Joel Osteen Podcast - Remove Negative Labels | Joel Osteen

Episode Date: December 6, 2023

People may have placed negative labels on you in the past, but God calls you strong, talented and valuable. When you let go of the labels that have held you back, God will help you become everything y...ou were created to be. Your best days are still ahead, and together we can make a difference in this world with the message of God's hope and love. To give visit JoelOsteen.com/GiveHope.Daily inspiration. Scriptural promises. Get ready for a new year of faith with the Hopes & Dreams 2024 Planner. Our special December offer will let you journal your thoughts, record your prayers, and hold on to the dream God has placed in your heart. Request your copy today! https://bit.ly/3T8xgqS   Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ to listen to new episodes of the Joel Osteen Podcast ad-free and a whole week early. Start a free trial now on Apple Podcasts or by visiting siriusxm.com/podcastsplus. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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Starting point is 00:00:00 Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. It's so great to have you listening to the podcast. We have a new resource we'd love to send you. It's the 2024 devotional calendar. It's full of inspiration, encouragement. It'll help you to start the day all right. Hope you'll request your copy, but enjoy the podcast today. Well, God bless you. It's always a joy to come into your homes. And if you're ever in the Houston area, please stop by, be a part of one of our services. These are the finest people in all of Houston, Texas, right here at Lakewood. We'd love to have you come out. But thanks for tuning in. Thank you again for coming out today. I like to start with something funny. I heard about this
Starting point is 00:00:40 wife. She was taking a nap on Valentine's Day in the afternoon. When she woke up, she called her husband, said, honey, I had a dream that you bought me a beautiful diamond ring for Valentine's Day. What do you think this dream means? He said, you'll find out tonight. That evening, he brought home, a small box beautifully wrapped. She was so excited. She opened it up. It was a book entitled The Meaning of Dreams. Hold up your Bible. Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. I have what it says I have. I can do what it says I can do. Today I will be taught the word of God. I boldly confess my mind is alert. My heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus name. God bless you. I want to talk to you today about removing negative labels. Throughout
Starting point is 00:01:37 life, people are constantly sticking labels on us, telling us what we can and cannot become. And sometimes this is good. People speak faith into us. They encourage us. But then there are times that people put negative labels on us. You cannot stop the negative comments. You can't prevent the negative labels, but you can choose to remove them. As a teenager, Walt Disney was told by his art instructor that he wasn't creative. He didn't have any imagination. Disney was smart enough to remove that label. He went on to do pretty good.
Starting point is 00:02:18 Lucille Ball was told that she didn't have any acting skills. She should try a different profession. She removed that label, starting I Love Lucy for many years. Winston Churchill failed the sixth grade. It's told he wasn't smart enough. He went on to become one of the greatest prime ministers that's ever lived. The common denominator in the success of these people is they chose to remove the negative labels.
Starting point is 00:02:46 The same way today, people put labels on us. My father went to be with the Lord in 1999. I stepped up to pastor the church. I had never ministered before. One Sunday after the service, I overheard two ladies talking in the lobby. One said, he's not as good as his father. The other answered back, yes, I don't think the church is going to last. I was already insecure.
Starting point is 00:03:13 I already felt unqualified and boom, another negative label. Not good enough, not up to par, inferior. That's the way the enemy works. He would love to put labels on you to keep you from reasonable. your highest potential. He doesn't fight you for where you are. He fights you for where you're going. He knows God has amazing things in your future. So he'll try to discourage you, intimidate you, make you feel inferior. Words are like seeds. If you dwell on them long enough, they will take root and become what was said. And I tried to remove that negative label, but it wasn't easy. Those thoughts
Starting point is 00:03:56 would play in my mind again and again, you're not good enough. You don't have what it takes. It was like trying to peel a bumper sticker off of a car that's been there a long time. You know, you peel it and it tears. You've got to work and work. I fought those thoughts in my mind day after day. Finally,
Starting point is 00:04:12 I removed that negative label and I put some new labels on. I can do all things through Christ. I am strong in the Lord. I am annoying. Here's my point. If I had made the mistake, of wearing that negative label, I don't believe I would be standing here today.
