several times with mine because it is like, you do not want to dick pick, floating around. Remember that dick pick I showed you? And it like, I forgot that it was a video.

Oh my god, that was so fucked up. Oh my god. That was sent to your single friend, right? And then she sent it to you. And then you sent it to me. And I just showed it to you. No, no, no, you sent it to me. Did I send it?

Yeah, you know I showed it to you. See, see men, this is what the deal is. With the dick pic, they get circulated. Obviously, if you're whacking off on a dick pick video that you send to somebody you don't know, you don't care if everybody's gone to the gutter. Yeah, we have. It's too far. I just realized I've never told you this. Like, three weeks ago, I'm in the DMs of I've had it podcast Lane and bed and Someone sent us like four dick pics I deleted them immediately because I opened Kylie you know the same person

It's gone. What it's gone Kylie because you know how when it's restricted It doesn't show you and you have to click it to open. Right. Blur unblur. I clicked it, opened it. Penis pops up. Okay. Welcome to I've had it. An intellectually stimulating, very deep podcast. We're here to make you better people. The stick of that turn. It's horrible.

It's horrible in Jennifer. I'm Angie. I'm not even going to call either one of us, the star of the show. We are, we got our gutter snipes. We got our gutter snipes. We are just complete assholes. Kylie, what's going on on social?

This segue couldn't have been better. Okay. So on TikTok this week, we posted the video of the limp dick handshake. Oh yeah. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. People in the comments loved soft serve and croissant dick that you use.

Yeah. And they shared their euphemisms, which I have made a list for you. Oh great. Oh great. The first one is sad salmon. Mm. The floppy horse.

Mm. Floppy's great. One of my favorites, the half cooked Vienna sausage. The limp noodle. Oh yeah, yeah, that's a good one. This person called it pushing rope. They're pushing rope. Oh, yeah.

I don't get that. I mean, what would a rope do if you tried to push it in? Oh, it would just, oh, it's flaccid, pops. Flaccid, oh, pushing rope, that's a good one. That's a good one. And I was surprised you failed the bar exam the first time you took it. just, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, and we called it Banana Man. He was just Banana Man. That's good. I had a friend in college and we called it Hook Dick. Hook Dick. Hook Dick. Yeah.

Okay. The last one is the sloppy floppy. That's great. That's a winner. Those are the excellent job, Kylie. Thank you. Let's do a little check in with Richard. Of course you will check it.

Oh, we're just dying. We're not suggesting anything. We're not suggesting anything. We just want, you know, it's all these women in here nonstop. I noticed she walked into the recording studio today with a stainless-like cup with the hells going on there. Yeah, yeah. The big 32 ounce water gussard with the timer on them. And here, Richard, I thought you were staining in solidarity with me. I mean, that too, palms up with you. Exactly. Just jump in fences.

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Sounds like a lot of drag bands to me. That's all I can hear. We're here to fight the good fight. That's right. I know you're here. We're here fighting the good fight. But listen, we digress. Right.

Right. We're not here to be positive Delta. We are here to all. We are here to do some shit talking. Okay. That's what this is about. All right. It is time to air the pettiest of grievances.

Right. And I'm saying the pettier, the better. So right out of the gates, you have to tell us what you've had it with. I have had it officially with people who don't look both ways when they cross the street. And this is literally and figuratively. And what I mean by that is when I leave my house, I feel like I'm entering someone else's game that's happening. It's everybody else's game.

Whatever rule, laws or whatever, traffic, uh, laws or whatever traffic, uh, things, none of that applies to anyone because people really look at you like, I have somewhere to be. Didn't you know that I have somewhere to do so these things don't apply to me until I, until I need them to apply to me. Right. So you walk out and people are like, well, I'm walking down the street and I don't need to look both ways. I just, I'm on my phone. I'm busy. It's your job to make sure I don't get hit. Right. You've got to make sure. You've got to make sure.

And they'll walk out a target or ever pushing their car. La la la. They don't realize that it's also a thoroughfare until they park. Right. And they get out of their car. And they're like, what are these cars doing? I can't believe I'm up a desk dream. You went up a desk dream 30 seconds ago.

When you parked right over the line, listen, I wanna put a sign on my car that says, please park accordingly, I am very fat. I'm tired of people pulling over the line. And then I'm like, how am I gonna get in and out of this car? I'm not, I don't want your space too. I just want 100% of my space. Right.

100% of mine, that's it. Right. I think what you're getting to here is people do not exercise enough autonomy. If you're in a parking lot, be in fucking charge of yourself. Be in charge of your fucking grocery cart. Take that fucking cart back. Have some fucking integrity. And put it in and don't just push it down there.