Starting point is 00:04:31 Wrong labels can keep you from your destiny. Don't go the next 20 years allowing one negative comment to hold you back. You are not who people say you are. You are who God says you are. People will label you not good enough. Too slow, too old, too many mistakes. God labels you strong, talented, valuable, more than a comment. conquer. Make sure that you're wearing the right labels. Many people don't know any better. They wear
Starting point is 00:05:02 the negative labels like they're the truth. They become so ingrained in their thinking. They end up becoming what people say they are instead of what God says that they are. Are there labels that are holding you back today? What a coach said? What a counselor said? Even negative comments spoken by your parents, this is the time to remove every negative label. People don't determine your destiny God does. The only power that label has over you is the power that you give it. If you will remove it, in other words, quit thinking about it, quit acting like it's the truth, then that label will have no effect on you. Those two ladies said the church wouldn't last. I didn't have the talent. They couldn't stop my destiny. They couldn't stop what God had already ordained. The only way they could have
Starting point is 00:05:58 limited me is if I would have worn their negative label around. I know a gentleman, he told how he overheard his junior high teacher telling his mother how he was a slow learner. For 30 years, he wore that label around. Never had a good job, never had real success, just kind of floundered through life. And one day, I told him what I'm telling you. You've got to remove that label. Your teacher may have been sincere. She may have made an assessment based on where you were at the time, but this is a new day.
Starting point is 00:06:32 She didn't know what God put in you. If you're going to reach your highest potential, you've got to say, no, thanks. I am not wearing that slow learner label anymore. That may have been her opinion, but I have another opinion. It's from my creator. And he says, I have the mind of Christ,
Starting point is 00:06:51 that I am full of wisdom, that I can fulfill my destiny. Don't let negative labels hold you back. I talked to a high school student one time, and she was about to take her final exams. She said, Joel, will you pray that God will help me to make C's on these tests? I said, why do we want to pray for C's and not A's? She said, oh, no, Joel, my high school counselor told me
Starting point is 00:07:16 I'm just a C student. She didn't know any better. somebody stuck a label on her, she was wearing it around like it was the truth. Have you ever thought about the same God that can help you make a C, can help you make an A? Why don't you remove that label? The same God that can help you get by in life can help you excel in life. The same God that can give you an apartment can give you a beautiful house. Are there labels that are holding you back?
Starting point is 00:07:47 The label, divorced. I'll never meet any way. new. The label, overweight, I'll never get in shape. The label, addicted, I'll never break these bad habits. Whatever label you're wearing, you're going to become what that label says. You're giving it the power. And this is why some people can't break an addiction. They're wearing that label addict. The real battle is taking place in our mind. If you think you're an addict, you've already lost. You've got to change the label. You're a little. You've got to change the label. God says you are free. You are clean. You are healthy. You are whole. Don't go the next 20 years
Starting point is 00:08:28 wearing that addict label. Put some new labels on today. I had a young man tell me how he was the main drug dealer in his neighborhood. He was sincere. He wasn't proud of it. He said, Joel, I know this is not right. I don't like doing it, but it's the only thing that I'm good at. He was wearing that drug dealer label. It's all he thought he could do. I told him, if you can sell drugs, you can sell medical supplies. If you can sell drugs, you can sell stocks and bonds. Think about this. To sell drugs, you have to get the word out. That's advertising. You have to manage your inventory. That's administration. You have to take care of your clients. That's customer service. Don't sell yourself short. Remove any labels that are holding you about.
Starting point is 00:09:18 Let me ask you, who told you all you can do is sell drugs? It's not the truth. Who told you all you can make in school are C's and not A's? A counselor? They didn't know what God put in you. Who told you could never succeed? You'll not be as good as your father. Two ladies in the lobby, they don't determine your destiny. Who told you you'll never own a nice house? You'll never get married. You'll never accomplish your dreams. Those labels did. not come from your creator. Just because somebody spoke them over you doesn't mean it's the truth. You have the power to remove those negative labels. Some of you've been wearing them way too long. Things like, you'll never go to college. Nobody in your family has. Take that label off. You can be the first.
Starting point is 00:10:09 You'll never get out of that neighborhood. All the odds are against you. That's what they told my father. He removed the label. God took him places that he never dreamed of. You'll never get well. That sickness is terminal. It's what they told my mother. She removed the label. 32 years later, she's still healthy, whole, strong. Friends, we serve a supernatural God. He can do what medicine cannot do. He's not limited by your education, your background, the family you come from.
Starting point is 00:10:43 He's not moved by the things people have spoken over you. He's not up in heaven all frantic trying to figure out, how to get you to your destiny. He knows the end from the beginning. He already has solutions to problems you've not even had. He's all powerful and all knowing. People may have tried to push you down, but if you'll just remove those labels and get in agreement with God, he'll push you up. He'll take you where you could not go on your own. You don't have to figure it all out. All God ask you to do is believe. When you believe all things are possible. When you believe doors will open that should have never opened. When you believe, God will take you from the back to the front.
Starting point is 00:11:29 Don't let negative labels hold you down. People will tell you, you're all washed up. You've made too many mistakes. If you wear that label, it will keep you from the amazing future God has in store. God says my mercy is bigger than any mistake. God says I can still get you to your destiny. God says I'll give you beauty for those ashes. I'll pay you back double for the unfair things that have happened. You wouldn't be alive unless God had another victory in your future. Why don't you take off the washed up label,
Starting point is 00:12:05 take off the failure, guilty, condemn labels, and put on some new labels, redeemed, restored, forgiven, bright future, new beginning. People will tell you, you're too small, you're too quiet, you don't have a good personality, you come from the wrong family. Don't you dare go through life wearing those labels. You have been made in the image of Almighty God. God did not make any mistakes. You are the perfect size. You have the right personality, the right gifts, the right looks the right skin color.
Starting point is 00:12:45 Says in Psalms, you have been fearfully and wonderfully made. You are not an accident. God designed you precisely for the race that's laid out for you. Remove those labels too big, too small, unattractive. Put on this new label fearfully and wonderfully made.
Starting point is 00:13:04 One label, far too many people wear, is the label average, ordinary? Do you know, nothing special about me. I'm just one of the six billion people on the earth. Listen, you were never created to live an average life. You have seeds of greatness on the inside. You were created to be a history maker. You're not supposed to live and die and nobody even knew you were here. You're supposed to leave your mark on this generation. God has an assignment for you that nobody else can fulfill. God needs you. He needs your gifts, your smile, your love, your passion. You are a part of his divine
Starting point is 00:13:49 plan. You have something to offer that nobody else can offer. Nobody has your exact personality, your exact looks. There is something unique about you. Don't wear that average label. If you think you're average, then you'll be average. If you think you're ordinary, then you'll live an get by life and never do anything great. The truth is there is nothing ordinary about you. You have the fingerprints of God all over you. The creator of the universe breathed his life into you. He crowned you with his favor.
Starting point is 00:14:29 You have royal blood flowing through your veins. You have a destiny to fulfill something greater than you've ever even imagined. but if it's going to happen, if you're going to become all God's created you to be, one of the first things you've got to do is take off the average label, take off the ordinary label, put on these new labels, masterpiece, valuable, one of a kind. This is what David did when the prophet Samuel came to anoint one of his father's sons as the next king of Israel. David's father, Jesse, didn't even bother to bring David in from the shepherd's fields where he was taking care of the sheep. Jesse thought, I know it's not David. He's too small, too young, not that talented, not as smart as his brothers. David had all these negative labels put on him by his own father. Samuel looked at the other seven sons. He said, not this one, not this one, not this one. Finally ran out.