Make sure it perfectly inserts into its mate. Be 100%. Have autonomy. Be a good parking lot person. Be a good fucking shopper. I have had it with this. And what about the parkers, the people that park just way too close?

Yeah, that's the worst. I am so confused, not with just that, but also people, like if you're in a big parking lot and you're like, you know what, I've got, I'm going to have to eat lunch in the car because I'm going from O to B and you'll pull kind of under a shade tree away from everyone and I'm going to listen to something and there's someone will just park right next to you. That is happy to me. But you are working there for. All these parking spots. Yes. You're not eating your lunch. You're just kind of like sitting there working kind of see through your window, but I kind of can't. So I don't know are you

trying to like abduct me or are you are you getting off on me eating panera? Like I don't what is it? This has happened to me, and this is not ever really spoken about. So I was out of town for work in Dallas, and I had some time after I worked to go play pickleball. So I had to go change clothes. So I park in this place where I reserved a court and like hired someone to play with me.

And so I'm like, I'm gonna do a quick change in the car. And then I was just sitting out there listening to a play. Like, you hire friends. You hire friends. No, she doesn't have any friends. She has to hire the hire an instructor because I was out of this idea. Because you can tell them what to do. Oh totally. Yes. Sorry she does. We're gonna work on four hands back. Yes exactly. So then I'm sitting in the car.

I did my little costume change, right? Mining my own business. There I mean it's Texas. So these parking lots are massive. I mean, everything's bigger in Texas. And I am as far away from the pickleball court as one could possibly be Delta. And this motherfucker pulls up right next to me in a Ford F-150 and parks, mass in, nose out.

And we're looking at each other. And I just thought, what on earth? I have never even heard of this. No, this happens. She is 100% correct. This shit happens. They are like heat-seeking missiles. Like, I am not gonna let this person have a moment.

I'm gonna come just get my car and just get right up in their park, light a cigarette and blow smoke in their face. That's what it feels like. Yeah. It's exactly what and I don't get it because they don't necessarily engage. They just kind of want you to know that like out of the corner of their eye, they see you and they might like right, right, right, full around and the console or do light a cigarette do something. But what fuck, and then you have to move your car. That's what I did. I usually move.

I had to move. Off to you. I had to move. I'm just like, this parking lot is gigantic. Okay. I wanted to ask you about what do you think about people? And we all know these people. I've had it with people.

Okay. There's no. I'm with you on that. What about these people? We haven't talked about this yet. The people that brag about, yeah, you know, I only require about three to four hours of sleep and I hate them.

I've had it with that. And that goes hand in hand, you know, telling somebody that you only need so much or that you work, you work so much harder than them. You apply yourself so much more. I have people that come to me and they're like, you know what, I, it's been such a crazy day, I forgot to eat.

You forgot to eat. You see, you never, your stomach never growled ever. Not one time. I think the follow up question to that Delta is, so how much cocaine did you do? Was it three lines? Was it four lines? What, you know, I mean, if somebody's gonna say something

that absurd, I think the next time somebody brags to me about how they're so highly operational on three to four hours of sleep, I'm gonna say, so what? How much coke? Yeah, are you on cocaine, Adderall, or five ants? What do you snort the Adderall, or inject it?

And, you know, even within the same, I have friends who have that FOMO, that fear of missing out, so no matter what event happens, they're like, I've got to go, I've got to get a new outfit, I've got to do this, I've got to do that. And I'm like, what happens at the end of that? What was your end game here? Because you went and it seems like half the time

you go to this stuff, it's not anything that you enjoyed or you got anything out of. And they say, to this stuff, it's not anything that you enjoyed or you got anything out of. And they say, oh, well, you know, it's just a network. You got to put your name out there, get a picture face out there. People have Instagram. If they want to find you, they'll find you like a meme. I don't need any more exposure.

I'm so exposed. I agree. Okay. So here's something I think that we need to make our platform here today. And it is the question. It's a very benign question. You've probably already been asked it 75 times today and asked it to people 75 times a day. And it is the question, how are you? And so the question I don't have to take issue with, it's the answering, right? Fine. How we always feign.

Oh my God. I'm great. How are you? I want to start saying if I'm not great, I'm going to say average, don't need to talk about anything in particular. And then just move on to what they need. I don't want to feign like, because every day can't be a 10. And every time you have somebody, how was your day? It's always like, oh my God, it's great.

The kids are doing great. Did you get part of the social contract? As you just say, it's great or fine. But that's my point. I know, but I'm just saying, I don't think, first of all, you don't care what the answer is. They don't care what the answer is. No, I'm talking about the overly effusive,

oh my God, we're great, everything's so awesome. And it's like, you just asked very casually, how are you today? And it's met with like this, and there's the amtup enthusiasm that is disproportionate to the very benign, boring question. How are you? And you get,

well, I think that's definitely, I mean, when people are like that, I always think this is definitely like an undiagnosed, like mental, you're covering up for something. Do you know what I mean? I get this, yeah. Covering up for something.

People that are just like hypersexual. Like, I'm all for like sex talk. And I think sex is hilarious and it's fun and it's all of those things. But when you can tell someone is just like too touchy feeling in like a weird way, you're like, you're doing, you're, it always keeps coming up to this. Right. So what are you trying to convey without using your words? Right.

Because I can tell you're trying to convey something. So that happiness is like covering up, I always feel like for somebody who's like, gonna smile and be like, Oh, it's searching on one to the other. Do you know what I mean? I think so. Yeah, there was a right.

There was a girl that I knew, she lived around the corner for, I mean, this was in my kids were really little. And it was always, I'd be like, hey, how are you doing? And it was always like, oh my God, she was from Alabama, but then it moved to Oklahoma. She's like, we're just great, we're fine.

Oh my God, everything's so great. And she would just go on and on about how good things were. Well, next thing you know, you find out like the husband's business went belly up and he's totally bankrupt and didn't pay a bunch of people and they leave at midnight under the veil of darkness. And I was like, I fucking knew something was up with that. You knew it. I knew something was up with that because nobody's

that happy all the time. Every day is not a 10. Every day is about a 5 to 6. Every day, a 9 to 10. You're lucky if you get it. For sure. Seven or eight. Okay, Delta, we're gonna play a game with you called Had it or Hit it. Okay, you tell us if you had it with something or if you'd hit it, okay? Oh my God, welcome to Had it or Hit it.

I would hit it. I would have had it. I hit it every day sometimes twice a day. Had it or hit it, pantyhose. Oh, you know what? Hit it, hit it. Yeah. In my line of work, yeah.

It's a good thing. Yeah, yeah. In your line of work. Let me ask you this. Do you have any drag queen secrets on like runners or how to prevent runners? I remember back in the day, we would put clear, fingernails polish.

Yeah. That was a big thing. Well, I think because I use the term pantyhose just as meaning like, hojory. Right. But we use for the most part, I can't say everybody, but I use like ballet dance tight. So they're very thick. Yeah. Right. So it's very uncommon for them to run. If they do, it's because like a ring or something got caught on them. But I've always heard that other trick with the nail polish.

Yeah. Okay, had it or hit it, gossip. Oh, gosh. Why did you do this to me? I know. I know. I, you know what? I like it, but I have had it

because I think there's a difference between, I've had it. We'll just say that. See, here's the deal, Delta. This is why you were so tortured when I asked that. Because gossip is one of those things we know we shouldn't like. Right, but it was. It's really good. Right. None of us are going to just like roll out the moral high ground and go, no, I don't want to hear that because if it's some juicy shit about somebody laid up with the bunch of hookers and cocaine, we want every last detail.

But intellectually, as we all sit here, we want to say had it because, you know, it's, we don't look like that. We should be into. Right. We know it's wrong. Well, I just, yeah, we know it's wrong. But also there's like those people that will just run with any gossip. Right. And then there's people that are like, oh, I've got to save this one, because so and so needs to know that like, I'm not saying anything, I just said, I told you. And it's like that kind of gossip. But would you see people that are like going back and forth

to the same people over and over? And they're like, I won't tell anyone. And then they run over and tell the person that's totally. Yeah, totally. It's like weird, but no, I do love gossip. I think there are layers of it. Like if I know that somebody is going through a lot of pain, like their spouse cheated on them

or something horrible happened, I, if I'm around a group of girls that went to gossip about that in a dispiriting way, I remove myself or I say, I don't think this is right. I, I, because I've been that person that's in pain, but if there's a good juicy story, I'm not so high up on the moral high ground that I wouldn't be like, go on. Especially when it's somebody who's always been shitting on you.

Exactly. And you're like, guess what happens? Guess what happened? Just saying I wasn't there. I think one of the best parts about getting older is that you can remove yourself from the people that, when I talk to Jennifer, I talk about Delta. When I talk to Delta, I talk about Jennifer. Like the total backstabbing two-faced thing.