Starting point is 00:15:34 said to Jesse, do you have any other sons? It's none of these. Jesse said, yeah, my youngest son, David, is out in the shepherd's fields, but I know it's not him. Friends, God doesn't label the way people label. People look on the outside. God looks on the heart. God knows what you're capable of. God can see the seeds of greatness that he's placed in you. It's so easy to let what someone has spoken over us, to keep us from really believing in ourselves. David walked in, Samuel took one look at him and said, he's the one. That's the next king of Israel. Right there, David had to make that decision that I'm asking you to make. He had to remove the negative labels. He'd heard them a thousand times, too small, too young, you don't have what it takes. What's interesting is David's brothers, even though they saw Samuel
Starting point is 00:16:31 anoint David as the next king. They still tried to stick their negative labels on him. David was out where the army gathered. His oldest brother, Iliab said, David, what are you doing out here? And with whom have you left those few sheep you're supposed to be taken care of? What was Elyab doing? Sticking a label on him. Inferior, not good enough, intimidated. David could have said, yeah, right. What was I thinking? David could have accepted that label and let it hold him back. But this time, David had a different attitude. He said, Elieb, what you say about me doesn't change what God said about me.
Starting point is 00:17:14 You're still labeling me, weak, defeated inferior. You don't realize I've gotten rid of those labels. And the creator of the universe, the God who breathed life into me, put some new labels on me. They say, giant killer, more than a conquer. destined for greatness, King of Israel. Now, you may have had negative things spoken over you,
Starting point is 00:17:38 even by people that should have been encouraging you. I love what Isaiah said. No weapon formed against you will ever prosper, but every tongue raised in judgment. That means every negative label you will show to be
Starting point is 00:17:55 in the wrong. Notice, God's not going to do it. You have to show it to be in the wrong. In other words, you have to remove the negative label. Nothing that was spoken over you has to define you, even if it was from people who raised you. Nothing that's happened in your past has to keep you from your destiny. Even if you've made mistakes or gone through unfair situations, you can show it to be in the wrong by shaking off the self-pity and moving forward with your life. Will you dare do like David and remove the negative labels?
Starting point is 00:18:34 Quit dwelling on what your mama said, what a jealous sister said, what a cranky co-worker said, what a cynical neighbor said. You are not who people say you are. You are who God says you are. They cannot stop your destiny. Remove the old labels. I'll give you some new labels to wear. Giant Killer. history maker, world changer.
Starting point is 00:19:01 My friend, Coach Del Brown, he's the legendary coach of the LSU basketball team, told me a story. He was speaking to a group of soldiers at a military base in California. When he finished, a young man came up to him that stood nearly seven feet tall, 250 pounds. He said, Coach Brown, I want to try out for our basketball team,
Starting point is 00:19:23 but I can't dunk the basketball. I can barely jump. When I run up and down the court, my legs tire out so easily I can only play a few minutes. Coach Brown asked him how long he had been in the military. He said, I'm not in the military. My father is. I'm 13 years old. He wore a size 17 shoe.
Starting point is 00:19:44 Coach Brown took this young man under his wing. He said, when I get back to Louisiana, I'm going to send you my training program. It'll help strengthen your legs and increase your endurance. Three months later, he got a letter from the young man saying, Coach Brown, I've done everything you've asked me to do, spent hours in the gym and in the weight room working out. But my basketball coach just cut me from the team. He told me I'm too big, too slow, too clumsy,
Starting point is 00:20:14 I'll never be able to play basketball. All those negative labels. Coach Brown wrote him back and said in effect, listen, son, if you'll just keep working out, keep being your best each day and keep asking God to help you, God will get you to where you're supposed to be.
Starting point is 00:20:33 That young man had to make a decision. Am I going to wear these negative labels through life too big, too slow, too clumsy? Or am I going to follow the dream that God's placed in my heart? Am I going to believe I'm a giant killer and I can do all things to Christ? He decided to remove the negative labels
Starting point is 00:20:55 That young man, Shaquille O'Neill ended up going to LSU playing for Coach Brown, broke all the records. You know how Shaquille has become one of the greatest basketball players that's ever played. But I wonder where he would be if he would have believed the negative labels.
Starting point is 00:21:15 What if he thought, I guess, I am kind of too big, too slow, too clumsy, we wouldn't be talking about him today. Has somebody told you you can't accomplish your dreams. Like the ladies in the lobby, you're not talented. You're too big, too small.