I think as you get older, you just kind of cut those people out of your life. Totally. One of the things. I've had this weird thing about me, like my whole life, which is when there's like severe tension in a room when you can tell, I'm usually the person that will just sort of like blur something out that everyone knows

and that no one's talking about. And then I just sort of like back out. And then like, I'm gonna go outside. Just because I feel like why not? Like why not start a conversation by asking somebody something so inane and ridiculous because it's better than the small talk. I really wanna know, what's your favorite apple?

What's, that's what I'm cooking with apples today. What's your favorite apple? Or have you ever gone to the hospital and had to have a cucumber pulled out of your ass? Like, these are real things and somebody could say no, but did you know I have a friend who has a fetish for celery? Well, whatever. I mean, these are real, so it's, you can bypass that small talk by asking an actual question. Right. Or no, but I was just out of the other night with my husband

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Just use the code had it and check out. Okay, Delta had it or hit it over explainers. Uh oh, you know what? Um, hit it because I do that. And what was weird is I real like as I'm doing right now, I realize that like wait, you're in drag, but you're still fucking man explaining to people. To women, to men, to everybody, because why? You think they don't understand? You can be a drag queen in mansplaining. A mansplaining drag queen listener. I'm going to have it all for you.

Okay, had it or hit it, Marlwell man typed rugged cowboys. Oh, hit it. Hit it for sure. Okay. Okay. Had it or hit it wedges. Oh, I've hit it. Hit it for sure. I could hit it. Yeah. Okay. Had it or hit it wedges? Oh, I've had it.

I've had it. Yeah, I don't take a wedges a good look for a drag queen. I think you got to go, Pomp or Hill. Yeah, a big pass. Well, and this is the new thing is, you know, what, there's a time and place for all of it. And there's definitely a place for a flat when you're riding on like a pride float where no one can see your feet. Or if you're doing some sort of comedy number. And I'm good for a comedy number because if that's my

like second or third number of the night, I'm like, oh, I'm gonna put on flats. Yeah. Because I'm supposed to be an old lady and this sense. And some people are like, oh, you're just cheating. I'm like, what an old lady? Where's stripper shoes with this? No. And some people are like, oh, you're just cheating. I'm like, well, with an old lady, where are strippers shoes with this? No. And so I can like con my way out of not having put on a crown. But here's the deal. Like, as I've gotten older, the hills really hurt my feet a lot. So if I'm in New York, I will wear like sandals,

walk to the restaurant, and then carry my shoes and my hand, my heels, and then chain shoes right outside the restaurant door, and then go in in the hills. Okay, had it or hit it, Photoshopped photos. Oh, hit it all day long. I was on Instagram live right before this, and I was like looking at myself and I thought,

fuck, if I could just take this filter over to the zoom, it would be so, I'm in love with a filter. I have a friend, a photographer, he's a photographer, a makeup artist, a hairdresser. His name's Matthew Anderson, and he was dedicated to RuPaul, creating RuPaul's look for pretty much all of her career. And Matthew always said,

the retouching is just the next step in the cosmetic application, just because I'm not people. I want people to see it the way I saw it in the mirror. Yes. So I like being a little forgiving. I'm forgiving myself right now with my camera angled up. So you don't see the four chins that are here.

I like to. When I take a picture at family, I'm always like, listen, let's stagger ourselves. Let me, let me sweeten this a little bit because I know that you, if you had known the mascara I had crumbled under your eye, you would have fixed it, but I'm going to fix it for you. I'm not going to get rid of all your lines. I'm not going to do all that, but I am going to forgive you a little bit because everybody

thinks, I think everybody needs to be sweet and just a little bit. I like it. Okay. Last one. Had it or hit it. Dick picks. Oh, oh, hit it. Okay, last one, had it or hit it, dick pics. Oh, oh, hit it. Yes.

Dic pics, boobs, scars, cellulite improvement pictures, all of it. I like pictures, I like pictures. But what I don't like, honestly, is pictures of people's babies that were just born. I'm like, why don't you wait for a little bit? Like, they're all swollen, like, you know, maybe save that for your immediate family. Right.

For your family context. Right. Yeah, but I don't, don't put it on. Just just chill out a little bit until your baby like, sweeten them up a little bit too. Yeah, it takes about a week before they look really cute. I agree. What about the photos where the baby still has the gunk on it?

It has a big stop. They're putting it on the worldwide web, and like straight from the womb, and all the sack, onto the mom's belly, and you photograph it and pop that shit up on the worldwide web, enough. Enough. Enough.