Starting point is 00:21:32 You don't have the experience. No, God didn't put the promise in them. He put the promise in you. Along the way, there will always be negative voices trying to label you. But God would not have given you the dream
Starting point is 00:21:48 unless he had already equipped you. You already have what you need. and what may seem like a limitation, too tall, too short, God can use as an asset. God knows what he's doing. He has designed you specifically for the race that you're in. You may kind of feel like Shaquille that you've been cut from the team. The experts have told you what you can't do, what you don't have. Here's what I've learned. The experts can be wrong.
Starting point is 00:22:19 experts built the Titanic and it sunk. Amateurs built the ark and it floated. The experts said we would never have this facility, but here we are today. The expert said my father would never get out of poverty, but he did. The expert said my mother wouldn't be alive today, but she is. The expert said David was too small. God said he was just the right size. the experts said that I couldn't pastor a large church. I didn't have the experience, but I've done pretty good. The expert, I've got one more. The expert said my brother Paul would be handsome. Didn't happen.
Starting point is 00:23:05 I'm not even going to look. Don't let the experts talk you out of what God is put in your heart. In the scripture, a lady named Rachel died while giving birth to her second son. There were complications in labor and delivery, gasping for air, trying to birth this child and so much pain and agony. Right before she died, she gave birth. She named the boy Ben and I, which means son of my sorrows. She labeled him based on what she had experienced. Now this little boy was going to have to go through life being called son of my sorrows. Sometimes people will put a negative label on you, not because of anything you've done, but because of the pain and heartache they've experienced. Hurting people end up hurting other people. Bitter people are quick to stick on those negative labels.
Starting point is 00:24:03 Few minutes after Rachel died, her husband Jacob came rushing in. The nurses were holding the baby. They handed him to Jacob and said, this is your son. His name is Ben and I, son of my sorrows. When he heard that something came all over Jacob, he rose up and said, no, that is not his name. No matter what he's been through in the past, my son will not be called son of sorrows. His name will be Benjamin. Benjamin means son of strength, son of power, son of my right hand. Benjamin grew up to become a great leader. out of his family line
Starting point is 00:24:45 came the kings of Israel, one king after another. See, God had a great destiny for Benjamin to fulfill an assignment, but God knew that if he went through life, we're in that label, Son of sorrow, he would never become what he was created to be. So God stepped in and said,
Starting point is 00:25:04 no, no, he's not wearing that label. He's not a son of sorrow, not a son of defeat, not a son of disappointment. This child is, is a son of destiny. This child has seeds of greatness. His name will be son of strength. God knows how powerful labels are. Maybe somebody has tried to label you average, slow learner, not talented, too many mistakes. No, God is saying the same thing to you that he said to little Benjamin, I am changing your name. I'm placing a new label on you. No more son of
Starting point is 00:25:43 No more son of mediocrity, no more son of broken dreams. I'm renaming you to son of strength, to daughter of destiny, to child of influence, child of greatness, child of victory. Now my challenge, remove the old labels and start going by your new names. Masterpiece, valuable, one of a kind, more than a conquer, history maker. Those are the labels that we should be wearing. One last key. People can call you many different things, but you are not what people call you, you are what you answer to. They can call you slow, lazy, too old, all washed up. That's all right. Just don't answer to it. Answer to victorious. Answer to talented. Answer to history maker.
Starting point is 00:26:35 If you'll do that, I believe and declare today is going to be a turning point. The bondage is from the past. are no longer going to have any effect on you. You are going to rise up and become the son of strength, the daughter of influence, the child of victory, child of blessing, child of favor, child of greatness. You will overcome every obstacle, defeat every enemy, and become everything God's created you to be. In Jesus' name, if you receive it, can you say amen?
Starting point is 00:27:09 Well, we never like to close our broadcast without giving you an opportunity. to make Jesus the Lord of your life. Would you pray with me today? Just say, Lord Jesus. I repent of my sins. Come into my heart. Wash me clean. I make you my Lord and Savior. Friends, if you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got born again. Get in a good Bible-based church. Keep God first place. He's going to take your places that you've never dreamed up. Do you have a dream that's waiting to happen? But it often feels like you'll never get there. Is your dream? To start a business? To see a loved one come to the Lord? Are you asking God, will it ever happen? Sometimes it feels like our dream is so far off, but I believe you're closer than you think. You're on the verge of seeing things change in your favor,
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