I had it with that. Clean up those goddamn babies babies and let them take shape a little bit. I mean, at some point that baby's going to be an adult. It seemed like, what the fuck were you doing? Pity y'all stinky out on the internet like that. I mean, you don't even want people to,

like, when you get a pedicure and maybe you're excited about your toes, like, you don't want to pull your feet out of the water when they're all, like, shriveled up. You will be like, oh, look at this new color, which is just kind of a flex for me to tell people, like, I still have my toes. Like, you know what I mean? My sugar's not that bad.

You can fall off yet. So, okay, damn. Okay, Delta, fuck Mary Kill, are you ready? Okay, fuck me. Okay, let's do it. Okay, Britney Spears. Okay. Caitlin Jenner.

Okay. Share. Fuck Britney.ars. Okay. Caitlin Jenner. Okay. Share. Uh, fuck Britney. Yeah. Fuck Britney. Mary share. No. Oh, no.

Yeah. Mary share. I killed, kill Caitlin Jenner. Yeah. Totally great. Totally agree. Okay. What about?

I hate to do this to you. Mike. Do it. Mike Pence. Pierce Morgan. Ronald Reagan. You know, just growing up and knowing Ronald Reagan from my childhood and not knowing until I became like a teenager, like what a monster he was.

I would say I would have to marry that person just off of the knowledge of who I thought he was, a cowboy who became a president and like, you know, I know differently about that. Right. But I'm going with that memory. That would be who I would marry. I, oh God, here's more. I mean, there's something tells me that Mike Pence, he might be a wild ride.

So, here's more. He looks gross, he acts gross. I know he smells like aqua velva. Get out of here gone murdered. I'm in. Caitlin Jenner. I love the slap and tickle with Mike. I do too.

I think you're right. Something's going on there. Yeah. Yeah. I think I also feel like he's a type of person. If he was around like maybe only Democrats, he'd be like, I'm a Democrat. I'm a Democrat. It's good. I don't know. I remember like, gosh, when you, when you mentioned these political figures, I can remember a time when people were used to say like, I am a Republican because I own a business. And because I own this business, I'm thinking like financially. And there used to be, I feel like there used to be a time where we were under the impression that you could be a little more progressive in your party or a little more restrained in your party. And like, there's just, it's so weird that that's not a thing really.

Like it's, we've been, it's been polarized. Right. Agreed. Totally. Well, Delta work. We want to thank you so much for joining us. Thank you. And we want to celebrate you and all members of the LGBTQ

put I a plus community. We are huge allies pumps has a shirt on this is proud ally and like I love that she's got some magenta little bridges on she just likes adorable some tragic wedges but that's neither here nor there but we we want to wish everyone a very happy Pride month and we loved having one you are so much you're so smart very very very in person really very insightful and to wish everyone a very happy Pride month and we loved having you on. You are so fun. Thank you so much. You're so smart, very, very intelligent person, really, very insightful.

And beautiful. I love, I first started seeing your clips on, I think on TikTok, started coming up and I'm like, I had it too. I love, I love the fact that we're willing to acknowledge first world problems. We're not unaware that other people are suffering. We're aware of that. But we can't do anything about it immediately in this second. But we can

bitch about the things that are pissing us off, especially when we're fucking paying for them. Exactly, Delta. Well said. And listener, you can find Delta. She is the host of the very Delta podcast. Delta, thank you so much. Thank you so much. All right. Bye bye. Bye bye. Love y'all. Love Love her. She is fantastic. The people that bitch about drag queens and drag shows they've never been because if you've been to a drag show or you've met a drag queen you realize it's like the happiest place on earth. Totally. It's so much fun. It's fantastic interaction. It's stimulating. It's engaging.

Like, you cannot. It is like physically impossible to have a bad time. Here's the deal. A drug says far more about the drag queen haters. Oh, accurate. Then it does about drag queens. Because we're supposed to be a country that values the first amendment and freedom.

Right. And part of that is freedom of expression. And any person should be able to express themselves in a democratic society freely and without judgment. Love who they want, dress how they want, lip sync to whatever they want. It doesn't fucking matter. I think anybody who has outspoken against drag queens is putting a red flag right there. Right. That they're fucked up. 1000%.

Yes, no. She was absolutely delightful. Love Delta work. I mean, absolutely love Delta work. She's hilarious. We got to get our asses to a drag show. I know. We were supposed to go next weekend and I can't go because of league staff, but we're going to get one on the docket. On the docket, you hear that? That's what lawyers say. That's what the cally calendar on the calendar. All right, listen up, listener. We are thinking about going on tour. It's kind of exciting.

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